Story 1: when the ex-friend called OP to berate her for going the legal route and claiming OP ruined their lives, my brain went “I see where he gets his gaslighting tendencies from…”
@trumediamix1
7 ай бұрын
Bad apples come from equally disgusting trees.
@paiget6200
7 ай бұрын
Props to the mom in the first story for protecting her daughter. Also get her into therapy because this will mess her up
@katherinemclean1448
7 ай бұрын
OP says that "there's some stuff she still needs to work through so she's attending therapy regularly..." 10:22
@sarahjessica3542
7 ай бұрын
Yup. Can confirm, I was that 14 year old girl too when I was younger. I wish I had guidance and a proper support system back then like we see in this story, rather than years of ongoing therapy in my 20's.
@SkunkApe407
7 ай бұрын
Yeah, I understand Romeo and Juliet Laws, and think they're fine, but this isn't one of those scenarios. He was already an adult when he started talking to her, a middle school girl. If he was 18, she was a little older, and they had been dating since they were both in school together, it would be different. This girl is straight up being groomed and exploited by an adult man. Momma Bear needs to send this creep to prison.
@theconfusedvampire
7 ай бұрын
@@SkunkApe407 I don't know about that. Even if they were closer in age and started dating when he was a minor, he's still pretty abusive. The insults, the drunk room mate, etc. He seems seriously emotionally unstable.
@Nixxiexo
7 ай бұрын
@@theconfusedvampireI think they are strictly talking about the age gap in that comment. Like how it would be different IF the age gap was smaller like say 16 and 18 AND if he was actually a good person and not abusive. The comment was a hypothetical. They're definitely aware that the actual situation is messed up and the guy is an abusive p3do
@Sanodi21
7 ай бұрын
OP didn't ruin her ex-friend's family and her son's life, her son did all that. That aside, good on the mother for making peace and getting closure but as for her son, the slap on the wrist might do a lot? While he didn't go to jail/prison, it's still on his record that he was after and abused someone underaged. That's going to haunt him in more ways than one.
@fdm2155
7 ай бұрын
Yeah even just exposing someone took out a restraining order will be highly problematic in a lot of ways.
@GiordanDiodato
7 ай бұрын
probably in Alabama or Florida
@Sc-qx6cm
7 ай бұрын
Son was 20 GROOMING and threatening her... idk but I'd make sure he got a fine. I'm not defending my son if he does that bs to anyone's kid .
@lancerevell5979
7 ай бұрын
@@GiordanDiodato Painting us all with a huge stinky brush, aren't you? This is one sick individual doing something disgusting. Could happen ANYWHERE.
@KarmaTube5
7 ай бұрын
Yeah, I’m surprised he didn’t go to jail. He must’ve had some sort of influence.
@srbarkerchan
7 ай бұрын
The mom in that first story is the GOAT.
@MusketeerGweneth
7 ай бұрын
The mom is a Goat? Huh? Is that some sort of slang I'm not hip enough to understand? 😆
@srbarkerchan
7 ай бұрын
@@MusketeerGweneth Greatest Of All Time
@MusketeerGweneth
7 ай бұрын
@@srbarkerchan Oh! Okay, yeah. She was a pretty good mom, I agree. By the way, as I'm typing this, there is a crazy sound going on outside. It's almost like a train is going by but in the sky right above the house. I don't see any planes or jets or even lines. Completely clear. Not even a cloud, just a clear baby blue sky and a crazy sound windy rumble noise. I am however near a train route and an airport but normally don't notice the noise they make. 😨
@deniseeulert2503
7 ай бұрын
@@MusketeerGweneth Hope it's not an accident.
@bigjalapeno7061
7 ай бұрын
Yep for sure
@silverflight01
7 ай бұрын
Story 2: Oof, a whole relationship wrecked over some free tickets. The ex can go get her own tickets, OP and OP's brother deserved them
@abiean222
7 ай бұрын
honestly, its a double win! lose some trash AND get to go to the superbowl!
@qdllc
7 ай бұрын
There’s a video (may be a spoof) where a guy asks his girlfriend what she’d do if he won the lottery. She said something along the lines of “take my half and dump you,” so he dumped her after admitting he only won $10.
@shaunalennon3144
7 ай бұрын
@@qdllc OMG, her half? She's not his wife so what half is hers? that girlfriend had no claim to any part of her man's winnings even if his brother hadn't helped him and he had won the contest all on his own.
@bestpiss
7 ай бұрын
@@qdllcwhat a stupid fucking answer, had to be a skit 💀
@It-is-me...Melsie
7 ай бұрын
His brother's wife wasn't a dork about it so I don't know why his girlfriend thought she should have some sort of rights to the the tickets. She sounds horribly self-centred and he's well to be rid of her.
@FreedomHero4
7 ай бұрын
If I were the father, I’d only send one message: “Come anywhere near my daughter again, and you won’t be the one going to jail, I will”
@abiean222
7 ай бұрын
"in fact, you won't be going anywhere ever again"
@Wendy_O._Koopa
7 ай бұрын
Alternatively, "... and win a vacation down under. _Six feet,_ down under!"
@snpr1022
7 ай бұрын
I get the sentiment, but don't send a message and don't go to jail😉
@Taizu314
7 ай бұрын
@@Wendy_O._Koopa Forget six feet he’d be buried so far into the ground he’d be tasting Earths core. I hope he likes Jules Verne because his funeral would be a “Journey to the center of the Earth”.
@Taizu314
7 ай бұрын
@@Wendy_O._Koopa Forget six feet. He’d be so far under the ground he’d be tasting the Earth’s core. I’d hope he likes Jules Verne because his funeral would be a “Journey to the Center of the Earth”.
@madambutterfly1997
7 ай бұрын
Why would you kiss her on the lips if you only see her as a sister? This isn’t anime or game of thrones FFS
@Broeckchen
7 ай бұрын
Obviously because he's lying. This is literally just a manipulation tactic abusers use to make their victims feel responsible for the abuse. It doesn't make sense as an onlooker most of the time, especially if it's done sloppily like this - but remember that the victim in this case had be slowly coerced into the mindset that things were her fault for at least a year, while being a vulnerable teenage girl. She didn't have the wherewithall to recognize this as what it was.
@Simipourfangirl
7 ай бұрын
@@Broeckchen unfortunately some nasty people will do those things to those they see as a "sibling" because they think it's ok. I hope it never becomes legal.
@Broeckchen
7 ай бұрын
@@Simipourfangirl Controversial opinion, but to me the only thing that counts is the power dynamic. Non related friends who grew up together and one of them has always been older and in possession of more resources than the other? Skeevy. Twins who were separated at birth and meet each other again as adults with equal standing and fall in love? Can't bring myself to find that gross or resent it. I'm a big proponent of freedom unless it harms others, so if neither of the partners and no child get harmed, I don't care. Especially since some people can't verbalize their feelings as well as others. This guy tho? Simply lying. A responsible big brother would never, ever encourage romantic attention from a sibling to them. Even if he reciprocated it. He's indirectly admitting that he's a lowlife, just trying to act like marginally less of a lowlife than he actually is.
@Simipourfangirl
7 ай бұрын
@@Broeckchen I still find the twin thing gross because they are related.
@MadameSomnambule
7 ай бұрын
@@Simipourfangirl Same with me. Gross because they're genetically related, but a tad less so because they didn't know they were related beforehand if that makes sense. Adoption can make things complicated and that's kinda why the parents should at least mention who the kid's related to during the adoption process in order to prevent that stuff from happening.
@d.phantomfan1216
7 ай бұрын
Story 2: it sounds like she mainly just cared about winning the argument then going to the super bowl. And I know it's obvious but it is always impressive how someone really can't see the irony in their own actions sometimes.
@dudeorduuude5211
7 ай бұрын
I think those types will never see the irony nor be self-reflective.
@joonebugg
7 ай бұрын
I feel so much for the girl in story 1. I'm a victim of being groomed. I was 12, they were 19 (Said they were 16 but i found out their real age on Twitter). The way he is talking to her is just like the way my groomer talked to me. I'm so glad the mom took action, and i hope op's daughter will heal from this experience, especially considering this was severe and he knew her in real life, so there wasn't a super easy way to escape
@brag0001
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story. I'm a father of two daughters who will be in that age range very soon. I hope they never get approached that way in the first place. But if someone does it helps noticing the hints and being sure that it's not just me being overprotective if I do ...
@shelbybabcock8779
7 ай бұрын
End of story 1: yeah, OP can’t be friends with that lady even if she wanted to be. Having any sort of connection between the families would make it easier for that monster to get at OP’s daughter again. Like finding out their new address from his mom or something. Way too risky. OP made the right choice.
@jackwatt8988
7 ай бұрын
"Part of me wants to go over to my friend's house right now and scream at her son. Obviously I'm not going to do that" - what, why? Go to the friend and explain to her that her son is going to prison, and then explain in detailed what is done to child predators in prison.
@augustaseptemberova5664
7 ай бұрын
the way I understood this, OP wrote "I'm not gonna do that" before her daughter warned the guy. Meaning: if OP had confronted the mom of the pdf, and going by how badly his mom reacted to the situation, she might have even helped him hide evidence and whatnot. I think OP took the right course - let the police handle it. By confronting criminals yourself, you always run the risk of "accidentally helping" them, either by giving them a heads up to hide evidence, or to run away, or to lawyer up and be "well prepared" for police interrogation etc etc. The more police can catch them unprepared and off-guard, the better imo, best not interfere as the victim / victim's parent.
@Broeckchen
7 ай бұрын
Gotta agree with the other comment here. It would have tipped this guy off enough to hide or destroy evidence. They wouldn't even have gotten that slap on the wrist through if he did that.
@mariposa9506
7 ай бұрын
What would that have accomplished?
@TiffWaffles
7 ай бұрын
The friend blamed OP and her daughter for destroying her family even though her son was the one who committed a literal crime. She sounds as horrible and delusional as her son is...
@sourisvoleur4854
7 ай бұрын
@@TiffWaffles Yeah she's an enabler for sure.
@ShadiVox
7 ай бұрын
My younger sister was dating an 18 year old when she was 14. Her parents (my dad and her mom) were totally fine with it. The same man who once picked me up from middle school and yelled at me because my dress was "too short" and started calling my mom names. I then told him that I wore that dress because HE bought it for me and I wanted him to see it. He shut up after that. That man is ok with his 14 year old dating an 18 year old.
@ShadiVox
7 ай бұрын
They were so sure nothing was going on between them sexually. They're dating. Come on. Anyway she got pregnant at 16/17 by a different guy. Can't say I'm surprised she sought outside "love" and affection. They treat her like shit
@ArcanineEspeon
Ай бұрын
@@ShadiVoxYeesh...how is she doing now? Are you close with her?
@ShadiVox
Ай бұрын
@@ArcanineEspeon I have no idea
@YouTubeSupportSucks
7 ай бұрын
I was a 13yo groomed by a 20yo; I wish I'd had people in my corner. I eventually escaped, but now he's 33 dating a 20yo
@GiordanDiodato
7 ай бұрын
at least he's dating adults now, but still...
@YouTubeSupportSucks
7 ай бұрын
@@GiordanDiodato she's 90lb, 5'3", still lives with her parents, doesn't have a license, and looks like she's 16yo. It's as close to pedophila as he can get, and there's still a power dynamic since her brain is developed.
@YouTubeSupportSucks
7 ай бұрын
@@GiordanDiodato she's 5'2", 95lb, and looks like a 16yo. It's not better, it's just legal.
@ratulsaha9487
6 ай бұрын
@@KZitemSupportSuckshow does it matter how she looks?? A lot of people look younger than they are. Atleast she is a proper adult and not “just turned 18” adult.
@nine9nine9
3 ай бұрын
@@ratulsaha9487 why are you defending a pedo? Youre creepy
@icarusthefoxkidd
7 ай бұрын
Story 1: So, fun personal fact, I watched my sisters both get pregnant far to early and have raised two girls because of that. The moment I heard 21 vs 14 my mind instantly went to sudden disappearance and the longer the story went on the more aggressive my thoughts got and now I'm thinking potato peeler, salt and fire ants.
@jam1494
7 ай бұрын
I can't help but imagine how much worse that 21yo is going to be 10 years, even 5 years from now. Yikes
@Simipourfangirl
7 ай бұрын
I honestly didn't think the story would be that bad. Like the age gap is a no go but how abusive he was makes it 100,000,000% worse.
@brendanboomhour7606
7 ай бұрын
@@Simipourfangirlabsolutely, the college student "dating" a middle schooler is bad enough, but how the jackass acts, kinda wish the daughter had an overprotective older brother, I can imagine how things would turn out then
@MegaMyown
7 ай бұрын
The pdf file’s mom is just like him, no wonder where he gets it from. Also, “it’s ok sweetie, don’t you worry, daddy’s gonna make sure he never shows his face to you again, I promise that. Daddy may go away for a while, but that might not be for a while.”
@jaideesasaki
7 ай бұрын
"pdf file" lol
@royplatt455
7 ай бұрын
@@jaideesasakiI laughed way too hard at that, too.
@mariposa9506
7 ай бұрын
Just like him? So she solicits minors?
@ArcanineEspeon
Ай бұрын
@@royplatt455It's a surprisingly common euphemism on overly censor-happy platforms nowadays. Another unexpected homophone I haven't been able to unhear is "sewerslide."
@royplatt455
Ай бұрын
@@ArcanineEspeon How about "Duck" "Ducking" and "Duck you?"
@silverflight01
7 ай бұрын
Story 1: Yeah, he's a pecking creep, and he's using every single trick in the abusive book. He NEEDED to go to jail. Yeah the guy's family was destroyed in the process, but sometimes it just has to be this way.
@Jubilation457
7 ай бұрын
Yeah he did that not OP not the daughter he did, at 20 you know well enough to know not to be messing around with no middle schoolers.
@nuckingfutsguy
7 ай бұрын
Yeah sad fact is you get the justice you can afford' Can only guess his family has or comes from money so they were able to hire him some killer legal defense. Similar thing happened where i live a man in his early to mid 20's SA'd a 2 yo girl but his family came from money so when he was sentenced all he got was a year in prison, 12 months of community service and 8 years on the sex offender registry.
@TheSitka123
7 ай бұрын
This is so upsetting. This is a young girl who is being abused and made to be afraid. It is sickening that OP had to find a geographical solution due to his parents inability to recognise the insanity and dangerousness in their son. Truthfully, that is how it goes, when his parents abandoned their responsibility to correct him, and even defend him, when the truth came out, it told the whole story. They were never parents to him, if they had been this never would have happened. They created, by their neglect, a dangerous creature who preys on children, female children. His mother has so much to answer for, and OP was so right to reject her.
@Richard_Nickerson
7 ай бұрын
They don't have evidence? He admitted to kissing her! Plus, it's the cops who find evidence anyway...
@bigjalapeno7061
7 ай бұрын
Bruh
@ArcanineEspeon
Ай бұрын
@@bigjalapeno7061Who are you bruh-ing, bro?
@ArcanineEspeon
Ай бұрын
I'm no lawyer, but even if the daughter deleted all those previous conversations, I can't imagine she deleted that most recent one about the kiss, and that sounds like evidence if I've ever seen it
@bigjalapeno7061
Ай бұрын
@@ArcanineEspeon I can't remember now. It was probably because of the stupidity of them saying there's no evidence
@TFTN_Official12
7 ай бұрын
The first story I can say just one thing. That is *FLAMING YIKES!!*
@pyewacketkitty8404
7 ай бұрын
This is why you don't let your children get on social media.
@amberlindsey7112
7 ай бұрын
I won tickets to see 30 seconds to Mars. I was in a relationship at the time but didn't even think about taking him lol. My sister went with me. She was in to the same music. Boyfriend wasn't even interested in music lol. So it was obvious who to take. He didn't even care that i didn't even think twice about taking my sister.
@dracko158
7 ай бұрын
Story 1: I think therapy is in order, or it'll mess her up. Her mom is an absolute MVP.
@yueyuna8344
7 ай бұрын
I was groomed then touched when I was 15. When I was around 21-22 I was punched in the face for finally admitting what he did. His wife new what he was doing to me and let it go. So I love the mom in the 1st story.
@seabass819
7 ай бұрын
Good God, that's horrible. I hope you know it's not your fault.
@lillylovegood2300
7 ай бұрын
People are such scum. You're not to blame. Man, reading the comments today is making me irate 😂
@thetruth1816
7 ай бұрын
Story 1 : if op husband canceled that piece of work then it should be justifiable and he should be given a medal.. Update: yeah calling that guy a piece of work is insulting a piece of work.... Update 2: the worst pdf are the once that are close to you.... Update 3 : The problem is the ex BFF knows where op and op family is.. Story 2 : Bros before H.. Update: yeah op ex is a horrible horrible person..
@AdorableFloof1999
7 ай бұрын
I'm sorry, but the mother of the man who did that to OP's daughter should've considered her son might be a creep in the first place instead of trying to apologize a year after the fact. He was a 21 yr old man at the time, there is nothing she could have done to "resolve the situation" because he does not have to rely on, he can pay his own bills, his own insurance, everything and her thinking she could change that is delusional on her part. As for him getting a slap on the wrist, as long as he was convicted of some form of inappropriate behavior with a minor then it'll be ok because the next time anything like this happens, and I have no doubt there will be a next time, he has a record and a pattern of behavior to show for everything so there's a higher chance it won't be just a slap on the wrist.
@shadowwei3299
7 ай бұрын
14 and 21 is crazy
@EnderTheIdiot
7 ай бұрын
shit isn't that like a 7 year diffrence?
@stuartwalker9597
7 ай бұрын
Agreed
@destinedtogame
7 ай бұрын
Illegal too
@Milk-ck1wv
7 ай бұрын
yeah it really is
@Hazey_Haider
7 ай бұрын
Only crazy in America
@HonduranMegatron
4 ай бұрын
Rslash: "She was 13 and he was 20" FBI: "So anyway, I started raiding"
@KaiAstraStylist
7 ай бұрын
In the first story after seeing how the 21 year olds mom acted its easy to see why hes so abusive. If i ever have a kid who groomed a child and i found out i would literally call the girls parents ulgy crying and apologizing to them, NOT blaming them for protecting their kid
@Thepinkone06
7 ай бұрын
Getting ready for an opening shift with Rslash is a great way to start the day
@Liam-gd8mo
7 ай бұрын
😂👉😢
@kevinaiken369
7 ай бұрын
I do closing shifts with rslash😅
@wuzzle22
7 ай бұрын
Hey, rSlash, rq sound tip, if you can't get access to wall padding/foam/w/e to reduce echos and noise, then record under a blanket, it'll work until you can get back to your normal recording set up
@Urrarg
7 ай бұрын
Story 1: I agree, that is such a good parent. And her ex-friend sounds a little delusional. Like no. I don't want to be friend's with someone who supports and defends the guy who emotionally abused my 14 y/o daughter and was grooming her for an abusive sexual relationship with him. I wouldn't trust her anymore than I would trust her son after that.
@ArcanineEspeon
Ай бұрын
Meanwhile, when I was 20-21, I unironically referred to 14 year olds as "little kids" at least once. And that's coming from me, a person who's one of the least accomplished high school graduates I know (haven't even gotten behind the wheel of a car for nearly 7 years); sometimes I wonder if I stopped aging 2 days before my 16th birthday when I found out my grandpa was dying. Then again, on the other side of the coin that's a good reason for me to see 12-13 yos as little. I still see myself as a child.
@Rottingyeen
6 ай бұрын
The first story sickens me, I’ve been in a similar situation. I can understand why the daughter listened to the 21 y/o especially seeing how he spoke to the daughter, super manipulative. I hope he rots.
@katphish30
7 ай бұрын
Your creepy boy voice acting is spot on. Thanks, I hate it.
@acesinger6092
7 ай бұрын
Wow, that first story was a whirlwind of emotions. That text the 21 year old sent that girl is terrifying. I've never seen so much manipulation in one paragraph. I'm glad she's doing great in her life now though, and it's also good that she went to therapy
@canex3620
7 ай бұрын
The thing about viewing someone as a sibling to you is to view them as a sibling and nothing more. I'm so glad OP found out about this!
@MakaiTenshi
7 ай бұрын
That second story screamed that OP's girlfriend was a Taylor Swift fan, that's why she only wanted to go not that it was the superbowl.
@RepellentJeff
7 ай бұрын
That…makes perfect sense, actually!
@damonsnow11
7 ай бұрын
The original story is actually from eight years ago, so I think it’s safe to say it’s not about Taylor Swift.
@RepellentJeff
7 ай бұрын
@@damonsnow11 Oh. So she was being controlling just for the hell of it. 🤪 Either way, good on OP for ditching her.
@mariposa9506
7 ай бұрын
It didn't sound like that at all, as op states she likes football, and does not state she likes Taylor swift.
@remiliai.9757
7 ай бұрын
>Good parents >Have to ask Reddit what to do. Right sure.
@everlasting9292
7 ай бұрын
I feel SO terrible for this young lady. Human nature makes us our own worst enemies, I guarantee she is already worried about so many of these things, and even though they’re not true, she’s now gonna think they are. She’s sooo impressionable. That’s so, so rough.
@Musicalsfangirl
7 ай бұрын
I find it so dang scary that he is only 21, and is yet sooo sooo toxic already. He’s either learned it from somewhere or he is already mentally unstable. I don’t believe the mom wouldn’t have done anything if you told her before telling the cops. He clearly isn’t being parented properly if he thinks this is behaviour is acceptable.
@fionna_cool_girl
7 ай бұрын
I genuinely find it so weird how people think this stuff is okay. I was groomed at 14 by a man who was 21. I am now 21 myself and I just don't understand how people can groom minors and think this kind of behavior is at ALL okay. It's horrifying and there's no excuse.
@maieen2665
7 ай бұрын
*First OP:* This is why Justifiable H0m1cide exist. I'm glad things worked out in a way for OP's daughter. I do feel bad that OP had to end her friendship because of her friend's son's actions. I hope he gets his karma. *Second OP:* I'm glad OP went to the Superbowl with his brother. I also like his pettiness at the end, too lol
@Rj-ij6ko
7 ай бұрын
Both of these stories could basically just boil down to “how to notice when you’re being gaslight by someone toxic” lol. Op in the first story is a GREAT mom, and Op in the second story dumped his controlling gf. happy endings all around
@callmewolf3910
7 ай бұрын
That poor girl... That guy is insanely manipulative and abusive
@fionna_cool_girl
7 ай бұрын
I am SO happy the parents in the first story got police involved. I was in the EXACT situation that kid was in. I was 13 when I met a 21 year old guy online. When I was 14, we started talking sexually, forming a bond and "relationship". It lasted until I was 19 years old! I "loved him". I couldn't live without him or stop thinking about him. He took all my high school years away from me. I was very good at hiding my phone because it was my only way of rebelling against my strict dad. When I was 19, we finally met in person. I thought it was everything I wanted. Then a few months later, a girl I knew about from his past dm'd me on twitter, telling me her stort. Turns out she was 12 when he started grooming her at 20! I was so disgusted. The reason she DM'd me was because she felt bad about me being groomed because she didn't say anything about it and it caused me to be brainwashed too. I finally left him after some internal struggle. After leaving him, i contemplated going to the police, thinking that maybe I was "overreacting, it wasn't a big deal, I'd ruin his life, he doesn't deserve it", etc. 2 days before my 21st birthday, the same age he started grooming me, I finally reported him to the police. While it is a felony to sext a minor, because of the Statute of Limitations in Texas I would've had to report him at 16 for him to be arrested...while I was still being groomed by him and didn't know any better! I will never get justice. The first victim will never get justice and there are thousands like us that will never get justice because the laws aren't on our side and we will have to carry this burden for the rest of our lives. I'm so glad OP went to the police for their kid. She will never know what it's like to have your innocent teenage years taken away.
@DaBaseBallZ
7 ай бұрын
Story 2:Brother has much more right to go than GF,NTA
@ghostedkilljoymemelord5340
6 ай бұрын
14:35 I won an Applebee's gift card in a trivia contest, I knew 3 of the answers thanks to family members and I took them out to Applebees. Man won super bowl tickets with his brother and questioned not taking his brother?
@cricket778
7 ай бұрын
Story 1 immediately triggered my PTSD. My sister's first husband also said he loved me like a sister when he abused me. I like my current BIL, but it freaks me out when he calls me his sister. Predators suck
@knolsey
7 ай бұрын
So a friend of mine in college started dating a 13 year old girl when he was 20, and they dated for two years. Here's the kicker, she told him she was 18, they both had fake IDs to go to bars and such, and the girls parents thought he was 15 at the start. So after TWO YEARS, my buddy mentioned to his then 15 year old gf's dad that he was looking forward to his 23rd birthday. The parents immediately sat down with the two of them, and we're planning to call the police until the entire story came out. The parents decided to not interfere, knowing dude was moving halfway across the country in just a few months. Their relationship ended when the girl was almost 16, however almost a decade later they got back together and are now married with a kid. Y'all, I spent two years hanging around this, and never once had any inkling she was not the same age as us. My then gf (18 at the time) was 5'3, and 103 lbs with a petite frame. The then 13 year old my college roomie was dating was something like 5'7, and 140isg lbs, with a very curvy/busty body. The jokes were always that my gf looked twelve. This whole scenario rocked our friend group for a long time, all because a thirteen year old kid lied, had a fake ID, and her parents allowed her to stay nights with the bf they thought was 15. Parents, it's your job to parent. I say this as one.
@Mewse1203
7 ай бұрын
2nd story: Yo, that chick is a textbook narcissist. If a narcissist want something or doesn't get their way, they will go out of their way to make it so uncomfortable for you that you give in. OP gave in, just not the way she wanted so she had to twist it on him. Remember, no matter what the narcissist is always right.
@ItatsuMagnatsa
7 ай бұрын
First Story: The Mom was truly an Angel. She Guided and Protected her Daughter from a Creepy, Abusive, Manipulative Child Molester, and her Husband was also an Angel for sticking with a Gameplan that ended up in them uprooting their Family and moved to a Different State to give their Daughter a Fresh Start, Therapy, New Friends, New School, everything. But I do have to let you know, rSlash, that not everybody can afford to move away like this Family. Most are just stuck in where they are at, and they try their best at everything. That Ex-Friend should be Greatful that her 21-22 year old Son got a Slap on the Wrist instead of being Buried 6 feet in the Ground. Despite that she apologized to OP, it was not a Safe Environment for OP's Daughter because had they become friends again, who knows what her Son would have done or tried to do, even Violating the Restraining Order and potentially Raping OP's Daughter which definitely would have ended up with him getting put in the Ground.
@soulgazer11
7 ай бұрын
These parents, especially the mother, have sacrificed so much to make sure their daughter is safe and comfortable. I'm crying, these are phenomenal parents.
@charleneblack2792
7 ай бұрын
I started dating my ex (24) when I was 14. I moved in with him at 16, had a baby at 17, then left him at 18. I used to think age was just a number, until I realized how much more experience a few years gives you. No matter what anyone says, guys over 18 are 100% taking advantage of those younger.
@klocugh12
7 ай бұрын
That creep belongs in a jail. And I have a feeling ex-friend tried to reconnect to sell MLM later.
@christiantalbert7460
7 ай бұрын
2nd Story: OP’s ex-girlfriend is running by off of the mentality of “what’s yours is mine, and what’s mine is mine.” Glad that she was just his girlfriend and not something like his fiancée.
@Hick-po9uk
7 ай бұрын
I love your content but after downloading and reading a whole lot of r/aita and Ask reddits I have a whole new respect for your channel, content and character, cause I got super pissed off after just 2 stories and couldn't look at reddit for like a week after, so big ups to you for being able to power through these and give us amazing content.
@better.better
7 ай бұрын
Disgusting News: m, 50, the same sort of thing happened to me when I turned 16, except there was a wider age discrepancy. the dude was my father's roommate in college, and apparently he tried to groom all my uncles too so I'm not sure why my father let him come around. when I was 9 this dude came to visit my father, but my father wasn't home. for reference my parents were split up since I was 3 years old, but lived next door to each other. This was the 80s, on a back road in rural town, and I was able to freely go between the two houses which were separated by horse pasture, and wander around the woods. communication was all by landline, there was no internet yet, no cell phones except those clunky shoebox sized phones that you only saw in limousines in movies. anyway I went to see who was at my father's house and it was him, I know who he was because he would visit my father whenever he was in town. it's obvious now that he just plan to be there for my 9th birthday because he had a gift for me in the form of a book that he said was his favorite when he was my age called The Little Prince. my little brother was with me and he asked if we wanted to go for a walk. we walked out into the field behind my father's house and he said he had to pee, and he tried to convince me to let him see mine, which I did not and we walked back. when my mother saw him with us, she sent us inside sent him away and then came in to talk to me. and she told me about him in a way appropriate for a 9-year-old. which really was not detailed enough. so anyway you can see where this is going. (I should clarify that in my memory I didnt let him, however, around 9 is when I started experiencing anxiety. so recently I've begun to wonder if maybe something did happen that I'm suppressing, but maybe that just came on with puberty) on my 16th birthday he called me from Hawaii which is where he lived, timed so that the phone call would come in just after school. and he did that exact same thing talked a lot at me while I said nothing uncomfortably, tried to convince me that we always loved each other. this went on for a while I'm not sure how long but on a weekend when my mother was home my brother had friends over, and when the phone rang it was my brother's friend's father, but I thought it was the other dude, so I told my mother that I thought it was him and she lit that phone up only to apologize a few minutes later when she realized it wasn't him. so I don't know if she eventually intercepted a call without me knowing but I didn't get any more grooming calls after that. although he did try one last time on my 18th birthday. when I picked up the phone I've been waiting for my friend Joann to call me, so I answered the phone in a particular way, and then when it wasn't her voice I said sorry I thought you were going to be Joann, then he revealed who he was and asked to talk to my father, and that was the last time I heard from him. but yes it's very awkward age, I was so unsure of myself, or how to react, that I just let him keep going. the only difference is that I kind of knew about him by then, although I don't think that I knew at that point that he tried with all my uncles too, knowing that might have made a difference in how I responded to him.
@stephenm3667
7 ай бұрын
You can always tell when someone has an agenda by how they explode. On dating sites, I find it funny when someone is trying to sweet talk me then start aggressively insulting me when I won’t play ball.
@TiffWaffles
7 ай бұрын
The first story has so many parts to it. I feel terrible for OP's daughter in this. She was only thirteen years old when she fell victim to a predator that literally used her insecurities and issues with her friends as a reason to get close to her. OP's daughter was in a vulnerable position since she had mental health issues, lost some of her friends, and was in a bad place overall... and this man instead of being a trusted figure in her life and convincing her to tell her parents what was happening or showing the messages that she had sent him preyed upon her. This predator possibly assaulted the fourteen year old. I am glad to see that OP was on her daughter's side. Didn't belittle her, didn't tell her that all of this was her fault, just listened to her and did something about it. That twenty one year old predator is now a twenty six or twenty seven year old predator with possibly more victims since the police didn't charge him with anything.
@hicknopunk
7 ай бұрын
"...before you destroyed my family. Lol!" Well at least Karen took it well 😅
@IHeartGameplay
7 ай бұрын
Story 2's gf is absolutely the kind of person to buy you a $5 scratch ticket for your birthday and then demand half the winnings if you actually get anything lmao. How hard is it to be happy for your s/o? Like do you need to get jealous over such little things? Besides imo superbowl is best experienced at home with a shit tonne of homemade chili, a lot of alcohol, fuzzy socks, and having your friends over to watch with you. It's not like she'd be missing out all that much.
@athdot
6 ай бұрын
I’d say the best thing to do in that last story, is maybe just take the two free tickets and then each couple buys a ticket for their spouse and they all go?
@acrandal
7 ай бұрын
Story #1: Thats a full alarm fire with all red flags up. Call cops. Gather evidence. File restraining order. Put daughter in therapy.
@dl200010
7 ай бұрын
Superbowl: If it wasn't his brother, then I would be on her side. OP NTA.
@void.less.
7 ай бұрын
1:17 I will never forget you saying that although bad story had me laughing out loud.
@miacarvalho8732
5 ай бұрын
I just have to congratulate this mom. She and her husband gave this child a good education. This kid knows that something's not right at only 14.
@ThePirateprincess23
7 ай бұрын
Story 1: that 21 year old and his parents are just sick. Thank goodness the 14 year old had both of her parents on her side and both parents had decided that it was time to wash their family from their toxic ex-friends. GOOD F***ING RIDDANCE!
@PrincessKumico
7 ай бұрын
So my father was a major in the usaf and my sister was 13 when a 22 year old was chatting her up knowing full well she was 13. My dad found out and found pics of him in an army uniform. My dad tracked him down and his pics were him in his dad's uniform. His dad was a lt colonel. My dad knew the base commander for the base he was stationed at as well as other higher ranking army personnel. My dad reached out and told his dad he had 24 hours to get his son sorted out or he'd make hell. The next day the guy was in jail for violating his parole by talking to my sister. Bit later he ended up in prison because my sister's friend had a baby by him. She got knocked up when she was 12.
@Mud.lemons
7 ай бұрын
9:30, no no, HE ruined his life by talking with a minor
@TheGoofiestGoober-lh6ne
7 ай бұрын
It's nice to see a parent want to protect their child.
@AtkataffTheAlpha
Ай бұрын
2nd story: probably the (now ex) girlfriend thought in her mind that when OP said he won tickets that he would say "for them" but as soon as he said his brother then she cracked and exploded. She thought it was going to be an outing for them to strengthen their relationship but instead she showed a common mistake in relationships either on purpose or not by destroying it cause she couldn't support. There's also the thing of not telling her in the first place so she never knew otherwise maybe a different outcome could've came. I am not on her side for lashing out and more on OPs cause personal lives in relationships should still be allowed unless it's cheating or something that could ruin the relationship.
@NLoett
7 ай бұрын
First story: "How could you have blocked me after everything I've done for you?". Yeah, even if the age issue is set aside, it sounds like most of this "relationship" is the older guy bitching about his problems to a younger girl. I'm sure that does so much good for OP's daughter /s. Also, he says he doesn't want an intimate relationship after kissing her on the lips!? Manipulative and narcissistic doesn't even begin to describe this guy. As for his Mom, at least she had the courage to admit she was in the wrong for blowing up at OP, but she shouldn't have tried to protect her son in the first place. I can understand a natural instinct to fight for family and she was probably in denial, but in my opinion her son's behavior crossed the line into disownment territory. Second story: OP came across the perfect decision regarding the tickets in my opinion. His brother won them essentially by answering the question, so he gets what he won, and OP doesn't have to choose between his brother and his girlfriend. The situation is resolved, but it sounds like his girlfriend cared more about going to the Super Bowl than about things being fair. Props to OP for getting away from his toxic girlfriend.
@bettawitch4606
7 ай бұрын
Story 2. The girlfriend is selfish, childish, immature and incredibly entitled. Thankfully you dodged a huge bullet with this girl.
@AzureKyle
7 ай бұрын
For the last story, such a night and day reaction between OP's ex gf and his brother's wife. One is selfish and demands to go, while the other insists you go instead of her.
@jackanarchy99
7 ай бұрын
I would never put hands on my child, but if my son spoke that way to a woman, he's catching hands. Also, yes, it's refreshing to see parents who actually stand up for their kids. My parents always side against us growing up.
@Wolfie713
7 ай бұрын
The 21 telling the 14 that they have to keep their friendship a secret after saying that he sees her as a sister is already a red flag. If that's how he truly felt, then why would it matter if anyone else knew? Considering the families were somewhat close, it wouldn't be out of the ordinary for that to happen. His saying that just means that he wants to isolate her. Then trying to gaslight her into thinking that she's the bad one? Wow.
@someguy9083
6 ай бұрын
bro the superbowl one is so easy the brother deserves to go for every right reason, the girlfriend is just selfish.
@calliencathy
6 ай бұрын
A girl I knew won a contest from a local radio station that included a trip for two to Hawaii and limo ride from their hotel to rolling Stones concert, her friend expected to go with her but she wanted to take her husband. Her friend made it such an issue that she ended up not going on the trip at all and wasting the tickets. This was not even a close friend just demanding-I told her she was nuts not to go with her husband but she didn't want to cause any problems-such a waste
@tehevilengineer7939
7 ай бұрын
7:37 gaslighting it was a whole ass propane tank
@louib716
7 ай бұрын
Doing it to a child, no less. Repulsive.
@CakeofRage
7 ай бұрын
the moment tumblr came up in the first story, i miiiiight have entertained the awful thought of "hmmm. maybe doxxing is okay."
@potatoalt1313
7 ай бұрын
Solution to the 2nd story: OP gives the tickets to his girlfriend and brother. Win-win.
@swector_unit4257
7 ай бұрын
For the first story op should of still told her ex friend what her son is doing and told her "If your son keeps on harassing my daughter then I will get the police involved." But she didn't. Because I know I don't want police officers barging into my house and arrested my son/ daughter for just fine out they are a P word.
@esorenilegnave
7 ай бұрын
I’m pretty sure no one will see this. For me, I was 19 he was 41/42. Was in a theatre show with him. Was able to break from the fog after he was horrible to the crew at another theatre house, but 7 months of it still sounds crazy now that I’m 34.
@Davtwan
7 ай бұрын
Her ex-friend was messed up, but I do understand her going off the deep end. Imagine realizing the boy you raised for 21 years turns out to be... THAT. That would be enough to break someone’s mind.
@moebiusjdx7288
7 ай бұрын
Ohhhh man if this was my daughter in the 1st story, I'd end up in jail. That freak was ending up in the hospital or worse.
@royalbluegaming7763
7 ай бұрын
I...really just want to talk to that guy. I just want to talk to him.
@RavenHaili
7 ай бұрын
It urks me to keep hearing the 20yo who tried to bgroom a 13yo be called a boy, nah thats a grown man trying to be on top of a little girl. A GROWN MAN
@Mirai_the_weeb
7 ай бұрын
This happened to me as well (story 1), I was being groomed back in 6th-7th grade by a 24 year old for about 2 years. My parents never noticed what was wrong. They took my freaking out about having my phone taken when I did something bad as me being on my phone too much or addicted to it, when what I needed was help. It damaged my trust bc I knew if something happened to me they wouldn't care enough to notice or protect me, I've also been abused so many times in relationships because I'm so over trusting and gullible after that guy. I regret it all the time and try not to blame myself bc I was literally 11 years old, but I showed him my body and said some things no 11 year old should over text.. I wish they stopped it or noticed something was wrong
@niccage6375
7 ай бұрын
When i was 21, i felt uncomfortable talking to 18 year old seniors in high school
@giothed00d
7 ай бұрын
As soon as he said “I arrived in SF” I automatically knew it was superbowl 50 lol
@DaremoKamen
7 ай бұрын
Remember how abusers isolate their victims. What are the odds that OP's daughter's problems with her peer group were the result of the abuser spreading stuff about her to them?
@squeaktheswan2007
7 ай бұрын
6:24 "Why would you think I want a 14 year old?" Because of how you've been contacting one, duh.
@MidwestRider559
6 ай бұрын
As an uncle to 6 teenage girls, I would've gone to prison in the 1st story... besides I know some people who still owe me noodles, if you know you know.
@3431angelbaby
7 ай бұрын
Last story: Many, many years ago, my son(J) 8 at the time, decided he wanted to play football. I took him to sign up. I took him to practice. I took him to games. During the sign up, everyone was put into a raffle for 2 tickets to the first game of the State of Origin(I had totally forgotten about it). This is Australia, btw. Well, J ended up winning. Yay for him. I went to pick up the tickets. I continued to take him to practice. I continued to take him to games. I had an argument with his father about who got to take him to the State of Origin. Dad kept saying...I'm his father, I should do this kinda thing with him...um, sir, you never took him to sign up, you never took one practice, you never took him to one game. I get to take him to the State of Origin. J and I had a blast. Queensland lost that first game, but we had a great time.
@andrewlanglois6362
7 ай бұрын
12:22 Dabney Bailey, you are a wonderful dad. Just know that you Got this! I'm happy that you know this story, and you can be at ease. It is not my story. I have not written any Reddit yet.
@vampiricdemoncutie
7 ай бұрын
the first story is yikes! the age difference between them is like 7 years, now my fiancé's parents are about that same difference with the 7 year gap but they got together when they were both well into adulthood, 13 and 20 is way too young! this guy is a disgusting pos and i hope he gets what he deserves, im glad they got the police involved even if the results were small, im glad they got the restraining order at least.
@leileyaravencroft
7 ай бұрын
5:50 - Yo, what? That MAN preyed on a little girl. A child. I hate it when adults emotionally manipulate children. They don't have the capacity to fully understand anything and adults know and use this to their advantage. She should not have to deal with the ugliness in the world yet. And he started that crap when she as 13. At that age, I had already been groomed and assaulted. I am still dealing with the consequences of the adults in my life. Good on the parents for trying to protect their child. Not all parents do.
@irobot9250
7 ай бұрын
I'm so proud of the first OP for not only not punishing her daughter for the acts of a sicko, but for doing everything she can to make the daughter feel safe again. We need more people like this in the world.
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