Here's the full video! We had to reupload to include the rest of the points. The previous video was cut off and didn't have the full information. Comment below and share your experience if you ever sense someone dislike you and why do you think so? Friendly reminder, it's ok to be disliked by others. Everyone have different perspective on who they like as friends. It's ok not to be liked by everyone but most importantly surrounded yourself with people who like you :)
@Ecktor
7 ай бұрын
I don't really dislike anyone. I might dislike acts carried against me or against others I care about.
@PlagueDoctorCosplayer
7 ай бұрын
1:47 in my country crossing legs is seen as a very respectful thing, I don’t know why it wouldn’t be..
@JemmaThomas-se7sb
7 ай бұрын
I don't care if someone dislikes me I'm not gonna stick around and wait for them I'll find better Friends
@katrin712
7 ай бұрын
@@PlagueDoctorCosplayerIt more a sign of being closed to talks/ideas like crossing your arms on your front. When someone does both it s usually that they are not opened to discussion, for whatever reason. In my country it was more women crossing legs because of tight skirts. Guys often don t do that, I suppose because it s not the most comfy for them ^^’ (I m a woman and I do both 😅)
@far6311
7 ай бұрын
Who is this new persons voice?????????? Why did you change your voice over actress????
@Sharr.
7 ай бұрын
It hurts worse when your not a social person and can read them personally
@mr.F.Castle
7 ай бұрын
Next they call you an introvert.
@Gmanwonderswhy
7 ай бұрын
When theyll specifically go where they know youre at that they dont normally go to while tellin people they love you. Only wanting to make you not be around anyone at said place who they know......
@teegutta4689
7 ай бұрын
HEY GOOD EVENING MY FRIEND, I HAVE TO SAY THAT YOUR SO RIGHT, I CAN TELL, TO FEEL IT, SLEEP WELL MY FRIEND TEE 💯🙏💙
@Sklatte
7 ай бұрын
Yes….
@petrbartik1229
7 ай бұрын
Hi
@OnCloudMind
7 ай бұрын
sometimes, we pay more attention to those who dislikes us, rather than someone truly likes and loves us. :(
@Psych2go
3 ай бұрын
It's true. It's important to focus on those who genuinely care for us and appreciate their presence in our lives.
@animewink758
7 ай бұрын
Timestapms: 1:00 #1 make you wonder 1:23 #2 Non verbal language 2:05 #3 act differently 2:55 #4 back handed compliments 3:25 #5 self absorbed conversations 4:00 #6 social exclusion 4:28 #7 missed call left or read
@vent1392
7 ай бұрын
thank you ❤️
@JustaNobody-j8x
7 ай бұрын
It’s not uncommon for me to come across individuals who displayed politeness, but there’s this feeling that their friendliness was more of a facade than an authentic interest. It just seems they’re following social norms than they truly want to connect with me.
@missplainjane3905
7 ай бұрын
Mostly do that
@ZendreGlymph
7 ай бұрын
I choose quality friendships over quantity. I keep my circle small. Everyone you meet isn’t a friend. Facts
@LuLuSprings
7 ай бұрын
Best comment of all🎉
@ZeroKyle
7 ай бұрын
Most of 'em are acquaintances, not 'friends'
@Psych2go
3 ай бұрын
Absolutely, quality over quantity any day. It's about surrounding yourself with genuine connections. How do you prioritize your friendships?
@piegirl8263
7 ай бұрын
I'd like to point out that I'm autistic and I fidget, cross my legs and arms, and don't make eye contact a lot. These are very good points, but in neurodivergent people things can be a little different, especially if we don't operate on these same social cues
@manda_za
7 ай бұрын
Thank you! Can agree on this one
@shahzad1815
7 ай бұрын
I have adhd but also do this. Main difference is I can't sit still and I have very scattered thoughts that don't line up.
@vanillabean7832
7 ай бұрын
I have GAD and social anxiety and I also do these things
@Psych2go
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing that insight. Neurodiversity adds unique perspectives to social interactions. How do you navigate and communicate your needs in social situations to ensure understanding?
@MissSirenita
7 ай бұрын
I honestly don’t care if someone likes me or not, but I struggle reading the room. If someone dislikes me and I can’t tell, I’ll still go on and on. It becomes awkward for those around me and someone usually has to tell me. But if they don’t like me, it’s not my problem 🤷🏻♀️ people have called me cold hearted for cutting people left and right, but why put energy with people who won’t do the same back?
@gorehorrormore
7 ай бұрын
Yeah if you have to question if someone likes you or not odds are they don’t.
@Subject-032
7 ай бұрын
And that is why I succumb into self isolation, it is quite lonely but I don't trust people anymore... I always get left behind or forgotten.
@danteerskine7678
7 ай бұрын
I don't care anymore if someone dislike me and wants to stay away from me. In the end, it's his or her decision. There were a time I used to care but that time has gone to hell.
@A55a551n
7 ай бұрын
Timestamps 1). Make you wonder 0:54 2). Non-verbal language 1:24 3). Act differently 2:04 4). Back-handed compliments 2:53 5). Self-absorbed conversations 3:26 6). Social exclusion 3:59 7). Missed calls or left on read 4:27 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. I love hearing your voice Drew Baillie. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@justephemeral
7 ай бұрын
If someone dislikes you, don't let them know it all immediately. Just by time start avoiding them and surround yourself with people who loves you - you're amazing and you need be in a place where your worth is appreciated. Be strong ❤
@justephemeral
7 ай бұрын
@@Scorpio_25 Well there are still good people in this world. If that's the case for you it's better to be alone. But get a puppy if you want. Dogs are damn loyal and trust me, he/she will be your best friend.
@Scorpio_25
7 ай бұрын
@@justephemeral unfortunately I study at university and the thing like social interaction is very important I have no idea why some people don't like me and they treat me like I'm some piece of shit
@justephemeral
7 ай бұрын
@@Scorpio_25 I'm sorry to hear that. I'm sure that they're not worth your time buddy. You keep focusing on your growth and it's totally fine if you have one loyal good friend. You know, we all prefer a dollar than 10 pennies :))
@susanlisson7066
7 ай бұрын
Yes true, I had to do this with my sister sadly. 😔
@akirayuki68
7 ай бұрын
everyone that i know act like most of this to me even my family and in online group are..
@UssiTheGrouch
7 ай бұрын
As an HSP I pick up these signs pretty easily and it makes me mad when these individuals lie straight in my face. Modern people are twisted. I'd like to live with a native tribe somewhere.
@ahweee140
7 ай бұрын
I am also an HSP. I get you. You’re not alone
@brennathecatlover4360
7 ай бұрын
Hsp?
@jonasshiujunhimgsps6078
7 ай бұрын
@@brennathecatlover4360highly sensitive person, i believe
@brennathecatlover4360
7 ай бұрын
@@jonasshiujunhimgsps6078thx lol
@Everlost_Nation
7 ай бұрын
Wait till you realize this isn’t a modern trait.
@fubytv731
7 ай бұрын
People can like you and still try to avoid you. And to complicate things even more, people can also like you and hate you at the same time...
@OO-jf9zm
7 ай бұрын
"make you wonder" spot on ..... Notice that and disappear without a further notice.
@debargha0_0
7 ай бұрын
Social exclusion was very relatable for me, it happened to me. But I don't think acting differently with someone generally means they dislike you. Because, as a semi-introvert, I talk very little with those I don't know. However, no, I don't dislike them; I just don't know much about them.
@MattVillegas-l3o
7 ай бұрын
I have a feeling my crush just dislikes me for no reason We used to be very good friends some time ago but... she just randomly shifted personalities again, she ignores me most of the time, no eye contact, and she's very quiet and calm for the extroverted type of person she is. And i dont want to make anything big out of it but... it honestly hurts a lot...
@themonroes4
7 ай бұрын
I struggle a lot especially when my friendships end…but i truly think that I’ve only weeded people not meant for me out of my life…im confident in my past decisions even more after watching this video. Thank you
@Psych2go
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing! I'm glad you found the video empowering. Reflecting on past decisions can be a valuable part of personal growth. What lessons have you gained from those experiences?
@averycanicus6092
7 ай бұрын
I am so socially awkward! I have done a bunch of the stuff on this list to people I like. No wonder people think I’m stuck up.😅 Thanx
@ZillaZilla024
7 ай бұрын
Every time I have a crush, I get really shy, which is normal right? Well, when I get nervous around my crush I try to counteract it by acting nonchalant around them. I think this has lead to me actively ignoring them and being unfriendly to them. I’ve only realized this recently. And as soon as I did, my crush started ignoring me in the same kind of way. Now, I’m trying to recover. I didn’t think of it, but we were kind of friends but I was just shying and pushing away from it, I was just scared. Please learn from this, if you’re shy around your crush, just be their friend. It’s ok to be nonchalant with them, but remember to be their friend. That’s what relationships are built on; how well you get along and like each other. So if you like them, show it, but don’t be too obvious, like just be chill. If they act friendly back, great. They might like you back or at least want to be your friend.
@Raylight5068
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for the suggestion. I used to ignore my crush just so he wouldn't know that I like him. So whatever you said does make sense.
@tdesq.2463
7 ай бұрын
Excellent!
@DreamerFromTheDepths
7 ай бұрын
Humans are complicated like that, I'm all about not bothering people but if I lean too much into that there's gonna be a point when I just lose that person because I stopped speaking to them, it takes strength but sometimes you've got to say something even if it's uncomfortable, for me even vaguely suggesting that I'm not happy is scary enough but I can't just sit with it. This applies to other emotions too but you need to find it in you to let it out somehow, bottling it just causes isolation and anguish. If you get to know each other well enough muster up some courage to share these feelings, sure if you get rejected it'll hurt but it's better to experience that pain and know you tried then to never try and wonder endlessly about what would have happened if you did.
@tdesq.2463
7 ай бұрын
@@DreamerFromTheDepths This is very good advice. These are the words of a mature adult ... that much is clear. 🦉👍
@lovebaejins
7 ай бұрын
the social exclusion hits hard for me because one of my friend groups would plan hangouts without me and they would only include me in plans if i reach out to them 😒 they would make excuses saying that they only met up because they all happened to be free at that very moment… but this was an ongoing thing :/
@HackersSun
7 ай бұрын
For my friend its not that I don't like him, its when he gets sappy I don't know how to respond or understand how or why he sensitive about a topic I have the opposite about being too insensitive about topics so working with sensitivity is challenging 😅 Like he cried over the Columbia space incident one day and I didn't know how to console him properly, because it seemed so insignificant, but I care about him and so I sucked conveying it to him with a consoling pat
@margaretjohnson6259
7 ай бұрын
i've learned to assume people don't like me until they prove otherwise.
@TheRealBogus
3 ай бұрын
Ive had a gut feeling someone dislikes me for a while now, but every time anyone asked them about it they said that they like me (as a friend ofc) and has now started avoiding me and is always hanging out with my friend that ive known for 3 years and they stopped inviting me to hang out, the friend of 3 years is still willing to hang out with me, but the other isnt. Thank you for helping me confirm my suspicions (and yes, they used "i need some space")
@mads3012-pookie
6 ай бұрын
Friends may make you you happy but true friends make you happier.
@sirmister1827
7 ай бұрын
I'm a male, and I do act more polite around women, especially at work. I do the same thing with male who act polite and friendly, but it doesn't mean I dislike them. I enjoy my time the most with someone who I can just talk with without having to fear of being misunderstood. Just casually throwing insults at each other and laughing about it.
@sonzai5162
7 ай бұрын
You don't have to tell me, they all dislike me
@samwisefieri6696
7 ай бұрын
I feel that..
@AmanyAhmed210
7 ай бұрын
I found that I was the one who dislikes them all, without knowing 😂
@Anonymous33326
7 ай бұрын
Nah they hate me bro😂😅
@mr.F.Castle
7 ай бұрын
Yeah its better just admit ppl hate your guts.
@sirpiddlefartiii
7 ай бұрын
According to this, nobody I meet likes me. Sounds about right. 🤷🏼♀️
@EdwardNavu
6 ай бұрын
Now I'm even more paranoid about it. I start to suspect those signs in core members of my social groups. Also, I don't have enough energy to socialize, so I tend to be passive in convos, and it's hard for me to think of responses, and I appear leaving people on read. F me, right?
@Ania76bae
5 ай бұрын
When we face something harder than before you lose your mind so you tell people who love to leave you even in your heart don't want. Then they leave, you back them to come back, you apologize but never return. Leave massage on read , reply but avoid the replying of apologies, don't call back.
@kiraelin
7 ай бұрын
(long comment/rant warning!!) i have to confess, i act like this (or at least similar) to an online friend of mine. i... don't exactly enjoy chatting with them, and one of the main factors of this is because my friend likes to spam me. a lot. everytime I didn't answer by 3 seconds, they would immediately start spamming me. it annoys me so damn much, i began acting more distant, and lately even more cold to them. i guess it kinda worked since they've been spamming me a lot less lately...? but they still do, and everytime they spam me, i ask them to stop and even clearly state my dislike towards it, yet... they seem like they're ignoring my discomfort. i don't understand if THEY don't understand, or just refuses to stop for some reason. that's why i've been trying to act as distant and cold as possible (i've never been this bad of a friend and honestly i feel a bit guilty), so they'll back off and _finally_ come to their senses that i don't like them. it may be harsh to hear, but i honestly think it's a waste of time for the both of us to engage with eachother if one is disinterested, and the other has a terrible friend. i have no idea why until now they still decided to chat me... even if i've made my dislike pretty clear. i don't know if they are that dense, or.... they still somehow want to be friends with me. i'm honestly so confused
@DazaiGotLost
7 ай бұрын
It hurts to realize
@hugom.g.6500
7 ай бұрын
I, honestly, had to use subtitles to understand the audio.
@SVG4RC0AT
7 ай бұрын
I usually do these to show someone I’m uncomfortable around them, or does not like what they do. Cause Y’know..feels rude to say it to their face, especially if you know they’re the type to start crying, telling everyone you hate them, play 100% victim, it’s- really annoying. For example, if someone continuously sneaks up to me, drags me around, does a lot of physical touch, or make themselves seem superior compared to me, I may throw in one or two signs to tell them to stop. Usually, I’m more silent around them, with a more “shy” personality(replying to questions/statements with a few words, trying to leave their side whenever I have the chance, etc.) I know most people watching this wants to know if someone dislikes them, and may hate people who show these signs, but uh, just sayin.
@mwatson4970
7 ай бұрын
I think this was an interesting video but I have some salt to add to it. Like one commenter said, ppl can like you and not want to be around you. Just bc they like you generally doesn't mean that certain aspects, habits, or topics that person brings up can give the impression of dislike because they don't like those things. And unfortunately sometimes it's a matter of the person not picking up that every time that happens it turns us off or that, bc the thing is not itself bad, we avoid the person via messages or in-person bc we don't want to hurt their feelings since it is an "us" thing.
@AngryBones692
3 ай бұрын
The people I call friends REALLY don't like me. But I just want them to laugh. How can I approach them?
@Kamirolio
7 ай бұрын
Ty for such wonderful videos!!!
@Psych2go
7 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for being here! Hope this video helps you!
@Kamirolio
7 ай бұрын
@@Psych2go it actually does! Your videos always manage to calm me down! Thank you!
@BeautifulWorld-3
7 ай бұрын
Currently i am in this situation. Very hurtful ! How can i get out from this toxic situation ? Blocking ? Stay away ? But we are colleagues ! Whatever harsh thing that i did will make me the bad guy.
@galateojlatteo
7 ай бұрын
Now, we are talking.
@Zikriyt1
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the tips. I guess that's the sign they dislike me, no wonder why.
@Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzn
7 ай бұрын
i thought my friends didnt like me so thats why i watched this vid , but good news they like me cause , 1 they always invite me to go with them even tho i say no cause i cant go 2 they never leave me on read even tho i sometimes leave them on read 3 they always look for me when i dont go to school even tho i sometimes ignore them (im a bad friend)
@LiamNoblet95
7 ай бұрын
I have a friend who’s like this but only around me AND our other friends, what does that mean?
@richyrodriguezberezov2052
7 ай бұрын
I'm the one that dislikes someone lol, though I still respect them and wish them the best.
@ky7299
7 ай бұрын
Avoiding any meaningful conversation with you and changing the subject to more superficial things. Not engaging and acting aloof when you try to talk about yourself or things that matter to you. Noticing that common friends are suddenly starting to keep a distance from you after having talked to this person. Any behaviour that can be attributed to plausible deniability like unnecessary vagueness. When a person talks almost exclusively about themselves this is a red flag for narcissism. Best stay clear of such people.
@Absolhunter251
7 ай бұрын
This hurts 😭😭😭😭
@TechyCatz
7 ай бұрын
For everyone here taking this personally, that is a sign that something needs to be worked on within one’s self.
@clawtygerz7983
7 ай бұрын
Amanda's voice!!!
@loonaless
6 ай бұрын
I freaking need this
@sharkcrazzeey5476
7 ай бұрын
dawg i needed this thank you
@Psych2go
7 ай бұрын
Any time! :) did any of these signs resonate with you?
@Rei-0403
7 ай бұрын
People hate me cause I’m being too real & genuine while they’re being fake, they said 1 but did 2 most of the time, I don’t give af anymore if they hate my guts or whatever the more I grown up. Just Be Yourself, you don’t have to be friends & try to fit in with everyone
@Ribena-s9x
7 ай бұрын
Im just terrible st texting and social cues. I like them.
@cincostann
7 ай бұрын
Im a VERY socially aware person, i notice right away if someone doesnt like me. i also can notice when a person dont like someone else. it feels like a curse and a blessing because i can get my shit away as soon as possible, and also wondering what did i do :(
@toyadiinae9800
7 ай бұрын
What about if you've picked up on these things that are going on in your friendship, but you also know that this person would rather ignore the dislikes for you rather than be without you in the person's life?
@srgio_rl
7 ай бұрын
"i forgor 💀" 💀
@Psych2go
7 ай бұрын
:D
@williamgrand9724
7 ай бұрын
Most people in my life...
@ives3572
7 ай бұрын
Food For Thought: You can’t please everyone, and you can’t make everyone like you.
@callme_v8789
7 ай бұрын
Im sooo so glad these are unfamiliar signs...
@most_sane_piano_enthusiast
7 ай бұрын
this does not apply to socially anxious messes like me
@bulletmagnet1664
7 ай бұрын
Social Exclusion really hit hard...
@MaekarManastorm
7 ай бұрын
People don't like me cause I judge them based on the company they keep and I call them out on their Bs
@maxmaximalmax
7 ай бұрын
For me its kinda strange... She wants to hangout all the time in at school. But never in Private. Always left on read. I really just gave up at this point...
@flamegamer3424
7 ай бұрын
At this point, if people dislike me, I wouldn’t even care, especially if I barely know them or the other way around. That’s my take.
@keycypress13238
7 ай бұрын
why would i need to look at myself
@samuelmelendez7566
7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice, now I just need to know how to cut them from my life because they trap you in
@Psych2go
7 ай бұрын
It's important to prioritize your well-being. Have you considered having an open conversation with them about your boundaries and feelings?
@lofihiphopexpress6132
7 ай бұрын
How funny,i have this Problem right now( I was ignored and scared away .Thank u.
@JustForStupidPurposes
6 ай бұрын
I have this best friend, who's also my crush but i accepted the rejection because she's straight and im Omnisexual. Either way, her best friend recently invited me over twice now, but i somehow feel she's just doing that to pacify my bff and my seatmate. Like, i think she does. She's silent when she's with me, doesn't even look at me, i know about her adhd, but not just because of that. One deep secret about her towards my bff. But, i feel like she's just being **forced** to do so.
@kinggitonga6169
7 ай бұрын
My crush does most of these , am cooked 💀
@Tundraviolet
7 ай бұрын
Well I cross my legs and arms all the time so guess I am spooking everyone away 😆 And I am not going to stop crossing my legs and arms since in my case it serves as a self soothing mechanism in or out of social situations. I would take the advice from this video with a grain of salt and say that you should look for multiple subtle signs not only one or three and after a long period of time not just first meeting.
@imunique603
7 ай бұрын
I don't really care who doesn't really like me.
@crazygeorgelincoln
7 ай бұрын
With dpd and cptsd its no wonder iv experienced a fair amount of these, thing is theres not many people left and i dont especially like a number of them.
@TehGhostWhoPlay
7 ай бұрын
number 2 sound like me but i just have too much social anxiety i dont really dislike them.
@JoreemDuero
6 ай бұрын
Its not that i dont like the guy i just don't want him to be uncomfortable
@toddberry8113
7 ай бұрын
Hidden depression? Just saw the video then lost it. Please share again here, please. Desperate.
@Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@jowprower8467
7 ай бұрын
I mean most of the reasons you provided may be true but...there's kinda situations where people have different interactions with each person depending on uncertain mutual things that developes uniquely with each person and doesn't necessary mean they hold something against other people....and for instances if someone dislike other someone it's just because there's a lack of mutual interests or other personal reasons(not on a personal level for the other people)
@nephylullaby
7 ай бұрын
#2 is stupid. I just have difficultiy maintaining eye contact and like my personal space.
@maxinedolma8926
7 ай бұрын
Okay. Body language doesn't hold the same meaning across populations or cultures. And what about neurodiverse people? What about people with social anxiety? What about projecting insecurities? Body language is not a good way to tell unless it is glaringly obvious, and instead of making assumptions, just ask. Their response will be more than enough of a clue. Everyone is different, and we shouldn't make assumptions.
@tdesq.2463
7 ай бұрын
🦉👍👍👍
@benhulme2863
7 ай бұрын
Yes and vice Versa.
@ОксанаТульпа
7 ай бұрын
Thank you a lot ,but I don't think that I am with someone really friendly here. All people that are really close to me don't have posts on you tube
@aleksne4554
7 ай бұрын
What if it is all of them?
@cabanvillanueva
7 ай бұрын
Part 6 - You're not 6 Feet or Skinny or into drugs or rude to them or Rich enough or bigger forearms or
@Jukari94
7 ай бұрын
Me in school... I was always left out.
@konni4276
7 ай бұрын
Meanwhile the kind of person who acts nice to everyone and backstab them at the same time can go straight to h*ll
@funcorner174
7 ай бұрын
What to do if your crush gets to know that you have a crush on him
@carmeloalessandrodistefano2274
7 ай бұрын
I have no Friends so i have no enemies, plus i think i dislike for the almost of people. I wonder if Amanda always speaks like that
@ka33334
7 ай бұрын
Where’s the original narrator Amanda ☹️☹️
@Lightoooo1
7 ай бұрын
Where is our favorite voice Amanda 😢
@s97643
7 ай бұрын
thanks for giving me another fucking existential crisis with this title, I will now go in loops of OCD fill I fucking go insane
@Aria-nl3xp
7 ай бұрын
I'm practically already dead
@zlumi428
7 ай бұрын
I need to moisturize my hands...and feet...
@Alexandra-rw7mi
6 ай бұрын
bro i act like i dont like my crush so that they dont find out😂
@talkwithrohit.2156
7 ай бұрын
It’s bs! Best way to find out if they dislike you, just look at their patterns,if they want to build you or not. Simple, people who like you will want to build you or build with you.
@Lady_Gleam
7 ай бұрын
I thought it was Sykkuno for a second there. Hehehehe
@akarijiang9191
7 ай бұрын
useful!
@lapeaches8006
7 ай бұрын
It was the victory dance for me 😂😂🎉🎉
@robotic_xombie287
7 ай бұрын
Usually our first mind would tell us someone doesn’t like us. And the first mind is always right. People even dislike Jesus. I’ve had many people in my life who disliked me without even knowing me or even trying to understand me. I’m not here to please people that me is no longer here. I now feel I am to old to people please anymore.
@Zu231
7 ай бұрын
Please put back narrator Amanda thanks
@IMAYBESWORDMAN
7 ай бұрын
Also learn that sometimes if you are the butt of **every** joke and get the Meg Griffin treatment know that the people who engage in that don't like you Conversely, if someone checks in on you and invites you to a lot of things but not everything doesn't mean they don't like you
@ChrisZoomER
7 ай бұрын
I asked someone if she loved me and she replied, “Of course I love you… …about as much as I love Osama bin Laden.” 💔🥀
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