Why the hell no one else agreeing to help watch the kids if she needs it so bad?
@mimiwhite1963
5 ай бұрын
Dump your parents .get a restraining order against the lot of them.
@TheDamafofa
5 ай бұрын
NTA. Absolutely not! I don’t understand why the ones who get hurt are the one who need to let go of the past. Forgive and forget are not synonymous!!! You can say you forgive someone and wish them good luck on their journey as in you go right and I’ll go left. Bye bye. Hope we become parallel lines and never meet again.
@dustysimpson7864
5 ай бұрын
Or they say " Be the better person " Well I'm not and never will be.
@ETOILEPHANTOME
5 ай бұрын
That’s forgive and forget. Forget doesn’t mean actually forgetting, it just means being done with it, not going back on the past, not holding a grudge
@jeaninebowdry2045
5 ай бұрын
If I was OP I would tell them “yes, the children aren’t a part of the feud. But if I do ANYTHING for them they would become part of the feud, so I’m not doing anything for them”. And if the family kept pushing I would tell them “the only thing I would do for those kids is call CPS because the parents can’t take care of their kids, at this time. And if one more person say something to me about caring or doing for their children, I will pick up the phone”. Then I would proceed to do so.
@wplains
5 ай бұрын
I don’t understand why someone would be engaged to someone and then be cheating for years. Why? Why couldn’t he have broken up with her?
@yozarahirvi4750
5 ай бұрын
It's even worse because a 3 years engagement is quite long, so it's more likely that the then BF proposed to OP while cheating on her, the niece was probably already born by the time he proposed ...
@wplains
5 ай бұрын
@@yozarahirvi4750 which is why it makes no sense. SMH…
@DemonLucifer875
5 ай бұрын
@wplains do you expect something good from cheaters 🤔
@funtimegenshin6973
5 ай бұрын
The moment people asked me to help my sister, I would have asked them if they also wanna be disowned and blocked cause the monster is not my sister. The first comment out of the brothers mouth would have gotten him thrown out by his hair.
@jacobgomos2418
5 ай бұрын
NTA, NTA, NTA! Those people who dare to call themselves OP’s “family” don’t get it. OP was stabbed in the back and betrayed by two people who she thought that she could trust. And just because those same people who betrayed OP are going through a medical emergency the so called “family” thinks that OP should forget the past and take care of the children who are nothing but a reminder of the betrayal that OP went through? Why should OP be expected to be the one to help look after the children when not only doesn’t she consider the children’s mother family but also the “family” who are bothering OP to “step up and help support family” could just as easily look after the children in their spare time? And OP is definitely right about what would happen if she agreed to help the children. Because her “sister” would probably see it as a means of reconciling and would most likely insert herself into OP’s life when OP doesn’t want anything to do with her. And as for the so called “family” who are saying that OP should look after the children OP should definitely tell them that she won’t be doing anything to help and that if any of them keeps pushing for OP to look after the children or try something to force the care of the children on OP then she will cut them out of her life. Because it doesn’t matter if OP’s “sister” and her husband are going through a troubling situation because they betrayed her so she owes them nothing. Especially her assistance with the children.
@yozarahirvi4750
5 ай бұрын
Oh, so OP should help because they're sister after all and they're family ? Bu them being sister and being family shouldn't also prevent the sister to sleep with OP's fiance for years behind OP's back ? (OP's first niece was 2 years old when she learned she was her fiance's daughter so the fiance cheated on OP for at least 2 years and 9 months before OP broke up with him and he ended up marrying the sister) I don't understand why "but we're family" work one way but not the other ? if they're family, sleeping with your sister partner is a big nono. but she did sleep with her sister partner, therefore, she's not family, if she's not family, OP doesn't have to help in any way !
@Bero_Zockt
5 ай бұрын
The Family is so Evil - Brutal also why they are trying it after all this?
@marcbenedictpanergo4828
5 ай бұрын
🎉1
@Queen-Blue
5 ай бұрын
#1. NTA!!! Let the "family" look after her children.
@candicemonique5927
5 ай бұрын
There is a special place in hell for family members who steals the spouses of family members especially siblings. You force everyone to choose sides and if they're ahole like this family a side with the cheaters. The one betrayed has just been betrayed again and no longer has a family.
@JD-yz4kr
5 ай бұрын
1st story: OP's feelings are her feelings. If her family is invalidating her feelings, she can tell them that she is willing to cut them off also. 3rd story: OP's brother's personality and body shape is fair game for shaming. 4th story: OP should have told her fiancé that Jason is actually insulting him, as Jason is calling him a cuckold. In many communities, Jason's joke would have merited a death threat or a beating at the very least. Last story: OP should listen to her friend as her sister obviously is just using her husband's sickness to grab OPs inheritance.
@dorisaltman1615
5 ай бұрын
She is moving on, and I wouldn't forgive her either 😢, and now want her help, stay gone young lady, blood don't mean family aww
@philipturner9087
5 ай бұрын
Story 1 - NTA - You need to priorities your own children and husband. Not someone who betrayed you.
@devhxh1558
27 күн бұрын
Well OP had a wedding before but for his family and him is first wedding... Just coz OP is used to wedding doesn't mean its others his family has to suffer from cheap and boring wedding... And get embarrassed in front of whole extended family... Its a shame already that her is getting married to divorcee
@annnichols3091
5 ай бұрын
While I would advise against actually doing it, OP could tell her sister and extended family that she'll watch her sister's kids IF she gets to tell them that their father was supposed to marry her, but he cheated on her with their mother and they are both the products of betrayal and cheating. I think it would guarantee that the family and sister would back off.
@iamalbertwesker2
5 ай бұрын
the comment telling OP to move on is either her family or someone whose family has gone NC with them and cant fathom why
@yeahyeahyeah3724
5 ай бұрын
That commentor saying that OP should "bloody move on" and "have a heart" is a friggin dvmbass. If they get badly betrayed by their family, we should also expect this person to just forgive them because tHeY aRe FaMiLy.
@chung2055
10 күн бұрын
NTA: your sister’s kids aren’t your problem
@devhxh1558
27 күн бұрын
LAST STORY OP sister want to have her care and eat it too. She got her inheritance. And fancy cara and a house but she want to dry OP funds and bet she doesn't planned to return it
@49erGuy
5 ай бұрын
Story number 2 about your brother obsessing over your wife's body just tell your brother that you know a guy who's hit his brother for a lot less than that I've hit my brother so many times for saying crap like that and doing stuff in the past he doesn't bother me anymore with that s*** he lives with me now he would never ever say anything like that out of place because he knows his place I'm the older brother he's the younger brother I'm 67 he's 62 but right now I'm supporting him and he knows how I feel about that kind of crap if he said something out of place like that he knows I'd throw him out of my house in a minute I'm too old to hit him anymore but in my youth when we were in our twenties I punched him a lot for saying stuff out of place like that, he learned his lesson a long time ago LOL
@minisam1988
5 ай бұрын
I hate the let them back in because they are family. Bullshit family doesn't do those horrid things to one another so sis showed she didn't regard op as family. No she needs something she's there crying family. In regards to the op not wanting a relationship with anyone in her sisters direct family i get. The sister is dead to her and so in her mind she has no sister no BIL and no nieces or nephews, they are random people who live local and share family friends that's it.
@grahn3878
2 ай бұрын
Stay away from the toxic people
@saharaowl9712
5 ай бұрын
I would tell them to get lost and that we're not family. The.sister broke.the family bond when she slept with your fiance and had 2 children with him They're strangers now, and as.such you don't need to.help strangers
@ZackPicchietti
5 ай бұрын
Very true she knows that but her sister can use that as a trap
@blakangel216
5 ай бұрын
NTAH! Tell your obnoxious family to take care of her kids.
@damaijin
4 ай бұрын
Her sister nuked that bridge. Why is everyone so mad she can't cross it?
@steelrain0341
19 күн бұрын
Her kids are innocent, but innocent in the same way some stranger's kids 3 towns over might be innocent abut I'm not taking those kids in either
@WombonoCombo
5 ай бұрын
I have matpatify on and the thumbnail has a large white font saying: "DUMB!"
@88isbored
5 ай бұрын
4:58 j cole verse baby
@olga2023
Ай бұрын
Where is the rest of it?
@olga2023
Ай бұрын
NTA op did right
@sandrabrown9173
4 ай бұрын
Don't do it
@jbcroos918
5 ай бұрын
Ah men i am pretty, if someone introduces me to one of those "brutally honest" friends, i will coment -so you are a jerk but friendly enough for your friends to justify it l.
@MeganPaul-y9y
5 ай бұрын
No
@grevenistgeil270
5 ай бұрын
Ok, how placing 6 sentences makes it a story😮 Packing 10-15 together is kinda lame. Do better, at least 7-10 min per story. A 2-3 min per "story" like you do and packing them is , like it ruins everything.
@freakboy220
5 ай бұрын
Dude at least spellcheck the stuff your AI is writing for you.
@BluffMello
5 ай бұрын
I personally would just take care of the kids because I can't leave a child in a situation when I know I can help. But that's me man you got to do what's right for you but maybe just maybe suggest someone else to take care of the kids.
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