A woman must have value in order to be valued. So many women are not worth the chase,
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Facts, and a man must have value in order to witness value. :-)
@maxespinosa5052
6 ай бұрын
ONLY A MAN WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU JUST SAID,NOT A FEMALE DATING COACH.
@in.edieudonnesworld3167
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂@@ApolloniaPonti
@Brendan-05
6 ай бұрын
100% true Apollonia, but it can be hard when I keep trying and only get rejected. I’ve now referred three young colleagues to your channel and they have changed their mindsets from blame to getting out there and are getting dates. So happy for them and I believe there are lots of amazing women. But it’s not yet working for me 😢. Maybe I’m too old, I just want one woman and hopefully start a family ❤.
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Oh thanks so much for sharing my channel. Appreciate it. Def do and try your best and it will come. :-)
@RaymondMakhafola-gi6qc
3 күн бұрын
And you are, a good Relationship Coach.❤️✨you. Issa blessing
@cliffthecoolcat
6 ай бұрын
I don't need much help. I got old and figurrd it out. I like to watch channels like this and make fun of them but you are spot on and smart, so, I have nothing to make fun of.
@jamesmarchetti3286
6 ай бұрын
Not having a woman relationship in the 20 years since my divorce is just a normal American and Western Culture thing and next month I will be getting my Passport !!!
@clubadv
6 ай бұрын
Spot on Passport Bro. Having to master these crazy things to deal with the western woman isn't worth it.
@clubadv
6 ай бұрын
There is very little reason to work so hard to land the crazy volatile emotional neurotic unappreciative western woman. Watch what it's like to come home to Eastern ladies gents. Don't be a river trying to go up the mountain.
@maxespinosa5052
6 ай бұрын
GREAT IDEA BRO
@bobalexandris255
6 ай бұрын
You are just selling the illusion.....OMG you don't have to work hard at all in order to have dates as it's not complicated matter, when there's no complications to begin with in the first place.
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
So what's the illusion?
@MagickYoga
4 ай бұрын
Abundance is the problem now specifically with the dating apps
@ChristopherHillJr
6 ай бұрын
Mindset is key 🔑 🔥
@briar35981
4 ай бұрын
A majority of men dating content creators always say that you don't have to be tall, handsome, with wealth and status to successful with women. I spent 10 years in the marketing event coordination business. I've sat through hours and hours of meet and greet marketing events. I can tell you from front line experience. Height, looks, build, the appearance of wealth and status is the number one thing women look for. At least in the initial attraction phase. I've seen these men dominate events just because they had the physical characteristics that women are attracted to. I've known great men who make great money be completely ignored. The reason being they weren't tall or handsome. Most on the short side, maybe a little overweight, possibly balding. These men dressed well and had a great presence. But it doesn't appeal to women. Hypergamy kicks in and the women go with it naturally. Be nice for just one creator to tell the truth and stop selling false hope.
@taylorbee4010
6 ай бұрын
Apollonia is just real
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Love ya!
@johnBlackwolf691
6 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right, you got my attention felt like this video was directed to me. Now that I'm older I acknowledge I have passed trauma that affected my relationships when I was younger. Took me a long time to see the flags within myself, and fix them.
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
At least you are here now and able to do it and turn things around. It's still perfect timing. :-)
@toniirawan3864
6 ай бұрын
Make the point please
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
I have in all +10 min of this video.
@CHill-tj4gw
6 ай бұрын
My problem is they choose me instead of me choosing them
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
oh yes! I hear this. This is because you haven't put yourself out there sometimes to be the one who pursues.
@CHill-tj4gw
6 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti I don’t try women meet me and try to claim me it’s annoying
@abouthisbiz4330
4 ай бұрын
"dating brings out unhealed parts of ourselves" I like that. I'm emotionally intelligent but I definitely have a scarcity mindset, for while I'm heeled and healthy and mentally clean, yet the selection of women Ive created usually have medicine cabinets filled with prescription drugs. The easy to discover the ones that tell you early, but many others mask it for as long as they can before the crazy comes out. Without bars or online, I have to find someone who is healthy. What's also interesting, you spoke about emotional intelligence having to do with the types of women. How I heard it, I may be emotionally intelligent with unhealthy women, because I'm healthy, but am I truly emotionally intelligent with healthy women, would I know one if I saw her?? Very interesting. I'll have to accept the challenge
@davidsisson2026
6 ай бұрын
Always like your input Apalonia, as an older gent that has been very isolated in my last 17 years . Due to my job, I've found the years have quickly gone by. I'm ready to enjoy the golden years and be more confident. Also God willing someone to share more intimacy and fun times
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Awesome! Let's get out of your comfort zone and get yourself out there! :-)
@JanS-yi1vp
5 ай бұрын
I've heard too many times from woman that I am too masculine ( broad shoulders, physically fit, blue eyes, good career.... ) Followed by it is not you I don't trust, it is woman always going to hit on you!! That tells me i cannot trust them because they will think it is ok to flirt with other men... I am not a slut ! All my girl friends have all been head turner's. That does not bother me hecause i can handle that typical invasion... My late wife was constantly being hit on and was able to put those creeps in their place... ,??? I just go through the motions keeping away from the one track mind of women that are insecure with a confident man. Do you have any recommendations?
@jamesmarchetti3286
6 ай бұрын
Rejection and non-reciprocation is just a normal woman thing !!!
@513ChrisHeltzer
2 ай бұрын
Yea I lack experience with women not gonna lie u are speaking to me I didn't kno about the scarcity mindset or that I have it but after u broke it down I do have it
@Cee_Eff
6 ай бұрын
Great...but where does one learn to properly flirt? I find that it's where the bulk of my rejections come from. A gal pal and a few friends wives keep saying that it's an innate quality that you have to be born with. I'm lost.
@LastEarBender
6 ай бұрын
I believe that Apalonia has several videos on that topic - as do many others on KZitem - and if you really want to, there are many programs for sale that teach various techniques - some of them are kinda slimy, so you'll probably have to sift thru a bit
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Yes. I do.
@Cee_Eff
6 ай бұрын
@LastEarBender I've looked at many programs, and I have found them to be very douchey/slimy
@jeffdeiparine03
6 ай бұрын
Dang you hit it on the nail! Will be signing up soon
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Can't wait. :-)
@MrOsmanu
6 ай бұрын
There is only one way: Never chase a woman.
@maxespinosa5052
6 ай бұрын
AWESOME COMMENT
@samidoc2124
5 ай бұрын
😂😂 you sell a garbage. signal my comment one more time...
@emmanuelcharles38
3 ай бұрын
absolutely you're speaking to me.
@clubadv
6 ай бұрын
OK ill bite, but you shouldnt normally ask a fish how to catch fish. Agreed on the scarcity mindset issue though so far.
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
If a fish could talk wouldn't you want to know how to catch it!? :-)
@in.edieudonnesworld3167
5 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPontino, I wouldn't.
@MrJazzyj420
6 ай бұрын
Apollonia I just saw your image in an advertisement offering Slavic women for long-term companionship
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
That is a scam and it's not me! I have alot of people online posing as me.. This is my only youtube channel and I'm verified on instagram.
@brentcastro10987
6 ай бұрын
It's true. I have a scarcity mindset and other bad habits. I need to examine my life and replace those habits
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
You are the driver of your life. You can do this.
@josecardenas8639
6 ай бұрын
Thank you Apollonia for your Great advice. On how to pursue women.
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Thank you appreciate you!
@jamesmarchetti3286
6 ай бұрын
In the last 12 months I had 3 females that we were attracted to each other tell me friends don't date just deep conversations took place between us !!! Asking for a date is a no win situation that doesn't happen but I do attract many women just no dates and asking means no dates !!!
@jamesmarchetti3286
6 ай бұрын
There many psychological and actual physical reasons that I don't do pornography !!!
@jamesmarchetti3286
6 ай бұрын
Rejection and non-reciprocation is just a normal woman thing !!!
@maddenmotions1347
6 ай бұрын
Thanks for this 💯👑🔥
@christopher-yi3rm
5 ай бұрын
what do you make of this girl (. I want a meaningful relationship, but I am also being careful. What are your plans for me? I hope that you are going to be patient with me
@ApolloniaPonti
5 ай бұрын
This sounds like she's trying to know what you're intentions are for her and at the same time she's trying to take her time getting to know you.
@michaeljohnson6019
6 ай бұрын
You're getting better after your time off 😊
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Right! I feel that way too. I just feel it more and more passion. I had passion a lot before but now it's another level. WATCH OUT! lol Appreciate you Michael. xoxo- Apollonia
@Yosef_Maharat
6 ай бұрын
Thanks, Apollonia.
@roryt420
6 ай бұрын
I live in Sacramento California. Are you sure there's good women here? Sure I can get them. After 100 narcissists. IDK what to do. My one good one died and left me with a 10 month old. He's 6 now. 🤷 I hope I'm the issue and there's a fix. Lol
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Hi there- I'm so sorry to hear this. I know it's hard but are you screening women? Of course, there are good women out there but it also depends on our energy, our belief system and we will attract just that.
@Maine719
6 ай бұрын
💎💎💎💎
@amabohenry5153
6 ай бұрын
❤
@luiscalisthenics
6 ай бұрын
I am a college student, as you can see i don't have a lot of resources but i have a lot of ambition and i am working towards my goals, so far i am doing a degree in finance and a certificate in hvac and sometimes because of the lack of resources i think i would not find a girlfriend. my ex-girlfriend left me back in 2022 and i been struggling with that mentality
@frankagyekum3492
5 ай бұрын
Sorry man
@WilliamVaughn-si7ri
6 ай бұрын
I totally feel there is a scarcity of good women.
@TomFox1
6 ай бұрын
I’m good enough, she isn’t.
@maxespinosa5052
6 ай бұрын
Love that comment
@TomFox1
6 ай бұрын
@@maxespinosa5052❤
@bigkaliba3220
6 ай бұрын
Most of her videos, that I have watched. I am saying to myself " how does she know so much about me" I definitely can relate to a lot of these things. This scarcity mind set started with me since I was 10 years old and got my first rejection. I am now in my 40's been married twice ( 4 kids) and slept with a lot of women, but realized they were all trash. 😢. The absent dad syndrome she talk about also touched me and the list goes on and one... Than you Apolonia keep making these videos ❤
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for sharing this with us! I'm always fulfilled and happy when my videos are able to speak to you or help you!
@Kk-iw4ck
6 ай бұрын
Apollonia looking fit ❤
@maxespinosa5052
6 ай бұрын
A LITTLE TOO CHUBBY,NEEDS TO LOSE A FEW
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Thank you! Trying bouncing back from having a baby. Appreciate you for noticing. :-)
@sethsoderman5152
6 ай бұрын
Thunk u so much
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Most welcome 😊
@businessboom6143
6 ай бұрын
Epic thanks 🎯💯
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
So happy you enjoyed. Thanks for your comment.
@fryerjason11
6 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
xo
@jamillopez6145
6 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@ApolloniaPonti
6 ай бұрын
Welcome!
@ILLRICARDO
6 ай бұрын
a girl i liked broke my heart when i asked her out to join me for a meal, she asked if she could invite her guy friend to the restaurant, and he joined us in the restaurant.... fast forward she invited me to the cinema, and booked a a double couch seat for her and a single seat for me which really hurt, i just wanted to sit next to her, i have never been in appropriate with her, always kind and she hurt me like no other, to make matters worse she started to talk about how cute the cinema waiter was..... women are so mentally draining.
@maxespinosa5052
6 ай бұрын
DRAINING LIKE YOU WONT BELIEVE BROTHER!
@actionpakanime3562
5 ай бұрын
She didn’t hurt u u hurt yourself how. Can u go out with a woman that tells u to invite somebody else Much less a man
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