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@flowercatsmeowmeow4744
2 ай бұрын
Its just now getting to my door step in Brooksville. Wind and rain...
@hoghug4338
2 ай бұрын
Green flags is neeeeeded❤
@aime265
2 ай бұрын
Love these type of videos where you ramble/talk and share❤
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
THANKS! :)
@pooja_aggarwal
2 ай бұрын
Ditto❤
@hannahzasmr7690
2 ай бұрын
I am watching this one to see if I AM the red flag lmao
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
Omg lol
@blister9366
2 ай бұрын
Folks who r red flags don't do that. They never think they're the problem.
@siouxempirecoyote8174
2 ай бұрын
🚩 if you aren’t subscribed
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
EXACTLY
@renataguzman7084
2 ай бұрын
“You’re probably not talking to Beyonce” lol 😆
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
Lmfao
@asmrwishes
Ай бұрын
🚩🚩🚩🚩some I've noticed 1. Someone with no friends. I think its healthy to have ppl in your life to help keep us accountable. Having no one is a problem IMO 2. Someone who is rigid upfront. That can turn into a controlling attitude 3. Someone's who's actions does not match their words
@linds1233
Ай бұрын
I feel so strongly about number one, especially with people just declaring they’re ‘introverts’ and dont need friends. So silly. Also how would you know if they’re able to maintain friendships or currently have healthy relationships?
@emirachelnatalie3397
Ай бұрын
As a person with no friends i agree but disagree lol. Agree when they are more extroverted, bubbly, need to be around people kinda thing. But disagree cause I have ZERO friends for about 5 years, and that was caused by anxieyy which lead me to go by mself now im introverted, shy and quiet but a really nice person..i jusy lack confidence lol
@linds1233
Ай бұрын
I understand you were in a dark place and I’m proud you’re still here, but if I went on a date with someone who hasnt had a friend in five years, I’d think there was something extremely off. Honestly I’d assume they are so absorbed in their own lives other people don’t cross their minds. Also I’d think they’d probably lack the ability to understand how to be a good, CONSISTENT friend to others. Immediate no.
@emirachelnatalie3397
Ай бұрын
@@linds1233 true true. I know I'll struggle with those things but I'm also open to learn. I want to get out and meet new people, live life a bit more. But as a 20 year old in a small town it's a really hard thing to do....not your fault but now I'm thinking that I'll never get to experience new things, new people etc and that people see me the way you say people with no friends are like. Not blaming you as its ur opinion but its obvious others will think that too so... :(
@hannahzasmr7690
2 ай бұрын
Ok I’m convinced you are talking about my most recent relationship that didn’t work out. He was 10 years older than me, and had a very bad alcohol problem. And I ignored the flags 😭
@lyric-pk4iy
2 ай бұрын
Bodies under the floor boards 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@Davinia77
2 ай бұрын
These days it’s easy to FaceTime someone before going on a date! If someone refuses there’s something wrong imo
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
Right good idea
@mickjen
2 ай бұрын
Demanding to see my home on FaceTime is a red flag. Not respecting my privacy or time is a red flag. Videochatting with a stranger is an overreach, to me.
@mackerman2565
Ай бұрын
@@mickjenyou can always have a blank wall as your background or blur it on the call. it's way safer to meet online and get a feeling before meeting irl. That suggestion is definitely not a disrespect to any of the things you listed.
@honeyfurfarm2182
Ай бұрын
As a woman i always video chat first so im not alone somewhere with a stranger in person. One guy actually told me he loved his job killing cows at a slaughterhouse 😬 @mickjen
@mignonnesilva4306
29 күн бұрын
@@mickjenwhere did it say they were demanding to see your house. They want to see you. I think it's obvious why.
@Archos22333
2 ай бұрын
Especially being gay In a relationship. Every man I’ve dated has had atleast one of these red flags
@Young4eva121
2 ай бұрын
Aw man I’m so sorry about that
@dangermouse1997
2 ай бұрын
as someone who has been some of these red flags myself, i fully agree with everything said
@mattklign4554
2 ай бұрын
I came for the ASMR, but stayed for the top notch life advice 😊
@alberto_.5926
2 ай бұрын
Yes make green flags video 💚
@annabananna77
2 ай бұрын
If someone is less or more mature than you, it’s going to be a straight uphill battle. I wouldn’t say it’s an immediate red flag, but the second my friends new adult boyfriend pulled out A TOY HOT WHEEL CAR that he had apparently just had on him this whole night and I realized that maybe I should look for people a littleeee older than me…
@PUTELASANCHEZ
2 ай бұрын
tony, tysm for this video, this subject is so important, especially for young girls
@iclandiccubicle2798
Ай бұрын
I LOVE these advice videos, please keep em coming, I will say tho that you have to be extremely cautious of dating someone older especially as a younger woman, not sure if the same applies to men but for me personally age is not just a number.
@taylor22222
2 ай бұрын
Tony really ate these up🔥
@alisia7029
Ай бұрын
I was just binge watching all of your ASMR advice videos last night and was wanting to hear more of your thoughts, this came at the perfect time!!
@florijanrepensek6951
2 ай бұрын
sending love from Slovenia! great advice brother!
@TonyBombonifan1
2 ай бұрын
I love all of your videos. Especially your role playing. Need more of those. They are fun. You are fun. ❤ love ya
@cheryllann_
2 ай бұрын
Such great great advice.
@basicindiebro
2 ай бұрын
I’ve learned the hard way on many of these. 😔 But in my opinion you can’t know you know until you ACTUALLY know. I kissed a lot of frogs and somehow ended up bettering MYSELF when one really bad abusive relationship ended me in therapy. I’m also a gay dude and it’s great to hear one of us discuss this as well as many of the wonderful women I follow that make this kind of content.
@teresagarcia9770
2 ай бұрын
Good advice Tony, thank you, it all makes sense!
@treearoha
Ай бұрын
This is really good advice, thanks Tony!
@stephaniewalton8537
2 ай бұрын
Dating is hard for me bc I’m kind I give give give and men just treat me horrible I go on vacations from my job and find out my bestie has tried to go out with my boyfriend
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
OMG im so sorry to hear hun
@stephaniewalton8537
2 ай бұрын
@@ASMRer thanks I want something special like not cheating faithful honest I don’t feel like I’m asking to much but maybe I am with people who have a disability
@stephaniewalton8537
2 ай бұрын
@@ASMRer got back to work today after a week long vacation and found out my boyfriend was cheating on me with my best friend he said he wanted to date Leia bc she was in the same agency as him and we never got to see each other outside of work but the funny thing is I tried to set it up with him all the time and he said he was always to busy. Which is another red flag 🚩 if they always have an excuse why thy can’t go on a date with you
@SillyMilly
2 ай бұрын
ive only got to red flag #1 but my eyes have already been opened - i was in a talking stage w a guy who always wanted to go out during the morning or early afternoon, and when i would suggest concerts or anything past 8pm he would get uncomfortable...it didn't click in my mind that he must have been hiding something until you mentioned this, although I had my suspicions!
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
Yessssss
@Y2Kikii
2 ай бұрын
Or maybe he's just not a night person? As my partner and I got older we usually prefer to do activities earlier in the day so we can rest at night. We literally have a bedtime of 10pm most night lol. Usually it's cause of work in the morning but also that we just don't usually like to stay up late.
@SillyMilly
2 ай бұрын
@@Y2Kikii that would make sense if we both weren't 19 and had no work outside being students 😭
@juliemarie5157
2 ай бұрын
I try to stick to daylight, a short timeline with a set ending, and meeting them at the location (not riding together) when on a first date with someone from the internet. I'm not hiding anything... I just want to ensure my own safety and not waste my/their time doing something more involved if they're boring or sketchy. He might have similar goals in mind. 🤷🏻
@SillyMilly
2 ай бұрын
@@juliemarie5157 Except we didn't meet on the internet, we go to the same university and know each other in person, and we hung out many times. So he was fine w seeing me during the day, but not during the night (especially when he's a night owl and loves going out) gave me major suspicions.
@teganrymillagreda6856
2 ай бұрын
Loved this a lot!
@Guioulnara
2 ай бұрын
12 secs from upload, *CLICKED SO FAST*
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
dang youre fast LOL
@Young4eva121
2 ай бұрын
I wish I found this video 6 months ago ☹️
@Askarcher
2 ай бұрын
UGH real
@Askarcher
2 ай бұрын
I am in _prison!_ lol
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
@nokkitty3634
2 ай бұрын
Tony has been reading my mind a bit too well lately
@stephaniewalton8537
2 ай бұрын
People with disabilities are some of the kindest people but not all the time do they treat you right I know this from experience a lot of them cheat bc they look for love in the wrong ways. At least this is the men I have dealt with
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
ohh interesting
@DefinitelyNotAutumn...
2 ай бұрын
🚩 if you have eyes, because why are you looking at other guys😔
@colors8310
Ай бұрын
Hi Tony, I dont think,that you have to be in a relationship,or had a relationship,to know things about the matter. So many people had dozens of partners,but dont get any wiser... And some people who's goal is to be in a rel.,can spend the time learning how to comunicate properly,how to know what you want in life. And learn,who you are. With many people in rel. I dont see them getting wiser at all...
@Sapphires1985
Ай бұрын
How about white flags like i surrender to the b.s. thus far😂😬🤦🏼♀️
@Drumyguy
2 ай бұрын
Bros got that immaculate jawline
@Sunkem1Not6Hacks
Ай бұрын
19:06 this is so true, the woman here are attracted to Ogres and not to the pretty men lol. I guess pretty men don't get their hands dirty every day working. But also the woman are beautiful on their own so it just amplifies the effect.
@piaegan4427
2 ай бұрын
You never know about people invented married over 25 years people change I am 59 years old
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
:0
@piaegan4427
2 ай бұрын
Stop going after looks look good person
@ASMRer
2 ай бұрын
Yes
@westy_besty3261
2 ай бұрын
I really like these types of videos! Your advice was also really informative and nice to listen to!
@junie1017
2 ай бұрын
I've been struggling to let go of this ongoing situationship I've been in for the past year almost. It's really hard for me to accept being alone and to not reach out but this video is a sign. ❤️🩹
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