That husband in the first story absolutely has blood on his keyboard and you can't convince me otherwise.
@asdfdsf-s4u
Ай бұрын
literally Hitler. even worse
@UltraMarineBlue
Ай бұрын
100%
@copiusgrimus6671
Ай бұрын
fr
@NEPAAlchey
Ай бұрын
If a single mean message from a stranger online causes you to unalive you were gonna do it anyways and had bigger issues. The guy is pathetic but I've seen how y'all talk about your political opposition on Twitter ain't one person online able to clutch their pearls at this story.
@Fillyann11
Ай бұрын
@@NEPAAlcheyuh, it's not a single message. Idk if you know about Leelah Alcorn but that was in part a coordinated attack that was HORRIFIC.
@yazajag
Ай бұрын
I bet if husband in story 1 got the same troll harrassment back and got bombarded by online bullies he wouldn't be able to handle it. This shows his true character, harassing children like this is not a hobby. I would leave him.
@kelsmister
Ай бұрын
Exactly. Wife should have started posting on his posts and bully him back. See how much he likes it.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089
Ай бұрын
Yep. I guess he’d be totally fine with someone “relieving stress” all over his daughter’s SM if she were older? I mean they’re not real people right? Sounds like narcissism. He doesn’t see anyone besides himself as real with an actual life and feelings. I don’t condone bullying of any kind. But it would be nice to see everyone he bullied to give it right back to him. He couldn’t take it past 24 hours and would probably be throwing tantrums left and right. Did bullying make him taller? Give him better hair? Make him suddenly buff? I doubt it. But he seems to think breaking others down will make him a better person. He is literally a danger to the public and should be in jail. He can tell his fellow inmates how ugly, stupid and fat they are and see if that makes his raggedy ass feel better.
@Arob4343
Ай бұрын
She should share his u/
@UnhingedMind
Ай бұрын
I'd pay to witness that.
@yazajag
Ай бұрын
@kelsmister I'm with you, I hope she does.
@aerieleah533
Ай бұрын
Troll doesn't equal cyberbully. Troll is far too whimsical a term for what this waste of oxygen was up to. He's a bully.
@DeanDraxon8752
Ай бұрын
No exactly. Trolling is supposed to be obvious funny posting, meant to waste the time of idiots who fall for obvious satire. It’s not meant to be harassment and telling people to off themselves.
@11regnartseht
Ай бұрын
Troll does equal cyberbully. Bantering is one thing. Getting off on making other people upset is bullying. Doesn't matter how you label it.
@threecards333
Ай бұрын
@@11regnartseht Troll usually means targetting ideas or institutions while bullying targets people. But many "trolls" are actually just bullies who hide between the equivocation..
@DeanDraxon8752
Ай бұрын
@@11regnartseht being a dick =/= bullying, and I’m about to put that word on shelf til y’all learn what it means. Bullying is targeted, repeated behavior that persists even when the target is making an effort to ignore them. With trolls, generally they don’t reply if you don’t.
@asdfdsf-s4u
Ай бұрын
I reported him to reddit LGBTPQIA+++ squad was dispatched to deal with him
@MrCrunchytime
Ай бұрын
Story 2 - It's normal for OP to not feel anything at the news of his Ex's death. It's the same for him as it is for her family; he's already mourned her. This is what meth does. On that note, he should be wary of her former friends. She didn't just randomly decide to start using meth one day. Someone introduced her to it. Someone close to her.
@bigjalapeno7061
Ай бұрын
Damn
@deniseeulert2503
Ай бұрын
This story was really awful. Drugs can be devastating.
@RunicSigils
Ай бұрын
Not true at all. My brother has tried all kinds of them all on his own. People often use them for escapism, you don't need to be introduced to escapism by someone else. Sounds more like you're that dude or at least in a similar situation and still don't want to accept that they had/have a problem all of her own creation, so you blame others.
@ThingInTheHall
Ай бұрын
He had already grieved her death before she died, 100%
@JamesDavy2009
Ай бұрын
In my head a drugs PSA starring Rachel Leigh Cook ran. It's the one where she shows an egg representing your brain and a frying pan representing heroin. You can fill in the rest.
@Happykastle
Ай бұрын
I’ve heard the first story on another channel and all I can think is: This man never wanted to improve. All he wanted to do was stay in his comfort zone (wife and a child). He didn’t want to improve for his wife, he wanted his comfort zone so he could go back to trolling. He is obsessed with bullying people, this isn’t just a stress relief. That man is an addict to negativity and making others feel horrible. He chose being a horrible person over his wife and child. He could’ve changed for the better, he could’ve actually improved through therapy. But he really chose BULLYING over his in person, real life family.
@CooperGal24
Ай бұрын
He's the high school bully who never grew up, never changed and never thinks about anybody else BUT himself. Karma's gonna get this guy hard one day.
@flikkerflash
Ай бұрын
What a Chad. He's living his best life
@decimator1088
Ай бұрын
W
@Josh_the_jester
Ай бұрын
I like the "excuses people make to be awful "get a thicker skin" or "the world isn't sunshine and rainbows" etc. To those people who that, you're correct. And you're not help, and you spouting all this nonsense is just fuel for the fire
@stevenscott2718
Ай бұрын
the first story is just Gerald Broflovski
@soogymoogi
Ай бұрын
Story 2 - Most tattoo artists won't do face tattoos on people who don't have a lot of/other highly visible tattoos already for this sort of reason. RIP, Kim.
@davidharshman7645
Ай бұрын
It does seem pretty self destructive, in a way that most people wouldn't want to participate in.
@Tustin2121
Ай бұрын
Probably another reason to disbelieve the story. In the last update, OP said that he told Kim a year prior that he didn’t want to get back together and got a restraining order, even though the update was posted only 3 weeks after the update about talking with her face to face?
@Kenneth2413
Ай бұрын
@@Tustin2121yeah. The timeline is off.
@rigelbo6346
Ай бұрын
That was my first thought. No good tattoo artist would do a face tattoo to someone that has no other tattoo. That's insane
@kstricl
Ай бұрын
One, it was probably an artist that did drugs too. Two, meth is super addictive and completely changes personalities. Kim likely had an underlying, undiagnosed condition like OCD which made it worse. I had a neighbor with OCD that did meth, it was only because her mother kept paying her bills that she wasn't homeless. In the end, the meth destroyed her.
@danielbrant6740
Ай бұрын
_"It's nice to have a story with a happy ending every now & then."_ After the two previous stories, that's certainly an understatement.
@louib716
Ай бұрын
Rest in peace, Kim. Addiction is hell. Op has likely been through a lot of emotional whiplash and is out of gas. That's why they're numb.
@dracko158
Ай бұрын
Story 1: Dude basically told the victims he bullied that it is their fault if they couldn't take his trolling? Disgusting. There are many ways to relieve stress, like take up new hobbies or hang out with friends or something like that, not insult people and tell people to UNALIVE themselves, what?! Dude really picked trolling over his own family? Wow. This guy got his priorities all messed up.
@user-hleubfk20
Ай бұрын
Here is a hobby I think might relieve his “stress” go to the gym, or take a walk, do something that will benefit you instead of discouraging others like a prick.
@ramses7433
Ай бұрын
The dude took inspiration from Gerald Broflovski lmao,. (south park reference)
@user-hleubfk20
Ай бұрын
@@ramses7433 literally.
@cecejamesable
Ай бұрын
The dude really couldn't pick any other hobby other than trolling?
@yoyohayli
Ай бұрын
@@cecejamesable I think he's lying when he says it's just a "hobby" done solely to "relieve stress." I think he has a malignant personality disorder that is making him seek out victims to psychologically abuse and that also is preventing him from understanding the concept of empathy. He is addicted to cyberbullying.
@MissLeigh232
Ай бұрын
Story 1: I'd love to see him take 1/8th of what he dishes out to other people. Most bullies can't handle being on the receiving end.
@danielbrant6740
Ай бұрын
That's usually why they're bullies. To them, it's better to victimize than be the victim.
@lancerevell5979
Ай бұрын
That's why these animals do it online, it's anonymous. He wouldn't do it face-to-face. He knows he'd get his butt kicked. 😡
@abiean222
Ай бұрын
all bullies are cowards
@readjordan2257
Ай бұрын
Thats how you can tell whos a troll and whos a true believer or just a sincere disagreeer (understand thats not a real word)
@egg6144
Ай бұрын
Imagine if OP revealed his usernames. I’d be happy to serve him some
@yoshi4ever122
Ай бұрын
The temptation to stoop to the level of the husband in the first story and tell him to do the same thing he's been telling others to do is so strong. Even use his own logic against him, "it's the internet, so what?" "If he gets offended by it that's his problem." That sad excuse for a man is pathetic and deserves nothing but the worst.
@storyredditnetwork
Ай бұрын
Cyber bullying is a crime in most places.
@codm22712
Ай бұрын
If u mean in the us free speech be damned Hu
@callanightshade8079
Ай бұрын
@@codm22712 theres a difference between free speech and hate speech
@buddyburrows
Ай бұрын
Nah
@AJPlayinGames
Ай бұрын
@@codm22712 freedom of speech is not freedom from consequences of public opinion 😅
@truthseeker9249
Ай бұрын
Megan Meier's Cyberbullying Act. She h***ed herself because she was being cyberbullied on myspace and it turned out later to be her ex-friend's mother that was doing it. Anyway they passed that law and Megan's mom started a foundation.
@silverflight01
Ай бұрын
Story 1: Oh yeah, I saw two other people cover this one. It is not stress relief if it is at the expense of others, not to mention that this was done when out of OP's sight. Worst case scenario, if OP didn't take the divorce route, he could've also bullied OP's daughter when OP isn't around. If he doesn't see people online as real as an excuse to bully them, he might have something broken in him This man needs all internet access revoked
@KadeStringer2.0
Ай бұрын
I don’t think he will bully his daughter .
@destinedtogame
Ай бұрын
@@KadeStringer2.0he will beat her. Why are all your takes terrible
@ainzooalgown3927
Ай бұрын
@@destinedtogamebet they are the troll.
@SoldierSpiderx
Ай бұрын
I bet all my money that OP husband was a bully back in the days and never grew out of it and instead bully people face to face cause he either saw people got in trouble for bully or he a coward that he bully people online cause it online and it can't be track back to him and I so glad that OP divorce him but I hope she go for full custody cause I have no doubt, Op husband going do either two thing, bully their daughter or worst teach their daughter to bully other and OP going be going to school cause their daughter in school bully other and she learn it from him
@alvarogarrido5334
Ай бұрын
If they guy is doxxed he would shut up so fast nobody will remember it.
@shortwave737
Ай бұрын
Story 1 - Jeeeeeesus. This guy isn't a Troll, he is a menace. Even going after people who are posting on self improvement boards? That is just wrong on so many levels. Also, as RSlash said, he was ok with THROWING HIS WIFE AND CHILD OUT so long as he could continue. I am all for a little trolling, but this is not only way too far, it's some kind of weird freaky obsession at that point. What a WEIRDO.
@SoldierSpiderx
Ай бұрын
I bet all my money that OP husband was a bully back in the days and never grew out of it and instead bully people face to face cause he either saw people got in trouble for bully or he a coward that he bully people online cause it online and it can't be track back to him and I so glad that OP divorce him but I hope she go for full custody cause I have no doubt, Op husband going do either two thing, bully their daughter or worst teach their daughter to bully other and OP going be going to school cause their daughter in school bully other and she learn it from him
@annika5893
Ай бұрын
I think sometimes they should taste their own medicine. Eye for an eye. Let's see how he likes being "not a real person online so it's ok to bully".
@Prommy666
Ай бұрын
Nah, he real.
@11regnartseht
Ай бұрын
So what's the difference between "a little trolling" and what that guy was doing? How is one ok and the other isn't if they're both the same thing? There should be no acceptable level of bullying. Trolls can suck it, all of them.
@AzureKyle
Ай бұрын
@@11regnartseht There's trolling, which is typically just a little harmless teasing, and then there's flat out bullying, which is what OP's husband was doing, telling people to kys and stuff. It's like the difference between poking fun at a friend and having a good laugh, and just tearing into them and making them cry.
@leadpoisoning717
Ай бұрын
As a former addict, addiction absolutely turns you into the worst version of yourself.
@RomsHackerz
Ай бұрын
Congrats on your sobriety
@asdfdsf-s4u
Ай бұрын
ex druggie yet still a liar no - dr%gs brings your true self out
@ThingInTheHall
Ай бұрын
I see former. Good job on being clean. I know that definitely can't be easy.
@wmdkitty
Ай бұрын
Nah. Weed brought out the best in me.
@stickiedmin6508
Ай бұрын
Not in my case they didn't. I left the worst version of myself behind a long time ago and drugs were a *big* part of making that happen. It was more than worth it.
@KaptainSuz
Ай бұрын
First story hit hard when it got to the part where he apparently bullied Leelah Alcorn. Learning about her death, reading her note, had a pretty big effect on me way back when, and is part of the reason I wound up working hard to come out and live as myself later on. OP's ex-hubby is human filth.
@AshendrisSilvermist
Ай бұрын
It brought tears to my eyes. He was already so bad before that reveal. My heart is both broken and racing with how upset I still am over Leelah and others suffering as she did. My youngest is 18 and trans and it scares me how hateful and violent people are with their misinformation and inability to mind their own business and let others be happy in their own skin. I hope society quickly copes and accepts and eventually fully embraces such mental health services that are crucial to the health and wellbeing of those in need. I hope you (and everyone) never has to deal with such hate and vile treatment, but because our world is forever flawed, I hope that when if it happens you don't let them get to you and remember that their hate, ignorance, and insecurities do NOT determine your worth in any way. You are loved. Leelah is loved. None of you should ever feel ashamed for being yourselves. No matter how spiteful they are they can't take that away from you. I'm sorry for the ramble, this made me emotional. Be safe out there.
@BASED877
Ай бұрын
His*
@BASED877
Ай бұрын
You are not the opposite of what your chromosomes are
@pentagrin4157
Ай бұрын
@@BASED877 You know a LOT of people who are born as men and women *don't* have the right chromosomes, right? But otherwise look completely like the gender their genitals present?? There are women with vags with XY Chromosomes even though that's SUPPOSEDLY a male thing, and there are men with penises who are born with XX chromosomes (typically a female thing) this makes them intersex is and its FAR more common than people think, because almost nothing changes about a person's physical appearance (though it does happen, like women who were physically women their whole lives having undropped testicles in their bodies) so the chromosome excuse is nonsense. Gender and sex are both different and very complex things, biology has had a lot of new discoveries since you were in school, and we live on a floating rock in space, why get so pressed over what someone is?
@AshendrisSilvermist
Ай бұрын
You're really choosing to side with those who used conversion therapies similar to the kind of torture used in wartimes on their own children? And isolated and bullied a teenager, in the case of Leelah's parents - their own child, into suicide? So you think mental, emotional, and physical abuse is the acceptable outcome? Someone should commit suicide or be murdered, so long as no one is being called by a pronoun or name YOU don't approve of? Why? If you think you should have that kind of control over someone else's life, then you should have to live by their decisions for you in your life. If you don't like that idea then you really should mind your own business and let people live.
@d.phantomfan1216
Ай бұрын
Story 2: to answer your question R/, yes. Even the smallest thing can have an insane reaction good or bad. And takes one days and someone can be completely hooked on it until they’re gone. We feel sorry for them. We hope they get better but sometimes they don’t and that’s all there is to it. No one could help her because she kept the secret, she did terrible things, and even if it was because of the addiction, she still did them, that’s why OP or her family can just forgive her now that she’s gone.
@hardcorenativextreme
13 күн бұрын
That is the thing, she said she took it to keep up at work. Whoever gave her that idea or however she got that idea was the small thing that grew. People do not truly understand it always one thing or a few that leads to this disastrous situations. Person stealing to get by, after awhile would try to go for the big score to keep them ahead. Addiction has a lot of skins and vessels, sometimes one leads to another
@lexidetar9312
Ай бұрын
The first story is disturbing enough, but knowing that Leelah Alcorn ended her life in 2014 means this guy has been bullying people online for at least a decade
@Arceaus98
Ай бұрын
That story was posted in 2014
@skunkrat01
Ай бұрын
Omfg
@gabriel.8501
Ай бұрын
Trans dude here. Yeah, bullying sucks. It does a lot to people especially trans people
@lexidetar9312
Ай бұрын
@@gabriel.8501 I don't mean to be that guy but bullying does a lot to everybody. I mean yeah when you're a minority you'll definitely feel it in a different way (this coming from a black person that's been bullied by white people for being black and black people for not being black enough), but I dont believe any group has it especially worse than another due to multiple different factors. Bullying is bullying and it shouldn't happen period
@gabriel.8501
Ай бұрын
@@lexidetar9312 yeah ik I'm saying it does suck not yk that it's worse for one thing than another bc it's not. Honestly iv been bullied because I'm white
@nils920
Ай бұрын
Story 1: As someone who endured 3 years of bullying during my last years of Primary School, I can without hesitation say what OP’s (hopefully ex)husband is doing is unforgivable! I hope he has a pretty good lawyer for the inevitable day when the parents of a kid who committed suicide because of his harrasment drags him to court!
@breezy3392
Ай бұрын
I hope he has a sh*tty lawyer who gets him a max sentence
@yazajag
Ай бұрын
Same I was bullied in school from elementary to high school irl and I do not respect or condone what that man did. Idgaf if people think it's free speech (clearly they do not understandwhat that means,) harassing people on social platforms deliberately is hateful and shows a huge flaw in his character. I would immediately leave my husband if I ever found out he did anything like that. Disgusting behavior.
@rainniedayze7947
Ай бұрын
I flat out hope he doesn't have a good lawyer. He deserves the full extent of prosecution for his actions
@nils920
Ай бұрын
@@rainniedayze7947 I agree. I was only hoping for his sake.
@Shuichisaihara5499
Ай бұрын
If he doesn’t, prison won’t be kind to him
@Tantejay
Ай бұрын
Story 1: I don't think you get it, Dabney. The guy is NOT seeing any of this as "real" - that's the protective shield he has around him and it's firmly in place. ESPECIALLY if one of his "tension reliever" killed herself because of his bullying. He HAS to keep up the stuff - or he has to face the consequences for himself. He has to admit TO HIMSELF that he isn't a good guy. That he drove somebody into suicide. And frankly: If you're weak enough to bully people on the internet, focusing on vulnerable kids or other people with vulnerabilities, you do NOT have the strength to face that realization. You do NOT have the strength to change. Especially with the high you get from seeing people cry because of your bullying. Bullying is a power move. It is pure, unadultered power you have over another human being. It is in YOUR power to make them cry, you can command their emotions, you can command their actions, you can command almost everything just with the thread of get another dose of cruelty. This power high is dropping fast - and then they need another one, like an addict. He's definitely like a drug user: He cannot let go of the drug, no matter how much he loses. And this one is wicked: The more he looses, the more he will cling to his drug. In all honesty, this should count as being a serial killer.
@kryw10
Ай бұрын
It IS psychopathy.
@bigjalapeno7061
Ай бұрын
Yea you're probably right
@Tantejay
Ай бұрын
@@kryw10 And it was wise from OP to run. There is no say, when he would turn against his wife and kid.
@wolffriendinus
Ай бұрын
His ass needs to be thrown in jail with the key thrown into the deepest trench in the ocean.
@cactusgamingyt9960
Ай бұрын
How is bullying equivalent to being a SERIAL KILLER
@ajjamsen694
Ай бұрын
Story 1 : this is exactly why you shouldn't listen to most people online. A couple months ago, there was this troll who commented the "it's been [x amount of time] and no views, bro fell off" trend on RSlash. I'd call them out cause why tf are you trying to bring down a complete stranger? So they would be down to your level? Well, on 99% of my comments for RSlash, he reply the same stupid comment basically summing up to "no one cares what you think". Does it bother me? Lol no, cause it just shows how pathetic and small *they* are. Do not let small, insignificant trolls bring you down. They are NOT worth the effort unless you wanna troll them back. It always geeks me out cause they can dish it but never take it lol 🤡
@tailsofchaos
Ай бұрын
The dish and can't take it is always true. And I'm sure the "husband" is one of those people on that feeling.
@asdfdsf-s4u
Ай бұрын
I really really *really* care about your opinion can you reinforce how great and nice of a person I am? thanks🤗
@TheDaniolip
Ай бұрын
Such snowflake comment lol
@kryw10
Ай бұрын
I love when you get them to “no one cares what you think” because the comeback has entered the chat on its own.
@kryw10
Ай бұрын
@@asdfdsf-s4uyou are fucking AWESOME and I hope you have the best possible day you could have. Also, that shirt is cute. Whichever one it is. ❤😂
@1bendykat
Ай бұрын
For my major, Criminalistics, I took a class called “Alternatives to Imprisonment” which was basically like “Advanced D.A.R.E.” It described what happens to your brain and body for every drug imaginable in graphic detail. Most people are only exposed to the sugar-coated version of it. Addiction is a terrifying and terrible disease.
@bigjalapeno7061
Ай бұрын
I heard that D.A.R.E. didn't even work. Also, it's dumb that they sugarcoat something so serious
@TheHitsubasa
Ай бұрын
First story is a piss poor excuse of a human. It doesn’t matter if it’s online or he thinks they’re not real, they ARE REAL HUMANS BEHIND THOSE SCREENS, and he is a psychopath/sociopath to think it’s acceptable to cyberbully literal children.
@bella-rolland
Ай бұрын
if they are not real, why bother commenting?
@wakeangel2001
Ай бұрын
For the story about the face tattoo/drug overdose story, I'm pretty sure the company she worked for has to take some of the blame for that. A toxic work environment that's so stressful the employees have to use meth to keep their performance up should be looked into
@TheNormExperience
Ай бұрын
Honesty if she got a face tattoo for a first tattoo at a parlor, I feel like they should take some responsibility also. I’ve never ever heard of a parlor, or tattoo artist that would condone that. Then again, if her drug of choice was meth, I’m guessing it was less of an actual tattoo parlor, and more like someone’s garage…
@silverflight01
Ай бұрын
Story 3: Sometimes I wonder why some parents have that "You owe me [Insert unbelieveable amount of money] because I birthed and raised you" mentality, most times there isn't any real explanation, but here it just sounds like D-Bag mom here doesn't want to work and just wants the money, even though she WAS already getting money from the BF she just broke up with (and government aid). Well, good on OP to eventually save up and live with a friend so OP doesn't have to put up with her s**t anymore
@mrlugh
Ай бұрын
Yah. Somehwat on a tangent, i hate when people insist you should be close to your parents no matter what, but have never had to survive the kind of relationship that OP has.
@JamesDavy2009
Ай бұрын
@@mrlugh _The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb._
@cecejamesable
Ай бұрын
God, meth ruins another one. That really sucks for OP and his ex's family. I thought it would be like a brain tumor or something, but nope, drugs.
@SoldierSpiderx
Ай бұрын
yea her get a full face tattoo out of nowhere, that shock everyone and come to find out she was doing meth and instead get the help she need, she never got the help and even try get back with OP probably try get money from him and when he refuse she destroy his car and she died overdose and OP don't feel nothing and heard her sister told him, that show OP have some still relationship with her family, I wonder if OP going stay in contract with the family cause to me it sound like they are good people or cut them off complete which it understand
@moosecat
Ай бұрын
I always think of stories like these when people say we should legalize all drugs, and that "it's a victimless crime." I'm pretty sure that Kim's family and OP would dare to disagree.
@victoriastephens7441
Ай бұрын
@moosecat the drugs being illegal didn't stop this from happening though either.
@cecejamesable
Ай бұрын
@@moosecat I don't care how some people slice it, some thing shouldn't be legalized. Drugs being one of the top ones. There's too many harmful addictive substances that will turn your brain to mush if they were allowed to be legalized. The only one not as harmful is weed and I don't consume their products.
@cecejamesable
Ай бұрын
@@victoriastephens7441 Doesn't matter if it's illegal or not, people will do what they want to do.
@jrockz133t
Ай бұрын
That's not trolling. That's cyber bullying. Trolling is fine. Cyber bullying and harassing people isn't. Also some of your takes are just bad and need to be called out. We aren't trolling or bullying, we just notice you get super emotional when you hear anything about a kid, and ignore everything else around that. Or just ignore things in general
@asdfdsf-s4u
Ай бұрын
with the low quality of humans trolling is often wrongly taken as bullying, telling anorectic person "you're obese" if she ask "am I fat" is somehow sometimes taken as bullying while it should be taken as funny and ridiculous to someone with properly working brain. be grateful I don't take your comment as bullying and report you to the police
@krazycats564
Ай бұрын
I think trolling can very much be bad. Some is funny. Ken M is hilarious. It's hit or miss. I'd imagine RSlash does get trolls as well as people fairly calling him out.
@OpenDoor19
Ай бұрын
The fact that you, as an adult (I'm assuming, because a child has this mindset), think that trolling is okay because the other person is behind a screen is pathetic. If you aren't willing to say this shit to their face, then keep your shit to yourself
@jrockz133t
Ай бұрын
@@OpenDoor19 trolling is like being a comedian. A lot of people think they are a comedian, but in reality they are a bully. But not all comedians are bullies. There's a line between being funny and being cruel, and not everyone understands that line. Same can be said about pranksters and same can be said about being a troll. The job of a troll is to piss someone off, not bully, but get the person angry or at least annoyed. That's it. Now, like I said, there's a line between bullying and being a troll. That line is very thin, and most people don't understand how to do it. They think being a troll means being cruel, and it's not
@MyRandom2Cents-wl9wq
Ай бұрын
Story 1: People sometimes don't realize that the words you say *really* can hurt others. Yeah people can block, report, change accounts, ect when someone is being horrible to you but...the pain of it all doesn't go away. It's more than just a "mean thing to say". A lot of people *do* get hurt because of these.
@uncredited_user2602
Ай бұрын
Nuh uh
@genderqueermercury
Ай бұрын
For those unaware, Leelah Alcorn was a transgender girl who ended her life over transphobia from her parents and online. So it’s bad bad. Rest in peace Leelah.
@theBlackBearrrr
Ай бұрын
Yeah I'm familiar with it. Her story is beyond sad.
@gc6096
Ай бұрын
O7 Leelah
@sebforce1165
Ай бұрын
Oorrah, girl (referring to Leelah*), may you find peace where none was offered. What a dumb, hateful world we live in.
@SoldierSpiderx
Ай бұрын
OP husband need to be in jail but since it was online, the cop can't connect to him that he literally cost a dead and he see noting wrong with it, this man it a fucking coward and a bully
@achannel4485
Ай бұрын
@@Prommy666 "lol I'm just so edgy XD"
@Tustin2121
Ай бұрын
Story 2: Sorry, it’s a sad story, but I keep getting distracted by the weird time jumps. How did the update get posted 3 weeks later, but has him talking about how he hasn’t seen her for 6 months and in fact he has a restraining order on her…? Like, I’m pretty sure a restraining order takes a while to get…
@nekoloons4844
Ай бұрын
Could be an emergency restraining order maybe? If she slashed his tires, yelled at him and was on heavy drugs, maybe the police thought she was dangerous enough for one. I've no clue about the time jumps though
@jsmith1291
Ай бұрын
Story 1: OP presumably wanted to marry a man and married an overgrown child instead. Adults find better ways to relieve stress than picking on other people, then blaming them for their own hurt feelings over it.
@tokyobobcat
Ай бұрын
Within 7 seconds two days in a row, 😂... also story 1 that guy needs to go to jail. Cyber bullying is a crime in most places.
@G-y_m
Ай бұрын
No one cares
@drewgraham
Ай бұрын
@@G-y_mtrue, except you that cares enough to respond 😂
@HereWashThis
Ай бұрын
He suddenly cares because he responded with “no one cares”? This kind of argument is so stupid. Why has the internet made people so lazy?
@drewgraham
Ай бұрын
@@HereWashThis he cared enough to respond, so yeah. When I don't care about some random youtube comment I don't spend my time responding to tell someone I don't care lol. That's just fucking weird.
@bryanlindsay3261
Ай бұрын
@@G-y_m found OP1’s Ex Husband
@rhysepoos
Ай бұрын
Therapist: "So how do you relieve stress? Do you play golf, go for a run, or have a drink?" Husband: "Oh, I bully teenagers over the internet"
@JamesDavy2009
Ай бұрын
_(slowly backs away)_
@The_momur
Ай бұрын
R/, you know what’s grinding my gears today? Dangerous street drugs are so relatively easy and cheap to acquire, but people, mostly in the U.S. and not eligible to apply for Medicare cannot afford insulin, so they ration the small amount they can afford.
@wmdkitty
Ай бұрын
Fkd up, innit?
@JamesDavy2009
Ай бұрын
I wouldn't go to that wacky shithole unless they made me the world's first quadrillionaire.
@snarkventuregaming4746
Ай бұрын
As Tamora Pierce put it "Some people are builders and some are destroyers." The destroyers end up alone and wonder why. Lol
@Sanodi21
Ай бұрын
I think I remember hearing the first story on another channel but the ex sperm donor has blood on their hands. There's no way they should be anywhere near their child and OP should report the account names he uses and even IPs to Reddit to block him for good. Or as close as can be anyway.
@karikur0
Ай бұрын
He bullied Leelah Alcorn,,,, that line made me start crying in the car. I was only 14 when that poor girl killed herself but she was so fucking sweet and talented and she suffered so much from her family she didn't deserve that guy on top of everything,,, that's so horrifying
@bigjalapeno7061
Ай бұрын
That's really sad. What did she do?
@SentaiYamaneko
Ай бұрын
@@bigjalapeno7061 Her family sent her to 'conversion therapy'. She ended up walking into the road and getting hit by a truck, largely due to enduring this from her own family.
@leovonlion
Ай бұрын
We love you Rslash! Don't listen to any trolls trying to bring you down in the comments. You help make our days more bearable.
@Glacial11
Ай бұрын
Story 2: I just feel so bad for OP. Meth ruins lives and it’s ruined another family. Rip Kim
@blairl3091
Ай бұрын
I'm not gonna lie, with that 1st Post, I'm absolutely bewildered as to WHY OP stayed with her husband after finding out he is not only a bully, but a disgusting person to others online ESPECIALLY children and fragile people- and to go as far as REPOSTING some of those people's personal images on his own account directly making fun of them as well!!!! That initial instance in finding that, I personally would have taken pictures of those posts and comments and pictures showing it was his account as well as time stamps as evidence to use for court not ONLY for divorce but even as evidence for full custody!! ( to add to that last remark, the fact that they had a baby girl just makes it 100x worse in my opinion since OPs whacko husband seems to target women and girls more ). And then his "reasons"??? To relieve stress? That he's not doing anything wrong? That it's not an issue?? Absolutely not. I know it's not AITA but OPs husband deserves 4.5 out of 5 B.H and OP herself should have 2 out of 5 B.H for giving him multiple chances and not laying down the law in their marriage. Just my opinion of course. Open to hear you guy's thoughts as well. Also, happy Monday✨️
@bigjalapeno7061
Ай бұрын
I wonder if he would've bullied his daughter
@blairl3091
Ай бұрын
@bigjalapeno7061 that's exactly what I thought!
@LordBoZman
Ай бұрын
First Story: Dude need to get trolled himself by Reddit. Second Story: Yikes what a mess that was. Third Story: Glad OP got out of there eventually.
@richardtaveras3593
Ай бұрын
Anyone else get reminded of that South Park episode where Kyle’s dad was trolling everyone on the internet as “SkankHunt42” when listening to that first story?
@bigjalapeno7061
Ай бұрын
Lol
@JamesDavy2009
Ай бұрын
That was an entire season.
@osohombre
Ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing.
@PhantomFerret
Ай бұрын
Before my mom passed, she would say how, when she lived with her mom, her mom would take her entire salary from her, saying she deserved it. My mom was so brainwashed by her mom that she thought that was normal. My mom moved away from her mom not long after I was born.
@bigjalapeno7061
Ай бұрын
Why would people even have children if they're just gonna do that to them?
@Robin93k
22 күн бұрын
@@bigjalapeno7061 That is exactly why! They want submissive beings, they can abuse and use for financial gain.
@sarahserenityqueen117
Ай бұрын
OKAY. I had to pause at @2:55 because this pissed me off! It's the LITERAL same excuse and bs given to me growing up when people, kids AND adults, told me to end myself, bullied me to the point of depression and all kinds of other trauma. Hearing that excuse again really made my blood boil. NO ONE KNOWS WHAT OTHERS GO THROUGH OFFLINE AND DOING SOMETHING LIKE THAT WILL PUSH THEM TO THEIR BREAKING POINT. I WOULD KNOW!! IT'S HAPPENED TO ME MULTIPLE TIMES! EVEN AS AN ADULT!! OP PLEASE divorce this trash and file for full custody. Your husband is the definition of bullying and just trash. You deserve better.
@onlinegames4019
Ай бұрын
meth.... its the switch. just...... dont. Have seen childhood friends take that path, all horror stories at this point.
@JamesDavy2009
Ай бұрын
My home state had a crystal meth crisis years ago.
@zaneps151
Ай бұрын
1. That guy had no intention of getting better but just wanted to try to hide it better 2. She had no intention of getting better either and just wanted a funnel of money 3. Any parent that demands to be paid back raising a child from the child (you know your actual job as a parent) is a terrible person
@meddlinmegs
Ай бұрын
The way I physically reacted to hearing he might’ve contributed to Leelah Alcorn’s suicide. Like absolutely shaken and did not expect that name to pop up. OP’s ex-husband is a monster.
@smartaMartini
Ай бұрын
What freaking tension does OP's husband have that bullying strangers can alleviate? What a POS
@charleneblack2792
Ай бұрын
Wow. An addict who never misses work, has money for a face tattoo, and keeps her addiction to well hidden that no one close to her realized? I've seen some of those things true, but never all at once. Got instance, you'll never find a man who's good-looking, rich, and treats you well. You'll have to give up one of those attributes.
@myrabeth77
Ай бұрын
The way it was phrased was kinda vague (possibly because OP himself wasn't super clear on the order and timeline of events that happened outside his line of sight). I *think* (again, not totally clear) she started using before the tat and subsequent unemployment, but that "snap" moment that turned her life into a mess may have been only supported by drug use, not directly caused by it, and heavy usage came later. It sounds like she was well on her way to a breakdown before she started using, so the meth may have hastened those events along, but not been the true catalyst.
@snake5solid
Ай бұрын
Story 1: OP is too good. If I found out my SO was such a disgusting bully I would be packing bags. There is no excuse for what he is doing and no, he's not doing it to relieve stress. He's getting a kick out of it. Sooner or later it will come out to hurt either OP, her kid or both. In the anonymous veil of the internet people like him will show who they are. Believe it. If you find your SO doing shit like that - ditch them. They are not worth it and they will start bullying you too. And this pathetic excuse for a human should be in jail for cyberbullying. Story 2: How about... just not using drugs? I really can't find sympathy for junkies. It's not just their life they are hurting but other people's (family, friends or even strangers) lives. Story 3: Kids don't owe their parents anything. They weren't asked to be born. They were forced into existence and it's on parents to provide them with whatever they need.
@paranoiarpincess
Ай бұрын
That last story just blows my mind in a way no other could. I mean I know it's literally the least insane of the bunch but as an extremely poor mom of a kid who will be 15 this year, I still couldn't IMAGINE shaking down my kid for money*. Her job, as a mom is too take care of her kids. That's momming 101! It's too the point that when money is getting a little tight, the sweet soul will all but beg us to let him help and every time, we sit him down and say: “taking care of the family, is our responsibility. We can't get some things right now because money is tight, but those are just small extravagances. Well cut out name brand food we may have had a preference for. We can't get any little gifts or things like candy or desserts, but there will be enough food, you will have all your needs met, and we will pay off all of our bills on time. Your money is YOURS and there may be a day we need to ask to borrow some if something unexpected happens, but we're not there now, were trying out absolute best to never be there, and we will pay you back before literally anyone or anything else. We are the parents, you are the dependant. We provide for you. You'll also know if it gets that bad because mom will have sold off all her collectables long before we get to the point of asking you for help.” So yeah, I genuinely can't understand how nor why this sorry excuse for someone claiming the title of “mom” can demand their own damned child to just GIVE her a percentage of their salary. Frick! (*All this said, I'm thinking a little deeper and there is one caveat to this. I'm also on government assistance. The difference and potential second difference are that we live in Canada, not the UK, and I'm on disability support, respectively. The way the support here works is that the household received a set amount dependent on things like rent (to an extent, i.e. we receive the max amount of $940/m whilst living in the literal cheapest 2 bedroom in our city for $1.1k), living expenses ($900&change) for 3 people to get food, clothes, bills, etc. And no, it's not really enough but we make due with child support ($300&/m) and child benefits ($300-$400/m). The important thing here though is that there is an upper limit to how much any of us are allowed to/earn on top of this. We can't have a combined more than $20k in savings, and (and this is the important but here) were not allowed to make over $200/m before the system cuts the disability cheque by 75% of our earnings. So what does this mean? If my son does get a job, the government may (I haven't looked into it yet fully) take what he makes from us. More I would STILL _never_ all my kid for money nor demand it off him, I _could_ see someone barely able to survive, begging some of their kids earnings to make up for what had been clawed back for what in my opinion, are abusive reasons. Parents should never be forced to take money from their kids just because the kids happened to be born to disabled parents. It's a little fucked up honestly.)
@kristashafer93098
Ай бұрын
Leelah Alcorn was a trans teen with fundamentalist Christian parents who refused to accept their daughter’s gender identity. They cut her off from supportive friends and forced her into “therapy” to “cure” her. **eye roll**. In her last note, she wrote that she figured she could never be happy and her authentic self, so she chose to unalive herself instead of living a miserable existence. Her vile birth givers dead named and misgendered her in social media posts about their grief, in her obituary, and on her tombstone. So disgusting. I said at the time that when a bunch of strangers are more accepting of your child’s gender identity, chosen name, and correct pronouns, THAT is when you have truly failed as a parent. Rest in Power, Leelah.
@d.phantomfan1216
Ай бұрын
Story 1: did he come up with those excuses on his own or did other trolls give him all that garbage? I can’t even be mad, all I can do is pity that pathetic piece of crap. Internet trolls are just pathetic bullies that want to be able to harass random strangers consequent free. They’re not worth being upset about it, especially a pathetic grown man that tell teenagers to end, fat shaming, racism, and so on. And OP is right not to want that around her child. He will never be sorry and will always have an excuse to why he’s not wrong.
@SoldierSpiderx
Ай бұрын
I bet all my money that OP husband was a bully back in the days and never grew out of it and instead bully people face to face cause he either saw people got in trouble for bully or he a coward that he bully people online cause it online and it can't be track back to him and I so glad that OP divorce him but I hope she go for full custody cause I have no doubt, Op husband going do either two thing, bully their daughter or worst teach their daughter to bully other and OP going be going to school cause their daughter in school bully other and she learn it from him
@thedorkisreal3073
Ай бұрын
As a transgender individual, Leelah Alcorn was one of the first transgender people i knew about. When i was 12, my highly queerphobic catholic mother gave me unrestricted access to the internet, and i started coming across videos such as lgbtq+ tiktok compilations - one of them mentioned the word "transgender" and i didn't know what that meant, so i googled it. The Wikipedia article on the word had a section about lgbtq+ youth and mental health issues and it mentioned her by name. I remember reading her story, and being absolutely disgusted with how her parents treated her posthumously. I remember crying for her and and also crying for the fact that i had discovered a word that resonated with me, and that i could risk experiencing what she did just by existing.
@tiff3770
Ай бұрын
I hope you have love in your life it made be sad i may be cis gender but I will open my arms to the trans community
@Komona
Ай бұрын
First guy isn't a troll and I hate how people try to change the definition of an online prankster, baiting people for a reaction for the lulz, to a hateful person who harasses people online.
@davidharshman7645
Ай бұрын
I mean...to be fair, you're trying to take a difference of scale and turn it into a meaningful difference of quality. Those "Online Pranksters" are people who seek entertainment from the suffering of others. They justify their actions the same way and find entertainment from the same thing.
@ShursGarden
Ай бұрын
@@davidharshman7645You’re oversimplifying it with that description. Trolls just try to annoy people. They’re the kind of person that would be going “I’m not touching you” on a car ride. Cyberbullying is just flat out trying to inspire despair. Annoyance and despair are two different things.
@11regnartseht
Ай бұрын
Go troll people in real life and see how long it takes to get punched in the face. Not long, believe me. I'm from the before times when people had to get their troll off in person. It's all bullying and shit behavior.
@frootsnacc6790
Ай бұрын
Trolling is the iWave where a bunch of people tricked the internet into thinking you can charge an Apple phone with your microwave; this isn’t trolling, it’s bullying and harassment
@R.DeMora
Ай бұрын
Exactly. Real trolling is a art
@suitov
Ай бұрын
It's tragic how people always seem to get knocked up by these gross excuses for humanity before they discover what's behind the mask.
@Gabbz737NEW
Ай бұрын
To be fair....i could see someone missing the red flags on this guy if all his bad behavior is strictly online. I will say though, she gave him too many chances. The moment he said he didn't think what he was doing was wrong she should have left him. People are dumb, make mistakes, and change. A person with the lack of moral compass to see that they're wrong, never change.
@suitov
Ай бұрын
@@Gabbz737NEW Abusive freaks often hide their natures until they think they've got you trapped - by marriage, pregnancy etc. Then the mask can slip. But this guy? He clearly didn't see any reason to come clean ever. He probably knew she'd take issue with it, however much he tells himself it's fine and nothing to be ashamed of.
@GreenBeret1903
Ай бұрын
@Gabbz737NEW I hope he takes her to court and gets full custody, the wife is mentally unstable for breaking up a family over nothing
@Tustin2121
Ай бұрын
@@GreenBeret1903- Found the ex-husband. 😂
@nicholasparsley7183
Ай бұрын
Wow that first guy is a straight up monster. People have committed SUICIDE because of that kind of online harassment. Not to victim blame but the wife really should have known that evil like that can't be fixed or changed, should have went straight to divorce.
@Robin93k
22 күн бұрын
"But my public image gets hurt when I divorce him in my Christian community, and I'll be ostracized." Probably her~
@TsukiKageTora
Ай бұрын
OP says that he should be grieving when he isn’t when Kim passed away. He grieved her at the same time her family grieved her when she decided to take substances and change 100% from her original personality and character. She turned to that rather than talking about any of her feelings to her family or her fiancé. Or even a therapist. She made her bed and she lied in it while everyone grieved around her a year or so prior. Now that she is gone, no one really is upset and that is on her not OP or anyone else.
@bigjalapeno7061
Ай бұрын
That's just sad
@TsukiKageTora
Ай бұрын
@@bigjalapeno7061 what is? Asking because I don’t know specifically what you were saying sad to
@condorboss3339
Ай бұрын
Story 2: I worked for a bank for several years. The work is incredibly stressful. Kim may have tried to relieve the stress with drugs, which actually made things worse, putting her in a downward spiral.
@twistysunshine
Ай бұрын
That first one- he chose pushing teens to off themselves over his family. He could only think of hurting people as a way to spend time on himself. Op is 100% correct to be hesitant and worried of her daughters safety around this man
@jerryeubanks3177
Ай бұрын
Drugs and alcohol scare me. I come from a long line of alcoholics. So, I have never had a single drink in fear of getting hooked. I don't judge those who do get hooked. It's a disease.
@Dog_in_tree
Ай бұрын
I got into hard drugs because my life was already in the gutter, and I figured it couldn't get any worse. I figured I had enough self-control to not actually get addicted. I had no idea that coke would completely fuck up my personality. I went from being a depressed hippie to a depressed degenerate. I dumped my girlfriend, which she did deserve, but i tore into her and was incredibly cruel about it. She was cruel to me for a long time, constantly lying and cheating, and just fucking with me like she was trying to get me to dump her, but it still wasn't like me to yell at her and call her every name in the book. She was crying and saying "i know this isn't the real you." Which just pissed me off more. I still feel pretty bitter about all her lying and cheating, but i feel gross about how I handled it. It's been 6.5 years since i touched coke, but I'm still an addict, and i don't see the ever changing. Don't do drugs, y'all.
@JamesDavy2009
Ай бұрын
I have the drugs PSA of a guy walking around the room in circles and going faster and faster running through my head..
@Mr_Timi1
Ай бұрын
I feel bad for the guy but also for Kim and her family, I had a friend who died to an overdose. Then his sister died of an overdose 6 years later....
@hazybubblegum
Ай бұрын
the tattoo story, i think it's weird that she found a tattoo artist willing to tattoo a face especially on women on the face if she wasnt already covered everywhere else, because of the exact reason op said jobs. I had to go to 5 different tattoo shops before i found an artist who was willing to tattoo my hand and every artist said it was because i wasnt covered everwhere else because it could effect potentional job oppurtunities, i would imagine they would have the same rule for the face.And the only reason the one i found did it was because i was already in a career in the trucking industry and they dont care about tattoos as long as theyre not offensive.
@Tustin2121
Ай бұрын
Just another reason to think the story is fake. I got too distracted by how OP apparently didn’t know how time worked, talking like a year had passed when in fact it was only 3 weeks later.
@snake5solid
Ай бұрын
If people can find drug dealers then they can find a shady tattoo artist.
@Maria_Miciano_5
Ай бұрын
Second story I honestly don’t know what to say. I feel bad for everyone involved. But who knows what Kim was doing for the last years of her life? Very unfortunate.
@TsukiKageTora
Ай бұрын
OP said that he should feel something when he isn’t filling anything about Kim passing away. He grieved Kim just as her family grieved her when she decided to get onto drugs, instead of trying to work out her feelings with a therapist, and change her entire character and personality.
@astrology_2
Ай бұрын
7:29 hmm… I think I’ve heard of another popular Kim who was known to be batshit. Someone made a whole song about it.
@ninjabluefyre3815
Ай бұрын
Kim Catrall, Kim Catrall, Kim, Kim, Kim Catrall.
@alorarhodes1568
Ай бұрын
Story 1. Yeah in the United States is an adult cyberbullies a child and that child takes their own life, they can be charged with first-degree murder. Oh and if you're an adult, telling a child to end their own life can be taken as a threat. This dude is seriously lucky that none of the families or the victims have made an attempt to press charges
@Purpleshade29
Ай бұрын
6:44 I hear that it's just the internet excuse all the time And it's disgusting There's someone real behind the screen And bullying like that causes people to commit unalive on themselves On numerous occasions, and to Bullying harass someone just because you're not happy with your life and you want to vent your frustrations out But are doing it that way there's something mentally wrong with you there is something deeply disturbing about you borderline psychopath or sociopath in my opinion
@resterAnonyme
Ай бұрын
2nd Story: Can confirm Japanese and tattoos are not acceptable. Yakuza (Japan Mafia) wear tattoos. When I (American Military) met my wife and she told her father, the first thing he asked her was does he have tattoos, I don’t.
@Spacemanct
Ай бұрын
Op in the first story, your husband is not nice and kind.
@kushybunny8026
Ай бұрын
Dude, story one is Gerald from South Park, where Kyle and Ike lost respect for their dad and probably grew apart. I hope he sees this too because what parent does this. That means you shouldn't have kids because you can defend your own when you're hurting others kids
@sagejungwirth4155
Ай бұрын
Story 2- turning to drugs doesn't just magically happen one day. It makes me wonder what in her life drove her to such a horrible end.
@stevesmith4630
Ай бұрын
People say coke is a hellava drug, but meth is on a different level. As a former meth user, everything the GF went thru tracks for meth use. It sucks that she couldn't pull herself out of it and I'm sorry the family lost a loved one. When I recognized that I couldn't survive a day without meth, including handfuls of sleep meds chased by vodka and bourbon, I packed up a suitcase with a spoon and butter knife for some reason and went to rehab, my gf didn't have a clue what was going on with me and I didn't tell her I was going to rehab until the day I left. Luckily, she got tired of being with a drug addict and we said our good byes while I was in there. Can't really blame her either. I wouldn't want to be with a meth addict, would you?
@melissaconnellyjones2622
Ай бұрын
Congrats on your sobriety, I’m so glad you were able to escape that demon. ❤
@stevesmith4630
Ай бұрын
@@melissaconnellyjones2622 me too and thank you.
@PotterBrony82
Ай бұрын
OPs husband is Gerald Broflovski.
@smola2350
Ай бұрын
I got the same exact mental image
@PotterBrony82
Ай бұрын
@@smola2350yeah, turn on the music, pour himself a glass of wine, and then photoshop a bunch of ding-dongs into women’s mouths. And while not a trans teen, but a cancer survivor who’d had a double mastectomy, he also drove someone to end it.
@suzyboyleanderson6945
Ай бұрын
OP your husband is a cyber bully, normal people do not tell people online to kill themselves or steal photos of people and post them online without their permission to shame them. This creep cyber bulled someone until they took their own lives. Glad you filed for divorce and got you and your child away from him. He is totally insane. I hope karma finds this creep
@hiroshi7025
Ай бұрын
Look, there are many places where you can be a bully and stuff. But if you're doing that on REDDIT, of all places, you're like the same loser but tenfold lmao. Being a loser on the place known for being the biggest loser cesspool behind Twitter is close to the least you can be.
@hiroshi7025
Ай бұрын
Like, by all means, drop his usertag or what he looks like IRL, find out if he can have tough enough bones to back up what he says. If he doesn't, well, I guess he was just too weak, right?
@net_spider
Ай бұрын
First story: Guy is an addict, plain and simple. Not saying that it excuses his behavior, but it does explain why he would choose that over his wife and child. He feels good doing it, justifies it at every turn, and doesn't seem to care if it negatively affects others. And yes, you can be addicted to pretty much anything, even internet trolling, as long as the person feels good while partaking in the activity or product. Its why people can be addicted to exercise (and over excercise in the process) or porn for that matter. They literally can't help themselves because it gives them a consistent dopamine hit, probably with decreasing returns so they have to do it more or find more extreme versions of their addiction, which is why it can get so bad.
@stuartwalker9597
Ай бұрын
Not really surprised but rslash did not go all out to attack the mother in story 3 about her financially abusing her son but just a few weeks ago the dad financially abused his daughter and rslash went ballistic come on man where is the consistency?
@tailsofchaos
Ай бұрын
Even though there is no point in saying something about the mother (or a man) as in the end, OP is doing fine and she really isn't.
@stuartwalker9597
Ай бұрын
@@tailsofchaos doesn’t matter you can’t condemn one and let the other off lightly
@tailsofchaos
Ай бұрын
@@stuartwalker9597 then you might as well call out anybody else in the comments that does the same thing. Besides you're not the first nor the last that will bring up whatever that was said that wasn't agreeable to you.
@Robin93k
22 күн бұрын
It's strange that he even still reads these where he can't attack a men~ Because only those seem to make him happy...
@smolboi1222
Ай бұрын
I understand OP 2. I used to love my aunt as a family member but when I learned that my cousins, the ones I’ve grown up with, she abandoned every one to do drugs. She hasn’t been present in any of her 3 kids lives over the past decade, her youngest being 12 that she surrendered to her mother essentially after her birth. I’ve grown to resent her over the decade for having to watch my cousin be raised without the support they deserved. She died earlier this year. I helped put her ashes in the urn. I attended the hearing for my mother and my little cousin was unfazed as well. She tried play wrestling me at the end of the ceremony.
@jayg613
Ай бұрын
FINALLY I CAUGHT UP TO EVERY RSLASH VIDEO!
@buddyburrows
Ай бұрын
Same was behind for almost a week
@wmdkitty
Ай бұрын
That first guy is a POS. Wow. I hope OP can take _her_ daughter and get far, _far_ away from this guy. He's dangerous.
@alloralight
Ай бұрын
I MADE IT IN UNDER A MINUTE LETS GOOOO ❤😊
@alazyartist7301
Ай бұрын
The last story reminded me of my grandma. In general from what my mom has told me, she wasn't the best mom out there. When my mom got her first paycheck she demanded she gave it to her. My grandpa was confused and angry and asked why she wanted my mom's money, he took care of her, she didn't need to work, he sometimes spoiled her. She didn't answer and kept demanding it until my grandpa distracted my grandma enough to leave. Even when my grandpa died and my mom started taking care of her my grandma still wanted money. She couldn't comprehend that my grandpa left her goods instead of money (the house, car, other possesions, etc). My grandma's family has always been obsesed with money and apperences so I guess she thought she could appear wealthy by constantly buying stuff. Even my mom didn't escape this family curse so I hope I don't end up the same 😂😂
@codm22712
Ай бұрын
Oh yeah I rembrr this story hundred did nothing wrong l op 😂😂 I have to say this cuz some of y’all don’t get it but this is a joke
@saraashley464
Ай бұрын
I’m pretty sure jokes have meaning. This is just nonsense
@codm22712
Ай бұрын
@@saraashley464 to u it’s no sense just cuz u don’t like something personally doesn’t mean it’s “ nonsense “
@buddyburrows
Ай бұрын
@Codm22712 It is nonsense.
@saraashley464
Ай бұрын
@@codm22712 I literally cannot like whatever that is if I don’t understand what it’s saying. I understand what my 2 year old nephew, who only makes sounds to talk, more than whatever that “joke” is supposed to say. If you’re gonna make a joke please make sure it’s actually legible or translate the “joke” into something readable
@codm22712
Ай бұрын
@@saraashley464 aww little baby git mad 😡
@thetruth1816
Ай бұрын
Story 1 : Starting to sound like a powederpuff version of dennis Ryder... Updates: yeah its a good thing op confronted him so she knows who he really is and now hopefully printed out copies of his real personality so she can hopefully get full custody... Updates : few years from now op is gonna be back on reedit with " my husband is bullying my 5 year old what do i do"?.. op really needs to grow a spine and move on from this thing of a "man".. Story 2 : so wait she's you're fiancee and you didnt know shes out of her damn mind ?? So is she insane or stupid or both ?? Updates: " Drugs are bad mckay" mr.macky... yeah no shock kim passed on ... Story 3 : See who you can move out with op .. once you cut contact she will comeback " ohhhh but im you're mother you need to come see me".. Update : Time to block the leech from your life op.. you survived living with it now make sure it cant comeback into you're life...
@heretic1157
Ай бұрын
That first story reminds me of Graham Linehan. He basically was so obsessed with bullying trans people online that his wife ended up leaving him over it. Some people really do choose being vile over being loved.
@ninjabluefyre3815
Ай бұрын
AND PEOPLE ARE DEFENDING HIM! Popular comedians that I really like! What is wrong with society?! With the UK?
@nekoloons4844
Ай бұрын
This is why cyber bullying needs to be treated as seriously as IRL harassment. We can see half of Gen Alpha is one of the most bigoted generations ever to anyone different (women, immigrants and especially trans people in paticular but it applies to all minorities). Hell, even if you ignore all the bigotry, they're just... bullies in general. The other half is depressed. We complain about the internet being harmful but y'all well damn know OP1 and the thousands with him will recieve maybe a fine at worst. Probably not even that.
@Akira625
Ай бұрын
Story 1 - Internet trolls are often sociopaths who have no remorse for the abuse they dole out. OP was wise to get away from that dude, you can't fix people who are that broken.
@mrsthebeatles8159
Ай бұрын
Op mourned the death of who she was way before she ever passed. You don't feel sad because you already mourned her
@DarkEinherjar
Ай бұрын
OP's husband's behavior online is his true self. That's who he is when he's safe behind a PC/phone screen, certain of impunity. OP is totally doing the right thing.
@gryphonsong4082
10 күн бұрын
1st story: An explanation, not an excuse for that horrid behavior…He could be addicted to the power trip he gets from bullying which allows him self-control during his physical life which he uses as an excuse to bully in the cyberspace. Venting? It doesn’t matter? Your most authentic pardon, but what the heck dude?!? I’d have divorced him immediately, no recourse. I don’t suffer fools or cheaters, and this falls under foolishness. She’s either a better person or more lenient than I. I know personally the damage bullies do, and still have therapy about it. Glad she got out of that situation. 2nd story: He mourned her when she left. Her life was over when she took the drugs, sadly. The suffering is over, and all he could do was be numb for now.
@nalcarya
Ай бұрын
One thing of note that's absent from the story about Kim is op asking themselves how they could have not noticed his fiancés mental trouble and extreme amount of stress at all. No mention of her state before taking drugs, no mention of any change in her behaviour or character - when there must have been one, at least once she started taking drugs. My assumption is that the relationship, although long, was never that deep to begin with.
@sarahp5003
Ай бұрын
Story 2, mental health is a serious topic that does not get talked about enough. High stress (which I know the financial industry is) in one person can cause a lot of heartache and mental anguish for everyone around the individual. Sometimes the drug use is a form of self medicating (not excusing it, just trying to explain) and other times it is a way to FEEL something other than numb or stressed. I spent a full week in an institution voluntarily at the end of last year because I was feeling myself spiral out of control and was actually having a nervous breakdown, the only thing that kept me from seeking "unofficial" help was the fact that there are too many OD cases in my family already (even one is too many). The more stress compounds, the more pressure an individual can feel. I am not justifying Kim's actions but stress and a lack of good mental health structure can be killer. I didn't even QUALIFY for help until I was in the ER terrified that I was going to hurt someone else or myself. I emerged from the institution feeling better and more ME than I had in a long time. On a side note, please donate books and art supplies to your local psych wards and behavioral units. What was there was... sub par. Seriously who donates TRUE CRIME to those places or book 10 of a series?
@arottenpumpkin
Ай бұрын
I genuinely started crying when I heard the part about Leelah Alcorn. Her story was big when I was just realizing my gender identity several years ago. Rest in Peace Leelah.
@PinataFreaks
Ай бұрын
1st story: "We've all laughed at Ken M" That's because Ken M is not a hateful monster. Ken M just pretends to be dumb to mess with people. That is far from what OP's husband was doing.
@BlueSpiritedDragon
Ай бұрын
Bruh, bullying kids online to relieve stress!? Like I get wanting to be mean if you're stressed, but when I do it I take that stress out in a video game like Skyrim! Then no one gets hurt that way. Or you can write a story, make vent art, channel that anger into other things that don't hurt people! There are plenty of healthy outlets to relieve anger!
@yuffiefan7637
Ай бұрын
OMG.... that is HATE not trolling. Trolling is some cute or petty stuff but without seriously hurting people. Telling TEENS to off themselfs should be seen as attemped murder. Teenage S*icide rate is high enough... I was wildly insecure about my body as a teen. Getting hate on it would habe been HARD. If you need to get anger/frustration out, yell into a pillow, go boxing, or kick a matial arts dummy. run, write into a diary, do weightliftig. There are soooo many options
@buddyburrows
Ай бұрын
😂
@frootsnacc6790
Ай бұрын
You know, the first OP is a better person than me, cuz if I was her I would’ve “accidentally” dropped the name of my husband’s troll accounts on all available social medias, and “accidentally” encourage people to give him a taste of his own medicine
@melissaconnellyjones2622
Ай бұрын
And “accidentally” let his employer, coworkers and family know as well.
@frootsnacc6790
Ай бұрын
@@melissaconnellyjones2622 Screenshots of him telling teenagers to kill themselves would “accidentally” be given to my divorce lawyer
@JamesDavy2009
Ай бұрын
@@frootsnacc6790 Not even 1A protects that kind of speech.
@AcrosstheKeyofSeaCouple
Ай бұрын
Hi Rslash! In regards to your question about people flipping a switch and turning into other people overnight, it's absolutely true. My husband is a psychologist and I'm a psychology enthusiast. If this is a topic that interests you I highly recommend reading a famous case study on a man named Phineas Gage. He was an upstanding hard working railroad worker who suffered an accident. A railroad pike impaled his brain, and he somehow survived it. Overnight he became a different person. He was crude and abusive and unrecognizable. It's a very interesting read if you ever have the time. Anyway I guess I just wanted to share that information and confirm that yes, your personality is not guaranteed. Brain damage, no matter how it's inflicted, can completely change someone into another person.
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