Maria has such a gentle voice even when she’s just simply speaking 🥺💕
@maeg.9123
5 жыл бұрын
Yea I get ASMR from it as well
@lilatwyx2789
5 жыл бұрын
She's GentleWhispering all the way
@lensbeautyhub
5 жыл бұрын
I know I watch her on this channel because it’s so relaxing and I love her videos here
@mrsjtalia
5 жыл бұрын
Sho ooky i was just about to comment the same thing omg
@Ashleigabrielle
5 жыл бұрын
I’ve chosen this video to fall asleep to tonight lol
@EsotericTherapy
5 жыл бұрын
"I'm proud of us as a couple when we fight." The truest of relationship goals.
@jennhoff03
5 жыл бұрын
Right?!?! I wish I could hear one of their fights. I don't know if I know how to fight in a healthy way!
@prosto-husky
Күн бұрын
@@jennhoff03 ОЧЕНЬ ПРОСТО - С УВАЖЕНИЕМ к любому Человеку! ☺️🙏 Its very Simple - Just RESPECTFULLY to Any PERSON you speak-appeal-argue to! 💁☺️
@potpie1987
5 жыл бұрын
Never underestimate the power of a healthy argument. 💕
@oliviadraper0501
5 жыл бұрын
Honey Bear facts...learning to express my feelings in a calm & healthy way while fighting has been one of my most important lessons
@princesssarah1213
5 жыл бұрын
Or a healthy relationship.
@kswannie
5 жыл бұрын
I think I know why Maria likes a good fight
@emlo3746
5 жыл бұрын
kswannie Eh?
@FeministFashionistaK
5 жыл бұрын
One taught you love One taught you patience And one taught you pain Now, YOU ARE SO AMAZING!
@frankievalentine6112
5 жыл бұрын
Pain is not something anyone needs to learn.
@priaa7934
5 жыл бұрын
Frankie Valentine wish that were true , but we live with fallible human beings so might as well make the best out of it. Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.
@laurenstewart9918
5 жыл бұрын
thank you next
@eveboyle109
5 жыл бұрын
lauren stewart,,,my sentiments too, as I sip my g and t!!!
@laurenstewart9918
5 жыл бұрын
@@eveboyle109 wdym?
@mikeberg7492
5 жыл бұрын
As someone whose watched your videos since pretty much the beginning I just have to say it’s been so cool and often pretty motivating to watch how much you’ve grown and continue to grow as a person. But through all of that your good heart and dedication to whatever you put your efforts towards is extremely inspiring to me
@cessily89
5 жыл бұрын
Yep, well said Mike!
@airemay
5 жыл бұрын
+
@acsentu8
5 жыл бұрын
So nice
@Judymontel
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, very well said!
@XboxSpide
5 жыл бұрын
I've only been watching her since 2015, but I still wanted her to be in good mental health and financially stable back then. It's good to see she may finally be there.
@carina9451
5 жыл бұрын
Something that gives me a lot of peace thinking about (that might sound cliche) is that I have survived every bad day in my life. Everything I thought that I couldn't get through, do or live through I have. It gives me this level of hope like I am a strong woman and I survived the past so I can survive what's coming too.
@laurenjurgens1681
5 жыл бұрын
Carina 94 I’ve recently adopted this way of thinking too. It’s helped me to stop living in fear every day and to realize I’m capable of much more than I think I am 🙌🏻
@oliviadraper0501
5 жыл бұрын
Carina 94 love this - thanks for sharing !
@pockyeatingpanda
5 жыл бұрын
Carina 94 this is sort of my mantra! I always tell myself “I’m stronger than this” when I’m scared, because I too have survived everything so far thinking that it would kill me.
@brh.1892
5 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear that :)
@chrisnam1603
5 жыл бұрын
yes, i totally relate with u
@GrowingPothos
5 жыл бұрын
I'm 22, I don't have much life experience but I really admire you, you're one of my role models even though I don't know you personally. I hope I can be that strong and brave throughout my life!
@Ava-ns4go
5 жыл бұрын
same xxx
@user77-k6c
5 жыл бұрын
Same 🙋
@chloeatchison7865
5 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 as well and I can relate too this!
@nicolerichards4225
5 жыл бұрын
same :)
@comfortablynumb9181
5 жыл бұрын
samee
@emmacassady4518
5 жыл бұрын
Saturday night beer and real talk with Maria? Heck yes
@riajaschubauer9818
5 жыл бұрын
Hell to the yes. ❤
@tiffany117
5 жыл бұрын
CAN WE MAKE THIS A SEGMENT?
@MyNameisMessenger
5 жыл бұрын
Yes please.
@Lily-fd7lc
5 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more about needing to live with a partner before you get married. I've always said that it's very wise!
@emilyb7752
5 жыл бұрын
Lily my boyfriend and I studied abroad together. That’s a real good test for time😂😂
@hermiesrokmysox
5 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@bettyveronica460
5 жыл бұрын
I agree! I have a female relative who for some reason thinks (or used to) that a couple shouldn't live together unless they were married. That makes zero sense to me. If you're already having a physical relationship with them, why can't you co-habitate? I do realize that some people might believe in celibacy until marriage, and if that's what they want, then good for them. Maria is so right! You never truly know someone until you've lived together at least a couple years. That's what's real...how you get along during real life stuff (arguments taxes, job loss, illness). Too many people mistakenly get married during the love hormone 'honey moon phase'. Everything seems so amazing...but it's really the Oxytocin. That wears off, and if you still LIKE each other, then you can keep it fun, but be serious when times call for it.
@WhittRak
5 жыл бұрын
Best comment on here!
@helloitsme6379
5 жыл бұрын
24 years and never been in a relationship. It has taught me that I don't have to fit a certain standard and that the relationship with myself is the one that I should be working on. Thank you Maria for your honesty and I am so happy for your family
@emilyb.8219
5 жыл бұрын
I'm 23 and the longest relationship I've been in was 2 months. Nice to know there's other people my age who AREN'T getting engaged, seems like that's all I see on facebook now, ugh
@laracherry6583
5 жыл бұрын
I am 31 and had my first serious relationship ( that i am still in) when I was 29, not a big deal realy
@orenji196
5 жыл бұрын
I love how she lights up when she talks about Darryl and always calls him “my Darryl”. You can tell how much she loves him ☺️❤️ wish the best for both of them.
@Yolanda-ry7sh
5 жыл бұрын
i'm so happy you got out of such awful relationships and now you're married to a lovely man who understands you & makes you happy 💖 you're so inspiring
@Ava-ns4go
5 жыл бұрын
The fact that you've been through so much hurt and abuse yet you still have the most kind and gentle heart of gold and are so giving is the example that we all need...I'm so glad you exist.
@Cerveza-
5 жыл бұрын
How you always say "My Darryl", love that so much ❤. Lots of love!
@alexthemoosefinder
5 жыл бұрын
You are SO right about living with your person before marriage, Maria. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we just bought a house. Needless to say, this has been quite a change in our lives! It’s been hard, but we are learning even more about who we are individually and as a team ♥️ Thanks for your videos Maria, both your ASMR and vlogs. You have no idea how much they have enriched my life.
@AlexisTwoLastNames
5 жыл бұрын
Alex Mayberry it’s crazy how two yrs for some couples is a long enough time to buy a house together and for others it’s just the beginning
@WorldWearyAngel
5 жыл бұрын
idk. On one hand i think it makes sense. But statistically you are more then 2x as likely to break up and get a divorce if you cohabitate with your spouse before your married. So then im confused. At teh same time if you discuss your values and expectations before your married idk if you need to cohabitate cuz you will know who they are as a person. And you can work together through the issues from there. I mean im not saying she is wrong. I just know that statistically they say you are much more likely to break up if you live together before your married.
@alexthemoosefinder
5 жыл бұрын
WorldWearyAngel I can’t find the article, but apparently there has been more research on this subject and those statistics are based on very specific factors, which make complete sense. It said that your chances are extremely high in divorce/breaking up later on if you 1. Move in together because you can’t afford living on your own 2. Move in before understanding each other’s marriage timeline expectations and I can’t remember the third one. But as you were saying, no matter what the circumstance, if you communicate very clearly expectations/values before marriage any couple has a much better chance :)
@AlexisTwoLastNames
5 жыл бұрын
WorldWearyAngel talking about it means nothing. people say they are better than they are. this is coming from someone who has lived with roommates and significant others. we all do it. i think those statistics may be framed to make it seem like people break up more if they cohabitate first. people who arent married are more likely to break up than married couples because of ease, so if you only live together post marriage you deal with it rather than knowing you can “find better” if you arent married. i think the mindset changes once you say those vows, and the willingness decreases because of lack of ease to separate
@alexthemoosefinder
5 жыл бұрын
Alexis VM Yes yes yes
@hureinah9432
5 жыл бұрын
Can you do an ASMR video HOUSE TOUR? Pleeeaassseee! Thank you 😁😁
@elo0077
5 жыл бұрын
I second that!!! 💚
@priaa7934
5 жыл бұрын
I’d rather not...see that.... boundaries are important to respect and honor.....she gives so much and in this culture and time we live in,we take so much from others ( especially those in the public) without giving in turn ... before you know it their burnt out and shutting down their channel..... balance... I wish only joy and balance between her passion, her privacy, family, and work ... Update: so my comment comes from my musings about the string of KZitemrs who’ve recently quit from burnout (Michelle Phan) and also from the fact that some have been stalked (HeatherFeather) and completely been affected the lack of boundaries into their life.
@mxlinaaa7196
5 жыл бұрын
i never knew what was so interesting about viewing someone’s home! it’s jus not safe yk. her having a media presence, a new baby, settling in her house, being a new mommy! probably not the best idea although a sweet and innocent one probably better to respect her family privacy!😋
@mxlinaaa7196
5 жыл бұрын
PRIA A i agree!:)
@PandoraStolen
5 жыл бұрын
@@priaa7934 She gave a house tour of one of the houses they rented. I would love to see it. But if she is no longer comfortable with that, I would respect that.
@ShelleySailz
5 жыл бұрын
From my husband I learned how to take time for myself; he encourages me to stop, take a break... and rest. I don't have to be Wonder Woman. 😍
@SassyMashaVlogs
5 жыл бұрын
That's a keeper 😍❤
@TheASMRAngel
5 жыл бұрын
I totally get you when you say you're happy after a fight. When I was younger I'd go in a mood, storm out and ignore my boyfriend after a fight. Now I'm older, more mature (only a little bit) and know my other half very well, we can have an argument as if it was any other conversation. It's not comfortable and I don't enjoy them but it feels good to sit and hash out your problems, understand the other person's point of view, move forward and make improvements in the relationship.
@nherna51
5 жыл бұрын
My post would be so, so long because I have learned so much from the men in my life...I've learned that I just want to be with a person who is kind, patient and funny but most importantly that respects me and values not only our relationship but our friendship too....Thank you for sharing your wisdom on relationships and for being so honest about what you've gone through in life....Honestly, how very refreshing and I know this is one of the big reasons why you are so loved on YT and in the ASMR community....Well that and your wonderful soothing voice and beautiful positive energy.....Appreciate and love you!....
@judysahakian4257
5 жыл бұрын
Masha, this video couldn’t have had any better timing. I’m experiencing the aftermath of my first breakup, to a guy who I thought would be my everything. I’m a little over two months into the post breakup and I have been honestly struggling. From talking to someone for almost everyday, to have that consistency in your life, is devastating when it gets rips away. We dated for almost three years. He was sweet, kind, and loving. He was so caring and polite towards everyone he would ever meet. Yes, being in love for the first time and having someone who loves you in return is the most wonderful feeling in the world. However, when you love someone who neglects their mental health, it really takes a toll on the other person - especially when they too have their anxieties. Some days I kick myself down for not ending it sooner, he was drowning and I was drowning. I was holding onto my best friend of three years. I was holding onto the hope that long distance would end. I realized from hours of therapy that we could have been two miles apart (and at one point in our relationship we were) and I would still never see him. He’s living at home (we’re the same age and in college), while I’m over three states away from him. I’ve realized we weren’t really talking to each other. I was talking to him but he wasn’t there. He was struggling through his own depression and anxieties. I understand this because I too have struggled in the same retrospect. You don’t feel like you can share much because you feel as if you don’t have a lot going on - and when you are deep in your depression as even I once felt - you don’t care to share this side of you. You are looking for any distraction. It was not bad but it was not good either. We had a lot of wonderful moments together. We had a lot in common, we both got along well with each other’s families, and things (in my head) seem like they were ideally following into place. I didn’t realize as to how hard he was hurting and struggling during the last few months. I would try to ask him, but he would insist on it being because he lives at home (which is completely reasonable), and he would turn around to make it seem like things were going just okay for him. I would feel bad, my heart would hurt for him. I would do everything and anything to visit him as much as I could - but I found the excuses were the same. I felt disappointed constantly. I would always poor my heart out in little gifts and cards through the mail. Not once did I receive mail from him in our three years. Words from him that were summed up into excuses and probably some lies. I felt as if I couldn’t let go of him. I was too scared to lose this kind of love. My first love. We have worked through harder situations before, so in my head, I thought we could work through this road bump. But it wasn’t a road bump. It was a freaking detour. I’m not going to go into big details, but for almost two months he lied about being in school. He dropped out at some point. Lied to his family, lied to me. Found timely reasons to not see me - being sick although his mom says it was true that he was - because he knew if I saw him, I could see through his lies. It was the literal breaking point that caused us to end. It was three weeks before my semesters end at college. I needed to hang in there in order pass my finals (which I freaking rocked all considering, 4 A’s and 1 B). I know he lied more than just things relating to school, but I don’t know what and I’m not ready to face what those are. I know he loved me (although my anxiety at times says no). I poured my heart and soul into this relationship. I don’t regret this. I know this is who I am with every relationship I have. I only regret not having the courage to end things myself. I was too scared to make that leap. So, I’m still learning my lessons. How to treat myself better. How to be in a better mental place myself before grad school starts and other relationships that may follow. I know I deserve better and I will have someone who treats me in this regard. I know I’ll always love him since he was my first. I would honestly still give a lot to receive a hug from him. I know he wasn’t the best person near the end, but it doesn’t mean our relationship was all bad. It doesn’t not mean he was bad. He’s just been in a bad place. But I am done giving myself that excuse. I still could have been given a lot more in return. I know this at least. (And for those who read this all, you are THE champ.)
@silverwolfeve
5 жыл бұрын
What a strong ass woman! We ALL are very proud of you ❤️
@judysahakian4257
5 жыл бұрын
Lorenza Fiori thank you for your love and support ❤️😭
@FaerieElethia
4 жыл бұрын
Judy Sahakian thank you for sharing this with us Judy, sending you sososo much Love 💛🙏🏽🔆✨
@Holly-bj9bd
3 жыл бұрын
I am just now reading this. How are you doing now, love? ♥️
@winniethebish2893
2 жыл бұрын
@@Holly-bj9bd I am doing so great! Finished my master’s degree and loving life. Thank you for asking 💕
@heavenlyhashbrown1
5 жыл бұрын
Your mental and emotional strength is truly inspirational and aspirational . x
@IsItOrNot
5 жыл бұрын
My advice after 20 years together, married for 9 and with two kids, is to never go to bed angry. Have the healthy argument, then make up ❤️. Thanks for sharing your life with us Maria. You’re a wonderful person 🙂
@brcage
5 жыл бұрын
This is better than relationship counselling. Seriously, watching her vlogs and sharing they're experiences is giving me an idea of what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like.
@huntll3198
5 жыл бұрын
Careful, Shanann Watts was giving similar relationship advice in the same triumphant tone ..
@Q_QQ_Q
4 жыл бұрын
@Hunt L L who ?
@shazzabelle123
5 жыл бұрын
How wonderful! You need to know who you are before you are with someone else and I think your experiential advice is very sound. I loved “attack the problem instead of attacking each other”. THAT is a real gem for all relationships.
@MochiGirl11
5 жыл бұрын
You make some great points Maria! It’s so important to know your partner’s domestic tendencies. Also what you expect from them and what they expect from you. They say you don’t really know a person until after 2 years of meeting them.
@lolalover24212
5 жыл бұрын
I’m 20, I lost my mom to cancer about 9 years ago, and I just wanted to say thank you for posting videos about your life like this🥰. I don’t really have a mother to talk to when I need it, and these videos are super intimate and wonderful to watch. And now with the new baby I feel you have a very strong mother aura, and your wisdom is a gift so thank you once again!
@nikkirevasmrplus5313
5 жыл бұрын
it's crazy how having a child can make you reflect on life etc.
@michaelasomers7929
5 жыл бұрын
well seeing as i’m a teen i haven’t dated anyone yet but - my mom has taught me how to ask for what i want and how to fight for what i want, but she has impacted me in that she showed me how not to act in a marriage and how not to use your words, how to manipulate, and a negative outlook on personal health and looking out for yourself. my dad has taught me how to be compassionate and empathetic and respectful, and how to be independent, but he also showed me how not to handle sadness and to be able to talk to people about your feelings. my step mom has taught me how to be a hard worker and how to put everyone else on an even playing field with you and that making sure others are happy is important, but she has shown me that you can’t always look after everyone else, you have to look after yourself too or you can’t cope. my oldest sister has taught me how to be outspoken and to be an activist and politically involved and how to speak i. front of others, but also not to overstep boundaries and to still be respectful. my second oldest sister has taught me to apologize and to show people you love them and to have connections with people, but also that you need to figure out your life and you can’t just think about the last and the present, you have to think about the future too. my younger sister has taught me about acceptance, and that your words can have an impact on others in both a positive and negative way. she had helped me accept myself and shown me that i can help others too. hope this was interesting for you! love your videos :) sending love
@SassyMashaVlogs
5 жыл бұрын
Wonderful insights! You are a wise and strong young woman, I'm so proud of you! ❤
@michaelasomers7929
5 жыл бұрын
Sassy Masha Vlogs i just looked back at this comment and saw your response :) thanks maria!
@hermes4755
5 жыл бұрын
theres so much tenderness in your voice whenever you say “my daryl.” it takes so much stumbling and falling until you can run, im glad the two of you help each other fly. ❤️
@crystallanning7775
5 жыл бұрын
I love your optimism. You always try to bring out the positive no matter how dark the circumstances. Much ❤ you! From a BIG fan who has been molded by relationships as well!
@pinkjay94
5 жыл бұрын
"I'm proud of us as a couple when we fight." I FELT THAT.
@sickgirl8104
5 жыл бұрын
Relationships with Dad are so important. It sounds like you're lucky to have a great Dad who taught you a lot. I'm blessed with a great Dad too ❤. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
@emlo3746
5 жыл бұрын
Sick Girl you’re really lucky - my dad is an arsehole who left me and my mum at a young age after years of abuse. Cherish your fantastic father!
@sickgirl8104
5 жыл бұрын
@@emlo3746 I'm sorry you had to go through that. Way too many fathers pull that crap without giving a thought to the immense damage it does ☹. I hope you and your mum are stronger for it. I wish peace and love for you both! 🙏❤
@charliesimmons2312
5 жыл бұрын
You are so insightful. It’s time for me to reflect on my relationships. Thank you for the inspiration! The most important thing is we learn from them all and go on!
@sophia_6873
5 жыл бұрын
We love you Maria! You’re so gentle and nurturing, but also so wise and dare I say a bit of a bad a** when it comes to all you’ve learned and been through. 😅
@x3princessbratx3
5 жыл бұрын
I love hearing about your life, past and present. I'm so glad you're with Darryl. Look how far you've come, Maria. It's incredible.
@mikagreenberg5607
5 жыл бұрын
the life of moms: *the sun is still shining outside* a mom: i'm now having my saturday *night*'s beer. god knows i need it.
@SassyMashaVlogs
5 жыл бұрын
hehe, you KNOW IT! :D
@winkie4life
5 жыл бұрын
Literally heading to bed and needed a soft spoken video to fall asleep too💖 Thank you Maria🙏🏾🙏🏾
@kayla3576
5 жыл бұрын
I love this video. Getting a glimpse of a personal side of you is so intriguing! Insightful, big sister vibes, a good time.
@Echo-yk1id
5 жыл бұрын
I've only had one "significant" relationship, and I learnt from that how important it is not to expect your partner to be everything to you, to have a self outside of the relationship, and not to believe being in a relationship will fix all your issues. I'm sorry for the difficulties you went through, but so glad you found D.
@NS-ut4ym
5 жыл бұрын
I had a 15 year abusive marriage then met the love of my life who teaches me everyday what a healthy relationship is 😍😍😍
@princesspink0816
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@alyssaseitz9155
5 жыл бұрын
Honestly watching this gives me a bit more hope for my future. My last boyfriend passed away very unexpectedly and it nearly took me with him. I've constantly told myself that I'll never feel that kind of love again, and no one would want me anyway because now I'm so damaged. Thank you so much for sharing this ❤️
@oliviadraper0501
5 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Seitz i’m so sorry for your loss love 💕💕 you are so strong & just know that you are loved & you will love again :) there is always hope because love always finds a way
@golzararvinkuehn9810
4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss, I wish you patience as you heal, you'll find love again someday
@mrsqueenbea1058
5 жыл бұрын
I started dating my husband at 17 years old I am now a month away from turning 34 we have grown up together, working out who we are as individuals as well as a couple. We are each other’s firsts and onlys. Celebrating 9 years of marriage and 17 years together this year. We work as a team in raising our 3 kids and in every aspect of life. Thanks for sharing your experiences and thoughts.
@oliviadraper0501
4 жыл бұрын
MrsQueen Bea that’s amazing 🙏🏼 how did you guys stay together through college? any tips?
@BigMoney21
5 жыл бұрын
I am truly saddened by cowardice men that would hit a woman because call me Old School I was raised to treat a woman with honor that is what my Dad taught me respect for your honesty and your AMSR Videos have really helped me so much love to you and everyone ☝️❤️✌️😊🐯🦁🐯🦁🐯🦁💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏Namaste
@mxlinaaa7196
5 жыл бұрын
not old fashioned that’s just common sense. every man should treat every woman with respect & honor! kudos to ur dad tho for raising you the way everyone should be raised!!!!
@leprifacioncustard4921
5 жыл бұрын
I don't think this should be limited to just women, just do not beat up other people
@Georgeg15
5 жыл бұрын
I AM Champion Carl DeGennaro It’s a great comment and message but all the emojis ruined it a bit for me .
@emilydiguette
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! Your positive outlook even on such negative situations it's really inspirational.
@breezeh1127
5 жыл бұрын
I love how you share with us. I feel like we are old friends 💜
@wintersolstice4958
5 жыл бұрын
love how Daryll taught u how to fight nicely and attack the problem rather than each other! GOLDEN WORDS!
@lillecamper9137
5 жыл бұрын
i’m half way though and all i can say is you are so strong. i have so much respect for you.
@prittyyyy
5 жыл бұрын
Maria you are such a role model, I swear. The fact that you got out of those relationships stronger and with so much love for life and the world really amazes me. Thank you for sharing this, it thought me every experience in life can teach us something no matter how hard it is
@riajaschubauer9818
5 жыл бұрын
When you talk about "your Daryl" your face does this beautiful glow thing and I love it. ❤
@Dymphna06
5 жыл бұрын
This level of talking is sooooooo relaxing to me. The less staged the asmr, the more it works for me!! I’ve watched a lot of your sassy masha videos for this. BTW, it’s great you and your husband respect each other. That is so hard to maintain.
@winkie4life
5 жыл бұрын
Susan B I agree! Less staged and forced ASMR w her voice is the bestttt
@benreynolds2789
5 жыл бұрын
When she said my Darryl it made me so happy knowing she is with someone who she truly loves. Love you Maria ❤️
@kimberlyf.4130
5 жыл бұрын
Off topic, but your hair is gorgeous.
@Missy_g
5 жыл бұрын
I love how genuine your smile got when you started talking about Darryl. Much love to you three 💕
@monicaj1700
5 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is a sign that you posted this video Maria. I have been thinking about the people who have affected my life the past 20 years, and I needed some clarification. Thank you for posting this ❤️❤️❤️
@girlypanache7095
5 жыл бұрын
Your new home is so bright and beautiful! I'm so happy that things are falling in to place for you, and that those horrible times are behind you. Marriage, baby, home, and self-discovery. You are a fantastic woman! P.S: I re-watched your wedding video, and you guys still need to get the dog!!! Lol! 😜😘♥️
@nadinebeauvais
5 жыл бұрын
This is the most wonderful description of life, struggles, triumphs and love. You speak of your husband with such respect and love.
@mayanimation6696
5 жыл бұрын
I have been watching you for about five years now, since your Cozy and Cute ASMR video, and I cannot believe how wonderful you are. I think you’re the only KZitemr I have watched for this long and it is because you mean so much to me. I’m so glad that I can come on here and see a more personal Maria. I love you and thank you so much!💕💕 Also sorry this is not one sentence lol!
@SassyMashaVlogs
5 жыл бұрын
Awwww... sweetheart 😍 thank you for saying that! Huuugs 🤗
@Rjhs001
3 жыл бұрын
Maria, you are such an open, honest and resilient person and it's also very brave to let all of us thousands of people into some parts of your life. Thanks for another glimpse into your philosophy x
@fabi7296
5 жыл бұрын
I would love it if you made this a constant thing. I admire you a lot and I think you hold a lot of wisdom within you, Maria. It would be so amazing if you made like a monthly video in this channel where you talk to us about your life lessons. Much love❤️😊💖
@stellaluceat7335
5 жыл бұрын
"Mind your manners." That's the one thing my husband and I really try to adhere to. You said it in a way I haven't thought of before, and that was you're not offensive to each other. It's a game changer. Also, totes understand where you're coming from about living with someone before marrying them. I'd like to gently, and with genuine respect to your valid feelings, posit that living with someone isn't statutory. It is not a universal "absolute must," as you say. I just wanted to put that out there bc there's lots of young people who still need to work out what is best for them, but listening to someone they justifiably love so much (as I do too ;)) make such a declaration can give them the impression that x must be abided by. I was a virgin when I got married at twenty. I'm more happy with that same husband today, 20 years later, than I was when I married him. (And no, I don't believe I am an exception whatsoever. Most people I know share a similar experience.) Again, though, your feelings and experience are just as valid. ;)
@wisekimberly777
5 жыл бұрын
You inspire me so much, Masha. Your self awareness and willingness to constantly learn more about the world people in general, it’s so beneficial to me watching you grow so much as a human being. Thank you for telling us your thoughts and feelings on this journey of life 💕
@13beaches11
5 жыл бұрын
You’re so relatable Maria. Such a sweetheart. Talking to us about these life things are so helpful and let us all know we have been through hardships and we can become stronger because of them!
@zenseed75
5 жыл бұрын
I got ASMR during this and felt guilty about it. You are a strong woman! I had no idea you have been through all that. Thank you for sharing. I want to watch again and reflect on my life. 43 and never married. Not sure what I've learned positive.
@alyssam7359
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. It made me emotional because it had me thinking about some of the awful relationships I've been through and how I actually got some benefits from them. I no longer speak to my father but he taught me how to tear down other people and get really personal during a fight, which is an awful lesson but I was able to defend myself against bullies this way, being someone who is not athletic. Then I grew up and I did this in relationships and I learned that will ruin them. In a roundabout way, I learned to be kind.
@jenzzy
5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you've had those difficult and negative experiences but am proud of you for turning them into lessons to yourself about what you deserve, which are only good things. You seem like a genuinely good person and am I'm happy for you to have found your husband and have your adorable baby. Thank you so much for sharing these parts of your life with us!
@coriworlton9875
5 жыл бұрын
Great reflective video. I have watched your videos for years and you have truly grown so much! What I have learned: learn to think for yourself and form your own opinions and set of beliefs.
@riansearcy6652
5 жыл бұрын
I love these chit chat videos I feel like I’m in the room on the couch just listening to you having a beer as well lol
@TheYarnaholic
5 жыл бұрын
Separate bedrooms (later in the marriage) is AWESOME! It saved my parents marriage and mine as well. Plus I'm decorating mine like my high school bedroom 🌼
@kellynemecek5894
5 жыл бұрын
I really loved listening to your insight. Thank you for sharing. And I’d just like to mention how resilient and strong you are. You are an incredible person.
@izzyyClemmensen
5 жыл бұрын
I’m only 22, but so far in my relationships I’ve learned that communication is ESSENTIAL in a relationship, and that I deserve more than an unfaithful, disloyal partner who makes me second guess everything. Thank you for opening up to us Masha, we appreciate you so much.
@Yourfriendmegan
5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you about living with a person before getting married although I did the complete opposite haha. My husband and I were long distance dating and then got married while he was enlisted in the army. A lot of people didn’t think we would last, but we’ll be celebrating 3 years of marriage in December 😊 Thanks for the great video as usual! I always love the personal, deep dive conversations
@rhapsody8212
5 жыл бұрын
I learned that if your friends think he’s a bad choice he’s a bad choice. Always listen to your girlfriends
@thenewusual7405
5 жыл бұрын
Maria, you are a pillar of strength! I think you found your prince! I am in a long term relationship as well. It is wonderful to be listened to and have a partner in crime. You are never alone ever again. We are so lucky aren’t we?!?!?! 🙏🏼 blessings to you and your family!!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
@Nina21_
5 жыл бұрын
the way she spoke about Darryl was soo precious and heart warming ❤❤
@saltandiron3379
5 жыл бұрын
Sorry you were abused by those low-life criminals!!!! Glad you are rising above their actions and surrounding yourself with love!💗✨
@PPYYMMLL
5 жыл бұрын
This is so sweet. Maria, there must be something in the comic energy that a lot of people are reflecting on their lives healing and understanding what's right in their paths. I have been watching your videos for a few years maybe. You've evolved a lot from shy and sweet to now such a confident woman, wife, mom and KZitemr. A woman who finds her right man smiles a lot the glow and happiness is undeniable genuine, finds her talent and achieving her goals and desires in life. Like you said even bad times is satisfying because that's your soul calling your purpose. I am very happy for you.
@Aaron-yr3tn
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sassy Masha. Certainly, relationships are a huge part of life and the subject of a lot of confusion, pain, and joy. I used to seek out relationships based on superficial things I thought I wanted; but these all turned out to be lacking in the end. After a long time fumbling around, I found a book by Marshall Vian Summers called Relationships and Higher Purpose, which really resonated with me and allowed me to discern and work towards realizing my true relationships. I am now a student of the New Message, which deals extensively with relationships of all types, and it has changed my life in so many positive ways. I highly recommend it.
@yenta21
5 жыл бұрын
Your advice on attacking the problem as a team and not each other helps. I try to always tell my boyfriend we are a team and we can weather anything together. This video really resonated with me. Thank you 💕
@MadiASMR
5 жыл бұрын
Last night I was just watching some of your older videos and thinking about how much you’ve changed! ❤️
@ChainofFlowers413
5 жыл бұрын
It's incredibly admirable how you've reflected on impactful life events, especially painful and traumatic ones or ones that might make you feel regretful and how you've picked out positive life lessons and thought about ways in which those events have made you a stronger and better person. It's so easy to carry just the pain and regret. It's something I do often, and of course there are many objectively 'negative' or unfortunate things that happen to everyone but it's amazing how you can still carry your head high, be unashamed and speak about how everything that has happened to you has somehow contributed to some of the infinite good in you, or how to work on your weaknesses rather than define yourself around them. You're inspiring and motivating me to get better at this and I'm so grateful. I'm so happy for you and all you've accomplished, you deserve all the happiness and success!
@victoriabaker3263
5 жыл бұрын
If you only knew how much i needed this video!
@mariagloriarivas1190
5 жыл бұрын
It's wonderful to observe someone like you...a woman who is struggling with her everyday (maternity 😊) issues and yet cherishes them!...who's had ups and downs as everybody else have, and has the wisdom to address the topic from a positive perspective. A regular person, a real woman, a mom... Living her life and learning (a lot) along the way!! This video made me analyze a few things about my own journey. Thanks Maria! ❤
@sydicus3045
5 жыл бұрын
My most meaningful relationship was actually with my ex-best friend (a girl). She was manipulative and bashed on me, but she taught me how to debate my feelings and draw clear boundaries in friendships.
@faerychains8951
5 жыл бұрын
the fact you can see the positive and what you gained from a bad experience really inspires me to do the same
@priaa7934
5 жыл бұрын
Next video: women relationship reflections please and self introspective view
@sofierasmussen6097
5 жыл бұрын
My dad taught me to be tough. My step dad taught me that you always have one person you can count on. My first love taught me how to kiss and love. My second "love" taught me that affection isn't the same as love. My third love taught me that love doesn't always conquer all. This was a really nice video - you are like my mental health guru these days. I'm currently going through a really tough time, but this video reminded me that you learn from every experience and that all of the pain will somehow be worth it because it makes you stronger and wiser. Thank you Maria
@TaraFinlay
5 жыл бұрын
I learned to be a perfectionist from my father too. The problem is I feel like I missed out on valuable other lessons while pursuing perfection in my 20s and 30s. Now I am almost 50 and I am letting go of perfection and my life has improved hugely by this because I am more open to the experiences and the lessons of life vs being only focused on outcomes.
@Loveismekelly
5 жыл бұрын
I love how raw and real you are and how you wear your heart in your sleeve. My husband is my blessing too and I love having productive arguments’ also haha
@jengcl4419
5 жыл бұрын
CAN I JUST SAY I reaaallly appreciated this video! 🌸💜 I am soon going to be moving in with my boyfriend and this is my first very serious relationship so you sharing everything you’ve learned is extremely helpful! Much love Maria ❤️ “Real life isn’t dating or having fun. It’s coexisting at times when you can’t stand each other!” 🙌🏼 ALSO I love the part where you say you feel like you had a great fight like you’re very proud of how you approach your disagreementS ! I understand what you mean 🤗
@Lovereems
5 жыл бұрын
It’s currently 2:42 AM and after a really good day I find myself laying in bed reminiscing and being upset about the past. I haven’t done this in a while. So watching this just now, it’s crazy because I feel like the universe was sending me out a message to view my past as a learning curve and that things are sometimes bad and we can’t change it. But the positives always outweigh the negatives. I am only 18. I have never been in a relationship. But I have already had so much history with a variety of men. I used most of them as an escape mechanism. I have my whole life ahead of me. What I have been through doesn’t define me, but it is a part of me. Something I have learnt from or will continue to learn from. Each person taught me different lessons; patience, I am worthy of love, people do love me, I can’t please everyone, I don’t need to be perfect, it’s okay to be myself. List goes on. Thank you for this video. It’s motivated me whilst hitting home.
@h0tandspicy
5 жыл бұрын
It’s cute how excited she gets when she talks about daryl
@OKHolly
5 жыл бұрын
Man, the attacking the problem together instead of attacking each other was such a good point. That is the best way to have a disagreement, I think. You're really learning how to communicate rather than causing barriers between each other. Also, my boyfriend and I have lived together for about 7 months now and I'm so glad we've decided to do this. We wanted to live together before we ever think about getting married, just so we know for sure that we are a match for each other. I think it's important to know everything you can about your partner before you commit. I'm glad you found your match, Maria! Love you!
@mooonflower
5 жыл бұрын
Maria, thank you so much for this. Thank you for being vulnerable. It creates ripples that empower all of us women! I realized recently that all of the worst experiences of my life have been the direct result of men's lust. This vid is a reminder that these experiences help us grow. Your candor also makes me feel less ashamed of my more difficult experiences with men. Thank you my dear! ♡♡♡
@TheSheGoz
5 жыл бұрын
I love how you self-reflect. Introspection is an absolute requirement of personal growth. It takes great character to recognize, and admit to your own flaws. Recognizing one's role in the both the good and the bad of one's life situations and experiences is a skill few people master. You do it well, and beautifully! Good job.
@TheSheGoz
5 жыл бұрын
My dad taught me pretty much the same lessons yours taught you: a good work ethic, not to be afraid of getting my hands dirty to get a job done, how to be self-reliant, the importance of being a person of high integrity, and to demand the best effort from myself and others. He had a temper though, and could be very abusive. This made me a compulsive perfectionist for a long time - any perceived failure completely broke me because I would beat myself up about it. It took years of help from my current wonderful husband to overcome that. - ♥♥♥ My hubby seems a lot like your Daryl (sp?). I'm so glad we've both found our matches! ♥♥♥
@heavensnight9315
5 жыл бұрын
26 and still figuring life but this video gave me positive vibes. Someday I will find my soulmate
@maggiehill5303
5 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more with living together for a few years before deciding to get married! Also agree that you really learn how you work together during the difficult times. Within the first year of dating, my boyfriend and I had SO many bad things happen. In the end we figured out how to come together and get through it all. Looking back we realized how much of a blessing that first year was. It was hard but we learned so much about ourselves and our relationship!
@rickikreps3022
5 жыл бұрын
Wow thanks for sharing Maria! I love hearing stories of relationship's and how we learn and grow . I too have a similar past as yours. I have an amazing husband now after years of prayers and I believe God put us together. My first marriage was with my first love and it was tough but I loved him so much it tore me apart after our divorce. I'm thankful for him though and the lessons I learned from that part of my life. Oh and yes I'm a firm believer in living together before marriage! I mean you can love someone so much but you may not can live with them! Again thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your stories with us. Love you and your lil family and so happy you've been strong through everything!
@babyswhispers
5 жыл бұрын
Honestly teared up! So happy for you, your growth, and the mutual love and respect you have found in your relationship and marriage with Darryl ❤️
@Pinky7071
5 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you said. I'm so sorry that you went through those horrible things. I think it's amazing how you always find the silver lining. You are such an inspiration!💜💜💜
@DK-pn2dx
5 жыл бұрын
My husband of 22 years has taught me how to accept myself and to see myself through his eyes. He has loved me and accepted me through 4 pregnancies, teen years and now two of our kids are young adults. Even though I'm not in my 20's anymore, he still tells me I'm beautiful and never mentions the wrinkles.
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