Question 1: When your co-worker put his head on your shoulder, that is sexual harassment and he can be fired for that.
@magicalunicorn5853
2 жыл бұрын
That’s uncomfortable 😣! Too close and gross.
@tsheejxeemyaaj3223
2 жыл бұрын
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@MrsYaj-ei2io
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: He is not friendly. He definitely crossed the line. Stay away from him or you can complained to HR. Move to a different department. That is considered harassment.
@leelee8608
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: tell him if he values his job then for him to stop if not then you’ll go to HR and report him.
@pkcyang2910
2 жыл бұрын
Niam neej Vam, you look very beautiful today
@brendaxiong8873
2 жыл бұрын
Sister, you need to report it to your work. No excuses. This is our problem because we are Hmoob!
@youavu1433
2 жыл бұрын
1st Q Be direct and tell him
@chevangchannel7425
8 ай бұрын
Hahaha ha cas yuav khaum zoo ua luaj li os mi kwv Aw… kuv mas luag luag koj mob plab tag li os
@QueenSheer
2 жыл бұрын
Q#1: that is called work place sexual harassment. You need to report him if he makes up you feel uncomfortable. If you're here asking that question, that means you want something to be done. Nowadays employers take sexual harassment very serious. You are protected by it so report it lady. If this continues it can ruin your marriage.
@cianavang233
2 жыл бұрын
Q2 Tim Koj Xwb
@myprecious6751
2 жыл бұрын
1 question... sounds to me he's interested in you. Best thing is record it. Everytime you see him coming around....hv a sit dwn wth him and explain to him tht what he's doing makes you really uncomfortable. Tht if he doesn't stop you'll hv no choice but to report him to HR.
@yourrrkool8825
2 жыл бұрын
Q1 . Nws twb xav muab koj tham!
@cachevang6570
2 жыл бұрын
Q2: Have self control and eat in moderation brother. Remember you eat to live not live to eat!!!
@tubhmoobhmoob2944
2 жыл бұрын
Q1. Ntawm kuv tus kheej mas nrhiav hauj lwm tshiab zoo dua, tsis li ces koj hais rau nws kom nws tsis txhob ua 1 zaug ntxiv lawm yog nws tseem ua thiab ces koj yuav qhia rau Manager es kom nws txhob tu siab (warning rau nws)
@tinayang2268
2 жыл бұрын
If you dont like it and he wont stop its consider harassment and you should report him to HR if you give him warning already.
@kevinher4010
2 жыл бұрын
Q#2. Tim neb ob leeg tib si.
@jasthao9330
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: He likes you and wants a relationship with you. Be firm and stay away from him.
@pahniayang8574
3 ай бұрын
Q1: That guy coworker is definitely trying to hit on you. He thinks he can get into your pant. I would recommend distancing yourself from him, report to the manager, or leave the company.
@LymeeCha
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: Warn him you'll file for harassment if he doesn't leave you alone! He should not be treating you like that and making you uncomfortable!
@tonymoua1058
2 жыл бұрын
Q2: It's all about self control. It's good to have someone that knows how to cook delicious foods, but it doesn't mean you should eat it like there's no tomorrow.
@suevang3463
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: Report to HR problem solved. Simple as that. Goodluck
@hmoobtiagtiaghmong6704
2 жыл бұрын
Question 2: Yourself,your body don't blame to the other.Noj qab ces nyob tsis zoo!
@tfcaby
2 жыл бұрын
Q2: You need to take responsibility for your own actions and stop blaming your wife for your lack of self control.
@ammysoyoung1503
10 ай бұрын
Q1. HR or supervisor. Why do you even care about him. What you say is the truth. You are not firing him but you have the right to tell your sup that he is making you uncomfortable and should work in different department. He should get talk to.
@christinabthao8825
2 жыл бұрын
Q1....niam laus ysis nyuaj li os yog yus yog ib tug poj niam siab ncaj muaj lus ntau hais rau nws os....koj hais rau nws tias yog nws tsis tsum ces koj muaj neej muaj tsab muaj kwv muaj tig yog nws tdis tsum kom nws txhob tu siab no xwb ma...peb pom niam yog peb txwv tuag nthi lawm yeej tsis muaj ib tug txiv neej twg chwv tau peb li os
@hmoobsister9534
2 жыл бұрын
Q1- Tell HR at work that he is making you feel uncomfortable. They won't fire him but they will talk to him. No need to go the Hmong way.
@thajyeebzang5141
Жыл бұрын
Qt1 . Tus man no twb yuav siv lub maib ntxias kom koj siab qaug hlub rau nws es nws npaj lub I love you ua papapapapa ntag lau yog koj tswv koj tus kheej ces neb neej piam sij ntag
@elisahawj3317
2 жыл бұрын
1. Yuav tsum hais rau HR. Yog koj tsis xav kom nws raug ncaws tawm ces hais rau lawv tias koj tsis comfortable es kom lawv pab hais rau nws kom nws txhob ua dua lawm xwb. Qhov nws ua rau koj nov yog "harassment" lawm. Tsis ncaj ncees rau koj lawm. Don't let anyone treat you that way.
@tswjntug2346
2 жыл бұрын
Ua li ko ces yog nws twb xav xav dib moj los mas pog awd. Ib tug txiv neej pheej ua txiv dev liam txwv li cas yog tab tom ntxia kom koj qaug quav rau nws ntag los mas. Yog tsis nyiam ces muab warning rau xwb mas cas nyuaj luaj nas.
@maryly09
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: He's slowly making his moves on you to see how you will respond and reacts. If you are a weak woman, u will fall for him and and reciprocate. This is where cheatings start. It doesn't seem like u like him so u need to be upfront and tell him to f*ck off.
@nengvang5883
2 жыл бұрын
Q #1 nws ua zoo rau koj, nws yuav ntxias kom tau koj lib cev xwb. Cov mov nws muab rau koj ntawv nws yeej muab tshuaj khaus tso rau kom yus noj tag yus khaus3 ces kom yus mus thab nws, ces yus muab yus lub cev rau nws. Nyob teb chaws no yuav tau ua raws coj cai. Hais rau HR xwb, luag txoj cao yeej hais tias yog muaj neeg thab yus ces qhia rau HR. Yog yus tsis qhia rau HR paub ces yog muaj lwm tus plm nws thab koj li no, luag muaj peev xwm qhia rau HR paub ces koj yog tus raug rho tawm, vim koj yog tus zoo siab cia nws thab koj.
@solomoua5520
2 жыл бұрын
Q1 He is trying to catch the fish . Stay away from him
That is real harassment, you need to take further action.
@kthoj66
2 жыл бұрын
Q-1: He is up to NOoooi good so please please don't fall for.
@ScatteredYO
2 жыл бұрын
Q2: It's your fault. Control your appetite. There can be all the food in the world in front of you, and you can still control your appetite. Don't say it's your wife's fault. It's 100% your fault.
@nkaujhmoobvwj
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: U know the answer. If he dont stop, report him for to HR for harassment. Simple. Q2: its ur fault. Cus it's ur body, u need to eat healthier n eat less. Its also her fault for making u good food. U need to hangout with people that will keep u motivated. Good luck. I need help too. I'm too big.
@lindayaj1333
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: you can’t feel bad for him and allow him to make you feel uncomfortable. Regardless if it’s just friendly gestures the point is you are uncomfortable and do not like it. You need to be direct and tell him if he doesn’t stop you will have no choice but to bring it to HR and will not be responsible for what they will do.
@myprecious6751
2 жыл бұрын
Q2...brother it's not your wife's fault. You need to control yourself. Portion yourself. No matter how good the food is. Stop blaming your wife. But she should hlp you.
@kellyxiong8739
5 ай бұрын
Don't be navie. That's sexual harassment. Do something about it before it's too late.
@baoyang6565
2 жыл бұрын
Q#2: Don't blame your wife. You're a grown man.
@piamoua3649
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: if what you said is true, anything that you disapprove is harassment . Straight him up with harassment or else. Q2: tsis tim tus ua, tim tus noj xwb .
@vavang9626
2 жыл бұрын
Question, just tell him the truth to leave you alone . 1 st warning
@loaxiong3359
2 жыл бұрын
Q:1 if don’t like it then tell him straight but sound like you like that attention from him too…
@pameelee1398
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: tus niam tsev tus neeg zoo lis kod ces nws xav thab koj xwb mas
@stepfanie80
2 жыл бұрын
It’s your fault not her fault. You must expected good foods only. Some husband get offended if their wives only cook healthy foods and make salads.
@tubhmoobhmoob2944
2 жыл бұрын
Q2. Raws kuv xav mas tim koj xwb, koj yuav tau txuag koj tus kheej xwb
@phem55
2 жыл бұрын
Q:1 you already know the answer to your question, that’s how infidelity started..20 yrs work together he has feelings for you…you needs to cut him off
@Christymxiong
2 жыл бұрын
@Q#1- He is testing the water. YOU came here to ask people for advice. . Hopefully you on the other hand didnt mislead him to acting like that toward you. Usually men would back out as soon you deny and straight forward with him right there and then.
@Thisbeme1986
2 жыл бұрын
Q1 Tus niam tsev qhov kom txhob muab teeb meem ces koj txhob nrog nws tham, txhob noj ib yam dabtsi nws muab tamsim tauj nws muab rau koj. Qhov nws muab qhov mov rau koj noj nws muab rau koj noj kom koj vwm rau nws nyiam nws. Nws yeej paub ua tej black magic no los yog nws ntiav neeg ua rau ces kom nqa tuaj rau koj noj ces koj yuav vwm raws nws ov. Muab nws ceeb toom warning kom nws txhob thab kom tsam nws poob haujlwm li no xwb ces nws yeej tsis thab kom lawm os nawb. Muaj dabtsi ces kawg hais rau tus nai thiab qhab loj sauv kom lawv muab warning rau nws kom nws txhob los thab koj lawm xwb mas k.
@phem55
2 жыл бұрын
Secret #1 khaum tiag..tiag, nej cov me txivtsev el cheater os haum nkaus xwb..😅😅😅
@qaibphoojywglee7124
2 жыл бұрын
teb zaj 2 yog tim koj tus kheej vim koj tsi txawj noj koj thiaj nphau npwv li ko
@minecraftboy2676
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: men like that keep away from him. Warning if he does not stop harassing you you are going to the supervisor. Just stop talking to him but just talk about work only if necessary.
@kenxiong5540
2 жыл бұрын
Q. 2 qhov koj rog tsis yog koj poj niam nawb yog koj xwb nws ua qab Los koj yuav tsum t awj noj xwb xav kom yuag ces noj tsawg xwb Las khoom qab mas leej twg lis yeej xav noj nawb tab yuav tau ua zoo saib xwb
@malygranger3739
2 жыл бұрын
Q1. Stalker! Becareful of these type of people. It's harassment, work harassment doesn't matter if he loses his job. Your life maybe in danger. He's mentally not stable.
@nengyajnkaujseexyoojchanne7821
2 жыл бұрын
Nias rau koj lm pab nias rau kuv thb
@xiavang9082
Жыл бұрын
Sister he just want to get in your pant.
@pahouaxyooj
2 жыл бұрын
Story 1 niag pojniam ko ruam tiag tiag ruam tshaj qhov ruam lawm.
@nouyang3166
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: you can just tell him to stop or u will have to bring it to HR. Just tell him you're uncomfortable
@paulthao8483
2 жыл бұрын
Aw niam tais koj hais rau nws tias kom nws txob ua li ntawv lawm yog nws tseem ua tgiab no koj yuav qhia rau koj tus nai koj hais li no nws ntshai lawm mas
@JohnLee-rz3bj
2 жыл бұрын
Q1 just tell him if he don’t stop you report to hr he harassing u
@ScatteredYO
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: He's trying to get in your pants. 100% Go to the office and file for sexual harrassment or sexual advancement. When you play easy, you will get the hard part coming.
@missysmart8620
2 жыл бұрын
To the chicken thief, you acted less than a child. Anyone come visit my home, they are welcome to eat whatever are in my fridge. No need to be sneaky about it. Shame on you🤦🏻♀️.
@denamoua7262
2 жыл бұрын
?1. Warn him if he don't stop ces foob nws rau he.?2.your wife shld do healthy cooking
@pyang6075
2 жыл бұрын
Why do you reach out to hmong people as they can’t help with that situation. lol if he works with you and you’re uncomfortable I would tell him to stop or you will go to HR. I would notate all the incidents for proof later. If he still doesn’t stop or know his boundaries after you warn him then it’s time to take it to HR. Don’t have sympathy for him as he doesn’t care how you feel of what he’s doing
@hliyaj1220
2 жыл бұрын
Q1. He has the hot for you. Be careful your sin gets on your soul.
@whiteranger3836
2 жыл бұрын
Q2. No one to blame but yourself. You control your own appetite and what you eat.
@yeethao9964
2 жыл бұрын
Q: 1 this guy is not the guy in your version yog tias nws yog tus neeg koj nyiam ces ntshe hauj lwm tiav tag lawm os..hehehe
@hectorthao5579
2 жыл бұрын
Tus niam tsev koj yuav tau muab warnings rau tus neeg tsis paub tab zoo lis tus txiv neej no, yog tias tsis tseg koj yuav food mus rau HR tias nws saib tsis taus koj.
@hectorthao5579
2 жыл бұрын
2. Tuaj rau tus txiv tsev yog tim koj 100% tsis yog koj tus hlub, koj ua tsaus qhov nws paub ua zaub mov qab2, tsis yog tim koj tus hlub.
@leovue7873
Жыл бұрын
I think you like his companion, you like how he flirted with you at your work place. For 20 years you have put up with him at work, I'm sure there's a lot more going on between you and him and you haven't told the full truth, you have more deeper secrets you won't tell.
@RedmanLS3
9 ай бұрын
Q1: easy! He try to hit that 😽
@baoyang6565
2 жыл бұрын
Q#1 This guy is trying to get into you. If you're faithful to your husband then is best you report this guy to the human resource.
@angielo06
2 жыл бұрын
Story 1. Li ko ces yog npam koj ntag vim koj cheat koj tus niam tsev mus tham hluas nkauj tim nplog los maj. Cia kom ua li ko es thiaj li tsis tau pim tsoob nyob tim nplog lauj. Li ko thiaj phim os mog.
@nancypha3576
2 жыл бұрын
Tus niam tsev tus txiv tsev ua than thab koj ko nws twb xav xab tham koj nws thiaj li ua txua yam rau koj yog koj siab mos siab muag ces koj raug tus txiv neej tom hauj lwm ko dag vim nws pom tau tias koj tsis myaj mob koj muaj txiv lo nws tsis khws nws ua txua yam kom koj vwm thiab qaug kev hlub rau tus txiv tsev ntawv qhov zoo koj nyob nrug deb li deb tau ntawm tus txiv tsev koj txua nrog tham ces lusg tsis quav ntsej koj lawm yoh koj hais lus ntau txog kawg koj tseem tham tus txiv tsev ntawv thiab peb poj niam hmoob cov ua tham tham luag tej txiv ces ua ua loj ko ntag mas qhov Zoo koj hais rau koj tus nai tom hauj lwm yog ua ntau koj kawg mag tus txiv tsev ko tshuav ntsuag ntag ho
@mlee6092
2 жыл бұрын
Q2, To the obese bro complaining about his wife's good cooking. There is a name for your problem and it's called "Hmong male privilege." Tau zoo dhau hwv lawm cia luag tiam yus cuag huab tais xwb. There's a price for this and you're paying that price. Solution: give up your huab tais privilege and learn to cook healthy for yourself and your wife. And get out there to a park and literally run for your life. There's no other way, unless you want to pay 25k for liposuction. No pain no loss.
@tswjntug2346
2 жыл бұрын
Thaub rog awd, cas koj tseem nug niag ruam ruam li ko naj! Hais cuag li tsis yog ib tug txiv neej li. Tim koj tus kheej xwb los mas thaub! Leej twg yuav yuam tau koj leej twg thiaj yuav txwv tau koj mas, tsuas yog koj tus kheej thiaj qhuab qhia tau koj xwb los sav, cas hais tau ruam ua luaj.
@ncokojxublee8894
2 жыл бұрын
Thaub tim koj ib leeg xwb khub noj me me xwb es leeg tus zuag koj noj ntau ntau neeg tsis muaj lwb ces yog koj dag.
@cua1879
2 жыл бұрын
You've been more than nice to him and he's determined to get to you. Let him know if he doesn't stop then you will report him to HR. It's a fair warning. You shouldn't have to go to work feeling uncomfortable and unsafe.
@xayxiong1061
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: Threat him that you’ll report him to HR. If you don’t then you he’ll continued to harassed you. It doesn’t matter if he’s Hmong he doesn’t respect you and thinks you’re easy. You need to report him.
@tongyang6314
2 жыл бұрын
Turn his behind in to your boss. Sooner or later he is going to win you over. You know his intention. Stop him now or stop using the excuse accidental or mistake later. You should stop him. Not ypur husband. He is a dog. Call it what it is.
@lyndalor5311
2 жыл бұрын
U need to move to a different department, shift, or get new job
@angielo06
2 жыл бұрын
It's not your wife's fault. You are lucky to have a wife that knows how to cook but you need to control your eating habit.
@PeebZeej31
2 жыл бұрын
Q2: its your fault that you’re fat, you need to control your food portions, don’t over eat and then blame your wife for cooking. Your wife is a very good wife, she cooks for you, she makes sure you’re being fed, appreciate her, not every man is lucky to have a wife that cooks. Just eat smaller portions and workout.
@GegeLor_Channel
2 жыл бұрын
Q#1 Say to him and give him a warning if he doesn't want get pull in to the office to talk then he needs to stay away from you and all he needs to do is worrying about he sick wife at home just never bothering you anymore 😁
@LorXai
Жыл бұрын
He wanna get with u but waiting for u to give the Okay….which hes a Pos
@saipaomoua4552
2 жыл бұрын
Question #1: get over the old saying: Hmoob neej Hmoob tsav, Hmoob hlub Hmoob." Your co-worker is not going to stop trying to get into your pant. You need to file a harassment report to your HR immediately. His behaviors toward you are clearly Verbal Harassment, Physical Harassment and Sexual Harassment. Reporting to your HR is the only way to stop him from hitting on you. If you don't report, he will continue to being nice to you and eventually you will fall into his trap. Before you know it, you will be cheating on your husband. Trust me it will happen.
@kuatxobvh4481
2 жыл бұрын
hahhaha thaub npam sai kawg hos txoj kev dag pojniam es mus yaim pim mejcab tim nplog na zaum no mas tseem npam me li koj lwm zaum mas npam koj los qab nyujhoom kiag nawv
@magicalunicorn5853
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: tell him straight up. You’re uncomfortable with these gestures and you don’t care for them, thank you but no thanks and to clear away from him or tell him to leave you alone.
@xaihlub34
2 жыл бұрын
Q1: its not that hard! Hem nws tias nws tsis tseg ces koj yuav foob nws xwb! tsis li ntawv ces kawg koj nhriav hauj lwm tshiab.
@junelove3839
2 жыл бұрын
Q2: I think its both at fault coz you shouldn't be eating it and your wife shouldn't be cooking fatty food. You are what you eat.
@vongyang5834
2 жыл бұрын
Question 1. Coming from a guys perspective, if you guys have worked for 20 years together already and he has not hit on you earlier…. then he is just trying to be a friend. Not all guys that try to be friendly automatically like you and have feelings for you. He has not crossed the lines yet that you have mentioned so don’t try to get him in trouble.
@leejmuam1
2 жыл бұрын
Secret#1. Npam tiag tiag. Ua lub siab phem na ha, Ntuj tsis pub rau koj kiag🤣🤣🤣. Koj pojniam cas ruam ua luaj, txiv neej nyiag kev khiav mus nplog ces mus rau lub noob xwb ma. Koj lucky kawg pojniam tsis muaj koj recycle.
@gevang4040
2 жыл бұрын
Mus hais tom HR xwb ces yawg nyob taus7. Yog tias tej lus koj tham no muaj tiag.
@undercoveralias4012
2 жыл бұрын
Where I used to work, a lot of different Asians, they are very friendly and nice. I think Hmong people just too uptight. If he’s singling you out, then maybe he is hitting on you. But if he does it to everyone, then you’re just overreacting.
@hlee9954
2 жыл бұрын
Most of them have no respect. My ex-sil work in a company. A Hmong still married… He rent hotel to have quickie with my ex-sil. After few times he quit working. My bil only found out because he was at an event. There was a bunch of guys talking. He was standing and heard the guy was telling others someone at work. She’s easy. Just rent a hotel. Let her know and she’ll show up, shower, … then leave. When he was talking many clues my bil heard he know it is his wife. My ex-sil is a prostitute at 12/13 yo. What we know is just we know but what we don’t know is 10x fold. She even went to the mountain and a guy there. Paid her $500 but tell everyone. If your a Hmong wife and have a husband like this… how can you lived with him… 🤮🤮🤮
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