When you start dating, hide and seek becomes a game called ghosting... only nobody comes to find you. Stalk Me: ig: / swoozie TikTok: / swoozieftw Art by: Bandit
This was hilarious. I'm glad mall girl found someone who doesn't mind that she eats birds 😅😢😭
@bottle3124
10 ай бұрын
I will sue you for overrated comment
@UnknownCartoonEditor
10 ай бұрын
But... what were Swoozie and his friend talking about at the mall? We may never know.
@TheEncouragementKid
10 ай бұрын
i eat chicken but i feel like she catches sparrows or crows and just nom nom nom 😂🤮🤮
@johnlewis8934
10 ай бұрын
@@UnknownCartoonEditor asking the real questions we need answers to
@davidohaegbulam9988
10 ай бұрын
chickens are birds
@HeisenbergFam
10 ай бұрын
My heart goes out to all people who were ghosted by their crush, one of the wildest experiences to witness
@larryalvares1369
10 ай бұрын
I was ghosted by my crush, but I didn't get the message until it was too late. A few months later, one of my friends (who I don't talk to anymore) said that my crush was talking about me with her friends, and I thought: She's making fun of me. So I texted her: "Did you say sh*t about me :)", and she said: "no why?". After a few things happened, I blocked her, then unblocked her because I felt guilty, only to see that she blocked me. She got a boyfriend, and I cried and was comforted by some of my classmates
@deadly5528
10 ай бұрын
its a once in a lifetime experience. Or multiple
@MouseCreations
10 ай бұрын
ive seen you
@simpmoodles5265
10 ай бұрын
Literally see you everywhere omg😭
@MarDoesBoxing
10 ай бұрын
@@larryalvares1369 not even batman wouldn’t have got this one outta me
@destinydecoding
10 ай бұрын
I would never ghost someone i’ll tell them this isn’t working because guys don’t take hints they’ll find you on your social lol
@IAskedBruh
10 ай бұрын
Lucky you got pinned 😔
@destinydecoding
10 ай бұрын
@@IAskedBruh lol never got pinned before lol i like it even better my first time is by my favorite KZitemr 🙃
@Daveeemichel
10 ай бұрын
fair
@HoodedSpidey
10 ай бұрын
We need more direct queens like you for us clueless guys! And you deserve men who can handle “no” for an answer.
@8amincleveland
10 ай бұрын
Too true🤣
@enjae2762
10 ай бұрын
Generally, I feel the best advice ((and not the easiest by any means)) is to not kill yourself over it, maybe relay a story of what happened to a friend and if they can't give you a reason for the ghosting ((or they can and it's just something stupidly inconsequential)) then just let the ghost go haunt someone else. You probably don't want anyone in your life who'd leave that easily to be begin with and you shouldn't be letting yourself lose sleep over something you can't control either. People be acting up these days, close your heart to it, do you and move on.
@gizcraft4523
10 ай бұрын
spoke straight into my fuckin soul. great advice and thank god i've been doing this recently. i ain't gonna give my time to people who cant even respond with a "hey".
@london8615
8 ай бұрын
facts
@anonl5877
10 ай бұрын
"Hey it was nice meeting you, but I don't feel like we're compatible"... HOW HARD IS THAT?
@mrshmuga9
10 ай бұрын
And if the person is getting weird or whatever, block them. You already said you’re done and don’t need to say anything more.
@snickers4ever97
10 ай бұрын
I’ve ghosted people when I was in a very bad place mentally and just overall very sick. Mental health issues mixed with addiction was a huge reason I ghosted people cause I didn’t want them to realize how fucked up I really was. In reality, me ghosting people was super fucked up. I’ve gone back and reached out to those people to apologize if they wanted to hear me out, but for anyone reading this, know that if someone is ghosting you or you’ve been ghosted, there’s a chance it has nothing to do with you. Doesn’t make it right, but maybe it will help with the mental gymnastics it can cause.
@valenmind
10 ай бұрын
what did you say? like how would you word that?
@1millionsubswithonly2video39
10 ай бұрын
@@valenmind jus mental health issues, like taking a break from social media
@gojirabh9383
6 ай бұрын
@@valenmindIf you reach out someone later, you just simply explain the situation and reasons behind you ghosting someone. Proper communication is key.
@based_will
10 ай бұрын
I’ve heard from a lot of my female friends that they ghost because of the way some dudes handle rejection. They’ll send a nice “not feeling it, but best of luck” type of text and the dude calls them all kinds of nasty names so instead they just ghost. Sucks for people like me going on dates that get it, appreciate texts like that and have also sent the same types of texts. I’d much rather hear someone say it’s not going to work out then to have to guess.
@demetriusean
10 ай бұрын
Girls be majoring in communications but then resort to ghosting 💀
@reallynow7718
10 ай бұрын
😭 Need to realize boys be dry as hell when texting or communicating
@SemperFives
10 ай бұрын
Why swoozies life more interesting than a 4 hour movie Edit: Why is just one of swoozies stories more interesting than my entire life
@hunerer812
10 ай бұрын
Most 4 hour movies I would tune out of but if swoozie made one I would watch without blinking Fr
@Baddawg_313
10 ай бұрын
Money & youtube fame.
@PocketbaII
10 ай бұрын
Because it's relatable
@colinchomas5832
10 ай бұрын
@@Baddawg_313he got that cause his life’s interesting tho, he’s making the same videos he has had forever
@Lssj100
10 ай бұрын
What 4 hour movies have you been watching
@ltmretro3028
10 ай бұрын
Swoozie we need the 10min+ story times again
@memerboibeanos2651
10 ай бұрын
yes
@Rigby350
10 ай бұрын
I miss those long ass videos
@diegocarmona6069
10 ай бұрын
As long as he’s uploading at least
@nkechietudo7325
8 ай бұрын
@@diegocarmona6069This!! Swooze has been so off lately.. as long as I'm getting some of him, I'm Gucci 👍
@augustuslodholz5453
10 ай бұрын
Lmao, I used to think ghosting was kinda just unacceptable behavior, but the I eat birds text chain after handing out the number incident, wow guess some people really are wildin', and Swoozie still had the manners to inform her why he ghosted years later, what a standout guy
@Nameless_mixes
10 ай бұрын
For me, ghosting is always a last resort. Unless someone’s behavior feels like it could risk my health or safety (which has happened), I’ll try explaining to someone why I don’t want to keep talking with them. And I’m straightforward to a fault. And I elaborate a LOT (especially if asked further questions). So, if they don’t get it, that’s on them. Seriously, ghosting others is just such a scummy thing to do. And you don’t know what kinds of people are out there. You ghost someone, they know where you live, work, or frequent, and then they’re showing up to that place until they get an answer. Just tell people the truth. Yeah, it’s hard. Nobody ever said the right thing is the easy thing. But things will be better for both parties if you do.
@vikkidc3859
10 ай бұрын
If they're willing to escalate as a result of ghosting then they're willing to escalate as a result of being rejected altogether
@lynntran9522
10 ай бұрын
I appreciate that you explain your reasons for ghosting! You're right that it isn't easy, but it has to be said. I recently had a friend do that for 9 months so I reached out multiple times and she finally told me why she ghosted me. Turns out she believed this rumor that wasn't true and blocked me after I tried explaining that to her. So like swooz said, ain't worth trying to fix that one!
@onyxx5612
10 ай бұрын
Yea fam I tend to elaborate too but I guess that’s seen as overexplaining and I try not to say a lot but I would like people to get the full scope so there’s nothing left out and ever since 2020 everyone’s sensitivity is more tHan sky HigH so leavin a small minute thing is counted as lying so ye. And even if I am able to get my side across witH tHe elaboration, niggaz still disregard me so ye.
@Euphoryaaa
10 ай бұрын
@@lynntran9522 the worst is when you get ghosted and blocked over a misunderstanding and since they blocked you you can’t even discuss it or see that maybe you both had the wrong idea. People ghost over every little thing these days
@Pieruh
10 ай бұрын
What sucks is that some people will ghost you for the smallest reason, like the person being ghosted isn’t being creepy or overbearing but then they’re wondering what they did wrong.
@OurKindofEntertainment
10 ай бұрын
sWooZie!!!! When I tell you I needed this video! A girl who ghosted me over TWO MONTHS ago out of nowhere hit me up this morning, but I've been avoiding opening the message. A few seconds ago, I was about to respond after getting up the nerve to do so. Then I saw this video appear in my recommended! I didn't open the message yet, but the notification bubble showed me the first few words "Hey, sorry it's been awhile. I've been so so so busy..." FOR TWO MONTHS?! Get the heck outta here with that... We had been talking daily for at least 3 months before she just randomly stopped messaging me!
@AhWhyIsTherePoopInYourMouth
10 ай бұрын
Do not message her back! Move on and find better women. Best of luck.
@qtacontessenu
10 ай бұрын
my guess is that she had someone else but after 2 months it fell through so she is going after the 2nd option again lmao answer and then ghost her in retaliation
@Tr3ndSetter
10 ай бұрын
Open it so she sees u read it and dont reply
@MaxwellAyo
10 ай бұрын
Nah, she got some other dude, went with him, but stuff's collapsed, so now she's remembered her backup, either reply with,"Oh, cool story" or leave her on read 😂
@codylloyd9968
10 ай бұрын
Bruh she was with someone else and it didnt work and now your the backup plan dont fall for the trap delete that message and never respond
@joshj6017
10 ай бұрын
“I eat birds” swoozie had a potential serial killer on his hands
@pilosopher974
10 ай бұрын
We all be going to jail for KFC 😢
@aidanpatrick5334
10 ай бұрын
Hurts a million times more than getting rejected.
@palerider2132
10 ай бұрын
Idk how, I just see it as they are pathetic and can't be held responsible. You really wanna be with someone that is too childish to be blunt?
@bottle3124
10 ай бұрын
@@palerider2132 not to be rude I’m not gonna listen to relationship advice from a furry, you called it childish yet your profile picture is a wolf with a wig and suit 😂
@bottle3124
10 ай бұрын
@@palerider2132 and THEY are pathetic
@palerider2132
10 ай бұрын
@bottle3124 There's a difference between playing pretend and being delusional. Most men and women are the latter. No one wishes to be responsible anymore. it's pathetic. Almost as pathetic as you disregarding what I said off the mere fact of a hobby I partake in.
@pantherman8719
10 ай бұрын
Its all the same to me but rejection is a better and honest way.
@wittmoneyman
10 ай бұрын
If you're ghosting someone over a horoscope, you deserve to stay single.
@montyturner6511
7 ай бұрын
Ngl. It honestly pretty ridiculous. 😅
@mofooty22_
4 ай бұрын
Swear people just be making things up. That’s the stupidest thing ever
@JLHoskins
10 ай бұрын
Some people are just energy vampires. They'll constantly hit u up, asking when ya'll can hang out, bombarding you with messages, etc. BUT- the moment you give them any *hint* of a rejection; suddenly you find yourself in a free therapy session, heavily reassuring them of their worth and all that. It's EXHAUSTING when you really just wanna be by yourself and relax with some ice cream for the rest of the day.
@jacoblagat3878
10 ай бұрын
Just shared this with someone who ghosted me after a date. Things were going well, good conversations later that evening and the day after… then nothing. No warning, no reason for it. Just me scratching my head and wondering for hours what I did wrong. Call me petty or whatever, but ghosting is cowardly and incredibly confusing for someone who has done their best to do right by you. If for whatever reason you can’t be honest, then just make something up - it’s a million times better than leaving someone in the dark.
@Nathaniel21
10 ай бұрын
It's not petty at all to feel that way. If you're being a respectful decent human being, it is cowardly for the other person to ghost you
@BigJ98G
10 ай бұрын
Ain’t a big deal , hoes pick and choose but playas get chosed . Keep on playa
@JoJosWorld
10 ай бұрын
i like the friendly ghost one
@swoozie
10 ай бұрын
👻
@nimbzclowd
10 ай бұрын
That's the worst imo. Kinda leading the person on. I'd rather them say they didn't click with me off rip.
@Artryom
10 ай бұрын
@@nimbzclowd Ye, ngl, it feels the same as regular ghosting, just say “Yo, this isn’t going to workout (Insert reason here possibly)” but it is leading on and leading with no intention of going anywhere feels the same. What a waste of time, a precious thing.
@93queenv
10 ай бұрын
@@nimbzclowdI don’t agree . We all know when the person is enjoying talking to us or not . If I’m answering you with one day delay and You seeing me post things you should get it
@Rerbun
10 ай бұрын
@@nimbzclowd friendly ghost isn't an alternative to saying things aren't working out, the friendly ghost is an alternative to full on ghosting. I'd rather someone who's avoiding confrontation do the friendly ghost than regular ghosting
@morfeyy-
10 ай бұрын
my problem with ghosting is i legit never get to know what i did wrong. like I recently even got ghosted by a colleague of mine that i had no real interest in and they had no real interest in me either and we just shared memes and shit and now i just got blocked. 4 people in a row now and I'm still none the wiser which is fucking aggravating.
@damoji5332
10 ай бұрын
3:17 The thing about being "too nice" is that some people tend to be unnaturally "sweet" to the person theyre trying to date which, unless you're going after royalty, makes the other person feel uncomfortable, either because they can tell it's insincere or it's smothering them. Also, a lot of things people equate with "nice", like not wanting to take any risks, not having fun and not bantering a little with friendly jabs are actually just boring traits. People usually want someone that can at least keep their life at the same level of interesting it's at, and people who have too much of the above traits just can't give that
@C2EAKali
10 ай бұрын
I think "too nice" can also be that someone is love b*mbing... which is def a red flag.
@RileyFM
10 ай бұрын
Casper the friendly ghost style seems like more effort than sending a text explain, "I don't see this going anywhere" 😂
@starkillermarex
10 ай бұрын
Ridiculous that this childish behavior is acceptable. We should all be adults and just tell each other what we feel
@britkarian
10 ай бұрын
I would agree if people would take rejection a lot better
@CandleAshes
10 ай бұрын
Most people don’t want to hear “I don’t like you and don’t wish to speak to you any more.” And it’s frequently dangerous for women especially to enter these conversations.
@lexiim.3903
10 ай бұрын
@@CandleAshes Yeah I relate to that. As a woman, it's hard to do. I was once straight up about how I felt and the guy stalked me. So sometimes, ghosting when you get the red flag can be easier. Not saying it's always best to do, but helps in certain situations.
@daspotjoel
10 ай бұрын
Hurt ppl hurt ppl
@seg162
10 ай бұрын
@@CandleAshes If it was so dangerous, you wouldn't associate with men in any capacity.
@jaredpeyton9881
10 ай бұрын
I got ghosted once because she was emotionally unavailable. Took me a year and a half to realize that.
@ZatiCoh
10 ай бұрын
Ah, nothing like avoiding people and building a stress metropolis because of it 😊
@spiritonic
10 ай бұрын
Thats my specialty
@duskshadow25
10 ай бұрын
Regardless if you you're a guy or a girl, if you ghost someone without even having the guts to tell them you're not interested, it's very toxic and immature in my eyes. It just straight up makes you an asshole too. Even if I don't like someone, I just straight-up tell them I'm not interested and thank them for their time. That's like the least you can do as a decent human being. Don't be that person that go buys milk and never comes back and leave your kids wondering where their dad/mom went. Take responsibility and accountability and move forward, instead of just avoiding an issue and only think about yourself at the moment.
@CCCPx23
10 ай бұрын
Being ghosted by my first love was a heart-wrenching experience that left me feeling confused, hurt, and abandoned. We had shared a deep connection, or so I thought, and I never anticipated the sudden and complete silence that would follow. Our relationship had blossomed in a whirlwind of emotions and shared experiences. We laughed, we cried, and we dreamed together. I reveled in the euphoria of young love, believing that our bond was unbreakable. But then, almost out of nowhere, it all came crashing down. It started with subtle signs. Messages went unanswered, calls were ignored. At first, I brushed it off, thinking that perhaps life had gotten busy or that something was weighing heavily on their mind. I gave them the benefit of the doubt, hoping that things would soon return to normal. But as the days turned into weeks, my hope transformed into anxiety. I began to question everything. Was it something I said or did? Had I unknowingly hurt them? The silence became a heavy weight on my chest, and my mind spun with a million unanswered questions. I desperately sought closure, an explanation for this sudden abandonment, but it was nowhere to be found. In my desperate attempts to make sense of it all, I retraced our steps, analyzing every word, every gesture, searching for any signs of trouble. I wondered if I had missed any red flags, if I had been too blind to see the cracks forming in our relationship. But the truth was that I had been blindsided. The days turned into weeks, and the weeks turned into months. The pain of being ghosted lingered, an open wound that refused to heal. I oscillated between anger and sadness, between blaming myself and blaming them. The unanswered messages became a constant reminder of the void that had been left in my life. Eventually, I realized that I needed to accept the reality of the situation. I had been ghosted, and I might never receive the closure I craved. It was a harsh truth to swallow, but it was a necessary step towards healing. I had to learn to let go, even though my heart still ached for an explanation. Over time, I began to rebuild my life, piece by piece. I surrounded myself with loved ones who offered support and understanding. I immersed myself in hobbies and passions, seeking solace in the things that brought me joy. Slowly but surely, the pain of being ghosted began to lose its grip on me. While the scars from that experience remain, I have emerged stronger and more resilient. I have learned that ghosting says more about the other person than it does about me. It taught me the importance of communication, honesty, and respect in any relationship. But most importantly, being ghosted taught me the value of self-love and self-worth. I realized that I deserved someone who would cherish and respect me, someone who would communicate openly and honestly. I refuse to settle for anything less. So, while being ghosted by my first love was a painful and confusing chapter in my life, it was also a catalyst for growth and self-discovery. It taught me invaluable lessons about love, resilience, and the importance of standing up for myself. And as I continue on my journey, I carry those lessons with me, knowing that they have made me stronger and wiser.
@jacoblagat3878
10 ай бұрын
This was so incredibly well written that I find myself reading it twice. Even though you’ve come out on the other end wiser and more self-assured, I’m sorry you had to go through that. This person obviously meant quite a lot to you.. I’ve been there myself. I think it just goes to show the fragility of human connections in this day and age, and how easy it is for some of them to just fall apart unexpectedly… it’s hard to know who to trust sometimes. I guess the best thing we can do is learn from these experiences so that we’re better prepared for them when they happen again. Wishing you all the best!
@C_medina_
10 ай бұрын
I'm not reading all that
@saman-ky6uf
10 ай бұрын
If the likes didn’t prove it, this happened to me too, so you’re not alone in that experience. And yes, while that sucked, the new self-worth I got out of it made it a worthy emotional sacrifice considering I got into that relationship in part because I lacked self-worth in the first place. 😂❤
@darkpinkgirl6684
10 ай бұрын
bruv wrote a whole essay, that's how you know it hurt
@jacoblagat3878
10 ай бұрын
@@darkpinkgirl6684 no one’s forcing you to read it or comment 🤷🏾♂️
@Danny-ky9tc
10 ай бұрын
I forgot how absolute misery the whole dating process is. Really blessed to have found someone special in the mist of all this mess.
@mrshmuga9
10 ай бұрын
*midst
@Nathaniel21
10 ай бұрын
I've been single for over a half year now. And although I'm busy and sometimes overwhlemed with life, I'm honestly too lazy to deal with the dating process.
@CorinthianIvory
3 ай бұрын
It's a real knife fight out there
@TheWesinatorvids
10 ай бұрын
I was in the Disney College Program last year and while I was there I met a girl and with my friend’s encouragement decided to be bold enough to give her my phone number saying we could hang out some time. She ended up texting and we planned out a time and place. On the day of, I texted her a few hours early and said “Are we still on for today?” … nothing. Never heard from her again. Ghosted. This actually happened TWICE. With 2 different girls. Then one day I was on the program bus and I overheard a girl telling her friend about how she did something almost exactly like my situation to a guy, and she said, “It’s just so fun!” That really just made me sad cause I guess I was just that for two other girls. Luckily, though, I ended up meeting a super sweet and genuine girl that gave me her phone number, and we actually hung out all the time and got to know each other super well. We’re still dating to this day, and I’ve never been happier, cause I’m with someone I care about who truly cares about me back.
@IAskedBruh
10 ай бұрын
Swoozie out here with another banger 💯 the amount of dedication is real 😌✊️
@foxbuns
2 ай бұрын
"If you never tell him, he'll never know" implies it's your own personal responsibility to teach every single weirdo around you how to properly "human".
@Lafalot54
10 ай бұрын
It's one thing to be ghosted by a rando on a dating app who you've never seen in person, it's another thing to be ghosted IRL by your best friend of 3 years without any explanation whatsoever. True story. And I know something didn't happen to her because I saw her in person but she ran away and posts things on social media. It hurt a lot
@atkharisma
10 ай бұрын
personally, i ghost people because people can be weird and have off intentions. and so once you’ve done/said weird things too many times, and it finally clicks for me, i stop responding altogether. i’m a firm believer in people know what they’re doing or saying and sometimes if you give people room to “explain” they will come up with anything 😭 just to keep you around
@PaperMario64
10 ай бұрын
I think people would be honest about why things won’t work or why they’re no longer interested if people were taught how to HANDLE REJECTION. You’re not gonna be everyone’s cup of koolaid. If we could handle rejection without going nuclear, I think ghosting wouldn’t be necessary.
@sirembrum49thegreatmoth2
10 ай бұрын
Exactly! And it wouldn't lead to so much confusion and stress
@samwightman1
10 ай бұрын
Too many experiences of guys getting defensive if rejected, means ghosting feels a whole lot safer. I'm not saying ghosting is right, but is often not a reflection on that individiual but a reaction to past experiences
@dinodare1605
6 ай бұрын
People can't learn to handle rejection if you don't expose them to actual rejection and just do games like ghosting.
@snowdr0ps_
10 ай бұрын
Getting ghosted sucks. I'd rather you be honest and say it's not gonna work out instead of just not responding at all, ESPECIALLY after going on a date and them being like "Oh I had a great time"
@josevargasrd
10 ай бұрын
I ghosted my crush once, she was giving me the casper treatment and it was doing a number on my mental health, when I noticed how much it hurt and how far I was I had to block her in order to preserve my mental health
@abe2902
10 ай бұрын
I’m sick but a new swoozie vid is the best medicine😂😂
@alvincarter7203
10 ай бұрын
Same
@Isaacyeah
10 ай бұрын
Im also sick :/
@L._Titus
10 ай бұрын
Me too.
@SmearOnStandby
10 ай бұрын
I recently got ghosted, myself. Your timing is impeccable, Swooz :)
@alexm._3655
10 ай бұрын
“I eat birds” was so random
@tatimarie8277
10 ай бұрын
I’ve ghosted twice in my life, both times I told the guy I was uncomfortable multiple times and did not want to meet up in person but they would not take no for an answer. Eventually, I ghosted because it was like talking to a wall. I generally believe in being up front but unfortunately some people have the idea that being persistent is romantic.
@BSJ-Unparalleled
10 ай бұрын
I think if someone sends you a message out of the blue random, talking about their craving for birds, you have every right to ghost them with no explanation.
@IYasmineI
10 ай бұрын
I'd NEVER ghost someone for being nice. I'd LOVE to meet an actual nice for no reason person.
@trekapinder9630
10 ай бұрын
I would tell my male friends they are being creepy then they tell me they know what girls want....they get ghosted constantly
@graceong
10 ай бұрын
Had a friend who ghosted me out of the blue (everything was great) who messaged me again about a year later. Apparently, she fell into a deep depression and couldn’t keep up conversations with anyone anymore which was why she disappeared on me. She’s doing much better now, which is great, but wished she could’ve said something before just disappearing like that
@gangmgang_
10 ай бұрын
When I needed a video like this Swoozie is the one to deliver thank you my G 💯🙌🏾
@christopher6361
10 ай бұрын
Swoozie your the goat! Thank you for your content ❤️
@Ragduff598
10 ай бұрын
I never knew what it was called until now. And I can say I have real trust issues because of this. my girlfriend is doing what she can to help me recover, and to start trusting again after being “Ghosted” on and off from literally every girl I’ve ever liked throughout my teen years. I’m very thankful for my girl for sticking it out and being a support I never knew I needed.
@dareal8n
10 ай бұрын
Swoozie coming in clutch whenever I need him
@CloudStudiosPhoto
10 ай бұрын
sWooZie always comes through with the videos I seem to need most. Like bro is reading my mind sometimes! Anyhow, I appreciate you man, great video as always 🤙🏽
@MusicalRomancegrl
10 ай бұрын
I once ghosted someone because they kept disrespecting the same boundary. 3 strikes, you’re out man.
@EzCoast
10 ай бұрын
It's only creepy if you aren't attractive. It's been stated
@naisin5607
9 ай бұрын
I mean isn’t human nature
@jellymatsuryuka6853
9 ай бұрын
yeah nah I'll still find it strange if the person says they want to kill me behind my back regardless if they're pretty or not (I say this outta experience).
@miccysenpai9334
7 ай бұрын
@@jellymatsuryuka6853And that makes them unattractive.
@DavidLopez-dg3sy
10 ай бұрын
It's always a good day when swoozie drops
@CheezeItzOrBeatIt
10 ай бұрын
Most people have been ghosted and have ghosted someone which is insane, that just goes to show how uncomfortable people are telling others how they really feel, this should be discussed more because it’s actually a very common yet interesting issue, I don’t think anyone who ghosts other people are bad people but being ghosted is considerably worse than being told they are no longer interested in you, people tend to think of worst case scenarios so it’s a lot of mental turmoil
@lollyrox
10 ай бұрын
Swoozie out here uploading a vid about ghosting while he ghosts us months at a time 😂😂😂 love u swoozie ❤
@wiznik88
10 ай бұрын
Also something to consider that I've found out the hard way moving from a blue city to a red city, sometimes it's just not your dating pool. And that's okay, you're just not surrounded by the type that seeks your type
@dwarvesta1132
10 ай бұрын
Internet based society where many people aren't mature enough to communicate, or to take rejection. I hate ghosting but gotta accept it's gonna happen. I haven't gone super saiyan yet. Not even my final form.
@watalock2402
10 ай бұрын
perfect timing for the infos 🙏 ty!
@glovefox
10 ай бұрын
I ghost a person once I've passed my 3 personal gates of hell: 1) I confront them but they didn't listen/or it escalated, 2) I realize weeks have gone by and I'm still losing sleep over it, and 3) just seeing their name/number active online on my phone or pc makes me physically upset
@d00mOfTheLiving
10 ай бұрын
0:34 I'm SO GLAD someone else said "being a hardcore racist" - the only time I specifically ghosted someone was for that reason. It was very clear he had ideas about Black people that I did not have the courage or energy to educate him about for the rest of my life. Sorry bro, wherever you are, hope you've read a book by now.
@Roxality
10 ай бұрын
I’ve always tried to communicate when something isn’t working out, but some men become violent,threatening, or beg. I want to be honest, because I feel it’s the right thing, however when men do things like that it makes women pause. I can only speak from my experience as a woman who dated men. I’m so happy I’m married now and don’t have to deal with dating anymore!
@davidordaz5251
10 ай бұрын
Yeah dating sucks for both men and women gave up on dating recently too many disappointments so just said screw it
@sucyshi
10 ай бұрын
So much this! I started ghosted after having to call the police a couple times on some dudes I went on a single coffee date with.
@julianrudert7779
10 ай бұрын
Then why not at least write them? They cant hurt you over the phone, correct?
@Blahsheep
10 ай бұрын
That's interesting. I would say if he gets violent for something like that it shows they definitely isn't a match.
@AlwaysSomeone
10 ай бұрын
@@julianrudert7779 it can still be psychologically stressful to receive threatening and angry messages over the phone Not to mention some guys get really determined and can start trying to track you down through social media
@tutakuazen7910
10 ай бұрын
Another day, another great Swoozie upload 🔥🔥🔥
@joemomma6317
10 ай бұрын
Issa good day whenever swoozie drop
@youexpectedausername2242
10 ай бұрын
A minute for all the homies laying in bed at night wondering why they weren't good enough.
@wavyjuicehq
10 ай бұрын
ghosting is only acceptable if you legally change your name to Casper
@zohammer1466
10 ай бұрын
That Casper the ghost thing was smart
@CrazyGamingYT56
10 ай бұрын
Love your content keep up the great work
@taraweisz1865
10 ай бұрын
Some women don't feel comfortable rejecting people because there are all those horror stories about stalking, etc. They ghost to avoid confrontation, because at the end of the day, how well do they REALLY know the person they went on the date with? Not condoning the behavior by any means. Just giving the female perspective as to why it may happen.
@pachasnft9954
9 ай бұрын
We know but 80 percent of the average male population
@stephcurry3793
10 ай бұрын
Thank you swoozie for speaking nothing but facts for 9 minutes straight 🙏
@beast6213
10 ай бұрын
We love a Swoozie vid 💛
@TheTEN24
10 ай бұрын
Lmao the third scenario is def what happens they find someone better or more attractive. I also think it doesn’t help when they ghost because like you said we have no idea what we’re doing wrong. But at the end of the day it’s a challenging thing I’m so glad I have someone, I’m truly lucky.
@truebornseeker9767
10 ай бұрын
I do think it should be standard to criticise or explain why you and a person doesn’t work out, but I *fully* understand ghosting when a guy isn’t taking the hint, or makes you uncomfortable, or makes you feel like you’re in danger (or you genuinely believe you could be in danger)
@KZDaGOAT
10 ай бұрын
You know its finna be a great day when Sir Swoosie post🙏
@samantha-janembangani335
10 ай бұрын
Swoozie with the gems, always Super Saiyan. 😂😂❤
@heathererhayel8842
10 ай бұрын
you don’t understand how much this made my day
@HarmonizEclipse
10 ай бұрын
I ghosted this tinder date because when we were eating he took food off my plate, that I was paying for my own meal, after he ate all of his food. Even though I have said before, food sharing with strangers, which he was, freaks me out.
@AbeyantHero
10 ай бұрын
Swoozie out here giving me the reason I don't have a reason why I got ghosted
@The-Negative-Commentator
10 ай бұрын
Lord I needed this
@SmithReactions_
10 ай бұрын
SWOOZIIES BACK ❤
@shinseitaizen
10 ай бұрын
Just went through this for the first time two days ago after what I perceived as a good and amicable two months. Got blocked on all avenues in the dead of night. In a state of disbelief, I looked at her social media for answers. It was another dude, after she convinced me that I was the only one she was talking to. I don't wish this on my worst enemy.
@SluggedNugg
10 ай бұрын
The real question is, what do you do when you get ghosted while in a platonic friendship?
@mrshmuga9
10 ай бұрын
I guess check another platform in case something happened to their account/phone number where you usually contact them. If no response then you might’ve been ghosted. Perhaps they thought you wanted something more (or were using you as an “emotional tampon”) and once they found someone, lost interest in you.
@Loe_Jist
10 ай бұрын
There could be a few reasons. They could be dealing with some things on their end. They could've been busy or weren't in a good headspace or forgot. In all honesty, it's probably this: they did have something else going on but don't think about you or value your friendship enough to respond. You're not a priority for them. I've been there before and it feels awful once you realize it. It hurts but it's the unfortunate reality of relationships: we don't value others as much as we should and we don't give them the time, energy, and attention they deserve.
@mr.anonymous221
10 ай бұрын
Woke up and saw swoozie posted, jus KNEW it was finna be a good day
@simangameplay1180
10 ай бұрын
I have honestly been waiting for this video😅
@StayLoyal949
10 ай бұрын
I’ve had someone ghost me bc of my zodiac sign & ex gf broke up with me bc she had a “fortune reading” when in actuality another guy was better than me so instead of being a adult and be honest she accused me of infidelity along with the fortune reading on top of that
@Hailthecloudslayer
10 ай бұрын
All this tells me is that dating now days is not worth it.
@bagel29
10 ай бұрын
You spittin
@gregkareem9824
10 ай бұрын
All fax no printer 🖨 💯
@ancientking224
10 ай бұрын
I've honestly start doing tests to see if their ever going to text first. As if I'm the only one starting these interactions then it doesn't feel like their really interested in the first place.
@Luxury.
10 ай бұрын
When most KZitemrs change their style it’s a drastic change but I’m so glad that swoozie still has the same style just a bit different Luv ya man
@586bomin
10 ай бұрын
Swoozie you never disappoints Alas I've ghosted and been ghosted. I've ghosted when a guy didn't take NO for an answer and got predatory obsessed stocker behavior, I always try to be straightforward with whatever person I interact but the dude didn't get the memo. I was ghosted when I was talking to the guy and everything seem to be cool, the minute I suggested an in person meeting the guy " died" 😂... I mean nada , zip, niente and girls if this happens to you don't beg or cry, know that you probably ditched a bullet 😉❤
@qintical
10 ай бұрын
The way this video randomly transitioned into an awkward fan story 😂😂😂
@shawncaradine6016
10 ай бұрын
I had a similar ghosting experience between me and a girl in College Biology last semester. We pretty much sat by each other the first three classes and then split. I am pretty sure it was something I said in the classroom that caused her to just walk by be without saying anything every time we see each other. It's weird and awkward but it's also frustrating , not knowing.
@coolcow6244
10 ай бұрын
Swoozie, i love your vids. There sooooo entertaining, ty for these vids.
@viewmann200
10 ай бұрын
Ok the horoscope scope isn’t the only one Swoozie should find problematic, a couple of these are HORRIBLE reasons to ghost someone. Like the no tipping one, seriously? 😭😭😭😭
@alleswatikkan
10 ай бұрын
Instead of ghosting, try to see it as an oppertunity to learn how to deal with hard conversations/confrontations, so you have experience for when you need to confront someone important.
@mrshmuga9
10 ай бұрын
That’s not gonna happen, lol. Women have the luxury of not having to care because they’ll find another date the next week.
@ChrisTheDoge
9 ай бұрын
As someone who met his girlfriend in second grade and has been hanging out ever since, i am happy i don’t have to deal with the whole online dating and ghosting thing
@Deon598
10 ай бұрын
Bro the HUB Soundtrack went hard😂😂
@Cometstarlight
10 ай бұрын
I ghosted a guy who gave me the ick on a first date. He let the door shut in my face at the restaurant, he talked a lot, but when I talked, he’d go on his phone, and didn’t offer to pay (I always offer to pay for my own portion, but it’s a green flag to me if he at least offers, even if he doesn’t pay for mine). Dude immediately tried to set up a second date and I said I had to go. Kinda stalked me for a while at my job and I had to be walked to my car to make sure he wasn’t there. Ghosted him hard and he finally left me alone.
@three2won_
10 ай бұрын
lmao that's not the ick he's just a bad person
@seg162
10 ай бұрын
@@three2won_ On the other hand, using the term "ick" is a... yellow flag, at best.
@katamichi8003
10 ай бұрын
This video came at the perfect time . I recently got ghosted. We just hung out at her bonfire Just the 2 of us and she said she invited me because she liked a lot of the comments I liked on her post. It was nice we mostly just sat there and talk but i tried to secure a second date and she just never got back to me. but I have noticed she's been gassing up my friend from elementary school. (were adults now) Even asked if she knew him and she said no. I've pretty much moved on from figuring that mess out but In the back of my head I'm just thinking "Was I really not worth 10 seconds to say you're not interested?"
@thebigovo5471
10 ай бұрын
Great timing
@kanmiodubanjo3982
10 ай бұрын
i love your videos swoozie and the video are so true.
@theamazingwebb
10 ай бұрын
I let this happened to me twice with the same girl within 3 months....and then one of her best friends (we had a nonromantic relationship) also did it to me twice....it was painful
@heathererhayel8842
10 ай бұрын
BINGED SWOOZ ALL NIGHT JUST TO GET BLESSED THIS MORNING !!! PRAISE THE LORD ON THIS GLORIOUS SUNDAY, NEW SWOOZIE VIDEO
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