Hey Tom, so i just wanted to thank you for all of the work you put here for us, i absolutely love your videos, i won't actually be able to count how many times i cried watching them, and you, being so cheerful, so calm, so...nice.. i suspect that my job might be screwing up my sight, my eyes, i should visit a doctor but I'm actually so scared of doing it.. what if they're not like you? Also.. I don't really know where to go, where do i ask for cranial nerve examination, for anything, i just started life, I'm 20, and i already live on my own, all alone, working for myself, but deep in my heart I'm not an adult.. i am honestly so lost, i genuinely wish you were my father, you seem like a guy that people can rely on. Can I ask you for any life advice? I'm in a deadly loophole, nowhere to go..
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Hey Michael, here’s my take on things, for what it’s worth. I don’t know your specific situation, but really, I don’t need to because it’s clear that you’re in some pain. I remember being 20. Believe me, when you’re 20, you’re still a kid. It sounds though that you’re having to deal with some terribly adult things,despite being just out of your teens. Do you realise how much strength that takes, and how strong and resilient that makes you? That’s something to ponder when you’re feeling less than zero. Ok, here are 3 things that’ll help you immensely in the short term, that might ease your pain a little so you can better deal with things. With the 3rd one, I’m gonna give you my email address so I can send you some examples via WeTransfer. 1. Take some deep breaths, then sit yourself down with a pen and paper. Make a list of all the things you want to change in your life; emotional, financial, social etc etc. If it all seems too much, simply leave it and come back to it later. For each thing, break it down into smaller, actionable steps that you can take each day, to achieve what you want in the long term. But here’s the thing- just writing down a plan, even on the back of an envelope, makes you feel better. It tells your brain that you’re taking action, and it’ll help alleviate the short term stress that you’re under. 2. Posture. Now hear me out on this one. Mind-body connection is HUGE, and vastly under appreciated. Stand up straight, shoulders back, head held high, walk with purpose, dignity and strength. This tells your brain that you’re confident and capable, and hey presto, that’s how you’ll feel. When people are depressed, they slouch their shoulders and shuffle along, trying to make themselves smaller and insignificant, and your brain will tell you exactly the same thing. This is something you can do straightaway to feel better. Trust me on this one. 3. YOUR THOUGHTS CAN BE YOUR GREATEST ALLY OR YOUR WORST ENEMY. Believe me, I know this only too well. The trick is knowing that your thoughts aren’t you. You don’t need to let them drag you down. Meditation is a life saver here, and although it won’t give you benefits straightaway like 1. and 2. will, it’ll dampen negative thoughts and give you better perspective in the long haul. Drop me an email thelaughingheartasmr@googlemail.com and I’ll send you some guided meditations by a guy by the name of Jon Kabat-Zinn; he’ll help you immensely. He’s got a cool Brooklyn accent too, that I could listen to for hours. Here’s some perspective; as long as you’re breathing, anything is possible. And everything can change for you. You’re stronger than you think. Have an awesome day my friend! And remember, you’ve got this. Tom and Mickey 😊❤️ x
@Excl0
Жыл бұрын
Time for timestamps! ☕ 0:13 Taking your pulserate (inaudible whispering) 1:00 Machine sounds sortof? idk how to call this just enjoy it hahaha 2:04 Taking your temperature 2:50 Listening to your heart and lungs 7:11 Checking your skin (glove sounds) 12:00 Light triggers 13:21 Follow the light 15:01 Light triggers 18:56 Close your eyes... 19:27 Glove sounds 20:18 Close your eyes... 20:41 Tuning fork 21:52 Following instructions 22:42 Inaudible whispering 23:56 Light triggers 25:47 Glove sounds 26:53 Listening to your heartbeat 28:08 Keyboard sounds 28:16 Outro!
@rhys2929
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏼
@menopausalbarbie7467
Жыл бұрын
Thanks very much! 💜💜💜
@Alberts_Stuff
Жыл бұрын
Wow that was fast, you're the best! 🙏🏻
@robertjuniordorval9982
Жыл бұрын
Thanks ❤
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
THE LEGEND RETURNS 😊❤️
@fentixo
Жыл бұрын
Bring back the heart beat trigger😩, the finger tap heart beats are always so tinglyy
@cheesypumpernickel5568
Жыл бұрын
All the tingliest visual triggers one next to another - that's gorgeous.
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@pinking123et
Жыл бұрын
The quiet counting backwards is just sending all the CHILLS down my spine. More of that
@robertjuniordorval9982
Жыл бұрын
That’s stress me out! Like I needed to breath…
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Consider it done 😊❤️
@Littlemisspeachy
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for doing the direct/consensual!!! Gets me every time
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure! 😊❤️
@aica9790
Жыл бұрын
I love the glares in 13:55 very cinematic *chef’s kiss*
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Why thank you! :-)
@aica9790
Жыл бұрын
@@TheLaughingHeartASMR oops sorry for the double comment haha! Got way too excited
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
@@aica9790 🤣🤣🤣
@Redhoodjoker
Жыл бұрын
The tuning fork is my favorite trigger and I love the hearing test/ eyes closed trigger so when you combined them it was heavenly
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
One of my favourite triggers 😊❤️
@cherylhaynes2552
Жыл бұрын
Another great video. You are so soothing. You could read a dictionary and your voice would relax me. Thank you.
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Why thank you ma’am! 😊❤️
@Simonsworld
Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that u are constantly posting exam videos 😊
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
More to come! 😊❤️
@AJ-lr1ke
Жыл бұрын
In bed with the mysterious and dreaded lurgy all day today, so this feels like an apt one to try and rest up to. Love the way this is structured to have eyes closed towards the end to really encourage sleep 😴
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Hope you sleep well buddy 😊❤️
@TheJuasjusjus
Жыл бұрын
I was just checking your channel and yes! New video! Thanks for helping us get some sleep, pretty rough week here but you work your magic as always!! Can't thank you enough 🤗🤗
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome Alex 😊❤️
@artz3277
Жыл бұрын
I just love that type of Asmr, cause it summons special tingles ^.^
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Yay, thank you! :-)
@menopausalbarbie7467
Жыл бұрын
Perfect timing! Thanks so much 💜💜💜
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! 😊❤️
@chronalvault8046
Жыл бұрын
Hey Tom! You should have way more subs than that my man! Keep it up, you’re my no.1 ASMR! Really love that calm energy. Big love from Montreal!
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Thanks! Will do! 😊❤️
@_faDEAD
Жыл бұрын
Sleep = Tom. Keep doing the good mate..Thank You.🖤
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Always! 😊❤️
@JennyNow
Жыл бұрын
Another winner 🏆. Fell asleep 😴 while listening to this 🎉❤ Thank you 🙏
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome ! 😊❤️
@Alberts_Stuff
Жыл бұрын
Lovely pacing and soft tone Tom, loving this 🥰👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Albert! 😊❤️
@daniellecovey5068
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tom! This is relaxing me to no end
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure Danielle, glad you enjoyed! 😊❤️
@MistyDW41
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for t he video, definately felt sleepy!
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! 😊❤️
@Inkfish
Жыл бұрын
This is very relaxing, thank you again Tom! :3
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure! 😊❤️
@karisjayne99
Жыл бұрын
Another great video! Always able to get me to fall asleep 😊
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
😴😴😴
@cleavestime
Жыл бұрын
I've put on this video probably 4 or 5 times, and I don't think I've made it past the first 10 minutes ever
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Yay! Thank you! 😊❤️
@mariagodfrey5760
Жыл бұрын
Love these videos but guess what Tom?! ... love you even more. When it comes to asmr, you are my favourite. Love what you're doing and you're a wonderful human being on top of alllll of that! ♥️ Dare I say, you are practically perfect in every way. ♥️
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
COMMENT OF THE DAY ^^^ Thanks my friend 😊❤️
@mariagodfrey5760
Жыл бұрын
@@TheLaughingHeartASMR you are most welcome ♥️😊
@roserobertson
Жыл бұрын
goodnight 😴 love a medical exam + finding out everything is wrong with me 😃 what a way to sleep
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Hello Summer! Hope you slept well buddy 😊❤️
@roserobertson
Жыл бұрын
@@TheLaughingHeartASMR always tom 😉❤️
@danielamammana8481
Жыл бұрын
Just in time! Thank you ❤
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! 😊❤️
@rhys2929
Жыл бұрын
Needed thank you so much x
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome ! 😊❤️
@millzie9852
Жыл бұрын
this is a very good video as always
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much! 😊❤️
@iLadyAsmr
Жыл бұрын
2:39 😂
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
🤣
@fatimaoubijjane326
Жыл бұрын
🙏✨ awesome video!
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ! 🙌
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
PATREON IS HERE! Check it out: www.patreon.com/LaughHeart
@rae-qt7zb
Жыл бұрын
back on my commenting reigeme! remembered not to fall asleep instantley!
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Yay! :-D
@PijoLiz
Жыл бұрын
That was good, thank you! Just a remark though... This audio effect, I suppose you use it for noise suppression but it's a little disorienting, just saying, maybe it's just me. Anyway, keep up the good work, I watch all your videos. And do more inaudible/whispering ones! Cheers from Greece.
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Hello Kostas! Yes, someone else mentioned the audio a week or two ago…I’m not sure what it is, I don’t use noise suppression or anything. The only thing I can think of…and you’re gonna laugh at this…my apartment is directly behind a restaurant/bar that has some kind of air extractor running at odd hours that gives off a kind of white noise; I thought my mic wouldn’t pick up the sound but maybe I’m wrong! I can’t think of anything else, but if you have any editing hacks I could use (I use DaVinci Resolve) I’d be most grateful! 😊
@PijoLiz
Жыл бұрын
@@TheLaughingHeartASMR I know this sound, as I am an audio engineer. I rarely use it in cases of extreme distortion in order to smooth the outcome. I believe it's a mic setting or on your phone, not sure. Anyway, it's not a big deal!
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
@@PijoLiz Thanks buddy! I’ll check the mic settings and see what’s up 😊
@NenfiMenthe
Жыл бұрын
I wish you’d make a video all sounding like how you counted down from 15 in the beginning
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Maybe one day! 😊❤️
@NenfiMenthe
Жыл бұрын
@@TheLaughingHeartASMR you’re the best 💜
@unicorn3025
Жыл бұрын
First off I was little afraid at the beginning when you ask to roll up my sleeve 💉😭💉😭💉😭💉😭 Second thing is when I was little I thought 🩺👈 was a 🐍 And if I told you this already well I just don't remember 🤷♀️ Third thing is I always will l💖ve your hand waving and Close your eyes 😴 Good night everyone 🌛🌚🌜
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
G’nite Unicorn! 😊❤️
@matt6165
Жыл бұрын
youre the best yay!!
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Aw you guys 🥰🥰🥰
@guitarsteven
Жыл бұрын
So early here. Awesome!!
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
Thanks buddy! 😊❤️
@TobyDean29
Жыл бұрын
Cool!
@TheLaughingHeartASMR
Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@cherrysnow4923
Жыл бұрын
i wanna eat potato wedges but it's raining outside
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