I'm obsessed with the fact that you were so worried that no one would watch a 3 minute video, and now here we all are, watching you talk for a half hour straight.
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
Isn’t that so wild!!! Every video I post that’s a little longer, I feel the same way I did about that first 3 minute video. That stretching into new territory will always feel scary but it’s so fun to try new things!! And the worst thing that can happen is it doesn’t work out. But that’s why making content I REALLY enjoy making has to be the starting point. Because it can be soul crushing when it doesn’t land the way you hope it will - and liking it yourself and thinking it’s funny keeps you moving forward 😂❤️
@debraschneider3674
2 жыл бұрын
@@elyse_myers the 25 minutes went by so quickly I didn't think it possibly could be the end of the video already. I got caught up in everything you said and was sad it was over.
@serena_davis
2 жыл бұрын
I would watch an hour long podcast! 😄🥳
@TheJokeeper
2 жыл бұрын
I could easily watch an hour 😂
@alexmiller9374
2 жыл бұрын
Right?! Those 25 min just went by WAY too fast actually! When she said "this will be a good question to end on" I literally had to look at the play bar to verify that it was almost over. 😩
@nataliesoutlet
2 жыл бұрын
Elyse✨ I feel like your my little bright spot on the internet. I’m new to your community and very much in love. Appreciate all the awareness you bring to ADHD and mental health 💕
@jamiebuilding7485
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@ssavaart
2 жыл бұрын
This is so amazing, Elyse. I love that you're doing these longer videos here. ♥
@notanyoneelseforsure
Жыл бұрын
Omg Scott you are here!
@Clover_knows_pets
Жыл бұрын
@Lisa Avenir yes! He is! And he made this! kzitem.infolg0gXxGEanw?feature=share
@skyadventurer7574
Жыл бұрын
Hi Scott! Isn’t she great??? You two are so deeply kind and loving people and both make really high caliber videos
@ro.7349
5 ай бұрын
OMG SCOTT!!! HEYYYYY!
@melanieholmes5022
2 жыл бұрын
I'm only 13 minutes into this video and I've already said, "love you Elyse", out loud at least 3 times. You're an absolute gem. Love you. ❤️
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
I love that so much! 🥹 Thank you for your support!
@LilyAshlyn
2 жыл бұрын
When you said “I didn’t know postpartum depression was a TYPE of depression. Not timing” it seriously just knocked the wind out of me. All of this time I had no idea there was a difference and my son just turned a year old. Elyse I had tears streaming down my face because Every. Single. Word. You said about your postpartum experience was EVERYTHING I’ve been through and no one talks about it and it feels like no one understands it. And without you giving full disclosure of how deep those feelings really went and how hard it really was. I know. I just know. You don’t even need to say it. I wish in those darkest moments of new motherhood, we could’ve just held each other. I was desperate for someone to validate my own feelings. I know this is an extremely difficult and vulnerable topic to discuss but I cannot tell you how many woman you could be helping and even saving by talking about it. I wish I saw this small part of your video when I was going through the thick of it because it just tremendously impacted me. I am so thankful you chose to keep it in. Thank you.
@That_girl_bacon
2 жыл бұрын
This. Everything I echo.
@kristinaramroop1379
2 жыл бұрын
Same same same!! I have a 1 year old and just starting to feel like myself again. It was really dark for a long time.
@amybagnall6097
2 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t successfully able to have a child- both my babies passed away before they were fully ‘cooked’ but after the first one I had such a hard time with depression! OMG And I later learned that when you have a pregnancy loss your body goes through the same hormone shifts as though you delivered a live baby. No one told me that at the time- that was 2002. Add to that I was 42 and this was my first pregnancy so I had fears I’d never be able to get pregnant again. Yeah, so I appreciated it a lot too. Also, do antidepressants help this type of depression? I think they helped me quite a bit. I didn’t hear Elyse say anything about taking them. Can you all please give me feedback?
@Paige-zr6pn
2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@jenniferriske1328
2 жыл бұрын
I had PPD and it was awful. I already have PTSD, anxiety and depression and it was worst than any of that. I hate that I don't remember the little moments from her first few months it makes me sad.
@quinnlee3822
2 жыл бұрын
Elyse, I think everyone shares the same feeling. We all feel like we know you. We all feel genuine love for you. In this intense (often times negative) world we are living in, that is a beautiful thing. Just by simply existing and sharing your life, you make millions of people happy. Thank you, Elyse. 🥰
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how encouraging your comment is to me tonight. From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much!
@autumnhunley5887
Жыл бұрын
@@elyse_myers Quinn you Said that at an expert way. Elyse you give me hope and I relate to u insane amount!!!
@sassykat2000
6 ай бұрын
I'm brand new here and feel the exact same way.
@saraschneider6781
2 жыл бұрын
I have NEVER heard anyone talk about the difference between time and type in post partum. Please advocate more on this in your content.
@SharonMOkon
2 жыл бұрын
I concur! I had it pretty bad. I ended up going on & having another child - who I love w/ my whole being - & I felt kind of pressured to do so. It was so unhealthy for me. You're lucky to have Jonas to support you & your mental health (plus being able to stand up for yourself). ❤️ Loved this Q&A!!
@divinelyhealedpodcast4344
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Exactly!!
@alexisbuckles4651
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I identify with this, now six months pp with my second, even though I didn’t experience it the first time.
@ifjimmycracks
2 жыл бұрын
It is awful. I’ve never had the kind of thoughts I had then, since.
@KH-hr5xm
Жыл бұрын
For anyone just watching this now: if you are in the thick of PPA or PPD, or your child is within his/her first 5 years of life, do not write off having another child. My daughter is 5 and I just now feel like I could have another baby and want one so much. Do not give up hope for healing and complete transformation! Even if it takes several years. Up until last year I never planned to go through another pregnancy/postpartum time, and this year I feel totally different about it.
@ambercarroll2514
2 жыл бұрын
As a person who has been there…let me just say that the transition between “not a mom” to “mom” is way way harder than the transition between “mom of 1” and “mom of 2” All the stuff I wanted to experience with my first baby I actually got to enjoy with the 2nd one. There is no reason to expect that the postpartum depression you had with the first will happen with the 2nd. It didn’t for me. The 2nd came with all the joy and appreciation I felt guilty not feeling with the 1st. If you want another baby…do it. You know the possibility of the postpartum depression now and can have tools in place should it happen again. But….also know that for SO many people, the 2nd baby is a restorative experience. Oh, and we waited 4 years between kids because of that fear. The wait and the age gap was good for us.
@katiemiller5569
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! Amber you are totally right. It was the same for me too!
@hayleyhobbs4273
2 жыл бұрын
Yep my kids are 4 years apart and love it.
@katystefflre7980
2 жыл бұрын
I was so scared I waited 10 years and this is so true
@GrungeGranny
2 жыл бұрын
@@katystefflre7980 omg I’m currently wanting my second and it’s been ten years too I’ve also been so worried
@amybagnall6097
2 жыл бұрын
Also there is always adoption. I didn’t hear Elyse mention that and I wish she had. I’m in a family where we have more people who were adopted than biologically related. My sister & brother are adopted. My other brother & his wife couldn’t have kids and their 2 kids are adopted. My cousins child - adopted. My BIL & SIL their daughter is adopted. See what I mean?
@khymmiller5667
2 жыл бұрын
Your taco story and school dance pictures is what got me hooked on watching you!! It's helped me embrace my awkwardness for real!! I love you and your genuineness!! It really keeps me thinking positive!!
@caseyw6984
2 жыл бұрын
It is not very often on the Internet content creator has such a genuine vibe, loved this vid, love your energy! 💜
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
Oh man thank you so much!! This is so kind! 🥹❤️
@militarytravelhacks2023
2 жыл бұрын
LOVED this, Elyse! I've had 2 babies and not 1 single person ever, EVER mentioned postpartum anxiety. When we took my son home from the hospital I was so afraid of anyone walking up or down the stairs with him. I kept envisioning him falling and being 'broken.' The vision just played over and over in my head. I think that's the first memory that I have of PPA but it got so much worse. My anxiety over something happening to my kids or me became crippling. It was only when my second baby was a year old and covid was all around us that I finally went to speak to someone and realized that I wasn't going crazy, I actually had postpartum anxiety. I'm so grateful when I hear other women talk about it, addressing it like it's a real thing. I think the internet is full of amazing moms who make it look easy, but the truth is we're all doing the best we can and treading hard under the surface. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story with us. P.S - 'Is it a premonition or is it just anxiety?' Has become my personal mantra and something I ask myself daily because lord knows my brain likes to latch onto the idea of premonitions! 😂
@taracuplin4075
Жыл бұрын
Same! My anxiety went through the roof when my daughter was born and, frankly, has hung around for the past seven years. 🫤 I have PTSD and have been getting therapy for that but it never really occurred to me that maybe this is post partum anxiety. 🤦♀️
@schondm
Жыл бұрын
Ma'am. My husband put my wild 4 year old to bed in the time that I watched this video, and I legitimately thought I'd been watching for about 5 minutes. I could watch your videos all day long and not feel like my day was wasted. Thank you for being you. 💕
@sommermullins5945
2 жыл бұрын
I had the worst postpartum depression with my daughter, my first baby, good to note it was ‘97 and there was very little info about it, that when I had my son, 10 years later, I was acutely aware of the signs, symptoms and how to get better help. Luckily I didn’t have many postpartum symptoms with my son but like you said it was hugely because of timing. Our timing was right and it took that stress off of me to give me that time to heal myself physically and emotionally after he was born. Heal you. You’ll know when. You’ll know where. Take your time. Sending all of you hugs!
@courtneykholousi
2 жыл бұрын
The part where you talked about the tumultuous situation of wanting another kid and not being quite ready to take it on again- really spoke to me. I really love your honesty about literally everything. ❤️
@boothgoodies6348
2 жыл бұрын
Just sent my sister an “absolutely not” hat for her birthday. I couldn’t stop talking about you when I went to visit her last month. Love seeing you here on KZitem!
@jobielifehappens7102
Ай бұрын
I love how it feels like we’re just having a chat. You are so relaxed with the format.
@evermore4487
Жыл бұрын
I applaud and celebrate your willingness to be vulnerable to the world. You are a treasure. ❣
@joannebaker1385
Жыл бұрын
Every video that you put out is a gift. Thank you for your time and efforts. You make a massive difference in Folks' lives. ❤
@mariec7092
Жыл бұрын
I really want to see more of you playing the viola, then or now. Definitely would love you sharing pics and videos of different parts of your life. You are so full of life !
@MSmith-su6zj
Жыл бұрын
Oh, that's spot on. Massive attention that points to sudden success and our first reaction is to apologize. Not that you're Sorry, just the new role for a woman is scary and we innately try to mitigate the transition. I really think sorry has a total different definition for women anyway. Congratulations, sis❤ You shine in this medium!
@kristenarciaga4144
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for always showing up in this space so genuinely and vulnerably. No one ever has to wonder if you mean what you say because your authenticity just shines through in everything you do. You inspire all of us "undercover creatives" who wonder if our stories and voices matter. Your voice matters so much and brings much-needed light to the interwebs!
@tiffany_elise89
2 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that you can genuinely say you’re happy. Sounds like you’ve got the right people around you ❤️
@betsiecrother1443
Жыл бұрын
you are one of the most likable people I've ever seen online Thank you for letting us into your life. You are amazing!!
@caxx7638
2 жыл бұрын
I at first was drawn to your content bc I’m hard of hearing and most of your things have captions on tiktok but I ended up staying because you really helped me get to a place in life where I could accept that not being polished and perfect all the time was okay. And I’ve gotten even my gram to watch your context about mental health, and we’re able to communicate and relate to each other easier now.
@amybagnall6097
2 жыл бұрын
I’m hard of hearing too. Not real severe, but I know I need ti go to the Dr and get checked because I read it can contribute to dementia.
@chriskmyta8758
Жыл бұрын
I’ve always suffered from depression & anxiety. After my first son, I thought I would die of post pardom. Thankfully he was an angel and that helped. With son number 2 I felt wonderful, no depression but I had people in place to help just in case. With son number 3 I was great until he was one & I fell hard. The worst depression & anxiety EVER !!! It took awhile and I’m still on meds but I’m great & son number 3 is now 23 years old & I have 7 granddaughters ❤ I’d say have another for August but take some time off & have people in place to help you when you need them. Lastly, walk through your next pregnancy closely with your Doctor 😊
@arsp2s
Жыл бұрын
You are amazing Elyse! Beautiful inside and out ❤ Please don’t stop being who you are! We need more people like you on KZitem who are true and authentic. I also love your music 🎶
@supercoopershorts5469
2 жыл бұрын
Omg! Thank you for your decision to keep going content creating!!! You’re one of the best people I’ve ever discovered on the internet, and I recently found out we live in the same neighborhood which is crazy!!! Thanks for all your work!
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh that is so cool!!! Hi neighbor! 😂❤️
@BeckyLundberg
Жыл бұрын
You're so... you! Just love how genuine and unfiltered you are. We can all find something in you that we just relate to. You help me laugh at myself. Thank you! You're a breath of fresh air.
@cailinanne
2 жыл бұрын
I kinda love that I got in on your KZitem before the 100k mark so I can imagine you reading my comment while sitting, scrolling and hugging your pillow as a possibly very real thing. Your how to save a life video got me good today. It’s… haunting. Definitely cried really hard because of things that are emotional in my life but if it was bad I wouldn’t have- Ty for the beautiful musical soul hug 🖤 I TRULY needed it.
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could reply with a picture because I am quite literally sitting here, reading your comment, and holding a pillow 😂❤️ I’m so grateful you are here! Those kind of soul hug moments are exactly why I keep showing up and making these videos so your encouragement means the WORLD to me! Usually when I’m feeling overwhelmed with life & emotion I have to just sing my way out because nothing else will really get me out of that place. I feel like I really find my people when I make those videos!
@cailinanne
2 жыл бұрын
@@elyse_myers awww I knew it! 🤗 and I’m the exact same way! That’s why we (the singers and our like kind) love you! 🖤
@livbrooks4194
2 жыл бұрын
my absolute favourite person on the internet right now. you bring peace and joy and laughter to my life and i can’t thank you enough for that!
@SiennaNotMiller
2 жыл бұрын
Such a great video, it’s so refreshing how open and vulnerable you are. More of this!
@vilmabanos2221
2 жыл бұрын
I have never, ever, ever been one to listen to people just talk. I get joy just listening to you because you’re so you and just human. Thanks for your content!
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
Awww Vilma this means the world to me!!! Thank you so much for being here and watching this video! It means a lot!!!
@flowergirllove21
2 жыл бұрын
I love that I’ve been following you since before the taco debut. Haha You are so pure, genuine and kind. I love SO much what you are bringing to social media outlets. Keep shinning bright and spreading your light. ❤️ The world needs more people like you! ✨
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much, Cassie!
@richcecere
2 жыл бұрын
I swear to god you are the most interesting person. And so authentic. I'm so so glad people appreciate you. It makes me so happy. It gives me hope that we can all get along again.
@prattmisty
2 жыл бұрын
I chose the viola because all the other girls wanted the violin and the music teacher basically begged me to try it. Best decision I ever made!
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
I love that!!! I never regretted my decision even once - I felt like it set me up really well for learning how to support those around me in and out of music!
@jennkohn482
2 жыл бұрын
This was awesome! Thank you. Tears flowed when you said you are happy. So thrilled for you.
@ShielsJulie
2 жыл бұрын
YES ELYSE!! PND felt incomparable with 'normal' depression for me. An entirely different type! So on the money. Also- I wasn't aware it can hit ANY TIME in the first 12 months post partum. I thought I was in the clear because I was fine, and then when he was four months old- wham! Hit me like a train. But I didn't get it at all on my following baby. Great video, love the long form 👍❤️
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
This is so good to know about PND being able to hit later in the postpartum timeline. I had no clue!!! This is really helpful!
@ro.7349
5 ай бұрын
Heyy, Elyse! I just want you to know that youre so freaking awesome, and I feel like your channel is just this little corner of joy, and I come here just to laugh and hear your stories (which are some of the best I've ever heard tbh), I feel like I'm sitting around a campfire with many others, and youre the storyteller who's just passionately telling a silly story, and aaaaa, thank you so much for being a light in this world!! LOVEE YOUUU!
@katherineksweet
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your openness about postpartum mental health issues. Awareness is so necessary.
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
It’s my pleasure! It’s hard because I don’t want to ever scare someone or make it seem like it’s too much. But it is really difficult and it’s also not talked about enough which is what plays into the “I didn’t expect this at all” feeling!
@Gdzgyrl
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about PPD & PPA. It's so helpful to hear other people who have struggled with that, it needs to be talked about more.
@kellytrout9824
Жыл бұрын
WOW! I’ve never heard anyone say that PPA is a different *type* of anxiety. That is such a helpful reframing for me. Thank you!
@christingrady2133
2 жыл бұрын
YES! on the having more kids and not feeling like you could go through the post-partum again. I'm right there with you! I have one kid and he is three. It has been the best thing EVER!! I love being a mom! BUT the depression and anxiety I went through after was ridiculous! I also have had anxiety my whole life and didn't think for one second that I would have any issues dealing with it after giving birth but it is SOOOO different and severe. I can say for a fact that I just started feeling normal about six months ago. I'm so thankful that I have an awesome family who helped me and stood by me. You are not alone! It is not easy. I for one will not be having anymore children. I send you so many good vibes for your journey as a mother and just in general. Thank you for being real and awesome. I love listening to you. You always make me giggle and that is a priceless gift.
@savannahellis8888
Жыл бұрын
Watching this in 2023 knowing elyse is 20wks pregnant makes me so happy for her!
@lori5404
Жыл бұрын
Post partum depression nearly cost me my life. People who haven't been to the edge don't understand. ❤ were still here 🎉 5 years, but im still here!! 🎉
@victoriap1649
Жыл бұрын
I just wanna say that when you apologized for explaining too much, you don’t have to do that! I personally always have so many questions about everything and that usually bothers people. Listening to you is always so fun and freeing because you answer all the questions I have by explaining things so thoroughly! I love the way you talk :)
@rosehergenroeder427
2 жыл бұрын
Elyse!!! I can't thank you enough for taking this risk and opening yourself up. It is so validating to see and hear from people like me. I would give you 10,000 hugs if I could :)
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Rose! Means the world to me!!!
@MissVanHelsing
11 ай бұрын
Wow i love Elyses personality. I wish she was my friend IRL. She'd just be great, y'know. I like how honest she is, and genuine. Im always inspired to accept myself more after listening to her. Thanks Elyse ❤
@julieannascott
2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR TALKING ABOUT PPA! My ppa after my first child was debilitating. Thank you for using your platform to bring attention to this!
@bonita1228
2 жыл бұрын
I never watch a video this long. It was nice to learn about you. Glad you are having success with content creating.
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for your support! It means the world!
@shannonmckay173
Жыл бұрын
Youre the most down to earth YTer. I appreciate how real you are. Your videos feel authentic and i love that. Its refreshing. Keep up the good work. Youre awesome!
@bri.bris17
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you got a box girl!!! I really wanted to do it but not really since I don't like breaking down my own boxes... hence the large Stonehenge pile of boxes next to me.... and I live in AZ.
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
It’s an overwhelming task and I can empathize DEEPLY. If there’s not a deadline, I will let things pile up until I physically cannot handle the anxiety and then I just want to quit everything and run away. 😂
@bri.bris17
2 жыл бұрын
@@elyse_myers That's exactly where I'm at every day. Thanks for understanding and just being you.
@Jessyhaa
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! Listening to you talk about how much you value your time, thank you for making our time watching YOU so well spent! I enjoy how overboard and all over the place you get with your stories but still manage to keep us all engaged and tracking with you! Can't wait for all that is to come! Keep on being so fantastically authentical and genuine. We hold the heart you wear on your sleeve. 💗
@THElauren828
2 жыл бұрын
Your videos are such a light. They make me laugh and brighten my days!
@kathrynmitchell1535
2 жыл бұрын
I’m in the thick of the worst postpartum depression I’ve had with my 3rd go round. He’s 7 months. I feel guilty when he smiles and is so happy and I can’t smile back. When someone says they’re done having kids or need a long break before thinking about another, it could be because they don’t think they can actually make it mentally doing it again. They might be fearing the intrusive thoughts that come with postpartum depression and anxiety. Elyse, I can’t believe you almost cut that segment because I needed it so much. I only discovered you last week and you are saving me! It’s so great to know you can say you’re honestly happy right now.
@laurafelberg3138
2 жыл бұрын
Dyson Airwrap 🤣 Fuck ✅ Your honesty about having August is just so, so meaningful. I never imagined I’d have “just one” but after having “just one” I’ve realized I don’t feel like I’m missing anything. He’s my everything. I feel like I should want to and go forward with “giving him a sibling” but 5 years in and I just don’t see it happening. We need to change the narrative that kids somehow deserve or need siblings to be happy. All the love.
@andeej17
7 ай бұрын
Hahahha oh elyse I love you! I'm so happy you decided to create more content full time! Embrace it baby and ride that wave!!😊🩵
@catlady5398
9 ай бұрын
Elyse. You are a warrior and a boss . You have a way with words, that gets to the heart of the matter and resonates with all different walks of life. You deserve all the amazing things that have happened and continue to happen because you have worked beyond hard to get to where you are. Congrats on all your accomplishment. ❤🤗 from Atlanta, GA!
@She_ra-fk6lh
2 жыл бұрын
Love you and what you share with us. So excited for what you have to come, congrats Elyse
@bbwundercover
2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love watching everything you create. I look for your new content daily 🥰
@kelseyfortune5264
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like I always thought two years between kids was “normal.” Like if you wanted kids, they should be two years apart. Once I freed myself of that expectation and spaced my kids in a way that made sense for my physical and mental health, that helped me a lot. It’s totally fine to know that you might want another kid, but not give yourself any specific timeline for that to happen.
@makingbabytaylor
2 жыл бұрын
Totally! My older 2 are 2.5 years apart and I just can’t *imagine* having a spacing any closer than that. It was really hard and I literally don’t remember a lot of my daughter’s first year because of it. Our youngest was born 3 months before she turned 4 and that was a LOT better for us. I did still end up dealing with extremely intense PP anxiety (which was exacerbated by my husband’s frequent underways and deployment- he literally was away about 80% of our son’s first 18 months) but I was able to manage it better with my older kids more able to be independent and a much better support system! One of my aunts had 5 kids all 6 years apart, others in my family had only one child or none. It’s so important for people to do what is right for their own immediate family and ignore the pressures and expectations of others. It’s no one else’s business how many (or few, if any) children (figurative) you and your partner decide to have and none of their business on how closely or widely they are spaced apart!
@TheJokeeper
2 жыл бұрын
I love listening to you talk, you are so genuine. Love the longer video (I love the short ones too) this has allowed us to get to know you more. Honestly can't wait to see more content, super excited about the podcast. Keep being you !
@haakmom
2 жыл бұрын
Let me just encourage you that the whole motherhood/postpartum experience is WAY easier and more enjoyable the second time (at least it was for me). I had the same fears that you did, and honestly having a newborn is hard and always will be, but those aspects of mental and emotional health were so much better with baby #2, and watching my son become a sibling has been so fulfilling. I so admire your courage in shifting careers despite the fear and doubts. It's amazing how our lives can change when we intentionally face our fears. Thank you for being someone that I can feel good about looking up to! I struggle with sometimes debilitating anxiety and often pep-talk myself with "What would Elyse do?" and the answer is always "Just do it, scared"
@sarahstewart6191
2 жыл бұрын
Elyse, I appreciate your vulnerability and genuineness. Thanks for sharing your story! Praying for you!
@jenniferboberg8809
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your always, candid answers. Your openness is so refreshing. Can't get over how short a time you really have been doing all of this! You really have done a lot! Kudos!
@AgentMichaelScarn9
2 жыл бұрын
❤️Thank you so much for sharing and for your vulnerability. I'm not a parent myself but I can only imagine how many people related to your story and felt seen. So grateful to get to be a part of your audience. Thank you for all your stories and joy you share. I hope you and your family have a wonderful week!
@amyn8403
2 жыл бұрын
I love you, your humor, your humility and authenticity. 💖 I love how you take risks and follow your heart and keep a focus on balance. Thank you for sharing your beautiful self.
@Atlasintokyo
Жыл бұрын
You elaborate so eloquently do not even worry about the length of your answers I will listen to each word on the edge of my seat bc you can make anything a good story or energy
@elaineswan7726
2 жыл бұрын
Loved this video. You are so genuine and honest. You are also incredibly wise. I'm glad you are happy and that you have some supports in place 😊
@amandadavis8855
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your post partum anxiety experiences with us. I felt the same way but I didn't know what was happening. I do feel like I missed out on a lot of the newness of being a mom and some of that stress transferred to my son. I ended up losing 4 babies after he was born and going into a very deep depression that I am still working my way through. You are so smart for making the decisions you have made 🙏🏻💞
@KelsieCakes
2 жыл бұрын
Elyse. You are so strong. I am in tears. I could replace August's name with my son's name and it would be the exact same story. I love Theo so much, and I felt so broken for so long. I can remember my first mother's day thinking "why is everyone telling me I'm a great mom? I'm horrible" and believing that 100% percent. It is getting better and it is a long journey. I'm so grateful you're willing to share your experience. I'm still trying to find the parts that aren't as raw so I can be more open about my story. The way maternal mental health is handled in our culture just guts me. Thank you thank you thank you.
@wiredforstereo
5 ай бұрын
It's so amazing that everything Elyse has done has been since mid COVID. Tiktok informed me I had ADHD right around the time Elyse started so I must have been fed her content immediately because I quit TT cold turkey in April of 22.
@Clarabergeman2362
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about your PPD and anxiety. I also didn’t realize that pd was a different type of depression. My PPD didn’t actually happen until I had my second child. I was so blown away that I actually didn’t realize I had it until I had extremely intrusive thoughts about myself and my infant at the time. I honestly thought it was something that only happened with your first child, (because that’s what I had read and seen) that I brushed it off for far longer then I should have. It’s so hard to explain to someone too about what it feels like because I felt like it’s not something I could say out loud without also having self deprecating thoughts on being a mother of two. I still struggle daily and my girls are now 5 and 9. So thank you so much for being so open. Again thank you so much for being such an amazing human and bringing such joy and laughter to my days! Love you! Side note, I could watch you talk for hours because I can just relate so much 🤣🤣
@kyndalcowannn
2 жыл бұрын
You inspire me 🥹 I can’t get enough of your videos; they are truly genuine, pure, funny and everything good in between. Keep doin you sister!!
@AtlantaJones
2 жыл бұрын
Only been watching your videos for a couple months now, but my 12-year-old daughter absolutely adores you. And it wasn't until this video that I learned you were a web developer. I just turned 50 and have been a full-time web dev for 25 years now. It's inspiring to hear you were able to pivot to a new career. I have so many other things I want to do with my life, and wonder how long I can continue on this path doing the same old thing. Keep up the great work.
@jonasmyers494
2 жыл бұрын
I think I enjoy this video the most because it is the one that most authentically feels like spending a coffee with you. Hearing how you explain what you think about things and watching you process is very beautiful. Fell in love all over again ❤️ love you Brave One. Thanks for working so hard and sharing this.
@jillpeterson7768
2 жыл бұрын
As you walked us thru the difficult season of postpartum I couldn't help but cheer on your earlier answer of being happy NOW. As a mom of 5 (21-10), I didn't experience pd until my 5 th child. As dark and impenetrable as it was, I can't imagine the pressure you felt towards giving a sibling to August while feeling so low. Way to go! Congratulations! Well done! You made it! All the accolades and praise for finding this happy, joyful place NOW. It shines through and while I don't even know you, I'm so happy for you and all that you are achieving. Please know you have some subscribers in MT (my 10 yr old loves you!) Cheering you on ❤️
@valeriemillikan833
2 жыл бұрын
I'm crying (happy tears) over your eyes when you said "yeah" to answer the question "Are you happy?" As someone who shares the anxiety and other mental health struggles, this just... gives such... I don't know, hope isn't the right word, but I'm so...relieved, strengthened, and happy that you are happy.
@carrieduquin6734
2 жыл бұрын
You are literally amazing. I love you and your raw honesty and the fact that our brains are so similar. Thanks for advocating for everything you stand for and everything you are. ❤️
@kianaleilani
7 ай бұрын
Hey we have the same birthday! That's cool! I also crochet. I liked your new crochet tutorial on the daisy granny square. Thanks!🌻
@Tiara-rm7uk
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so completely genuine & authentic and true to yourself. It’s so nice to see someone relatable on the internet these days. I too have experience post partum depression and anxiety. I think the comments here speak for themselves in that none of this is talked about enough, so thank you. Thank you for being completely raw and real and sharing such a personal time in your life with all of us. While it doesn’t make me feel “better”, it makes me feel more “normal” to know that I’m not the only one who’s experienced these things. I’d also like to add that I think your feelings surrounding another pregnancy are so valid. It’s so scary to walk into that same space again. I hope that you’re able to find peace in this situation.
@jessicamurphy2387
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with PPD. This is definitely a topic that should be addressed more in the medical community for all of the mamas out there. It is a real struggle that so many go through yet so few will talk about and address it. You have helped me a lot as a mom with your content and keeping everything real. Thank you again and I appreciate your openness!!!
@specialenvy24
Жыл бұрын
"Yeah I'm really happy...I think I'm going to cry now" classic, love you!
@triciawilliams8406
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Elyse! You are such a joy and a ray of sunshine. I’m old enough to be your mom, which is good and awkward to say 🙄, but I am fantastic 👌🏼 at being good and awkward. Anyway, I’m so proud of you. You’re such an inspiration. I have a “go find less” shirt. It’s the most exciting thing I’ve ever gotten in the mail. I am so excited to watch your journey and will be here along the way. I keep thinking I will become brave enough to just make one TikTok video. It hasn’t happened yet. Maybe someday! Thank you for being so unapologetically you! I have so much anxiety and relate to you in so many ways when it comes to that part of your life. Thank you for being so open about such private things. You are changing lives. You are beautiful and your family is beautiful. I’m so glad you have the help you need now. Most of all I’m so glad you are happy. ✌🏼&❤️
@knightchick0789
2 жыл бұрын
This was so great! Thank you for always being willing to share so much. You’re such a gem, and everything you do is positively affecting people more than you know. ❤️
@WAMama84
2 жыл бұрын
I just adore you Elyse, I can see why Jonas is just so in love with you. Literally every time I see your face I smile because I know it will be something entertaining, light, happy or enlightening. You are the sort of content creator that EVERYONE can identify with, regardless of ideals, politics, or religion and I love that.
@taylorgatlin596
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing about your postpartum experience. As a second time mom who is 8 weeks postpartum and in the thick of ppd and ppa, your stories and content have really given me something to laugh at and connect with. Thank you.
@Lady_Lola22
2 жыл бұрын
I could watch you do Q&A’s EVERYDAY🤗 Thank you so much so much for your words of encouragement about postpartum as well. I LOVE YOU AND HAVE NEVER MEAT YOU🥰🥰🥰
@Jezodi
2 жыл бұрын
This was really beautiful to watch. I was fortunate enough to catch you at the taco story and have loved following your story, your honesty, and your beautiful life messages. I had only seen you on Instagram and am now subscribed on KZitem (HOW DID I MISS THIS ARENA?). Thank you for being you Elyse, and for encouraging all of us to be our own person too xxx
@dawnwebb9463
2 жыл бұрын
You bopped me right in the feels with this video. Thank you for being so vulnerable. I'm proud of you.
@rachelcannon6891
2 жыл бұрын
I'm also an August 20th baby who plays the viola! I initially switched to viola because all the violinists were divas, but I fell in love with the rich sound too. Nothing like a resonating C string. Thanks for being so honest and open about your struggles with anxiety and depression.
@Sentientpotatoh
2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thank you so much for speaking about PPA/PPD. I felt like everyone talked about PPD, but nothing prepared me for PPA especially recovering from a traumatic delivery. I'm currently pregnant with my 2nd and I hope that I can be more present during those early days. So grateful for all you share ❤️
@megmagruder7124
10 ай бұрын
Joy to you and your family. Thank you. This was so sweet and encouraging to watch.
@claireisacamel
2 жыл бұрын
Here I am, after hearing you talk about editing this on your stories and thinking “well now I wanna see the 48 minutes of footage you quickly peeped in that story” 🤣🤣🤣 Love getting to watch “Long Form Elyse!” - such a joy! 🤍
@elyse_myers
2 жыл бұрын
I actually had about 2.5 hours of footage I made for this over 2 days and I ended up deciding I’d keep some of the other questions and answers for another video since they were kind of all over the place! So you will for sure get to see it all!! Some of it just got really heavy really fast bc my ability to filter my words is basically non-existent and I didn’t wanna scare people off just yet hahaha 😂
@Bunburryist23
2 жыл бұрын
This was delightful, endearing, enjoyable. Like getting coffee with a new friend. Thank you for being willing to sit and talk with us for so long, about so many things. ♥
@sarawofford
2 жыл бұрын
Not to be obnoxious (I know) but I’d just be really careful about partnering with Nestle, they have a really really bad reputation globally for atrocious human rights practices and aggressively pushing their formula products in Africa to the exclusion of breastfeeding such that kids ended up undernourished and sick from unpotable local water. They’re one of the most hated companies in the world.
@BearRaine
2 жыл бұрын
Came here to say this! Please don’t work with Nestle, Elyse, you are too pure!
@erinpufunt
Жыл бұрын
You have such a beautiful and powerful conversational style. I could listen to you talk alll day long!!!
@alyssalamb2446
2 жыл бұрын
I loved this so much! Your transparency and honesty is so refreshing but also this whole video was just so entertaining and funny!
@amyjo196
Жыл бұрын
So excited for you for all the opportunities coming your way. Congratulations love your content
@ashleysmashley3839
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for discussing post pardom anxiety and depression. It's such a different beast and it knocked me out with our second child. He's 3 and I still struggle. Not as much but some days are hard. Good job, you're a wonderful mom.
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