My dad told my mom she was going to be his wife they were 16. She said no I will not. Well 6 years later they got together and it’s 50 years later. They are still married.
@Chommikenya
Ай бұрын
That is beautiful Thank you for watching ❤️
@samco63
Ай бұрын
Nah. Sorry. Even guys talking about the future doesn’t mean a lot. There’s a lot of narcissists out there who will idealise you. There’s nothing solid to say when a guy is actually into you and committed to you
@shanicrystal8671
Ай бұрын
@@samco63 I’ve had them talk about the future then completely ghost me lol ion take it seriously nomore
@Chommikenya
Ай бұрын
That's love bombing!!!
@samco63
Ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya very true! It can be so hard to tell
@come_on_barbie_123
Ай бұрын
Exactly!!! I'm listening and I'm like "this could still be bs" and women fall for it every time!
@come_on_barbie_123
Ай бұрын
@@Chommikenyaand FUTURE FAKING
@WholeHeartily
Ай бұрын
1. If you’ve been together for years and he hadn’t proposed, something is wrong. 2. He hasn’t introduced you to family/friends (or segregates you from that side of his life) 3. He doesn’t discuss long term future plans with you (no answer is an answer)… just because you have someone in your life doesn’t mean you’ll have a husband. Don’t allow boyfriend to stop you from finding your husband
@ka8155
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this comment.
@WholeHeartily
Ай бұрын
Does he take care of his home? Does he take care of his body? If he truly loves himself, he can be available to love you.
@WholeHeartily
Ай бұрын
Signs He Won’t Commit: 1. You’re the only one putting in work in nurturing the relationship/ His attention is elsewhere 2. You’re the only one hinting at marriage/wanting to be engaged 3. You propose
@chokoladkallc
Ай бұрын
I love that your channel shows both sides of romance. Some channels only compile the negative stuff that men do, but yours is very balanced and informative! ❤
@corimoon3360
Ай бұрын
Probably because most men are doing the negative stuff. 😂 it keeps you from becoming delusional.
@Chommikenya
Ай бұрын
Glad you enjoy it! Thank you for always watching ❤️🙏
@WholeHeartily
Ай бұрын
1. You’re ALWAYS invited 2. Talks about the future/follows through 3. Values your opinion 4. Enjoys weddings with you, likes dreaming about your wedding
@nikkinanette8807
Ай бұрын
10:18 I love 💕 when our brother said when he starts saying “we, we, we; he isn’t speaking French, he’s speaking love” 💞💗💞💞
@Chommikenya
Ай бұрын
Oh yes!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@TIABIA100
Ай бұрын
french the language of love🥰
@brookerutherford6249
Ай бұрын
These are also characteristics of a future faker.
@corimoon3360
Ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner
Ай бұрын
LMFAO BEST COMMENT ON KZitem! I SWEAR I LOVE THIS WOMEN’S MOVEMENT
@shanicrystal8671
Ай бұрын
Yeah definitely
@agl5132
Ай бұрын
's not forget men love the chase. It's after they've caught you or the honeymoon phase of the relationship is over that you'll see who they really are.
@KurosakiLuvar01
Ай бұрын
Yep
@winning3329
Ай бұрын
If a guy plays games or you are unsure then he's not the one for you. Relationships only work if the guys loves you more then you do because men who are in love will never play games and you will certainly know where you will stand. This is the reason why we call guy's who play games players, because it's just a game for then and nothing else.
@WholeHeartily
Ай бұрын
1. Shares deep/dark secrets about himself 2. Reenter honeymoon phase
@WholeHeartily
Ай бұрын
1. Confidently makes future plans ahead 2. Commits his free time to you 3. Interest cues match (what he says/does aligns… prioritizes action) 4. Language changes (wants labels, “us”) 5. Tests your level of commitment to him (ie suggests taking down dating profiles) 6. You will feel peace of mind (not dread/anxiety/resistance) 7. He will ask for exclusivity (assume you’re not until he initiates the conversation and you have the conversation)
@mrs.w8193
Ай бұрын
15:30 I find that it’s easier to walk away than stay and convince a man on your value and why he should marry or commit to you. If he’s dragging his feet, it’s because he’s not that into you and is unsure about you. Best to leave him alone to figure it out. Walk away. I left an ex BF for this reason and found my now husband 6 months later. With my husband, I never had to wonder or whine or complain or nudge him to a proposal. He always knew I was his one. he surprised me with a proposal before I even expected it.
@Chommikenya
Ай бұрын
Ladies Listen up ! 👂 Thank you for watching ❤️
@mrs.w8193
Ай бұрын
@@Chommikenya love your videos ❤️❤️
@ba8501
Ай бұрын
That Nigerian woman at the end was on point!
@enken567
Ай бұрын
As an older woman I enjoyed every word. She was amazing.
@enken567
Ай бұрын
I have had my children. They are adults. An aunt told me many years ago, 'don't spoil yourself for any man' That sentence never left me.
@WholeHeartily
Ай бұрын
1. Comfortable being vulnerable with you/Lets his guard down 2. Talks about his future (it involves you! He wants to plant roots) 3. “What If” questions 4. Wants you input on major things in his life/values your opinion 5. Trades “I” for “we” language
@providenceartdesign
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂 tbe one where the dude is talking about protection 😂😂😂 he stays on the phone with you, makes sure you're safe😂😂 the truth shall set you free
@a.d.b535
Ай бұрын
He says indirect things like "I love who we are together".
@Chommikenya
Ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯 Thank you for watching ❤️
@come_on_barbie_123
Ай бұрын
All of these dudes referring to men say things like plans in the future, etc. Theres also a term in narcissism called "future faking". Lol. So, i dont think id buy that.
@eatwithego9131
28 күн бұрын
I know men who will let you get to the alter and not show up. Sad but very true so idk about anything anymore
@BeautiifulliMade
Ай бұрын
Confirmation I definitely fell for a 2/10 who didn’t see a future with me 😂😂, thank you, I needed this.
@Chommikenya
Ай бұрын
You’re welcome 😊 Thank you for watching ❤️
@WholeHeartily
Ай бұрын
Be wary if he doesn’t want to meet your family.
@earthangel8399
Ай бұрын
Actions speak louder than words
@KurosakiLuvar01
Ай бұрын
And then he gonna cheat anyway when he finally has you 😂
@jenniferr5440
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@tekazzdon888lm5
Ай бұрын
Thank You so Much for This Insight! Unfortunately, I'm the One who is in Love with Someone who wants to Marry me but I'm too scared for the full commitment. I've been hurt by previous Relationships and Marriage can't fill that hole in my heart. Trust is the Greatest Loyalty! I don't think I can Trust again. 😢...I Pray for All True, Faithful, Dedicated Marriages ❤❤❤
@latashahumphrey769
Ай бұрын
Homey you live such a fake life and pick at me time and time again Im tired of you going around constantly just trying to create a problem for me go on with your new wife and ur family. I don't care about you nor ur life I don't bother you and that's on period do we need to open the door way of the real truth
@latashahumphrey769
Ай бұрын
I haven't called ur phone caused u no problems nothing u just won't leave well enough alone. You decide u wanted that woman and u ain't heard a mumbling word from me about it. And u know it u take ur ass on get married, sctrach ur ass I don't care but stop bothering me that's all it's easy.
@Chommikenya
Ай бұрын
You can do it! 💪 Thank you for watching ❤️
@merci-jardine6728
Ай бұрын
@latashahumphrey769 ma'am are you okay?
@latashahumphrey769
Ай бұрын
@@merci-jardine6728 I'm good I deleted my comment cause I don't care any longer to give anything that holds no weight any energy. I'm done with that I'm done with a lot of things and just closed off chapters and I move forward.
@minahtheweirdo
28 күн бұрын
A man will be showing all the good signs and still not want you fr ESPECIALLY if he’s black or around American black culture 😂 be safe y’all
@Chommikenya
27 күн бұрын
Be safe out here
@SashaBaz-i3t
3 күн бұрын
We tend to attract the people we are most alike.
@ninashirley432
29 күн бұрын
I love bush walking fishing hiking, blading skating skiing, swimming around with fish .dancing and singing in my lounge room when nobody is around. I have always since I was a child.
@DairiesofaDarkSkinBeauty
23 күн бұрын
Great advice 1st guy.
@Chommikenya
23 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@ninashirley432
29 күн бұрын
There is a happy medium, it’s okay to love yourself and your body. Red flags are people that show to much of themselves and do it all the time . None wants to be with someone that anyone can have and has slept with everyone at the gym or in your area. Run away, before he makes your life turn to shame. Believe even if you have to move state or country. You will feel happier and possibly meet someone much better.
@ninashirley432
29 күн бұрын
What the heck 😮 Is this called the daddy academy 😂 What a joker 😂
@Chommikenya
Күн бұрын
😂😂
@Tyana-g6x
Ай бұрын
He’s not black
@WholeHeartily
Ай бұрын
😮💨
@KurosakiLuvar01
Ай бұрын
This should be the top of the list lolol
@sheabutterpink5184
Ай бұрын
Lmao😂
@Alixir1228
Ай бұрын
Yall say this but I can tell you with white guys being my type, they are just as bad.
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