Seeking to Understand--Personalizing Compassion to What a Person Wants, Not What We Would Want if We Were in Their Shoes! (Canadian Institutes of Health Research Knowledge Translation Video Awardee)
Seeking to Understand, is often the forgotten ingredient in compassion. Whether it is our desire to move from understanding to fixing. Our assumptions that we already understand or better understand what a person actually needs. Or our blind acceptance of the widely held misconception that compassion is understanding what it would be like for us to be in another person's shoes. Without an understanding of both the person and how they optimally experience compassion, we are left tripping over someone else's shoe laces--rolling our ankles and ruining their sneakers in the process-- leading to misunderstanding and mistargeted kindness as a result.
In this award-winning* episode of our series of short videos on the topic and core components of compassion, we meet Daniel and his nurse Marjory, affectionally known as 'Little Nurse Nice'. Marjory quickly comes to realize that our expressions of compassion do not necessarily equate with people experiencing them as compassion.
Seeking to understand represents a critical juncture in the flow of compassion, involving attuning our expressions of compassion to how the person optimally experiences compassion through a process of acknowledging and understanding the person, discerning their individualized needs, and then tailoring compassion to who they are and what they actually need--not who we think they are or what we think they need.
Seeking to Understand--A proactive desire to understand a person and their needs in order to provide compassion in a personalized manner.
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*Canadian Institutes of Health Research Knowledge Translation Video Awardee
- Free Open Access to the original Pediatric Compassion Model research article, can be downloaded from onlinelibrary....
- Illustrations and design courtesy of Luca Li Digital Design www.lucayangli.com
- Funding for this study was provided by C17 Research Council in partnership with Childhood Cancer Canada and the Faculty of Nursing, University of Calgary.
- Visit the Compassion Research Lab at www.drshanesinclair.com
- To learn or obtain the Sinclair Compassion Questionnaire (SCQ) visit www.compassionmeasure.com
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