I’m 23 and I’ve never been in a relationship. I’m happily enjoying myself. Passing time alone is my happiness, people should learn to enjoy themselves and to learn more about you so you know what makes you happy and whatnot. Knowing you is more challenging and productive than losing time figuring out another person. It’s the only way you can actually know what you are looking for and not get lost on other people's opinions or standards. Accept yourself ♥️
@witchyfairy_
3 жыл бұрын
Same.. I won’t settle for less 🥰
@iloveconangray7
3 жыл бұрын
That’s sad bro… you’ll find someone one day
@JustMoodi
3 жыл бұрын
@@iloveconangray7 nah it’s not sad like I would usually eat a friend and nuggets at McDonald’s and it would be like 3 bucks and in relationship they would order the whole menu and expect me to pay like *what* anyways moral of the story be whoever u wanna be and do what ever u wanna do
@iloveconangray7
3 жыл бұрын
@@JustMoodi lol sorry I’m taken I don’t rlly know what it’s like to be single . It’s probably fun and free
@JustMoodi
3 жыл бұрын
@@iloveconangray7 yea so everyone else opinion
@tannerbrittenham4038
3 жыл бұрын
I personally think most people try to depend on a certain person for their happiness. Fall in love with yourself before you fall in love with someone.
@schecter5035
Жыл бұрын
Yeah thats true
@Brittanyisbrutal
2 ай бұрын
10😊@@schecter5035
@isosoriharrison9556
3 жыл бұрын
Hey, I’ve been single for 6 years, I enjoy singleness. Relationships should really be a mutual thing… 🤷🏻♂️ When you’re older things are different and you needs become different in someone. You got an amazing head on your shoulders! 🙂 Enjoy waiting your channel because of your maturity in thing and it’s amazing to see that!
@ashd5326
2 жыл бұрын
I was single for like 2 years,I was dreaming of a relationship...I recently got into one,and trust me it was the worst decision I could ever made.This person drained me emotionally and physically...yes physically lol But anyways I will be in a relationship when I'm ready in all aspects in my life, but right now I'm grateful that I'm single and focus on getting my degree and building myself
@talonflame_brawlstars.7208
Жыл бұрын
6 years?!?! Those are rookie numbers.
@callmethecoolestduckontheb5358
3 жыл бұрын
Lol being single isn’t the issue, it’s the chronic loneliness that comes after you’re entire life has been spent alone
@prakhardevnani7844
3 жыл бұрын
THIS !!!
@aaa-ni7uy
3 жыл бұрын
You are the coolest duck on the block
@alsokaitlin
3 жыл бұрын
But she's 18...she has plenty if time and lots of followers who support her, she's not lonely
@callmethecoolestduckontheb5358
3 жыл бұрын
@@alsokaitlin yes her, I meant the rest of us man
@rosymlk7443
2 жыл бұрын
but being single doesn’t mean being lonely tho… you can still have friends, family members etc and enjoy spending time with them just like you would with a partner
@wangyuxiao1
3 жыл бұрын
I’m 24 and have never been in a relationship 🤷♀️ I’m still patiently waiting for the right one, and I’m sure he is waiting for me in the near future!
@AL-kj8zo
2 жыл бұрын
He definitely is, I know alot of guys that are awesome people but don't want or understand the game.
@aaravsharma6768
2 жыл бұрын
may master oogway bless you
@muhammedyasinkalender6576
Жыл бұрын
no wonder why all your channel is filled with cats
@giselle239
Жыл бұрын
@@muhammedyasinkalender6576 savage lol
@jessgeorge5030
Жыл бұрын
Same girl I'm 22 and never had one, I wouldn't worry too much
@lane9854
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 19, have never been in a relationship and I want it to continue this way
@Juststayhopeful
9 ай бұрын
Same
@lane9854
9 ай бұрын
You're 21 now and God were you right? Never lower your standards again babe
@goobrocket8
7 ай бұрын
@@lane9854 so are you saying you got a great bf now?
@lane9854
7 ай бұрын
@@goobrocket8 yes
@wanishabirahmad9268
7 ай бұрын
@@lane9854are u presently single or having Boyfriend❤
@bruhitseric
3 жыл бұрын
Only 2 years being single? Try 16 years 😎
@Clementine3107
3 жыл бұрын
Same😂😂
@tigerlopez4900
3 жыл бұрын
4 years 😂😂
@maya07_11
3 жыл бұрын
try 12 lol I'm 12 but i think that's okay bc my dad was my mom's first bf and they're still married
@bruhitseric
3 жыл бұрын
@Anna D'SouZa you win lmao
@mthmoon8724
3 жыл бұрын
I GOT 21😃✋🏿
@randomcomrade6826
3 жыл бұрын
Most of the boys in my grade are terrible human beings. Same with like 1/3 of the girls
@chknrsandTBBTROX73
3 жыл бұрын
You are a communist.
@EG0909
Жыл бұрын
Yuppp
@_.flurry._1289
Жыл бұрын
Sammee
@TheHarracane
8 ай бұрын
same here
@NicholasCedar
5 ай бұрын
Yeah you're right, but it's the same with woman too
@lizzy_shorts
3 жыл бұрын
The rules were the same for me. Thank you so much for posting this. So encouraging
@wanishabirahmad9268
Жыл бұрын
Relationship playing an imp😮role..but both partners
@coolbreezee1176
3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the fact that u don’t think boys things in negative ways
@Aesthetic_bliss-jf8sn
Жыл бұрын
Girls, if you like someone and they start dating someone else in middle school - DONT STRESS GIRLY. relationships last for less the month in middle school!! ❤❤
@JP.09.
Жыл бұрын
It's crazy how mature and wise you are at 18
@tissueofmyissue
8 ай бұрын
Ikr!
@limbmee2
10 күн бұрын
I dont know whats mature or wise about this video
@Annabelle_b4
3 ай бұрын
This is so true I always watched these shows and movies and it was always people being in love people being meant for each other finding love at a young age I had my first boyfriend and after him I wanted a boyfriend so bad I wanted to feel the happiness of having a boyfriend and I didn’t have another one for 4 years
@blueschild2315
11 ай бұрын
Im 22 and have never had a relationship and dont care to much about finding one while i do find alot of people attractive i understand thats just my body and a relationship requires alot more than just attraction to keep it going.
@minhyuksssmile
10 ай бұрын
Me too
@willvrtist
9 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@Kyle-pj2vc
3 ай бұрын
25 years single, Im 25. Life is great. I have money, house, reliable vehicle, good chunk of savings, good job, decent athletic body. I just lack friends and women, and honestly it's the hardest thing for me as an introvert, and Id have to change my personality/myself to accommodate.
@_._kaelyn_._
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I feel so wierd being the only one in my class without a boyfriend
@user-vv9wt5qw3k
4 ай бұрын
Nah as a guy, dating for teens is such a waste of time, high school should be the time to selfreflect and understand yourself before finding someone to share it with.
@Exxi_vxz
3 ай бұрын
@@user-vv9wt5qw3k nah
@user-uz5iq5rr4m
22 күн бұрын
Hey I need some advice from some girls right now. So I’m thirteen and there are two boys who are interested in me at the moment. This is great because I’ve always wanted to have a boyfriend. The down side is I don’t know which guy to like back. The first guy is a boy that has known me for around two years now. He’s thirteen as well, he’s kind of quiet, and when he talks to me he always looks at his feet and stutters a bit. He’s really sweet and holds the door for me and stuff like that. The hard part is I don’t feel as comfortable talking to him either since I like him back, so I don’t know how to tell him I like him. The second boy is 2 years older than me. He’s nice, outgoing, makes eye contact, and gives lots of compliments. I met him a few weeks ago and I feel comfortable talking around him and just being around him. Whenever we talk though the other guy just kinda stares at us. I feel bad for the first guy who I like back, but I feel so awkward around him. I don’t know if it’s just because he is younger than guy number two or if he likes me a lot more.
@IsabeLLE_notLLA
2 жыл бұрын
My sister got her first boyfriend at age 14, broke up with him in months, then got a new boyfriend and staying in a long distance relationship with him after we moved from Japan to the U.S.A. Then we moved back to Japan and she’s currently still in a relationship with him in their senior year of high school. Oh she wasn’t supposed to have a boyfriend until she was 16.
@elizebethbergins232
3 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile me built a career for my self only had 5 boyfriends and now that I am 30, financially stable and with full education, I am engaged
@spooderboi6210
3 жыл бұрын
That's good for you! 👍 Congratulations on your engagement
@elizebethbergins232
3 жыл бұрын
@@spooderboi6210 Thankyou very much
@elizebethbergins232
2 жыл бұрын
@@fatimazafar2795 You’ll get there My niece has had like 3 boyfriends so far and she is 14.. I had one boyfriend when I was 14, didn’t date for 4 years and then had another, broke up with him after a couple weeks, didn’t date for 2 years and then had another and broke up with him after a month and then didn’t date for like 9 years and then dated another guy from Jan 2019 to September 2019 then did not date till June 2020 and then started dating my now husband
@saniatamanna7763
9 ай бұрын
@@fatimazafar2795well focus on your goals be strong. Search later. Don't listen to any bad influence
@saniatamanna7763
9 ай бұрын
@@elizebethbergins232well there are exceptions
@RashaadMohiuddin
3 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile me in my 25 happily single.Never needed someone I am waiting for the right person till marriage.
@cuddlemuffin.9545
2 жыл бұрын
Yo wanna get married?
@RashaadMohiuddin
2 жыл бұрын
@@cuddlemuffin.9545 Yes eventually
@A.I.on70ping
11 ай бұрын
Did I really saw two persons getting married in the comment section 👀👀
@simonvisage738
10 ай бұрын
@@A.I.on70pingyou ain’t the only one
@haydan838
3 жыл бұрын
Love you so much Spencer . I just found your channel and I am so grateful for your channel .I really love your energy .New subscriber here
@user-cn4sr9we8c
2 ай бұрын
Hello, can we become friends? 😊
@craig7122
23 күн бұрын
I'm 60 and been single for 24 years now. It's great!!
@theyluvkyl3e
Жыл бұрын
ive seen a few comments saying like being alone is better and people need to learn to know themself but i have a fear of being alone and i dont js mean single i js mean like being alone in general so i feel like having a person in my life will be easier
@itsdey6358
6 ай бұрын
You have no other relationships? Be careful. That's when people become dependent and taken advantage of.
@lizrose8411
3 жыл бұрын
I think it’d be better if the moral of the story was that romantic relationships aren’t something you absolutely need
@ozzyoscar6786
Жыл бұрын
Wow. Such wisdom right there. Who knew
@SS-rl9bg
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. A breath of fresh air, yes you are!!
@Ann.Mathews
2 ай бұрын
Team her in a relationship rn We love you 💕
@ElijahHohen_12
Жыл бұрын
She’s right boys are amazing
@henshawbobo1940
2 жыл бұрын
This is so true. Teenagers in movies are always in a relationship and I've seen what that has caused in most teens in my country and probably everywhere. When I graduted from elementary school and went to a new school, I noticed that some of my classmates were already thinking of who to date. One even started dating one of our immediate seniors. We just left elementary school! Over the years I noticed that we started letting it get to us. Like, it was a necessity or a criteria that as a teenager you have to have been in a relationship. If you didn't then...well you really didn't enjoy your teenage years. And I won't lie, at a point I also thought the same way but I didn't date anyone. I just stuck to liking someone and being a "thing". Yh, I really fooled myself 😂. But I really feel like it's a problem because I've seen teens like me rushing into a relationship to feel special or stick to the status quo and end up losing focus of the important things. It might not seem like a problem to many but it does to me, especially when it ends in unwanted pregnancy 🙄
@wildguy4773
2 ай бұрын
For boys that experienced harsh reality of rejections, girls already finding boyfriend or ending their relationship here is a vent I had crush on my friend and I tough she had on me, we were good around each other and we were very close. I called her on date once but she told me she can't cus her boyfriend doesn't allow her. I was devastated hearing this, but my friend from games told me in discord an advice that really helped me build my comfidence and courage, since she was in lot of situations where her relationships were so toxic, so here is the vent, don't ever look for girls often, why? You will find someone toxic, greedy and not good, your true love will come one day, don't hurry, it will eventually come to you
@emmaaaaaa62442
7 ай бұрын
A friend of mine (he’s my teacher’s son, and my mom and the teacher are friends) has romantic feelings for me. I’m sixteen (junior), and he’s nineteen (college). He’ll ask me what I’m doing on weekends, and I’ll say “homework” and he’ll say “no you’re not, you’re always doing homework.” I told my mom and she said “he’s autistic, he can’t read social cues.” I told her that I’m still not comfortable with it and that even if we were the same age, our personalities wouldn’t match well. She looked at me and said “if he were a supermodel, you’d want to date him.” I’m honestly just hurt that she thinks this has anything to do with looks. He’s just so pushy, and I have a hard time standing up for myself. I don’t know what to do.
@vanessabroadway7555
2 ай бұрын
my bf, is 14, I’m about 3 years younger then him. Tbh, he shows me enough affection. Even when he moved to a boarding school in England. He’s always talking about me, or too me. He’s visiting me soon. When he was here, and somebody tried to flirt with him he moved away. because we where, and still are dating.
@daughteroftheHighest.
5 ай бұрын
Thank you, GOD bless you Spencer!!! ✝️❤️❤️❤️♾️
@jdunlap777
21 күн бұрын
Hi your hair is pretty
@wrightcollingwood
10 ай бұрын
That was just what I needed today thank you soooooo much!!!!!!!!
@ryanmazon2735
2 жыл бұрын
Yes you are right 🙌 👍🏼
@EricaRichter28
3 ай бұрын
You’re only 18?? Never would’ve guessed. You are wise beyond your years. Love your content.
@Urmom1024
7 ай бұрын
People who are here when she has the sweetest bf of all time 👇🏼
@natashavictoria1668
2 жыл бұрын
True I never had a boyfriend in high school . Don’t make your self worth on wether your in a relationship or not because it turns out just fine .
@hi._people._7176
3 жыл бұрын
Me doing the same thing and having my first bf at 10 years old: “it was at that moment I knew I fucked up”🥲👁👄👁
@subbabe1790
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 bruh
@64imma
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 26, most of the relationships I've been in were in high school. I definitely fell for this idea that I was supposed to be in a relationship at all times, so I pretty much spent my last 2 years of high school either dating or talking to some girl with the intention of dating her. Looking back, the girl I was in a relationship with for the longest CLEARLY did not want to be in a relationship at all, and only went for it after (I shit you not) 11 months of us talking and me basically badgering her every few months about it, until she finally gave in. It's not like she didn't try in the relationship, but she was definitely more interested in spending time with her friends than with me. Nowadays, I would never put in that much effort into getting a girl. After 2 months, if she's not overtly interested, I just move on. I have spent the majority of my adult life single. That same girl, we broke up 2 months before my 19th birthday. There was one girl I was seeing for a while, but I kind of killed it when, after a few months or so of us hanging out all the time, she asked if I loved her (while we were on a date) and I said no (because I was scared to be vulnerable). Literally if I had said yes to her that day, my life could be totally different. She instead started dating one of my friends, and they're engaged now. Lastly, my most recent relationship (which was 3 years ago) was with a coworker, who frankly was just using me as a rebound until her ex came back into the picture. Most of the relationships I've been in in my life have been pretty terrible tbh. I am so extremely picky with the women I pursue relationships with, just because I feel like most of the women I've been with were on some level embarrassed or uncomfortable with being in a relationship with me. Since I am 26, and seeing more and more of my friends getting married and starting families, I am increasingly becoming self conscious again about being single. I do deeply want a girlfriend. I just want to find someone who loves me for me, not someone who's just hanging around until something "better" comes along, or who feels uncomfortable having me around their friends and family. It's been so long since I've had a good healthy relationship, and I miss it so much.
@bhaktikshirsagar2269
3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if Troy and Gabriella even got together after college
@tiddle_app
11 ай бұрын
Tiddle will help improve your relationship💜
@YyoavV
2 ай бұрын
I am 18 I never kissed or had a girlfriend. I hate every second because it’s important for me. After installing tinder I can understand why such a high percentage of men unalive themselves.
@Europeanfootballjourneys
4 ай бұрын
I’m 14 and have a gf and totally agreed all my mates have had partners and I wasn’t so sure but I’m very happy currently
@minhyuksssmile
10 ай бұрын
I am 18 in a half and i NEVER was in a real relationship sad life for me so lonely💔😔😭
@bloxcraftroblox1273
9 ай бұрын
@@ankitchatterjee1615you already lost with that pfp dawg 😂
@ankitchatterjee1615
9 ай бұрын
@@bloxcraftroblox1273 😞
@amiraclapper9857
2 жыл бұрын
I’m 17, almost 18 and I JUST started talking to someone for the first time. Honestly, I’m glad I’ve waited this long. 😂
@HaileeStein_3000
4 ай бұрын
This gonna sound crazy but when I was a 12 year old girl just living the best life hanging out with friends, sleepovers, field trips and more and after like the first day of 6th grade only after 4 months my friends were starting to act weird around me. I ask them what was wrong (asking them that was the worst regret of my life) and they told me that a freaking freshman/senior or whatever had a crush on ME I was 12 and she was 16 . I didn't believe my friends at first and after some time I realized they weren't kidding it was true and they forced me to date her and YES IT IS A GIRL and the worst part is my friend used to date her and they broke up so.... its kinda like the rules of feminism not to date friends exs but I had to since my friends were threatening me and so I dated her for about 5 months (worst five months of my life). She was very.. I don't know how to say this but whenever no one was around she would literally K I S S me or even get a bit touchy. After the 5 months I finally had the courage to break up with her and then I got therapy and now everything is okay and that's why I have been single for 4 years and yes I'm 16 rn I'm traumatized
@odin4306
3 жыл бұрын
Most people are codependent and don't know how to be single. It's healthy to stay single and learn about yourself when you're young. I didn't figure out the importance of this until my early 20s.
@z4hr420
2 жыл бұрын
My dad: no boyfriend it’s against our beliefs Me: **evil laughs in pansexual**
@RipStray
8 күн бұрын
Literally I have been single for my whole life and I don't pretend to even try to date ❤
@user-ho6gn5wm8v
2 жыл бұрын
My mums mate once told me all boys are pricks it's just how much of a prick you can put up with. I honestly live by this lmao
@user-cn4sr9we8c
2 ай бұрын
Hello, can we be friends? 😊
@Doomplex
29 күн бұрын
I'm 15, my parents said I'm allowed to have a girlfriend when i was 14, but I was nervous and shy to girls, so when i turned 15, I'll get a girlfriend (whose Black/White/Asian) and I never had my first kiss.
@willvrtist
9 ай бұрын
I'm 19 and have never been in a relationship.. you're young and realistically shouldn't be in one coz you'll get hurt easily since people are far more immature at those ages
@FK-wy3lu
3 жыл бұрын
Im 12, 13 on the 29th. Last bf manipulated me and emotionally blackmailed me. One before that hit me when i left him and i left him because he would make me cry constantly and ignore my emotions. 1st one wasnt serious but was amazing it lasted 6years and he was so nice and my first love but then he started to ignore me and block me out so i did what was right and that was when i was 10. Now i am then again nearly 13 and see being used as the regular, being manipulated as well just a thing. If you get a gut feeling that its going the wrong way i mean yeah try fix it but i would recommend leaving if it happens again as it impacts you alot. I might have depression now, i for sure have bad trust issues, have severe social anxiety and am very socially akward, i might have BPD and i am scared to come out to my family as gender fluid and lesbian. I feel like yes the things i have gone through have hurt me alot but have made me mature quicker and become a stronger and more independent person. P.S be careful who you trust sugar and salt look tha same And never give up
@alsokaitlin
3 жыл бұрын
@Yossra Attia I got one at 10. Basically we were the "smart kids" and I though we were meant together, I asked him out and he said yes. A week later he said he didn't like mr but didn't wanna hurt my feelings.
@patrick7695
3 жыл бұрын
A 13 year old talking about depression, sexuality and ex boyfriends that manipulated her😂 No offence but this is straight up comedy
@alsokaitlin
3 жыл бұрын
@@patrick7695 haha, but it happens all the time. Ik like ten kids actually diagnosed by a therapist for depression. In the 10-14 range
@DavidJoseph-lj6sm
8 ай бұрын
Hello dear
@ridahabeeb6165
3 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful ... Imean you are so good in nature i mean you are really good person and i like ur videos a lot i hope you read it and it makes ur day better!!
@TheRealGeordiLaForge
Ай бұрын
And some teens get shitty when they’re in relationships! Like my friend got a boyfriend and my friends were all happy for her and then my friends and I were having a conversation about makeup TikToks and she started acting all shitty! And then I told her about a deal I got on a thing and she straight up made fun of me and said I was saying I’m not like other girls 🤦♀️ she acted like she thought she was better than us because she had a boyfriend and didn’t wear makeup and we wore makeup and didn’t have boyfriends like girl we were 14. Anyways I couldn’t dump her as a friend because we went to such a small school so literally all the girls were friends
@rithapillay3866
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Spencer! I'm not sure if you know this but there is a channel on KZitem that reposts your videos. Yes, they do give credit but I found it a little bit unfair considering that your videos get less than 1/4 of the attention their videos get. I'm not saying this to be a snitch or anything lol, I'm just checking if you are fine with this happening. I love watching your videos and have a great day Spencer💕
@juic33juice
3 жыл бұрын
They are called billionaire house or something right?
@rithapillay3866
3 жыл бұрын
@@juic33juice Yeah... They're called billionaire team.
@juic33juice
3 жыл бұрын
@@rithapillay3866 I keep seeing them everywhere. They usually repost Spencer's vids only I think.
@rithapillay3866
3 жыл бұрын
@@juic33juice Yeah.. THEY MOSTLY POST SPENCER'S VIDEOS... and it's kinda sad cos her videos get like 1k likes and their videos have like 29k likes
@alsokaitlin
3 жыл бұрын
@@rithapillay3866 literally recently they deleted all her videos
@Unwatered_Plant
3 жыл бұрын
I had a boyfriend in 8th grade. It's a very long story and I don't want to type it all out. Anyway, he broke my heart and gave me depression (not from the breakup) and now I have anxiety
@MasterK9Trainer
3 жыл бұрын
There are no rules as to when or how many people you should be in a relationship with at any age
@sweettea1193
2 жыл бұрын
There is an age limit, or at least there should be
@MasterK9Trainer
2 жыл бұрын
@@sweettea1193 but I think it also depends what kind of relationship we're talkin about
@fatimazafar2795
2 жыл бұрын
@@sweettea1193 and what is that?
@sweettea1193
2 жыл бұрын
@@fatimazafar2795 well I'm not a parent but if I was, I wouldn't be ok with my 14 y old kid dating...it's too young
@fatimazafar2795
2 жыл бұрын
@@sweettea1193 well you would be happy being my mom😂 I am 19 and never had a relationship...I guess I will die single
@gardenofmary9220
4 ай бұрын
20 going on 21 here and I also have never dated! I’ve had some offers, but it was never any I really wanted to accept for one reason or the other. I so so so wish I could tell my teenage self not to worry about those things. If you’re a teenager and you’re reading this, please know you’re gonna be just fine and it’s okay to be picky and wait for the right person. And if you get fixated on someone and they don’t like you, that’s okay! There’s plenty more people out there. :) God has a plan and He’s got you! 🤍
@dialishious93
2 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a very abusive home. Didnt want anything to do with boys, that could anyway get me in more trouble. I met a boy at 15, we started dating. My mother hated him. I married him at 18. We just turned 28 and 29 this summer. Life is wild.
@JesserPhillip
11 ай бұрын
Hello pretty
@imamalfoy37
2 жыл бұрын
I just got in a relationship yesterday, and I had been single for 3years
@SallysSlimeShop
2 ай бұрын
Your 18 dang you look so good
@aleenanadesan4563
3 жыл бұрын
Hey you! Yes you, reading this right now! Just know that you are smart, georgeous, and PERFECT! I know it may be tough right now, but I promise it will get easier. You are NOT a burden, please talk to someone who trust and feel comfortable confiding in. You matter. You are loved. I love you! I'm so proud of you! Keep fighting, you bada** royal!!!👑💅🥺🥰❤❤❤
@aleenanadesan4563
3 жыл бұрын
@Yossra Attia 🥰🥰🥰
@raycutler2524
2 жыл бұрын
@@aleenanadesan4563 Thanks :)
@THE_THREEO
14 күн бұрын
I was nine, with my first boyfriend... Then he moved away, 10-11 this other guy decided he didn't want me. And just recently i was cheated on by a 15 yo. So I'm sick of it, but very, very, very, lonely.
@Jamie-vf3st
Жыл бұрын
I feel happier single actually. I only had healthy and happy relationships but this is just feels better
@liliancoy5341
Жыл бұрын
I’ve always kind of thought that people who are dating and in relationships in high school are more mature and experienced than me, but I feel like the opposite is what’s actually true, after observing these relationships more closely. Still, you feel like you don’t know anything because you don’t have a boyfriend and everyone else does. Not that you even want that, you just feel like you have to, exactly what Spencer said. Growing up is weird.
@user-vv9wt5qw3k
4 ай бұрын
So true tho, im the one that told my mum to stop bringing me girls tho, is that wierd?
@patriciatoth2090
3 ай бұрын
Guys i need help! I like this boy a lot, he plays de guitar and we have a band whit my best friend to. And i wrote a song about him and he realised I told him that I like him and he sad that he wants to be friend whit me. And since then we barely talked. But yesterday we started talking and It was just soo nice What can I do? PLEASE RESPOND!
@Miran17739
3 ай бұрын
Ask him again
@user-od4tl9gg1w
3 ай бұрын
No idea bruh I have no advice loll btw I love your videos Spencer you slay ❤
@eastward98
9 ай бұрын
Having a relationship when you're a teenager is made to feel like some rite of passage, when really you're just some clumsy kids. The people who stay together with their highschool partners forever are freak accidents (imo). I can't imagine choosing a life partner at 17 lmao
@AsherGallegos-lu2bn
2 ай бұрын
As a teen boy Ive only had one gf we broke up but were on good terms like were in the same friend group
@leonie7356
2 жыл бұрын
And there's me: I'm 18 and am in the same relationship for 5 years now. Some people might thing I could miss something... But I don't! Sure! Being single is amazing. Just like being in a relationship
@aaa-ni7uy
3 жыл бұрын
I think She actually thinks She is a rebel by having a Boy friend at 15 and 10 months instead of 16
@rickylee1615
Жыл бұрын
She was clearly being sarcastic & making a joke mate
@JAYD1476
2 ай бұрын
Tbh i value my personal space too much to let anyone in it lol. Like yes i can have friends or go out for a short period of time but at home i wanna be comfortable. Not w another person lol
@Bubbagum87
3 жыл бұрын
I’m almost 20 Literally stayed single from middle school and high school till now Pro tip. Like anime and be overweight by 130 pounds. So you don’t have to worry about anyone catching feelings and stressing out about it! It’s the best feeling in the world being alone and trying to work on you rather than deal with someone else
@PositiveVibesFromNevski
9 ай бұрын
You don’t need a boy to be happy, you go Spencer!!! 🎉
@sukinsyn6387
11 ай бұрын
Ok, when i was younger, i didn't know you existed and my life was better with this
@ramenqueen_1013
2 жыл бұрын
I’m 23 i was never interested in having a relationship and I also I wasn’t allowed a boyfriend for religious purposes either but when I was 16 I met a guy that I was with till I was 19 but it was modest we were going to get married but then it ended since him I’ve never been with anyone after and I love it your girl is a doctor thriving through life
@tatevs6597
Жыл бұрын
Yes this is very true I dated someone for 2 years and I met him when I was in 7th grade. I fell head over heels for this guy but I had no standards back then and I was very desperate to have a boyfriend. When I was in 8th grade this guy asked me out officially and we dated for about 2 months until my parents found out and I had to cut it off. Little did I know I was in a toxic cycle and my parents saw how “miserable” I was so I got back together with him. I broke up with him for the final time in September of 2022 bc he asked for inappropriate pictures from my best friend and he did some other things behind my back. I’ve been happily single for 6 months and honestly I’ve been living my best life bc I get to be myself and I don’t feel like I need to have a boyfriend to feel validated. Like I love me some romance movies but now the actual idea of committing seems too hard and I’m like “bish I’m staying single the rest of my life” 😂
@storytimemashups8160
3 жыл бұрын
Im 15 and i was in a relationship 1nce. I am traumatized. The guy was obbsessed and threatened to kill me and my friends if we broke up. Never again.
@D4YT0N4
Жыл бұрын
Hope u went to the police
@user-xb7ko7kk5e
10 ай бұрын
Jonathon Taylor here. I know how you feel about being a relationship and I wish I had a special love in my life and my heart. I'm 41 I think about my special love alot and I wonder where she is and if she thinks about me. You are amazing and loving Spencer.
@getsetgoootothemoon
8 ай бұрын
I'm 19 and it's been just two days i started dating...yess my friend bf...i have been single for 19 years
@manamana7873
Жыл бұрын
I(14f) just had a boyfriend for about a week before realizing I was too young for it and I hated every bit of that relationship. I had made a life plan when I was 9, 10, 11, and 12 and evry single one involved me waiting until I was in college to find a guy, mainly because i wanted somebody smart so I could have smooth conversations with then without having to pause and explain something, and what better place to find smart people than in engineering college? The boy may have only been a year younger than me, but I was smarter than him when I was 12, mind you, i was sleep deprived and depressed at the time. He used tiktok slang all the time(I hate tiktok), constantly "complimented" me on my body(I don't really like compliments period so this was really uncomfortable), and he cursed(which I find incredibly immature). I had to broke up with him because he wasn't my type, I was too young, and I hardly knew the boy before I told him yes. I should've stuck to my plan because it always gets me in trouble when I dont. So PSA to all the teen girls out there wishing for a boy friend: God's timing is perfect so if you wait, you'll likely meet the love of your life a lot easier than doing it on your own. Make sure you know him well and that he's a good person before you say yes. And for the love of everything good, make sure you're on the same intelligence level, you do not want to be dating a dummie
@Allycat77798
6 ай бұрын
pls help me i’m 12 and all this “young love don’t work out” shit is breaking my heart bc i’m stupid and i have a crush 😭
@user-vv9wt5qw3k
4 ай бұрын
It has a low chance but it can work out, just make sure your crush isnt just good looking but actualy has goals and things in common, basicly dont crush on a player
@CarolinesWorldddd
11 ай бұрын
I know this is an old video but I love your content ❤
@Skye2810
6 ай бұрын
Our math teacher told us if we want to date a boy he should be older boy because boys our age are acting immature (we are 14)
@ARNAB.MAJUMDER
22 күн бұрын
Amazing girl.
@andeeadventures6739
3 жыл бұрын
Fist love you spencer!!!
@andeeadventures6739
3 жыл бұрын
@Yossra Attia first of all I didn’t comment this to be corrected ok thank you and second of all at the time I commented this I was first because this video had 0 likes and 0 comments and I saw that this video was only posted a couple of seconds so thank you but your “smartness” wasn’t needed 😊
@DavidJoseph-lj6sm
8 ай бұрын
Hello dear how are you doing I hope you're having a great day and a wonderful New Month..
@ElizeLauzon
3 ай бұрын
I’m not allowed to have a boyfriend until I’m 16 too 😭😭😭
@RahButterfly
4 ай бұрын
It doesn’t matter what kind of teen age to be in a relationship as a boyfriend or a girlfriend you can be a tween at 12 years old to be in a relationship and you can have your first kiss at 12 years old as well there is nothing wrong with that at all
@AD-wx5nz
3 жыл бұрын
No moral of the story is, focus on an education or something that can help you establish a career/ business. Boys and girls come and go. Skills you acquire are for life.
@onetimecupid
2 жыл бұрын
honestly, who needs a boyfriend? unless it's the perfect man. Im talking feminist, not homophobic/transphobic, respectful, funny asf, not short-tempered cuz im already one of those, wears rings and maybe plays an instrument. ANYWAYS- don't need one yet tho.
@Self-Love_cosmetologybuissness
3 ай бұрын
My mom allows me to are whenever well she never actually told me when I could or couldn’t but I haven’t been able to find a bf non of them like me cuz I’m a shy introvert and they go for the pretty girls and I’m almost 15 I’ve had many crushes but ik no one has crushed on me. So it hurts
@animesvt1234
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 21 and only relationship I was in was with my bff and I expressly told him let's wait to make it official like we both were bf and gf but never actually made it public and within a year and a half we broke it off so it always was a small relationship and another one I met a guy online and it didn't work out so basically I never was in an official relationship and now I don't even think I want to, being single is so much more freeing.
@aninditabhaumik6844
3 жыл бұрын
I got my first at 23....I wasn't particularly looking or interested in relationships for that matter.......I mean....everyone is different..... It wasn't like I was depressed or unhappy before.....its fine really......people treat like being single is sad....it really isn't......
@julyxart_
3 жыл бұрын
This might be a bit off topic but who tf forbids their kid to have a relationship before a certain age like do u really think they gonna listen to that if anything thats just gonna make things more risky.. be open with your children AND TALK. Thats so important D:
@patrick7695
3 жыл бұрын
I agree but hey, we shouldnt judge someone elses parenting If i was a parent i would be annoyed asl if someone commented on my parenting
@ririsamo9997
10 ай бұрын
Being in a relationshif when I was only 16 with a grown a** man was hell of a Bad Idea! Wish I could do it again without him.
@johnellis6615
3 жыл бұрын
They show them like that in movies and stuff because it makes it more entertaining ..that's all that is!!! There's more of a storyline to draw from..
@nightm1me
8 ай бұрын
you're only 18?? no way i always thiught you were at least 23 because of how mature and wise/experienced you are
@macadamia668
10 ай бұрын
This needs to be said more. Teens dating or fantasizing about dating adults are creepy and gross.
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