To the sister with the question: Sounds like your boyfriend wants a sugar mama NOT a girlfriend. I personally would not continue with this relationship because his character shows me that he’s not financially stable or just plain using you. A man should be willing to pick up the bill here and there not make you pay for it every time. Sounds like what you have currently is a liability not an asset! Leave while you can. 😉Good luck!
@1PinkPanda
3 жыл бұрын
Answer to the first question: Two years and he's done Nothing for you! You already know the answer sister, Leave him please!! If you marry this man, he'll never be able to help you in your life. All of your life with him, you'll be the only one to give give give him!!! You're too nice and sweet so he's taking advantage of you. This is NOT a man, but a player and user, facts!!
@nkaujlis1082
3 жыл бұрын
To answer the question I'm leaning more towards "he's using you". To support my opinion, if he wasn't using you and he's just poor then there wouldn't be any surprises where he puts you on the spot to pay for his things or pretends like he forgot your bday and just called to say that he loves you or better yet borrow your money.. It's excuses after excuses piled high to the sky and once things don't work out between you two or you find out the truth later that he was just playing you, you have no one else to blame but yourself that you lend all this money to him and you might not get it back.. Just trust why you are questioning this, its because you know in your heart something isn't right. You say you have 3 standards of men you won't date, perhaps this should be your 4th one. A man with no money and uses you is comparable to dating a divorce man with lots of child support.
@SunsetBlvd85
3 жыл бұрын
To the girl with the question: for as picky as you are, how do you not see that he’s a broke ass? It’s better for you to date a man with kids, paying child support. At least a man who pays child support can AFFORD TO PAY child support.
@LDYsheng
3 жыл бұрын
To the lady asking the question: Your question already has so many red flags. 🚩 Leave while it’s not too late.
@jenniferlee8709
3 жыл бұрын
To the sister with the question: He's a gold digger. I know it's hard to finding the right person, but find the right person, love is not enough. It's vitals, and it's what life partnerships are build upon. If you are looking to build a life time partnership, the right person N the right connection are everything. So, don't rush, get to know the person b4 make a commitment. Make sure the person has the same goals as me.
@chaothaochannel
3 жыл бұрын
Cov txiv neej zoo li ko ces tsum kiag. Nws tsis hlub koj nws tsuas yog kaus koj xwb. Cov zoo li ko ces hu tias txiv kaus xwb no os
@pvang5650
3 жыл бұрын
Sister, he’s only using you for money. I think you know the answer already but just trying to deny it because you are looking for love.
@tttravel195
3 жыл бұрын
For the lady who asked the question, he is just using you.
@alifetoliveyes8824
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. He’s a loser. Run 🏃🏻♀️ girl
@magicalunicorn5853
3 жыл бұрын
Answer to the question: Hell NO! He’s a definite gold digger. He can’t even be a MAN and take care of himself yet alone you in the future. No way, we women want a real man who can help us build our lives not take care of a baby boy! He’s probably lazy irresponsible baby momma’s boy! And YES you can have standards to a man and be as picky as you want - it’s your life. Please look outside Hmong men!
@songxiong2013
3 жыл бұрын
Oh sister, he's a gold digger. That kind of man does not love you but your money. You should reconsider and move on! Good luck 👍
@kazouathao6650
3 жыл бұрын
Answer to the question: Drop that broke guy. He's wearing the clothes you bought him out on dates with other side chicks, the money you're givimg him to "go see his parents" you're paying for him and his side lover's romantic expense.
@morxiong1234
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree, sister love urself. This dog is no good. Good luck. I hope you make the right decision.
@mandilee8590
3 жыл бұрын
Add that to your list of no dating. He’s just using you
@adoralor7728
3 жыл бұрын
Sister add this type of guy to your do not date list. He's only dating and using you for money, red flag the minute he asked you to pay for his stuffs and borrowed your money. Why do you fall for the oldest lies of not having money with them.
@chorlee6835
3 жыл бұрын
Haha the sceret #1 so funny!!! 😆 🤣 😄 😂
@luemas2766
3 жыл бұрын
Answer to your question: Free money, why not.
@BeautiQueen25
3 жыл бұрын
He is just using you for his own benefit. Don't be too naive.
@maytuekue9997
3 жыл бұрын
Vi cau aw kj tu lhub ko tso pov tseg kj xai3 lo tseem xai tau nw si kj xwb
@ncohluasnkauj8581
3 жыл бұрын
For the lady that ask question. You need to run, he is using you like a ATM. If you need a real man he is not the one. You will fine a better person.
@nkaujmoschanal5232
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😃😃😃Neb ob niam txiv sib hlub heev ne😁
@madysenthao2008
3 жыл бұрын
Girl you know that’s not love. You need to leave him. Men will go as far as you allow them to. A man who loves you he should always put your needs first. This is how you know a man loves you in three words. LOVE PROTECT PROVIDES
@nkaujhuablis3997
3 жыл бұрын
To the question: RUN, don't just run, run as fast as you can!
@meilywanglau9356
3 жыл бұрын
This romantic story is too hilarious 🤣
@nkaujhmoobvwj
3 жыл бұрын
The question, dump him.
@msmoua100
3 жыл бұрын
Lols. The first secret is soooo funny!! 😂
@somlithher5240
3 жыл бұрын
Neb ua tau haib tshaj os kuv mas xav luag tshaj os
@thestoryofmylife6979
3 жыл бұрын
Screet#1, the romantic couple. Reminds me of 1,000 ways to die.😂😂😂
@chavang624
3 жыл бұрын
Ib tug txiv neej zoo li koj tus ko ces pov tseg zoo dua.
@deuanthao1993
3 жыл бұрын
The romantic secret got me laughing so hard 😂
@seajaneyangher4523
3 жыл бұрын
OMG...the lady that feel and hit the bathtub I feel terrible for you guys but goodness that story is hilarious! LMAO!
@maithao4474
3 жыл бұрын
First question.... He's only using you!...
@jenchan17
3 жыл бұрын
First answer question. That not good that he ask for ur money to much. And give you mad or upset losing ur money. Some men out there is never ask. I don't think he love you and what he want for money? And u never know what he doing. He not the right person to you. For the sister just let him go and move on find someone else. Be strong. 🙏🙂
@nengvang5883
3 жыл бұрын
Haha....zaj no mas luag mob plab os.
@mailee2312
3 жыл бұрын
To the sister asking for advice.. a real man will never ask you for money even when you guys just started dating . He’s not embarrassed to ask for money from you . My boyfriend and I dated for almost two years now and we always share the bills or we treat each other. Sister a guy like him is not worth your time or money. He’s just using you for now until he finds a better sugar mommy. You’re just his sugar mommy for now . Know your worth and leave that loser ass guy before he ask for more than just money .. lots of good guy out there . Good luck sister ❤️❤️❤️
@cheeher2171
3 жыл бұрын
Txiv neej tsawg tawg lawm nyeej meem muas kom tau txiv neej txoj kev ntshaw thiaj nrog luag tau txiv.
@kermoua6883
3 жыл бұрын
The 1st secret story is very funny. I hope no try do like the couple in 1st story because Valentine Day.
@seethao2164
3 жыл бұрын
Nws xav siv koj xwb nws tsis hlub koj tiag dag koj kom txaus ces tsis yuav koj xwb
@yemoua9859
3 жыл бұрын
sister aw cov txiv neej li ko ces tsis txhob nkim koj lub sib hawm rau os .
@MrsYaj-ei2io
3 жыл бұрын
To the lady with the question...Time to leave him. He doesn’t love you he only love to use you. I am sure he is hiding something from you if that’s how he is.
@maiiicy
3 жыл бұрын
You should already know the answer. He is clearly using you. You deserve better. Move on.
@mickyyang6338
3 жыл бұрын
To the sister: it’s ok to drop that guy... it shouldn’t matter if you’re a man or woman, if you’re not financially or emotionally stable then you should not be dating anyone and should only focus on yourself instead... there’s nothing wrong with having standards for yourself...
@flickeringfire7098
3 жыл бұрын
Lady with the question, please leave him. He just using you. A real guy that really wants you will not do that to you. 😏
@jolinaxiong571
3 жыл бұрын
Ohyo tus zoo li ko ces g yuav li o
@kazouathao7894
3 жыл бұрын
To the sister with the question: thank you, next 😉
@Maivntxawm05
3 жыл бұрын
To the sister with the question, you are being used. Add gold digger to your list and let him go before you regret.
@hmong7894
3 жыл бұрын
Nyob zoo os, tus hluas nkauj yog nriav ib tus txiv zoo ces yog kuv lawm os yog koj rau siab ces hus kuv nawb
@nkaujhlivaj9930
3 жыл бұрын
For the two romantic couple 💑 too much drinking me and my hubby never had that problem
@maithao1534
3 жыл бұрын
Zoo li ko kav tsij muab lawb xwb os tus ko tss tau yog tus hlub kj tiag2 os sister auw
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments
3 жыл бұрын
1st story is hilarious 🤣
@genalor4795
3 жыл бұрын
Question#1: RUN!!! He's using you.
@amazinggrace8136
3 жыл бұрын
You don’t want a father with child support but you’ll keep a bum? I’m confused. I’d say run.
@hmoobxwb7119
3 жыл бұрын
Kablia niam NeejVam You have long lots of hair, beautiful hair!!
@hliyaj1220
3 жыл бұрын
Question of the day: sister.....cas koj twb muaj cov cai txog hom txiv neej koj tsis aus es koj ho tsis include qhov cai no thiab. Kuv thwm tias tus txiv neej uas thov pojniam nyiaj yog tus txiv neej tsis paub kev cai thiab tsis muaj respect rau nws tuskheej thiab tsis muaj peev xwm. Hom no ces nyob qis dhau qhov qis lawm...not worth your time. Tus txiv neej txom nyem, nws tsis tas thov los yus yeej txawj pub rau nws. Tus txiv neej txawm txom nyem npaum twg los tsis txhob thov hluas nkauj nyiaj nawb. Same goes with the ladies too.
@lueyang6
3 жыл бұрын
Koj tab tom mag kaus Tso tseg sai li sai tau mog yuav zoo rau koj nawb
@laylayang786
3 жыл бұрын
To the sister with the question, HE’S USING YOU! LEAVE!
Intro question: in his eyes, your his sugar mama. He got you played. You see red flags but are willingly to deal with it for now. You already know the answer... what would your parents/love ones would say to you already. If he hasn't improved or benefited you move on. Now!.. dont hold on to the "what if" (Your mom gonna send her knuckle to your dome😆)
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments
3 жыл бұрын
Red Flag Alert: Cheap guy is just using you!
@seajaneyangher4523
3 жыл бұрын
Answer to the question: Some people go through difficult times however if he's been that way since 2019, that is a definite red flag. He doesn't appear to be a financially stable man and he doesn't appear to value you as he hasn't even gotten you anything for your birthday. Not that he needs to buy you a diamond ring to prove his love, but come on he can't even get you a card or bouquet of flowers?? Something doesn't add up and I'd say you should run the other way. Find a man who's more worthy of you and what you've got to offer.
@asdpoqwer3727
3 жыл бұрын
To the sister, I don't know why you ask people for advice on a fake relationship. A real man will never ask for your money and not pay back the next time you meet again. Get away from any guy that ask you for money or to buy thing for him when the relationship just started. Run fast and don't look back.
@KueeTonyaa
3 жыл бұрын
Answer to question: run girl. Like run. Don’t walk or skip. Nraug dab es tsis muaj nyiaj yuav ib lub tsho lossis them nqi tsev ce tsis tsheej ib tug txiv tsev. He’s using you.
@suexiong537
3 жыл бұрын
Pog laus ruam! Koj nim xaiv xaiv cas xaiv tau tus txiv dev pluag txom nyem li no xwb...
@maryyang5646
3 жыл бұрын
To the sister who is asking about her boyfriend. He may like you but seems like he is more into your money. Someone who truly likes you will not ask you for money. He is disrespectful for putting you on the spot when its time to pay. Time to leave him. If you stay with him, he will take and take from you. Dont let some guy treat you like that. Good luck!
@AprilMay.2023
3 жыл бұрын
Question - you are too nice! Leave him and find someone new.
@xiameevang9131
3 жыл бұрын
To the first secret story, When they did romantics scene on t v they practice many time before they do.😀😄😃😄😀
@pangxiong2273
3 жыл бұрын
To the lady. The minute a man asks you for money, it's a RED FLAG. You don't need a freeloader. He will use you as long as he can. You need a man and not a beggar. He has 2 hands and 2 feet, why he has to borrow money from you? Turn the table around and start doing the same. See how he responds to you. Good luck.
@yingvang1276
3 жыл бұрын
1st story, if the man weighs way less than his wife, how does she expect him to catch her and swing her around? Even if he caught her, there's a good chance he will fall
@livetofish.fishtolive6768
3 жыл бұрын
Lady, you know the answer already. Keep him. If you didn’t like him you would have dumped him already. You have high standards and yet you let Yourself fall for a man like that therefore don’t leave him now. It doesn’t sound like he’ living with you either nor did you say he intends to be your husband. He just said he wants to take you to Laos. The right answer is stay in the relationship.
@jefferythao4243
3 жыл бұрын
A lower. Don't waste time .
@NtxoovLauj
3 жыл бұрын
Hom no tsim nyog koj muab tis npe hu ua....... Yawg Vam kaus
@mailee-xiong706
3 жыл бұрын
Question: Red flag, he's using you. Run, run as fast as you can.
@leefamily6061
3 жыл бұрын
To lady with question: he's a gold digger and just using you for your money. Leave him ASAP!
@fongvang7719
3 жыл бұрын
Romantic - No need to do stupid something.
@acondon9985
3 жыл бұрын
To the lady with the free loader boyfriend, ditch him. He is only using you. It’s not going to get any better. You will continue to support him even when you get married. Once the money runs out, “No money, No Honey.” Marry someone who has the same values as you and is willing to support you financially as well as emotionally. Good luck in your decision!
@emilytxiong2010
3 жыл бұрын
Answer to the question: he’s a gold digger, only using you. You’re picky but still not picky enough.
@tydias3746
3 жыл бұрын
Phauj yog koj tu hlua nraug coj li ko, kav tsji tso nu os. Nws tsis nyiam koj, nws nyiam koj cov nyiab xwb thiab nws xiv koj xwb
@youchang7077
3 жыл бұрын
Nws kaus koj noj hom txiv neej no pov tseg zoo dua
@morxiong1234
3 жыл бұрын
Sister with question! Please run as fast as u can. He just using u. Don't feel sorry for a man like ur bf. If a man really loves u, nws tsis coj li no. Es pai rov thwg lo nws yeej tsi ask koj to pay for it. Tsi tag li ntawv please don't lend him money anymore save it for urself n ur children. Good luck. No need a man like this!
@mysshmongkey1962
3 жыл бұрын
If you gotta ask if he's good for you then no he's not. That's some dude who wants to just use you. Paying for someone once or twice is one thing but constantly an excuse everytime so that you have to come out of pocket for them, no they want you they just want to use you. Run sister, run!!!! And stay away from him and anyone like him!
@vangk24
3 жыл бұрын
To the lady with the question. Does your boyfriend pay you back when he borrowed your money? Does your boyfriend pay for 50% of the time when you go out to eat/hang out with friends? If he does then, it's fair to say that he's only human and needs some financial assistance here and there. However, if he borrows money but doesn't know when to return them or having you pay for things more than 50% of the time then he's only using you. He's a financial burden to you now and he will continue to be in the future. Therefore, it's best to cut him loose and move on.
For the question he doesn’t love you he loves your money. Next !!
@neegtximhlub2200
3 жыл бұрын
To the question....he just using u....
@QueenSheer
3 жыл бұрын
Questions: better tell his ass "BYE FELICIA", don't settle for less because you want that love and attention from the dude. He's broke and he's using you.
@spencer.cool.man.6971
3 жыл бұрын
Girl with question: honestly, it depends on what you’re looking for in a partner. It’s 2021, so I believe the roles can be switched. Obviously, he’s unstable financially, but if you are ok with it, then why not? You can be the breadwinner, while he has a part time job and takes care of the household. If you’re comfortable with it, I don’t see a problem as long as you make it clear to him that you pay the bills and he takes care of cooking, cleaning, children etc.
Teb rau tus sister. RUN!!! Yog koj yuav nws los yeej zoo li kov xwb os. I know couples who's been there done that. Lol.
@tsisxavhlubkojlawm1626
3 жыл бұрын
Question: Drop the loser!! He is using you big time. No man should asked a woman for money unless he give all his money for you to keep first!
@pajhaumtsav4765
3 жыл бұрын
Nws kaus kj xwb os viv ncaus aw
@herko311
3 жыл бұрын
First question: he use you. Common sense!
@kiabyaj8882
3 жыл бұрын
Viv ncaus aw hom txiv neej li ko yog hom dag noj dag haus xwb kav tsij muab tso tseg os.
@katrinashong8171
3 жыл бұрын
Girl, run 🏃🏻♀️. Run as fast as possible. You’re independent drop him like its hot. He loves your money only. Stop 🛑 giving him money. He’s taking money from you to spend on another girl or broke ass poor. Run run run away......
@hmong7894
3 жыл бұрын
Kuv yog txiv neej, kuv khiav rau koj tiag koj tus hluas nrauj nws tsis hlub koj thiab nws yog ib tus txiv neej hua tsis muaj peem xwm thiab dag noj dag huas xwb os
@kouavang5928
3 жыл бұрын
Sister with the question, I am a man and I don't like men using girlfriends for money. This kind of men do not love you, just your money. Get rid of him before you spend more money on him.
@xiameelee644
3 жыл бұрын
Teb rau tus viv ncaus lo lus noog, tus txiv neej ko ces kaus koj noj xwb mas. Tej zaum ntshe nws twb yog ib tug uas them child support ntau2 los yog twv2 txiaj nws thiaj tsis muaj nyiaj, nws thiaj li siv koj xwb. Koj cov nyiaj koj txais rau nws ces tsis tas tos lawm, tsis muaj hnub nws yuav them koj li os. Muab xab laim nrog nws mus thiab muab nws tso pov tseg thaum tseem ntxov koj thiaj tsis lwj siab
@heathervang8426
2 жыл бұрын
Question on broke bf: Red flag! Leave him to the streets! He is using you as a stepping stone!
@pkcyang2910
3 жыл бұрын
Kuv tsis nkag siab txog peb cov viv ncaus nkauj nrab txog qhov pheej them rau cov nraug nrab na. Thaum nws hais tias nws nyiaj tsis txaus ces yus kuj hais tias yus tsis muaj ib qhov nyiaj li lawm thiab. Yog nyiaj tsis txaus ces muab cia xwb. Thiab thaum nws yuav coj yus mus noj mov yus yuav tsum hais tias yus tsis muaj nyiaj li lawm. Yog nws xav coj yus mus ntshe kawg nws them xwb. Seb nws tej li cas. Lawv xav kaus yus los yus yuav tau ntse thiab lawv thiaj kais tsis tau yus mas.
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