I 100% understand and feel what shes saying. I am currently with a white man (not because i gave up on black ones). But because he actually DATED me. The black men just wanted to have sex, "wyd" me to death, invite me to their house, etc. But my man took the time to actually court me, so I started going with who was consistent and showed real interest
@theellisfamilyvlogs2639
10 ай бұрын
Yes Kendra kept acting like she didn't understand her but I did. She said " in my experience" and " where I live" this is how they are so I date other races. So that makes it clear that she wants it but it's just not available to her in the area she is in. Kendra said it like she doesn't want them at all anymore when that's not the case. If I go 2 a restaurant and want Steak but they dnt have it, just bcuz I ordered chicken doesn't mean I'll never eat Steak again 😂😂😂😂
@PatienceHudnell
9 ай бұрын
Exactly the art of courting is rare and far in-between ❤😊
@clofresh611
8 ай бұрын
cause black men are the most sexually desired men on planet earth. Especially if we are tall dark n handsom. make no mistake, we know who we are and what we attract and are use too. and when it comes to black women, we want the baddest. unfortunately too many of yall are obese, fat, bad attitudes and yall want us to pay all the bills AND give u monogamy. lmfao...we not gonna do both. if im paying all the bills better believe you not gonna be the only one cause aint no woman worth all of that.. and yall can only blame yourselves cause yall put the bag over god and men with the bag gonna use it as leverage...so u settled for a small dick white man huh...lmfao
@SoufBySoufeast
8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@professionalpookie
7 ай бұрын
Have you ever had a hookup
@naturallymocha3
Жыл бұрын
This lady said several times that this has been “her” experience with black men and that she is still open to dating a black man but just wants better but is still getting bashed. When black men speak on the problematic black women they date, that somehow becomes indicative of all black women and black women as a whole must do better. No matter what, it seems that we as black women are always the problem, shouldn’t expect better and can’t win for trying. It’s tiring.
@ThisIsWar_B1_FBA_ADOS
6 ай бұрын
Because y’all are. No matter how you slice it she has dated every race and gender. At what point does she accept she’s the common denominator?
@EmilyBrowneyes
6 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!
@rp20xx
5 ай бұрын
Damn i didnt have to say shit 😂😂😂@@ThisIsWar_B1_FBA_ADOS
@angellaUlevi
5 ай бұрын
@@ThisIsWar_B1_FBA_ADOSpeople-of all races-date multiple people before they find the right one. Some people find their person after 1 date, others date and date and date and still don’t find that person. it’s not like going through each race means you’ll absolutely find your match… she said she had better experiences with other races (no cheating, providing) in her hometown BUT those non-black guys just weren’t the right fit. Somehow you decided that equates to “black women are the problem”? I hope you read what i’m saying with the tone of respect and hurt. I hope it helps you understand what OP was saying. It’s tiring.
@Ronni-hh1vj
3 ай бұрын
So a white man made her a baby mama?
@19DeMan77
Жыл бұрын
As a black man I can understand. It’s tuff in a lot of areas. As a man that has a daughter, I don’t see many black boys that I’ll let her go to, just to be honest.
@scottrogue946
Жыл бұрын
I think that’s good you want better for your daughter. I wonder if these men with daughters feel the same way.
@CaramelCali
Жыл бұрын
Please protect her. It’s dangerous
@SunshineKK99
Жыл бұрын
This is so true. My husband says the same thing about our daughters.
@td4079
Жыл бұрын
It is hard. Where I am most of the black men are what the women in the video describe. There are few (very very low percentage) of black men in my area who have their stuff together but they are normally the mixed race black men. Hispanic men on the other hand will take care of home they do have their issues like any other man but they work hard and take care of family. ❤️❤️❤️ White men are the same. They work hard and take care of family they also have their issues. Black men though I feel like are taught to get a woman pregnant, leave her then blame the women and tell her she should have chose better than them. More than any race I see if you get pregnant by a black man I don’t care what race the woman is you will more than likely end up a single mother. Black men don’t care about their offspring. I can’t take that risk.
@ariamason9324
Жыл бұрын
You don't want her to date someone like you
@authenticapparel1906
Жыл бұрын
She is 1000% right. Dating some black men is gonna come with a lot of sh*t. Our culture has made baby mamas, multiple sexual partners, lack of respect for women a norm.
@Godsbackhand7
Жыл бұрын
Nobody is forcing these women to have kids. They have control of that. Birth control comes in many forms. Sex is a choice that they decided to do unprotected. They chose to put themselves into situations to become baby mamas. This woman spent 20 solid minutes specifically disrespecting men with zero mercy, yet somehow there is a lack of respect problem coming from men. Here’s a fact for you. There are more married black men than there are black women, despite the fact that black women outnumber black men. Seems like the black men are getting along just fine.
@pauloskidane2819
Жыл бұрын
*And here comes the simp enforers*
@rza380.
Жыл бұрын
So only black men cheat🤔
@louisw4390
Жыл бұрын
Yes that shirt makes both of her points.
@shigreene13
11 ай бұрын
@@pauloskidane2819your comment is the black culture he’s pointing out, great job
@CatsandPlants911
Жыл бұрын
The relatability of this conversation damn near brought tears to my eyes. I’m sure I’m not the only one who shares Her experience. Sad but true!
@biancablonc4609
Жыл бұрын
Girl you know the community is what it is. Kendra is a whole weirdo. I don’t know why she is always so disingenuous 😂😂😂 I gotta stop watching. Listening to Kendra makes me loose brain cells
@blackway643
Жыл бұрын
I’m sure you being overweight has nothing to do with it 🙄🙄
@prid6427
Жыл бұрын
Its not true. Its "the type of black men" she's and many other BW are choosing!
@prid6427
Жыл бұрын
@@IsntSheLovely33All BW are NOT serial victims!! But many claim to be!!
@jaygray6595
Жыл бұрын
@@IsntSheLovely33 other women in other races have been dogged by their own men as well so it is what it is
@tasharrahenry3887
Жыл бұрын
Kendra purposely not understanding her. She explained herself so well and I think many black women understands where she is coming from.
@vaughn7130
5 ай бұрын
Kendra seems to do this ALOT, she makes things confusing unnecessarily
@albertjordan2808
5 ай бұрын
Nah she's just a sad case
@RodieRo1
4 ай бұрын
But she sleeps with all men. Which none of them have made her a wife or gave her a commitment
@187Kali
2 ай бұрын
No she did not explain herself well, she said black men cheat and abuse then said other races treat their woman better,then said white men cheat too but would you rather cry in a Toyota or Bentley so at this point it's not about finding a good man it's about money. He can do you wrong but it's better when he has money
@Sasha-ws6gv
Ай бұрын
Kendra is slow 🐌 Entertaining but dumb as a box of rocks! 😆
@Lightningslick
Жыл бұрын
She doesn't need to explain why she won't date a Black man. Just go wherever you please. I wouldn't argue with her for a second. Let her be.
@user-bz8xb4jy2u
Жыл бұрын
Too much baggage shes carrying 😂
@tatijas
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂., Right- 53 seconds into the video I paused it and started reading the comments. Just complaining.
@otrebla8944
Жыл бұрын
@@user-bz8xb4jy2ushe's got two beautiful baggage she's carrying 👀
@LattimeFamilyTree
Жыл бұрын
I don’t agree with her but I do feel like we are expected to only be with a BM. Quite frankly, a BM is never questioned this much for choosing a WW. Nor do they ever have a good explanation besides a vague answer..
@user-bz8xb4jy2u
Жыл бұрын
@@LattimeFamilyTree its not that we care. Explain why should a different race of people should chose you as a companion instead of complaining about blackmen.
@Simeon1212
5 ай бұрын
Nah I get her tho. I’m Eritrean & I was dating black guys for a min but got tired of the games, disrespect, & lies esp since I know there are so many good men in my country. I gave up & married a man from my own country & im so happy, it’s absolutely no stress, no hard work just peaceful & full of love. I 💯 agree bc I been thru it
@ravenna9969
21 күн бұрын
ghurl as if they have options like that . Nobody look at east african men and desire their inbred looking selves . Im confused why the women look good but the men look concerning
@Thomas-dm4ue
Жыл бұрын
As a black man, I’m not mad at you. Do what makes you happy 👏🏾
@SylisDaGoldenPeach
Жыл бұрын
Yeah like I’ve definitely seen first hand how BW be so disrespectful to BM it’s sad , my neighbor fights her dude and kicks him out every day and he’s super calm and nice but I bet if he leaves her for a WW she gonna call him a colorist
@Thomas-dm4ue
Жыл бұрын
@@SylisDaGoldenPeach 😂 probably right.
@vegannn7178
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Seahawk912
Жыл бұрын
She's not lieing about black men
@5thavemedia225
Жыл бұрын
A man could NEVER be kicked out of a house he's paying the rent and / or the mortgage...... I believe it's a little bit more to the story than you're privy to.....
@tubeslats
Жыл бұрын
I'm a black man. I'm a multi-millionaire. I've been married to my beautiful black wife for 40+ years. I don't cheat on her because she is a faithful loving wife!
@jonathancoleman6482
Жыл бұрын
Good for you bro
@LadyK007
Жыл бұрын
Put the younger generations on! Help teach them how a man should treat women well. Pay it forward!
@kwilliams3161
Жыл бұрын
@@LadyK007the younger generations don’t want to learn.it’s wasted breath.
@Roccofan
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations. I’m 25yrs in and counting. 😂
@Roccofan
Жыл бұрын
@@LadyK007 No. Stop looking for a savior. Your job is to repeat what he did, not look for someone to come save you or anyone else.
@dasjdajd
Жыл бұрын
LMAO @ Kendra pretending like this woman didn’t just describe 99% of the men coming on her show! 🤣😂😅😅
@LFranklya
Жыл бұрын
I was thinking same thing
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
Жыл бұрын
Yep 😂😂
@jaygray6595
Жыл бұрын
Those are Pook Nugs who yall like lol yall put the boring ones in ya friend zone🤣🤣🤣🤣
@l3zfrancais
Жыл бұрын
Right
@chocolatebeauty00
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@Skyhous3
Жыл бұрын
Everything she said was the TRUTH👏👏👏
@datruth470
Жыл бұрын
She explained the plight of dating while being a black woman perfectly!
@Squeeky-Da-Don
Жыл бұрын
This is why your father's should choose you mate. They do it in the middle east.
@amareharris2797
Жыл бұрын
She a goofy
@meloran2571
Жыл бұрын
you're right. can't even put on a bra to get on a dating show to find a "good man" but expect a good blk man to take them serious
@kevinlee9929
Жыл бұрын
Yet if a BM came on speaking in the same way about BW. I guarantee that you would change your tune .....
@gigga693
Жыл бұрын
@@Squeeky-Da-DonI get your point, but it’s not failure proof as plenty women don’t have active fathers. Most fathers will only pick as well as their values are themselves. That can be detrimental if they aren’t self aware, accountable, etc. There are plenty of horror stories of women being abused by their fathers pickings in those countries because their fathers were also abusive but mama stayed and covered.
@DrKoko90
Жыл бұрын
To be honest, she explained herself very well. Idk how folks can still be offended after all that she said.
@Mektek19
Жыл бұрын
It’s because she is over generalizing.
@MoPerspective
Жыл бұрын
Exactly she broke it down with examples etc. A hit dog will holler so if they have an issue it’s because she is describing them🥴
@sheambitious29lachelle17
Жыл бұрын
@@MoPerspective please believe it
@HelloKitty-pe4ho
Жыл бұрын
@@Mektek19I see blk nen messed you up. 😂😂
@kaybeason3761
Жыл бұрын
You would have to understand and hear what she said. The key is where she lives. It’s a small college town. Not heavily populated with black folks that aren’t students
@myownboss1
Жыл бұрын
As a black 55 year old brotha with an almost 18 year daughter, this woman put the fear of gosh in me! There was another recent video where a sista is sitting in a car saying the same stuff: that she tired of meeting brothas who don’t want to go to dinner, movies or hike or roller skate; NO, all they want to do is smoke weed and chill with video games or something like that….😢👎🏾👎🏾🙁
@adrianrice6396
Жыл бұрын
Just keep her in good circles she should be fine, they're plenty of solid young brothas that have their head on straight. Those ladies are only speaking from their experiences, plenty of black men are still treating women right those women are just being put through what we call "the ringer"
@luckyb5619
Жыл бұрын
@@adrianrice6396 stop lying SIR, please teach your daughter her options are not limited to treasonous broke bum black men. She can find men of other races who make money, believe in marriage, and aren’t self hating.
@daliaa5294
Жыл бұрын
Please look out for your daughter. I have been waiting for a good black man for 10 years. I have never had sex and my parents raised me well. At 30 finally I found one. It is not easy for sisters who want to date black men.
@ejay2075
Жыл бұрын
Times are different my man....this is because of women. Women have mad sex too easy so now we don't have to put any effort.
@H1GHD3FF
Жыл бұрын
She's leaving out a lot of info about herself. She spoke about others but not herself
@OhYessirrr
6 ай бұрын
Well said👏🏽Its ok to speak on your experiences. And is she lying? Im glad to see black men take accountability in the comments-we know damn well too many of our brothers are letting our women down, hence her commentary. She didnt make that stuff up! Most of my bros are on that struggle, low vibrational stuff! Facts! We need to raise the quality of the black male archetype, period.
@CaramelCali
6 ай бұрын
❤
@etuitivemillionaire
Жыл бұрын
Y’ll keep coming to a global platform without a Bra. 🙄
@Ladylovebug26
Жыл бұрын
She knows what the “others” want😂
@SylisDaGoldenPeach
Жыл бұрын
That’s to attract men , I know that tactic
@oceanbelow
Жыл бұрын
Europeans are notorious for not wearing bras, especially the French. I need not jump into the entire continent of Africa. Bras are more of a western construct then anywhere else in the world. The west always thinks the rest of the world operates by their standards or expectations. The reality is, that just isn’t true. Love to the States though.
@brittneyh.1672
Жыл бұрын
Who cares
@blackandarmedfamily4905
Жыл бұрын
@@oceanbelowshe lives in America. Looking for men in America. Therefore we are going by American standards and culture.
@halftimehomes
Жыл бұрын
I think she meant to call Cynthia G, instead of Kendra G
@nancyfancy1956
Жыл бұрын
😂❤
@luckyb5619
Жыл бұрын
She should have called Cynthia G she would have came to her senses and not argued with a black male worshiper
@shennarice5749
Жыл бұрын
Ikr??? Lol
@lupavo1738
Жыл бұрын
Lmfao 🤣 this is hilarious.
@masterviper1880
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@brittneyh.1672
Жыл бұрын
It’s always, “she picked wrong!”its never, “why are there so many bad apples to choose from”…..
@04ccarroll
Жыл бұрын
There are good dudes to pick from why can’t she get one of those.
@TheFNPodcast919
Жыл бұрын
Because there ain't as many bad apples as you say. Based on this show ya'll all want the same guy so ya'll deal with the same apples.
@kaymsov
Жыл бұрын
It's never the fact that the lady herself can be a bad apple. Good people don't want bad women either. The good men are probably good pickers too
@jonathancoleman6482
Жыл бұрын
@@04ccarrollshe doesn’t like those guys
@dondattaford5593
Жыл бұрын
This is the product of single mothers raising weak sons no respect don't forget that
@tashanicole7524
5 ай бұрын
I’m married to a black man but I can be honest and say this woman is definitely telling the truth. This was my experience as well trying to date some black men
@InsertAliasHere1154
Жыл бұрын
I think it’s disingenuous to look at the state of the Black community and say she’s wrong. This woman knows what she’s seen and dealt with, and a number of us have had comparable experiences. That said, I wish she hadn’t led with this because it will likely deter quality men of all races from wanting to connect with her. She should have spoken her preference and left it at that. I hope she finds who she’s looking for and that she doesn’t get swept up by a racist who engages with her for reasons besides partnership and love. I also hope she seeks help to sort out the part she plays in her dating misfortune.
@jahc3842
Жыл бұрын
She's wrong. Maybe it's her pool or maybe your pool. I know countless successful black men who are proud fathers. It's a tired stereotype.
@InsertAliasHere1154
Жыл бұрын
@@jahc3842 she said what she said, and so did I. My dating pool works well for me when I choose to date. Your experience as a male who knows “countless successful black men who are proud fathers” doesn’t negate the experiences of women who encounter men in a totally different way than you. You don’t get to invalidate those experiences just because you know a few good men. Neither she nor I claimed all Black men are bad, but there are far too many validating the stereotype to ignore it.
@usmanvcx
Жыл бұрын
19:26 Kendra asked the perfect question: if she’s finding the white guys she’s looking for why is she still single (and complaining). It’s giving a state of confusion and chaos 😵💫
@InsertAliasHere1154
Жыл бұрын
@@usmanvcx as I mentioned, she definitely plays a part in her lack of success in dating.
@kevinlee9929
Жыл бұрын
@@InsertAliasHere1154 The same could be said about BW. There are countless BM who could validate dealing with BW who fit every stereotype there is. But I GUARANTEE that you and others defending this woman. Would NOT make the same comments if a BM came on here. And spoke about BW how she did BM.
@blacksh5
Жыл бұрын
Her opinions are spot on, there are good black men out there but there are so many that are bad and unfortunately as a black woman I have experienced a lot of bad and so have my black girlfriends. Her truths are so valid. We have to do better as a people because I know black men that have similar bad experiences with black women. Let’s starting holding each other and ourselves accountable.
@loisbullock3151
11 ай бұрын
Then go forward with what we learned. Change what we must within ourselves as we go along the way. We can do it. It takes drive & determination to succeed at anything worth having.
@LBFufuEata
11 ай бұрын
It’s not the men. 60% of black men are in the middle class, she’s just crazy
@MsLotusBlooms
6 ай бұрын
It's the same with black women.
@rondotrucking9866
11 күн бұрын
To hold yourself accountable would mean starting with acknowledging the issues that you’ve had with black men are due to YOUR choice of men you decided to deal with.
@blacksh5
10 күн бұрын
@@rondotrucking9866 Woah, someone sounds like they need therapy! Lol I just said that Einstein smh reading is fundamental.
@cali-sun7727
Жыл бұрын
As a black woman i agree with her daating experience. Ive just stop wasting my time at rhis point. Haven't dated in 2 yrs.. just focusing on living a good life❤
@JamesWilliams-ql3eq
6 ай бұрын
That's when the right man will come along! You just can't be too busy to notice him.
@kimberlyclark4559
Ай бұрын
I’ve done the same . Single for 9 years. Just not worth the energy
@dread6152
Жыл бұрын
I must say this young lady is 100% talking the truth. I can relate 💯.
@Godsbackhand7
Жыл бұрын
You also date a lot of men and cannot sustain a long term relationship? Weird flex, but you do you boo boo.
@AmaniLindsey
5 ай бұрын
She red flags on top of red flags
@leataylor9277
3 ай бұрын
Nobody want you that’s why.
@SassyAlleycat
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest! We need to be accountable to the improvement needed in ANY community! She is describing a lot of the baby daddies that “didn’t work out” with all the other mothers you have interviewed. We can not continue to act like our fellow black people have no room for doing better. We are not blaming just sharing our experiences 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@TheRealCompensator
Жыл бұрын
For starters, she’s a promiscuous thot, hot summer girl.
@melvinbarnes6652
6 ай бұрын
Women need to stop giving babies to men who aren't their husbands. She is another single black mother. The good black man she desires ain't looking her way. Too many other better options.
@scores718
2 ай бұрын
She talks too much. Further education, avoid sex. Then see if anything left
@Anatheempress
Жыл бұрын
How do you come on a dating show without a bra, a regular t shirt, and not put together and demand a certain kind of man?
@SylisDaGoldenPeach
Жыл бұрын
She’s a loose woman , I’ve seen ladies like her at the store with no bra on smiling and bending over in front of dudes , no self respect
@TheeMrsChampion
Жыл бұрын
These type of women feel like they don’t even have to try. They can just show up and get their needs fulfilled 🤷🏽♀️
@DerekDynasty
Жыл бұрын
She fits the aesthetic
@chocolateraisin1266
Жыл бұрын
Yep, as a woman I thought that was 🧐
@meloran2571
Жыл бұрын
she would tell you that the wyte men's wives dress like that and the men dont complain
@TerryOnDemand
Жыл бұрын
I despise the narrative that black men do not want to work. I know ALOT of black men that are hard working, financially well off, and have morals/ values.🤷🏽♀️
@missmable2470
Жыл бұрын
There’s millions of blk men and how many do you know?
@Mynameisnunya37
Жыл бұрын
And I despise the, “I know A LOT of bm” who work narrative. How’s many could you possibly know directly, 100? If that, out of millions of them. Come on. She doesn’t have to date all bm to determine that there’s A LOT who don’t work or provide.
@Squeeky-Da-Don
Жыл бұрын
@@missmable2470 how many do you know? A million?
@yasmeen7875
Жыл бұрын
My husband owns 2 businesses so that means all men own 2 businesses. The unemployment rate for black men is higher than any other race. Just cause you know a few dont mean all of them are good. How many gonna di3 in Chicago this weekend?
@tre12124
Жыл бұрын
@@yasmeen7875a lot
@TheChocklit1
Жыл бұрын
She said men of all races were shooting up the club and disappearing when she thought a relationship was blooming but black men are the only ones she isolated.
@melvinbarnes6652
6 ай бұрын
Bingooooooo
@bigtig23
4 ай бұрын
And the black women on here somehow missed all of that 😂😂😂
@NeeNee_B.
11 күн бұрын
She wouldnt have this issue from ANY race if she stopped sleeping with men before marriage or at the very least, a serious commitment
@tonettewormley4455
Жыл бұрын
That 8 seconds be kicking y’all butt😂
@LadyK007
Жыл бұрын
For REAL!😂😂😂
@Godsbackhand7
Жыл бұрын
Has all of these demands and expectations and cannot follow the one damn rule that was presented to her. That says a lot. She does what she wants despite the simple parameters that are expected of her and every single other person.
@ThisIsWar_B1_FBA_ADOS
6 ай бұрын
@@Godsbackhand7Exactly
@SoulrebelZay
Жыл бұрын
She bashing black men but on a predominantly black audience and came on here twice. Make it make sense.
@AB-ze2ho
Жыл бұрын
TWICE????
@ghariiscool
Жыл бұрын
you know what that means lol she secretly still loves us bm....she would not be on this platform going on and on about bm if she didn't...deep down she wants a good BM..a solid BM...she wants BM to hear her out and she hopes a good solid one will hear her and want to dispel her preconceived notions about BM.... tell me I'm lying
@OHNO-k9l
Жыл бұрын
@@ghariiscoolNo good black man should waste his time with a white man's whore.
@Cng215
Жыл бұрын
@@ghariiscool no Black man with integrity will take A single mother with half white kid white baby daddy. That's cuckold
@lomaxlomax6152
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, when she said she been on here twice I’m like, make it make sense.
@454lin
Жыл бұрын
A lot of women can relate to her.
@JAYWIL01
Жыл бұрын
🎉
@bellbattle1898
Жыл бұрын
Right
@jayc5756
Жыл бұрын
They need healing. She's just like the Same Bm in her hometown that she criticizes. Got subconscious issues with their own race of ppl...so they prefer others. Mannn
@LOSTGPS
Жыл бұрын
yep, because a lot choose the same men
@obibomaye7785
Жыл бұрын
BW are used for s*x by others ethnicities, some of them date and have s*x with non black who don't like black people, they're making mixed childs with Latinos, Whites, Indians, Asians, Arabs and those men leave them or they are ashamed to presents them to their communities BUT I've never heard BW said to avoid them... Why ?
@mackximus1
Жыл бұрын
Complains about men just wanting the buns HOWEVER she came on the show with the high beams TURNED ON…. You attract what you are
@kimberlyb6522
6 ай бұрын
Some women’s nipples stay hard or become hard unknowingly and without sexual arousal. Mine do 🤦🏽♀️
@keishagatling8498
5 ай бұрын
I saw that too.. high beams😂😂😂
@CaramelCali
Жыл бұрын
Girl just date out or say what race you want without putting down the BM. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for why you choose to date out!
@SylisDaGoldenPeach
Жыл бұрын
Why do people have to come on a platform and say they date outside there race just do it
@njpme
Жыл бұрын
100%
@robinaaayyeee
Жыл бұрын
This comment!!! Period!
@gigga693
Жыл бұрын
🎯
@Oldschoolscratcher
Жыл бұрын
True
@DeaconGoss
Жыл бұрын
“The white guys treat me better than black men” But the ones that like her, she doesn’t like. Lawd you can’t make this stuff up.
@hotindecember1951
Жыл бұрын
She just wants to let y’all know she’s upset with y’all 😂
@DeaconGoss
Жыл бұрын
@@hotindecember1951 sounds more like she’s upset with her choices in men. None of them are working out no matter the race 😂
@bosslady9108
Жыл бұрын
@@DeaconGossMy thoughts exactly.
@raphies6122
Жыл бұрын
@@DeaconGossmake up what sir?..
@muchaluchagigante6318
Жыл бұрын
@@hotindecember1951well her saggy titty ass can be upset all she wants..we don't care.
@Barlowh2o
Жыл бұрын
Other ethnic groups preferences aren't fat women, blk men is the only race that have to accept fat women.
@newtrollaccount384
Жыл бұрын
BM are irrelevant to this.
@cecisessence694
Жыл бұрын
We gotta be on great shape but accept the beer belly and flat asses
@JewelPray
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been in her shoes before (except I don’t have kids) but it was before I took time to heal from past dating experiences and started surrounding myself with better circles of people that I realized it’s not necessarily about black men, it’s the black men you’re choosing to be around 😭 she just needs to find better people to be around then a good partner will come
@Vergil14
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you said this because it gets tiring as a black man to hear good black men get thrown into the garbage with bad black men. Experience can drive our perspectives but her explanation clearly shows that she’s let the ones usually around her dictate her experience.
@jay4341
9 ай бұрын
Thank You!!!!!!!! I’m around quality marriage minded black men and women. I married a quality black woman that’s why I don’t feel bad for these folks. It’s you!
@Mrsyannaa
Жыл бұрын
We need to come together as a community ,and break down our CULTURE. Everything that is being endorsed in our community promotes the downfall of our people. There is truth to what she is saying unfortunately, and the black men who decide to date outside of their race have valid grievances with black women as well, which are all due to our UPBRINGING and VALUES in the community. We still have work to do in the black community!
@adustygreasyandsweatybonnet
Жыл бұрын
The perpetrators responsible for participating in the destruction of our community are your sisters brothers uncles fathers aunts and grandparents would you be willing to do what must be done so we can restart our community because most of the ones in our community don’t want to do it.
@BlessedEnergy_
Жыл бұрын
I agree
@SunshineKK99
Жыл бұрын
Agreed! It has been a break down in the Blk community with values for a while and instead of solving it everyone is running for the hills!!
@kennettabradford6566
Жыл бұрын
@@SunshineKK99 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kennettabradford6566
Жыл бұрын
@@adustygreasyandsweatybonnet be accountable for your actions stop blaming other people 🙄
@meloran2571
Жыл бұрын
So she lives in Missouri and don't date blk men but still had to get on a predominantly black dating show to find a non blk man. She primarily try to avoid blk men but still dont have a man of any race. she have wyte friends, and blk girlfriends who date wyte men but none of them can find her a man of any race. she says blk men put wyte women on a pedestal when she's literally on this interview putting wyte men on a pedestal and they still dont want her. Imagine opening up your options to millions more men or all races but you're still single and complaining about blk men 😂😂 cant make this ish up.
@robinaaayyeee
Жыл бұрын
😂 all of that!
@thewinzerfam
Жыл бұрын
She better move her ass where I’m at in North Dakota if she wants a honorable white man.
@MrsBDatCreole
Жыл бұрын
Lol!
@stinkreezy2791
Жыл бұрын
😂 exactly and she in Columbia Missouri black people not supposed to be out there
@yasmeen7875
Жыл бұрын
She'll find someone. She just need to relocate to a more diverse area.
@kingssportskonversation7351
Жыл бұрын
As a black man, I hope she finds a non black man that will make her happy. 🙏🏾💯
@SylisDaGoldenPeach
Жыл бұрын
Salute 🫡
@awarepenguin3376
Жыл бұрын
She did. He knocked her up then dumped her ass.
@isaiahzay3392
Жыл бұрын
@@awarepenguin3376😂😂😂😂
@what77und
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 this time keep her!!! Now we on here listening to her crazy azz AGAIN. Fence her in. Feed her. She got out.
@JAYWIL01
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@Tabias74
Жыл бұрын
This is the issue we have. Black women hating their counterparts and bashing us instead of self reflecting. The problem is YOU and your choices in men you prefer. YOUR SUPERFICIAL PREFERENCES and attitude. Too many of y’all are chasing the pretty boys. A very small percentage. SELF REFLECT…
@keishagatling8498
5 ай бұрын
True
@MsRenaissance
10 күн бұрын
I can see from your pic that no-one is checking for you 😂. Hence the complaint about "pretty boys".
@LetsTalkAboutItSeries
Жыл бұрын
Ma’am this is a demographically black show
@LadyK007
Жыл бұрын
And? She never said she would not date one. She just said she hasn’t had great experiences with them.
@LetsTalkAboutItSeries
Жыл бұрын
@@LadyK007 I’m aware of what she said. She repeated herself 11 times.
@drmonica
Жыл бұрын
I can’t say I disagree with her experiences, but I would like for her to not group all black men in the same category of the ones she attracts.
@kiciacoldspring1621
Жыл бұрын
She didn't though. She said numerous times, "not all" black men, just the ones I've been with and what I see around me where I live.
@drmonica
Жыл бұрын
@@kiciacoldspring1621When she said that there are no good black men in her surrounding area, she unfairly labeled a whole group. It is possible the good ones in her area are simply not attracted to her or they may not be in her circle.
@TylerJ__
Жыл бұрын
@@drmonica9times outta 10they not attracted to her. I know dudes in her area that got everything she's looking for but wouldn't touch her with a 10 ft pole, she's a walking red flag 😂😂😂
@loisbullock3151
11 ай бұрын
She did say she wasn’t grouping all Blk men together.
@drmonica
11 ай бұрын
@@loisbullock3151 Understood. When she says all the ones in her area are not good she’s categorizing a whole demographic. It could be that the “good” ones just aren’t interested in her. It can be fair for her to say that “all the men that I’ve encountered thus far have not treated me well” and not make all black men (in her area) look unworthy of being datable.
@Go-Getter
Жыл бұрын
Black men treat her horribly, white and Asians treat her better than black men but none seems to take her seriously, a man she was dating fell for her quickly and she thought that was a red flag, she don't like her mom, she don't like her dad, she divorced her husband. Who is the common denominator and why is it hard for her to maintain a healthy relationship with anyone, even her parents????
@tonylee3721
Жыл бұрын
Exactly but it's ALWAYS the bm's fault for ALL their failures lol
@_m_K_.
Жыл бұрын
This woman is a DRAMA QUEEN. She is talking about black men because she hangs out in the gutters of east st Louis and wonders why she only finds trash men. She has a much higher value of herself than what the market place yields.
@indigoGoddess7
Жыл бұрын
Let’s not pretend like toxicity isn’t common among many black households. I know plenty of BP who cut contact with their parents because they aren’t healthy, refuse to respect their child’s boundaries, trying to take advantage of their kids, forced them to have relationships with abusers, didn’t protect them when they were violated etc the list goes on.
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
Жыл бұрын
You speak as though everyone has a loving family. Unfortunately that's not true.....
@Go-Getter
Жыл бұрын
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 Only 2 of the people I mentioned was her family. Everyone else are people that she chose to involve herself with.
@tparker4458
10 ай бұрын
She is LONGGGG WINDED I’m 8 minutes in and it feels like a whole day.
@colette559
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad she stood her ground on what she experienced in her area.
@ud558
Жыл бұрын
In her area. She should move
@foxyboop4164
Жыл бұрын
@@ud558She can BUT her options won't change much at all. There's women on here from all over, even out of country, same sentiments. Only difference is, those BW are still holding out hope only to be told they've now hit the wall 😅 My best advice is for young women to hold their cards to their chest, move in silence, ESTABLISH and MAINTAIN boundaries and standards and not waiver.
@cheffner68
Жыл бұрын
@@ud558 she can't because of her ex husband share custody with her.
@Wanderer25
Жыл бұрын
@@ud558Wherever she goes there she will be. She's been the common denominator in all her disastrous relationships, but as usual it's black men's fault. Good riddance, let zaddy deal with that dysfunction.
@KidFromQueens
Жыл бұрын
@@Wanderer25They refuse to understand that! Even Rebecca Lynn pope came out n told em!
@jennastar3389
Жыл бұрын
BM generalize BW all the time on social media and in real life, but when BW are critical of BM, y'all have your panties in a bunch🤣😂
@ellisallstar9501
Жыл бұрын
We appreciate that perfect example!
@awarepenguin3376
Жыл бұрын
Upset? Hardly. We’re trying to figure out why white guys can knock her up and leave her a single mom and yet she only has a problem with black men. That’s all.
@krystaperry288
Жыл бұрын
They are in SHAMBLES lol
@awarepenguin3376
Жыл бұрын
@@krystaperry288we’re mildly incensed lol.
@krystaperry288
Жыл бұрын
@@awarepenguin3376 😂
@BBynum
Жыл бұрын
For her to be Bisexual, Biracial but still Bi-herself is crazy.. 😂😂..... Ladies and gentlemen we have a winner
@smellmyfingification
Жыл бұрын
I agree with a lot of wht she said.... but this is was funny😂😂😂😂
@naturallyflawed5472
Жыл бұрын
Lol 😵
@Issey_B_Devo
Жыл бұрын
You Win! 👏👏👏
@kojoboateng6755
Жыл бұрын
Who in their right mind wanna date trash like this woman.
@shawndaniel5503
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@JB-rv1to
Жыл бұрын
Why would a man of another race take her seriously when he knows that her preference is BM🤦....ladies ladiea ladies, if you're done with BM cool. Shut up about it though. Go attract the men that you want.
@CocoNubia
Жыл бұрын
I totally understand what she’s saying. A lot of what she says is true. She just needs to move or be around a more diverse group of black men.
@Barlowh2o
Жыл бұрын
She needs to get in shape, why well put together blk man wants to date her when he can have better
@jayo3074
Жыл бұрын
If she didn't have a kid they wouldn't see her as fun
@Lightningslick
Жыл бұрын
Nope. I say she should just go elsewhere, to any other race but us Black men. That is truly what she wants.
@rabrown2799
Жыл бұрын
Right, she needs to move in circles of positive black men.
@obibomaye7785
Жыл бұрын
BW are used for s*x by others ethnicities, some of them date and have s*x with non black who don't like black people, they're making mixed childs with Latinos, Whites, Indians, Asians, Arabs and those men leave them or they are ashamed to presents them to their communities BUT I've never heard BW said to avoid them... Why ?
@MissTanialoves80
Жыл бұрын
If she dated so many people and they don't treat her well. At what point is she gonna be accountable for her own self? And possibly realizing she's the problem.
@D13vest
Жыл бұрын
Shes a xes worker. She didnt date anyone, just xes'd them
@SweetEssie
Жыл бұрын
Cmon Miss Tania. You know she ain't lying 😂😂😂
@shamanlee111
Жыл бұрын
Girl bye you know they are losers! You want a good man, or a black man? 😂
@GenuinelyGiGi
Жыл бұрын
@H20Sniperher ex-husband is biracial. He’s Black and German
@kingstrong5351
Жыл бұрын
@@SweetEssieAnd blk men ain't lying when they say most of you are masculine lol
@worldpeace0266
Жыл бұрын
I can't take any woman serious who isn't wearing a bra and talking about she won't accept from somebody...
@worldpeace0266
Жыл бұрын
@@MarvAuthor I don't have to see it.. the way she presents herself on this platform alone, speaks volumes!!
@Phoenixishot
Жыл бұрын
I saw that. Like, "ummmm who else is uncomfortable watching this?"
@worldpeace0266
Жыл бұрын
@@Phoenixishot exactly!!
@Issey_B_Devo
Жыл бұрын
Yep she needs a leash for them yard Dawgs 😂😂😂
@ga9100
Жыл бұрын
Facts no bra and those things are huge and sagging wow‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@arsena1816
Жыл бұрын
Soooo...first, you are on a black show looking for non black men. Second, seems like she dates brothers who are non committal.
@leti895
Жыл бұрын
She spent so much time talking negatively about a black man just to say I'll still date one. Sounds like she doesn't know how to pick a good man no matter their skin tone.
@OHNO-k9l
Жыл бұрын
And she's still single after dating out.
@StephH0711
Жыл бұрын
She stated basically she wanted a man that had their shit together. And through trial and error she the black men she dated did not. Note this is a show with predominantly a black audience of which if she stated she prefered a non-black man she would be judged for it. And funny enough more so by other black women than men....especially the older ones. Hence why she stated the reasons. Note she didnt say it was their look, attitude, the femicide rate....she stated it was the fact the great majority were not looking for anything serious (just sex) and/or didn't have their finances and goals in order. Which is true. Black men financially thriving in our community ages 24-34 are less likely to settle down. And the opposite for the circle she is in maybe true as well, a lot do not want to work.
@tdagbo
Жыл бұрын
No she’s correct. She’s not bashing them she’s making BM take accountability
@TylerJ__
Жыл бұрын
@@tdagboYou can't make strangers take accountability for something they've never done, you women need therapy, ASAP 😂😂😂
@jameshawkins809
Жыл бұрын
As a 6'4 black man, i ran into her type when it comes to height. They ranted on sooo much about how short men are this or that and cant do this or that. Wasted sooo much time complaining that we never went pass the 1st date. She is a waste of most men's time. Even contradicted herself by saying white men have done the same but do better after a break up lmao. She just a lost caught.
@jay-t1030
Жыл бұрын
So she has dated non-black men yet she is still single….the problem is her NOT black men.
@stinkreezy2791
Жыл бұрын
Correct
@openbob6656
Жыл бұрын
fax. she just a bitter babymama
@fordaculture5014
Жыл бұрын
@@stinkreezy2791So only Kendra G can be single by choice? I know yall be so desperate to be in a relationship and accept anything and wonder why our community is so low when it comes to standards. People and go and dates and search. Theres more to life than just looking good on paper
@c3servicesofatl
Жыл бұрын
Just got finished posting this almost verbatim. If she has all this experience with all these other races and she’s still searching, that means she is the problem because surely one of them was suitable.
@tashlaine
Жыл бұрын
@@fordaculture5014kendra has a boo.
@atthismoment3006
Жыл бұрын
the STD's thing is really happening!
@loisbullock3151
11 ай бұрын
People act as if it’s gone away. U are 💯% Spot on. Their is still so much promiscuousness going on.
@marcus5m
Жыл бұрын
She's looking for non black men to date on a Kendra G show? Right!
@MrsRoman-mt8ed
Ай бұрын
No. You missed her point. She was giving her experience about dating black men but she still wants to date a black man but is also open to other races.
@focknfree
Жыл бұрын
I think she did a great job of explaining herself with her experiences dating different races of men. I wish Kendra didn't act like she didn't understand where she's coming from during half of this interview.
@yazzio82
Жыл бұрын
Exactly omg ....she need to keep her opinions to herself . The lady is talking about her experience.
@madlaz5795
Жыл бұрын
She’s a black male worshipper
@shar22
11 ай бұрын
Fr .. she acts tortoise brain slow, nothing she said was hard to understand
@Sandrinarhonda
9 ай бұрын
Kendra felt hit cause she only dates black men lol
@erica9223
Жыл бұрын
We need racial healing in our community for BM and BW. Somehow we forget the intentional division created for us to hate ourselves and each other. Blaming each other is not the solution.
@Roccofan
Жыл бұрын
Nope. Take that “they did it to us” BS somewhere else. Everything in your life is your fault, absolutely everything. Until you hold yourself and others to account at that level, little will change.
@donperryon817
Жыл бұрын
Well said! Self hate I believe is the bigger issue and the trauma that came in life while trying to get answers messed up alot of our ppl
@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403
Жыл бұрын
Nah black men need to leave this abusive relationship. Yall publicly make white supremacist comments about your men when the stats say the contrantrary You can't say black men don't earn enough to provide when 54% of BM are single, middle class and childless and on average we outearn black women. You can't say we are deadbeats when studies show black men are the most involved fathers. Yall engage in easily debunked lies about black men
@KingAtheist
Жыл бұрын
The division caused all of this and yet we not doing anything about it. We have problems that should of been solved decades ago but we ain't gonna do shet. Saying someone hates themselves is a huge cope. You dont know their experiences with other black people are. At this point let people do and date what they want.
@Hawkeyes319
Жыл бұрын
@@Roccofanyupp.
@HumptyMcFly
Жыл бұрын
Her: I don’t want to date BM Also her: Comes on primarily black dating show…twice
@nancyfancy1956
Жыл бұрын
You know damn well white people who want to date black people be on here.
@indo3052
Жыл бұрын
Us white boys be lurking too
@jonathancoleman6482
Жыл бұрын
@@indo3052hit her up bro
@njpme
Жыл бұрын
@indo3052 this one is for you then my guy. Go get her 😂
@HumptyMcFly
Жыл бұрын
@@indo3052 I know
@GymHustle
Жыл бұрын
I don't see any of the other races trying to marry her👀
@steveeleigh3731
Жыл бұрын
She's not lying at all but I would have just said I prefer dating non black men and left it at that.
@ririhighclass487
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@cecisessence694
Жыл бұрын
I think she did orange but kendra will keep asking the same question or ask for them to explain so that kinda made her talk more and explain more that be kendra ass
@monstar2746
Жыл бұрын
I think she's attracted to black men physically but she's frustrated that she haven't found one who fits all her requirements and love her how she wants to be loved. This is why her relationships with white men aren't working because physically she's not attracted to them. So she'll continue to complain about black men .
@Barlowh2o
Жыл бұрын
She has a baby with a yt man, why didn't she stay on that side ?
@mistaaustin3854
Жыл бұрын
Word it was “Niggaz ain’t sh1t” on steroids.
@Flash413
Жыл бұрын
The men she consistently picks refuse to work or provide. She is the common denominator.
@newtrollaccount384
Жыл бұрын
You can't tell every woman who they pick is the problem and still say there is nothing wrong with a lot of men.
@jnm-eh6qt
Жыл бұрын
Bingo. Like we're supposed to overlook the fact she's a single mom who has been run through.
@yasmeen7875
Жыл бұрын
The unemployment rates for bm here in America is astronomical. Look it up. So if bm make 40 k yearly...that's not good.
@Mynameisnunya37
Жыл бұрын
Of course, not the men who don’t work and who ain’t got nothing on 😒
@tre12124
Жыл бұрын
Most black women who still believe in love and relationships are dealing with these same black men. 👎
@IK_4
Жыл бұрын
Funny how the same BM in the comments don't want to be judged as a whole, yet they are silent or even support it when BM (who by far do it more) do it to BW. The hypocrisy, gaslighting, and lack of accountability is becoming the biggest downfall of BM.
@saharaloveland
Жыл бұрын
exactly
@COLOMBIANSTICKUPKID
Жыл бұрын
As a black man all I can say is THANK GOD
@reneerenee5073
Жыл бұрын
No accountability
@Imhairforyeaux_75
Жыл бұрын
@@reneerenee5073like yall have
@cindy_rn8348
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Ongoingconcern
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. She admitted she is promiscuous; gives up the b00ty too fast; is bisexual; has daddy issues; disrespects authority (parents); works a lot (56/wk); has a child; divorced; and goes to therapy. She is overweight and has crazy eyes. What a catch fellas. Sign me up!
@ghariiscool
Жыл бұрын
@@reneerenee5073 that word is SO overused .....and I tell men that same thing....he isn't anymore responsible for the behaviors of specific black men that are bad than you are the behaviors of specific black woman that are bad the only thing...literally ONLY thing...the good productive ones of us can do is call out bad behavior when we see it and perhaps offer advice to those committing it... but we are NOT responsible for those that choose to stay wayward..therefore we are not accountable for their behavior..that is on THEM
@jim3565
Жыл бұрын
Why when BW date out they alway obsessed with speaking on black men???
@SylisDaGoldenPeach
Жыл бұрын
It’s weird
@mcbthird
Жыл бұрын
Because they don’t really love nonblack men they just hate bm and are certified weirdos
@JAYWIL01
Жыл бұрын
Because they are still sleeping with us while dating out lol
@jennastar3389
Жыл бұрын
Why do BM do the same thing?🤷♀️
@jonathancoleman6482
Жыл бұрын
Because they still want us on the low
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687
Жыл бұрын
I literally have black women say I'm corny or lame (just got told this on Saturday) because I work hard, don't have kids, study and don't do hood ish, I'm less than. I was on here about a month ago, mostly just black women saying nice stuff. I am the reverse of her, imagine if I came on and said the same. Would the women in these comments support me if I said the same? Be honest, ladies. If she mad, I feel it. I don't condone her saying that all black men are terrible. I have no kids, haven't been with anybody since January and just work. Don't speak on everybody is the point, you don't know everybody.
@SylisDaGoldenPeach
Жыл бұрын
The sad truth is if you get wit a WW those are the same women who will be angry at you , the same ones who called you corny
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687
Жыл бұрын
@HotwingsNranch it's nuts, bruh. The woman literally was at my aunt's Bday. It was mostly black people. She ran down my list of accomplishments and standings. No kids, no cheating, college grad, no criminal record, and great career. The first thing was to shit on me. I was just looking crazy. Like no white woman has ever said this about me. No Asian woman ever said that to me. This woman was the epitome of why I have to consider dating out. The hate I will get is expected. I've literally had other races of women feel sorry for me for dating only black women. The black community is on fire at this point.
@cutthechicken194
Жыл бұрын
Are you overweight?
@mikenojones6861
Жыл бұрын
@@cutthechicken194if he was overweight and????? Yall want us men to accept overweight women and call it body shame if we do say we want a women in shape
@lesleyannroberts4301
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that you have been treated like this by BW. Please know that all BW are not like this and I truly hope that the woman of your dreams finds you!! It really is rough out here in these dating streets right now.😪
@user-xi6mo9vy5o
Жыл бұрын
I’m exhausted listening to her.
@VinnyWilk
Жыл бұрын
She gave blk men all the smoke, but her preference has been dogging her out.
@saharaloveland
Жыл бұрын
She never said they dogged her out they probably just didn't want anything serious with her but yet still RESPECTED her before leaving the situation vs leaving her with TRAUMA. All men are poison but some poison is more lethal than others
@rani.andretti
Жыл бұрын
She's just saying the truth 👏🏼👏🏼 I wish her the best
@johnmoore4714
Жыл бұрын
Really 😅😅😅😅😅😅
@SincerelyAngie
Жыл бұрын
The crazy part is that she clearly explained HER issues and what SHE deems a possible solution. SHE even states where she is open and where she is limited and yet she is being bashed. It's wild being able to articulate properly and still be misunderstood. I live in Louisiana and I understand her completely. There's a mentality that men have down here but I'm not going to another race, just praying that my husband is from another state. Just because you date someone, doesn't mean there's a future there. Chemistry, connection, views, etc. may be different and do not align. Doesn’t mean you ignore those things but you have to get to know the person in order to find out what works and what doesn't. It's wierd that people are expecting people to find what they are looking for in the first few people they date and if you don't, you're the problem.
@candorsspot2775
Жыл бұрын
She whined and moaned for 40 minutes repeating the same nonsense over and over instead of actually appealing to a man. Why would a man watch this and want to deal with her at all, especially a relationship? She's a headache.
@jayc5756
Жыл бұрын
She is Just like the other bm in her hometown. Got issues with the opposite sex of their race...so they blame them for stuff, and look up to the other...ww/wm. She is what she criticizes with the bm. She needs help. FR
@KandidKonversationswithKam
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad we watched the same thing 😂 i just think she shouldn’t have made that her main point . If you do date black men i would have just listed those as deal breakers not grouping all black men.
@SincerelyAngie
Жыл бұрын
@@KandidKonversationswithKam That part!!!
@cami7961
Жыл бұрын
We need a white man on the panel...do they find it attractive of a black person downs the men in their race as a reason to date them..i wld think they wld just want them to date them for who they are not just cz they white..we go need the whytes to let us know
@dialac1
Жыл бұрын
All the black men I know work their asses off and they are amazing providers for their parents and siblings and they are single and childless. I don’t know where she’s finding these men
@chuckharvey2528
Жыл бұрын
Facts 💯. I also know a lot of good black men. I'm one of them.
@forlighttv
Жыл бұрын
Nothing is wrong with her, she is just perfect, and everyone else is the issue.
@reneerenee5073
Жыл бұрын
Out of ALL she said , that’s what you got ? 🤔
@forlighttv
Жыл бұрын
@reneerenee5073 how you doing?
@michaelwray8753
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, in her mind everyone is the issue. So many are out telling their on Lifetime channel story hoping we just believe them.
@tpoppy9303
Жыл бұрын
She spoke her experience which MOST black women share. Its time us men be real. Generally speaking nigas dont want to commit.
@mezxth00935
Жыл бұрын
@@tpoppy9303another real ☝🏽💯
@gid.095
Жыл бұрын
She just burned any chances she has left of getting a good black man.
@serious7179
Жыл бұрын
I don't think she cares
@mmmitchell2010
Жыл бұрын
It's not much of y'all left
@Imhairforyeaux_75
Жыл бұрын
@@mmmitchell2010of those that exist, she has no phkn chance
@gid.095
Жыл бұрын
@@serious7179 if you go on a 20 min rant about black men. You definitely care...
@gid.095
Жыл бұрын
@@mmmitchell2010 Plenty of great black men out there, maybe not the specific type that you want.
@Riyuki1
Жыл бұрын
I can tell she likes hanging around divested and/or toxic Black spaces. She comes on a majority Black show to comparatively put down Black men, say she avoids us, etc. But a lot of those women do this. If you are going to date out, date out and leave Black men alone. But no, she has to share her experiences on Black men because that will be attractive to other men. Again, non-Black men, you got it.
@NicoLanes
Жыл бұрын
She does love hanging, that's for sure 😂 #nobra
@Frugal637
Жыл бұрын
No she just doesn’t want a dusty? Is that toxic? Should she not be tired of leaching 50/50 Tyrone!?
@jaygray6595
Жыл бұрын
@Frugal637 she is dusty too that's what she attracts
@suziepickes702
Жыл бұрын
Black men do the same thing so I'm not completely mad at her
@mharp6166
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, she spoke all the reformed rachet talking points.
@lt6986
Жыл бұрын
Im black, i live in the area but im from Cali and i definitely will not be messaging her 😂. Im not a fan of self hatred, she can take that bed wench mentality to the slave master. We can make a similar argument about bw but that has never happened because we know that it's not all of yall.
@SammieSoSubmissive
Жыл бұрын
She said BLACK MEN about 100x🙄
@kateayahm3468
Жыл бұрын
lol
@cutlyfe
Жыл бұрын
So?
@SammieSoSubmissive
Жыл бұрын
@@cutlyfe yo mama 🤭
@yakzivz1104
Жыл бұрын
so what?
@JefferyDavis-xv4ey
Жыл бұрын
Black men make more money than black women on average and most of us are in the middle class
@fuckyourfeelingstheshow
Жыл бұрын
She broadened her pool yet she's still single. Clearly she's the common denominator. She lacks accountability and that's the real issue. I don't care if she dates black, brown, yellow, or blue. The fact that she is blanketing a whole group of men as bad when she has broadened her horizon and still can't find a man is astounding
@brooklynbred1460
Жыл бұрын
Why can't anyone else see this? Well said
@jasonwolfe3252
Жыл бұрын
And the majority of bw in the comments say that they can relate to this headcase so let that sink in.
@fuckyourfeelingstheshow
Жыл бұрын
@@jasonwolfe3252 they are full of sh*t. Most other races aren't checking for Black women like that. Especially higher value men of other races. You need a certain esthetic and level of class for these men to ask you out much less take you seriously. Alot of us live in a land of delusion that's going to keep us single and bitter.
@kirymckinney6094
Жыл бұрын
She bi too she’s a freak. The “fun girl” type. If you go on her ig you’ll see she went to a transgender party. WTH would want a woman that participates in some like that
@TruGank
Жыл бұрын
@@brooklynbred1460 Because it is easier to continue to demonize all black men based on the behaviors of a subset of black men. Her lack of accountability is quite normal for woman in general.
@sistrenyogigal3813
Жыл бұрын
Therapy is needed badly… lot of hurt behind that rant… she used her whole moment to talk about bm. Instead of promoting herself to the dating market all over the country. Prayers to her
@SweetEssie
Жыл бұрын
Naw, someone needs to say it
@chiworldwide119
5 ай бұрын
Kendra the one that needs therapy. Yall say everyone needs therapy, even if they spitting facts. Therapist are cra,y their damn selves. People need Jesus, not man.
@thedreamer3454
Жыл бұрын
What u all are missing... She is dating out of her race and hasn't had no luck. Except a divorce and child. The problem is her. He needs therapy
@MyMyTyTy
Жыл бұрын
Y’all are mad because she spoke facts?!😂😂
@Privilge05
Жыл бұрын
Literally… and Kendra acting like she just knows a gang of great ones which is why she isn’t married smh
@shawnstrickland7313
Жыл бұрын
U self hating black women need to take a accountability. However, if y’all don’t want to date black men, then don’t. No need to disrespect black men as a whole.
@zacharymartin3575
Жыл бұрын
She's picking wrong. She's just unwilling to accept responsibility.
@Privilge05
Жыл бұрын
@@shawnstrickland7313 accountability???.. baby I was blessed to find me a great man however as a black woman I’m not blind to what I have seen as well in my 42 43 years in nov years of life
@VonGoldfinger
Жыл бұрын
Keep on picking Pookie & Ray Ray and then hold every BM accountable.
@sonyahathaway9753
Жыл бұрын
My friends and I we’re having a conversation about the positive black male role models we had in childhood and none of us had any.
@candorsspot2775
Жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣
@NelsonAmadeus
Жыл бұрын
Pathetic LOL, I had an entire family tree of honorable and successful black men.
@shakinglikealoosewashingma675
Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅😂😂
@scottrogue946
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@dionthornw9838
Жыл бұрын
@ajt8967 it's not.. the original comment is from a family of losers. Their own words.
@MikeyDavis
Жыл бұрын
As a black man, with “all his stuff together”, I strongly support her position and ultimate decision.
@ammarie9167
Жыл бұрын
Can you explain what you mean by all your stuff together? No disrespect just seeing if it the same thing what women want.
@Betterdailyy
Жыл бұрын
I feel you bro! I’m in the same boat! Trying my hardest to stick to my race but it’s tough. So I understand what she means too.
@jasonwolfe3252
Жыл бұрын
Yeah let them deal with her. She's a bisexual baby mama that's already tried to hop the fence and it obviously didn't work out. Notice how she takes accountability for it not working out with them but is on here talking about bm not measuring up for the reason it doesn't work out with bm. I truly wish wm found them as marriageable as they find other non white women like they do Asians and Latinas. We'd all be better off.
@MikeyDavis
Жыл бұрын
@@ammarie9167 no disrespect taken. I mean by her personal definition of “all his stuff together”, she used that phrase a bunch of times and loosely defined it in such a way where I satisfied her definition. When you say “same thing that women want” I can’t really speak for women in a general sense, as women are not a monolith. I can find 5 women who want me, spin the block and find 5 who don’t. I might meet the height, income, hygiene, intelligence, residence, requirements for a woman, but then fail to accept Jesus as my lord and savior, so 🍍. I guess the best way to answer that concisely is to say it would not take me long to find a wife if I were in the market for one, just from my personal anecdotal experience.
@MikeyDavis
Жыл бұрын
@@jasonwolfe3252 Yea, the more she spoke the more gratuitous I became to, Chad, Carlos, Chaim, Chin, and Charat She’s really just misguided, and through her mid guidance, she’s made critically bad decisions that permanently lowered her value in a way obvious to every man but not obvious to her.
@kitaraislight7637
Жыл бұрын
She has to resolve the issues she has with her black father. Therapy might be helpful.
@trentmsteel
Жыл бұрын
Small town dudes usually have small town mindset. Search someplace else.
@hotandspicy1227
3 ай бұрын
She can't she's bound to her state due to custody issues...maybe someone is willing to relocate to her
@sheambitious29lachelle17
Жыл бұрын
The crazy thing is this woman is telling the truth. Sadly the “culture” needs some working on. Lot of them are mamas boys. The mom and sisters condone their mess. So many broken homes in the “black” community. But no one is talking about that, it’s not ONLY the black women that should work hard to keep the homes together. Ponder that.
@JD2.0N54
Жыл бұрын
Good luck on the other side.
@sheambitious29lachelle17
Жыл бұрын
@@JD2.0N54 I need no luck I am “MARRIED” I am black and I KNOW what I see, how many of our BLACK FATHERS are deceased or incarcerated? Oh ok
@freudianslip2192
Жыл бұрын
@@sheambitious29lachelle17 Why is a married woman watching a dating show? Smdh
@SpongePika
Жыл бұрын
@@freudianslip2192for real, go chill with your husband
@sheambitious29lachelle17
Жыл бұрын
@@freudianslip2192 Because life is FREE WILL LMAOOO
@moneil61
Жыл бұрын
If "black man" was the drinking game phrase we'd all be on the floor. Girl can TALK!!!
@LA-en1yz
Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅
@passerau
Жыл бұрын
She is difficult to deal with
@Sunflower_Shinee
Жыл бұрын
We would lol 😂
@elizabeth1657
Жыл бұрын
😂 that's funny
@heathab...._-_
Жыл бұрын
RIGHT! 🥴😵💫
@dialac1
Жыл бұрын
A black woman that has a negative view of her black father will NEVER EVER love or respect any black man. Period. The problem in her dating life is her. She should probably start batting for the other team.
@Heather_Huncho
6 ай бұрын
Your listening skills are poor. She already stated that she dates women and she never said she doesn’t respect her father
@nuimproves6906
Жыл бұрын
She is very well articulated. My dad is amazing as well. But there is duality. The general population of black men is extremely messed up. It’s sad honestly. And only a small percentage take accountability and acknowledge the degeneracy of black men withholding relationships instead of abandoning families.
@masterviper1880
Жыл бұрын
The women are worse and it's more women than men
@kojoboateng6755
Жыл бұрын
Its pathetic that average women like you with NOTHING to offer will open your stinky mouths and talk nonsense. Parasites and leaches, walking around looking for suckers to leach off. You're here defending this idiot. Instead leading with what she wants in a man, she's spending all her time talking down on black men. If the non-black men are Soo good for her, why isn't she with them but on here looking for a man, with a child in tow.
@jaygray6595
Жыл бұрын
The same can be said about blk women that a MAJORITY of them ARE MESSED UP AS WELL and only a SMALL MINORITY accept accountability and hold other women accountable which is sad
@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403
Жыл бұрын
54% childless and middle class and statistically the most involved fathers
@CharlieVendetta
Жыл бұрын
@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 54% childless? Than who is making all these babies in poor conditions? The majority of Blk women aren't sleeping with Mexican or white men.
@personalshopper2585
Жыл бұрын
She had way too many issues about black men, she should go on a dating show or dating app that has the majority of white men or non black men...I got tired of listening to her complain about black men, and then to find out she has layers of trauma from her father and also she likes women to, she is way to exhausting...
@loisbullock3151
11 ай бұрын
The bisexual part threw me for a loop. What if she told this to Blk men she dated, and it turned them way off. The man might have felt insulted. Just saying
@jayc5756
Жыл бұрын
Instead of vetting properly...she tries to blame it on bm. SMDH! 🤦♂️ Idk, she seem like she got some issues to be honest. She needs healing. I think she got some deep seeded issues with bm. Cause guys gonna do stupid guy shit regardless of race, most ppl know that. Cmon now. You hear how she talks about them and overly criticize bm just because. You need healing girl. FR
@thirty-eightandfeelinggrea9739
Жыл бұрын
I love when those women get green cards and 1/2
@melaninmadame
Жыл бұрын
I KNEW she was an Aquarius lol. She was detailed, realistic & fair to her experience
@Chris-hz3bt
Жыл бұрын
Cynthia G would be proud!!
@obibomaye7785
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Blessed1336
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@logicalspeaks5666
Жыл бұрын
Her story is real...and most black women experience the same issues she has...It is very sad...however, very true....Not all but most black women can align with her issues with the black man!
@tau566
Жыл бұрын
Go date out.
@LBFufuEata
11 ай бұрын
She’s 30 years old with an eight-year-old, what kind of results was she expecting to get out here?
@Sunflower_Shinee
Жыл бұрын
I love a black woman with boundaries, standards, and expectations. Who’s willing to stand in it regardless, but girl, I am on your side I am with you, because I’m not interested in black men either because of the same exact reasons.
@MarvAuthor
Жыл бұрын
That's great! Good luck.
@Sunflower_Shinee
Жыл бұрын
@@MarvAuthor thanks but no, thanks, I don’t need luck, I was just like a decent human being that’s a man, who’s not socialize like black men but thank you!
@joel205
Жыл бұрын
@Sunflower_Shinee good luck!! So long!! 😂😂😂😂
@Sunflower_Shinee
Жыл бұрын
@@joel205 Thank you and good luck to you and may the force be with you with black men !!!! Because the odds are not in your favor!
@xguy9999
Жыл бұрын
@@Sunflower_Shineeit’s black men, not black man 😂
@Shesspectacular
5 ай бұрын
This young lady represented herself very well spoke in great detail for many who understand even if you are not in her situation. She is in a small town where the dating pool is very limited. Even if she dates outside of her race does not guarantee that she will be compatible with the suitors that she is meeting. I don’t understand why that is so difficult to understand. I can appreciate both people trying to get their point, but her experience is her experience does not make it unusual.
@Ladylovebug26
Жыл бұрын
The representative wears off. I understand EXACTLY what she’s saying! After 3-4 months they start cracking at the seams. Then your called crazy for wanting to talk about it..
@patrickmiller4280
Жыл бұрын
She talked about what black men don't do, but she dated all races but didn't talk bad how about the other race it's always the black man. A white man what not put her in a Bentley a Buick probably. She does not take any accountability for the men that she chooses to go out with. If he moves to a different state there will be no different outcome, she was still be the same person and mindset so moving wouldn’t change.
@FreshGoodguy
Жыл бұрын
We are the only race that Publicly bashes our own people
@olafriday
Жыл бұрын
This!
@tpoppy9303
Жыл бұрын
Somebody has to say it...but its not like other races dont see the same thing. Every white woman i know who had a baby with a bm is a single mom.
@dlpurcell05
Жыл бұрын
The world has always portrayed black men as less then. We used to be able to find validation from our women. Now our women are leading the charge in diminishing our character, our worth. There is a discussion on here where a white man took a crap on all black men, and the black women gave him thumbs ups. WTH is going on in our race? How can you expect good experiences when interacting with people who you view as having minimal worth?
@MrsRease2011
Жыл бұрын
🎯
@Imhairforyeaux_75
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@Handleyours1344
Жыл бұрын
On behalf of ALL! Black men in the U.S we politely hand you over to the White community, white guys we thank you. 🙏
@geminimac613
Жыл бұрын
She said “all black men are trash” then wants you to believe she cares about black men
@Privilge05
Жыл бұрын
What’s the time stamp on that?
@foxyboop4164
Жыл бұрын
@@Privilge05There isn't one! There is, however, 8:33 and 11:33-11:40 she clearly say SHE WILL date a BM who qualifies for her expectations.
@foxyboop4164
Жыл бұрын
She NEVER said that, did you even listen?
@geminimac613
Жыл бұрын
@@foxyboop4164 she did…. Then tried to walk it back
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