“As soon as you commit to excellence, you’re going to be tested with mediocrity.” TG
@vickih1982
2 жыл бұрын
Smelling like a XMas 🎄 tree from a different kinda yard….😂😅😂🤣😆
@kareeshasimonebenjamin5706
2 жыл бұрын
Having standard and boundaries doesn’t drive away serious prospects
@adelafirme
2 жыл бұрын
Yes !!!
@gwenlee9562
2 жыл бұрын
@@earthreign7128 The man maybe serious minded but not serious about having a serious long-term relationship with you. He may be serious about trying to have sex with you. I'm just saying.
@gwenlee9562
2 жыл бұрын
@@earthreign7128 Sorry I misunderstood your post. I was married within six months myself. Once again sorry for the misunderstanding.
@loveyb3347
2 жыл бұрын
@@gwenlee9562 thank you!
@laradara7175
2 жыл бұрын
Truth
@KrystleLaughter
2 жыл бұрын
Having standards will keep most toxic people out, and having boundaries will scare most toxic people away. They will quickly see that they can’t take advantage of you and will have to leave your life or change themselves if they want to be a part of your life. Either way, having standards and boundaries is a win-win situation for you.
@godsvirtuouswomen6849
2 жыл бұрын
Yess! Needed to hear that in this exact moment 🙏🏽
@imanijireh
2 жыл бұрын
Weed out the time wasters , amen !
@micheleprice9771
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING!,GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@laradara7175
2 жыл бұрын
Yes true
@disnalee
2 жыл бұрын
OMG this is so true. I need to set it and go by this to improve my life situation. Thank you Tony!!
@officialwatchamber
2 жыл бұрын
I ended up contracting herpes from an IG fling…. Because I had absolutely no standards. I’m so grateful for my growth!! Tony’s videos have been a MAJOR key in my healing.
@simonespencer2244
2 жыл бұрын
My sis, thank you for your honesty. I lowered my standards also & the very same thing happened to me from a teenage ex, who took 6 months to tell me cos according to him he was mad at me for giving it to him.
@arandaholley1719
2 жыл бұрын
I pray for healing for you all. God bless. You are helping people. I am angry for yall.
@officialwatchamber
2 жыл бұрын
@@simonespencer2244 Girlll!!!! Thank you for sharing as well.....SO glad we learned the lesson. Ive learned to TRUST God with it and do the work!!! My confidence is at an ALL time high now because of the work I've done!!
@officialwatchamber
2 жыл бұрын
@The Harmony Pill Yes Queen!! Its UP & STUCK OKAY?!?!?!!
@officialwatchamber
2 жыл бұрын
@@arandaholley1719 Appreciate you sis!! Prayer CHANGES THINGS!!!
@Azizajewelry
2 жыл бұрын
This! Standards are so important … and BELIEVING YOU’RE WORTHY is even more important ⭐️💫✨
@blah843
2 жыл бұрын
I hear Mr. Tony in my ear when i'm fielding these men, went on a date last nite with a man that most find attractive (tall-6f6, dark and handsome) had at least 10 phone calls prior to going out (even a vid date)...first date in person ..i met him there...was eating...I offered to pay my part...he snatched the tab away so fast! (but it sent a message like Mr. Tony said!) ate and talked and laughed for about 2 hours--then he walked me to my car...he leaned in for a kiss...caught this cute cheek!!!...he had no choice but to be a gentleman...wants to see me again...seems like he's trying to take me off the market....my eyes shall remain open & legs closed..CLARITY....Mr. Tony, I listen to your message religiously and using your teachings in practice...omg....you are a Godsend and thank you so much for helping to decode the male mind.
@sullivancountydays
2 жыл бұрын
Technology can be the death of a relationship. I go to restaurants and see ppl on devices instead of talking to each other. How you have time to chat with others and you don't see me all day?
@tru_kru_bahbee24
Жыл бұрын
Can we get an update?? 🥰🥰
@blah843
Жыл бұрын
@@tru_kru_bahbee24 Absolutely! Well within a month he was asking for exclusivity. He lives in another close by city (that I visit often) and I said yes....but that quickly turned bad. Turned out he was a MAJOR drinker, and the behaviors showed up squarely after me agreeing to be his gf. It's like once he thought he had me---that other side showed up. Welllll....I'm "Tony G Trained" and left that joker where he was....still entact! he still saw no parts of "me" !
@tru_kru_bahbee24
Жыл бұрын
@@blah843 thanks for sharing love! Isn't it great to learn about the strength you possess, and observe all the growth that you are experiencing? This is indeed the blessing that comes from all of this. May you continue to make room forage for your the one that is right for you ❤. Blessings
@lindalovehearts
5 ай бұрын
💜🩷💛
@officialwatchamber
2 жыл бұрын
I have my standards in place & am firm on them!! I appreciate this message/reminder 🙌🏼🙌🏼. If you say NO to the wrong things… the RIGHT thing will come to you!!! I’m putting my faith on this!!!
@tiffini1507
2 жыл бұрын
Standards are so important. Something we are not taught. I was taught to find a man who can take care of you which gives the impression that he can do whatever he wants as long as he takes care of home. Tony is out here changing lives for those who listen and apply the lessons!
@micheleprice9771
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@shesonfire_
2 жыл бұрын
He's right. The more standards you tell a man u have the more he'll test u. I stopped vocalizing the ones that i didnt have to and just start living what I know i want and they don't test u as much.
@dianna8473
2 жыл бұрын
Our brother Tony Gaskins is teaching us women how to level up and he does it with a little humor added i love this for us...we appreciate you and we thank you.
@justinray8107
11 ай бұрын
It"s all vice versa...men too are victims of toxic women. Why would you say us women why not us humans.
@CarmenLifeCoach
2 жыл бұрын
Standards protect us from people and situations that would make us lose, suffer or waste valuable time, feelings or money. We live in a world where most people try to take and gain as much as possible from you while giving as little as possible, where your kindness can be taken as weakness, where no one would come to you admit that what they bring to your table is less valuable than what you bring. So it's up to us to observe, draw the line and use standards as a protective and filtering method that doesn't allow everyone and everything get to us, while also knowing that people who want to be in our lives will rise up to meet them.
@jsimon7737
2 жыл бұрын
So you think it's to late to set standards in a ten year marriage?
@erind2261
2 жыл бұрын
I'm just now trying to bounce back from a 7 yr dumpster fire "relationship". I learned SO many lessons. One I'm most proud of is finally getting oveer of the fear of being alone. It's weird at first but I can practice on treating myself how I want to be treated.
@gwenlee9562
2 жыл бұрын
@@jsimon7737 It is never too late to do anything!!! I left a marriage after more than 20 years after I became aware of the situation.
@micheleprice9771
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@CarmenLifeCoach
2 жыл бұрын
Setting standards is the way you love and protect yourself, the way you make sure you will be valued, appreciated and cherished. Know your worth and know that when you accept whatever is given to you and close your eyes to hurtful disrespectful things, you only have to lose, BUT when you refuse to be treated anything less than you deserve, that's when you filter the wrong people out and meet the right one who respects and truly cares for you.
@imanijireh
2 жыл бұрын
This, in my opinion, is the most rewarding form of self love 🙌🏾
@micheleprice9771
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@aneshrathomas
2 жыл бұрын
“You save yourself years by having standards” Amen to that 👏🏾
@Blaquedeity
2 жыл бұрын
Once you make that commitment that unclean spirit will return to see if the house is swept CLEAN!!!! Don't fall for the counterfeit bc guess what, when that spirit comes back, he comes back with seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they enter and dwell there, and the last state of that person is worse than the first!! Telling u, make that commitment and stick with it. This applies to all aspects of your life. When you speak that in the atmosphere, here comes the joker ready to trip you up. Put on the FULL AMOR.. It's war out here. Stick to your commitments and pray!!!!! HE IS BUSY............ KEEP YOUR STANDARDS, STAY WITH YOUR COMMITMENTS! This message came at the best time. Thank you Tony!
@Mimi-xv6jm
2 жыл бұрын
Having standards keeps you strong and disciplined, they keep you on your purpose. Your standards are based on your self esteem, integrity, and self worth. People tricking you into lowering your standards should only be viewed as a test, that you’re on the right path, so stay on the right path and keep your standards.
@micheleprice9771
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING!,GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@JWW77
2 жыл бұрын
I love that I can laugh and recieve good lessons that are in line with my Christian values. Thanks uncle Tony!😆😆
@sullivancountydays
2 жыл бұрын
they keep dragging me back in! Give it a minute then move on. Keep your eye on the sparrow.
@jocelynwilson9243
2 жыл бұрын
So true! I recently went out on a few dates with a guy and right away I picked up on things weren't of my standards. I gave it a total of 3 dates before I finally concluded that we were not compatible. So the 4th time that he asked to take me out, I was able to tell him that I didn't think we were compatible. No hard feelings involved or anything. He just wasn't for me. Surprisingly, he responded by saying "Thanks for being honest I appreciate it". And that was that.
@RM-dk8de
2 жыл бұрын
You sound so mature and intuitive. I'm happy that you set a standard and stuck to it. May I ask, what were the deal breakers? I'm always stuck between being 'too picky' and having standards. Mmm. Would like your opinion.
@rawinterviews3696
2 жыл бұрын
You’ve changed my life. Thank you for what you are putting out into the world 🙏 God bless you and your wife 💕
@micheleprice9771
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@britt6880
2 жыл бұрын
It's so helpful to hear the examples of how something that seems so small can become bigger over time
@feliciahaggans6598
2 жыл бұрын
Standards are Mandatory! I’ve learned this the hard way, and most definitely have learned from my mistakes. It definitely keeps TOXIC people away & saves so much time! I have learned so much from you Tony! Thank you!
@beefaye6861
2 жыл бұрын
For sure.....this me 👍
@FutureAttyInTheMaking
2 жыл бұрын
Agree! Having Standards, Morals, and Value for the type of relationship you and your partner agree upon, speaks volume. And I also believe in celibacy and abstinence, while you and your partner wait until marriage. Blessings! 🙏🏼
@escalatinghope
2 жыл бұрын
So a man thinketh so is he; that which you thinketh, is what you will receive.
@danielam8298
2 жыл бұрын
🔥👌🏾
@kimberlyambeau6314
2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@robinford336
2 жыл бұрын
My Brother, Kim had what he called: Qualifications with his possible girlfriends. He didn't waver. He was my best friend, may he RIP. He taught me well . I won't settle. Done. Been there and thank you for the reminder.
@StayPrettyStayBusy
2 жыл бұрын
So true I had to learn the hard way, now 4 years later I know what I want and need from my future spouse. I have grown so much from watching your videos. Thank you so much !!!
@justlillian__
2 жыл бұрын
"As soon as you set your standards of excellence your going to be tested with Mediocaracy!" TG mind blowing, yet so simple. I love my big brother I Christ, he speaks all facts! 🙌🏾
@Coolct
2 жыл бұрын
Tony spoke to me about the smoking…. I was thinking about relaxing my standards on it.. so many men smoke weed! But I’ll hold tight!
@melaniegriffin78
2 жыл бұрын
Think about being equally yoked with the person when choosing.
@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
2 жыл бұрын
You may just want to be with someone that's in a certain type of profession that requires them not to smoke weed or someone that's really big about health and just doesn't smoke weed that all
@realtruth3762
2 жыл бұрын
Was he refering to regular and w.? I was suprised when he said more ppl smoke now than before..?
@reinaquisha9418
2 жыл бұрын
You aren't lying about those tests Tony. I went on an 8 night cruise after eating a plant based diet for two weeks. By the grace of God, I made it with my diet 🙌🏾 It takes standards and discipline. Sometimes it's hour by hour. Stay the course, reap your rewards 💯
@jerelene21
2 жыл бұрын
I am the change that I want to see in the world!🙌🏾
@officialwatchamber
2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Ashley_Banks
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!
@nikkinanette8807
2 жыл бұрын
The “Why” portion of the video 🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾. Our Heavenly Father truly speaks through you Tony. 💙💙
@jessepera2457
2 жыл бұрын
Keep your standards even if he's doing everything right! The ring isn't the finish line. "Til death do u part" is.
@disnalee
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, endurance thru all things together.
@lisajackson3743
2 жыл бұрын
“I don’t want to be yelled at or lied to” --> “I want to be spoken to with honesty and respect, even when there is a disagreement. I am willing to call out behavior and expect positive results. I am willing to leave when my standards are not met”
@hannahchurchill8192
2 жыл бұрын
This video was handcrafted for me today!! I just told a guy I was getting to know that getting to know each other more is not best for me. He talked the talk, encouraging me and pointing me towards God, but he didn’t believe in waiting until marriage for sex. That was so hard for me to wrap my mind around. He is respectful, loving, intelligent, wise, everything that I think makes a person a man. But that one standard, I almost gave in and sacrificed. I was in the car yelling at God, why would you put someone so tempting in my life? With tears streaming down my face I told him no more talking, and I’ll see him in church. After watching this video I felt so much relief and thankfulness that I did not give in. I needed some good direction for this situation I was in. I am going to make my list of standards right now! The whys, and the potential worst tests. Thank you so much!! God knows what I need!
@8lack8erry1
Жыл бұрын
Love this I was in a similar situation cried to God after too. The guy had an unclean spirit and I could sense and smell the spiritual stench of the need for sex all over him. He would slyly bring up sex talk and when mentioned that it was ungodly he’d say God forgives and judges 🤢I hate this excuse I find it extremely disrespectful. I should have listened to my intuition because I sensed this all early. Last straw was when he had the audacity to call me after a date and to come over and imply that he wanted me to “jerk him off as he didn’t want to keep doing it himself” 2 weeks into deep talking and this was after daily talks over an hour a day, church weekly, praying over me and talking about scriptures ( he knew them better than me) doesnt smoke, drink etc. Scary out there.
@samonecharisma3043
2 жыл бұрын
Yes I learned this the hard way like most people! I know now after experiencing a one of the lowest/toxic relationships I ever experienced. It was partially my fault, esp during quarantine last year...Don’t let loneliness take over EVER ladies, & gentleman
@c.l.9344
2 жыл бұрын
Set standards and firmly stand by them, without compromising. If who you date doesn't meet them. Change who you meet and date. But don't change your standards. Setting standards, means you know your worth and value. Also be extra discerning and prayerful. 🙏🏼🧐💖
@JenelAmelliee
2 жыл бұрын
God speaks through Tony! He post always at the right time. Thank you
@micheleprice9771
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@DawnOfKelly
2 жыл бұрын
Wow Tony is so right!!! My ex husband ruined our honey- moon trip to Colorado. He was either annoyed because he couldn’t find we*d or riding around looking for it. I was naive so there was probably more to it. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@leespicey6948
2 жыл бұрын
Wow ... why would a person prioritise weed in that moment?
@DawnOfKelly
2 жыл бұрын
@@leespicey6948 hmmm 🤔 maybe because an addict prioritizes their vice in every moment.
@realtruth3762
2 жыл бұрын
During honeymoon he treated you like that?😳Wow how disrespectful. You must have been so upset and disappointed. I prob would have reverse the marriage if he acted like that during honeymoon. Some dudes arent husband material 😕 disappointing
@dublingirl3554
2 жыл бұрын
Gems of advice and counseling! Thank you 🙏🏼
@brendajones9110
2 жыл бұрын
TONY YOU AIN'T NEVER LIED . TRUE FACTS.
@TjRizzles09
2 жыл бұрын
Tony is speaking so much truth! I pray this message needs spreads. God Bless
@patwilson1257
2 жыл бұрын
Tony you broke it all the way down. And I know what you mean about, you have to know why you’re doing what you’re doing. I went for 5 year without being tested. And it was a TEST, believe me. It was with somebody I was CRAZY about. BUT, I have to say I did pass the test. By the grace of nobody but GOD, because HE gave me a way of escape and I took it. 1 Corinthians 10:13 KJV
@MyInvisibleStory
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. A very important message. You decide who and what you allow into your life by the standards you set and keep.
@twoeleven413
Жыл бұрын
Definitely clarifying my standards magnifying my WHY I’m manifest all that God has for ME 🙏🏾🤞🏾🙌🏾
@daniellebenning5706
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you Tony and your words! It feeds my soul each time! Thanks for that gift!
@ferrellfam8755
2 жыл бұрын
Tony these messages apply to the home team too! Thank you sir. Your helping me with my Purity in my relationship💯
@eugeniaperry4278
2 жыл бұрын
A Christmas 🎄 from a different type of yard. 🤣🤦🏾♀️, Tony you have a way of telling it like it is. 🙏🏾
@socialdistancingon8333
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. It's definitely going to be something I need to think about this weekend, even though I've already had just about every test thrown at me, I still need to continue fortifying myself with conviction. That is a journey that never ends. One thing I notice in the past that has helped me a great deal, is that once I become committed to something, I don't speak it out loud. Every time I do, it doesn't work. When I keep it to myself though, I get blessings. Maybe that's because while God can hear every prayer, so can the devil...
@flygirl1942
2 жыл бұрын
💯 💯 💯 🔥 🔥 🔥 I needed this encouragement today Tony!🙏🏽🙌🏾💕
@christineporter9914
2 жыл бұрын
Bro Tony this message is so good about standards in Relationships. This is so much golden nuggets right in our laps. Am so grateful for you. God bless you abundantly 1000 fold . I pray everything that you touch that God just pour out in your favor .🙏🏾❤️
@planetChristie
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video and reminder! Cause you do get caught off guard with the test!!! 🤣..Licking my wounds but at least I was quick enough to walk away! I did try to reach out to the guy to just be friends but once again I got the cold shoulder. Everybody can’t handle not being compatible in a mature way without falling out with people. Oh well 🤷🏾♀️.
@Kaws-x2g
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for always keeping it 💯💯 I have learnt so much from your videos. Thank you, you’re an amazing and blessed man, father and husband. Blessings to the Gaskins Fam.🙏🏼💯
@girlwakeuppodcast4622
2 жыл бұрын
Tony said "Imma give her these MeMossas" 😆🤣😂
@rozeynzembi4034
2 жыл бұрын
The test part is soooo real God bless you for this message 🙏🏾🙏🏾saving lives including mine !!! May I continue to honor God by his Grace and strength.
@dublingirl1691
2 жыл бұрын
Great video Tony! Thanks for all your wisdom! 🙏🏼
@Tiggity80
5 ай бұрын
Everything Tony said is so true. In dating, without setting my standards in stone and having them written out and clear to me, I have tolerated a lot of BS that looking back I think - how did I let that slide? I realized I was dating men I was attracted to, getting to know them by spending a lot of time on the phone, and by the time things came up that I would consider to be a red flag, I would already feel like I’ve invested time & built an emotional bond. Also, prior to abstaining, I would sleep with a guy within 3 months. When you don’t have standards and a concrete plan as a woman, you are setting yourself up for failure. I’m so thankful for videos such as this that gives us women the blueprint for success
@naimahbuckner4062
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for Sharing Tony 🙏🏽
@michellevaughn3802
2 жыл бұрын
This is good, so real. Thanks Tony. I needed to hear this today. God bless your ministry.
@helenlovell8587
2 жыл бұрын
Wow everything Tony predicting happened with me, even the job situation!😂. God bless you TG🙏
@kelliezee
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the good word Tony. Its HARD these days but to be after Gods heart and follow his word and create that standard for myself feels so peaceful
@cuteblue2212
4 күн бұрын
This is so true Tony! My ex smoked weed a lot and I was always guilty by association. I received complaints from my apartment manager because she smelled weed in my apt. When I was selling my house a prospective buyer also complained of smelling weed coz my stoner ex smoked in the backyard. There was no traveling anywhere with him because there was no weed where we were going. Ladies leave these stoners alone.
@cherylhampton6033
2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful word Brother Tony, Blessings to you and your family
@oldsexy9425
2 жыл бұрын
I lowered my standards this one time with my ex. He had a street persona, manners, and respectful as I was very interested in this very handsome man. I found out later he didn't care about improving himself. He liked drugs, fast younger women, sex, and lying to me.
@mbrook4983
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 not the bicycle!!🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️😃😃😃 lordttt. Preach Tony
@oshun2866
2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this! Thanks Tony
@fbetheaful
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This is very helpful information. 🙏🏾
@mumariner495
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 🙏🙏
@_zina9054
2 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on what kind of boundaries to set and how to set them, thank you Tony
@alanaaga3890
2 жыл бұрын
Yes please! As a young girl in college I would really appreciate that Tony!
@clarkclarke
2 жыл бұрын
the boundaries and standards starts with YOU ... not about projecting on the other person ...that comes after .... Tony makes these points in the video ...
@clarkclarke
2 жыл бұрын
@@kaleema1987 yes ...he recently did a video on it ...
@_zina9054
2 жыл бұрын
@@kaleema1987 I did thank you 😊 I would like to see a video more specific that would be helpful
@queenofthesouth4205
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent Lesson.....write your standards daily...in your own notebook.
@ashleymarrion2355
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you and thank you for this message
@KimmyGize
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother Tony!
@ncdiva919
2 жыл бұрын
You have been on it with all the topics.
@tongerlabrowder6548
2 жыл бұрын
Having the discussion with your partner puts it on the table so there's less chance of misconception of standards you have regarding relationships
@julianagarces2389
2 жыл бұрын
Praying for you Tony 🙏 that God protects you and your family from all these tests and this world and the enemy himself. Surprised you’re not canceled, praying for you so it never happens
@cuniqueness
2 жыл бұрын
Goals, Moments of isolation is imperative for solid realist perspective of life period. Even more so now than ever bc our surroundings are changing rapidly.
@cuniqueness
2 жыл бұрын
@@earthreign7128 that’s why it’s phrased “moments” not total isolation. Therapy can aide you along the way, however only you know what’s best @ the end. Thanks for feedback ❤️
@FernGray
6 ай бұрын
Wait until the end Golden.. the “why” and the “tests” took this to the next level in terms of solid advice. Thank you and may the Holy Spirit continue to guide you and shield you and your family from the snares of the enemy! 🙏🏽
@shanellepolk7257
2 жыл бұрын
Tony, Thank you for speaking in a clear way to us women; so, that we can better ourselves. I feel like I should have been exposed to your videos when I was younger. I might've been married to the man of my dreams now. Lol. Keep doing what you do, Tony. Thanks again. 👍🏽
@mbrook4983
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 I’m laughing cause cousin Tony telling the truth… and I’ve been in this place where I didn’t set standards in my past. But NOWWWWWW. I know all so much better
@Eevanova
2 жыл бұрын
Story about your wife and Beyonce 👏 your wife is cool and truly believe in your professional growth.
@jam1369
2 жыл бұрын
Standards rock. They are my favorite. 💕. They keep me happy and safe. They come from God.
@coachcathy8423
2 жыл бұрын
Good stuff Mr. Gaskins!
@annemac9739
2 жыл бұрын
We appreciate you Tony!
@michelleramon7594
2 жыл бұрын
So true we get weak as we're walking with God the devil knows us too .
@ShiaGirl18
2 жыл бұрын
18:59 Tony, brotha! You are hilarious!
@cheseabothwell4843
2 жыл бұрын
You are so helpful. Thank you brother
@britt6880
2 жыл бұрын
I definitely did not think ahead and prepare for the tests. This is so wise
@micheleprice9771
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY BSAFE! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! ALWAYS KEEP GOD FIRST IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! KEEP YR FAITH AND LOVE! KEEP YR JOY AND HAPPINESS AND PEACE! STAY STRONG! STAY POSITIVE! STAY CALM! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
@slimsimmschannel7147
2 жыл бұрын
That is so true. I rarely joke about anything that I don’t do or don’t want bc that’s just a set up for future fail. It’s like challenging the adversary. Nahh.
@joannpotts819
2 жыл бұрын
You always talking good wisdom
@FernGray
6 ай бұрын
I got finessed yall after 1 year of total abstinence including not drinking for 2 years.. I got tested just as TG said and failed .. alcohol was involved and I was immediately regretful and disgusted and had to seek repentance like I never did before.. the fear of God took over me like wild fire!!! Like Tony said I didn’t think about what the test would be and it came HEAVY! I failed but is not happening again thanks TG!!
@BrittnePtheBestGirl
2 жыл бұрын
Point 27:00 In vision how I will ne tested. I never thought about that part. My lack of approaches have been my protection. I'm not bad looking or body ain't busted but they don't approach. But I need to try this activity.
@inspiringaia8294
2 жыл бұрын
We can't let the world tell us what we can not have.. working on my list 📝
@annaczarnecka4620
2 жыл бұрын
Such as funny man every time I laugh watching and get the knowledge 👏🏻
@tbakes1371
2 жыл бұрын
This video was everything!
@laurenclair2923
2 жыл бұрын
as soon as you commit to excellence … you will be tested with mediocracy
@lisajackson3743
2 жыл бұрын
The brain responds best to positive words to express standards. “I don’t want an inconsiderate cheater with a wandering eye” -> “I want a faithful, integrity keeping man who is loving, attentive and considerate to me”. I already know what you don’t want, it’s an exercise to try expressing what I do want. It becomes an affirmation of what I believe I deserve and what I am holding out for.
@annaadams86ful
2 жыл бұрын
@34:46 you should setup a correspondence automation or just have a text automation ready to respond to all DM messaging from any social platform... telling people how to officially request a session with you and attach the applicable website and email. I run a outsource customer service and executive assistant firm... you have filter real and worthy situations.
@heatherparent3156
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video!
@hazelk4515
2 жыл бұрын
I love this Tony ..wow ❤❤❤❤
@Qu33nV33
2 жыл бұрын
Tony I love your videos. Can you speak on enforcing standards later on in the relationship
@jussjess2829
2 жыл бұрын
Tony ain’t telling not one lie! I just met my distraction.. who turned out to be married. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. I am praying that my next comes along.
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