Build a strong foundation. Go to a meeting every day. Focus on going 90 days sober. Alcoholics will often point to someone who drinks "worse" than them in order to convince themselves that they are not alcoholics. Everyone is different. For you, where is the bottom? The bottom is where you decide to stop digging. Its your decision. Don't worry about what someone else does or how much someone else drinks. Do not go into bars thinking you will drink club soda. Stay away from them, and stay away from the people who you normally drink with. Take a vacation from the whole scene and focus on yourself, your loved ones, your work, your future. All the best. 15 years sober in NYC.
@waxandwayne
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts and progress. You mentioned the worst part about alcohol addiction..... it feels like you just have a bad habit when it's really a drug. All of us "avid" drinkers think we can quit and when we successfully abstain for a period the habit just comes right back. I like how you said its a symptom and not a disease. We drink because of depression or stress when we really need to deal with the root cause first. But you can't drink in moderation and deal with the roots because alcohol blurs your true emotional state. You're not alone! Much success to you and I'll be checking for your next posts!!!
@samshambles391
3 ай бұрын
Ask your sponsor about the importance of anonymity.
@deniseharris5233
2 ай бұрын
Fellow Tasmanian here , going through the same battle. Just came across your site . 😊
@markhauxwell1230
3 ай бұрын
I’m doing the same man
@MYNAMECHEF_FilthyFrank
3 ай бұрын
You got this brother, we are all rooting for you!
@bray01239
3 ай бұрын
You are god do not forget it
@jerryhoare8198
3 ай бұрын
A heavy drinker, I was diagnosed with a fatty liver 11 years ago. I quit drinking cold turkey. It was not easy (no AA). I'm sober and my liver healed itself. YOU CAN DO IT !
@TasdazDownunder
3 ай бұрын
Keep at it mate. I went over 8 months and fell back off the wagon. The difference was amazing and now I need to join you and stop again
@thekingspanttree8495
3 ай бұрын
8 months is still a decent clean out though.
@GodbreadGilfredBiago
3 ай бұрын
3 years and 7 months sober here, no AA
@secondarymachine7521
3 ай бұрын
You should show some respect for the program that has the potential to save your ass before making content like this. Revealing your anonymity has the potential to harm the program as a whole, which is the point in the anonymity to begin with.
@thekingspanttree8495
3 ай бұрын
The first thing AA does is make you state your name... That's hardly being anonymous.
@secondarymachine7521
3 ай бұрын
@@thekingspanttree8495 Anonymity at the public level, jackass.
@ivanristic5512
3 ай бұрын
Man, if you find alternatives for the root cause of your drinking, like meditation, playing sport or reading you will be unstoppable, best of luck and greetings from Serbia🇷🇸
@WW-sj7zk
3 ай бұрын
Everyone who admits they have a problem and doesn’t do anything about it have a lifetime of problems ahead. Those that face it head on only wish they had of done it sooner and opportunities gradually present themselves.
@radil
3 ай бұрын
glad to see you made the most important day, this one is the second most important. Remember, the first 3 months suck, but not everyday will be like that See you tomorrow mate!
@Xerrand
3 ай бұрын
You're doing great, I know how hard it is. Be kind to yourself and keep going brother.
@rocknepoovey4381
3 ай бұрын
Keep it going, remember it only works if you work it!
@SuperMegaWoofer3000
3 ай бұрын
Keep at it. Rooting for ya.
@epicgamer785
3 ай бұрын
on ya man i'm rooting for you
@naomipurdy7045
3 ай бұрын
🌻
@garethvb8830
3 ай бұрын
Good work, keep going.
@stanleyboomer9274
3 ай бұрын
Yes mate 🏆
@mablewoods-z5i
3 ай бұрын
why is it you are going sober? if you truly want alcohol out of your life i recommend trying kava, i dont know if you have it in your country but it is the best thing i have found to stave off those "ahhh fuck it.. i need a drink" days Me personally alcohol brings out the real me, when im sober i am not myself, if kava was cheaper i would drink it every day.
@banzairunner7860
3 ай бұрын
What’s kava?
@epicgamer785
3 ай бұрын
@@banzairunner7860 It's a drug that feels similar to alcohol. It's popular in the Pacific islands. This dude sounds like he is addicted to it
@banzairunner7860
3 ай бұрын
@@epicgamer785 is it legal here?
@epicgamer785
3 ай бұрын
@@banzairunner7860 where is here? I'm from Australia and its illegal here but google says its legal in us and uk
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