Ladies Master the art of peace (am I a peaceful woman?) When a man is treated like a king at home, he excels wherever he works outside of home. Be hospitable (do you know how to cook for and treat guests?) What kind of home environment am I building? Know how to speak to your husband (calmly, & politely), never date a man I don't respect/admire Learn management (a woman is a multiplier, a wombman) I know how to chop money OK, but do I know how to make and manage it? Don't try to impress people with money I don't have. (Ideally I should BE richer than I look) be well read, be a good manager and a good advisor Have a good understanding of how to take care of children & what to say and not to say to children, they are not your confidantes Learn good relationship skills (learn to relate with everyone at home & outside, in-laws, husband, friends, when to say what, be willing to be a fool to save relationships, tap into ur soft power)
@dorcasiyanujesu6954
11 ай бұрын
Hmm, powerful teaching. God please help me to be a peaceful woman. Help me to always overcome my mood swings, temperament...Help me to give my future husband peace 🙏🏻 Help me to always do him good 🙏🏻
@ndlilian
10 ай бұрын
Amen and Amen ❤❤
@olakunlemichael441
9 ай бұрын
Amen
@obimary2927
9 ай бұрын
Amen
@esthereyo2748
Ай бұрын
Amen
@abiolaalice9611
9 ай бұрын
I will do my husband good all the days of his life. I will not stress him. So help me God( Amen)
@aryeekingsley3671
6 ай бұрын
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN
@chiomafranciscachioma3457
5 ай бұрын
Amen
@stellaekwubiri7577
5 ай бұрын
Amen
@davidjoseph6775
5 ай бұрын
@@stellaekwubiri7577 You are blessed
@devathadiva8139
9 ай бұрын
I’m getting married next year… to someone’s son in Jesus name next year 2024 I speak it into existence so I came across this right on time bc I am coming out of my hidden season
@pricakebaabetswe6500
9 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🤞🏾
@ganugifty4599
8 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Lovelynesike
6 ай бұрын
Amen
@chesangfaith3132
5 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉❤halleluyah iam also...i got him just waiting to exchange vows and get our parents blessing
@stellaekwubiri7577
5 ай бұрын
Amen
@tekonjonjo
6 ай бұрын
I have learnt alot in this two series. Gotten a better understanding of my husband's behavior. Honesyly, people cant give what they dont have, and they don't know.
@Lovelynesike
9 ай бұрын
The man I'll get married to is so blessed already. I just hope I'm going to be much more blessed🙏🏾
@VictoriaMedekong
8 ай бұрын
I'm lucky I stumbled unto this today, going through breakup now.. this message has lifted up my spirit.. thank you Jesus
@anuoluwapodaniel2650
9 ай бұрын
Sometimes as a sigle or married person is good to sometimes listen to this kind of preaching 🎉God bless you Apostles
@boyowasamuel
10 ай бұрын
Thank you Pastor Lazarus. I'll be getting married in a few weeks. I'm glad I listened to this first. My home is changed forever. ❤
@Deborah_Okemgbo
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations. God bless your marriage.
@ovieharmonyking
9 ай бұрын
Amen to you
@Goddibaba
9 ай бұрын
Welldone bro
@omololaa5120
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations!
@nnennaudeh9536
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations! Your marriage shall be your blessing.
@brightsekoni
11 ай бұрын
Instagram reels doesn’t do enough Justice I had to rush here ❤
@ijeomasunday153
10 ай бұрын
Exactly I rushed down as well
@joynafisa1500
9 ай бұрын
Apostle, all your messages are life transforming. I can literally feel my heart burn each time i listen to your message. God bless you richly and keep the oil flowing in Jesus name. Amen
@NKAHMMESOMA-rb5gk
10 ай бұрын
I'm not married yet but in few years time I will be,thank God a friend sent me this link, I'll enjoy my home
@annetteabledu1076
6 ай бұрын
“Make sure you treat your spouse in such a way that they can’t think of your replacement “ hit so hard!! Wow! God bless you Sir
@tamiausten873
8 ай бұрын
Hmm, I'm not the type to ever cause trouble or provoke, but when I'm provoked sometimes I say bad things,at least used to. Those short moments of anger can cause damage. I'm happy I saw another girl go more angry than me and rant for hours, in 2022, I saw my uncle's wife rant for hours, despite everyone begging her. I've seen how it makes you look crazy. I now realize that anger except it's a just one is demonic. Any time I get mad like that, I look back and realize there's no way Jesus is pleased with my actions. I pray for Grace to be calm irrespective of how I feel 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@MaryJane-p2j
4 ай бұрын
Tnk u very much sir More grace
@momentswithdeee
4 ай бұрын
Amen, so help you God. You can also go for anger therapy
@adebimpeayodele5813
9 ай бұрын
God Bless You sir, this is so APT I will be getting married in few weeks. This is hitting so hard. I'm glad I listened
@Ella-uk2kv
8 ай бұрын
Thank you pastor femi. God sent you to me. May the oil on your head never runs dry. Thank you for equipping me for the task ahead.
@abiolaalice9611
9 ай бұрын
I love this realistic and spiritual teachings ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@rachaelb.owurre1738
Ай бұрын
It's just so beautiful ........... Loved it 1&2 God bless you sir 🙏
@nkechinwachukwu5680
8 ай бұрын
My partner and I have this thing where we always look for a restaurant's menu before we even choose 😂 God no go shame us🙏😅
@aderogbaayoola3427
9 ай бұрын
Always a privilege to listen to your messages. Thank you Sir. You are indeed a blessing to this generation 🙏
@tildahmagoba6954
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Indeed the Lord guides us in all of our ways.
@adeyhenrietta343
9 ай бұрын
Chaiii, Apostle may God bless you for being a timely intervention in our generation when it comes to relationships and marriage. May God Almighty continue to increase you 🙏
@lawalgabriel1174
10 ай бұрын
I am glad I started to listen to Pastor Femi....I am learning to be better in all forms
@igbolanguagemadeeasierwithchis
4 ай бұрын
I can't believe that I listened to this message repeatedly! Thank you sir My husband you are blessed because I will do you good and great all the days of your life! Our home will portray kingdom marriage... I am blessed, we are blessed! I won't miss my spouse🎉
@nazfav2757
8 ай бұрын
This teaching will be a blessing for my marriage journey.
@TimilehinOjo-be8gq
6 ай бұрын
God !! This message is one of a kind.
@olakunleoyenola7666
6 ай бұрын
You're doing very well Sir. God bles you, your ministry and Family. Amen.
@shirley.Wealth.shirago
9 ай бұрын
wow, very powerful, God bless you man of God.
@noraejevuvor5703
10 ай бұрын
I was blessed by this powerful message
@igrowingrace5548
8 ай бұрын
I just stumbled upon your teachings Sir- God abundantly bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@EremiEppe
9 ай бұрын
I am glad I got to listen to this as a single and unique woman ❤
@Deborah_Okemgbo
9 ай бұрын
I will do my spouse good all his day, i will not stress him, i will not make his life miserable, i will not make his life difficult, i will be a peaceful woman by his side, i will be a supportive woman.
@solomonokwudili8858
6 ай бұрын
I would have like to be him
@adedayoshittu9812
11 ай бұрын
Poweful teaching am blessed by this message. Spouse really needs to listen to such messages before entering into marriage
@abigailobenewaahasiedu5505
9 ай бұрын
Got here from tiktok, I promise to make a conscious effort to listen to you every week 🙏
@adejuyigbeadetutu2156
7 ай бұрын
GOD BLESS APOSTLE FEMI LAZARUS!! AMEN!!
@pkaykyalo3998
9 ай бұрын
"The right person will always bring perpetual continuity... You dont have to Restart or Troubleshoot." Pastor Femi Lazarus.
@jacobblessing5910
7 ай бұрын
I’ll do my husband good all the days of his life. So help me God🙏🏻
@PhilominaAnthony-lw8of
9 ай бұрын
Thank you Apostle. God bless you sir.
@HannahAmabu
9 ай бұрын
wow i really love your message sir 🙏its makes to heal completey from my emotional trauma i always battle with fail relationships which makes me to think if i offend God so deeply that i cannot be forgiven 😥 but when i come across your message i was happy with my inner mind im heal pastor 🙏🙏thank you.God really use you to teach me his word and directions.
@joyologe8587
9 ай бұрын
Hmmm, don't judge people according to their background.....but if after a while you notice there is no difference between them and their background......then you have to leave (paraphrased)
@drimpact8473
11 ай бұрын
Thank you apostle. Lessons learned 💯💯
@Okeylove-x1q
9 ай бұрын
You're a great teacher
@odunayooluwatobi8405
8 ай бұрын
Great message more anointing sir
@kiddiesaffairs8807
8 ай бұрын
I will be a peaceful woman to my husband. I will do you good all day. Amen. Speaking to my future as a single lady.
@An-cf6py
6 ай бұрын
Be a good manager (of finances and time!) Be sensitive to the needs of your husband
@Dradebowaleadebanjo
7 ай бұрын
This is the most powerful message I have listened to in recent time. I literally cried. I will SUCCEED
@orukomayonemilia5831
8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir I am eternally grateful for the gift of you sir🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@owolabifiyinfoluwa4550
Ай бұрын
I will be a peaceful woman to my husband to be in Jesus name
@HenriesEzeEgwu-yk4gg
9 ай бұрын
Am glad I came across this! Thank you so much sir 🙏
@Chef-Veeofthebuj
8 ай бұрын
Wow, I’m just blown away, my God what manner of wisdom is this😩
@anysiajoy9056
7 ай бұрын
I am God's type Somebody's Queen Somebody's Gift
@ohiachristianchinedu5297
8 ай бұрын
Thank apostle for the message, i have unlearn the wrong things i know then
@williamsblessing5863
9 ай бұрын
Future husband I will give you peace, honor and respect.
@bekienwela2613
9 ай бұрын
This sermon a way of deprograming any dysfunctional backgrounds. Spiritual brainwashing 😅
@princessnana.
8 ай бұрын
Glad i listened to this..i was a peaceful human till i got manipulated,i questioned my worth....lost myself .glad i didnt marry him..i know better ..thank you sir..
@Edithnjume
6 ай бұрын
I will do my husband good always wether happy or annoyed, I will not stress him nor make him miserable . I will treat him like a king. All these I declare in Jesus name. Amen, Amen ,Amen.
@ElizabethAnyiacha
9 ай бұрын
Thank you pastor,May God continue to increase you in wisdom and understanding in Jesus name Amen
@kellyelewa865
7 ай бұрын
I’ll do my spouse good all the days of his life
@yanbeckford8493
9 ай бұрын
I will not be a failure in JESUS NAME 🙏❤
@amacoffie7890
9 ай бұрын
Amazing
@johnsonolajumoke699
8 ай бұрын
I DO MY HUSBAND GOOD ALL THE TIME. I WILL NOT MAKE HIM MISERABLE, I WILL GIVE PEACE ALL THE TIME, I WILL NOT STRESS HIM, I WILL BE A PEACEFUL WIFE.
@monicadiegboh9339
8 ай бұрын
Hmmm you should be richer then you look this is just me this word is for me thank you sir 🙏 for this great message
@taiwoeniola7691
9 ай бұрын
I will not destroy my husband. I will give him peace all his days 🎉🎉
@porbenierebi3297
9 ай бұрын
Thank you sir
@francheza1
9 ай бұрын
I appreciate Pastor Femi but there is so much content on how women can be better and very little said to the men. The men are getting neglected
@ez5002
9 ай бұрын
I agree….. I was checking to see if anyone noticed that 😢
@samuelfriday3939
9 ай бұрын
The content was women is also applicable to men
@samuelfriday3939
9 ай бұрын
The content meant for women is also applicable to men. See it from holistic view.
@aeiou0123
9 ай бұрын
Exactly! All they do is blame blame blame women yet most problems in marriages is caused by irresponsible cheating men who don’t know how to communicate. Everyone is afraid to talk to men. Its ridiculous. No wonder Africa is a shithole. In Western Countries, Oyinbo men r held accountable for the failures of their communities. This african pastors keep talking to women yet they expect men to be leaders. You cuddle the men yet somehow you want them to be able to lead. Quite ridiculous
@TitiFapo
5 ай бұрын
He emphasized more on men in part 1
@Deniafe
9 ай бұрын
I really appreciate pastor Femi's teachings. Very powerful. But unfortunately, i think this message still focuses heavily on what the women should do and the message on the men is not deep enough. The men are supposed to 1. Lead (Provide) 2. Love their wives (See their wives and appeeciate them) The woman is supposed to 1. Bring peace to the home. Be submissive 2. Build the home and be hospitable. Be clean and take charge of the home. 3. Be ready to sacrifice her career and shape to get pregnant and have children 4. Make money and be ready to support the husband and the family (So she also provides) 5. Raise the children. It's almost like raising the children is solely on the woman with everything said in this message. This really sounds stressful. It doesn't sound like something to look forward to at all. We know very well that men are visual, they driven by what they see. There are so many men that simply do not find their wives attractive anymore after child birth. I don't think we should take lightly what women go through or what their bodies go through when they decide to have children. No man can understand it, so we shouldn't shame women that are afraid or are not ready to get pregnant and give birth. He spoke extensively on how women should raise their children and yet in the first part of this message, he said that women shouldn't marry men that were raised by their mothers only. I just think it's so unfair on women, it's like you are damned if you do and damned if you don't . Can we also understand that there women who have leadership qualities as well. Women who were born to lead. We always talk about the proverbs woman but there is also Deborah who was a leader, a judge and a warrior. So women are not just wives. We are more than that. His prayer for women only focused on them being wives. What a lot of women go through during menstrual period is real and should not be belittled. There aren't extensive research done on women because of our hormonal changes and how frequent they are. Just because the bible didn't write about it doesn't make it less of a reality for women. And like I said earlier, a man simply cannot understand it. If women are expected to do all these, no wonder women age really fast. Everything the man should do, the woman is expected to do also plus a LOT MORE. It's really sad.
@NimoOscar-tv1np
9 ай бұрын
My dear, please understand its not in the number of points he or (you) listed that determines how much of a responsibility a husband or wife has in the home. He may not have weighed in as much as you expected on the mans role but that doesn't make him or the Scripture any bias. Every single role he mentions is important in building a loving and peaceful home, and most are actually applicable to both the man and the woman. The very two points you listed (to love and to lead) is the perfect summation of who a husband is and his role in the home. Any godly man who understands these roles from a biblical perspective will be very much present and involved in all of the wife's roles or responsibilities as that is what leading her and loving her entails. Love is action based just as leadership. No man can really love and/or lead simply by crossing his legs in front of the TV all day while the wife is buried in all kinds of chores or responsibilities. That is not what the Bible or the man of God is preaching. Part of the man's role in loving his wife is to be very present physically, mentally, and emotionally, and to be deeply involved in aiding her to accomplish her roles in the home. I hope this helps to receive this message differently. Stay blessed and be ready for the man God has for you.
@Deniafe
9 ай бұрын
@@NimoOscar-tv1np Thanks for your response. I really understand him. Like I said I love his teachings. I didn't mention anything about the scripture and I do not think the scripture is biased at all (People's interpretations can be biased not the scripture). I only wished he had broken down the roles of the men the way he did for the women. According to the scripture, the men have more responsibility than the women. They are likened to Christ. They are commanded to love their wives as Christ loves the church. That is a seriously heavy responsibility because Christ died for the church. Please watch Spencer Smith's sermon on the role of the Husband. He likened the role of the husband to the role of Christ to his church and broke it down extensively. Also, he is supposed to talk more about the men because he is a man (Pastor Femi Lazarus) and should feed these men from a man's perspective. He is not a woman, so there isn't a lot he can truly understand about women. Women already have a lot of teachers teaching us about marriage. Men don't have a lot. Most of the teachers (Both men and women) focus more on women when talking about marriages. And that is why I was a bit disappointed because I honestly expected him to fill that void. We need more teachers talking to the men as well. If men don't hear these messages (Broken down extensively), they won't fully understand their roles and fulfill it. Most men will take the leadership to mean something similar to a master and servant relationship. I hope you understand my points. I know pastor Femi means well, I just wished he focused a bit more on the men's responsibilities.
@NimoOscar-tv1np
9 ай бұрын
@@Deniafe Thank you for elaborating on your thoughts. I understand you now. I will check on Smith's message. Stay blessed.
@hojbeadstudio
9 ай бұрын
You miss the point actually. I think before you come to this conclusion you should watch the first video and also finish this video because he started talking about the men after 59:21 The role of the man and the role of the woman are different. If you listen, the pastor warned the men to be careful of women who are have feminist mindset. If you marry a good man that understands the essence of building a legacy then he'll understand that covering the family is important. Married life is not for KIDS. it's for people who understand the assignment and not whine about the duties. Marriage is not a decision made on mere emotion. May God give us the heart to understand and not just listen to respond.
@Deniafe
9 ай бұрын
@@hojbeadstudio I watched the 2 videos before writing my response. It would be unreasonable and unfair of me to write such a lengthy message without watching fully. You said 'If you marry a good man who understands the essence of building a legacy then he'll understand that covering the family is important', and that is true. But how will he understand if he doesn't listen to messages that go in-depth and teach him his roles in marriage? The point I was trying to make is that the pastor didn't focus on the men the way he focused on the women. It's just my opinion, we all have a right to our opinions.
@allanmunyika
3 ай бұрын
Im glad am seeing this now. 🎉
@byrnenoel6317
2 ай бұрын
1. Heal 2.Financially mature 3. ...... 4. Learn submission 5. Home keeping knowledge 6. The art of peace
@princessazuka5603
7 ай бұрын
wow! word🤏🤏🤏👌
@chineduumenwobi8359
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for your teachings pastor. I am editing my values and I pray 🙏 the youth listen and apply this teachings to their life.
@BamideleOmolola-rb9cn
10 ай бұрын
More grace sir, ministry prospers much more in your hands sir in Jesus Christ name... I was blessed beyond
@pkaykyalo3998
9 ай бұрын
I have watched part 1 and part 2 and for surged has spoken 👏 thank you pastor Femi . I am full. And I know my marriage won't fail .
@pricakebaabetswe6500
9 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾. Both messages are indeed powerful
@davidsonanyaibe7145
9 ай бұрын
Please, can you help me with number 5 Practical things to put in place before Marriage for women? I missed it
@praiseaustinchris5197
8 ай бұрын
It wasn't clear. I missed it as well
@AmaechiFavour-pl1pk
5 ай бұрын
Know God
@adaobiody3850
10 ай бұрын
God thank you for sending this so timely... please I need the Telegram group
@covenantwills
6 ай бұрын
Apostle sir, I'm always blessed by your messages. God bless the day I stumbled on your message 🙏🙏🙏
@kamwegusa
4 ай бұрын
When people bring you correction & you struggle to take it, you have esteem issues
@tsepangphebeni2020
9 ай бұрын
Such a blessing! Thank you for this message. More grace sir.
@abigailojiabo7484
10 ай бұрын
This message is vital to all intending couples. God bless you sir.
@oluwatomisinpauls.9899
8 ай бұрын
This sermon is teaching people common sense... but unfortunately it is not common
@blessingginger
10 ай бұрын
Thank you sir
@gloryyussuf4335
Ай бұрын
Am speechless My God This is soo expository. I celebrate you pastor Femi Lazarus 🔥🔥 God continually increase you sir.
@peacebalogun6701
8 ай бұрын
Wow!!! I just followed and saw the part two of this message and im happy. I have learnt alot. Just as my name connotes i will fo my husband good and i woll give him perfect peace, i will multiply for him. I will excactly be the prov 31 woman in Jesus name. 2024 is my year of marital breakthrough and i will marry right and also enjoy my marriage so help me God.(Amen)
@veeonkoli1236
5 ай бұрын
I will make my husband happy all the days of his life ❣️i will do him good, i will not destroy him i will bring him joy and fulfilment So help me God
@sylviaaswani6976
8 ай бұрын
Thankyou apostle..am on healing process after break up n this teaching has really opened my eyes
@ChyAnalyst
8 ай бұрын
I will do my husband good all the days of his life
@oluwadamilolaakinyokun4496
9 ай бұрын
God bless you Man of God for this great revelation.
@JohnOwolabi-wo6xc
9 ай бұрын
Great teaching, more of God's grace upon your life Sir.
@Ugonna-je3gb
22 күн бұрын
I will be a peaceful woman to my husband to be all the days of his life in Jesus name.... Amen 🙏
@FaithMbeyu
Ай бұрын
OH God 🙏 help me to be a peaceful woman All days of my life
@Kingdomadministrator
3 ай бұрын
Woman is a home builder ...I am Harriet meaning home maker
@pricakebaabetswe6500
9 ай бұрын
Amen, make sure you treat your spouse well so that they can’t think of a replacement 😊
@Adojipeniela
9 ай бұрын
True😌
@adebayotemitope19957
6 ай бұрын
Deep
@gloryyussuf4335
Ай бұрын
Ds one hits differently 🔥
@RubyAlisaFoday
4 ай бұрын
Amen I'm choosing in the Lord Jesus christ name
@YahwehJoy
9 ай бұрын
Thank you sir
@gloryyussuf4335
Ай бұрын
I will do my spouse good on all the days of my life 🔥🔥
@amakaoffiaukwu4533
Ай бұрын
God please help me get it right in my marriage
@Sandy_ra
9 ай бұрын
I wished I knew all this things before marriage Well I saw alots of red flags in him mostly emotional ignorance yet I choose to be blind about it now I am reaping it 😢
@ibenachoadasandra8380
7 ай бұрын
God can turn anything around. Continue seeking and praying.
@olamideelijah
2 ай бұрын
I learn a lot, May God help me, amen
@rufususiobaifo6462
9 ай бұрын
All i can say is, thank you and remain blessed sir. I love you sir!
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