The hardest part to deal with is "wasted time" the time we lose recovering and healing
@tnmantn8938
21 күн бұрын
Acceptance comes after understanding what we are facing..Thanks LS💯💯💯
@nryane
21 күн бұрын
I am grateful to have learned acceptance. I feel compassion for individuals who treat me with indifference or hostility. However, I am not responsible for how they feel or behave.
@moirabij734
21 күн бұрын
Truth and wisdom. Thank you again for the reminder. 🪷🙏
@lisemanuge7854
21 күн бұрын
Yes ! Life is difficult and not fair 🤷♀️ ! Yepper ! Life will give you some knocks , you have to be your own best friend , and you have to have boundaries 🙏🏻
@ShawnDowns_scd
21 күн бұрын
Truth said here can save you a lot of pain,money,& time if heeded.
@davidcrowley1985
20 күн бұрын
So true...all the education you acquire post relationship only gets you to the juncture of acceptance. At this point denial stops and it's the end of hope and dreams. It's the toughest hurdle to get over but when you do get over it you can truly turn inwards and start to focus on yourself and heal.
@linlitner4959
21 күн бұрын
Accepting that those relationships are not what they once were and loving from a no contact stance.
@angelamwatts
7 күн бұрын
That's exactly right, L.S. I would move heaven and earth if I thought for one second that I could have a loving, healthy relationship with my son and grandchildren. Believe me, I have tried but he refuses to respect boundaries and I have gotten to the point to where I've accepted it and went no contact. The boundaries that I tried to reinforce with him were not unreasonable. I refuse to fight with him or be in his company if he's going to rage like a toddler and call me all kinds of names. I refuse to respond and/or comply to him when he "barks" orders at me like a dictator. I had requested a structured visitation schedule with him with regard to visitation with my grandchildren for the purpose of being courteous to his schedule and not showing up unannounced or at a time which might be inconvenient. His response was "you can see the kids anytime you want, just not when I have stuff to do." Well when is that? Who knows because the schedule can change in a hot minute whenever the narcissist feels like it. So where does that leave me? No contact...
@sarahkay8784
21 күн бұрын
I finally accepted that we are not compatible. His view on everything, his version of love, his view on acceptable behavior, his view on fidelity etc is just not compatible with me. I know it’s because he is a narcissist but I had to really take that out of the equation. For me at least because I spent way toooo many years having that debate, is he one, is he not one. In the end it doesn’t matter, he is the polar opposite of what I want and what I can tolerate in a romantic partner. He’s never going to love me, at all, and once I accepted that, once I accepted what I was asking of him, he was quite literally incapable of providing. Not because I wasn’t smart enough or pretty enough, because he just can’t. That’s on him. Not on me. It was hard. And a long road. Many days I listened to your videos on repeat. Just trying to “get it”. Understand something. Thought it was a big complicated puzzle to be solved and you are right, it’s as simple as accepting it won’t ever be what you want it to be or hope it will be or be what they say. Once that clicked, I was able to walk away. It still hurt. I still mourn cause he mattered to me but life is so much better! Thank you for all you do! ♥️
@nryane
21 күн бұрын
You hit the nail on the head! Knowing our values and establishing boundaries to enforce them are critical. Debating on whether or not someone is a narcissist is a distraction. Taking ourselves out of a relationship that doesn’t meet our values leaves us the opportunity for a relationship that meets our needs.
@miraclemorgan1061
15 күн бұрын
And when a NARCISSIST faces this Truth, maybe there will be hope for them: "You CANNOT Have what Doesn't Belong to you." It is Fair for the TRUE OWNERS to RECEIVE what is RIGHTFULLY theirs. (Common Sense). 🤭. One Love!
@Lily59265
21 күн бұрын
TY, You aren't compatible & your needs aren't going to be met. It doesn't matter how much you try to change. Don't change drastically to accommodate anyone. There isn't just one person for anyone. People expire or leave. You outgrow people places things jobs, etc. That is okay & normal You should be healing & evolving. You shouldn't stay the same. The only constant is change. Experiences change you. & You aren't compatible with anyone who is okay with you changing & improving yourself & your life. They are abusive & only desire to take advantage of you. 👇 LET THEM GO 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 Accept if you can't be yourself, practice your own belief system that works best for you, heal around & be successful, it's NOT 🚫 for YOU 👇 LET THEM GO 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 Let go of people places jobs things that aren't compatible with you You are here to THRIVE LET THAT & THEM GO 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶 Letting go is a daily process-Melody Beattie Namaste Peace Shalom
@vickiezaccardo1711
17 күн бұрын
No contact really is the best way of you can and are willing. I never thought much about the description ' toxic pesonality'. I mean it's a no- brainer, right? Well you can know something but not feel it. Feeling it takes it to a whole new level of understanding. Recent phone conversations that had me feeling like I'd been poisoned for several days. Telling myself, " come on you know this and that and why am I letting this fester and driving me 3 and 4 days later?"" " " "Me to me I feel like I ingested poison! Also me to me, "Ohhhhhh! Oh yeah, toxic-poison-infection- sick etc. Ohhhh!! " Edit, clarification. Yes, I felt the sickness but somehow there was a disconnect between feeling that way and connecting it to the term.
@DailyPaily
21 күн бұрын
Radical Acceptation
@susannay.3437
21 күн бұрын
And acceptance can still allow for a happy life. 🥲❤️
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