Hey brother, I almost never comment on videos but yours somehow popped up in my recs and I am so glad it did. It sounds like she love bombed you, cheated on you, used you for a couple days of relief from her other break up, and discarded you with zero care. Fuck. That. Shit. That is a cruel thing to do to anyone. If this is her best show of character, you dodged a massive fucking bullet. Regarding being your age and this being your first relationship, I’m actually the same age as you and lived a much different life. I’ve had a couple loves, had too many senseless hookups, and have been cheated on. I’ve experienced a rather significant variety of heartbreak, and the BIGGEST fucking lesson I’ve learned from every single one is: Never. Stop. Working. On. Yourself. Doesn’t matter how shitty you feel, do at LEAST one thing for yourself every single day. Clean your room Monday, shave Tuesday, etc. try to do an additional thing every day or two and you’ll pick up the momentum for self improvement. Track it if you have to. Extend this to hitting the gym, getting a nice aesthetic (clothes, trimming, etc), earning more money, etc. focus on yourself. And I promise you, you’ll run into someone. Life tends to reward you when you focus on min/maxxing your life (aka working on yourself lmao) and it might or might not be the right person for you. But every single relationship is either “the one” or someone who helps you narrow down exactly who you’re looking for in “the one”. You know what I mean. Also. We are so much younger than we want to think we are. With modern medical advances, you and I are maybe 30% into our natural lives. That means we haven’t experienced a significant majority of the shit life has in store for us, not to mention every single troubling encounter we run into will be easier with every passing day because of the experience we gain. So it’s fucking worth it to hang in there. And one thing worth hanging in there for is proper head (I’m writing this as I listen to ur vid, that’s why I’m switching around topics). Your ex prob gave you 3/10 head, especially if she was sexually lazy. And the actual sex was prob 2/10. I can guarantee you, you have a lottt more to experience in the sexual world during your life… as. You. Work on yourself. I believe in you dude. You are very introspective, which is a trait you should never get rid of. you’re going through one of the worst parts of your first heartbreak, but it DOES get better. Been there, done that. Which means I can promise you that.
@thegeekygangster9363
3 ай бұрын
Really appreciate this comment 🙏
@DevvUk
3 ай бұрын
This video resonates with me a lot man as ive gone through a pretty similar thing recently and i promise u brother the first 2-3 weeks are hard but it gets a lot better! only way is up those stairs.
@thegeekygangster9363
3 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😌 appreciate the comment and you taking the time to watch it
@mudfn7052
4 ай бұрын
hope u feel better bro and find someone your truly ment to be with
@thegeekygangster9363
4 ай бұрын
Thanks! Means Alot I just dropped a more emotional one , Dropping a happier breakup video tomorrow And I'm planning on recording a Diabolical Video on women in general tomorrow NGL ... I'm allowed to be Sexist and Misogynistic now YIPPIE!!! (Slightly joking)
@FTHRLCRX_CLLSRCMPNY
4 ай бұрын
I have so much respect for you for this bro... Subscribed. I understand this intimately. It does heal over time and yea it feels like dying every day for a while. You're turning pain into power and I am hella happy to see that. I must be braver, thank you again
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