Kung mahal mo sarili mo, do not get into a situationship. Ask them what is your label. If it's not mutual, end it.
@riaapanlilio8327
Ай бұрын
@@KaGeeSandamukal yesss 💯 never settle for less
@wilsnxbrnt
2 ай бұрын
For me, it's a big fat NO to situationships. Medical Student na nga ako, so stressful na nga yung buhay ko HAHA. I'm already worried about becoming a Doctor, tska ayoko pa ma stress dahil sa mga pointless na situationships. Either we'll support each other and grow together for the long haul, or let's not do anything at all.
@urstoff6352
Ай бұрын
That's why theres limitations and boundaries. We must learn to differentiate friendship to romantic relationships, because if we're not careful, we'll fall into a trap and we can get hurt in the process. Learn to communicate and express with each other, don't beat around the bush and assume. If you can't handle the flame, don't lit up the fire.
@Halaaray15239
Ай бұрын
pake namin
@im_jors
Ай бұрын
grabe punch after punch yung feeling habang pinapanood to HAHAHAHAHAHA bugbog sarado ako pagtapos SHET NAMAN I HATE MODERN ROMANCEEE I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED 😭
@justmeagain9302
Ай бұрын
This modern romance is normalizing things that shouldn't be normalized bruhhhh
@WhereStephyWent
2 ай бұрын
Getting into a situationship is DEFINITELY not for the weak. You can't deny it but at some point either one of you will catch feelings talaga kaya if you wanna get into it or try it, your boundaries should be stronger than your feelings 'cos it's all fun and games until you're getting your feelings hurt.
@30ishSingleTito
Ай бұрын
Situationship would work perfectly for those who can communicate and be honest with their feelings. If there's no communication and honesty between 2 people involve.. it could be an emotional torture. 😅
@marizyoon
Ай бұрын
Alex D does really understand how situationships work. Totally agree on most of his stand. Truly not for everybody but works for people who can openly communicate about their mutual understandings. If you're heart and mind can't handle it, just don't enter lang. Definitely not for people looking for romance.
@alwaysligaya1028
2 ай бұрын
Been in a situationship for almost half a year. It was one hell of a roller coaster ride. I was constantly debating whether to "stick around and see where this goes" or "this is a waste of time, I should let go". Kasi, there's this hope that what if the other person would change his mind and commit, although it was clear from the very beginning that things would not escalate. In my case, my hopes became delusions, and I stayed longer than I should. Every time I almost reach the finish line, he would draw a line and push me backwards. So yeah, my efforts were futile. (Fortunately?) He ended it, and I'm still here sa ere, with all my what ifs, why, and could've beens.
@aliceinwonderland5433
Ай бұрын
Pano ba i end
@SeanOwen-bs4zx
Ай бұрын
di ka nag iisa
@Kobedoooo
Ай бұрын
👻 @@aliceinwonderland5433
@krstnnsro
Ай бұрын
aw. hugs!! :((
@henrow5615
Ай бұрын
ako ang target audience ng video na ito. thanks recreate!!
@alyssaramirez5834
2 ай бұрын
but everything defo boils down to what y'all r comfy with, as long as y'all know ur boundaries
@vinavina9126
2 ай бұрын
it takes a very matured and well placed individual to have a Situationship. it is possible but not for everyone. gawin mo kung kaya mo. kung gusto mo ng commitment, huwag. it's a preference
@urstoff6352
Ай бұрын
I think it's more mature if your intention is date to marry. Cause in situationships there's a high probability that its either you or the other party would get hurt eventually, cause you can't stop your feelings in the long run. I don't agree on Situationships, it shouldn't even be encouraged, for me it's like playing with each other's feelings.
@producedbyjayzziii
2 ай бұрын
Situationships are more like connections; but less considered as relationships.
@rheanjunebermudorj
Ай бұрын
I love how people open up to different kinds of discussions like this; it just makes me feel so curious, or you can learn from each other’s opinions and perspectives towards how they feel and what’s on their mind related to the topics they’re talking about. Love this channel u deserve a sub!!!
@buggiemara4902
Ай бұрын
A situationship is only a situationship if you consider it a situationship. If both parties are mature naman and communicate constantly about their feelings, walang magiging problema. Pero if one person falls in love with the other, and the other doesn't want to reciprocate, boom... SITUATIONSHIP.
@NessaTace
Ай бұрын
Nagsasayang ka ng oras at buhay mo. Ika nga you deserve what you tolerate 😌
@ekaramel
Ай бұрын
Run. Leave. ASAP. Know your worth. Never settle for half-a$$ commitment. Save yourself from this sh*t. We deserve only the BEST.
@xeycodilla4548
2 ай бұрын
situationship is more like a combination of "situation" and a "relationship", basically refers to "situational relationship".
@urstoff6352
Ай бұрын
If Situationships are normalized, there would be more heartbreaks than there already are. Clear Relationship > Situationship
@mark_atong
Ай бұрын
Situationships have no commitments so there are no expectations. Depende sa communication ng people involved naman. If you are catching feelings you need to discuss it if you are on the same page. I don’t get why people are pressed
@ayanokoji9889
Ай бұрын
been there for 5 months and I would never ever do something that stupid again. Nafall ako sa kanya and hindi pwde we decided to end it nalang but those 5 months na magkasama kami was pure bliss my heart was full of joy and love. Hope you're happy now.
@user-re2nf1fp9j
Ай бұрын
kala ko naulan, mga luha ko lang pala 😢
@jigz2305
2 ай бұрын
Ang pogi nung naka salamin na naka brown
@jathbarcia671
2 ай бұрын
so sarap siya no! 😋
@violet5114
Ай бұрын
Maybe kasi you have limerence while meeting a person or being in a situationship kaya di ka makaalis and you keep holding on to that fantasy na what if it develops to something you wanted. Kaya you have to get out from Limerence first. But of course if you meet someone dapat you're on the same page kapag friends with benefits lang, hanggang don lang talaga, sa movies and dramas lang yan nadedevelop pero in real life, wala yan. Ang lalaki pa naman kapag sinabing ayaw, ayaw talaga. No one can change their decisions the same with fixing anyone or saving someone. Kaya when dating, dapat clear sa intensyon, if they wanna see what happens, give it 1-3 months then magtanong na kayo if you want serious or fun lang? Make sure you're on the same page otherwise baka magkaiba kayo ng gusto, nafall ka na ng sobra, masasaktan ka talaga in the end.
@riaapanlilio8327
Ай бұрын
You guys should not settle in situationships :(( because we deserve to be purely love, commitment and give 100% assurance! you guys are worth it! know your worth!
@the_cha
Ай бұрын
enjoy while it lasts na lang HAHAHAH
@cjxvi
Ай бұрын
Well it’s definitely for the people who don’t want to commit and only want the good time in a relationship and when bad times come then they can just ditch
@Vanessa-om7vk
Ай бұрын
Ngayon ko na lang nakita si Alex ulit! Anyway, situationship is like MU lng naman for me. Don't cage yourself to one person if you know na wala talagang kayo.
@Keyd.cx99
28 күн бұрын
Situationship is like when you’re with someone, but not really. It's confusing, time-wasting, and can hurt your feelings. It's better to be clear about what you want and move on if it's not working out. Bottom line: Don't settle for less than you deserve.
@kassandraarana4650
Ай бұрын
recreate did it again and im so happy and satisfied with this vid AHAHAHAHAHA
@maekylaj
Ай бұрын
How does situationship even start and how to avoid it
@sophiaordas8700
2 ай бұрын
WAHAHDHSHSHAHA MAGKABILL AGAINST SITUATIONSHIP 😭😭😭
@user-er5eg9yq9b
Ай бұрын
Ang well spoken ni Alex
@shushi4459
2 ай бұрын
Our generation is so cooked haha
@justmytwocentsdontgetmad
Ай бұрын
"Situationship" is just some new term coined by hipsters. It's just synonymous to being in an "Open Relationship" or "No Strings Attached Relationship". IMO they're just people who are too immature / afraid of making commitments and responsibilities, yet crave for an intimate relationship (aka "Needy People") 🤷♂You shouldn't waste your time with those guys tbh
@justmeagain9302
Ай бұрын
I've been in this situationship before and to tell you frankly, there's really no clear indication of the "outcome" unless someone actually has the guts to make it official. The winners are those who leaves first and the losers are those who's realized it too late. It's a downward spiral, I've been in the shorter end of the stick haha really if ur currently stuck i suggest just go all out or go somewhere else.
@israelsarmiento1292
27 күн бұрын
How about for those in a situationship because of the parents? I mean, i was the one who experiencing it right now, i am a man that loves another man, and mahal na mahal namin ang isa't isa, pero we're still in a situationship dahil baka hindi daw sya matatanggap ng magulang nya na lalake rin ang mahal nya, kaya naiintindihan ko naman sya. Last July 26 ang huli naming pag uusap, kasi he decided to stop the connection between us, pero he said na babalik sya kapag maayos na at klaro na ang lahat sa kanya, and a true love has a true trust, kaya nagtitiwala ako sa kanya na mahal nya ako at mahal ko sya.
@rnedxy04
12 күн бұрын
dapat nagshow up to sa youtube suggestion ko earlier ☹️
@darondeeTV
Ай бұрын
Napakakumplikado na ng mga bagay ngayon. Nung panahon namin "syota" lang tawag jan.. 😂
@titodean8072
17 күн бұрын
Ang saket!
@applicationpurpose3602
Ай бұрын
Situationships is the upgrade version of Mutual Understanding. People justifying the situationship 🤡🤡🤡🤡
@onenetshop8222
Ай бұрын
just go with the flow ikaw nga
@ronalynlaxamana7068
2 ай бұрын
sorry po di po nagpiplay yung video ayaw talaga mag play hahahahahaha
@jaquemartinez7822
Ай бұрын
I am not aloneeee! 😢 It's been 9 months in this kind of situation thinking that it might lead to something serious but it is not slowburn or what lol. Our gen is doomed!
@clebs6118
Ай бұрын
ALEX DIAAAZZZ
@beesechurger606
Ай бұрын
Do not get into situationships if you are that type of person na seryoso sa relasyon :) sa totoo lang ang hirap mag-heal... hayy haha
@joyp228
2 ай бұрын
So. Fubu din to, iniba lang yun term?
@miyaka54
2 ай бұрын
nah, fubu are plainly transactional sexually. Situationships have emotional connection but not to the point na mag cocommit ka
@rayapura3387
Ай бұрын
sort of
@user-dv9xx3yy8v
Ай бұрын
@@miyaka54mutual understanding sa panahon ng millennials or friends with benefits ata
@polen7455
Ай бұрын
Fubu is literally fuck buddies. For fuck lang. Situationship is putting yourself in a couple/jowa situation, pero without the official label.
@kylequisquisan8023
Ай бұрын
ang ganda
@mialim4079
18 күн бұрын
the green shirt siya ba yong sumali sa expecially for you today is his name NOAH?
@jvchelinl.edombingo7613
Ай бұрын
This is us 😭. I did pranka him about this. I said that I know my worth. We shouldn't do this in the first place because parang may relationship kami pero gusto nya pa daw matapos yung college nya pero wala talagang label
@johnpaulorallo1956
2 ай бұрын
Napakapogi ni Alex
@christopheraquino7911
2 ай бұрын
Situationships pala kami. Hahaha. Pero I think both ways agreed naman, kase as of now masaya naman kaso kulang hahaha.
@user-ng7qc3ti4k
Ай бұрын
Cmon you guys are dating already. Dating lang naman kayo not married.
@danicasumalinog2256
Ай бұрын
Is mutual understanding the same with situationship?
@dailymobaaddict
Ай бұрын
This generation is making things complicated by creating words that are as simple as 123 to explain. This is why our society is doomed. You make a big deal out of a very simple problem to avoid headaches. RIP future generations."
@markgumayao1656
Ай бұрын
karamihan nyan ay nasa japan... ayaw nila ng responsibility 😆
sa mga sagot palang ni alex, alam mong red flag eh 😂
@Jeson-z9b
Ай бұрын
Ask questions, How long the situationship will last?
@alimajeam6905
Ай бұрын
Pano po kami 6 yrs na ganito and ako na po yung pumutol kasi wala eh nafall hahaha
@rajidtesorero4346
Ай бұрын
in a situationship for 2 years and counting.. what a stupid move
@rajidtesorero4346
Ай бұрын
already ended it after commenting this HAHAHHAA
@aliceinwonderland5433
Ай бұрын
HOW TO END?
@joshabrogena1240
Ай бұрын
lmao all i got from this is it's just so weird and ironic like how else would the term situationship have developed if not for it being this complicated limbo, a whole range of different things that are very specific to the people involved. people shouldn't mistake it as dating or as hooking up or as plain fwb either. it was better described as "It's Complicated" back then. everyone's "situationship" should be their own that's just basically it in fact fk it this even extends to "serious" relationships and marriage, as it's ultimately up to the people involved to decide and declare what their commitment is about. if either person is getting a whole lot of beating around the bush, or nothing when they seek to communicate and get answers about the relationship then they're just in a nothing. unfortunately there will always be people who are out to play in varying degrees of effort and intent, unfortunately they tend to be inconsiderate
@sarschelle02
Ай бұрын
a little too late 😩
@LourizeAlcoran
Ай бұрын
Ouch naman hahahaha
@chrisberondo905
Ай бұрын
Ito na ba ang Gen Z term ng Friends with benefits or Fuck buddy? Nag debate pa yan dn namam ang gist
@KathyIgnacioVargas-sw1cp
Ай бұрын
situationships is the new term of MU?.
@GavinVladimir
Ай бұрын
Oh come on, stop encouraging thissss sobrang anti-self love.
@denpogi10
2 ай бұрын
ewan ko sa inyo ...basta ako maraming crush 😁
@maekylaj
Ай бұрын
How to avoid situationship
@cjxvi
Ай бұрын
Build boundaries, always clarify and define the relationship
@SeanOwen-bs4zx
Ай бұрын
awts natamaan na naman ako tangina pano ba maka move on kaagad sa situationship?
@user-ng7qc3ti4k
Ай бұрын
Whats the point of talking and being with them if its not dating already? Like ppl nowadays make things complicated. Why would you give your time and energy to someone you're not dating with? Gosh
@user-ng7qc3ti4k
Ай бұрын
Due to being too available and social media giving access to someone is a privilege already.
@user-ng7qc3ti4k
Ай бұрын
Ppl who engaged this kind of idea are problematic.
@user-ng7qc3ti4k
Ай бұрын
Its more like a puppy love lang😭 parang elementary pupil.
@user-ng7qc3ti4k
Ай бұрын
I remember being like this during elementary. Sobrang pang bata. And i know i have my first love when i was in high school cause i only have that peculiar feeling for that person na talagang sa kanya ko lang na feel compare sa mga puppy love ko before. Its unconditional with friendship and respect.
@flipgalrn
2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@lakwatsaerox6050
Ай бұрын
bottomline... gamitan lang. not healthy not recommendable. such a waste of time.
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