Q1 dude run, if you aren't even married and she treats you like that it will be worst once ur married
@nyc594
11 ай бұрын
1st secret- I have my bachelor and masters. I don’t treat my husband like that. My education has nothing to do with my relationship with my husband. It’s having respect for your spouse for who they are even if they don’t have a high education or a good paying job. My husband has a high school diploma and it’s okay to me as long as he continues to have goals, continues to work, and be a husband and father. In life that’s all that matters. When you die you can’t take your degrees only memories and love from your family.
@user-bw9ro3jz4v
11 ай бұрын
Q2: my niam pog and txiv yawg said the same crap to me. They say they don't want to help us watch our kids. I started taking my kids to my parents and move closer so we didn't have to drive 40 mins drive back and forth... they told the whole world that we are mean. That we don't love them and never bring our kids to visit them. But they never told people that they don't want to help us babysit for 30 mins only. Makes me so mad too.
@GeYang-ui6sh
11 ай бұрын
Question 2: You didn’t tell your mother-in-law first before you completely stopped having her watch the younger twin. That’s why there’s a misunderstanding and she told everyone. It’s not like your mother-in-law completely refused to watch your kids, it’s just that she can’t handle 2 especially if one is naughty. But because she’s on OG, she doesn’t think how to say it nicely. If your own mom also said your oldest is naughty, then I would agree your mother-in-law cannot handle 2 kids at once. You had no problem with your own mom saying how naughty the older one is. Even I have 2 kids and it’s hard! Just continue doing the same thing that you’ve always been doing by transporting them back and forth and split it up - one day the twins separate at different houses, one day they’re together at one house, etc. Eventually the twins will grow up and be free from babysitting.
@lnchannel1186
11 ай бұрын
Q1. If you’re questioning her then you already know!! Only marry someone you’re confident in marrying
@yangsue07
11 ай бұрын
Lol story funny af. Now everyone gonna learn the fake sleep attack 😂😂😂
@rikuxiong01
11 ай бұрын
Q1: I don't think you guys would be a good match, especially since she already hinted to you what factor determines the dominance in her relationship. Q2: Girl, why are you expecting your in-laws and parents to watch your kids?🤦♀️ Give the elderly a break!
@whatheck6797
11 ай бұрын
*Question 2* Niam pog tsis zoo os
@Lotus-og6if
11 ай бұрын
Q2: about the mother in law that does not want to babysit the older twins. You have got to stop caring about people’s gossip and opinion. If your in-laws does not want to help you both and they live with you, start charging rent. Who freaked cares what people say, at the end of day it usually your parent that loves you the most.
@missysmart8620
11 ай бұрын
Q1: You already knew what the outcome would be so stay far and find another girl. Q2: who cares what other said and why can't you just tell these people the truth that because your mil doesn't want to care for the older twins, so she took them to your mother to care for her and in turn your younger twin wants to be with your older twin so to make life easier, you took both your twins to your mother to care for them?
@rikuxiong01
11 ай бұрын
Love all of your hmong inspired jackets! ❤
@zouayang815
11 ай бұрын
Ha😂😂😂😂😂
@pkcyang2910
11 ай бұрын
Q1: i think you need to let her go and find someone who have the same value as you. If your ex wife didnt cheat on you but divorced because of disagreement only, you should try to work things out with her. Only she will love your kids as much as you. But if you cant get back together for some unforgivable situation then find someone who respect you for who are and willing to love your kids as her own
@maliemay
11 ай бұрын
Q2: my advice is that you take control of your twins. You make that decision and you care for them. Their safety is all that matters. Disregard what others have to say. If an old aunty comes and yap at you just say my twins are safe and that's all that matters
@3hmongchannel762
11 ай бұрын
Q#1 Brother! She already shows you her dark side soon or later she’ll see the greener grass in the other side of the fence. American psychological Association said any married couple whose used their education over their relationship 98% their marriage is unstable and end up with divorce.
@xiavang9082
11 ай бұрын
Brother run away while you still can!!
@electricgenie966
11 ай бұрын
Q1: Brother, you had nothing to lose. I'll take a chance any day.
@xaihlub34
11 ай бұрын
1 question: yuav tus phim yus lub meej mom lub neej thiaj tsis mob hlwb mob stroke os.
@bliay7
11 ай бұрын
You need to respect your mother in law. Wait until you be grandma. Watching kids is not easy
@tonyvang5395
11 ай бұрын
Secret 1... 😂lol😂
@whatheck6797
11 ай бұрын
*Question 1* REG FLAG!!! Better think before you put that ring on her. *Good luck!*
@lipeixiong9931
11 ай бұрын
Ceev faj, yog hluas nkauj muaj kev kawm es twb hais li rau yus...nyuaj lau
@colleenchan9872
11 ай бұрын
Q1: kuv xav koj txhob yuav nawb koj twb muaj qhov tib nws tus cwj pwm lawm mas lwm hnub neb sib sau tau koj tseem yuav mob hlwb tshaj os.. good luck nawb😊
@Vision12145
11 ай бұрын
I know everyone is saying who cares about what the world is saying about you but I’m in a similar situation where niam pog went to go spread bad rumors of me, I keep telling myself who cares but it hurts and makes me very angry to where she is no longer allowed over to to see my kids
@songxiong3567
11 ай бұрын
Q1. It is better to let go of that relationship. She's not even your wife yet and is already pointing that out. It will not work. Good luck!!
@nancyher3493
11 ай бұрын
Q2. Kuv niag niam pog zoo ib yam li thiab. Kuv niam niam pog twb nrog kuv nyob los nws twb tsis kam zov kuv cov, nws tseem mus zov nws tus ntxhais cov xwb. Nws tseem mus hais rau luag tom tej tias wb tsis kam nws zov es nws thiaj mus zov nws tus ntxhais cov.
@phatchareeseengsirinukun1380
11 ай бұрын
ไม่ต้องสนใจคำพูดแม่ผัว แม่ของเรารักเราที่สุดค่ะ
@kaher9238
11 ай бұрын
Q2-If I was you, I don’t care what my mother in law say. If she continues to say, I will tell her exactly how I feel in a nice way.
@sandyvangyang110
11 ай бұрын
1/ I think you know the answer, she is giving you hints lol It's not a bad thing to have a smart spouse, smarter spouse better jobs. As long as she respects you. 2/ why do you expect the ogs to watch your own kid when it's your kid lol They have their own life too
@hmoobxwb1
11 ай бұрын
Tub ruag aw, koj twb pom zim zuag txog tus ntxhais ntse hov lawm, hnub twg koj yuav tau nws kiag lawm mas nws yog koj niam fuabtais kiag. Hnub ntawd tsam koj ua pa tsis nto. Muab nws tsuav ntsuag ntau tsam koj ho qaug nws quav lawm thiab. Kav tsij tawm thaum koj tseem tshuav me ntsis hlwb seem. Tso nws mus. She’s not your type anyway.
@yangsue07
11 ай бұрын
Q1: time to run bro. Don't let others treat you like that. No one deserves that. Q2: don't let your mil treat you that way. It's time for her to go to senior homes. Ggs.
@chengxiong9980
11 ай бұрын
Hais rau tus nraaug nra. Nus muab koj nrab qaum ua liaj noj xwb os. Ib tug zoo li ntawv xyov nus puas yuav hlub koj tiag thiab yuav nrog koj ua lub neej nyob laus.
@kaoxiong6148
11 ай бұрын
Q1: she told you what she’s expecting of a man already…red flags all over…😩👍!
@dolliilov3144
11 ай бұрын
Q# 1: All I hear are Red Flags about your GF! She's already giving you hints that she wants to be in control because of her dumb education. It looks like she hasn't learned much with a degree on how to be humble, respectful, and knowledgeable towards others because that's how you succeed in any relationship whether personal or professional. Some hmong people need to stop using their degree as a know it all because you still got a lot of reality to learn!!!
@michaelf2700
11 ай бұрын
Q1: Run as far as u can if u dont want to be stepped on for the rest of ur life. Ur not even married & she's showing her true colors. Q2: Honestly, u r responsible for ur kids, not ur parents r inlaws. If they help out, great, but if they dont, then u find paid sitters. Just ignore ur mil's complaints. U do what works for ur kids.
@piamoua3649
11 ай бұрын
Q1. Run, Run away and NEVER returned. 🚩1. Koj Yog neeg thas ma das xwb, 2. 32 yrs. And still single, 3. Sweet talk. Q2. 🖕to the mil.
@Vaj555
11 ай бұрын
If you are not paying people to watch your kids don’t get butt hurt, your kids are your responsibility. I hate when people just assume that their parents should just automatically watch their kids while they work, some of these people don’t even contribute to the foods their kids eat on a daily basis. Nothing free in life, just saying
@MrsKervang
11 ай бұрын
Q1: It sounds like the GF still has lots of growing to do. Keep monitoring her behavior. If she continues to speak this way, you should start exploring elsewhere. I suggest you date someone with more life experiences. Q2: Regardless of what your wife did, you shouldn't have resort to physical harm. You're in the wrong!
@xionglee5430
11 ай бұрын
First story run while you can is not worth it
@xayxiong1061
11 ай бұрын
Q1: Don’t marry her unless you want to be under her command. Q2: It’s your house your rules with your own daughters. You don’t have a mouth to tell gossipers that it’s your MIL that refused to watched your twins.
@nkaujyeebsuaxyooj8760
11 ай бұрын
Niam lawm aw yog ua li cas tseem muaj tej tug neeg nyiag kuv li dub mus tso hais pheem rau kuv li ces thov ib tsoom phoog ywg pab teb seb kuv yuav ua li cas thiaj zoo
@hmongremark2686
11 ай бұрын
Story 1 - Yog koj ntshaw ua yawg nrauj ntxiv no ces koj mam yuav tus hluas nkauj xwb no. Txiv kawm txawj tsis lam nrauj niam tsis muaj kev nkawm txawj, tab sis feem coob ntawm cov niam kawm txawj pheej nrauj cov txiv tsis muaj kev kawm txawj nyob pawg lug rau txhua lub nroog muaj Hmoob nyob.
@ScatteredYO
11 ай бұрын
Q1: STOP! TURN LEFT OR RIGHT.
@Vangrsky
11 ай бұрын
1: It shouldn’t matter if you don’t have a degree. If I were you, I would think twice about marrying her. 2: Just tell people the truth when they talk smack about you. Your mother in law didn’t want to watch them because she rather go to the casino! 😂😂😂
@mklv634
11 ай бұрын
Q1- yog nws twb hais li ntawv rau koj lawm ces lwm hnub koj yuav tau nws los nws yeej yuav hais li ntawv rau koj dua thiab seb koj yog tus ruam tshaj nws seb koj puas ua tau everything li nws hais xwb yog ua tsis tau ces txhob yuav xwb.
@ncohluasnkauj8581
11 ай бұрын
Q2. What is wrong with you? No matter what both kids are yours. Take both or take none. Let her go casino and you better let her pay rent.
@CheeHer-fq8yi
11 ай бұрын
1no tsi zoo yuav
@TMoua79
11 ай бұрын
1stQ. Run. I don’t think it’s going to go well with you, should you wed her.
@pashvang4113
11 ай бұрын
Question 1: Red flags everywhere! 🚩🚩🚩You already know you need to break it up with her. You have 2 kids and you don’t have a degree like her. She already belittle you and disrespected you. You already know.
@TV-lp4qi
11 ай бұрын
Q1.. Don't do it.. She showing her true colors
@hlh9393
11 ай бұрын
Q1. Thaub aw, koj niag hlaus nkauj twb qhia nws lub siab nev. Koj tseem yuav thiab ces tsis ntej no koj yuav tsis Qualify vim koj tsis muaj degree dabtsi li as. Nws tseem tau master degree thiab ces koj kawg nyob hauv qab nws dlaim tiab 😂
@PinkMang0
11 ай бұрын
Q1: Do not married her! She’s a red flag! 🚩 She’s already judging your status before marrying you!! If you happened to marry her, she’ll use her status to dominate you and emotionally abuse you!! No! 🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️ She’s no good!!! Q2: The reason your mil is acting that way and telling the whole world that you’re not a good nyab is because she doesn’t want anyone to judge her for not taking care of your kids while she’s living with you and your husband. She just wants to stir up the pot and telling everyone that you’re the bad nyab neeg tsab even before people said that it is her who’s the bad mil. It’s all about reputation! Don’t mind her even if she had told everyone this and that about you. Be humble, and eventually, in the end everyone will see the truth. Just ignored negative comments! You know what’s truth and what’s not. There’s always two side to the story. If anyone asked, just tell them what you’d told us about your twins. Just reassure them that you’re not the bad nyab your mil be telling everyone.
@GegeLor_Channel
11 ай бұрын
Q#1 Koj niag hluas nkauj ntxim yog hom poj niam khav theeb hais lus loj2 hais lus muaj phlus ntxim ntxub os hom neeg zoo li koj tus hluas nkauj mas nrog nws ua neej ces tsis ntev kawg dhuav kawg mob hlwb ntshe yuav ua lub neej boring tsis lom zem li os tsis tas yuav li nawb neeg hais lus khav theeb na so annoying os
@nkaujhmoobvwj
11 ай бұрын
Q1: find someone better who don't treat u like that. Q2: find a babysitter.
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