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@hundtim
4 жыл бұрын
Been there on both sides😉 now I have grown up, 60 years old, feeling good about myself. Thank you, it is good to be reminded.🙏🏻❤️
@WuWeiWisdom
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Mai-Britt! x
@hundtim
4 жыл бұрын
Wu Wei Wisdom ❤️
@sueb6662
3 жыл бұрын
Same same 😉
@sherececocco
3 жыл бұрын
May of 2020 a woman I had never met put her hands on my face, looked deep into my eyes and said "you are safe, you are having an emotional breakdown. " I was 44 years old and had never heard those words. I am a 9 out of 10 on the ACE. My whole life I thought I was helpless until I heard those lovely words that gave me words for what had been "happening to me" for years. Since then I have come to the belief that all our suffering comes from belief in the 1st lie, no one is perfect. We are all perfect. Working as designed. You are perfect and so are they. Which means we're whole. Accept it. Love your Self like no one else.
@lauraclose3580
2 жыл бұрын
Lovely
@deeagirdici-maher2483
4 жыл бұрын
This is a perfect teaching. I never realised before that the fixer was in fact looking for the pedestal. That's a great way to recognise that behaviour simply. And it reminds me of a saying I once read....you may still be attracted to the frogs, but you won't want to jump in to the pond with them any more. That teaching is kind of saying that to me....pay attention to yr behaviour and recognise when the champions cup is flashing before you, and ask yrslf why? And then step back. Great video. Thank you ❤❤❤ that gives me a great breathing space.
@WuWeiWisdom
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dee! x
@favoriteone8636
3 жыл бұрын
This helps me too....thank u!
@tarareopelle823
Жыл бұрын
I have been watching these WuWei life lessons for about a year now. I believe this life lesson serves as an accumulation of everything that I have been learning and applying to my life. Thank you so much Alex and David! I am so grateful for your work and sharing it with the world.
@WuWeiWisdom
Жыл бұрын
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@ursula366
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you again. The term 'red light' is brilliant and makes it easy to untangle and identify authenticity from manipulation.
@aquariusstar7248
2 жыл бұрын
This was really good! I realized i had this pattern years ago on both ends-the fixer for others and looking for others to do for me. It does become manipulation and controlling after awhile. Much of this is so true!
@Magicinmovement33
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! Coming into year 12 of my relationship with my hubby and we started off very unbalanced with him as a saviour and me “in need of saving”. This caused so many fights and I had to laugh out loud when you talked about the yes it’s all great at first until they are telling you how to live your life for a few years and you start getting sick of it because that is exactly what happened. It was not until I did a lot of work on myself, gaining emotional education and figuring out my authentic path, learning how to set healthy boundaries that my life changed dramatically for the better. Your videos have had tremendously valuable information that has helped me in this journey. Our relationship has changed so much in the last two years that the dynamic has shifted. Now he looks to me to save him. I don’t want to be a saviour. I keep telling him that if he wants to change he will do the work and it’s not anyone else’s responsibility to do this for him. I was worried because I wasn’t sure if a relationship that was entered into in that nassacist codependent dynamic could last after the codependent no longer exists. This video makes me think that it could be possible. Could the other person truly change and the relationship be balanced and healthy OR would their initial change be based solely on the fear of losing you and the familiarity of their life that it is unhealthy and therefore unsustainable?
@WuWeiWisdom
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Spiritual Enchantress, As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. From the information you shared with me, it seems as though you have excellent spiritual knowledge and understanding about the development of your relationship :) Why don't you create an environment with your partner that you can both discuss the future growth and blossoming of your life together? Follow this link to learn more about how we can support you (including our LIVE online teaching and meditation classes + our free Facebook support group) : www.wuweiwisdom.com/welcome/ 💜 David
@Magicinmovement33
4 жыл бұрын
Wu Wei Wisdom thanks so much David! You are awesome 😎
@azaleaslight7243
4 жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY my situation/ experience In my Relationship What you wrote describes what I'm experiencing Thankyou for Sharing Blessings to you 🙌💖
@rosemarylucas6576
Жыл бұрын
You two are amazing, I believe that I happened upon your videos for a reason .I and you were in the right place at the right time..Thank you so very much for sharing your teachings
@naomilaura6802
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve learnt so much from watching these videos & absolutely love them. Thanks for sharing x
@WuWeiWisdom
4 жыл бұрын
So glad Naomi! Follow this link to learn more about how we can support you (including our LIVE online teaching and meditation classes + our free Facebook support group) : www.wuweiwisdom.com/welcome/ 💜 Alex + David x
@petratikalova5564
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support you give me on this beautiful journey 🙏❤️🌺
@shannonturner5538
4 жыл бұрын
Extremely Grateful for this teaching.My eyes,mind and heart were opened a great deal.Thank you so very much for what your doing!💓
@yvonnemcaskill8895
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you David and Alex, everything you have shared has been exactly what I needed to hear...you are clearing up so much that is needed for me to start doing. Unfortunately I do not have any type of credit card and that is why I did not complete for listening in and then doing the meditation...Again so much gratitude
@elliepascoe5954
4 жыл бұрын
Why not try PayPal? No card needed!
@WuWeiWisdom
4 жыл бұрын
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@claire4309
4 жыл бұрын
Three energies. Very enlightening. Thank you xx
@scbuddoldschool5313
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so very much!! I have been listening and journaling with you for almost 8 months now and this was the video I needed. This has made me figure out so much. This will be the start to a greater life and finding my true belief’s and this is gonna save my marriage. I have a lot more work to do; I cried almost the whole video. Can you help me with some more videos like this to help me really find and understand my true belief’s? I love you both❤ Iam so glad I found you! Crystal Budd
@WuWeiWisdom
2 ай бұрын
Hi Crystal, Thank you so much for your heartfelt message. I'm thrilled to hear that the videos have been helpful to you. Your commitment to journaling and introspection is truly inspiring. Embracing this journey of self-discovery and understanding your true beliefs can indeed transform your life and relationships. Remember, you have a community here to support you every step of the way: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ I'm so glad you found us. Keep believing in yourself and your path. Kind Regards, David
@Lichfeldian--Suttonian
2 жыл бұрын
I love you two. I love how one of you bounces off the other with those very fundamental questions. You are soooo telling me my life story! Thank you soo much. This is such a much higher thinking that I experience in UK’s Western culture. ❤🙏
@nargesnourshahi5091
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all your ( both) teaching .❤
@WuWeiWisdom
Жыл бұрын
Our pleasure! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
@ohsozouzi
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I had so many aha moments and want to thank you for the immeasurable insight.
@WuWeiWisdom
Жыл бұрын
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
@lauraclose3580
2 жыл бұрын
My good friend Tom loves you guys and recommended wu wei wisdom, and it is very interesting, I like the analogies of the ship and helm
@WuWeiWisdom
Жыл бұрын
Welcome aboard! Kind regards, David.
@clare5571
Жыл бұрын
Your videos have been a life saver! Thank you so much, I’m finally facing up to my issues and addressing them! Merry Christmas both you are wonderful ❤
@WuWeiWisdom
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
@nicolaschwim9293
11 ай бұрын
Thank you. How powerful!!
@WuWeiWisdom
11 ай бұрын
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@ninnettaskaanstrom1960
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with giving because that is who you are and not expecting anything in return. Now I did that for many many years, and it wore me down. I got to a point where I started looking for validation for what I was doing. So yes give because it is who you are, but if there’s no return it is time to walk away and don’t do like I did, wait 15 years cause it destroyed me.
@victoriaburgess700
2 жыл бұрын
This is great! Over the last few years I’ve learned to recognized that In myself and,currently, seeing a good friend of mine doing this. Oh well, when the student is ready, I’ll be the teacher (not savior) for my friend. Until then, it’s his journey.
@JasonHo
3 жыл бұрын
This is all fantastic information. I’ve been searching for something like this. Where can I learn more about how to start looking at and readjusting my own belief system?
@WuWeiWisdom
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you found us! The best place to begin is by watching some more of our video back catalogue ;)
@jimarger8533
3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully explained conceptual package.
@sophietekliuk9864
2 жыл бұрын
Thank u very much! I needed it ❤
@barbararivera5160
2 жыл бұрын
Speed 1.25x Excellent video!
@valeriebooker5835
2 ай бұрын
Seed 1.5
@JessicaNoelle96
4 жыл бұрын
Especially loved this video thank you!!
@kstringer8242
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, a very wise and timely teaching
@casscozens8792
3 жыл бұрын
Fascinating. Thank you both 💜🙏
@lisaperraymond6258
4 ай бұрын
I find myself to be a people pleaser and a rescuer… but I always thought I dis this to please Gid and the universe. Is this also a lie? Does it change anything? Thank you 🙏🏻
@WuWeiWisdom
4 ай бұрын
Hi @lisaperraymond6258, Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Being a people pleaser and a rescuer can often stem from deep-seated beliefs about what is required to gain approval from others, including larger concepts like God or the universe. Reflecting on why you choose these roles and what you believe about them can help you understand if they truly serve your highest good or if they are habits that don't align with your authentic self. This introspection could indeed change how you view your actions and their motivations. Kind Regards, David
@sueb6662
3 жыл бұрын
LOVE you guys.. hat's a relationship made in hell the person wanting to be rescued gives all the responsibility to the other person then feels controlled the fixer wants to be needed and then gets burnt out then eventually (could take weeks or years but there will be a straw that breaks the camels back even a camel needs to drink water eventually) to exit for self preservation its too heavy a load there's no eb and flow as you explain ofcourse eb and flow... So appreciate your videos they are so life changing i must be ready to hear this thats so so amazing.
@runwiththewind3281
4 жыл бұрын
Good happy Saturday afternoon wi Wei wisdom Wishing you peace
@WuWeiWisdom
4 жыл бұрын
Good afternoon to you too - wishing you a peaceful evening! David’s LIVE online guided meditation and teaching sessions every Sunday may be of interest to you? Learn more and book your ticket here: www.wuweiwisdom.com/online-meditation-classes x
@Notme811_you
Жыл бұрын
They really want to be the one to fix it. If you say you’re already doing the thing they want you to do it’s not good enough. They aren’t satisfied. They need to be the savior not you. There was this girl. She acted like she wanted me to go to college and then I said oh I already applied and she was not satisfied with that. She didn’t make me do it. She wasn’t involved. It wasn’t through her efforts that I did that. She just kept complaining and complaining and complaining. I remember she would tell me what to do and immediately she wanted me to agree with her. No thinking about it no nothing. She wanted me to be her slave and she wanted to hear me say. “Yes, Emily.” So obedient. If not she would lose her composure. Later, she wanted to be nosy. She demanded that I tell about me and my life do that she could fix. Again she would lose her composure. She was like “so tell me!” I said. “No, I don’t want to.” She was getting desperate because she wanted to fix me so bad. And guess what she didn’t even like me. She just wanted to be the savior. No one is exempted from these types of people. They are the savior. They will try to get involved with you even if you refuse their help or unsolicited advice, intervention if you will. They are not right in the head. They need to do it. They need to fix you. They can’t or won’t compute information that makes them feel unnecessary. They will hold on to the belief that You NEED Them. They can’t compute it.
@WuWeiWisdom
Жыл бұрын
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@paulineparvell5265
Жыл бұрын
Hi David and Alexandra A question please So am I correct in thinking that as in all human relationships there must be a fair exchange of energy , whether that be emotionally on an intimate level or, in the case of a mutual relationship, there is the radiators and drainers example of behaviour ? At present I’m witnessing a relationship between , unusually , a mother and daughter, , in terms of what you are saying regarding the constant change of the power base within this in balanced relationship. Does that become more difficult for both parties to extricate themselves if a third person ( perhaps a romantic relationship for either daughter or mother ) enters the arena and the need then for the two woman to realise this unhealthy co dependence , then the mutual recognition for both of them to change is more difficult because of the unique dynamics of this family relationship ?
@WuWeiWisdom
Жыл бұрын
Hello Pauline, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. The word relationship gives the clue - the ability to relate. That has to be mutual. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,500 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
@sistitulasi
2 жыл бұрын
What are red light feelings?
@PM-dl1iu
3 жыл бұрын
Oddly I clicked this video because I try to fix people but listening to it, you mentioned the I can't cope lie and that is one that I have always related to. My mother is a fixer and I wanted to be like her because she is the kindest person I know. She was always took care of and at times overprotected me. Except in that I felt that she viewed me as incapable which is how I view myself. And yet I always wanted to fix people to feel worthy of love and also to ensure others reciprocate and take care of me. So I guess I am definitely stuck on this pendulum. I think my fear is that if I stop fixing I stop being kind. And that if I stop being kind no one will be kind to me and I will be alone and unable to cope. As you said being a fixer is avoidance but I wonder what we're avoiding?
@mohammadshafiullah9393
3 жыл бұрын
You are avoiding the red light feeling caused by the belief that you are unlovable. So, you seek validation from others to feel loved.
@PM-dl1iu
3 жыл бұрын
@@mohammadshafiullah9393 thank you for taking the time to respond! I do feel unlovable but I mainly feel unable to cope. That seems to be my biggest fear. I see myself as incapable and sadly it's often true.
@mohammadshafiullah9393
3 жыл бұрын
@@PM-dl1iu Ok. David has a video about the belief " I can't cope.". I think that might help you.
@PM-dl1iu
3 жыл бұрын
@@mohammadshafiullah9393 Thank you! You are correct about me avoiding the red light feeling. What I had seen in his other video is that he states you can cope because you've coped all this time. But what if we've only coped with other's help? I've been dependent on others because I have ADHD and do not have good executive functionality. And it's only natural to feel obligated to give back in order to justify the cost to those around.
@Notme811_you
Жыл бұрын
Have you ever tried to help people that didn’t want help or try to force someone to accept your help?
@ravenstroke9115
4 жыл бұрын
As always another great video
@rajitakumar8811
3 жыл бұрын
superb
@WuWeiWisdom
Жыл бұрын
Thanks 🤗 Kind regards, David.
@sherececocco
3 жыл бұрын
It feels like I married the pinball wizard.
@BARFHOUSE
4 жыл бұрын
Damn .... facts
@elliepascoe5954
4 жыл бұрын
I don't believe in coincidence anymore 😊🇳🇱
@WuWeiWisdom
4 жыл бұрын
😂... glad you enjoyed the teaching Ellie! x
@mariekolkman4185
4 жыл бұрын
So, I Recently went to do things for my boyfriend because that is who I am But he got mad at me and said if I want something I will ask for it. Everyone else I know just knows this is who I am . So am I being m I munipulative
@barbthegreat586
4 жыл бұрын
If you're doing things for him that he's capable of (or should be) doing himself, or you're doing more than 50%, then you're rescuing somebody. That's a recipe for disappointment (your disappointment).
@WuWeiWisdom
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Marie, As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only discuss in general terms. As we teach om many videos, a healthy relationship has the ability for each of the parties to relate! From the limited information you have shared with me it seems as though your partner is referring to you what he believes is appropriate. If you don't agree and you believe that you should do things for him without him asking then this would be the basis of a very loving and caring exchange of views. Follow this link to learn more about how we can support you (including our LIVE online teaching and meditation classes + our free Facebook support group) : www.wuweiwisdom.com/welcome/ 💜 David
@yiotamichaels1292
Жыл бұрын
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@WuWeiWisdom
Жыл бұрын
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.
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