Looking for a wife while his son was battling cancer? Hayi Owamie, you've lost the plot.
@kelebogilemotlogelwa1582
Күн бұрын
True, I totally disagree with owamie on this one aowa😮
@khathutshelo051
Күн бұрын
Men are worse than the bear !🐻
@Hleh-k1d
21 сағат бұрын
She’s insensible
@rorowamanteko1725
18 сағат бұрын
We can also say she wasn't married because she married herself by paying her own lobola, so big guy was looking for his soul mate... Would that be fair? Apply your mind please. Your lack of emotional intelligence will be your downfall. You come here sharing your story, because it's what you went through, we don't judge you.
@AmandaY306
18 сағат бұрын
Shuu!! Wait till Owamie is mom, then we can revisit this discussion...! Vile and ugly heart
@chanaeM
Күн бұрын
I think as a society we take infidelity lightly. Saying that he belongs to Jesus should not be a thing. No baby is born walking, if he can not keep his word and not betray you while you guys are dating what is stopping him from doing the same while you’re married? A person of integrity knows that cheating both in dating and marriage is wrong.
@prudencedantye9297
Күн бұрын
It’s infidelity when people are married not in umjolo. According to the Bible you’re not even supposed to be engaging in sex before marriage. This is for our protection…the Bible says guard your heart above all things…We guard our hearts by keeping our legs closed when dating…. I’m glad that she found Jesus and she’s healed. Unfortunately she learnt the hard way.
@aviwepama8286
Күн бұрын
@@chanaeM .
@aviwepama8286
Күн бұрын
I was not aware.... A lot of people do not want to read and are ignorant. Marriage is a God-ordained covenant relationship between man and woman, where their sexually exclusive relationship brings children into the world to sustain the connotation of be fruitful and multiple.......Weather you married or not it is still cheating.....Nothing of marriage is mentioned in Genesis as a "traditional ceremony" although Adam and Eve were husband and wife through being ordained. We then look at Joseph and Mary.....Mary is expecting a baby, Joseph wants to leave her....why? They were not married, so basically, let us stop promoting what some would call premature adultery....people should read more and not hear from their peers. Nyovest cheated......this has been a promoted culture by our black brothers.
@prudencedantye9297
17 сағат бұрын
@@aviwepama8286 I hear you Aviwe. Yes, this is a promoted culture by our black brothers, why? Because our black sisters have no boundaries. Dating is not spending time in your man’s bedroom or making Babies. Dating is for getting to know each other, studying his character and him studying yours. It’s for vetting the man to see if he’s worthy of being your husband. If he cheats, then you can leave him because clearly he doesn’t have integrity and isn’t worthy of being your man. If you’re sleeping with him, it complicates things and if you have a baby by him it makes things worse…
@leegaleaglenombo9430
17 сағат бұрын
@prudencedantye9297 👏🏻
@Bassdrumkick
Күн бұрын
I am convinced that we are in a lost generation if we excuse cheating for people in committed relationships. With this type of mentality, it means we are undermining the importance of trust, loyalty, and respect that form the foundation of any healthy relationship, whether married or not. It sets a dangerous precedent that commitment is only valid once formalized, ignoring the emotional and moral responsibilities people have to one another in all serious partnerships.
@bomikazimalimba6553
Күн бұрын
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@zees521
Күн бұрын
Our generation is doomed, the fact that people also want to split the two, saying he is a good dad bcoz he was there for the child. What about Thobeka? Didn't she deserve to not be cheated on? And to be loved and supported, it infuriates me so much that we have normalised treating mothers like nonsense and excuse the actions of the father saying they don't owe the mother loyalty
@mzansisoapiereviewroastand613
Күн бұрын
@@zees521Society has normalized abusing Women in some shape or form, we have to learn to put ourselves first. I think as women when you decide to have a child, you must be more than prepared to be alone so that when they leave you don't become shocked to a point you can't function, have your support system beside the man
@fnamelname-s1r
Күн бұрын
@zees521 they weren't married. They just met and he fucked
@aviwepama8286
Күн бұрын
@Bassdrumkick A lot of people do not want to read and are ignorant. Marriage is a God-ordained covenant relationship between man and woman, where their sexually exclusive relationship brings children into the world to sustain the connotation of be fruitful and multiple.......Weather you married or not it is still cheating.....Nothing of marriage is mentioned in Genesis as a "traditional ceremony" although Adam and Eve were husband and wife through being ordained. We then look at Joseph and Mary.....Mary is expecting a baby, Joseph wants to leave her....why? They were not married, so basically, let us stop promoting what some would call premature adultery....people should read more and not hear from their peers. Nyovest cheated......this has been a promoted culture by our black brothers.
@thembi6946
Күн бұрын
You missing the plot ma'am… Thobeka made it clear in her post its not even much about them dating but the timing, and flaunting the relationship while she was going through that with her sick child… the disrespect 😏yhuu they both disgusting to me.
@DrMath_worldwide
Күн бұрын
Owamie, if Caspper did what he did to you, we would hear about this story for years.your lack of compassion is scary 🚮
@ReallifeTeawithRee
15 сағат бұрын
Very scary💔
@cleopatramahlalela932
Күн бұрын
When you have your own child one day, I can only hope you never have to go through the same pain. It hits hard when you have a child with your partner and have them do that to you…Whether married or not, no woman deserves that. Your village mentality is sickening
@N-kay31
Күн бұрын
I can't stop picking my jaw from the floor. So triggered by her insidious opinion. Thoroughly disappointing.
@nolithabe
Күн бұрын
Yohhh
@jemimahbondo567
18 сағат бұрын
Yes!!!!You are right
@LukeRev480
14 сағат бұрын
What does a village have to do with her mentality? Haybo watch out wena singaqheleki kaloku ezilalini tyhini!
@cleopatramahlalela932
6 сағат бұрын
@@LukeRev480 I must watch out? If the shoe fits.
@zoephilile2274
Күн бұрын
Cheating doesn’t having to be, only in marriage. It’s someone going against his word to you, it is betrayal and cheating. It is based on what the couple has defined, for themselves, what would constitute as cheating.
@neosjournal_
Күн бұрын
And the same Cassper mentioned in an interview that this baby they had was planned. So he planned to trap her with a baby only for him to cheat🚮🚮
@SibsM93
Күн бұрын
Side eyeing your opinions this week Queen Ninja. Yoh. Granted they were not married, but he should have broken up with her and moved on to his wife. Not hurt her like that while she was already in pain due to her baby's illness. Also Bex said Pulane flaunted the relationship in her face. Now that's heartless.
@Mysweetdairy20
Күн бұрын
But we also dnt know what Casper his wife for her to flaunt irelationship .
@zamokuhlemkwanazi5350
Күн бұрын
Thank you for this comment. Not going to waste my time watching this video
@lebogangm234
Күн бұрын
I think the big problem here is how we’ve normalised having children out of wedlock, it creates really painful experiences for mothers. In this case it’s unfortunately a sick child. A lot of women are hurting, we need to stop
@Drey2K-kr6zc
Күн бұрын
Somethong is wrong with Owamie trust me
@Blessed_for_life_2023
5 сағат бұрын
But the lady could have also broken up with him mos. His loyalty should be for the child, that's it.
@Ordell.M
Күн бұрын
When she said “he later married her” I felt that yoh 💔
He was unmarried & wanted to get married what is the issue?
@Hleh-k1d
21 сағат бұрын
@@RayOfLetsatsiI hope you will get your answer, when you go through a similar situation…just saying
@sphindilengcobo1535
Күн бұрын
"Cassper did not cheat, he was looking for his wife"😮 aybo Owamie I can't believe I heard you say that.
@miguel_miggy97
16 сағат бұрын
I did not watch the whole thing, just browsing comments and I think I will leave it there, sounds like she saying a lot of insensible things, so i'll pass...thank you.
@thembisilemsiza942
14 сағат бұрын
You did well, I regret listening to this bunch of nonsense 🙄 😒
@takie9204
14 сағат бұрын
Owamie really needs to change and do a lot of self development, so her reporting can be progressive and well put 🤢
@Mi_nky
10 сағат бұрын
I am still in shock & very much dissapointed
@sincedilemadonsela5089
Күн бұрын
No, he cheated on his girlfriend and mother of his child with a side chick. He later married the side chick
@hazelnutbar
Күн бұрын
Yall like silly labels
@anthiamashudu2663
Күн бұрын
When she said it is not the infidelity but the timing" 😢😢
@bigbrownbabe
Күн бұрын
It's not a divorce, relax . There is no timing like she was his wife . He was allowed to date and find his wife
@aviwepama8286
Күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@asivegaxa9788
18 сағат бұрын
@@bigbrownbabe while his son is battling cancer?? Aibo come right
@bigbrownbabe
18 сағат бұрын
@@asivegaxa9788 what does the child's illness got to do with his relationship status? Please explain
@1phindy
Күн бұрын
Cassper was talking smack about A.K. A when he cheated on Zinhle making himself appear like a good guy. Today he's doing worse....so disappointed. I'm glad Thobeka and the baby are okay❤
@fezekamkhulisi3798
Күн бұрын
its not about Cas cheating but neglecting his only son when he needed him the most.
@mhlox654
18 сағат бұрын
But who said he neglected the son? He just wasn’t there for her as a partner
@ellletea
17 сағат бұрын
That's the thing that's shocking. He was busy saying, but his child is sick. How did he have time for dating and marriage and take care of a sick child??
@fezekamkhulisi3798
17 сағат бұрын
@@mhlox654was he there for those chemotherapy sessions for his son?
@dot510
Күн бұрын
Hayi Owammie this is not about Casper loving Thobeka or not. He could have known that he wants to marry Pulane but waited for the sake of his son. Why? Because this would affect Thobeka emotionally and psychologically and since his young son depended more on his mom for survival, it would have been uBuntu to wait until the son recovers and Casper would marry whomever he decides to marry PERIOD! He was not only insensitive to the mother of his child but too selfish to be a father. He did not put his son's needs ahead of his own.
@julietkaunda9600
Күн бұрын
I wish I could like your post a hundred times
@gapeapril_
Күн бұрын
She can’t understand bcz she doesn’t have a child. Some women wouldn’t haven’t been as strong as Thobeka. If she had succumbed to depression or anger and bitterness their child may have not received the medical care needed. So yes, he choose himself over his child. Personally I wouldn’t ever let him near my child again.
@nthabisengmashaba1
Күн бұрын
Ohhhhh this comment. Thank you.
@RMg683
Күн бұрын
So we can go around breaking people's heart's, wasting people's time, messing them up emotionally, sometimes for a lifetime and then justify this evil by saying, "we were not married"....Queen Ninja maybe it's me who's not understanding you
@startingover7217
Күн бұрын
I'm also lost. Yoh!
@jenniferngobese9929
Күн бұрын
It's not the infidelity but the timing was bad, he should have supported his Baby Mama during this season.
@AFRICAN-TALES.3447
Күн бұрын
The truth is hard to swallow 😢😢 ladies choose yourselves. Demand marriage and money before anything else . These men have no hearts
@fnamelname-s1r
Күн бұрын
@@jenniferngobese9929 She had sex before marriage
@miguel_miggy97
16 сағат бұрын
She has lost it... for her commitment is marriage, she does not understand the value of relationships, because that is where marriages are formed...Owamie wa gafa.
@cestmoitout
Күн бұрын
That thing for men not being emotional is not true- they use that as an excuse to cop out of situations to get the easy way out. The only emotion they seem to acknowledge is anger-which is still an emotion.
@startingover7217
Күн бұрын
This!
@Daisy.Mohajane
Күн бұрын
So true
@keikei1943
14 сағат бұрын
Exactly 💯
@LeiletaThuli
13 сағат бұрын
Bruh! I once read a post that said it's not that men aren't emotional. They are, it's just that they're less empathetic / have less empathy than women. That's why they can break you and still not feel sorry for you/what they did. Beside that I'd say that society has enabled this because men have always been taught to care only about themselves and women to care about others.
@cestmoitout
12 сағат бұрын
@@LeiletaThuli It is so draining. Most times I only see them showing empathy to their fellow men . It is true that society enables them and that is why women have to critically examine their own belief systems and the role they play in advancing this imbalance. Red p*llers are the angriest set of youtubers I have ever seen. Imagine someone shouting ' men are logical' that time they are banging on the table, veins and eyeballs popping eh eh! Uncle your blood pressure please. lol
@Khumo_Mpho
Күн бұрын
So disappointed that Owamie is saying all this. This is why people are afraid of getting in serious relationships
@ZeeYanda-b1w
22 сағат бұрын
People's relationships should be respected and so as marriages
@hlonimokgadi3848
Күн бұрын
Wow, your opinion really shocked me. If two consenting adults agree to be in a committed, MONOGAMOUS relationship, then when someone decides to step outside that relationship it is cheating, irregardless of whether you're married or not
@Liyoletha
Күн бұрын
😮i like owamie but today ah oh
@Ponchables
Күн бұрын
@Liyoletha This entire week nje she's been shocking me.
@Liyoletha
Күн бұрын
@@Ponchables maybe I had high expectations but again it her channel and has a right to state her views and perspective....
@desireemashabela
Күн бұрын
Her opinion on this makes me question her a lot. There are some things in life that just don't come easy, jwalo banna must marry us before we could say they owe us loyalty? She's very wrong on this one shem
@Ponchables
Күн бұрын
@@Liyoletha True. Kodwa haike.
@khanyikoetsi98
Күн бұрын
I almost cried reading that caption,I even unfollowed Cassper because no ways,she doesn't deserve all of that
@PinkyGabayi
Күн бұрын
You unfollowed Caspar,lapho baby mama still follows him🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@asandamathontsi5896
Күн бұрын
I also unfollowed him yuu😢😂
@munzhedzitshikovhele1990
Күн бұрын
@@PinkyGabayiI checked she doesn't
@dineogee110
Күн бұрын
Personally, the stress of having to look after my cancer admitted baby and my baby daddy cheating on me and getting married was really gonna give me depression for a long time 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔.im very weak for umjolo
@SanelisiweB
Күн бұрын
Nobody just gets married - unless it’s an arranged one. Most people date first & then their relationship leads to marriage. So if we’re saying cheating is allowed in relationships then we’re also saying it’s allowed in marriage mos? because umntu who can’t stay loyal in umjolo certainly won’t stay loyal [for a lifetime] in marriage
@AnitaMbulawa
Күн бұрын
My thoughts too📍📍 if he can't stay loyal in the relationship/dating phase he will not even during marriage.
@KatMug
Күн бұрын
Exactly, these are the same people who will marry a cheater and think that they’ll change once they are married
@Ponchables
Күн бұрын
@KatMug So true, a bunch of clowns is what they are🚮 Down playing cheating like it's only valid in marriage.
@busisiwemalundu4092
Күн бұрын
Cheating is cheating!!! Owamie am married and I feel and understand her disappointment.
@seithatibaloyiletstour9073
20 сағат бұрын
Thats why when my son passed on ,I did not tell the father, I burried my son with dignity, I only told him the following day post funeral.then blocked him and all his relatives
@asivegaxa9788
18 сағат бұрын
Sending love n hugs❤
@MaleboD
7 сағат бұрын
Sending love mama❤️❤️❤️
@zamaswaziprincess465
5 сағат бұрын
May God heal you ❤❤and bless you
@KHAY28
Сағат бұрын
😭😭😭This sounds heartbreaking....askies mama ❤
@angelousdebrandlovu8198
Күн бұрын
Am glad you said your personal opinion so it doesn't mean you are right.If you are in a relationship and you start seeing someone else on the side its cheating PERIOD.
@nosiphosibeko1
Күн бұрын
When you have your OWN child that you given birth to one day and have also had your child diagnosed with any sickness and have that happen to please come back and comment like this. This also has nothing to do with Casper’s cheating it’s about him neglecting his responsibility as father e.g your father’s actions towards you and your siblings.
@yayam8447
Күн бұрын
🤔 Even paying for your own lobola doesn't make the man yours, he will still go and search for his soul mate, neh?
@kgolaganoloate1039
Күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@44Buyi
Күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@julietkaunda9600
Күн бұрын
You guys never forget neh😁😁😁
@yayam8447
Күн бұрын
They did Thobeka very dirty those ones, I even suspect that it was P...l..ne who was spreading rumours about Andile being the father of the child. If you think of it, she was in hospital with her child when those rumours circulated .
@LethoHali
Күн бұрын
@@yayam8447😢
@ng225
Күн бұрын
My gosh! Cheating does not only happen in marriage, it also happens in courtships. If she was the one who did what Cassper did to her, wouldn't we all be saying she cheated? Even though they were NOT MARRIED? Cheating is cheating!
@thatotlhowe
Күн бұрын
Indeed a man always knows what his doing and who he wants to marry. No amount of children you birth for a man who has not made you a wife can change him. 😢
@Blessed_for_life_2023
5 сағат бұрын
Absolutely
@lelethuzana
Күн бұрын
Men will leave you in the desert without water
@johannahmatheba
Күн бұрын
Is very sad
@kelebogilemotlogelwa1582
Күн бұрын
Khanyi mbau's theory is proven right again and again
@neo5948
22 сағат бұрын
I was looking for this comment 😂😂😂😂❤
@TsheM
Күн бұрын
Aowa Owami cheating is cheating whether married or not. As long as there is some union, don't break it. The only reason Casper married her was because Thobeka had found out and was not ready to forgive him because of broken trust. Casper had left Puleng ready to ask for forgiveness from Thobeka.
@senabelombele3746
Күн бұрын
Her views sometimes. Ay. 🥴
@Liyoletha
Күн бұрын
How can you trust a men that cheat while still dating where will the assurance of him to be faithful on his vow
@tezulumagagula7556
Күн бұрын
Being a girlfriend is not a union
@RayOfLetsatsi
Күн бұрын
Being a girlfriend is not a union unless you are quoting another religion or culture we don't know how of.
@TsheM
23 сағат бұрын
@RayOfLetsatsi My Oxford dictionary does not limit the word "union" to marriage. I'll save you the time and paste it for you below. When a couple is said to be in "union," it typically means that they are in a committed relationship or marriage. The term "union" generally refers to a legal or social agreement between two people, often involving shared responsibilities, mutual support, and a shared life together.
@MsBeautySpots
Күн бұрын
Owamie, may you never feel the pain Thobeka is feeling.
@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok
19 сағат бұрын
@Ms...what special pain is thobeka s pain?we ve all been betrayed & hurt,sum women were dumped when de child died.
@mrshamunyela2194
20 сағат бұрын
You and your ex husband were together for years before you actually got married both legally and the whole lobola situation yet you always indicate ex husband of 9years in actual fact you were not married for 9years. The relationship was however a serious and committed relationship how you cannot see that in other people’s relationships like this one is so shocking and disappointing. You’re terribly working here and you’re genuinely becoming crazy insensitive to topics lately especially when you’ve missed the plot. Maybe skip a few topics and reflect before reporting it really gives reckless reporting. This is distasteful to say the least.
@julieotieno5800
8 сағат бұрын
@@mrshamunyela2194 very diabolical and insensitive of her.Then she's asking us to vote for her with a foul mouth
@ongezwa_siyamthanda
17 сағат бұрын
Your opinion on this one sends a message that women who aren't married and their children can be treated like filth and it is justified. We uphold marriage over everything it's clear. I do not think even God intended for marriage to be idolized in this manner! it's shameful to justify what Casper and his wife did, not to Thobeka but to the child who was battling cancer, she did say it was more the timing that broke her because she had to be there fighting with their child for his life while the dad and his now wife were having a jol. That's the issue here and as mothers we feel it, at the time she needed his respect and support in order to have the strength she needed to fight with her child and instead he broke her. STOP IDOLIZING MARRIAGE SO MUCH!!!!!
@charitykamogelo8457
Күн бұрын
Baby mamas in the comment section should heal. The minute people accept that men do what they want whenever they want, people will not see what casper did as amazing. South African men do worse than he did
@saneleabigail6298
Күн бұрын
It's not about Cassper not loving Thobe ka. Owamie, Thobeka needed support from his baby daddy not marriage. Please read that caption again
@rorowamanteko1725
20 сағат бұрын
Owamie you are just a shell, no human emotions whatsoever when it comes to relationships. I dont know if it stems from your past hurt, but... Casper was in a serious relationship with Thobeka, her hurt is valid, regardless of whether they were married or not. I am a ninja, love you very much, but the manner in which you're addressing this is also very insensitive
@gapeapril_
Күн бұрын
Owamie , from the comments here , I choose not to listen to your opinion. Sometimes, you need not to have an opinion over things you can’t relate to. You are unable to see this from a mother’s side because you have no children of your own. His actions could have easily led a weaker woman into depression or a spiral of anger and bitterness. His actions could have affected the attention the mother gave to their then terminally ill child’s healthcare and resulted in chaos had she been a weaker woman. Have kids and speak with informed opinions. The timing was evil .
@rainbowtyukala8452
17 сағат бұрын
I don’t have kids but I don’t think like her in this situation 😢 hayi I’m very disappointed at Owamie 😢and you right she must keep her opinions to herself especially when she can’t relate
@miguel_miggy97
16 сағат бұрын
It is wise to keep quiet if you do not have something of value to comment...Owamie needs to understand that, this topic needs empathy, someone who's been in the same shoes as Thobeka, unfortunately for , she has never been... so @Owamie Entertainment, ma'am SHUT UP🙄
@kelebogilejohannaseeletso9283
Күн бұрын
Hawu Owamie,but you always judged Bonang for dating AKA,,,you even said she lost you as a fan because of that.Was AKA married to Zinhle?
@Peighter
15 сағат бұрын
She addressed this in the video; you are choosing to be upset.
@kimberly_H
Күн бұрын
This is such a crappy mentality this why ya'll are not getting married cause people first need to prove loyalty before marriage, you don't learn to be loyal and not cheat when you are married. People are dogging cassper's wife because why would be busy with a man in a relationship while his girlfriend is in the hospital with a sick child. People have been condemning Mihlali for what she did every chance they get. You missed this one totally sisi cause Thobeka did say what hurt her was the timing not what he did. You should have just sat on this story and critically think ungangxami ngethink piece yakho.
@teebee236
Күн бұрын
The way i cried ninja when i saw her post yhol men😢
@OwamieEntertainment
Күн бұрын
Guys sorry about the sound 🏃🏽♂️
@nomveloG
Күн бұрын
I really want to vote for you can you please explain in detail how to vote because I’m not good with the internet thing
@leesparkles101
Күн бұрын
❤
@tsakamhlabane9269
23 сағат бұрын
Like she said Owamie, it’s the timing!!! You lack sensitivity Sis, this is not about how you view it….thus pulane girl has been throwing shade, she knows she’s guilty… she lacks class like you Owamie no wonder you siding with her🚮🚮🚮
@tulz123
Күн бұрын
And she is expecting y’all to vote for her when she can’t even get context right. SMFH!!!
@asivegaxa9788
18 сағат бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 @tulz123 please vote
@tulz123
8 сағат бұрын
@@asivegaxa9788 hello no. 🤣
@nkosana_wongama
Күн бұрын
Inobuso bokukhohlakala nje legirl!!But Bexx won maarn!Marrying a man who's capable of that and thinking you are an exception is a problem😮
@Ponchables
Күн бұрын
Bo Mrs I'm special If he can do that to a child he planned, what makes her think her future kids with him or herself nje are safe?
@Cr3asionz
Күн бұрын
@@Ponchablesexactly
@Ordell.M
Күн бұрын
Yoh I didn’t expect this commentary 😂 sad but it’s the truth
@cleopatramahlalela932
Күн бұрын
Yho, you never cease to amaze me. Your level of thinking is shocking. Are you okay upstairs?
@N-kay31
Күн бұрын
@@aviwepama8286RESOUNDING NOOO!!!
@julietkaunda9600
Күн бұрын
@@aviwepama8286 Not sure dear
@aviwepama8286
Күн бұрын
@@cleopatramahlalela932 I am voting
@GossiphiveEnt
Күн бұрын
Obviously you are not authentic when doing your hell and back stories, you are judging them behind their backs 😂😂😂😂
@asivegaxa9788
18 сағат бұрын
😮😂😂😂😂
@GossiphiveEnt
17 сағат бұрын
@@asivegaxa9788 I’m serious yazi, like WTF? 😂
@ScissorN
17 сағат бұрын
100%
@rainbowtyukala8452
17 сағат бұрын
That’s the first thing that came to my mind and also her laughing while talking about this situation hayi shame
@asivegaxa9788
15 сағат бұрын
@@GossiphiveEnt the thing is I cant unthink what u said apha🤣🤣
@lesterdampie6134
Күн бұрын
I have been avoiding this story all day, waiting on you to speak on it, Mommy. 😢😢😢
@mariasimon231
Күн бұрын
And then she just disappointed us all bu how she views this matter
@N-kay31
Күн бұрын
Only for her to come with such an insensitive and heartless commentary, that condones betrayal, emotional and psychological abuse. I'm Shocked!
@N-kay31
Күн бұрын
@@mariasimon231Yoooooooh!!!
@mariasimon231
Күн бұрын
@@N-kay31 yeah she really vile on this one hey all she thinks about is mihlali and mimi has nothing to do with this story. Cassper was wrong and that's it Wishing thobeka all the peace and healing she needs
@N-kay31
Күн бұрын
@@mariasimon231 Amen🙏🏾
@zees521
Күн бұрын
Even though some believe Karma doesn't exist, what Pulane doesn't realise is that she married ma man with no honour and good character, he will not change for her, she is nothing special when it comes to a man capable of something so heinous and devastating. And as for Cassper, I have no words, he was never shit to begin with, him and his wife deserve each other.
@eulanda.m
Күн бұрын
Your commentary has been diabolical for the past week. What the hell?
@Samantha-Ina
Күн бұрын
And imagine if she didn’t have the kind of money she has, they would have suffered my dear 😅
@isandragabrielasimbo956
Күн бұрын
How u met him is how ull loose him. Women should stop this thing of saying I'm better then her is why he left her, blah blah blah. No one is special wat he can do to his ex he will surely do the same to u
@beewest5704
Күн бұрын
Casper was there for a good time not for a long time. The minute things got real he dipped. Same thing will unfortunately happen to his wife.
@manthobajudithrammutlanyan529
Күн бұрын
It is not about the Infidelity, it is about the timing😭 imagine someone doing that to you while your child is in hospital.
@Melumzi4343
16 сағат бұрын
What I like about this story...mna Jesus was a solution and Thobeka glorifies Jesus 🙌
@thandazilezungu2222
Күн бұрын
Owamie giving us dululu advice😂😂😂 we going on dates even though we in relationships 👀🙆🏽♀️😂😂😂😂Owamieeeee
@emmyiiyambo6463
Күн бұрын
It's rough in these dating streets 💔😂😂
@sihleqengqeleka7125
Күн бұрын
You completely missed her point. Kanene English yingxaki kuwe 🤑 No wonder you paid your own lobola 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@asivegaxa9788
18 сағат бұрын
😭 yhuuuu haybo Sihle!😂😂😂
@sihleqengqeleka7125
17 сағат бұрын
@@asivegaxa9788 Usile lo 🤣🤣🤣
@miguel_miggy97
16 сағат бұрын
She reads to give her commentary and not to understand🙄
@busekacharlie2529
Күн бұрын
Wow so we get into relationships only to babysit other women's husbands? Why do we even date if the only thing stopping a guy from stepping out is marriage? Also if he can't be faithful in a relationship, then how will a marriage keep him? How can you have a faithful husband from a cheating boyfriend? What happened to how you get him is how you will lose him? Girrrl this commentary is a mess TBH
@KoketsoNdaba
Күн бұрын
I believe during their valley period, Cassper found solace in his now wife. During that period, he might have realized that she's actually his wife. The period they were in was challenging (for lack of better word) I must allude, however it opened new destinies for both of them (a blessing in disguise). I Pray Thobeka heals and holds on to Jesus, whom provides Unfathomable peace ❤❤. Love and Light to her and her son ❤❤.
@soothethesoul9535
Күн бұрын
God should have left men to live alone. He should have just created homies for them and left us women alone😂
@piela_n
Күн бұрын
I have no words💔
@eulanda.m
Күн бұрын
At all.
@TshifhiwaMashamba
Күн бұрын
And that is true we need to protect our wombs
@ayandanobatana3440
19 сағат бұрын
@@TshifhiwaMashamba Till we are 40 so that we can have problems.These days ppl make kids bcz they wanna be mom's.That is what Thobeka did, after it all will be lonely masiguga.
@BarbieYunch
19 сағат бұрын
@@ayandanobatana3440I don’t mind aging and dying alone. Rather that than living a stressful baby mama lifestyle.
@ayandanobatana3440
17 сағат бұрын
@@BarbieYunch I think cc these days if you wanna be a parent don't trust anyone.Just choose a guy to have a child with kodwa umshado asoze noma u can have kids married umuntu nje wesilisa is a problem.
@BarbieYunch
17 сағат бұрын
@@ayandanobatana3440 you missed the whole point of my argument. I’m advising women not to have kids before marriage because then they can at least walk away with half of the man’s assets when he messes up
@21_answers
Күн бұрын
"Not the infidelity, but the timing"
@fnamelname-s1r
Күн бұрын
He married his wife
@thobekiledlamini
Күн бұрын
Eish what a sad story😢but Owamie dear can i advice that when you read such article, read it with compassion tone..
@malebs8332
Күн бұрын
😂😂😂 you are killing me 😭
@asivegaxa9788
18 сағат бұрын
@@malebs8332😂😂😂😂
@crimestoriesSA
13 сағат бұрын
I get you owamie . So many women are soo willing to give men children and they go look for thier wives . Having standards really helps you not get involved in nonsense . Also obeying GODS RULES
@katlegothobejanemothoa
Күн бұрын
I’ve never agreed with that statement (if you not married he not yours)…. I love you Owamie but I think the Nunjus tought you that so it might not even be ninjas. Nonetheless I feel what Thobeka revealed about her child’s health is the sensitivity of this topic. That is where it triggers people. Men cheat on wife’s, baby mamas girlfriends etc but this topic could not afford that type of criticism. In as much as you feel it’s truth people should know before making babies with men but I think it was more about her pain than a wrong decision she made by having a child with a man that saw no future with her and wasted her time. Imagine if Jesus son cheats now with someone and they flaunt it on your face then later Jesus son marries that other girl simply because you refused to take him back. Wayaka that would make you angry imagine if you had a child under cancer treatment and this comes out??? You deal with it alone privately, the day you decide to come out. Owami makes this kind of video iyooh. I love you but no ninja this is deep for me, I get what you saying and it’s always been like that on your channel Mara I feel this issue was more sensitive. Not even about Men cheating but more about challenges people go through everyday while you thought yours were big. People will look for someone to blame, even the victim will also look and I understand why they coming for Pulane, she stealing cakes at a funeral while everyone’s praying with eyes closed. Let us support a mother that had an 8th month old baby suffering with cancer the the man she chose to be the father had his pants down for someone else. Let’s not judge her mistakes now let’s judge her pain and understand how sometimes some of us we cry over small stuff
@noxienhlapo9055
Күн бұрын
I never liked this guy... he is just evil
@proudlysa774
Күн бұрын
Iyoh!! This week uyangimangaza 😮😮
@asivegaxa9788
18 сағат бұрын
Noooo😂😂😂😂
@lelethuzana
Күн бұрын
In my opinion they were exclusive and both agreed to not date/sleep with other people, then he did cheat on her. Pulane knew Thobeka yet continued to sleep and disrespect her, says a lot about her character. Imagine someone close to you and your boyfriend sleeping with your man. Haibo! Pulne and Casper were wrong.
@dot510
Күн бұрын
Especially Casper knowing very well that his son depended on his mom emotionally and otherwise.
@lilyfinemotha7224
Күн бұрын
So the premise of this video is not to report on Cassper and give us your honest thoughts. It's to rile up people who have disagreed with you in the past and because you hate being told off, this is your gotcha moment to them? Aowa Owamie tlhe 🤣🤣🤣
@Beingkat
Күн бұрын
Is it really reported if queen Ninja didn't report it?
@lacronz6248
Күн бұрын
No dear 🤣🤣🤣
@Dineo-Montage
14 сағат бұрын
Honestly Owami, you know that not all relationships are defined the same. Imagine someone saying "Big guy didn't cheat on you since you married yourself by paying your own lobola. Was he also looking for a wife that he will marry with his own money perhaps?" He could've told Thobeka, he didn't see their relationship moving forward if he wanted Pulani instead of sneaking around, then when caught come back with his tail between his legs like a dog. And all this while she was at her lowest.
@tyrantmaloka1273
Күн бұрын
Iyo I'm side eyeing you shame
@Mosa_365
21 сағат бұрын
BOMBASTICALLY SO!!
@tsitsisetlalekgosi
Күн бұрын
I was waiting for you to report😂😂😂😂
@lebzardhlamini2355
Күн бұрын
It's not news 📰 till Owami steps in.... I was working when I read this, trust me I stopped working for 1 hour.. Sad sad caption 😢 but the Lord is with her surely
@ZaneleClamentine
Күн бұрын
Mina i knew she was too good to be true this Casper wife i never liked her and childhood best friend story didn't make sense too
@Baracudavibes
Күн бұрын
Owamie there is something wrong with your thinking capacity
@annegachanja3468
Күн бұрын
facts coz wtf.
@ayandanobatana3440
Күн бұрын
😭😭😭 i remember BONANG xcited for Casper and that girl .Wow some things ziyaswabisa
@anitasibiya2432
Күн бұрын
When two people decide to be exclusive and label their relationship … That’s courtship🤷🏽♀️ so it’s definitely cheating and I’m glad she refused because he was gonna marry her and probably wouldn’t have grown spiritually as she has now .
@RayOfLetsatsi
Күн бұрын
He wasn't gonna marry her they had been together for years😂😂😂
@Yassmiinn.
12 сағат бұрын
@@RayOfLetsatsi so people that have been together for years can't get married? Owamie and Big Guy were together and stayed together for YEARS before they finally married. Umuhle, but your views? SKEWED.
@ntokotom147
Күн бұрын
You're the big sis I never had I love how you're honest even if it's not fashionable
@mokhadibuthane2615
Күн бұрын
I am schooled. But we can not ignore the fact that it's painful.
@gugulethusimelane112
18 сағат бұрын
Hay bo cc don’t take this kind of schooling 😂😂🙆🏽♀️
@michellerisimati
Күн бұрын
Was waiting the whole day sana 🤣😂🤣❤️
@TshifhiwaMashamba
Күн бұрын
Cheating is cheating bathong
@palesamokoena1183
Күн бұрын
Owamie: I forgot his wife's name. Me: why would you want to remember such garbage 🚮
@JayJay-mx7oc
Күн бұрын
Fake pastor, selling billiatto while Preaching scripture 😂
@mmabasothoraditladi2718
Күн бұрын
Ekare e katswa diboko
@kelebogilemotlogelwa1582
Күн бұрын
@@mmabasothoraditladi2718ah😂😂😂😂
@JayJay-mx7oc
22 сағат бұрын
@mmabasothoraditladi2718 yes lord , cassper has been fake , that's why the megacy never liked him
@morongoamanyathela6484
Күн бұрын
But Owamie what is the different between Bonang AKA & DJ Zinhle? & Casper, Pulane andThobeka? You bashed Bonang so bad for many years but today you are singing different stories So does that mean u were just a HATER of Bonang? u even said she lost u as a fanCasper said with his own words that he cheated & you are saying he did not cheat😮
@tembisahenisi6965
Күн бұрын
Owami you r wrong hun, if u r in a relationship and decides to have a child then it ends because u r cheating. You cheated your partner, period . 2,You can’t date someone else and love me having there , explain I’m your partner now. It’s only difference when they had a baby and broke up that’s different
@n_mahlambi
Күн бұрын
I’ve been waiting for this 😂😂😂,I see Casper is trending ngiyasho ngith uphi uOwamie nomgosi ngoba angazi wataguan😅
@dailessnanyinza8201
Күн бұрын
Am loving your looks Queen Nija
@leesparkles101
Күн бұрын
💔 Casper mara has no heart.
@dineogee110
Күн бұрын
Not you reminding us "unless he is married he belongs to jesus "yoooo😭😭😭😭
@zanelencedani6174
Күн бұрын
Owam this time I disagree with you, so you are promoting that men must have multiple partners? as long as the men is not married he must have multiple partners. yho your opinion this time is not make sure shame.
@miguel_miggy97
16 сағат бұрын
This woman contradict herself...ALWAYS
@patienceikombele9161
Күн бұрын
I just came from Own Narrative with Sonia Booth. She said, "You are not special." Casper will do the same to her. Just wait and see. I was there when they said to you Queen Ninja AKA belongs to Jesus, and what happened to Bonang and AKA 🤔🤔
@Meta_Tshegofatso
Күн бұрын
Owamie your hair is already long enough to braid?😁😍 You are blessed 🔥🥰
@ntiyiso985
Күн бұрын
My sentiments, that's true,one remains single till married
@leegaleaglenombo9430
16 сағат бұрын
People don't get it. 🤷🏻♀️
@miguel_miggy97
16 сағат бұрын
Can you marry someone you just met today? Niyahlanya nine
@nomahentertainment
Күн бұрын
😂😅😂your take is so true, I wish we can really understand that coz we have been condtioned by men to be loyal while they not. Im so sorry to Thobeka, Love and Light hun❤ blessings on blessings
@sincedilemadonsela5089
Күн бұрын
But guys, when your boyfriend dates someone else while he is in a committed relationship with you, is that not cheating? If it’s not cheating then what is it?
@senzelokuhlenkabini6004
Күн бұрын
I love how you pronounce awe🤞🤣. Authenticity at it's best❤.
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