Sounds a little more like he wants that chapter closed and the peeps gone. Seeing them every month would be like ripping a bandaid off, and then there’s always the chance the chick will be there too. Sell it dude, and walk away.
@xyzsame4081
3 жыл бұрын
they had an amical separation and he likes the tenants. They pay and take care of the property (he said they are clean, I guess that means also careful, take good care of it, would call if something is amiss instead of letting it deteriorate). He does not need to visit all the time, could ask if the ex is there (if that would be so terrible for him). if they have kids together they would see each other anyway.
@randymorrison1761
3 жыл бұрын
He does not live there. Why would he see them?
@stringerbell1702
3 жыл бұрын
It would be better to sell it to them.
@xenakaifinancevideos8650
3 жыл бұрын
Never loan money to family members and never rent out to family members.
@kurts3779
3 жыл бұрын
Very true.
@Bamapride1985
3 жыл бұрын
Never do Business dealings with family or close friends. They always think they deserve discounts or special dealings bc of the relationship and if you don't give them special treatment you are the bad guy.
@KennyakaTI
3 жыл бұрын
I mean if they're paying the rent on time I say why not. They aren't his in laws anymore.
@TonyTorzido
3 жыл бұрын
My father taught me, only lend money you don't expect to get back. 50% of the time, I haven't gotten paid back, but the 50% I did, I was surprised. I'm not rich, but gotta help them family and friends* come up together.
@titusjames4912
3 жыл бұрын
There are two sure ways to lose a friend, one is to borrow the other to lend. -Patrick Rothfuss
@invenio1978
3 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised Dave didn't ask if the ex-inlaws would just want to buy it from him. That's the first thing I would have asked. They seem to have a good relationship so why not offer them the opportunity to buy the property with a small discount. Everybody would be happy.
@tobyfitzpatrick565
3 жыл бұрын
The family can make an offer.
@invenio1978
3 жыл бұрын
@@tobyfitzpatrick565 It wasn't clear whether the ex-inlaws even know that he wants to sell and since they have been renting for many years, it would be unusual for them to suddenly bring up the issue. The caller (ie, seller) needs to bring it up and offer a starting point for price.
@kengy1991
3 жыл бұрын
Great point. Why not just sell it to them?
@tobyfitzpatrick565
3 жыл бұрын
@@invenio1978 Yes, that's what I meant... if the caller puts the house up for sale, the family can put in an offer. I didn't articulate having the house up for sale first because I figured that was a given.
@jovitarich7078
3 жыл бұрын
I would sell the house to the in-laws and I would give them the downpayment for it. End of story. Good things happen to those that bless others.
@jorgebalata2846
3 жыл бұрын
Caller : Should I keep renting out my propertie to my former in-laws or sell it ? Dave : sell the parents.
@aceoline
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@jpsytaccount
3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@BritBrat444
3 жыл бұрын
😂
@morganmeese9470
3 жыл бұрын
Love the profile pic 👍
@jorgebalata2846
3 жыл бұрын
@@morganmeese9470 thanks! It's really old from a KZitem channel that was popular in 2013
@TheRachag
3 жыл бұрын
Offer the family to buy it first... then sell it.
@EssentialOilStories
3 жыл бұрын
This is a great question, it's nice when it's not the same scenario you heard a hundred times.
@dylanimproveslife
3 жыл бұрын
Loaning/Renting to family members or people you are close to is never a good idea because you will have regrets whenever you have no choice but to kick them out and loaning/renting to them makes it very hard to kick them out when the time comes.
@bighands69
3 жыл бұрын
It can be fine as long as you are clear what the rules are and there is a contract in place. The problem he has there is no contract in place. He may have issues if they try to fight it when he tries to sell the property as they may start to make claims that they were actually paying the mortgage for him.
@kathleencooney1518
Жыл бұрын
I bought a rental house & rented it to my brother. All was fine for 3 years. He paid and he was neat, taking care of small repairs. Unbeknownst to me, he began doing drugs. Suddenly the rent stopped arriving, first late but then never. I it takes about 9 months to evict a person in California. I had to sell it. I had my own mortgage to pay. That was the 80s when interest rose to nearly 20%. So, I sold it quickly and paid capital gains. NEVER rent to a relative. My brother hit rock bottom eventually and we no longer speak.
@gcf5434
3 жыл бұрын
a 450 a month mortgage payment!!! omg. that's a dream.
@DarthFurie
3 жыл бұрын
He said it's in a one-stoplight town so... that helps, lol
@MillionaireMindsetClub
3 жыл бұрын
The title is rather deceiving. He loves his ex in-laws! 😅
@Oxnate
3 жыл бұрын
Well, his ex is his ex. Legally speaking, in-laws are your in-laws forever. It's weird.
@alicelaybourne1620
3 жыл бұрын
@@Oxnate Is that really a thing? My sister hasn't even divorced yet (after two years) and I don't use the term at all. Feels natural to lose the term "brother in law"
@DarthFurie
3 жыл бұрын
@@Oxnate they're not his in-laws anymore, because there is no longer a LAW creating their relationship, since he's divorced their child
@lorisquires5038
3 жыл бұрын
My now husband's ex mother in law was renting his house several years after the divorce. We were/are on good terms. However, we had to look to the future. Did we want to keep a house that we didn't want so that she could stay there? Did we drag it out another 5-10 years and move her at 70?Better to have a gentle discussion and set expectations early on. *We sold. She got a garden apartment and we still have a good relationship.
@samanthasmiles9112
3 жыл бұрын
If you want to sell, sell. This man has every right to close this chapter in his life. Its your home and you owe your ex's family nothing. Whoever dates this guy is going to hate this situation and whoever his ex wife is dating will feel the same. Move on.
@michaelvanhorn3271
3 жыл бұрын
Sell it to the in laws! Even at a discount
@TheLuxeTraveler702
3 жыл бұрын
If it ain't broke don't break it. Keep making money on it.
@joycew.6531
2 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly !!!!!!!
@hzuiel
3 жыл бұрын
No debt, freshly out of a bad marriage, and makes 105, this guy's life is many people's envy.
@hzuiel
Жыл бұрын
@Art Garfunkle I honestly don't remember precisely why I made this comment a year or more ago, but something can be the envy of many without being something you'd be proud of. If I remember right it did sound like he came out from this bad marriage a lot cleaner than most. I've seen some men that were wrecked by a rough divorce.
@anthonya2349
3 жыл бұрын
Real reason, I have a new girl friend and the fact that they are in there makes it problematic for me.
@ThePeacefulbutterfly
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@magicworld3242
3 жыл бұрын
Bingo ☺️
@cassietheboss9211
3 жыл бұрын
Or it make financial sense to rid them🤷
@DarthFurie
3 жыл бұрын
Well he's divorced, so honestly that's his business now 🤷🏻♀️
@traceyreed9167
3 жыл бұрын
This was my first thought
@benb7727
3 жыл бұрын
Ask them if they would consider a lease to own? Or maybe sell it to them under owner finance. Lots of ways to dump the property without dumping the occupants.
@cam4short
3 жыл бұрын
This is a great idea!
@bighands69
3 жыл бұрын
The fact they are older and living in rental and relying on it signifies that they do not have the ability to buy them self. He may end up with lots of issues when trying to get them out of the property and he will need a good administrate evidence to show that he is outright owner of the property.
@geezy4000
3 жыл бұрын
My wife's family has a couple of ex wives and ex girlfriends that all stay in touch and help each other out and all still treat each other like family. Weird at first but if people are honest and have a good heart the in ex inlaw title means nothing.
@ErwinSchrodinger64
3 жыл бұрын
geezy4000 people tend to tell me that I'm so how a cruel person for doing the opposite. I want to be clear, in a lot of situations, it's because they act oppositely of what you stated. Unfortunately, extended family, especially when it's not your bloodline, in many cases, can become parasitic. So kudos to you for having a family that actually supports themselves.
@martinsloan9785
3 жыл бұрын
Caller: I need to evict my in-laws. Dave: sell the truck.
@SilenceSlayer224
3 жыл бұрын
Offer to sell it to them. A well written rent to own contract would protect him if the price dips and they get to stay where they are for around the same price. Everybody wins. He could even use some of the payment he has recieved to entice them to sign the contract. He sounds like he trusts them and they have mutual respect.
@RJRussoVids
3 жыл бұрын
Rents to his ex in-laws, doesn’t have a lease and it’s in a one traffic light town. Selling is a no brainer.
@jillpruett4772
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like an Aussie style divorce where everyone stays on the same page.
@listenquitely2888
3 жыл бұрын
Just say you are planning on selling the house and see if they want to buy.
@Dbeaves2493
3 жыл бұрын
Why do you need to sell it for a down payment... You make 105k and don't pay rent..
@yemialemu9902
3 жыл бұрын
Spot on!
@dabd8175
3 жыл бұрын
He greedy
@investinstyle-financeinves1181
3 жыл бұрын
Opportunity cost is huge. If you believe you can make a better return elsewhere, sell the house.
@KlotesMods
3 жыл бұрын
painful listening to this guy trying to explaim himself
@Yaya-cl3tu
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. The constant stammering almost made me quit the discussion.
@cheechong5969
3 жыл бұрын
@@Yaya-cl3tu it happens. He's human. He likely doesn't sit in front of a camera and on a phone day in and day out. No telling if he has anxiety or even a natural stutter. Quit being so judgmental its disgusting.
@tenilleottley3973
3 жыл бұрын
Stammering and blubbering
@enlightenedidiot9552
3 жыл бұрын
When you loan friends or family money, just consider it a gift. If you can't, don't loan it out at all...
@Just_Hu
3 жыл бұрын
Very true, Im learning that the hard way haha...
@musicpro7278
3 жыл бұрын
@@Just_Hu same lol and it's hard cause is family and I feel bad saying no to them
@jc23858369
3 жыл бұрын
Ask the renters if they would be interested in buying the place. They may be, if not it will get them in the mindset of you selling the place.
@oldfordman68
3 жыл бұрын
Offer it to them first and save the agent fees
@Jose-hz4zf
3 жыл бұрын
He could also sell the home to the ex wife family
@DBSSTEELER
3 жыл бұрын
He should kick them out, sell the house and get out of Minneapolis.
@PacificExpressions
3 жыл бұрын
“My ex-wife’s family are great renters don’t ya know.” Too nice, probably got cheated on
@jetthelooter
3 жыл бұрын
Sounding nice doesnt mean you are nice. A huge portion of serial killers seem like super nice people.... always takes two to have a fight.
@BeastNoVA24s
3 жыл бұрын
How about you offer to sell them the property first and if they don't want it they gotta go.
@adamguymon7096
3 жыл бұрын
One I would ask them to sign a lease. Two I would've to say that if they listen to this show then you may have no choice but to talk to them? 🤣🏠
@jameswalker5645
3 жыл бұрын
This guy sounds like he's going to break down although I can understand his apprehension because he actually cares about these people
@dandersen464
3 жыл бұрын
Dave got this guy stumbling
@SavvyCouponSecrets
3 жыл бұрын
Ask the renters if they’re interested in buying the property.
@ramenandgyoza702
3 жыл бұрын
Offer to sell the house to the in laws? Maybe they can come up with the money to purchase it
@nanaannabelgn2771
3 жыл бұрын
Dave, why are you turning it into a fight.
@alicelaybourne1620
3 жыл бұрын
I think I agree with you. I mean, just say "I need to move on, but I don't want to put you guys out. Do you want to buy it from me? If not, let's talk about the future." Sounds like he likes them, and doesn't want a fight.
@---cr8nw
3 жыл бұрын
Sell the house. Don't sell it to the ex-in-laws. Don't do business with family or friends. The fact that you made that mistake before doesn't mean you should keep making it.
@Smokey187um1
3 жыл бұрын
The house is paying for itself just leave them in it till it’s paid off. 10k per year in rental income will clear it easily and give you some profit. Plus you have a safety net if your job goes wrong.
@tristanrodenhauser5267
3 жыл бұрын
Why not offer to sell the house to them? The mortgage will replace paying rent.
@Devinfrbs
3 жыл бұрын
Sit on it and make the money if you like the renters. Even if the property isn't increasing, you're still cash flowing.....
@mogetit5999
3 жыл бұрын
If they are good renters what’s the problem?! And if you don’t need the money why sell now? Keep it and make it work for you for passive income for life
@bettysmith4527
3 жыл бұрын
Jesus, spit it out buddy!
@dcg590
5 ай бұрын
i know. so hard to listen to
@privateprivate8366
3 жыл бұрын
I think he needs to decide whether he wants a whole or partial severance from his ex-wife’s family. That he needs to decided whether he wants to remain adhered to them, financially or to move on with his life, in its entirety. It is, however, one reason why I’d never rent a house from a single homeowner. They can do anything from have a change in life plans, like a financial epiphany, to losing their mind and you, as the renter, can have your life utterly upset my this.
@randymorrison1761
3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Up until now I have always thought private owners were better
@randymorrison1761
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@sinx2200
3 жыл бұрын
Before watching the video: YES after the video: YES 🤣
@goalie2998
3 жыл бұрын
Houses in general don't depreciate. They can need updating etc. But generally speaking you would get your value back. It may not appreciate in value substantially though.
@crow-vz5lx
2 жыл бұрын
Oh my god good his studder!!
@JPROP-vb7sv
2 жыл бұрын
Dude sell the house. I bought in 2009 and the home STILL in 2022 isn't worth what I paid for it.
@ethanwright2981
3 жыл бұрын
If you don't need the money.... and the goal long term is to use it towards a down payment for your own house.... Just let them stay, keep getting the cash flow and free equity. Then once you're ready to buy a house, 1031 that property into your new house, then you avoid the gains taxes. Unless I'm missing something.
@davedave1064
3 жыл бұрын
I say keep renting it out as long as you can. If they decide to move than sell it. The value may not go up but it's not likely to go down either. What's the hurry. The rent is paying for it and then some.
@judymckee5992
3 жыл бұрын
business is business, good renter keep them.
@blackspiderman1887
Жыл бұрын
If they are good tenants I would give them at least 6 months
@StrawberryFieldsNIR
2 ай бұрын
It does not sound like he has any pressing need to sell it (other than making more money in different investments), and it will probably sour relationships all around (the ex in-laws, the ex wife) if he were to pull a 30-day selling stunt (in a small town, it won't sell in 30 days anyway, and be left vacant and then run down). Things are ticking along without problems, and it sounds like it could rock the boat. If he wants to pull money out, could he offer to sell it to them? As a former renter whose rental was put on the market, it is a horrible thing to be 'inspection ready' at all times, you have no peace or relaxation. I even had one person knock on the door out of the blue to "look around" (I said "no, you must go through the agent").
@jamesdean6744
3 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@dancalmpeaceful3903
3 жыл бұрын
As long as they keep paying....but yeah....if he no longer wants it.....warn them a year in advance.......
@veramae4098
3 ай бұрын
Anyone else remember the "All in the Family" episode about blight? New lines had been drawn. If his house was across the street he'd have been fine. But the house was just inside the line so his homeowner's insurance went thru the roof. Archie was enraged to be stereotyeped.
@alphathefirstone1222
3 жыл бұрын
The only thing that ties to you anyone for life is a child... all other things can be settle. If he has no children with his ex wife. Then he needs to sell or evict them. Either one..but they got to get out of his life.. He making good money , sound like he has no alimony payments.. he love his career.. it time to move on....from all of it.. Sell or Kick them out...just that simple...B1.
@thedrummersclub3667
3 жыл бұрын
Why Fix it when it’s not broken? Nothing wrong with owning leveraged real estate that is paying for itself. Don’t be an idiot.
@magicworld3242
3 жыл бұрын
Chad's ex-wife must be horrible or he's not telling something 🤷
@bangladeshirealtor
3 жыл бұрын
guy sounds like a wreck ....dude just offer seller financing to the current occupants and call it a day
@JFDSmit-rm6tw
3 жыл бұрын
"No friends and family in business and no business between friends and family." Not a Godly command, but a good way to keep relationships from ruining because of money.
@Jon_Doe
3 жыл бұрын
why does he think he could sell it now wit no problem but not later ? he must alrdy have a buyer or he has anxiety
@_yourstruly7728
Ай бұрын
They’re not his family anymore so he doesn’t owe them anything 🤷🏽♀️
@SavageBunny1
3 жыл бұрын
Just sell it to them, everyone is happy, sucks about the 12k.
@veronicakorth4062
3 жыл бұрын
Daves eyes when the caller says my ex wife's family.. LOL !! Definitely should see if they want to buy it from him !!!
@thefirebuilds
3 жыл бұрын
"thanks for taking my call." "it's my job." - Ron Bennington
@Arizona_lilly
3 жыл бұрын
Omfg... pooor guy wanna be my husband LOL my parents house paid off
@lifeofadividendinvestor1206
3 жыл бұрын
Yes punt them just like you punted your ex wife. Wow why would you even ask this.
@IanUnderwood1974
3 жыл бұрын
It sounds like he just wants to cut ties, and I don’t blame him.
@jwebby85
3 жыл бұрын
Eh eh eh eh uh uh uh uh only only only only budeep budeep budeep that’s all folks.
@Phyoomz
3 жыл бұрын
Short Answer: Yes. Long Answer: YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS 😂😂😂
@mariad4183
Ай бұрын
What about an offer to sell to them? No doubt this would soften the blow
@lancevance2005
3 жыл бұрын
Do it
@sunnydays4966
3 жыл бұрын
Just sell it with then in it. Problem solve.
@danielsnyder3086
3 жыл бұрын
Can the x in-laws purchase the property?
@tineeashmon9223
3 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with helping family and friends. They do need help sometimes. Pluse don't let bad experience control our decisions. Never know who we might need. We are still in a PANDEMIC. LOVE IS THE WAY. Irregardless
@ColemanColvin
3 жыл бұрын
Dave has learned the art of the clickbait
@lorenzovonmatterhorn7402
Жыл бұрын
Ofcourse.. its Chad :D
@tammygarrett8427
2 жыл бұрын
offer it to the in-laws to buy from you dude
@Chromewarrior
3 жыл бұрын
I swear, sometimes people just call in for an attaboy 😎
@MP-nj1qy
3 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😅LoL
@jomama3804
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe the in laws would be interested
@TheRealEdStoner
Жыл бұрын
The first thing he needs to do is sell his car.
@edcrespo1722
3 жыл бұрын
T-t-t-today junior !!
@Tyrisanders
3 жыл бұрын
I shouldn’t have laughed 😂
@Peterpickle2009
3 жыл бұрын
Yup
@gncc600
3 жыл бұрын
Didn’t watch the video but the answer is yes.... lol
@housephone8646
3 жыл бұрын
😂
@jessiewilliams1440
Ай бұрын
Fuck I’d pay 700 a month for a house
@jessiewilliams1440
Ай бұрын
Where in mn he said he from Minneapolis
@madmarv2129
Жыл бұрын
Wish there was a follow up
@thehearthofguldan5487
3 жыл бұрын
ez explanation: he is a chad
@throughmyshadow
2 жыл бұрын
A house for $105K wow.
@luannkelly5071
3 жыл бұрын
I would separate from the inlaws asap before things go south, and eventually they will. Obviously, the situation has been bothering him. Personal experience with wonderful inlaws.
@pep590
3 жыл бұрын
Minneapolis??? People still live there? I thought it was already burnt to a cinder.
@donaldrichey3318
3 жыл бұрын
I am sorry but he says one thing but he is doing something completely different. If he loves his in laws he wouldn’t be trying to kick them out so quick.
@NPAMike
3 жыл бұрын
Offer them first chance to buy the house, if they can pay the rent i don't see why they couldn't afford a mortgage.
@danielvasquez3758
3 жыл бұрын
Move on man. Start a new chapter of your life. They may be good people but they’re people from a past that you don’t want to reminisce about.
@randallanimal
3 жыл бұрын
What's a row house?
@Allan_A
3 жыл бұрын
Long, skinny house on a lot the width of a garage, in a row with other similar houses with the outer walls touching. Townhouses are like row houses, but each house in a row house is unique and can be torn down independent of the others, unlike a townhouse.
@Marilynefc
3 жыл бұрын
Interesting topic!
@mbr4059
3 жыл бұрын
I'm going to go get the papers, the papers...
@davidchrist428
3 жыл бұрын
Hey tony two time!! lolol
@KC-dr3cg
3 жыл бұрын
If the family likes the place enough to rent it maybe they would buy it. Giving them a price discount might make the whole process better.
@derek3992
3 жыл бұрын
Make them a good deal to buy the house.. make it like a rent to own deal if they want it... its a good place to start at least..
@zoozooni1
3 жыл бұрын
Why not sell it to them? Straight out purchase or owner financing, either way.
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