Thank you Aunt Fumi for not accepting the offer to be in the Real House Wives franchise. You are SO ABOVE the way that show has become! You are not supposed to be "infamous" for being low vibrational. It's not you. You were made for Greatness Aunt Fumi! All of my love! 🤗💝😍
@deannam7681
7 ай бұрын
Totally agreed 👍
@thatsodiesel
7 ай бұрын
I'm at work and saw this. Haven't been able to watch the video. The way I ran to the comments, hoping she declined!!! Praise God.
@tvs9978
7 ай бұрын
Aww what a sweet msg
@berylroyer9087
7 ай бұрын
Why I love this Lady..let me count the ways😊.. Oops!! Toooo numerous to count. She brings joy to my heart indeed. I know she is unable to read all but just wanted to type this because I am ready to burst😊😊😊
@NettasNest
7 ай бұрын
Ditto😊
@marshalluche2054
7 ай бұрын
Rules for 2024 1)Stop looking for those who are not looking for you 2)Stop begging 3)Stop saying more than necessary 4)When ppl disrespect you confront them immediately 5)Dont eat other ppl's food more than they eat yours 6)Reduce how much you visit ppl especially if they do not reciprocate 7)invest in yourself 8)Make yourself happy 9)Stop entertaining gossip about other ppl 10)think before you talk 11)Always look your best 12)Be an achiever and get busy with your goals 13)Respect your time 14) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel heard and valued. 15)Learn to spend money on yourself, that's how ppl learn to spend on yourself 16)Be a giver more than a receiver 17) Don't go where you are not invited and when invited don't overstay. 18)Treat people exactly the way they deserve 19)Accept that they owe you money, two calls are enough if they value you they will call you back 20)Be good at what you do, be the best.
@rachealkadete6141
7 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Keesh73
7 ай бұрын
Thanks so much 🫶🏾
@linedafelix2800
7 ай бұрын
Love the segment and LOVE the look.
@angella7249
7 ай бұрын
Thank you
@bolaakinbo6836
7 ай бұрын
Thanks ever so much
@JustMebeingMe1
7 ай бұрын
Fumi, I would never want to see you on a Reality tv show. They suck the life, poise, class and Jesus right out of good people and make them look shameful! I am glad that you turned that opportunity down. Coming from your 54 year old Sister!❤
@Maya-xm5jx
7 ай бұрын
You’re so ABOVE Real Housewives. You are a QUEEN.
@moniqueforrester674
7 ай бұрын
The hair looks chic and compliments your bone structure so well!
@jojocluddy2534
7 ай бұрын
Yes!!!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿😍
@esikeogheneodudu7567
7 ай бұрын
Correct!!!!❤
@AliciaJonestv
7 ай бұрын
There is a reason I found this channel and I’m so glad I did.
@EdenAdele
7 ай бұрын
I'm so happy to hear you turned down the reality show. The statistics are CLEAR - the great majority of participants in shows like this have marriages that suffer GREATLY as a result! There are many other ways you can be your fabulous self, well-paid, creative, AND your family is BETTER as a result! We are here for you, we support you, and want ONLY the BEST of the best for you and yours. Happiest new year, wonderful one. Much love and abundance to you all. 💜💜💜
@beverlygeddes7270
7 ай бұрын
When you said I turned it down... I started yelling and shouting yes 🎉🎉🎉🎉 and dancing. Your amazing for saying NO
@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES
7 ай бұрын
Me too!
@shirl3942
7 ай бұрын
Would have loved to see that!😂😉🤭
@lc2496
7 ай бұрын
Auntie Fumi masterfully flexing that 70s diva look via 2024! Work it!! ❤❤❤❤❤
@jamessimpson9014
7 ай бұрын
We got you sis you will get better opportunities as your potential is limitless. One love 🇯🇲
@cozyzen7848
7 ай бұрын
Wow you turning this offer down says so much about who you are. You are strong, wise and such a great role model to us young women coming behind you. All money is not good money. I know there are better opportunities ahead that will showcase you in better light, bring more money and not affect your family. So proud of you!!!! I have learned and continue to learn so much about life from you
@BlackBeauty-yl8uq
7 ай бұрын
Anybody with common decency or a bit of wisdom knows it’s one place to go if you want to have destruction in your life 😂
@valeriedebourg5872
7 ай бұрын
I just retired fumi and I am telling my husband this morning that I want to open my own retail business and here you are saying the same thing in this episode. God is speaking to me through you. THANK YOU FUMI❤
@R_Adu
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for listening. My respect for you has escalated ❤❤❤
@ErinT80
7 ай бұрын
I absolutely ADORE how Fumi keeps it real ❤
@masemotha3373
7 ай бұрын
"Poor is the person whose happiness depends on another" Powerful! Thank you so much Fumi. God bless ❤❤❤ Natural hair is the best. Looking good.
@shirl3942
7 ай бұрын
Fumi you saved your marriage, your son and most of all yourself. We love you and your FAM!!!
@sarat1625
7 ай бұрын
I love that you and Tamu McPherson are rocking this low cut Afro with such style and elegance.
@lcheia
7 ай бұрын
Auntie Fumi, We are here for you. Many have said it and I agree. You are above the drama. You always bring a good vibe and positivity and we know this show is not always about that. You will be a FABULOUS host tho. Thank you for all your amazing advice. Much love mami ❤
@evik9613
7 ай бұрын
You're the friend, the sis, the auntie, the ride or die we all need in our life. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.
@wclstjkk
7 ай бұрын
Thank you, Fumi, for this. I so appreciate you. Im 58 and still learning and will always be with 5 grown daughter's.
@hisdncr
7 ай бұрын
Auntie Fumi…and you may not know this but God is going to open up an even bigger door since you shut this one. Your integrity Fumi, can’t be matched. I love what you portray. Look out BIGGER is coming and it will fit perfectly and bless your entire family in numerous ways. God bless you all! 😘. Oh and I had to add that you are WERKING that natural hair! Live and Love it!
@maxinec1616
7 ай бұрын
I am loving the softer eyebrows,they compliment your new look!
@MultiMichellerose
7 ай бұрын
You look STUNNING ❤you continue to be an inspiration, I too am 55 and I’m attempting to get my fitness and health back after breast cancer and gaining two three stone in weight. I love your fashion too, I use to be into fashion and lost it when I got sick and now I’m coming back to myself. You always keep it real🥰
@kame.3634
7 ай бұрын
I truly miss my mother Fumi, but your persona, your spirit, your drive, and your intellect reminds me of her every time, I see and hear you! You are so so POWERFUL!
@samanthajane9100
7 ай бұрын
Fumi Dear, You are the true Daughter of your Father... Your Husband is Blessed to have you.... Kings shall come to your Son's rising because of you.... I feel highly privileged to have found you on KZitem... Remain Richly Blessed!!! Samantha 💖💖💖💖
@stacykadozo2105
7 ай бұрын
Fumi you’re soo talented, the Lord will open an amazing door for you. Reality TV can bring out the worst in us or better yet pollute who we are. You are pure gold and please don’t allow the world to change you. ❤🎉
@zigisandi
7 ай бұрын
I’m half way in and I just felt like shouting “hallelujah somebody!” Thank you aunty Fumi ❤
@urlaeversley-moses5308
7 ай бұрын
Yes, we living and loving your new look!! Gorgeous and youthful!!❤
@atmoms2
7 ай бұрын
you are so wise and an inspiration. i would add Maya Angelou - "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
@annettehart6727
7 ай бұрын
WOW! So impressed and mad respect for you.
@thesleepscientist9890
7 ай бұрын
Sista Fumi, always dropping lifechanging nuggets like the BOSS that she is! ❤
@sylviamodise3887
7 ай бұрын
This look is giving Grace Jones. I live for it aunty Fumi❤
@MMSCOTT-mx8dm
7 ай бұрын
You look so Happy my Sister, I know Ole loves that hair cut!💋 Wonderful episode Fumi, you are dropping gems all over the place! I just love your spirit. Your heart is so in the right place nd can tell you want the best for us all. So many positive things are coming your way.
@samanthajane9100
7 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@kodwat2134
7 ай бұрын
I also want her to host the reunion. When you turn down this, something greater will come your way ❤
@lahomajohnson3955
7 ай бұрын
Hoping you are considered as the HOST of the reunion. 🙏🏾🦾💯
@lawandabrown3472
7 ай бұрын
I needed this so much. Thank you for always encouraging us to be the best
@sattasana7753
7 ай бұрын
You are indeed family Auntie, you're above Housewives. Hosting reunion will be the best the can offer you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@peejay3826
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for extending the invitation for us to weigh in on whether or not you should take on the reality show and for listening to this community, which is here solely because of what you embody. To me, you are a woman of class, wisdom, values, and truth who have already experienced so much a lot of us haven't yet. The transparency and authenticity you show (which most lack) in sharing your wisdom with us is why I tune in every day to your channel. It is easy to see that you are who you say you are. I believe a reality show would have negatively twisted that side of you and presented a "dramatized false you" to the world. No money should be worth that. 🤗❤❤
@JustMebeingMe1
7 ай бұрын
Wow, this video really fed my soul Fumi! I thank God for you today! You bring value to this platform!
@FunnyMemes-dotcom
7 ай бұрын
Fumi I love you so much. It’s great that you listen to us too. You don’t deserve to be disrespected by anyone especially on any reality show. You are too fabulous for this ❤
@michellehamil
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for making such a sacrifice for us Fumi. We really love and cherish you. You are such a graceful Queen and it would have been so hard to see you in such a space. Once again, thank you heaps! 🙏💜💜💜
@frontporchwisdom1119
7 ай бұрын
Where one door closes, GOD has several open! I'm living and loving the look sis! Sister Fumi, I encourage, enlighten, and inspire woman to be the best they can be since 2007. I'm 59 and we never get to old to get wisdom & knowledge, no matter how we get it! But sis, I'm just gonna go ahead and give u ur flowers now!💐🌺🌼🌹🌸 I'm 1000% in agreeance with ur topic today. You gave ME confirmation about my thoughts and choices I've made in my past and present. I feel every single statement u made, we should do and maybe add some more to the list. It's a work , dedication and sacrifice to striving to becoming better in life. Maya Angelou's quote, when you know better, you do better. Sis u r preaching to the choir today! I received a lot today and my prayer is that others did as well ! Happy bless and prosperous 2024 to everyone!
@philomenambu484
7 ай бұрын
There's everything to love about you and it's easy to believe what you say because you're a living example. Thank you Mama Fumi, you're the best ❤
@janicescott-pair97
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Fumi, for this. Alot of us take and use these words of wisdom. 😊
@cynsochic
7 ай бұрын
We love you so much, Fumi!! We admire you and only great things will cone for you!
@anthonetteroach3265
7 ай бұрын
Dearest Sister Fumi, I missed the memo of your offer to do the House Wives show. But I wholesale agree with the rest of Fumination who advised you not to do it. The meat-and-potatoes of those shows is conflict and fighting. The train wreck situations. A show like that would stifle your good image. Your poise, and sensible good advice would not be showcased. They throw a lot of money around ro but a person’s morals and dignity. You WILL receive greater opportunities. You’re just too fabulous. Your star shines bright!🫶🏾🙏💖
@marsbarton7168
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this, Fumi. You are echoing what my Mum was telling me two nights ago. ❤ Much love and blessings to you and your family. HNY!🎉
@lovingyourlifewithmommad1954
7 ай бұрын
loving the hair and edges sooooo very much, You are such an inspiration to many, Super glad you said no to the drama
@ppinnock4725
7 ай бұрын
Yes! Mrs Fumi did it again. Great episode. Love number one Stop looking for those who are not looking for me, this hit me in the core of my stomach. Because I am that person. Number 3 Stop saying more than necessary. This is my motto for 2024. Looking beautiful as always Mrs Fumi. ❤❤
@milliemunoz630
7 ай бұрын
Fumi you are such a natural beauty and an awesome personality to boot! Really enjoying your content blessings to you and your family 2024 will be the best yet!
@Ivluve
7 ай бұрын
Fumi, you look fabulous. I cut my locs after almost 25 years of having them, and I feel fabulous. New year, new beginning inside and out. Happy New Year my love.
@gwesamogwe7768
7 ай бұрын
Love FUMI❤OLE❤ADRIAN❤🎉
@elbeem20001
7 ай бұрын
I find, as I get older, I get more "self-ish" - and I am more comfortable with myself that way!! And I like that. I have become most of the points you have put out, and more. Love it! Love you!
@uluamsam
7 ай бұрын
Loved this!! Time to go put some respect on my name. 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
@Elizabeth-vu1tb
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Fumi.. thank you for hearing us.😭😭😭😭😭
@DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the new intros, Aunty Fumi! So inspiring. My mom had a huge beef with my dad because he ate too often at his friend's while the friend NEVER ate at our house .He was just that kinda man who ONLY ate at home, and it offended my mom a lot. I never understood it until I became an adult. Thanks so much for this video. We are heading for a MILLION SUBSCRIBERS THIS YEAR🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. I see it, Queen.
@yemu-voixchanson1667
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Aunty Fumi...i am so happy you put your family first!!! You have so much depth and class for these reality shows. I pray God would open the door to a way BETTER opportunity than real housewives🙏❤
@collettebrown198
7 ай бұрын
Fumi I'll be 60 in a couple of weeks. I think you made the right decision. I agree that God will open another door. And the hair is on point!
@jrenee8303
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Ms. Fumi for having integrity and taking the road less traveled!!
@EstherAivinhenyi
7 ай бұрын
Lesson learnt " you are not there to eat." so true Sis Fumi spitting fire. 🤣👍
@dr-k1667
7 ай бұрын
You look AMAZING and much too fabulous for the "real housewives" You deserve your own show as a modern day Agony Aunt or A Fashion Police show.
@ceemonroserose6123
7 ай бұрын
Auntie Fumi! I’m only a few points in and I am in tears! This spoke to me! Very timely, thank you thank you ❤❤
@jacqui884
7 ай бұрын
Fumi. I'm proud of you. You've made the brave decision to protect your family and self-respect from the jungle of "reality shows". God will bless you over and above whatever $$, your intrinsic value is of most importance. We love you girl ❤
@bertashacharles6773
7 ай бұрын
I am so proud of you for listening to your sisters because that would be to much exposure for your family. Thought about it when you said it and I said maybe a friend,but on the other hand you shouldn’t down grade for no reason.so proud of you sis👏🏽!!
@sloaneharrison8239
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so very much my sister Fumi for this video! I’m 51 years old, and what you said really resonated with me. I now have goals for the new year and future years to come God willing. Congratulations on all the wonderful things happening in your life! May God continue to bless you and keep up the good work! Love ya.
@rebeccabledsoe182
7 ай бұрын
Loving you more my dearest FD-V ❤‼️ You are the voice of reason, common sense & wisdom! Way too intelligent for those Housewives dramas! Love, light & blessings 💕🙏🏽✨
@EspritsFantomes
7 ай бұрын
Aunty Fumi, you are too classy for Real Housewives ✨
@kenyascott1646
7 ай бұрын
Fumi the hair is fire! ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 Thank you for sharing! Love your unique REALNESS! 🫶🏾
@dimpledsunshine5518
7 ай бұрын
Auntie Fumz I'm soooo happy about your decision. I've been waiting to hear what you decide (because ultimately it is YOUR decision to make after all). Nothing good comes from such platforms. You have worked so hard to share your beautiful light with us your little sisters and everyone around you. Money cannot be the reason to have that blown out with catiness, and the continuous depiction of women (of color) as unruly, uncivilized, loud, gossiping, brash sewer rats. You, your peace, Adrian, and Ula deserve so much more. We love you and know amazing opportunities lie in wait for you. Here's to gooooooood money that's positive, empowering, and continues to elevate and reinforce what you stand for. Wishing you a magical year auntie Fumz 🪄💗
@bbezada
7 ай бұрын
OMG big sister Fumi! I absolutely loved this episode. Thank you so much. 😘😘😘
@lavieestbelle6068
7 ай бұрын
Yes, we want the best for you and your family. Your own show is coming.🎉
@adinaanams7531
7 ай бұрын
I'm really glad i found this channel!! Thank you for being yourself Aunty Fumi!!!
@ReeMoni24
7 ай бұрын
Love this message Fumi. This is what I needed to here and it will be on replay. I’m in the process of a divorce and need all the encouragement and reminder that my life is not over and can be good again if I focus on loving on myself and building my best life.speak life into us!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤
@shalomy3k
7 ай бұрын
“Poor is the person whose happiness depends on another.”Wow! Well said Aunty 👍🏿
@zintlemagazi1076
7 ай бұрын
LOVED this episode, thank you!
@adwoaopoku8356
7 ай бұрын
Am glad u did.U always say it's ur platform but it's our show . Thanks for the respect u have shown us, by not accepting this gig. We r on our way to 1million. 2024 is our year.
@chanteynk7324
7 ай бұрын
Aunty Fumi I love you. May God bless you with better opportunities that will preserve you and your keep you walking from grace to grace.
@shelly-annsmith3004
7 ай бұрын
Thanks Fumi. God bless you and may He continue to direct your path. Thank you for uplifting so many of us. I truly enjoy watching you. Ps great decision not to join Housewives of London. Oh and you are rocking that hair. Love it!
@newwomandouglas2959
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for turning it down. We hold you in such high regard and we don't want any silliness to bring your greatness down. God will bless you with something else that will be better for you. 😊
@alvinahilborn3456
7 ай бұрын
Congratulations! I'm glad you turned down the position... You definitely have so much more to offer... My Prayers and Blessings Always 🙌 😊😊
@Keylove-hi3bq
5 ай бұрын
Thats how you know when a person is truly happy! Fumi cracks her self up and I love and live for it 😊
@imangiomo
7 ай бұрын
My gosh, that HAIRRRRRRRRRRRR looks SO GOOD on youuuuuuuu! Happy2024♡
@s5g9g6
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Beautiful Queen 👑! I needed to hear this now! God is with me and he got me.🙏🏾❤️💯☮️🍇🌧️💸📈✅🎊🎉🙌🏾🙌🏾🕊️🕊️🕊️🩸🩸🩸♾️🔥🔥🔥🔥
@limathiam
6 ай бұрын
This episode would’ve made my life so much easier 6 years ago. Becoming a mother at 22 was exhausting. Thank you queen ! ❤️❤️
@mimi831711
7 ай бұрын
Thank you auntie Fumi ❤❤❤❤
@ymccormack9613
7 ай бұрын
Your "ways to respect yourself"...spoke to me...espiecially #2..God spoke to me today on that matter and you have endorsed it..thanks milady..❤
@dabzco
7 ай бұрын
I think I was born with this personalities because it’s how I have always manage my life. Respect yourself and other people will respect you.
@MaggyKN
7 ай бұрын
This was beautiful Fumi. Thank you!
@djenalove
7 ай бұрын
Darling Fumi. We L.O.V.E. you and that love requires that we protect our brother Ole and our nephew Adrian. We will protect your family unit with everything we have. Thank you for being you.
@wearynottired
7 ай бұрын
Thank you! I need to make changes, pronto! Mrs. Fumi, I am loving the hair, the confidence, and I wish you had shown your outfit of the day. 😂 I always look forward to that part!
@nicolawilliams5535
7 ай бұрын
Why is Fumi rocking the hair cut like the goddess she is.
@user-tc3cd1ft3i
7 ай бұрын
Am from Trinidad and Tobago to be exact Trinidad I'll be 60 this coming May and I really do appreciate all you've spoken about on your platform thank you my dear I love you ♥️
@user-dy9dj5ke2k
7 ай бұрын
Fumi your so pretty I think you look like a young Cecily Tyson
@christellemalu7159
7 ай бұрын
Auntie Fumi, I dont know how I am so related to you even though we are not from the same family. I am not one to watch shows, but i am always looking forward to watching your episodes . May God bless you and your family and give you more wisdom to guide your audience ❤
@christinaajayi1751
7 ай бұрын
Fantastic episode, my dear sis. I lived for all of your advice spot on! May Jehovah God continue to bless you and the family ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Whoopingcraftllc
7 ай бұрын
I’m a witness. The Lord taught me this season how to deal with people and set boundaries.
@calawa8500
7 ай бұрын
There's never enough CASH to pay for your CLASS! 👏 👏 BRAVO
@Kausar07
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Aunty Fumi this is veryyyyyy helpful and I have made it a favorite video for 2024 to watch over and over again ❤💯
@KinzieJay
7 ай бұрын
I love you Fumi! Every video you put out makes an impact on my life! Thank you for your authenticity!
@user-zk3dq5fw6y
7 ай бұрын
Keep wearing your natural hair. It is beautiful.
@Ellemichelle2015
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Fumi for including us in that very big decision. Although I missed it, I would have also voted it down. Those types of shows are so degrading. You are too classy for that. I look up to you and I love your family. You are a positive role model and you deserve the absolute best. God will bless you with the right opportunities. ❤❤❤
@solochica81
7 ай бұрын
I pray God for twins or triplets in 2024!!! 🙏🏾 My testimony!! I married in December 2023 at 42 in a beautiful wedding that was morning short of what imagined the Garden of Eden looks like. God was Faithful and I am waiting for my rainbow babies in 2024. Pray with 🙏🏾 Ladies God will do it for you! ✨✨💫🌟❤
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