Thank you for your wisdom and knowledge. Seasoned woman still learning. My young sista’s Please listen and learn and apply.
@talkswitTK
4 жыл бұрын
Yesssssss
@missgoodenergy
4 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@AuthoressRedd
4 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@christalintentions
4 жыл бұрын
The spelling is perfect!!! We need shirts!! 😂
@MichaeldBenefield
4 жыл бұрын
"I DONT CARE IF HE AN "AMPUTEE" HE WILL ROLL THAT WHEELCHAIR TO YA!! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😅😅
@katherineroberts5698
4 жыл бұрын
Yes Indeed!! I like that.
@nikkirowland
4 жыл бұрын
🤣😂😂
@aliseclkkc
4 жыл бұрын
🤣😆😂
@andreamagyar7776
4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@JGIgirl
4 жыл бұрын
😅😂😅😂😅😂
@nickbry7357
4 жыл бұрын
If he like you he will come and get you Ladies!!
@cherylbrown9456
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. They will let you know.
@lhazel2
4 жыл бұрын
Yup!... No need to do the work , he'll do it ...
@lhazel2
4 жыл бұрын
@Linda Hines uh a man Linda Are you following what the topic is Love
@kimgordon3695
4 жыл бұрын
So very TRUE! Nick. My Man drives a few hours round-trip to be w Me!
@kimgordon3695
4 жыл бұрын
Tony, You make me smile So big when you do the Contrite woman voice... lol ❤
@SimplyJennshops
4 жыл бұрын
You're right when I met my husband I visited his place of worship and he saw me and when I was in my car driving away he ran out to my car to get my number ..we been married 21 years now so it's TRUE that they approach if they want u..he called me that same day when I got home. Love your videos
@joyobessa1364
4 жыл бұрын
Niiiice and beautiful love story 😍🙏
@SimplyJennshops
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@bodiendominique400
4 жыл бұрын
That's so romantic
@kristinabrickey4446
4 жыл бұрын
Simply Jenn ..but 21 years ago. The convo is about how the game has changed.
@bodiendominique400
4 жыл бұрын
@@kristinabrickey4446 When he says that a man who wants you willl approach you, he's talking about today
@SB-tr7wv
4 жыл бұрын
I don't think all of these men are spoiled. Alot of them were poorly raised and narcissistic
@NicoleDaniella001
4 жыл бұрын
Nobody Will Marry yes they are
@nia3543
4 жыл бұрын
@Nobody Will Marry Me, Why did you choose to call yourself Nobody Will Marry Me?
@m.williams3497
4 жыл бұрын
You’re name will be your fate 😳
@MariposaMorada
4 жыл бұрын
@@m.williams3497 Yes...I was gonna say...please change that!
@SB-tr7wv
4 жыл бұрын
It's a sarcastic you tube name, lol
@amaj_lex
4 жыл бұрын
Last time I tried to pursue a man he told me I remind him of a 12 year old and there are prettier women out there. I'm not doing that ish again lol. I will be single until a man pursue me, period!
@adabekeethefirst8705
4 жыл бұрын
Massagebyamaja LLC ouch!!!
@amaj_lex
4 жыл бұрын
@@adabekeethefirst8705 lmao it was brutal
@shannenluevelle7331
4 жыл бұрын
It’s ok to look young. You’re very pretty, his loss! A man that arrogant wouldn’t make a good husband anyways 😂
@m.d594
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen you comment this before. You need to let this go. It’s okay your still valuable girl. Always will be.
@pinkishdiamondz
4 жыл бұрын
@@m.d594 her point is to get the word out... This is my FIRST time seeing it. She's beautiful and he obviously had issues...as a lot of these men do. It will help keep women from making the same mistake.
@amariseshalina776
4 жыл бұрын
I don't chase, don't date, the game is real out here, these men are pimpin to get paid by manipulative talking.
@simplyena8832
4 жыл бұрын
@TravelingDiva2018 That is awesome!!! I wish I was at your level now.
@moriahaddison
4 жыл бұрын
TravelingDiva2018 I love that !!!
@thechristiansocialite1222
4 жыл бұрын
I don't care what he looks like, don't have, do have, smell good, don't smell good...if he want you, he will pursue. He will pursue you whatsoever he want from you. Whether good or bad intentions. Whatever he's intentions, he will pursue. You "ladies" have to found out why he's interested. What's his intentions. Take your time with these men. Don't ignore your intuition. It's never wrong.
@michelleohara8564
3 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@quathetruth8314
Жыл бұрын
If he wants you and is confident he can provide for you he will pursue. A man can want you real bad but his confidence level isn’t high enough to pursue you in the way he wishes to. Women are doing their thing and men are intimidated. A lot of these men are online dating because it’s easy to meet, date and hookup without having to provide for her. Unfortunately modern women have made it easy for men to conquer them. So they remain in a lazy approach to dating…they don’t want to date they want access to free sex.
@deborahfaltz7563
4 жыл бұрын
Tony got jokes. “A double amputee can roll the wheel chair and approach the woman. Fact: I know a double amputee and he does just that... “never pursue the man”. Amen
@terry21651
4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@TT-wh1dw
4 жыл бұрын
That lady voice take me out every time. *smack* “EOOOOOOOO”
@nikkirowland
4 жыл бұрын
Tara Thomas seriously!! 🤣🤣
@jacqueline2193
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@tkane3769
4 жыл бұрын
Yesss! That lady voice..I'm here for it..😂.oh and the advice to😊
@levettebarbee2360
4 жыл бұрын
Mannnn...🤣🤣 I crack up everytime
@lzsunshine
4 жыл бұрын
Me toooo sis!! Me too!!!
@veronicahaney3145
4 жыл бұрын
Tony has literally helped me more than all the Narcissistic Abuse Survivor coaches combined!!!
@Itchpls
4 жыл бұрын
If a man pop out of his mouth asking me for money I’m leaving... I never ever in my 30 something years had a man to ask me for money nor have I never pursued a man but I noticed that military men always approach me in which I run 🏃♀️.. My parents didn’t raise no fool.. Ladies stop doing so much when it comes to getting a man.. God will send you your husband
@prettytaurus3671
4 жыл бұрын
Those military men are something else.
@NekolesPerspective2.0
4 жыл бұрын
I remember one guy asking me to buy him a new bedroom suite, come to find out he had been not too long released from prison... I ran for my life lol 😁✈️✈️✈️✈️
@tykittahunter541
4 жыл бұрын
Shawn J y do u run from military men?
@prettytaurus3671
4 жыл бұрын
Tykitta Hunter The ones I know are liars. Many of them are married due to the extra pay they get. But they operate like their single. I run as fast as I can from them.
@tykittahunter541
4 жыл бұрын
PrettyTaurus 😂😂😂😂
@suzetteconley9216
4 жыл бұрын
Your client is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. Ladies now a days are so DESPERATE that they are more than happy to pursue the man. I’ve had the men say exactly the same thing to me many times. “Well its a two way street” that’s the end of that.
@robleanna8
4 жыл бұрын
I have been told quite a few times that I am too old school, need to change my way of thinking about dating, and will end up being alone if I continue to require more from men. But, I realize that when I have God in my life, He will never let me be alone. And He will send me the right man who will love me like Christ loves the church and meet my expectations and standards. Too many women with the new school of thought; then we don’t understand why there are so many breakups, broken hearts, and divorces...smh...Living in UNBiblical times, but God will reward those who don’t lose faith in Him-period! For now, I will just concentrate on pleasing God like Paul said about the true purpose of single Christian men and women! Can’t go wrong there!
@quathetruth8314
Жыл бұрын
I met a man in a grocery store. He said I was beautiful. I thanked him and kept it moving. He eventually stopped me and asked if I was married. We exchanged numbers. He took days to text me. When he did I didn’t respond. I blocked his number.
@Demorbeauty
10 ай бұрын
You probably should've given him grace, that's pretty normal.
@reneecrotty6910
4 ай бұрын
WOW GOOD GIRL!!!! I felt proud for you hahahaha LOVE.
@reneecrotty6910
4 ай бұрын
WOW GOOD GIRL!!!! I felt proud for you hahahaha LOVE.
@Luvfrequency717
12 сағат бұрын
Girl that ain't no flex. Y'all swear men don't go through the same anxiety as we do. You just weren't INTERESTED in him for whatever reason
@onevenus6040
3 жыл бұрын
You ain't lying about males being wired to chase what female they want: my friend's 7yo great nephew had his eyes on a little girl at school, he told his aunt that he had to be there by a certain time because another boy liked her also! He had processed the arrival time for the 3 of them and knew he needed to be there before his competition!! He also named his pet puppy after her! If a 7yo can make a plan and figure out what needs to happen for him to be with the one he wants, why can't these adult males do the same thing? "Because they don't want you! "
@curlyisconfident
Ай бұрын
So real!
@sharronwilson50
4 жыл бұрын
I holla everytime I hear Tony's female impersonation voice! Too funny!
@SEvelynJackson
4 жыл бұрын
🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@aliseclkkc
4 жыл бұрын
ME TOO🤣😆
@carm1709
4 жыл бұрын
Right I be looking forward to it now🤣
@sharronwilson50
4 жыл бұрын
@@carm1709 right! Everytime I hear " Ummmmmm"............I start laughing my butt off!
@carm1709
4 жыл бұрын
@@sharronwilson50 right I be get the message then burst into laughing
@michellelogan9177
4 жыл бұрын
These men track women on Instagram too and they always want to know “what do you do for a living” this question is designed to Set you up to be scammed
@kardrey100
4 жыл бұрын
Yep..I learned the hard way that I should keep that info private🤫
@michellelogan9177
4 жыл бұрын
K.M. Ardrey really sorry to hear that, I don’t share that info, my response is “I don’t do nothing for a living” then they say “how do you support yourself” then and only my Blocked game is activated and I report to Instagram it’s a Scam page and days later Instagram reports back to me as confirmed that it’s a Scam and the page is removed, I’ve seen where the same guy creates a new page with the same pics and I just Repeat the process 🤗
@HoneeyBee3
4 жыл бұрын
@@michellelogan9177 Idk if the men I met were scammers, but I've had men & "love" interests that I knew personally ask me the same question and never thought anything of it until now. I thought it was just to make sure I can take care of myself, and that I was independent & building my own etc. But the more I see it's setting yourself up to take on a masculine role & be a provider for someone you're ultimately seeking love, security & protection from. So in reality, it doesnt allow space for a real man to exist & I was emtertaining men with other motives in mind. I still have a lot to learn though but glad I never ended up stuck in relationships like that. I was starting to think I was crazy & hard to love when in reality, I wasn't meeting quality men. But your take is interesting. They were trying to scam me on the low to be the provider 🤣. I need to work on my response for questions like that & stop believing everyone has good intentions iust because I do. Smh
@michellelogan9177
4 жыл бұрын
19Honey87 M Amen! Never answer any questions, unless you’re saying “I’m doing well” bottom line it’s not their business because you’re both are strangers to one another
@venetiazawacki725
4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed, the problem with women, they feel they have to buy s man to have him, don't be stupid, I hate stupid people,
@jussjess2829
4 жыл бұрын
When Tony said the man called him mother to check the phone.. I was crying. These dudes do that. I must admit, I was once thirsty and shot my shot at men. I will never do that again! Thank you Tony
@stephaniegrimes3535
4 жыл бұрын
They want you to pick them up, call them first, send them pics, do things for them, pay for the date, AND even come up with the ideas for the dates for their approval, don'twant to spend time or money. They act like chikdren
@hangukhiphop
3 жыл бұрын
Oh how the turn tables...
@Arizona_lilly
3 жыл бұрын
The men.. Want this is gross, a lot thrn come from poverty and single mom homes seeing their moms work n dating al types of different men in n ut house
@stephaniegrimes3535
3 жыл бұрын
@@hangukhiphop speak for yourself. I like when a man does all that. Shows me his personality, not what i want
@brownsugarglamour
4 жыл бұрын
TONY STAUPPPPPPPP “Tell him you dating Jesus, and technically you’re not lying so” 😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀💀
@joycechristian7967
4 жыл бұрын
He said tell him you got a boyfriend 😊 they don't need to know it's Jesus🤦🏽♀️
@nikkirowland
4 жыл бұрын
brownsugarglamour 😭😭🤣🤣
@PrettiRissa
4 жыл бұрын
brownsugarglamour 🤣🤣🤣
@chocolatecoveredkisses83gi38
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@greengoddessof75
4 жыл бұрын
You are definitely getting me ready for the next brother that approaches me!!! Blessings to you Tony!! Your one of the true KINGS!!👑
@nickbry7357
4 жыл бұрын
Girl you lnow thats true
@greengoddessof75
4 жыл бұрын
@@nickbry7357 Yes Girl!!🙌🏾
@rozh8321
4 жыл бұрын
PERIOAAAD...point blank..😂😂
@greengoddessof75
4 жыл бұрын
@@rozh8321 LMAO!!
@wonderwoman7635
4 жыл бұрын
Met a nice guy in grocery store yesterday, he approached me he was very respectful, we talked briefly and exchanged numbers. He text later and the subject of work schedules came up, he asked mine and I told him 7-3 I asked his and he said none at the time but he supposed to start work next week, after that there was nonthing else to talk about end of story lol
@rdot8869
4 жыл бұрын
He sound like a player.
@louwil67
4 жыл бұрын
Girl. He needs to get himself together and then date.
@najla4359
4 жыл бұрын
the fact that he texted you instead of calling you should have been a red flag
@wonderwoman7635
4 жыл бұрын
@@rdot8869 Right a broke one at that lol
@wonderwoman7635
4 жыл бұрын
@@louwil67 Same thing I told my coworker
@TwilaB0721
4 жыл бұрын
Good! I don't and never will go to dating sites or pursue a man😂.
@queeenpeechez
4 жыл бұрын
im on 2 diff dating sites but i never give out even my actual name or email address let alone my number! just typing until they realize they cant get no where with me lol what kills me is i state CLEARLY on my profiles that i will never meet them or will give or accept phone numbers, yet they still reach out to me lol. i suppose they fall into 2 groups: those that dont believe me and think that they can change my mind and those who do believe me but dont take me seriously
@AuthoressRedd
4 жыл бұрын
You mean should we? The answer is NO SIR
@kenishalperkins
4 жыл бұрын
Your videos have helped me my confidence so much Tony !!! I felt like a gazelle my whole life but now I know that I am lioness.
@fjdslkfjdsklfjdsklfj
4 жыл бұрын
That “oohhhhh” gets me every time! 😩😩😂😂 Good afternoon Tony, thank you for another great video!
@kenishalperkins
4 жыл бұрын
inspire me me tooo ohhhhh 😝
@ShirahGodsSong
4 жыл бұрын
Me too!!!
@queenofhearts1138
4 жыл бұрын
LISSEN. There is not enough sweet willy or sweet talk in the world to make me give a man 2THOUSAND dollars you got to be plum crazy. 2 THOUSAND?? You crazy slap crazy
@redloveeee
4 жыл бұрын
Queen ofHearts 😂 Yeah, ain’t no way on God’s green earth
@talawoods25
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@laina1976
4 жыл бұрын
Get the baby powder and slap yourself. Lol
@helena3631
3 жыл бұрын
These men have game lol .. never say never...I have never gave a man money .. but some of these man this is a job for them lol and they date for a living lol
@vchild
4 жыл бұрын
One almost got me Tony. I talked to that man daily. He claimed he got stuck in Indonesia and the bank was holding his money because he didn't have proper documents. I swear I believed him. I didn't give him my banking info like he asked. He got mad. I blocked him and moved on.. But it's definitely a thing. I almost Got GOT.. Be careful ladies.. Its real.
@clarkclarke
4 жыл бұрын
My thing is....if women have never seen or met the man ..and even if they have met .....however if they have never met ..how do they send money to someone they have never ever met when they wouldn't do it for a friend or family member ?????
@NA-vt6mz
4 жыл бұрын
clark clarke it’s the emotions
@simeoda
4 жыл бұрын
Dang.
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
God saved you sis, he wouldve wiped you out!!!
@cookieladycarriej8829
4 жыл бұрын
I ended friendship due to on line FOOLISHNESS Young lady drove all the way to my house over 85 miles for me to read documents copies man's passport Note she had been on line dating this stranger for months and lying about it sending him money and his so call attorney money to help him was fake the passport had over nine errors his Facebook only two pictures It was an Nigerian Group of African man that sit back and get money from vulnerable women He told her he was gonna visit her in a helicopter there he worked for oil company and needed to get him out of prison it was crazy He would scream her on the phone talk to her so badly I witnessed this with my own ears and eyes She told me she would leave him alone I looked in her phone only to find that she had been sending him money for months All be called she wanted love They prey on women which tell them all their business ones that say I was abused as a child ,marriage. Women you will be surprise I tried to show her on KZitem how it's done she still believe him I dropped her as a friend/business partner because if she could believe a stranger I wouldn't want that stranger somehow find out where I live And/or connecting me to her. Another incident happened where some young adults were visiting in town met these men wine and din one girl went with the man went to hotel because she didn't feel being" loose booty " luckily her friend track her cell phone went with the police got there Note coolers over 8 labeled with all that would go in each container kidneys ect. This young 24year old woke up in tub of ice this is an true story my family went to school with her. Note things happen every day that never make the news. For the love of God be careful everyone. BLESSINGS
@Ihateschool69185
4 жыл бұрын
This is the whole truth. I didn't believe it until I saw it for myself. My friend's son is posing as a WOMAN and catfishing men out of thousands of dollars a month.
@nikkirowland
4 жыл бұрын
D Laberry 👀👀 wow!!!
@joyobessa1364
4 жыл бұрын
😯😯😯😯
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
It's a real thing. So sad.
@missmarymack3457
4 жыл бұрын
Woooooow
@lyfesaquarium
4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Please1ful
4 жыл бұрын
So true... never pursue!
@mialamb5722
4 жыл бұрын
I have come back to listen to this video 36374637 times.... every time I need to hear it. EVERY SINGLE TIME. Thanks Tony!
@adoringgalore5636
4 жыл бұрын
CANT WAIT TO WATCH THIS AFTER I TAKE MY EXAM. BEST WISHES MR. GASKINS AND THE BLESSED TRIBE
@lyfesaquarium
4 жыл бұрын
Blessing on ur test
@royliechaVb
4 жыл бұрын
Men hate getting rejected🤣🤣
@m.williams3497
4 жыл бұрын
I’m just so sick of women and their desperation speaking for us all. Like how hard is it to respect yourself and require that from those who you choose to share moments in life with. It’s frustrating because the loose bootys are getting higher in number and men notice that so even the good one’s are on the fence ugh . I’m not even interested in being with someone right now but I honestly feel the pickings will be so thin
@t.l1357
4 жыл бұрын
Haven't dated in 20 years. ooooooh its rough out here. These are some new types of men nowadays...well grown boys. But, I'm old school and know what I did to get married the first time. I kept my legs closed and made it super hard because I am hard to get. Stay strong ladies. Stop falling for these tricks. I just turned down a guy today to send pics of my body. Almost cursed him out. I wasn't going to text him back...he messaged see that's why I like you. You are a good woman......look how they act. Keep your legs CLOSED!!! Good luck and be blessed.
@clarkclarke
4 жыл бұрын
Righr ...so much games ....and for what ....sex with these guys probably only last a few minutes anyway ...and once they get that what else is there ....
@t.l1357
4 жыл бұрын
@@clarkclarke literally had this convo with the guys at work. I work with all men. They want me to give all these losers a shot. But I was like you wouldn't tell your daughter or mother to do that if they were in my shoes. Smh black men don't even want to cherish their own no more. That hurt the most that they want to see me potentially dogged out.
@cherh
4 жыл бұрын
🗣 TEACH TEACHER! Be blessed! 💫
@venda1008
4 жыл бұрын
We are really in a microwave society
@RealLadi228
4 жыл бұрын
Totally dried up!
@donnaweathers5335
4 жыл бұрын
I met my friend on Facebook dating site, he is 70 and I am 65 we both are still working and he treats me like a queen 4 months now.
@electricred91
4 жыл бұрын
Tony I can't you are pure comical but honest .😭😭😭😭🙏🏾
@grapeslushpm
4 жыл бұрын
That phone call to mama took me out!
@electricred91
4 жыл бұрын
@@grapeslushpm lady tell me about it 😭😭😭😭
@lourdeslee4429
4 жыл бұрын
Noooo! Never pursue a man. Never!
@peggyoneal325
4 жыл бұрын
LMBO....Tony, and his lip smacking imitating women.....😁😁😁 He is so funny! But seriously, he is a Great Life Coach!
@diva-nicole9089
4 жыл бұрын
Lol he be cracking me up rolling his eyes and head with an attitude
@AuthoressRedd
4 жыл бұрын
He is hilarious. I be cracking up 😂😂😂😛
@mariewalton7079
4 жыл бұрын
Working on myself. BE BLESSED!!!!!
@rozh8321
4 жыл бұрын
🤗🙋2..self love in progress❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾4 all of us..be blessed❤
@tanikawashington8246
4 жыл бұрын
Me too, no time for games.
@CaramelKissez
4 жыл бұрын
Whatz good yall👋🏼👋🏼I just told a man on fb a woman is not suppose to chase a man. He was so happy a 21 yr old was hitting on him being 40. I knew then something ain't right with him.
@RN1BSN
4 жыл бұрын
And he might be lying About the 21 yr...
@MrDomonique3
4 жыл бұрын
@@RN1BSN They do lie...smh
@sandraotero5951
4 жыл бұрын
Thank God you know what a red flag looks like. 🙃 I met a guy who expected me to drop everything and meet him within 15 minutes at a store we met instead of a proper date #1.) 😕 #2.) He cared nothing about my time and what I could be doing, and actually told me he was mad because I didn't show up .. SMH ! 😖
@CaramelKissez
4 жыл бұрын
@@sandraotero5951 you dodge a bullet. Pray for discernment....you'll get it too. God bless you.
@RN1BSN
4 жыл бұрын
@@CaramelKissez amen
@BeingMyoshi
4 жыл бұрын
Between Snapped and American Greed I dont know how I still go out or have social media lol its crazy out here
@freespirit-111
4 жыл бұрын
Don't forget wives with knifes..lol
@nichellenewby5788
4 жыл бұрын
ID channel🔍
@denastrong8214
4 жыл бұрын
😂😄😁👍🏾
@HAWXTER12
4 жыл бұрын
This 💯😂😂
@amirahgreene1557
4 жыл бұрын
single and celibate five years and proud of it
@apriljohnson2441
4 жыл бұрын
Never ever pursue a man 🗣🗣🗣 preach🗣🗣🗣 A Queen who has self worth and character don’t pursue a man period 👍🏾
@aisha_lovely
4 жыл бұрын
Amen Tony! 🙏🏾 No pursuing over here. These new-age Men are trippin'!
@niecys
4 жыл бұрын
This is so true! I've witnessed a family member get swindled out of their money from an online swindler. Great video, very insightful.
@Rdy2win
4 жыл бұрын
This is true a man just said it to me.
@ayannatyler3059
4 жыл бұрын
“Conviently don’t trust the government” 😂😂
@queenofhearts1138
4 жыл бұрын
Tony. A man asked me where have I ever taken HIM! What have I SHOWN him? HUHHHHHHHHHHHHHH????? Girly boyssss!!
@louwil67
4 жыл бұрын
Queen ofHearts 💯😩Happened to me too. After the second date this guy was like “I’m planning dates and showing you interest. What have you done? The only thing you’ve done is shown up for the date!” He was terrible. Always counted tit for tat. Only treated for 3 months hoping I’d start giving him money and being a fool for him. Smh
@lynnerene
4 жыл бұрын
Sis, he was a whole Lesbian. Who asks a woman that 🤷🏾♀️
@louwil67
4 жыл бұрын
Lynnette René Doby 💯
@tab2go675
4 жыл бұрын
Kal Sura a guy I dated said I’m a hard working man.. I should be treated.. when are you going to take me out???
@louwil67
4 жыл бұрын
tab2go Yup. That’s what some of them do. It’s not going anywhere good after that. That’s a man who wants badly to be a woman. He doesn’t know his place. And he’s broke and will gladly spend all your money, drive your car, give you a hurt back from bad s$x and will leave you as soon as he’s bled you dry. No thanks!
@aaliyahiman3565
4 жыл бұрын
I try to listen to your videos with a serious manner, but between you sounding like Plies and your backwoods country antidotes I just can’t! 😂
@brownsugarglamour
4 жыл бұрын
Tony, that oven-bake microwave analogy was the cleverest thing I’ve ever heard!! THANK YOU FOR THAT, BE BLESSED 👏🏾👏🏾💙
@PrettiRissa
4 жыл бұрын
brownsugarglamour I l loved that too ❤️
@zoraidacastro5403
4 жыл бұрын
I agree!!!
@lerandabrewer3923
4 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed....I cant chase a man...as a woman it feels completely uncomfortable...Thanks for another great one👍
@lerandabrewer3923
4 жыл бұрын
@Ms. DaniLaB plus I don't want to be the man in the relationship that's why they have more testosterone than we do
@VintageAfro91
4 жыл бұрын
it feels uncomfortable because as women we aren't wired to do the pursuing. We are meant to be pursued. I swear I cringe when I see videos of women actually proposing to men. I'm like nooo please stop. It's scary how roles are reversing.
@queenofthesouth4205
4 жыл бұрын
Work on yourself Ladies!!! The 3 B's and do not persue a man, that puts you into masculine energy.
@Nairo43
4 жыл бұрын
@@dcg31free body Brain Brand.
@queenofthesouth4205
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Nessa...Brand, Body and your Brain
@shereewhite4828
4 жыл бұрын
The bible says a man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing. It didn't say a woman that findeth a man! You should never approach a man! The man should be the chaser. If he's not confident enough to persue me then I guess I'll just remain single. I've never chased a man and at age 51 I'm not gonna start now.
@Draihall2
4 жыл бұрын
Sheree White That scripture puts the responsibility on the man to find a wife. So what if he is running across women who he don't see as someone he could make his wife. So now he goes back into the field to search for another helpmeet.
@TheScott3387
Жыл бұрын
That's right ✅ 👏. Women should not shoot their shot when it comes to men.
@kimclife882
4 жыл бұрын
The book we Live by say “He that find a wife find a good thing and obtain favor of the Lord”. Let your husband find you! He should be the aggressor and you be the responder.
@shshshha17
4 жыл бұрын
Hello to the Gaskins Family and The Blessed Tribe. Thank You for the content.
@larenzapious502
4 жыл бұрын
Listening to u speak on red flags and such lets me understand that I have never had a healthy relationship. It's all always been nothing but games. I have been dating for over 15 years and I'm not bad looking at all. So many situations where I was in love in a relationship but turns out I was the only one. I was married once and have been single for going on eight years with no luck. I just stopped worrying about it cuz I could have went crazy. To be worried about things u can't control is a recipe for disaster.
@leilasmama01
4 жыл бұрын
“He can roll that chair to you” 🤣. Literally lol’d at work listening to that. Tony you are so smart and have taught me SO much! I know the information is going to serve me if I ever find someone ☺️
@eyesaidit5195
4 жыл бұрын
Lookin like "Who shot John and forgot ta kill'em?" 🤣😂🤣🤣
@aliseclkkc
4 жыл бұрын
This topic reminds me of a conversation I had with a good friend! I believe its EASY to meet men. There EVERYWHERE, give a honest respectful compliment & see who falls for the bait. HOWEVER I truly perfer a Man to approach me, to see a genuine pursuit & how a guy views you. Old fashion way! Yes! So I agree with Tony! It is free game!
@bridgetthomas6282
4 жыл бұрын
The bible speaks about this in 2nd Timothy chapter 3:2 people will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous,rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God- having a form of godliness but denying the power. God's word is truth! People have to stop✋being desperate" period. And guard your heart ❤
@yoliyoli2931
4 жыл бұрын
Amen 💯💯💯
@lanniedee857
4 жыл бұрын
I never get approached, Lol. And it's not my style to ever approach a man. So it's frustrating for me because it leaves me with zero opportunity. At this rate, I might as well buy that rocking chair and get me cat.
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
4 жыл бұрын
Lannie Dee I feel you 😩😭
@clarkclarke
4 жыл бұрын
Maybe you can join some meet up groups .. volunteer...etc .. you will get to see and meet folk
@msvonne6044
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Tony gives tips on how to become more approachable look for that video with that title.
@lanniedee857
4 жыл бұрын
@@clarkclarke i will actually consider that. thank you much.
@lanniedee857
4 жыл бұрын
@@msvonne6044 i will look for that. I appreciate it.
@namastewellness
4 жыл бұрын
I don't pursue and have simply learned to reciprocate interest. I made it a policy to never reply to text a guy sends me after ignoring mine. It's rediculous how men think they can disappear for days after you text them or even weeks after communicating then text you out of nowhere with a "hey, how's it going?" They would NEVER call with that nonsense. Texting has really changed the dating game against those of us who are seeking meaningful relationships.
@rozh8321
4 жыл бұрын
Facts.. tell me about it. Ridiculous..we aint got time for the foolery. Keep on moving buddy..bye bye and good riddance❤❤❤🙄🙄
@Coolct
4 жыл бұрын
Saimazing Life say that AGAIN! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@SEvelynJackson
4 жыл бұрын
Yep!!!!!! Netflix Love is Blind. Finale is next week Thursday.
@TiggysTC
4 жыл бұрын
Love that show so far!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
@marrencebaraquiel
3 жыл бұрын
that show is cringey but i watched it 😆
@retroperspective.divergenc7004
4 жыл бұрын
I ain't lying when I say I'm dating someone else. I have a weekly date night that I take myself on. I'm perfectly happy enjoying my own great company!
@lavitawilliams2207
3 жыл бұрын
This is so Rich,so Inspiring,so EDUCATIONAL, Real RealTalk,I wish I would have been taught yesterday what I'm being Taught Today.Thank You So Much Coach Tony.
@ReNoirBeautyRWalsh
4 жыл бұрын
Every bit of this video was the truth! Thank you sir💯
@tlashai9902
4 жыл бұрын
Anytime a man ask you for anything RUN!!!!!!! It's true Tony, these men today are lazy... They don't want to put in the effort, but want you to go to bed with them. I'm glad this young woman asked this question, and for online dating HECK NO, I NEVER GAVE A MAN NOTHING, 2 THESSOLONIANS 3:10.
@Aprils23
4 жыл бұрын
Heyyyy Tony!! And my Queens!!
@nickbry7357
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Queen
@northernroots6807
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Queen
@anitadavenport7209
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Queen 👑
@esthernichols4451
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Tony!! I just LOVE your videos. So much wisdom and humour to go with it. You are so right when you tell ladies to let the man pursue. This is something i practice as well. Lately, quite a few men have been pursuing through social media. This is usually how it goes. 1. They request me as a friend (FB or IG). I pray first to see if i should accept along with looking through their pages to see what they are about. 2. Once i get clearance from the Lord or if i feel he's ok, i accept. 3. They usually ask for my number. So instead, i conversate with them through messenger. This allows me to stay at a safe distance and see how their mind works. 4. I keep conversations casual yet to the point. And i always mix it up with Spiritual things to see where they are with their walk with Christ. 5. I kid you not, after this has gone on for about two weeks, they usually drop off. Mind you they pursue in the convo, but what gets them is when i ask them what is their purpose? They say usually say something generic. Then i talk about my purpose and what God showed me. Crickets. Then i dont hear from them. Then i know they werent the one. Because the man that God has for me will be in tune with God's Spirit will know his purpose. Or at least have a goal that he is working on that is greater than him. Even if he doesnt know how to articulate it, I'll know.
@SEvelynJackson
4 жыл бұрын
It is a norm for men wanting and expecting women to chase them and approach them.
@joycechristian7967
4 жыл бұрын
These topics are such a blessing
@TT-wh1dw
4 жыл бұрын
This video got me over here crying laughing 😂 True but hilarious!
@MyBluebonnet
4 жыл бұрын
I don't know if I come here for just advice or do i just look fwd to when you do your skits, imitations or jokes! love it! THANK YOU!!!
@ebonyflowers7599
4 жыл бұрын
Nothing but the truth Tony! Be blessed!
@stephanied.sanders7980
4 жыл бұрын
Continued confirmation. Thanks. Keep blessing the people.
@lynnjones7695
4 жыл бұрын
Dating sound scary..
@zoraidacastro5403
4 жыл бұрын
IT IS
@thestudentat101
4 жыл бұрын
Yes. It does sound scary.
@curli-lettey4319
4 жыл бұрын
I will NEVER pursue a man. You wont know if the man wants you because he likes you OR hes just going along for the ride seeing that YOU went after him and is playing you because you got at him and he didnt have to chase.
@itsleviosanotleviosa4683
3 жыл бұрын
Ladies " dating out of your league can cost u more"
@Genesis-101
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been saying that these men are spoil today...too spoil to be exact...My dad even said that it’s women fault (in general not speaking for every woman )for the way men treat us because women been spoiling men, letting them have their way. Don’t know how to use the word NO or too scared to. I’m old fashioned when it comes to love so, my MAN needs to be old fashioned too..Period 💯
@rozh8321
4 жыл бұрын
PERIOAAAD...
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
4 жыл бұрын
Point blank 🎯
@godseed79
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, there are A LOT of men who kick back and want the woman to pursue. I'm not with it. It's stemming from men being tired of being taken advantage of AND "pick me" women who make things so easy for men. There are other reasons as well but these are what I see as the biggest issues.
@kimberlygreen1078
4 жыл бұрын
godseed79 I think something is wrong with today's women and men, some women are not behaving like women and some men are not behaving like men. I told someone when I was growing up, boys pursued girls they liked which is the natural thing to do. What happened? It's a video with Judge Lynn and she talks about she don't know exactly when it happened or how but today's man is not like that of her husband or father.
@ReginaB4JC
4 жыл бұрын
I cannot stop laughing Tony. "You women have a calendar to keep up when the man call you" 😅😅😅 Never pursue a man!
@trutalk12
4 жыл бұрын
As soon as I start working again hopefully soon, I’ll coming to get coaching from you.
@regale1995
4 жыл бұрын
I refuse to date online, if I can’t meet a man the old fashion way then 🤷🏽♀️
@TiggysTC
4 жыл бұрын
How are able to meet men nowadays then? Especially if you don't club hang out like that🤷🏾♀️
@temekahoward3965
4 жыл бұрын
Point... blank.. period!! Love all your videos.
@debrapridgen1342
4 жыл бұрын
Point blank peri odd! 😊 Thank u for being obedient and delivering the truth! Love, peace, and blessings to you and family!
@kenishalperkins
4 жыл бұрын
Tony !!! How many characters do you have in you !?!? 😂😂😂
@ladyjvlogs7463
4 жыл бұрын
I am here for it.. Funny to me.. Lol 🤣🤣😂
@zoraidacastro5403
4 жыл бұрын
Love when he impersonates the females...Lol
@cosmicroyaltyX7
4 жыл бұрын
Hell will freeze 🥶 over before I chase!
@queenmichieboo7467
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony Gaskins...I really appreciate you!!!
@kimberlycarter5317
4 жыл бұрын
Tony, it's a blessing to hear your words of Wisdom in dealing with relationships! I've gained a lot of insight! Be bless my Brother 😊
@7125joyce
4 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this knowledge for I am 64 years old and was never taught the things you teaches us. So, I say this to say it is never too late to learn about relationship. Thank you so much and keep up the good work. My father passed when I was 12.
@nothing2lose428
4 жыл бұрын
Omg I love your videos you're so funny I always get a good laugh ROFL. Thank you Toni you always know what you're talking about!
@srky4346
4 жыл бұрын
Men want you to text them all the time but they don’t want to initiate or respond.
@qweej9890
4 жыл бұрын
Mama call my phone right back and see if it ring 😂😂😂
@MJ-vt4nb
4 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say that if a woman can get conned into giving money to a man that she met online, she would have been an equal fool for somebody she met in person.
@jessicamitchell4595
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, For this video 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I was told that it was a two way street and that it not his thing to convince someone to like him there should be a mutual interest.. i was like wait what!? What he said confused me lol. But I was like If you not putting in effort then I don’t want you periodt! So thank you for posting this because it just confirmed that he isn’t about anything and my thoughts on him were right.
@SEvelynJackson
4 жыл бұрын
🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤
@tarahbruno3793
2 ай бұрын
I’m old school and not ashamed! The man for me will understand and be on the same time too and will pursue .
@diamondstewart5770
4 жыл бұрын
I never had a real father figure in my life and I needed to hear this from an actual mans perspective 💯❤️👐🏾 ty
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