1. Ask about your non-negotiables- a) faith- are you born again? What is faith to you (not a superficial question) Listen to the answer they/their family give and the answer their lives tell b) am I the only one you're proposing a relationship to? Are you already in a relationship? (Or situationship) Talk as much as you can. C) Character d) what is your assignment? do your assignments align? Have conversations about your assignment and understand if/how you can either fit in or support 2. Health - Hereditary health issues Other health issues Genotypes 3. Conversations about money -who works or who doesn't? -how do we spend? -who pays for what? -do we have a joint account? 4. Point of view about marriage, expressing emotions and love, job roles e.g. what makes you feel loved?(love language), having children/raising children, adopting 5. What are your views on sexual purity? Boundaries 6. Observe/deduce their ways of resolving conflict. How do they act when you have an argument or disagreement? When they are angry with family or people at work? Are they malicious? Do they stay angry for days? Remind you of the past/keep being bitter? Remember that some things/questions come up in marriage that you couldn't have asked. Observe. Note the person's track record on character, decision-making. Marriage amplifies who people really are.
@mofimTV
2 жыл бұрын
gr8
@omolabakeabolarin
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@lumina852
2 жыл бұрын
You mean non-negotiables
@rejoiceirabor8017
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the summary
@olamideakande9564
2 жыл бұрын
I’m a Muslim and blessed to have come across your page. I’m a huge fan. This topic is very important and thank you for bringing it up. However I would like to ask that ideally between a man and a woman , who is supposed to bring up this conversation to ask and also how can one deal with a man that isn’t ready to discuss this important questions even after the woman has signified the importance of asking these mentioned questions
@ao.6916
2 жыл бұрын
If the man is not ready to discuss, it is a RED FLAG
@tunde6573
Жыл бұрын
Note: Red flag means a very bad sign that things won't work out as you aspire. It is DANGER in short.
@priscillachinsembu4669
4 ай бұрын
Run..... Run.
@ReenelT
2 жыл бұрын
"YOU DON'T HAVE ANY FINANCIAL OBLIGATION TO SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT MARRIED TO." I just say make I just write it in bold.😃
@OmotolaIlesanmi
2 ай бұрын
Please can you talk about long distance relationship How do you get to know your partner that way
@chiomafavor1043
2 жыл бұрын
I came across this page two days ago and watched the wedding night video..it was so hilarious to me cos I’ve never experienced anything like it and I learnt a lot about how first(wedding) night can be; thank you. This is my second video and you just earned a subscription and a new stalwart family…yay!!🥰
@dorcasgitari4125
2 жыл бұрын
@Chioma Favor You will love it here 😊😊
@TheStalwartLovers
2 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the family Chioma 🎉🎉🎉🎉💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
@adetomitumininudolapo3727
2 жыл бұрын
First to comment. I can't wait to see this powerful combo. Stalwart lovers ft Laju iren. Eiii God!!!
@calosdan1991
2 жыл бұрын
My Fiancee introduced me to Your Channel last year. You have been a blessing to Us both. God Grace keep dwelling upon your household Amen
@dorcasgitari4125
2 жыл бұрын
I remember a while ago I was listening to you and a friend was like “are these the Stalwart Lovers ❤️?" She told me how honest and real you are and I couldn't agree more 😊. Kenya is following and we are learning. Thank you fam ❤️
@TheStalwartLovers
2 жыл бұрын
We love you Kenya ❤️❤️❤️
@moraagekonge8736
2 жыл бұрын
Kenyan❤🇰🇪
@munezaderick1033
Жыл бұрын
Even Uganda is watching and learning. Blessings
@oyetayodunsin782
2 жыл бұрын
I have just been getting a lot of lessons about marriage these days m sure God is really preparing me for this. Thank you for this session 🙏 ❤
@manassehomoye3267
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a newbie 😁, I loveeee your contents and wish to be on your channel one day 🤩🤩🤩 COMMUNICATION in relationship can not be emphasized 🤲🏽🤲🏽... Thank you stalwart lovers.
@olaideanuoluwapo570
2 жыл бұрын
I was really blessed by this session.. I was struggling with my convictions about my partner, i am grateful for this session it helped me alot. And now i have quality questions and cojnversation to ask and speak to my partner about. Thank you Uncle boo and Sister bae. I celebrate you Pastor Laju iren.
@omoladeshittu5335
2 жыл бұрын
I always love Laju Iren. She's free-spirited and enlightened.
@judithvutagwa8667
3 ай бұрын
So educative I love you Stalwart Lovers ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😂 Once a fun always a fun.🎉 Thank you for this
@Iamesinuadzaglobal
2 жыл бұрын
i loved this session and i urge you all to go watch her series, there is so much to learn from the couple and the issues discussed. The stalwart lovers we are looking forward to another session with Mr & Mrs Iren
@legendcouple9295
2 жыл бұрын
I truly enjoyed watching, the wisdom from pastor Laju Iren and stalwart lovers is so much, God bless you for this real marriage talk
@Obi_maria
Жыл бұрын
You guys are really amazing! ❤️❤️ The fear of the Lord is indeed the beginning of all possible wisdom! May God bless the breasts that gave you suck!
@tamarapreyemichael5645
2 жыл бұрын
It's just funny how it's easy to subconsciously think proving to someone that you love them is by giving them some level of physical intimacy or engaging in sexual activities just for them. I didn't think I would ever think this way but I did, in my subconsciousness. Thank you for the question "how do you want me to love you?" not the 'sexual way' This video was truly enlightening. I was blessed, a lot was made clear for me. Thank you Faith and Michael, Thank you Pastor Laju
@lemuelataisio.8274
2 жыл бұрын
What a lessonful seminar. God bless you. I have been stranded on how to get this answers but thankGod for this forum. More grace to you both. Please how do I do a straight chart with you guys for some private questions
@judithagbidi6497
2 жыл бұрын
I love her voice and laughter🤩✨✨ and I learnt a lot from this video, thanks so much ❤️
@isaacayodele6069
2 жыл бұрын
PL is so intelligent. Omo!!
@oluwadamilolamary9236
Жыл бұрын
I always thank God for being one of your fans... I love you❤
@LIGHTEDHEALTH
2 жыл бұрын
This conversation with pastor Sola has really deepened down into my soul, I feel sorry for myself -the lot of important things I ignored. Thank God I have been reminded this morning that God loves me more than he Hates my mistakes and ignorance. 🙏 I really love this section. I want to get the book as well, Soonest 😊❣️
@erascy1668
2 жыл бұрын
This is a whole package for me especially at this moment and stage in my life.Thanks for this session 🙏🙏🙏
@bukkyshabi2580
2 жыл бұрын
Common! Pastor Laju is so brilliant! Learnt so much. God bless you guys
@omolabakeabolarin
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you mama @laju iren . God bless you ma. That you Sis bae and uncle boo. Very informative. 💕 Please sir and ma, can you state if there is any difference between courtship and dating in any of your upcoming videos. When I was in the Nccf family house, we had some arguments concerning this topic. Thank you in advance
@sonmadiary2425
2 жыл бұрын
I love mummy Laju's laugh🥺
@Peace-wm7vc
2 жыл бұрын
Great podcast guys, I watch all your shows as a subscriber. I just wish you guys can improve on talking with interrupting each other or talking at the same time. You have valuable lessons, but then it becomes difficult to listen to two voices speaking at the same time 🤔🤔
@dan-ingbianmvena1115
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video ❤
@yemiiolagunju
2 жыл бұрын
What a lovely amazing educating section .... I'm blessed
@estheridume5241
2 жыл бұрын
I've always been seeing your videos on my home page but for some reason, I never watched them. I'm so grateful to God that I'm watching this at this point in my life... You've definitely gained a subscriber
@doyinO
Жыл бұрын
Marriage doesn’t change people it only amplifies who they really are ❤
@abiolaloveth6391
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir and mas. I'm so blessed by this page. Though m quite not in one but preparation can never be too much. Insightful and full of impacts from PL❤️🔥
@abbasfavorite677
2 жыл бұрын
Super excited to see my Mama in this session. You all continually share so much wisdom!!!! I'm amazed at how much blessings you all are to the body of christ. I pray that God will continually uphold and bless you all. Thank you so much. Much love from my side 💞
@OmotolaIlesanmi
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing ❤
@ugochi_onwumebiri
2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this at this time Thanks to Stewart lovers ❤️
@SEUNNY2306
2 жыл бұрын
This was such an expository vlog. I really enjoyed every bit of it and was blessed by the questions and answers. Keep up the good work.
@TheAdedolapo.
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much for shooting this video. I absolutely loved it and I learnt alot from it. Thank you PL for joining the Stalwart Fam... many more f these videos. Love you all❤
@lydiaboafo
2 жыл бұрын
I love you guys, I have subscribe both of you channel , I really enjoy watching your videos, God bless, by His grace I also have my KZitem channel 😃👌👏🥰🙌🙏
@faloyeoluwatoyosi9554
Жыл бұрын
It's really a beautiful one. Thanks for this
@gloriaeguahon2369
2 жыл бұрын
How many times can I like this video for the invaluable gems of truth shared bayi? Pastor Laju is such a blessing to the body of Christ ❤️.. Ejoo, epp us oo. We wouldn't mind another fideo It's really refreshing and encouraging to have godly examples in marriage. May your union keep blossoming in Christ. Thank you so much TSL❤️🥰, God bless you jaburata
@barbaraholaliamegashie2343
2 жыл бұрын
I am the 275th person💃💃
@sandrananor4725
Жыл бұрын
Please what's her channels name
@PhilipThrives
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Always a blessing listening, watching and learning from the Stalwart Lovers. God bless. ♥️♥️
@timilehinoyin5234
2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this and Laju Iren is a blessing, thanks guys
@davidordor2920
Жыл бұрын
I'm really greatful for this content🙏🙏 But I do have a question... What do I do in the case where the person I'm dating already is not really close to God .
@TheStalwartLovers
Жыл бұрын
Encourage them to improve on their spiritual growth. Share your growth experience and invite them to programs that can change their lives for better.
@Hephziibah
2 жыл бұрын
Wow 🤩, i love every part of the video. Thanks Uncle Boo and Anty Bae. Special shout out to anointing, Madam Laju Iren, thank you. ✌️🧔.
@agbalakweudokanma1581
2 жыл бұрын
You all are amazing. You instill values and wisdom. Good to have Pastor Laju Iren on the channel today.
@abigailemmanuel215
Жыл бұрын
Sorry am asking these questions How old were you when you started dating??
@TheStalwartLovers
Жыл бұрын
22 and almost 19
@adetolaadeola306
2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video 😊, I was glued to my screen all through 😁.
@dan-ingbianmvena1115
Ай бұрын
I love this video
@promiseamma558
2 жыл бұрын
Wow...this is sooo impactful. I love everything about this video 🥰🥰 THANK YOUUUU!!!!!!
@oluwatosinbello2883
2 жыл бұрын
oh my God! I am so blessed even though i am married but i can still inculcate those points into my marriage. God bless Pastor Laju and the host uncle BEA😂
@blessingolatomiwa786
2 жыл бұрын
Finalllyyyyyyy!!!!🤗❤
@TheChayilson
2 жыл бұрын
WOWWWW! REFRESHING and RICH. Thank you Mas and Sir for sharing.
@wuraolagoke
2 жыл бұрын
This is so interesting and educating. I had fun even while learning...Thank you Pastor Laju Iren, thank you Sister Bae and the host[uncle boo]
@abosedeomonona1087
Жыл бұрын
I love this. I just sent it to my teenage daughter to watch. God bless you
@meritobasi8703
2 жыл бұрын
You finally brought PL🥺💃💃💃 Much love from this side😘😘
@dunnidimka9618
2 жыл бұрын
Whoop!!! PL! 🔥🔥🔥. Loved every bit of this. Thank you so much. 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@Amyspicy1
2 жыл бұрын
Great teacher
@joyologun8747
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this session. I'm glad and blessed I got to watch this. This is full of lessons.
@tatetimmy7710
2 жыл бұрын
Awwwn..Pastor Laju!
@samuelohai8451
2 жыл бұрын
Na sooo my people
@elamedward2235
2 жыл бұрын
Keep doing this, it goes a long way to so many souls. Thank you and God bless.
@caraepetuire
2 жыл бұрын
Wow i can feel from my vission that your wife is pregnant oh congratulations to her may God continue to bless your home..
@chisomnnamani
Жыл бұрын
Lmao 10 months and your vision never come to pass oh. Please stop womb watching
@assouerelly7597
Жыл бұрын
It was awesome
@niyiolaolu4637
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. Thank you PL, Uncle Boo and Sister Bae. I have one biggggggg request. Can we have HARD COPIES of Dating Intelligently still sold in Nigeria? (Indirectly, will there be a reprint? Every single store says out of stock except Amazon)
@chisomnnamani
Жыл бұрын
You can get hard copies at any CCI branch
@hannahafolabi7162
2 жыл бұрын
I so much love this session ☺️ Stalwart lovers always bursting my head. @ pastor laju iren Thank you so much for your depth of wisdom was so blessed..Like don't worry my husband will have to come and thank the stalwart lovers at that time. Much love 🥰🥰
@the_FirstLady
2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom! Thank you very much sir and Ma's. Let he that has ears let him hear. Thanks so much
@LifeofOlamee
2 жыл бұрын
Another videooo😊😊🎉
@sarahiliya9783
2 жыл бұрын
I love this video 💯 especially the money part..... Thanks Ma'am and my couple crush stalwart lovers.
@bihanang1802
2 жыл бұрын
Tnk u all for this! Pls I wish to ask if; as a Christian,say you know nothing about sexual life, is it ok or does God permit you to get ideas, information about how to go about it before marriage? Cuz I remember one of your videos I watched about; "your 1st time " u guys said you got information about the act from different sources, so pls if Yes that you should get information about sexuality before marriage, what is the right source? I'm learning alot from you guys !🙌
@kismith7670
2 жыл бұрын
Really good information. I learned alot ! God bless you all for setting the standard of bible and kingdom relationships.
@joygreat001
Жыл бұрын
This is so enlightening. Thank you so much.
@MediaApostolos
2 жыл бұрын
Love every point stated here, thank you so much for blessing us🙏🏻🙌🏼
@beautytawiah7021
2 жыл бұрын
What an education I just received !! I'm blessed to be part of this family. In facts the guest said it all and I have learnt alot even though I'm single ☺️☺️
@mokehinde-roshe
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this timely video. 🙌
@stephaniemoneke8434
2 жыл бұрын
Super super helpful !!! God bless you 💕💕💕🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@priscillaedison9061
2 жыл бұрын
I came 🥇
@suliyatrasaq2936
2 жыл бұрын
Faith Be observant How they treat others Ask questions about them from peoples in their lives Their assignment(s) and is not necessary it be the same Their perspective on marriage Talk about finance
@blessing_esua
2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful session. I love Laju Iren. God bless you ma. Stalwart lovers, you both are doing well. I love your content, God bless you. PS: Sister Faith still said drop your comments down below 🤭😂
@philipowoseni5048
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this wonderful topic it's needed at this point for me. Keep up the good work. I love 💕 you big
@donotsettle647
2 жыл бұрын
Sex definitely blinds you. Relationship is definitely for interviews and doesn't mean there's no room for fun but this time God defines the Fun :)
@roselinejames5712
2 жыл бұрын
Pastor laju iren😍😍😍😍 It's always exciting watching your channel and you make godly relationship and dating right look very achievable, like yes even in this generation you can still do it the God way "Grace saves and Grace empowers"✍️✍️✍️✍️ I pray the beauty in your marriage never fades🙏🙏
@Obaadunni
2 жыл бұрын
Hey.... 💃💃, My favorite Pastor and my favorite couple. A beautiful and inspiring conversation
@olufisayoademilua8509
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Such an enlightening session ❤
@boseshigaba1812
2 жыл бұрын
This a great one I love 💕 every part of this session... More grace to your ministry Sir ma
@ogochukwukerenchidozie8110
2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this today. Thank you so much for sharing this. No knowledge is ever enough. I was blessed watching this. God bless you you all. ❤️
@LIGHTEDHEALTH
2 жыл бұрын
sister bae😭 I almost fell into depression, my phone got broken by a thick hafty trailer loaded with weighty goods last 3 months 😭, that made me Not to watch your channel videos for a while, and you didn't even notice ☹️ after you come and saying"Sister bae supporters", I no support again ☹️😭. Anyway, the phone has been fixed,few days ago. But I actually really felt bad, truth be told ☹️ Sha won't stop me from loving my relationship advisers, trainers and coach(don't know if I spelt it right) Lastly, I have come up with a bag full of questions about relationship, personal ones anyway, I don't know how I will get my answers from you guys but I hope I eventually do get them. Good morning to you ❣️💚
@augustineonyemuze9068
2 жыл бұрын
This is really wonderful. I enjoyed the talks. What a combo of my favorite people . God bless you
@kingvicx
2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this video. God bless you guys! God bless PL! I'm a huge fan ❤️❤️
@joyansa1461
2 жыл бұрын
Wow .... This totally blessed me. So many important conversations to have.
@debbysunny3614
2 жыл бұрын
Waw waw waw. I so much love this. God bless you all 💖💖
@licee1024
2 жыл бұрын
I love this woman jor...she spoke beautifully....Thank you starwart lovers more oil to you guys
@kenny_ajibade
2 жыл бұрын
It was so educative. I learnt a lot.
@poiemameila5494
2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting. Thanks Ma
@LIGHTEDHEALTH
2 жыл бұрын
So stalwart lovers, my first question is, how do you think I should handle this situation? I and my dating partner are still schooling, he's far older than I am but we will be graduating the same year. He haven't ever spoken about marriage, he just says things like "bae, don't leave me please, just stay with me, I love you". like he doesn't literally tell me he has Intentions if ending up with me. And now, I know I want to get married. I feel like I should ask him what he wants from us at the end Asin his intentions for our relationship, but I don't want him to think I am being too forward or feel like I want to pressurise him to end up with me considering the fact that he has nothing serious doing financially, I mean he can obviously not carry marriage and family on his head right now. Meanwhile,I love him,and from most indications he loves me too. Because this is a long distance relationship, yet he tries his best to keeps in touch with me on a regular. I have never felt abandoned at all. He tries his best to check up on me, listen and attend to my needs, makes me a participant in his decision making, we pray together online, and always talk about how to improve our relationship and graduate successfully. But not marriage...
@LionRoarTeaching
2 жыл бұрын
Just to offer my sincere advice. I don't know how old you both her, but first I think that you should put off marraige for now and concentrate on graduating. Secondly getting married is a huge decision that requires a lot of prerequisite. Maybe after graduating and you both are settled and you both have a more clearer picture on where you are going in life, then you can sincerely sit him down and you guys can discuss marraige in more detail with a clear goal. Finally pray about it, I cannot overemphasise the need to be led by the spirit to help you along the way.
@ojaboegbe9647
2 жыл бұрын
Love the videos but word of advice wotk on your thumbnail
@nininaomi2931
2 жыл бұрын
I really wish to have a lovely and Godly relationship as it should.. but they’re really rare and I’m mostly unlucky with guys and love.
@TheStalwartLovers
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe you are looking for love the wrong way. A godly relationship can only be given by God. If you make up your mind that you want a man that God wants for you, you will have a different testimony.
@TheStalwartLovers
2 жыл бұрын
Watch these videos on choosing a life partner... It will help you. kzitem.info/door/PLrMVfKu_eA1bi1ZGcGWG7GQBHfqbs_eBk
@boujeelyne
2 жыл бұрын
"Grace forgives & grace empowers" word
@misterfuray
2 жыл бұрын
This is so good. Wisdom here and there. I celebrate grace 😁😁😁
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