As much as he is insecure, he is also very jealous of her and her success.
@afolashadeusman5361
4 ай бұрын
Insecure people are usually jealous of you and your strength. Mostly envious and rude people
@rochellesymonette7991
4 ай бұрын
I think the counselor should have tried to get her to safety first, then have this conversation. Sometimes as believers we spend time going over the past and then people get hurt or may turn completely away from the Lord. Also, we have to pray and ask God how to approach certain situations so that he can give us his wisdom to handle the matter. We must remember that all of us have sinned and fallen short of God's glory. No path we ever take surprises the Lord and no matter how far we have moved from him, he still provides a way of escape for us out of every temptation. Dealing with an abused person is a ministry in itself. Reminding them that they were advised not to go into a relationship or marriage can sometimes make matters worse because they feel more ashamed and sometimes they withdraw completely and suffer alone or end up dead. Pray for God's wisdom and guidance before dealing with them. Very informative
@emmanuellatutuwaaappiah-af7127
4 ай бұрын
Mmm “when a man’s words and his actions don’t sync, it is a proof that he is not the suitable for you!”🔥🔥
@diyallthings
4 ай бұрын
If you marry an insecure husband you are finish. He will not let you flourish .
@israelajayi_o
4 ай бұрын
This rhymes no be for here o😃... GOD pls help we your children o 🙏🏻
@kutlo_m
4 ай бұрын
Eish true.
@iBELONG2GOD
4 ай бұрын
You are absolutely correct!!
@simbaevans.3301
4 ай бұрын
The opposite is true
@theshenanigans545
4 ай бұрын
@@simbaevans.3301women always want their husbands to be successful because men are natural providers, which woman wants a broke man? Even in the Bible
@emmanuellatutuwaaappiah-af7127
4 ай бұрын
“Love without wisdom destroys and wisdom is never old in its school”🔥🔥 Word!!
@SuccessOgbeide-rt6lh
4 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 my sister
@esuobu
3 ай бұрын
Yess 🔥🔥🔥
@Debbie_obasi
4 ай бұрын
Is it the same man that said "I will promote your music to the world" and "your music stops today". Insecure partners are dangerous. Thanks Winlos.
@reychellbrooks6276
4 ай бұрын
He not only insecure, he is also narcissistic and jealous of his own wife
@laughoncomedy2923
4 ай бұрын
Yes exactly dear a narcissistic partner that's how they are family friends neighbors they all act the same way.
@kayemcwilly3856
4 ай бұрын
This is the story of our late Sis Osinachi. Now, no one talks much of her anymore.
@Mariobbn
4 ай бұрын
😢😢yh
@israelajayi_o
4 ай бұрын
If you came here with the speed of light say hi 😂
@idara-abasiiwok6794
4 ай бұрын
Hi 😂
@claudiachloeyt5525
4 ай бұрын
Hi
@diyallthings
4 ай бұрын
Hi oh
@anitaadobea6113
4 ай бұрын
Hiii
@ritathomas489
4 ай бұрын
Hi
@wamboieverlynewanjiru240
4 ай бұрын
The statement, "I want the best for you" in such a situation is likely guilt tripping leading to manipulation.😢
@kutlo_m
4 ай бұрын
Thankful to be seeing these things before i get married. i will marry and i will marry well!
@fj_channel4525
4 ай бұрын
Amen
@olajumokeadebayo7226
4 ай бұрын
Amen
@nanagahtetteh6139
4 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@storytimewithsamaritanwoman
3 ай бұрын
Amen
@SobanjoAjibola
14 күн бұрын
Amen. God will give you a husband that will love you as Christ loves the church ❤
@Meckni1282
4 ай бұрын
The unsecured person is the most difficult personality to keep around. You can't manage them in any capacity -Boss,Lover,Friend,name it. Even when you praise them, they see offense in it. Easily -offended & almost non entreatable.
@user-nl4yv3et9s
4 ай бұрын
Pray for me oooh I need help. My family is beating my baby and intimidating me
@laughoncomedy2923
4 ай бұрын
@@user-nl4yv3et9sOh sorry it's obvious you are in a narcissistic family.
@marthaspeaks
4 ай бұрын
There is nothing as terrible as being with an insecure partner. Huge red flag!!!
@adakuo6355
4 ай бұрын
Very dangerous oo!😠
@crownjefferson
4 ай бұрын
❤
@chidinmaogbulie1882
4 ай бұрын
This screams Osinachi Nwachukwu!!!!!😢
@iBELONG2GOD
4 ай бұрын
I’ve dealt with this type of individual before. It never ends well. If they steer you away from God and from your calling and purpose, leave them. Run the other way. Take heed to the warning signs. I thank God for getting me out of that situation!! Thank you Jesus!!
@laughoncomedy2923
4 ай бұрын
Thank God almighty for your life.
@Mulenga_Pamba_02
4 ай бұрын
"Love without wisdom destroys. And wisdom is never old in it's school." ✍🏾
@favourgodwin1859
4 ай бұрын
INSECURITY.... This is so scary 😢
@Honey_oyin
4 ай бұрын
This is what I experienced in my past Marraige, the same language this man used was his ringtone, you can’t prosper if I don’t ( this was before marriage and after Marriage language.) and guess what a day to me going to record my song in studio he beats me like a child publicly, I still went on to recon the tracks sege pro max marriage and he was the all nice looking handsome caring guy to people, but a day came God saved me. Sister never ignore the red flags. Never ignore Old School Godly teachings, they are divine directions for you. My Gen zee generation don’t be moved by tongues and Gift, give way for the fruits of the Holyspirit… I thank the Lord I’m restored now. God bless you.
@graceoludammy
4 ай бұрын
Thank God for saving you
@user-nr8hm7pv3c
2 ай бұрын
Me too its the same story, the guy was so insecure,who could beat me just like a child, he could not allow to associate with people .hooo it was he'll but thank God I survived 🙏
@barakasha2812
4 ай бұрын
Love is blind, but marriage is the eye-opener!
@love19895
4 ай бұрын
Love is not blind if it’s truly love.
@justineroxana8118
4 ай бұрын
Run for your life if you are in abusive relationship! God’s children are not to be slaves to satan’s children
@meeteyorose
4 ай бұрын
Reminds me of late Osinachi 😢Kai it is well keep Resting Sister
@paulinemwangi8795
4 ай бұрын
True
@wandaanderson8779
4 ай бұрын
I immediately thought of her also
@justifiedmusic8209
4 ай бұрын
😢
@adeolasaba2000
4 ай бұрын
It is well but the story could have ended differently. Her children are on the road to recovery her family members would never be the same again
@wandaanderson8779
4 ай бұрын
This lady missed ALL the RED FLAGS 😢😢😢
@oyeyemimodupe4503
4 ай бұрын
In relationships we see signs. But we choose to ignore them. After wedding you will now be shouting God why?
@funmilolaogundiya9218
4 ай бұрын
Exactly
@mooreoluwaosidipe279
4 ай бұрын
May God give us eyes that see, minds that understand, and a heart of obedience. Amen 🙏
@estherezemkwere4344
4 ай бұрын
Amen
@oghonoghorchukwuemeka5885
4 ай бұрын
In Christ, all these have been provided. People need to realize and embrace them
@akilahlink9861
4 ай бұрын
I dated an insecure man. I’m glad we are not together anymore.
@johnboateng184
4 ай бұрын
I see, now I know why top Gospel singers in Ghana end up being divorced by their husbands. ❤
@preciousjohnson740
4 ай бұрын
This is how the woman that sang Ekwume died, chaii make we no gree for any body ooo
@yolandapakade7528
4 ай бұрын
Ahh, it’s giving Osinachi Nwachukwu. I pray that God would open our eyes to see beyond the words of manipulative people in Jesus name.
@charitynosakhare3813
4 ай бұрын
Very selfish and self centered man awesome message thanks for sharing
@AdrienneDMayfield
4 ай бұрын
My EX HUSBAND almost sabotaged my career. 🥺
@prosp3421
4 ай бұрын
Her husband could've chipped in ,"I'm still here oh" jokingly 😭😂
@salomebulus
4 ай бұрын
Exactly 😂😂
@deborakoomson1447
4 ай бұрын
😂
@Creativeifi
4 ай бұрын
Exactly 😂
@maryjaneofor2972
4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂nahhh.. that last part, just why??😂😂
@lillylove6797
4 ай бұрын
@@maryjaneofor2972hmmm I was like eiiii 😂😂😂😂
@ForMySoulSistas
4 ай бұрын
@00:46 His face 😅When hubby wears a tshirt that says boss, there's already a problem @01:26 "Opening your teeth" how do you do that o😅 Not only he's blocking her light but he's keeping her from blessing other souls
@IamAWonderinJesusName
4 ай бұрын
Just when I was thinking about the insecurity of some men, Winlos came to post this ❤❤ God bless you Winlos
@johnsonemmanuel6597
4 ай бұрын
Wisdom is never old in it's school!
@chikaokereke
4 ай бұрын
There are lessons to learn here BUT I take God beg you, DO NOT CALL FOR HELP when the manipulator/narcissit is still close by. I beg you. It will more than just a slap, like they showed here. Run to a safe place. Leave immediately, I beg you.
@laughoncomedy2923
4 ай бұрын
My sister they are very wicked o it's also in women I have fellow corpers female o jealous of me and always try to put me down smearing my name typical narcissistic traits.
@TrueGaming140.48
4 ай бұрын
do not marry in the flesh, do not marry outside the will of God.
@jesuseunfolasire2691
4 ай бұрын
Never ignore red flags. Protection and insecurity are not the same, run when u can except he seeks genuine help Rest in peace Mrs Osinachi..
@sonofzion79
4 ай бұрын
Wisdom in deed is never old school. Our single sisters and brothers, please be watchful of over jealous and overprotective friends. It could just be a sign of 'spirit of suffocation and suppression'. God bless you, The Winlos.
@aniefunasopuluchukwu7632
4 ай бұрын
Words and actions must match. Love without wisdom destroys..All these people sha no dey hear word tor counselling, may we not have coconut head..Thank you Winlos.
@CheapDataApp
4 ай бұрын
Don't ignore the red flags on time...
@iamtrinafreeman
4 ай бұрын
This video came on time; certainly GOD confirming my current relationship situation to me through the "Winlos". It's literally what I am facing with my "Financé"; insecurities, manipulation,....!😢😢
@theWinlos
4 ай бұрын
I’m glad you watched. RUN 🏃♂️
@iyabowaledaudu
4 ай бұрын
You better run for your life
@theshenanigans545
3 ай бұрын
Run
@favourajuora5747
4 ай бұрын
This clip is making me remember somebody, May Her soul rest in peace..
@CoachIceman
4 ай бұрын
The 3 most important requirements for marriage are: Wisdom Knowledge Understanding. If you don't have these 3 materials Please don't marry.
@jesussaves2822
4 ай бұрын
Her husband has narcissist vibes. Such people need strong prayers before they get married, even more, they should also have a desire to change. A narcissist doesn't want anything good to happen in someone else's life, they want all the good and all the glory. May God save them. Thank you Winlos for a good demonstration, God bless you all.
@laughoncomedy2923
Ай бұрын
God bless you dear that's how evil they are very wicked and every child of God almighty must avoid them like a plague.
@JohnChapter17
3 ай бұрын
The way Mama Winlos counsels !!! So patient!!
@wiwojoanaidah
15 күн бұрын
i tell u
@gbemiolukolade5484
4 ай бұрын
Purely Osinachis story.....a word is enough fr d wise
@davidilaide
4 ай бұрын
A broken relationship is better than a failed marriage He's your fiance and you are not yet married! Run o, run 🏃🏃🏃
@love19895
4 ай бұрын
Even if you are married and he’s abusing you…you should still run and seek safety!
@princeoludareakintola5758
4 ай бұрын
One thing I have found out is that most ladies don't know how to diffrenciate between a good man and a bad man. Most time, they passed over the good man...saying he appears too good to be true and they go for the broken, terrible guys that will treat them badly!
@ojotope2340
4 ай бұрын
Love, love, love,... love is not blind, love has eyes, love sees,...and these sights have eyes..
@DarrylVick
4 ай бұрын
This video really needed a Part 2.
@MsLakeri
4 ай бұрын
Her strengths and success threatened his insecurities. Envy, jealousy and selfish ambition are sometimes disguised in 'someone wanting the best for you' whilst throttling your efforts to get ahead. Thank you the Winlos for this enlightenment. Watched from Uganda.
@deborahidowu2056
4 ай бұрын
I am a music minister oo part of the reason I am still single ooo may God help us
@Womenswell022
4 ай бұрын
The Lord will bring your Boaz, forget those sons of Belial...
@Christos_martus
4 ай бұрын
His countenance in the studio alone is a message. Reminds me of Cain countenance when God rejected his sacrifice. If Abel had noticed that look on his face he myt not av followed him on a walk that led to his death. Anointing without wisdom will not last. Love without wisdom will not last. Brother/Sisters open your eyes and observe well o.
@Womenswell022
4 ай бұрын
Run, baby run...
@WomenOfpower-qj6dm
4 ай бұрын
Real life issues 💔 When choosing a partner , prayerfully discern if he genuinely aligns with your divine purpose. Your purpose is more important than the love you think you have for him, your purpose is your world, its more important than the marriage. May the King of Glory choose the best of His persons for we the singles in Jesus name.
@ruthwanjeri4993
4 ай бұрын
Wisdom is never old in its school...🙌🏾 Thank you The Winlos...🙂 Always a Blessing...😇
@lyndellemodeste2439
4 ай бұрын
Narcissism
@ao.6916
4 ай бұрын
Hmmm, can relate. When you despise wisdom, understanding, love is an illusion
@yvonnemashego4123
4 ай бұрын
Love has eyes and see!!❤ Love is not blind
@TheH42G
4 ай бұрын
So heartbreaking to witness. To think, some people are living this, it's disheartening! Lord Jesus help us to receive the Wise counsel you give us!
@EruvwuObuaya
3 ай бұрын
Anwuli's facial expressions are priceless! 😂😂😂 Thank you for another great upload. ❤
@beforethedaygetsbusy
4 ай бұрын
Come help me and deliver me from blindness and insensitivity while making marital choice. 😢
@aillylerch8046
4 ай бұрын
Insecurity is a silent killer of destiny as it comourflages as all kinds of other things... It is not always easy to see it for what it is in the beginning and by the time you do it's too late... It's a destroyer and killer...dangerous... 😢😢😢
@purifiedwine
4 ай бұрын
He is your world, now your world is crashing on you
@KomanaKatangaTee
4 ай бұрын
I’ve made many bad decisions in my life, but one of the best decisions I made was leaving someone who was exhibiting signs of abuse ( was already insecure and it was escalating)
@Thetruth_lightt
4 ай бұрын
Always beautiful and educative videos 😊
@chidaluben
4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, the WINLOS. you have been an inspiration of change to me
@irenedontoh9692
3 ай бұрын
That last slap tho🤣🙆🏻♀️ Say no to domestic violence.
@michaelkinful1915
4 ай бұрын
It's scary how accurate this is. God have mercy on us all and grant us His discernment, and may we also obey the voice of Godly counsel,
@williamsfranklyn9275
4 ай бұрын
“Who he be wen we dey tell say we dey comot”😁
@NalediGoldinah
4 ай бұрын
And she still says he is my World🙆♀️
@martinspatricia3081
4 ай бұрын
Why is she crying naw, is she not new school again?? Wisdom is justified by her children!!!
@amyansah7275
4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@amyansah7275
4 ай бұрын
Dam
@rebeccarafi2954
4 ай бұрын
The reasons of some much varieties of crying today is caused by the old school rejection syndrome 😢
@abzkevproductions
4 ай бұрын
This one be like Osinachi story
@worshipwithmaggie4809
4 ай бұрын
Wow 👌 👏 😊😊 that was a very powerful message, i guess this one is specifically for me as a Gospel Music Singer, i pray may God showcase me on top and above all, give me a husband that will prayer with me through it all not one that wil be my prayer pont, Thank you Winlos for this great message, love you all dearly, and God bless
@thebestindewest
4 ай бұрын
May we mindful of good biblical wise counsel and my brethren if you have no one to speak to ask God directly and He will speak and lead...be willing to trust and obey
@sarahbassi5933
4 ай бұрын
Old school indeed. You will understand old school is the best soon. Wisdom is profitable to direct
@angieenhle5527
4 ай бұрын
That was some great singing there❤
@adebolaakinwale3510
4 ай бұрын
Where's our sister who is ascending realms?😂😂
@CoachIceman
4 ай бұрын
I am so lucky to come here so early 😅
@njidekahelen5497
4 ай бұрын
Love sees...observe...hmmm..it is so true..thank you my winlow family
@maryanneocheni7082
4 ай бұрын
God help me to choose wisely my spouse.🙏
@catecate90
4 ай бұрын
Imagine the way her wife is polite😢😢😢
@Ihechi120
4 ай бұрын
These are evil beings sent from hell to frustrate the efforts of our pastors in raising Godly homes. May God give our youth pastors the grace to lead our youths into Godly homes prayerfully and wisely. God bless.
@emasko8
4 ай бұрын
Many times When people are in love, their ears are closed to counsel; it's sad though in the end. May God help the youths who are about to be in love to seek counsel before they fall in love with wrong people
@julietlasso7587
4 ай бұрын
" love is not blind..." totally agree...God help me see!
@joymwenya2886
4 ай бұрын
A good lesson for me who is single and still searching for a partner God help me choose a right partner you want for me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 you are a blessing the winlos ❤️ to this generation God bless you ❤️
@EmmanuelJohnson-vm8oe
4 ай бұрын
Don't be blinded by love
@mohotsi
4 ай бұрын
No better way of putting it than this
@ruthmaina8919
4 ай бұрын
Actually this reminded me pf Osinachi... maybe this is exactly what she went through
@maureenmary_mallya
4 ай бұрын
Heeeh! Which one is I love him, he is my world ?? 🤚😂
@Gospelrevivalvibes
4 ай бұрын
Traumabond
@estherdalo6001
4 ай бұрын
Good one, the Winlos.❤❤❤❤
@evansglobal1
4 ай бұрын
This is informative and timely. I was just thinking about this, then I saw this video. Thanks WINLOS!!!
@harveykonan897
4 ай бұрын
This husband distribute slaps 🤣
@naturallyawesomefitness1738
3 ай бұрын
Thank you having her sing “Mercy Said No” by Greg Long, it’s one of my classic favorite songs!! 🎉🎉🎉😊
@runwaytribe8827
4 ай бұрын
He can’t stand her light, And he’s intimidate her from journey he’s evil oh come to destroy.
@thapelonkane4746
3 ай бұрын
I see the man boiling ryt there, when the man was complimenting his wife.🙆🤣🤣
@Resurrected_with_Christ
4 ай бұрын
The Winlos we need you here in Kigali 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@joeloseikwakye1237
4 ай бұрын
In the multitude of counsellors, there's safety✍🏾👌🏾. God richly bless you @the Winlos🙌🏾🙏🏾
@destinythe_psalmist9855
4 ай бұрын
Receive modern generation wisdom fists 🤜 those were claps for love😂😂😂😂😂❤
@Serenity_Mhlongo
4 ай бұрын
Mr Ohis is really a good actor❤. More grace man of God❤🔥.
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