This is a rebroadcast. This episode originally aired May 11, 2023.The definition of a “win” is different in high conflict situations as opposed to ordinary conflict. Not recognizing that a win looks quite different can inadvertently escalate conflict or take a few steps backwards.
In today’s episode, Megan and Bill talk about:
* defining what it means to “win” in high conflict
* do you need to reach an expected outcome to have success
* temptation to keep going when you should stop
* when do you know if you’ve won
* choosing your battles
* avoid opening up emotions
* focusing on keeping people focused on thinking and doing
Links & Other Notes
* BOOKS
* 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life ( www.amazon.com/Types-People-R... )
* Calming Upset People with EAR ( www.amazon.com/Calming-Upset-... )
* It’s All Your Fault! ( www.amazon.com/Its-All-Your-F... )
* ARTICLES
* Tips On Offering Mediation To A High Conflict Employee ( www.highconflictinstitute.com... )
* Our website: www.highconflictinstitute.com/ ( www.highconflictinstitute.com/ )
* Submit a Question for Bill and Megan ( www.highconflictinstitute.com... )
* All of our books can be found in our online store ( www.highconflictinstitute.com... ) or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.
* You can also find these show notes at our site ( highconflictinstitute.com/podcast ) as well.
Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior.
00:00 - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
02:16 - How to Avoid Sabotaging a Successful Interaction
03:25 - Definition of a Win in High Conflict Situations
06:02 - Choosing Your Battles
07:57 - Praise vs. Opening Up Emotions
10:17 - Making Progress, Not Perfection
13:03 - Fuhgedaboudits
18:32 - Blame as Indicator
21:21 - Coming Next Week: Exposure and Humiliation as a High-Conflict Strategy
It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People
Episode 23, Season 4
July 11, 2024
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