I've listened to this particular teaching a minimum of 4 times and I'm still taking notes, processing, digesting and applying. Powerful life changing teaching.
@jayelisalittle334
2 жыл бұрын
I need this, this summer. Thank you, Lord, for Dr. Hart Ramsey and All Nations ATL.
@earnestchilds8489
2 жыл бұрын
I needed this! Holy Spirit thank you for your wisdom and teaching!
@brandonboone348
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Hart Ramsey. This has been one of the greatest teachings I’ve heard in this particular season of my life.
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Authentic relationships allows time for people to evolve and come through these spaces without judgement or abandoement. What it means that sometimes you have to walk with a person until they figure out who they are
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
When people entertain false assumptions it leaves us feeling frustrated, we feel disconnected, we feel misudetstood. And even so you loved the person who is misjudging you, it makes the person feel like nothing you can't do to get people to see you
@shardaew4448
2 жыл бұрын
So transparent and on time.
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone is not the person who hurt you. And everything that looks like what you went through is not the same
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
There is never more of a situation where we are ignorant than we can make an assumption
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
3. Failure to challenge your content for others: Here's and interesting thing we tend to look down on others because of their flaws and other failures in their life. It's automatic it's human nature. You say that you don't do that. Yes you do. If you don't grab yourself by the mind when you find out about a person's flaws and when you see their failures when you see that they have faults in their life, then automatically you look down on them. So I've learned to make this adjustment in my mind that I have to give people permission to be human as I am. And so if I don't do that I will walk around looking down on others and the Lord will have to level me down. Not level me up but level me down to allow me to see and smell my own stink and understand I'm not better than they are. I just get a chance to observe where they are
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
One of the benefits of being older, I've walked through a lot of things I've heard before and believe. I'm on the other side of those things and that they are real
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Every person you meet is in a conflict. This internal struggle puts people in a growth crisis. Crisis speaks to a difficult decisive turning season in their life
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone that you are in a relationship with is going through this. So you know what we do we hide
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Use your freedom to serve one another in love
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Who you complain to makes a difference. Never complain to anyone that can't help you
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Your destiny in life and call on your life requires you to expand
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
🗣 If there's a grumble in my mouth there's a grudge in my heart
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
When you connect to a person you connect to two people every single time. Everyone in the room there is two of you
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
The difference between the Law and Grace is really simple. The law instructs from the outside of you. And Grace creates a normal on the inside of you
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Love your neighbor with the same energy, the same expectation the same emotion that you love yourself. What he just describe is a safe culture
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
No one needs a relationship with a person that makes everything about themselves
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
There are things that are numerous that cause tension in relationships too numerous that are considered in this one teaching
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Tension comes in a relationship when I just choose to criticize them and not complain to them. Instead of saying to them this is the kind of person you are and this is what you have done
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
What happens is we know so little about each other that we damage each other in relationships and we don't understand relationships
@stephaniecandela2255
2 жыл бұрын
This blessed Me....
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
If there's no grudge in your heart your mouth can't grumble
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Anything that wr deemed to be painful we will move away from it and go the other direction
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
2. The lack of communication: Especially when it comes to expectations. People can't read your mind. So they don't know what you're thinking. So you have to share you have to speak and the worst thing that you can do is traumatize yourself by measuring what people do based on what expectations you have that you never share with them
@LadyK09
2 жыл бұрын
Response 🔥🔥🔥#wordfare👏👏👏
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
4. The next thing that hurts relationships is defensiveness when you are confronted. How do you know when you are being in defense. Here's how you know you deflect
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
God designed our brains to protect us and to inform us
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
There are alot of people who can't remember stuff and they are losing their minds because they held grudges
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
What happens to believers is that we don't know the difference between suspicion and discernment
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
🗣🙌💛🙌: Lord you see me. You see where my heart is. You see where I need to be. Speak to me. Help me not to be resistant to what you have to say to me. My heart is open 🙌💛🙌 to you!!!!! Hallelujah!!!!!🗣🙌💛🙌!!!!! Glory!!!!!🗣🙌💛🙌!!!!!
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Use your freedom to make sure you stay free
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
If you can dismissed 90 percent of the positive interaction and label ten percent of the relationship. It says that something is wrong the way you process and it's an indicator that you are not fully you
@alisab.3347
2 жыл бұрын
This Is Powerful, and I needed to hear this. Amen!🎁🎁🎁🎉
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Deflection: Is when a person comes to you and says to you you've caused them pain and you've caused them harm. Then immediately you've deflect responsibility onto them someone else or to something else you don't deal with yourself
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
You can't prophesy your future and grumble about your past at the same time
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
If you' re always biting and devouring one another watchout and beware. You are going to destroy one another
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
1. Choosing criticism over complaint. This brings relationship tension when we choose to criticize people and not complain. Understanding complaining is Biblical
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Tension: By definition is an estrange state of being resulting from forces acting out the opposite of each other
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
God cares about relationships God cares about our relationship. When we are struggling and we are disconnected. God cares
@shirlparks3127
2 жыл бұрын
This is so good. Great teaching👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Complaints will express concerns over a persons actions
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Never pose problems to people who have no solutions
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
You cannot keep leaving relationships unsettled and going to another. Here's why, the way you leave is the way you come in
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Every person that you encounter in this internal conflict has absolutely nothing to do with you. You don't know where they have been. You don't know there struggles and you don't know there development process
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
🗣I am saved
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Psalms 139:14 TPT I thank you, God, for making me so mysteriously complex! Everything you do is marvelously breathtaking. It simply amazes me to think about it! How thoroughly you know me, Lord!
@charlenejackson9216
2 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah !!
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Your assumptions are strongholds and that is why you have this vicirole deep emotional response of things that no one did, no one said how you saw and processed it
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Example: In the Olympic to run and hurdle over at a speed. But to do it blindly is a big deal. It's almost impossible. You can't be angry at people for crashing into hurdles that you set up. They didn't know the hurdles were there. We' re lacking communication as prophetic people but we are not mind readers. So if you don't express what you expect you will be disappointed and offended everytime. Things you need to know
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
If we are not ready to deal with these issues I'm wasting my time
@fit2empoweryou103
2 жыл бұрын
This is good Pastoring!
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
🗣This Is Relationship Summer
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
The number one cause that we have in our Tension Relationships is Matthew 6:14 TPT “And when you pray, make sure you forgive the faults of others so that your Father in heaven will also forgive you.
@lovefelix1566
2 жыл бұрын
Never complain to anyone that cannot help you...
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
The initial of living in Grace is that you are free and you are free to do as you ought to do. That's not what the word says. Be sure you don't use your freedom to build what I destroyed
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
When your brain gives you trouble and it cannot answer or shuts you down it's called fainting. The brain sends a message to the nervous system and it shuts you down just you won't have to endure this unsafe moment
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Most relationships tension amongst believers can be your lack of understanding
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Don't be freaked out when people behave in a certain way because they are in a battle. Sometimes they win and sometimes they will lose
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Example of Dr. Hart Ramsey Kid: You're a hard father. When every child around him saying that they wished he were there dad
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
There be times when you don't understand them. There be times when you don't know them and there be times when you won' t be able to figure them out. It because they are in a transformational season and they don't even understand themselves. They don't know who they are yet and they are trying to connect to you and you are going to feel it
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Strongholds in a Deliverance community means we think devils. A stronghold is not a demon. A stronghold is an elevated prideful thought enronouse in your belife system to make you think and believe what God didn't say
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Mark 11:24 TPT This is the reason I urge you to boldly believe for whatever you ask for in prayer-be convinced that you have received it and it will be yours.
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
I resent being punished by a person who's flawed too
@jewelmarie3005
2 жыл бұрын
❤️ Great message! Sent to my whole family
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
The enemy gets you to change over from the painful process to get you over to the Flesh
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
You can't dishonor people and honor God too at the sametime
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Any relationship that is going to be productive and meaningful you've got to go through the hard part have hard conversations have confrontation and sometimes cry and learn to pray and intercede to see your way through hear from God and make adjustments and get to the good part. When people see you they will say Man you have a great relationship and they don't know what you have been through to get to where you are
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
If you are having problems in church there stands a reason that you're having problems at home, problems on your job. Problems even in your intimate relationships because the weight relationships is relationships. Connections is connections
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Dichotomy: Cutting or sharp separation
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
ANWAATL we are a worshipping and prasing church. But Thank God for that. Now we have got to do the other part. We've got to come to a place and allow the Holy Spirit to mature us and take it to him and not asking for revenge but asking him to transform our hearts and increase our compacity
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Matthew 5:23-24 TPT “So then, if you are presenting a gift before the altar and suddenly you remember a quarrel you have with a fellow believer, leave your gift there in front of the altar and go at once to apologize to the one who is offended. Then, after you have reconciled, come to the altar and present your gift.
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
6. Stone Walling: Is when I shut down when a person handles me a certain way and I don't know about a certain person to either hear them anymore I don't want to see them I don't want to understand them. If they speak I can die. They can be saying something good I don't give them credit. Actually this is a death of a relationship weather it's marriage, job, church relationships you just shutdown by hurting people. And in your mind you say I know who they are. You know what you do you defend the Lord because we are all in process. Sanctification is a process. God will trust you with a relationship in a certain stage knowing what they need and knowing what you need. And God will assigned you to each other until you work this out and you will work yourself up. But what we tend to do we tend to reject what the Lord has assigned us to and what he has connect us too with judgement. And so we end up stone walling and shutting ourselves down. And God will say that you have to stay at this level until I find another connection for you that I can get into you or out of you of what I need
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
If you choose incorrectly then he is going to drag you into these separations is measuring the spirit and the distastefulness of the sanctification process of Dichotomy
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Sanctification is the battle within you
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Lean into this and here what the Lord is saying to you. Until the Lord works out your relationships especially your family, your new family, your extended family your relationships that pertains to your job and some relationships that will rid you to your future. Unitil the Lord speaks to those and can embrace and hear what God is saying. The Lord will have you circling mountains just for your heart sake
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Our brains have the capability to create stories logical or narratives to help us make sense of what we are experiencing in the world. It's looking for patterns. Your brain is saying more than likely it is this
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
5. Emmeshments: Is when we get into a relationship with people and we smother them. It is boundless to relationships. Where you take things for granted and you expect people to not have boundaries. Because I don't have boundaries does not mean that I don't love you. It means that I love me too. I can only love you to the level that can only love and respect myself
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
The reason that we struggle in relationships is because we struggle in ourselves
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
How do we make our culture condusive to health? We have to go through the hard part. The word Persevere: prefix Per means through. Vere means the hard part. Persevere: Go through the hard part to get to the good part
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Criticism actually attacks a persons character and identity
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Here's the best way to know and see if you have a grudge? If there's a grumble in your mouth there's a grudge in your heart
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Galatians 5:14 TPT For all the law can be summarized in one grand statement: “Demonstrate love to your neighbor, even as you care for and love yourself.”
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
The brain saves energy. Because the brain is a whole machine. It will make assumptions to keep us to calculate everything
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Galatians 5:13 TPT Beloved ones, God has called us to live a life of freedom. But don’t view this wonderful freedom as an excuse to set up a base of operations in the natural realm. Constantly love each other and be committed to serve one another.
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Mark 11:25 TPT And whenever you stand praying, if you find that you carry something in your heart against another person, release him and forgive him so that your Father in heaven will also release you and forgive you of your faults.
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
What do you need to know about people
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Matthew 15:18 TPT But what comes out of your mouth reveals the core of your heart. Words can pollute, not food.
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Every relationship is not supposed to be reconcile
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Be sure you don't use your freedom to send yourself or pay yourself bankrupt or paint yourself into a corner
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
God is trying to fix you now so that you will show up as your real self in the next situation
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
Dichotomy: means two or double or twice. Cut and separate. There are two parts of you
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
If you don't value relationships with others God says I don't want a relationship with you until you fix that
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
The number one cause of relationship tension is false assumptions
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
How can I be to you what you want me to be to you when I don't know who I am. We lie because I don"t want you to see me the way I see me. You don't understand I sin sometimes but I like it
@kimberlybeasley8548
2 жыл бұрын
When we condem a person and say that this is all you will ever be. You are saying to the Lord you have no power to change. Transformation is alive and the Holy Spirit has no power
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