Thankyou so much Lynn ngugi for hosting me in your show and having a Candid conversation on sexual abuse and rape ❤️🙏. Am happy to have shared my story and helped people to learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape can affect a child's development and affect their growth into adulthood. To parents out there if your kid goes through sexual abuse or rape take that kid for therapy. Parents should teach their kids about their private parts and that nobody should touch them. This applies to both girls and boys. Doing this will help them to open up if they go through such a thing. Lastly people should learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape affects a child's development in many ways, psychologically, mentally and even their relationship with men.
@bennjeri1886
2 жыл бұрын
Jacinta you are a worrier, a conqueror, a champion and a victor.Your future is brilliant and your destiny is great, i believe God will grant you with the love of your life,who matches you and suitable for you.
@janegicheru973
2 жыл бұрын
We are so humbled you gave us a chance to be reminded to take sexual abuse seriously. I work Kara home which hosts sexually abused gals. These stories are so sad. May God give you help and heal you completely.
@jemimahnjoroge1322
2 жыл бұрын
May the Lord heal you from the traumatic experience. Pole.
@joycew.charles533
2 жыл бұрын
Love you girl 😘😘
@LynnNgugi
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Jacinta for being so brave and sharing your story💛💛💛 Thank you for trusting me too with your story🙏 My people, feel free to connect with Jacinta via +254742560671 or instagram.com/cinta_njoroge? Her number is also in the description box:). Thank you
@therryt6829
2 жыл бұрын
I'm from Zimbabwe and only discovered this show recently. The level of empathy and professionalism Lynn shows her guests is just phenomenal. You're such a lady
@LynnNgugi
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏💛
@asantesana5689
2 жыл бұрын
Am from Zimbabwe too Love this show
@vimbaimadubeko5035
2 жыл бұрын
I'm from Zimbabwe too, you are doing an amazing God Lynn, God bless you
@rozy_mnk7550
2 жыл бұрын
From Rwanda love this show too
@munesugazi9765
2 жыл бұрын
Am from Zimbabwe too, an I've lived on this show for over 2years!Good job Lynn.
@joskyshams4758
2 жыл бұрын
Fellow human beings, kindly never ask anyone why he/she isn't getting married. Some are battling childhood traumas.
@masigalaura8176
2 жыл бұрын
This is true I struggled with fact that marriage was not an option for me. I grew up watching my father emotionally and physically abuse my mother so badly and it didn't help that my uncle also did the same. All through campus I hated men and so bitter. But the Grace of God gave me courage, I still have fears but knowledgeable and have a support system.
@joskyshams4758
2 жыл бұрын
@@masigalaura8176 we share the same story. We shall overcome.
@joskyshams4758
2 жыл бұрын
@Nicholas Ngecu So so sad
@CharityMFavour
2 жыл бұрын
Sure haki
@lilianbirungi384
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lynn and team, Jacinta you are a fighter.
@extrovert5829
2 жыл бұрын
The worst part about trauma is one time you think you are doing well and When something triggers you 😭you go Back to square one. Unfortunately our parents also didn't have idea of existence of therapy or idea of how to handle such.. healing from any kind of trauma isn't easy. May God heal everyone walking through the healing journey.
@timothyg1986
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your lovely comment I feel it to the core.
@mercymeriy7851
2 жыл бұрын
it's so true . at times u may think uko sawa ..but when triggered again realized not.
@antonettewambani805
2 жыл бұрын
For Jacinta and any other survivor of rape. God does heal and restores all the lost years.i was raped at 19 and it's only after I got born again and grew with God did all the trauma leave. Your relationship with Him will uproot fear because that is not a spirit of God but of the enemy. You are able to change the language you speak about yourself and your environment. The tongue has power to dictate life or death. Choose life . Take the baby steps and celebrate every small achievements each day. Ask God to erase every bad memory and replace with Good memories . And I am also a big proponent of therapy it goes a long way in helping in the healing process. As I conclude I can say that it is possible to heal and have a happy life . It is now 13 years since my assault and I can say that I am now happily married to the love of my life . So jacinta and any other survivor you shall thrive
@resahbarasa810
2 жыл бұрын
Sexual harassment. Hitting 30 single with 90% fear of men. The Agent who was getting me a job in gulf back then sexual harassed me back in 2014. I have never told my family before but I talked it out with a friend. In 2017 my Arab boss sexual harassed me they never penetrated me though but there actions, forcing you to touch their private parts. . I never ever spoke out about this. Thank you so much @Lynn Ngugi for giving us this platform to air out our fears and traumas. I believe healing begins when you speak it out. We shall heal one day through God's grace. I remember the start of 2021 I had a boyfriend but he tried to force a kiss on me and all the past memories flashed back in my minds. I was soo scared to death I dumbed the guy. Sexual harassment is soo traumatic no matter how strong I am those memories will always crush you down.
@angella5876
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you love.
@dianaprincess617
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry boo boo....hugs mamii
@wairari
2 жыл бұрын
Miss Lynn am just happy for you! You are the next Kenyan Oprah in the making! I really love watching your shows. I love your humbleness, authenticity, down to earth ,and the respect ,sympathy& empathy you show to your guests. May God continue to expand your territories! Amen!
@pammurithi4331
2 жыл бұрын
Sure. She will be our Oprah soon.
@LynnNgugi
2 жыл бұрын
We truly hope you enjoy this episode💛 You can reach Jacinta on +254 742 560671 or connect with her here instagram.com/cinta_njoroge? Thank you for your incredible support. To share your story, send a summary of your story to lynnngugi4@gmail.com or lynnngugishow@gmail.com
@keeliesfoods7553
2 жыл бұрын
Show ni poa but don't live the street interview..mama mboga na ma hastlers interview..
@bahowithlarissa3156
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping and supporting us, yes us, making our voices heard and ousting our hidden memories, worries. This was inspiring for sure, God bless you! I would want to share my story too but I'm not in Kenya 😭😭😭
@faithkinyanjui8903
2 жыл бұрын
I love this lady
@jullyvlog8198
2 жыл бұрын
And this is what am trying to fight alone.thought congest in the mind till.you feel.like your brain is bursting
@joskyshams4758
2 жыл бұрын
I'm not a parent but this topic is helpful. We need to share on family WhatsApp groups.
@cookingwithnimoh
2 жыл бұрын
True
@francisnyapendi298
2 жыл бұрын
i have an uncle who has sexually assaulted us at home. He assaulted me in 2007 when i was a small girl and when i told my parents they could not believe and therefore nothing was done.Just recently before xmas,one of my other cousins came out and said this same man actually has actually been having sex with her and her younger sisters and since then like 3 more cousins have come up with the same story.Guys pray for my family cause i don't know what is going to happen next, and after listening to some of these stories, i blame my parents for not taking action then. I wish i could come and share my story but unfortunately,am in Uganda.Thanks Lynn.
@ngendonancy8994
2 жыл бұрын
So sorry for that. Hugs
@catherinemuriuki1471
2 жыл бұрын
You all need to come together and stop that man by reporting him. Some will not believe you but eventually someone will. Yes your parents have failed you😭❤️🤗
@ClassicAudiobooksInspirations
2 жыл бұрын
You never know. Lynn might just accept your story on her show. We are all East Africans, f not Africans and Lynn herself ha been recognized internationally. So maybe contact her and find out if she can? You never know. Might present some challenges, though, but if thats what you need to break though then so be it.
@nakamijunic5844
2 жыл бұрын
Am also a Ugandan sorry
@annewanjohi5745
2 жыл бұрын
Please report this to the nearest children officer.seek help
@Nothwest
2 жыл бұрын
Oprah is a Queen who went through a lot but she became a queen of TalkShows
@christineshem4043
2 жыл бұрын
And our Oprah from kenya is lynn ngugi❤❤
@tujieleweglobal
2 жыл бұрын
No envy, no jealousy. Pure respect and celebration. Lynn Ngugi this shows are 🔥🔥 🔥
@mbakanamedia8667
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn you a blessing to this generation, those who have never went through sexual assault cannot understand it's not easy, I personally survived by the grace of God. God bless you Lynn.❤️❤️
@lynnwanjiru1511
2 жыл бұрын
Looks like an Oprah Winfrey show so proud of you Lynn
@janewanjiku152
2 жыл бұрын
Am 28 and I have been afraid of getting married because of what my mum went through in the hands of our step dad ....i know it's a process but I Pray to God that I'll overcome it
@justhome4850
2 жыл бұрын
Hey Jane, please seek counseling,get delivered cz it might repeat itself and u get married to such a man.. all the best
@maryannnyambura406
2 жыл бұрын
Hii jane I truly understand you because am also going the same thing ,,,its hard even if you come across a serious guy who is ready to marry me I end up rejecting the proposal
@kadzo6614
2 жыл бұрын
As someone who was abused by my uncle, I spoke about it after 12 years. There's no forgetting
@stellamachunde7734
2 жыл бұрын
Uncles .
@euniceeunice5702
2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Trusted uncles...
@aselyne5631
2 жыл бұрын
Hun i told my mum for the first time at 28
@morinejepleting
Жыл бұрын
I was abused several times and this is the first time I'm saying this
@blessedalicia7227
2 жыл бұрын
This show is becoming something else i swear. Am so much hooked into it. Thanks Lynn,you are amazing 👏 ❤ 😘
@john_njonjo
2 жыл бұрын
This was superb expecially the part of looking her into the eyes and reassuring her that not all men are bad, she will get married coz she is beautiful and courageous. Thanks Lynn you can't imagine how that one show changed that ladies life. God bless you and the crew.
@lavendernyawade1514
2 жыл бұрын
I watched this story on shared moment with Justus, I really cried. This lady went through a lot.
@cookingwithnimoh
2 жыл бұрын
Painful story to listen to.. May she and others who have gone through similar traumas receive healing ❤
@lizwambui8320
2 жыл бұрын
What a way to start the year. This is big in all aspects... It's like our own Kenyan Dr Phil show. Thank you Lynn. Many souls are being healed by just watching the show. This is just awesome.
@LynnNgugi
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🙏💛 Truly appreciate the love:)
@janekihika1047
2 жыл бұрын
Isaiah43:18-19
@msapereewabc939
2 жыл бұрын
I was sexually abused by 2 brothers who were neighbors. When I told my mother and aunts who were supposed to protect me, they said I was too ugly for anyone to abuse me. This affected how I looked at the world and myself. My male relatives always tried to "pimp" me out. As an adult I realized that most of my friends were also sexually abused; but had no safe space to heal. I am glad that now many are talking about it and that men are also calling and demanding accountability from those who are committing such atrocities to both boys and girls
@cookingwithnimoh
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your ordeal. Hugs ❤
@joanmutuku4231
2 жыл бұрын
Pole, Hugs🤗
@EllaKabami
2 жыл бұрын
Sending you Hugs. May the angels sorround you with peace
@rosenablanc6594
2 жыл бұрын
Omg sending hugs to you
@allanogol5008
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for that
@KuiWaKamau
2 жыл бұрын
Childhood Traumas are breaking the society, Parents MUST protect their Kids, there MUST be free Therapy Centers and follow ups. The Kenyan Juridistic System MUST take harsh steps on these monsters! POLE SANA JACINTA. Thank you Lynn for this plattform. God bless you.
@LynnNgugi
2 жыл бұрын
I never take for granted the impact I am able to make with your support 🙏
@petersonwanjiku3661
2 жыл бұрын
Now this is another direction I'm happy for the show. Thanks
@LynnNgugi
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🙏
@TheCluelessMan
2 жыл бұрын
We live in strange times today where men and women are encouraged to despise one another. Ultimately society will suffer, sexual abuse is very serious and doesn't make this dynamic any easier. Especially when many men today start to distrust women out of hand and stop engaging at all.
@vicvic9792
2 жыл бұрын
Uh! I thought i was lost. Glory to God for this show. I have been with u Lynn since ur first tuko show, and here we are. Thank you for allowing God to use u
@254muthonirachael
2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to see some of your guest supporting your show Lynn♥️may God bless your work girl 🙏
@lilywhite8029
2 жыл бұрын
Why do I feel like the family and society failed her? No one in the family or around would notice that the anxiety and fear of men is unusual and that demanded a candid talk? Am so sorry my sister. Esp in a society where people are insensitive and mean. It shall be well and it is
@Debby142
2 жыл бұрын
That's what happens with our societies, they are too quick to judge instead of talking to someone and find out, that's why I have failed to open up with some people with fear of how I will be judged, it's not an easy world for some people 😢 but I continue being strong..
@WanjiruMuya
2 жыл бұрын
Few encounters with people can make you rule out everyone but in God's perfect timing he makes everything beautiful ❤️
@rosemwai8791
2 жыл бұрын
Happy new year shiru
@LynnNgugi
2 жыл бұрын
Very well said🙏
@thedragonernestevans3976
2 жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart as a parent,I feel so emotional.
@estherwanjiku9472
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know why every show u bring touch my history I keep crying hoping this is the only way my heart can heal may God bless you because today this lady is speaking for me today 😭😭😭.
@felistermwongeli6334
2 жыл бұрын
This is the best place to be to be strong and come out of the pain you passed on thank so much Lynn for the good work 👏 🙌 God bless you 🙏
@anitawambui7128
2 жыл бұрын
I pray total healing to all survivors either rape abuse, emotional or domestic abuse may God help you all to overcome it .💜💜
@marthakibera1301
2 жыл бұрын
Big up to you Lynn, I really love you. The level of of empathy you display is just amazing. The show is very therapeutic, educative and inspirational. May God bless you. I'd like to request for a follow up on the Mum who was assaulted by Truck drivers. Its my prayer that God will give peace to all the survivors. 😥😥😥
@mamalao8574
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn baby girl see this need also to know how r coping with life
@lydiakaindi5872
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn, this lady has her purpose cut out for her. See how brave she is and how passionate she is telling parents to take their children to therapy.. I am so proud of her. She will partner well with Njeri. God bless her and give her strength.
@cookingwithnimoh
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@katemillicent9433
2 жыл бұрын
That's a good job Lynn, healing comes by speaking out and letting go off the past,and being positive .
@titus254
2 жыл бұрын
@Lynn you took this show a notch higher. This is life changing experience and you have proved to be the best.
@kamikazishakira7971
2 жыл бұрын
😊
@gachugumaggy
2 жыл бұрын
Am happy of this platform, giving people chance to express themselves. Its a healing stage. This girl will heal slowly and overcome, she explained what some of us went through and we are still fighting 💪
@bellaolum9768
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn I'm in love with the new set, we are going places! Just 3 minutes in and the tears are flowing already,😭 as a mother of 2 daughters this is just so traumatizing. She has a long way to go in healing, I hope she can get aome counselling
@masigalaura8176
2 жыл бұрын
I totally understand and sympathise with you Jacinta. Congratulations Lynn keep going. I also feared going out and dating men. And actually I really never dated till I was 30 years when I had done therapy, prayed and had the support of amazing close friends. I gunned courage and settled with my current husband but it was not easy.
@carolinewanjiku7609
2 жыл бұрын
I went through the same and the person who did it was my father's blood brother,His thing could not fit in my small v so he would put it in my mouth,I never told my parents cause they were busy fighting each other.When I started to develope breast he touched me and I got very mad and reported him to my mother who told my father.My father was soo mad but kama kawaida it was solved kifamilia.I would look at them and tell myself mgejua kuna ingine mbaya sijawaambia.I was also this shy anti social person,with very low self esteem.I can't wait for my abuser to die cause that day I will be celebrating.God's justice.
@nakamijunic5844
2 жыл бұрын
We have gone through alot but please forgive and let go and let in God
@amigrowing
2 жыл бұрын
I was born in Congo but I grew up in Canada now I’m currently in the USA for school. As I was readying through all the comments, I realized how so many people have suffered alone for so long. So from a fellow survivor.. you all aren’t alone. Xoxo💜
@ireneabuya7231
2 жыл бұрын
This interview was so dope and very emotional at the same time,God may you protect us always 😭😭😭😭
@mutukucosmas3549
2 жыл бұрын
"unless you've gone through it, you may never understand!" That's very true. You are already in a great lane of healing and God will certainly see you through
@millysammy5045
2 жыл бұрын
True
@InstaF.A.M
2 жыл бұрын
So many parents have no idea what happens to their daughters behind the scenes in Kenya. So many girls go through this.Thanks Lyn for the platform
@bennjeri1886
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you Lynn and every participant who availed him or her self to the show.We need this kind of live audience shows if possible once a month.They will bring a lot of awareness and enlightenment in our society. Much love from Doha Qatar.
@MissT292
2 жыл бұрын
This is the best interview I have ever watched,,,I pray that God restores her n many others like her,,for u Lynn keep winning Mamie🥰🥰🥰
@DaviesWokabi
2 жыл бұрын
I have never been so disturbed like how i was after watching Jacinta pour herself out. Takes a lot of courage to open up and share. I see so much growth and confidence. God bless and Lynn for letting us in on this
@claireclarkeignite8458
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn this was an excellent show. I hope both persons received the help to continue their journey. Thank you for sharing it with the world
@masj8160
2 жыл бұрын
So sorry for them. I grew up in a poor family and my parents didn't have enough money to take me through life. I went to live with a family member at 13, I had almost no right and everyone was more important than me. I struggled to fit in and one thing that I found it very difficult was to interact with girls of my age because of strict rules, punishment and ended feeling as if I was valueless. I eventually developed phobia for girls. I lost the desire for romantic relationships. I am now completing PhD and still find myself awkwardly placed in the society, even though I just turned 30. People question, but no one can understand my condition, but everyday I fight to remain above the challenge and remain relevant. Child abuse is a wide area that must be handled wisely and with alot of caution. I hope that they will recover and meet people who will truly understand them.
@joskyshams4758
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for what you went through.
@Njeri-
2 жыл бұрын
So sorry for what you went through, I hope you get help to overcome it💕
@kiwishbj1
2 жыл бұрын
I had the same life. Living with relatives and I was always the bad irrelevant child. I was the thief according to them.. Their children would do bad things even steal money from the purse because they knew it was always me to be blamed for it. I was always never eating on the table with them.. I would never sit down and watch Tv with them. I would peep from outside the window or a small opening through the door.. incase the door was left a little open. I would sleep late at night and be woken up very early at dawn to start house chores. Don't forget.. I was an 11 year old boy. I would get beat up.. sometimes just for something as small as bringing warm tea to the table instead of hot enough. In primary school my classmates had a nick name of Mr. 'Bee sting' because my eyes and face were always swollen from being beat. I had scratches around my neck and upper body. Sometimes even combing my hair was a traumatic because my scalp was always painful and swollen from being canned. I lost dignity and worth of myself. I always felt alone and no one would ever even come in to my concern or just ask me how am doing. I was always sad. My story can't stop. It's too much I can say. But.. I somehow did overcome shyness and lack of confidence. My life started changing when I had to run away while in form 1, (15 years old) to one of my uncles. My uncle loved me but his wife never wanted to see me. I lived there because I felt my uncle's love no matter what the wife said. At least I wasn't being beat up there. So my face started coming back to normal. I joined soccer in the neighborhood.. started having friends and my life started changing. Later on I started jogging every morning.. it made strong and gave me pride within myself. Upto date.. I am married and living with a very loving and respectful wife. We are blessed with 3 children. 2 boys and one girl. God will see you through. Just believe in Him.
@Njeri-
2 жыл бұрын
I don't even want to remember my life living with relatives, am so sorry 💕
@menameir1786
2 жыл бұрын
@@kiwishbj1 God bl6you bro
@zakstv7368
2 жыл бұрын
Mimi ni Mtanzania🇹🇿 ningekwepo hapo na mimi ningesimulia yangu pia wazazi wanafaa kuangalia watoto😭😭
@emmily2693
2 жыл бұрын
Wow!!👌 Happy New Year 2022 Lynn Ngugi the OPRAY WINFREY of Kenya 🇰🇪. Congratulations for the this new chapter of making a show. Am proud of you 👏 my the good Lord continue to bless you. I wish am in Kenya I wouldn't miss any minute to come to the show. I love ❤ you Lynn.
@lovethildah7340
2 жыл бұрын
Wooow, I had to check whether I'm lost😌 This is another big step Miss Lyn, Congrats!❤
@chebby010
2 жыл бұрын
Very true 💞 Lynne is a real epitome in this society....we love you mummy 💞
@mariawangari2670
2 жыл бұрын
This the most important topic ever, that lady really did it demonstrating 2 of them, i was really touched cried kabisa, lynn umebarikiwa, youv saved life youv changed most of peoples life be blessed
@CoachVioletRibu
2 жыл бұрын
Shazmeen's voice is so therapeutic, cant wait to hear her more.Thanks Lynn for this life changing platform you are giving us to heal. Cant wait to see Benjamin Zulu on the show too .#Godspeed.
@shazmeenbank1630
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you beautiful
@jedidahakinyi9681
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I could listen to her all day long. I just love it ❤️
@catherinemuthike4948
2 жыл бұрын
I studied with this beautiful soul...she was always looking depressed but only her knew what was killing her inside....You are a hero...blessings shall follow you.
@menameir1786
2 жыл бұрын
Who defiles a 4 day old baby or a 5 months or any child at all? These people should be killed or isolated from the world completely. It's sickening even to think of it. Suerly njeri you are a strong woman to handle this case,. May God bless you and give you more strength to carry on.
@judithtwinomugisha8917
2 жыл бұрын
Our Ugandan president keeps proposing that these people should be kept away from society but the so called human rights. Oh God this is so sad. Men please have mercy and self control. This saddens me so much!
@staicykagai400
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lyn.This is go to help many people are suffering in silence.The show will be in another level soon.
@JJones-oh3dd
2 жыл бұрын
This is my story😭😭hugs Gals💔after watching this show am ready to come out and tell my untold story...thank you Lynne for always having our backs🙏❤
@hellenmwangi4598
2 жыл бұрын
Jeanifer you are a strong lady, by talking it you heal Hugs
@victorwasonga5726
2 жыл бұрын
Wow! What a global standard show! Lynn, your shows are life changing. The lady went home feeling safe and relieved, and many lives are touched. Continue the good work, congrats and happy new year.
@kembabazichristine7027
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, I really appreciate, and advise that lady how to have a safe retaliationship
@TeacherFaithlearnandgrow
2 жыл бұрын
Jacinta, thank you for honouring us with your story. I celebrate your courage to own and Honour your story. Wishing you love, strength and healing. You are Loved, Valued and you matter. You're not alone. 💜💜💜💜 Thank you Lynn for amplifying the survivor's voice. Thanks for believing. I celebrate you for this! 💜💜💜
@wambuijacinta9723
2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou faith ❤️
@TeacherFaithlearnandgrow
2 жыл бұрын
@@wambuijacinta9723 Karibu 😊
@babieuniya
2 жыл бұрын
Waaaaoooooo I just love the setup, so beautiful, a combination of Dr. Phil, Oprah and Ellen in own very own Kenyan girl. Kazi safi sana Lyn.
@nimojameskitchen1221
2 жыл бұрын
This has touched me…I almost went through it through a relative but my cousin saved me.. by telling me what the man intended to do. It was in the evening and I run through a thicket to my place. That was back in 2003.Fact is I was able to say hi to that relative last year since 2003.May God heal this beauty.
@annabelnduta3824
2 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful...Jacinta you are a hero not a victim. You will heal and you will take the world by storm. This is your chiron. I send love and light and lots of hugs
@IamGodsfavourite6518
2 жыл бұрын
Waoh.This is a new level.awesome.Biggup Lyn. You are trully blessed and you have become a blessing.for the lives you touch,God will reward you
@MARKOSJ27
2 жыл бұрын
The best show ever so that parents out there should learned something heal. Thanks alot Lynn for this courage and support
@theachebes5724
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn this is amazing. I believe just like anyone in ministry you too are called to reach out our generation. I am a servant of God and I must bless the Lord for such a unique grace on your life. Keep it moving!
@maureenodhiambo6023
2 жыл бұрын
I was crying along with her.... her story just reminded me of my young self when the same happened to me.i know what she's passing thru'.the memories were made fresh again to me..😭😭😭😭.
@gathonimaria1636
2 жыл бұрын
Be strong
@oderatrizah5087
2 жыл бұрын
Hugs dear, all will be well
@joykiru8858
2 жыл бұрын
It is well dear, nobody understands the pain of such an encounter. I pray that God gives you peace and love
@josephmbira399
2 жыл бұрын
@@oderatrizah5087 a
@truth8027
2 жыл бұрын
@maureen Odhiambo, Please get the help you so need. See a trauma specialist for sexual assault. 💜😘
@amiej9934
2 жыл бұрын
I have not watched but I must admit I feared men until I met a guy 2yrs ago .I stayed for more than 28yrs for what happened when I was 13 and didn't want anything to do with men.I feared him too but I don't know what happened since it was different. I met the love of my soul. My twin soul
@nakamijunic5844
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry pl
@raelchepkoech7966
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn,this is a surprise event you have shared with us,this will support Jacinta absolutely faster and she will heal .To Jacinta,you are pretty gal darling, enroll to therapy and everything will fall in place and also keep in mind of what you have learn from this show...Lynn,please bring her back after sometime coz we need to see Jacinta smile,dating and getting married. and ofcourse the life she had wished to enjoy.
@AregoJuddy
2 жыл бұрын
You can move from a survivor to the thriver that you are🙏🙏
@bobbybettyofficial72
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn Ngûgî you're a blessing to our generation#Kenyan Oprah Rev Pst Charles Wanjîgî you're indeed a man of God and blessing to our generation. Dr.Joyce W.Charles, we're lucky to have you.
@lizmu-thefavoured9983
2 жыл бұрын
Gosh dealing with trauma is the worst experience ever.💔 I hope I will heal someday too
@lucyjacob6459
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn Ngugi I love what you do, your heart is so soft for people. Your are a woman of great God. 2022 is a blessed year for you.
@roydhaluwa6543
2 жыл бұрын
This has touched my heart, it's so painful to be tomented psychologically due to trauma. Lynn keep up with what you are doing, I personally have learnt that Rape and sexual assault affects the growth and development of a child
@zalwango73
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn, our Kenyan version of Oprah Winfrey. Good job.
@charlescech2782
2 жыл бұрын
Imagine am crying, much love from Uganda
@ngendonancy8994
2 жыл бұрын
It's quite sad 😭
@nakamijunic5844
2 жыл бұрын
We are many Ugandans
@ClassicAudiobooksInspirations
2 жыл бұрын
There's a book known as The Body Keeps Score. The trauma never leaves your body unless it is dealt with, and you'll find yourself automatically acting out in various ways, coz the trauma is embedded in the body and the body is crying out.
@wambuijacinta9723
2 жыл бұрын
Wow nice book, how can I get the book
@ClassicAudiobooksInspirations
2 жыл бұрын
@@wambuijacinta9723 Search The Body Keeps Score Audiobook, and you'll find a copy here on youtube free of charge. Trigger Warning - the stuff is raw and can take to spaces that are hard, esp. if you have buried stuff that need to come up to the surface. But, it will help you understand yourself, and the how trauma affects all the aspects of your life, how it comes out through weird uncontrollable behaviors and what to do with that trauma.
@wambuijacinta9723
2 жыл бұрын
@@ClassicAudiobooksInspirations great let me search the book and read it thankyou
@ClassicAudiobooksInspirations
2 жыл бұрын
@@wambuijacinta9723 you are very welcome sweetheart. Thank you very much for sharing your story. You spoke on behalf of may of us who have not yet found the strength ad clarity of mind to speak out. Thank you very much.
@hellenmkalla350
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn this show has encouraged so many people being one of them. Some might not come out but through this they alreally concoured the fear and become victories. Thank you and congratulations.
@jeddymoon3803
2 жыл бұрын
Wishing everyone a blessed and successful Saturday!
@jedidahakinyi9681
2 жыл бұрын
When she spoke about memories being suppressed but the body never forgetting, I remembered something that always comes back to me. I have always wondered whether it actually happened or it's a dream. It's at night, pitch black. We are sleeping on a mat in a room just close to my mum's and step father. And I feel someone trying to force themselves on me. I was probably around 6 or 7. How do I explain this? I have never spoken about it because, how do I start? Now that she spoke about it, I am scared that I may have been sexually assaulted and I didn't even know it. And I have cried. Thank you Lynn
@LynnNgugi
2 жыл бұрын
Sending love your way
@gontlafetsembeha2848
2 жыл бұрын
Look at this beautiful beautiful lady ❤️ I love you. I am proud of you. Healing, love, light, hugs, prayers and plenty of hugs from a fellow survivor in Botswana 🇧🇼
@wanjiruolive
2 жыл бұрын
trauma remains in the body as a memory its gets triggered when we are adults especially when we venture into relationships especially romantic relationships. it has an effect on the brain which is so sad because of things that happen to as children. it is also said that any traumatic event as a child can hinder your development. so i wish her the best in her healing journey slowly but steadily she will reach there
@gracegakumo3624
2 жыл бұрын
God bless you Lynn for the great work you are doing, you really touch many souls
@ponijada3697
2 жыл бұрын
So painful, the interview was so emotional to me ,I can't stop my tears ,jacintaaa I love u my sister, u re such a beautiful , brave and soft lady ,am sure God will recover u and bless u with a good husband and a lovely kids . Thanks a lot for a wonderful interviewer also and the therapist Love from South sudan
@florahnambuyah2885
2 жыл бұрын
God protect our kids mothers who have left their kids and left them with guardians we don't know what is going on,am one of them working outside the country 😢😢😢.am speachless 😭😭😭 listening the show of today
@nakamijunic5844
2 жыл бұрын
Only God knows
@mercyomulela6832
2 жыл бұрын
Very informative we learn everyday & congrats Lynn nice set up! May God's favour & mercy shine on you & the crew in 2022 ♥️
@cellineadhiambo696
2 жыл бұрын
Watching this and dealing with health anxiety and PTSD... I feel encouraged...
@EllaKabami
2 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you. May God wrap you in his arms and may you find his never ending peace.
@gontlafetsembeha2848
2 жыл бұрын
The therapist is soo amazing! I watched her story as well ❤️
@wambuialice5987
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Lynn. You have done many shows earlier and they have been so good. But for the first time I feel like was the guest today. I feel represented. Anything she said that is me. Up to date I'm struggling to find a space in my heart for men. Having gone thru and seen too much around me. But I thank God for you Lynn, for this was my show. May God expand your territories more.
@LynnNgugi
2 жыл бұрын
Dear Alice, we are sending you so much love and light💛💛💛
@overandabove9821
2 жыл бұрын
May the Lord heal you ...
@annndunge8412
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, I see life's being changed through this show... Keep doing what u love most: touching lives💕
@iamcherop3747
2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this though it didn't happened to me God saved me from my own father ,😭😭😭🙏 but he left me dippressed till today
@nakamijunic5844
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry dear
@lucyikua5988
2 жыл бұрын
Soo many souls out there are abused, The only thing we can do now is to try and make the upcoming generation feel they are in a safe place by making the world today better than yesterday.
@rk_nyra
2 жыл бұрын
This kind of visibility is very much needed! Lynn Ngugi, thanks for creating such a platform... and to all the ones out there sharing your stories, thank you for being so brave...your voices are creating the kind of ripples and waves that are beautifully life changing!!!
@melphonejoan6410
2 жыл бұрын
I love everything about this show,I hope one day I will also sit to my story too
@susanwangeci6323
2 жыл бұрын
Looking at everyone's reaction to her sad story, I really wonder who has not been through some traumatic event in their childhood or even adulthood ? So many people are living with alot of pain. God please heal us.
@cookingwithnimoh
2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@jennymayna5334
2 жыл бұрын
Please God Almighty heal us 🙏
@elizabethletsoso2558
2 жыл бұрын
A big AMEN 🙏
@jnn1715
2 жыл бұрын
Though I hate watching these painful conversations, it's good that they happen. May God send angels to rescue every child going through pain and trauma.
@sofiemission3333
2 жыл бұрын
It's hard to understand if you have never being abusive. I had attempted abusive and that things disturb me alot Sometime you can't speak out because the society will judge you without understand what you went through 😭😭😭😭😭
@blessed_rose190
2 жыл бұрын
This show is a life changing thank you Lynn,,,, I know this gal has receive healing and this is her new beginning of her life ❤️❤️
@victoreddie9552
2 жыл бұрын
I am happy that Lynn Ngugi is back on her feet again
@janetshiku186
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lynn for this program, through what she has shared I've realised that i also suffer PTSD from my previous abusive marriage. It's 9 years since I left and I can't wrap my head around getting into a relationship.I've tried it twice but just when we are about to get serious the past memories flashes back and I end up ghosting that relationship. Don't know how to get over it.
@gladyswasambla4327
2 жыл бұрын
Lynn, Keep up the good work. It is so important to raise awareness about this sensitive issue for which so much help is needed. God bless you, the beautiful work and the platform you have availed to many who are dealing with different situations and circumstances.
@joycegacheri5177
2 жыл бұрын
Aki vile nampenda Lynn 😍😍may God keep here give her strength and more wisdom to do more we grow together with Lynn we learn together and we change our lifes together God protect Lynn from every evil Amen and Amen
@nancy3734
2 жыл бұрын
Happy New year full of God's blessings everyone. @Lynn Ngugi... I'm your ardent fan and since the day I saw your first show I'm an addict to your shows. From the get go I saw a young lady surrounded by God's grace. May God heal all abused and do a new thing in their lives. Trauma and for men comes from vast reasons. Mine was betrayal emotional abuse from my ex. To this date I hate men and when one talks to me I feel insulted coz all I see is a wolf I a sheep's skin. Many women are living this but don't talk. You just die slowly deep inside. It's like a spreading cancer. I have a story that can heal many women. Keep it up Lynn. God will reward you to unmerited..unimaginable levels for the lives you touch and change through your God given grace
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