我还蛮欣赏你能勇敢地说出你这时所经历的心情和心理的负担。 其实你在这里所说的原因都有可能发生。这也是属于我最近在研究关于我们的成长心理的课题。Almost more than half of us here come from Asian upbringing and perfectionism is part of the major disposition we all share here. I admire your work and your honesty sharing your vulnerable yet courageous experience here. 同时我也是在学习口语的英语哦。我还蛮喜欢你的视频哦。整个氛围都感觉蛮温柔情切的。我有种个人感觉你会是个很好朋友。
學會如何愛自己,聽the inner cryout 是真的很不容易的過程。btw, thank you for your self-disclosure, it insights me a lot. 節錄一段聖經的話與你分享,"我只有一件事,就是忘記背後,努力面前的,向著標竿竭力追求". (腓3:13)
What a wonderful self-searching! This video not only helped you to comb your mind, but also gave us chance to know your more, which is precious and crucial. We may not see each other in daily life, but we can try to understand and support you! Lily, slow down and reflection are so important, which can re-build our life. I always remind myself about it.
I really appreciate that you said you would like to focus on the quality of the work, but not the quantity and start to feel about your working. Hope you enjoy this new balance which I think it's healthier for you and get happier.
What you said in this vedio really encourages me a lot! I'm trying to find some ways to make me recover from the burnout. I really admire you for the attitude that you treat your life and work! Thank you!
it is normal that people quantify everything we produce or every result that we get in order to measure and compare. it is hard to have assessments without any actual numbers to back them up. such as: teachers need scores to know how much students know and absorb from courses. however, the whole world is not solely composed in numbers. numbers and assessments are only helping people to have better understanding about works, results and everything that can help we making better decisions or improving ourselves. they should be helping but not dominating our life. we are supposed to use tools not controlled by them. this world is not merely made up by digits and graphs. you just need to be open minded and think outside of the box. you just may be able to see some other choices which are different from you are standing. best luck.
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Lily, what you've shared just struck a chord with me. 一直都有在看你的影片,打從你在加拿大的時候,因為本身對語言學出發的觀點就很有興趣,且我的研究所論文跟頻道其實也是跟語言相關,你真是我的終極欽佩目標。很佩服你的生產力,也很欣賞你在語言教學這一塊投注這麼多熱忱跟創意!看到你分析為什麼會一直沈浸在自己的生產力達成還有高工作強度的原因也有逃避心態,缺乏真實關係建立時,真的是當頭棒喝欸!完全有同感~感謝你分享這些 :) 你超棒的,休息一下不會有事的XD 多休息!練習耍廢!
I have been lost and demotivated for about 2 years but I still pushing myself try to be productive but I realise it don’t work. No goals life is just like a zombie life. It is glad to hear you overcome this burnt out situation, and I hope I find a way for mine too.
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