The Somali community can be so senitive- how did people come up with the conculsion that Ali Dawah is ‘obsessed’ with us when Ali only comments positive things about us or also when he is talking about his Marriage journey? It’s so embarrasing, people just want to attack….The females who were invited to the show did a better job at explaining about our cultures then the two men. What was the point of them coming in?
@dennisbergkamp640
10 ай бұрын
The two men weren’t trying to share too much information
@Aki-ev6zk
10 ай бұрын
@@dennisbergkamp640 I am not saying they should share peronal info. They barely even spoke. I felt like whenever the Somali tiktok guy spoke, he was going off topic. Also why would you agree to come on a show if you are going to be hidden? Whats the point of that- might as well just stay back🤷🏽♂️
@hassanomar2141
10 ай бұрын
Shut your mouth, they don’t know how to explain anything
@zamzammohamed6286
10 ай бұрын
@Aki-ev6zk I know. Also they are not sure about the answers wlhi
@dennisbergkamp640
10 ай бұрын
@@zamzammohamed6286 they know the answer but they aren’t trying to tell Ali dawah all of our Somali business which he doesn’t need to know
@wynta123
10 ай бұрын
it's a shame that these individuals were brought on to represent Somalis, Two of the individuals on the panel do no represent us in the best light on social media (both a male and female, in case you're wondering). They weren't knowledgeable on the basics of Somali culture and often responded in a western/secularist view. The principles that guide a fruitful marriage within the Somali community is based on "Deen and Daqan" - religion and culture, and its a shame the former wasn't mentioned much or if at all by the Somalis. So many mistakes throughout, please ensure a better panel on the next episodes and perhaps conduct a basic background check on those you invite on; some of the panelists have a history of racism, allowing the Deen to be slandered and disrespected on the platforms etc.
@AliDawah
10 ай бұрын
As salam u alaikum, I invite some very well spoken Somali brothers and sisters and they either dropped last minute or didn’t want to be on camera. So I tried my best to have 4 Somalis brothers and sisters. But I can’t force people.
@osmanmohamedgaileh3594
10 ай бұрын
I totally agree with everything you have said and even the way the female is dressed is not how the Somalia women dress.I hope better guess next time.M a y Allah (s/w/t)make all Muslim marriage fruitful and lasting.Ameen
@Nalleye
10 ай бұрын
@@AliDawah thank you brother for trying ti shade light on Somali culture and deen, please invite other Somali youtuber like you who knowns their heritage and deen. to be honest im sad and angry at the white washed youth trying to represent my culture.
@user-mk1gp2cw7o
10 ай бұрын
Yeah that is right
@ahaych8963
10 ай бұрын
@@AliDawahdo you not wonder why? People of the Somali community clearly feel you have animosity towards them. In most cases there’s no smoke without fire.
@indadeeqmahmud5916
10 ай бұрын
Alhamdullilah as a Somali mum who’s children are born and breed in Europe enrolled them ( intentionally) at 99% non Muslim private schools and taught them Seraa, Hadith and Quran at home ( chose teaching them SEERA TO LOVE our PROPHET/S) I can say Alhamdullilah they choose Islamic wedding ceremonies NO MUSIC NO MIXING OF MEN AND WOMEN. instead their weddings were celebrated in Somali villages at orphanages. My son is getting married soon. I. Allah and among the first conversations he had with our DIL to be is HALAL WEDDING.
MashAllah proud of you sister and a role model to us you don’t understand how inspiring you comment is to me and many more
@Bilalplays888
10 ай бұрын
Mashallah 😢 so beautiful that’s true islam
@halimaomar22
10 ай бұрын
they wont its haram@@kwameopoku3576
@MaryamKhadiza
10 ай бұрын
Daily dhikr reminder 🌼💚 1.Subhanallah 2.Alhamdulillah 3.Allahu Akbar 4.Laa ilaaha illallah 5.Laa hawla wala kuwata illa billah X5 times Masha Allah. Well done. JazakAllahu Khairan.
@safiyomohamud6356
9 ай бұрын
I wish Ali got 2 elders and get a translator. A Somali uncle and a Somali Auntie. This youngsters don’t know much about the culture but they tried to share what they knew about it.
@isahussain6306
3 ай бұрын
It’s about the British Somali experience and views to marriage, not just about Somali culture. Younger people are the best prepared to answer this.
@Bettereveryday003
10 ай бұрын
The blurred guy makes you feel like your watching a Vice documentary about human trafficking 😂😂
@lail111
10 ай бұрын
🤣😂Exactly so creepy.
@OPEN_ROAD1800.
10 ай бұрын
I heard his wearing female clothes 🤣🤣😂
@xafsasaid_00
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@hudaifayusuf3257
Ай бұрын
Wallahi amazing comment😂😂😂
@ruweidak3158
10 ай бұрын
Lol couldn’t you find another Somali guy that’s willing to show his identity.
@zua240
10 ай бұрын
Yes absolutely no point in having him there?
@tc-rx8dy
10 ай бұрын
Yes putting yourself out there with non Liberal opinions has never got someone lose their job or get harrased
@osmanxxrngxx1369
10 ай бұрын
wlh this has to be setup where the malis at uk smh dhiig isku yelaa niyoo
@Ballref
10 ай бұрын
why? do you want to email him or something??
@banki8008
10 ай бұрын
@@Ballrefprobably slander his name in the community calling him a misogynistic incel
@ZadinasRevelationUnleashed
7 ай бұрын
Interesting conversation indeed! I learned so much about Somali Culture 🇸🇴 My father is from DR Congo 🇨🇩and I live in the U.S. 🇺🇸Whereas my mother is from Haiti 🇭🇹 but I was able to trace back her lineage to Sudan 🇸🇩 through African Ancestry. So I am always intrigued by the different cultures and languages within Africa 🌍 Ma Sha Allah ❤
@cobralate1467
10 ай бұрын
The fully blurr is so cringe, just dont come to the podcast......
@abdulb5751
10 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same, what did he actually contribute? 😂
@whyayyyerrlaffinfhorr2152
10 ай бұрын
Why's he blurred?
@rtm5796
10 ай бұрын
@@whyayyyerrlaffinfhorr2152because he doesn’t want to be showed
@whyayyyerrlaffinfhorr2152
10 ай бұрын
@@rtm5796 lol
@muxamedadam2240
10 ай бұрын
I dont even understand what he is saying lol
@abdallaMoa
10 ай бұрын
Nothing can be understood from the blurred man. Why did he participate in the show in the first place?
@cavediver7897
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 hee looks like a drug dealer
@solekhashuwa
10 ай бұрын
Ya3ni Ya3ni Ya3ni even Arabs don't say Ya3ni this much, he's so embarrassing and the fact that he thinks he's not Black despite being dark as midnight 😂😂😂.
@SNUFFED2ROLLs
4 ай бұрын
Black is a construct created by the elites to put you in a box, i am a ethnicity and thats it!
@sujonmiah2941
3 ай бұрын
And i want to make it crystal clear that I don’t care if you are an black or Somalian individual, you have no right to say that to someone at least not on here, this is an pure Islamic channel dedicated to reaching humanity
@queenrahma6373
10 ай бұрын
Please don’t bring people in your show if they don’t want show their identity. It’s disturbing
@abdirahmanscigalle
3 ай бұрын
Maxuu soo doonay haduu is qarinaayo Waxan ka yaabay maxuu isku qarin karaa meshan mowduuc illegal ah miya looga hadlaya
@codingwithzak09
10 ай бұрын
is the blurred guy under witness protection?? lol 😂 😂 😂 😂
@QalbiNuura99
10 ай бұрын
It reminded me of one of those serious interviews with high profile “criminals” adjusting their voices hiding in a dark background 😂😂🤣
@thewhitepage4345
10 ай бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 12:44 🎁 Somali marriage customs: proposal negotiation by families. 14:03 🤝 "Shil" payment tradition for acceptance of proposal. 16:34 👰 Multistage celebrations, changing dresses, "Guntino," white dress. 18:09 💃 Critique of trend-focused weddings over Islamic values. 20:15 🎤 Balancing trendy weddings with Islamic principles. 20:43 🤔 Divorce due to marriage pressure and monotony. 21:24 💃 Clothing diversity and family influence in weddings. 23:55 🎉 Seven-day honeymoon bedroom tradition. 27:22 🙌 Elders' role in resolving marital conflicts. 35:08 💬 Communication and balance in polygamous marriages. 41:40 🚹 A caring husband's significance in Islam. 42:09 🤝 Warning against marrying without fulfilling rights. 42:38 👰 Woman's right to divorce for sexual dissatisfaction. 43:18 🕌 Islam's view on women's rights and divorce. 44:03 🌍 Islam permits interracial marriage, but challenges exist. Made with HARPA AI
@ppate8
9 ай бұрын
Marry own family and produce inbred kids
@ruweidak3158
10 ай бұрын
Why on earth did they bring on this Ya3ni guy. He can barely put a sentence together. There are many educated Somali men in the UK who can better represent us.
@bing2b989
10 ай бұрын
He sounds so cringe and dumb , the blurry guy also .
@faay8912
10 ай бұрын
Lol we don't like to be exposed like that so I'm pretty sure no other somali volunteered to be on KZitem. You're just going to have to do with this 😂 aniga xataa waa yaabsanahay cajiib
@ruweidak3158
10 ай бұрын
@@faay8912 you got a point there
@tamim3463
10 ай бұрын
Your coming onto a show and you decide to have your identiry covered wth 😂😂😂
@sadyadey782
10 ай бұрын
That is good though not a lot of people like to go on video or picture and a lot of my Somali people are like that 😊
@cheekyape
10 ай бұрын
Bruh, I didn't even notice that guy was there until I heard a deep voice 😂😂.. The blur is the same colour as the wall and sofa 😂😂
@mohamedabdullahi6125
10 ай бұрын
What a joke.
@DAWARNIN
10 ай бұрын
HE SHOULD WEAR A NIQAB IF HE WANNA BE SCARED AND ACT LIKE A WOMAN.
@ibrahimmusah408
10 ай бұрын
The funny part, I think is He applied to come into the show. It makes you wonder, what he was thinking when he wrote the show requesting to become a guest.
@SomaliRoyale
9 ай бұрын
Thank you to everyone for their efforts in representing 🇸🇴..umm except for the witness protection program blurred out guy ! Some of the explanations were not spot on but at least you all had the guts to be there. And thank you Ali for wanting to learn 🤲🏾
@tomprieto9115
10 ай бұрын
SOMALI PEOPLE ARE GREAT!
@FatalEther12
10 ай бұрын
Not anymore it’s bleak for us
@tomprieto9115
10 ай бұрын
@@FatalEther12 thanks.
@georgefrancis8602
10 ай бұрын
Lovely!
@Loola345
9 ай бұрын
@@FatalEther12 nigga who is us?!? For YOUUUU maybe but as a Somali women we’re better than you
@zainabessa1801
10 ай бұрын
This people don’t really know much about the culture. You should have got more educated people about our culture
@muna2769
10 ай бұрын
Exactly that's what I was saying
@user-ps2ve6vo8t
10 ай бұрын
I didn’t know Ali dawah Quran teacher was Somali Mashallah. “Somalia the land of Quran”🇸🇴🇸🇴🇸🇴🇸🇴🇸🇴
@ikarzer1212
10 ай бұрын
Also Kenya especially Mombasa 😊
@fatimafall4112
10 ай бұрын
Ali Dawah completely disregarded financial stability. One of the reasons why sisters say no to polygamy is because they are afraid their lifestyle will change. You have brothers who make minimum wage, barely afford to provide for their wife and kids but talk about getting a second wife? If a practicing man who follows Quran and Sunnah, follows polygamy properly, has a good loving marriage foundation and is financially able to provide for 2+ wives and kids, MOST women would ultimately be okay with it. Because the change would not be so drastic and their lifestyle would not change as much. Just because you're polygamous by nature doesn't mean you should just follow those desires. We know this as muslims.
@shimmer4771
10 ай бұрын
True. There may be times where it becomes mandatory to take a second wife, but if he cannot handle it, he is not permitted to.
@Hahahaha-7
10 ай бұрын
How can u asume they earn minimum wage and can barely afford to handle wife and kids.
@shimmer4771
10 ай бұрын
@@Hahahaha-7 maybe from her witnessing.
@fatimafall4112
10 ай бұрын
@@Hahahaha-7 it’s not an assumption. I said “you get brothers that are making minimum wage and still asking for a second wife”. It happens and I know from personal experience. If a brother has enough money to support both and is a good Muslim most women would end up being okay with it.
@fatimafall4112
10 ай бұрын
@@shimmer4771 absolutely! And it’s Sunnah, no one is saying that it is a bad thing. Unfortunately in these time and age not a lot of men can afford more than 1 maybe 2 wives.
@elmiawad1777
10 ай бұрын
Sooryo is a small gift (around 1000 pound in UK) given to grooms family during the Nikah ceremony. It’s not only a southern culture; It exists across all Somali regions.
@1MeaningfulLife
9 ай бұрын
Not the groom, the bride’s family and friends. The grooms’s family give the sooryo to the bride’s family
@elmiawad1777
9 ай бұрын
@@1MeaningfulLife Yes sorry it was a typo. Sometimes half of the money is returned so it’s more of a simplistic thing. I have walked away with £20 on a few occasions just for being a distant relative of bride😂
@zackhussein8933
9 ай бұрын
In North we call it Galbaati instead of Sooryo and also give the family Yarad.
@anneeq008
9 ай бұрын
The groom shouldn't be given anything. It's the bride's family that's losing a family member and (traditionally at least) a maintainer of the household. And the bride needs the financial security as she's (again traditionally) not obliged to work and should thus have a good insurance policy in case they baroque doesn't work out
@bilalmuir3293
9 ай бұрын
I'm cadaan and when I married my somali wife I refused to pay the money to the guests lol later down the line I regretted it but I had only been a muslim for a couple months before I got married it was all a bit too much trying to juggle learning the deen and somali culture in a quick time
I said to my somali father I will marry a foreigner, as jokingly, then he asked if he was white or black. Who will like to i marry, he says black. my daddy is a very funny person, i know he'll never judge about color or tribe as long as he is Muslim and also akhlaq he'll be happy for me.
@skp8748
10 ай бұрын
Lol my dad would NEVER let my sister marry an Ajnabi 😂
@ilhandhimbil2837
10 ай бұрын
@@skp8748 Alhamdullilah mine as long as he’s muslim He welcomes it mashallah no racist انمل مومنین اخوه ☪️☝️
@skp8748
10 ай бұрын
@@ilhandhimbil2837 it's not about racist it's about he wants somali grandchildren
@eosohand
9 ай бұрын
@@skp8748stop being jealous
@hatimafattah227
12 күн бұрын
@@skp8748 that's because he didn't understand islam very well
@ayeshapyesha7301
10 ай бұрын
Lol I'm just a cadaan as i believe it's called, but i felt embarrassed watching this. These guys don't represent the Somalis i know. I can see why some people are annoyed
@sheikhirfan1191
6 ай бұрын
Much love to all my Somali brothers and sisters, your culture is amazing!!
@user-bm4ii6rt4o
10 ай бұрын
My brother all somalis like you and we want a show on turkish culture 🇸🇴🇸🇴🇹🇷🇹🇷. I like the bitter and truth show. Watching from Mogadishu
@user-gf8ht4ue5d
10 ай бұрын
When the brother in the glasses said “ I agree with them” and then the girl with the hat said “wow” wth? So un called for 🤦🏾♂️ she gives feminist vibes 🤢
@kwameopoku3576
10 ай бұрын
Ur so weak
@AliAli-vy2qn
10 ай бұрын
Lighten up weirdo stop trying to control what people say or do.
@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856
10 ай бұрын
It’s because on his online videos he attacks women 😅
@n.5908
6 ай бұрын
Who is he?
@Cl_Noob
10 ай бұрын
This is a very intersting one and im excited to finish this series
@SalA-es1dt
10 ай бұрын
The Somali culture is very dynamic and varied, the choice of panel could have been given better thought and representation.
@DeqaXamdy-uj6ss
10 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@Md_sadiq_Md
10 ай бұрын
May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤ Aameen summa Aameen ❤
@ahmeddaniyal136
10 ай бұрын
First comment, keep up the good work ali
@quranchannel4622
10 ай бұрын
I was at wedding last night and the glass guy is right. Black American Dancing is new to our culture like party and club
@fduale3220
9 ай бұрын
As a Somali hijab women, I’m angry to see those ladies representing us especially that hijab women percentage are more than non hijab ones. I would attend the talk but I live in USA.
@SA41959
9 ай бұрын
Such an irrelevant comment 🙄.
@ineedbandsz6618
10 ай бұрын
The Somali brother is a noble Macedonian, 99% of Somali men stand by him ! Khadra on the other hand is a somali ‘karen’ it sickens me
@JEAGERlST
10 ай бұрын
Let's not bring the dumb Macrobian conspiracy theory. Somali = Muslim Somali.
@ninaaden8338
10 ай бұрын
Ammus emasculated
@ruweidak3158
10 ай бұрын
@@zakskingdommwho are today’s macrobians? People from Puntland?
@mose4319
10 ай бұрын
na he failed us. He is just a guy with an opinion and camera. I thought he would be more educated and more articulate in what he say but this video proves otherwise.
@mrfab4383
10 ай бұрын
@@mose4319Its not his first language tbf, they should’ve brought a UK mali or Warya Warrior, he’d make it hilarious 😂
@timirajama1099
10 ай бұрын
First of all We do have henna nights, A day or two before the wedding, families and friends gather around have their heena done together dance, sing and eat. Like the sister said in somalia the ladies have a beautiful custom called saash saar. in somaliland, the somali region of ethiopia and djibouti we we have a custom called the Xeedho.The xeedho is a wooden eating bowl commonly found in alot of households in somali region ethiopia, Djibouti and somaliland. At weddings, the bowl is filled with a dish (called the muq-mad - which is the beef jerky Somali style) prepared of sun-dried meat which has been fried in butter and seasoned with spices and to which dates are added in large quantities. At the xeedho ceremony, the basket is brought to the wedding by her relatives. The bowl with the dish is usually stored in a basket consisting of two conical baskets joined at right angles, covered with a piece of tanned leather or white cloth, nicely decorated with cowrie shells and beads.
@user-mk1gp2cw7o
10 ай бұрын
Somali shaash saar is mugdisho people's and heera is somali waqoyi
@solekhashuwa
10 ай бұрын
Somaliland doesn't exist and xeedho is disgusting and unhygienic.
@shukriiii
10 ай бұрын
its called Oodkac
@solekhashuwa
10 ай бұрын
@@shukriiii oodkac is delicious I love it, but when they put the mashed date around it and everyone touches it is disgusting. I had it made for me in my wedding I threw it in the bin and made my own without the dates.
@timirajama1099
10 ай бұрын
Yes and we call it muqmad.
@lulaibrahim6021
10 ай бұрын
It’s sucks to be represented and not correctly. “The south and the north” have the same tradition and practices, each family is different tho. Please bring people who can represent us matter and know their customs and traditions.
@kooljj999
10 ай бұрын
The blurred and voiceless man has completely ruined my enjoyment and experience off this video, you were better off not including him… waste off such a high potential video. Not happy at all
@snaz2633
9 ай бұрын
Why??
@SikandarKhan-mf5pz
4 ай бұрын
Maybe he doesn't want to be recognised by the viewers because people are quick to judge about certain views
@malabeyes8090
9 ай бұрын
Ali please do another panel with other somali sisters and brothers who are fully aware of our Somali culture, these brothers and sisters misrepresented us especially the brother with the sunglasses, he couldn't separate our beautiful honorable Culture from the modern un Islamic things that some people do now days in weddings. And the girls couldn't articulate the process of marriage which takes several steps that are unique to our Somali customs and traditions.
@halalpolice7544
10 ай бұрын
Asalamu Alaykum akhi please don’t invite unhijab sister otherwise cover them. You making it normal to disobey Allah not wear hijab plus it’s sin as her Awrah is outside. Jasakalaahu Khayr I’m Somali 🇸🇴 btw in case someone scream racism or something
@AhmedHijab
10 ай бұрын
totally agreed!! im somail btw too
@AhmedHijab
10 ай бұрын
what do you mean@@user-bz8zq4mk3l
@batriyaali2870
10 ай бұрын
Those people don’t now anything about somali culture or marriage. You have wrong panel.
@kiranyousaf9992
9 ай бұрын
10 minutes in and I ended up in the comments as this is already a hard watch! Glad it’s not just me. I usually enjoy your episodes I think the people who came are not the most articulate
@idilali
5 ай бұрын
I am a follower of Khadra on Snapchat and she is such a great mom and good woman, may ALLAH always bless her and her daughters. Love you Khadra and especially for all you do for your grandmother. May ALLAH bless her with quick recovery and good health.
@Hetsupshut3
10 ай бұрын
Ali, I'm not sure what's with bringing people that don't really get the culture and were struggling to explain basic concepts of our marriage processes... This is the basic/general breakdown. 1) It's usually the guy and his family coming to ask for the girl's hand in marriage- like she explained. 2) Then an engagement party occurs where it's confirmed that they're going to be married and that's celebrated. Close family. (Sometimes this is done with the 1st step, people do it differently) 3) Then it's followed by the nikkah + walimah which can sometimes be done on the same day or different day. The nikkah usually happens in the day where the men of the family sit on a stage or place and pronounce the marriage- it's also where the mehr is brought up. After that, the guests (consisting of men and women) eat lunch. (It's not like how I've seen Desi people do it where they sign a paper together with the potential wife signing something). 4) Then, at night the walimah occurs. The walimah is usually ALL women in the beginning/majority of the night. The men come once the groom walks in with his bride, last portion of the night. It is also mainly the girl and guys family and tribe that are invited- along with friends and random people from the community that crash. Around 9 or 10pm, it is started off with a traditional dance with drums and everyone gets into a circle- the woman is singing praises on the couple and people can dance in support of what she sang. This is all done before the bride enters. Once the bride is about to enter, it's done and everyone lines up to see her walk in. Then, she dances in with the traditional dress of her choice (1 of 2) whether it's our alindy hidiyo attire (striped) or dirac (just a glittery somali dress). She dances for a bit with her family (Mom/grandma/aunt) and entourage (bridesmaids usually are sisters/close friends) to Somali music. She also might sit and the traditional poetry dance will be done for her so she can see it and enjoy it. Then she will walk out and come back again with the other traditional attire (2/2). Then dance some more. Then walk out again. Then the third time, usually, they walk in with the white wedding dress and her husband. Then, they have their cake cutting, first dance, and then an open floor dance with everyone. Then, they take pictures. Then walk out. ("Most western part of the night and where american /international music gets played") 5) After 7 days of being married, she has a saash saar which is a tradition meant to welcome women into womenhood/club of being married. They give her saash and jewelry. I think they recently started doing bridal showers as well. Another thing I've started seeing is proposals, the one knee, engagement being done. Somalia is a huge country with many tribes and customs so wedding traditions can differ such as suuriyo and soo doonis or henna parties or xeedo and saash saar or hidiyo. Since a lot has changed over the years, some things are western traditions that trickled in such as a bridal shower or the white dress, cake cutting, first dances, having music and a DJ. A lot of things are unislamic as today's world has become modernized and strayed away from religiosity in general. It's a sad reality but it's not just weddings..... many muslims don't pray, many don't fast, many celebrate christmas, drink alcohol, and dress like non muslims, free mix outside whether it's events, whether it's them being in haram relationships, whether it's them listening to music on their phone, or checking out women online. It's bigger than just weddings. If people are condemning weddings, they better be straight in all aspects of Islam too because they don't condemn the haram things they do on a norm as well. Everyone's imaan is being affected in this current world of ours in sooo many ways. It's like haram is everywhere and everyone is sinning one way or another. And I'd also like to be open about Somali marriages. My culture does not like foreigners. The whole foreigner and interracial marriages is becoming more common due to modernization and westernization. Second and third generation Somalis are changing the culture and it's the older folk that are more traditionalistic. Somalia is heavy on the tribalism and nationalism so.... there's no way they want their culture shared with someone who isn't their blood. I pray Allah forgives us and gives us guidance to right our wrongs.
@mhersi2dude
9 ай бұрын
As a somali everything you said was spot on. Its crazy how a wali is more likely to marry someone off based on culture lacking deen rather than someone who has good deen but isnt somali. Tribalism has always been Somalias weakness
@Foreignprincessss
6 ай бұрын
The most accurate representation of Somali culture today!
@izy9911
5 ай бұрын
thank you ur right. but some somali may be very or not so much accepting of foreigners it depends on the famils maybe? but otherwise I agree
@SalmanAli-pn7lq
10 ай бұрын
Looking forward to be amomgst the panel of speakers some day!
@salmanos973
10 ай бұрын
I don't think that they said anything right about the somali Traditional marriage 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 they are say walhis😂😂😂
@Lvrry416
10 ай бұрын
Been waiting on dis shoutout Principled Somali, bro actually pulled up
@kenza3306
10 ай бұрын
As a Moroccan in the Netherlands, can’t wait for the Moroccan episode 😂🤣 I hope it’s not to shameful
@ashaabdi2657
10 ай бұрын
Hhhhhhh 😂
@alvinman8
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂I wanna watch that disappear I'm not Morocco
@Radec913
10 ай бұрын
Alleen als geert wilder uitgenodigd wordt als special guest 😂
@ovzibq
10 ай бұрын
@@user-bz8zq4mk3lyeah true
@enami8888
10 ай бұрын
@@user-bz8zq4mk3l why?
@wahabzadeh5180
10 ай бұрын
Guy hiding ruined the quality of the podcast, very difficult to listen to, please don’t allow this a second time
@user-ry2os1gj6k
10 ай бұрын
I thought the blur was bad enough but when I heard the deep voice Bisinka yasinka who is he running from ?? 6:22
@internetwildling1337
10 ай бұрын
The Somali sister in the hijab and abaya is so beautiful allahumabarik ❤
@abdallaMoa
10 ай бұрын
ما شاء الله.
@sherazkhan2120
10 ай бұрын
I concur
@muhammadomar784
10 ай бұрын
Haram!
@kylo0053
10 ай бұрын
Lower your gaze.
@shimmer4771
10 ай бұрын
Don't look at her, it's haram.
@xSalamz
10 ай бұрын
Very insightful and entertaining video.
@iloveallah344
10 ай бұрын
Mashallah I like Ali Dawah you’re so funny specially when you said Hoyoo and Aboo
@muhammad-naasiribrahimabdu3616
10 ай бұрын
I know Ali Da'wah bringing him on board has a reason, but blurring his whole image, changing his audio, everything, makes it look somehow. I really love the works, may Allāh keep him steadfast, but please next time, try work around it. May Allāh grant you success and reward you abundantly ❤
@AdamSed64
10 ай бұрын
The principle somali is very funny and entertaining 😂
@MonaAMohamud
10 ай бұрын
Ok can I just correct a few things - Monetary stuff thats payed - Sooryo - the family of the man bring it to the family of the girl they want to marry as a gift. This is usually brought by the females as part of 'isbarasho' alongside some clothing and perfumes for the girl. The second is the Yarad - this is paid on the day of the Nikah and is given to the family of the girl. The Meher is not paid as it belongs to the girl and she can request it when they divorce or before then like the regular islamic tradition. Regarding Somali Weddings its 7 days - IE where the todobobax came from, the couple dont leave the house and its their time to get to know each other as a couple. 1. Wedding and they enter the house , 3. The Xeryo is opened in the house - so these are gifts handed from the females family to the family of the man its basically jugs with meat , popcorn, cake, sweets it can have anything and the man has to open it so they know he is worthy to take care of the women. 7. is the day the couple can leave the home.
@halimaomar22
10 ай бұрын
but if they married without mehr doesnt that make their marriage invalid
@halimaomar22
10 ай бұрын
@@eh7947 is that islamicly or its the culture
@Connect_with_Yourself
10 ай бұрын
@@halimaomar22 it's Somali culture sister. Subhan'Allah some men don't pay the women ever 😢. It's Sunnah to pay the full Mehr during the Nikkah walaalo.
@halimaomar22
10 ай бұрын
@@Connect_with_Yourself i heard about that and some dont even pay the advance mehr which makes their marriage invalid. i heard some dont pay the mehr because their excuse is "she'll get it when she wants to divorce if not then its useless" subhanaAllah they should stop that and follow the deen correctly
@MonaAMohamud
10 ай бұрын
@@halimaomar22 you are married with meher but it’s not handed to you straight away unless you request it
@Bilalplays888
10 ай бұрын
Love this ❤ please have more culture on your show . We are all one but we have a little differences And hire Mohamed I dead everytime he spoke
@lionroar26
10 ай бұрын
When it comes to marriage the sunnah is enough, for all of us, white black brown asian it doesnt matter, we live in different cultures but what shouldn't be allowed regardless of culture is haram in any way shape or form. As long as we follow the sunnah and Quran we will be fine.
@HeersareMedia
10 ай бұрын
This is very interesting debate. Thanks Ali and other debaters.
@mitroman100
10 ай бұрын
Salaam Ali, the blurred brother is problematic from a watching experience point of view, very jarring. Maybe there was an issue and you had to blur him in post? Otherwise nobody should go on there unless they are ok with being seen.
@sadyadey782
10 ай бұрын
It is always initiated by the boy and if it happens the girl and boy like each other, the girl would tell the boy to go meet her family but the boy don’t go over to the family himself so he talks to his family about it then the boy’s family takes some elders from the community and go to the girl’s family for acceptance and after that long process lol man will spend a lot $$$$
@solekhashuwa
10 ай бұрын
14:05 she's lying there is no different my mother is from the north my father from the south, Somali people have the same culture, traditions, cuisines, language, religion, history etc, it's clear she wants to push this somaliland political nonsense she's been brainwashed with, only people who push for this somaliland is one tribe (isaaq my maternal side) who were known for helping the kuffar English empire and brag about being colonized by England, the rest of the tribes in the region believe in one major Somalia. She's sick in the heart and wants to separate muslims, forget about Somalia I want one ummah who open their borders for each other no nationalism no tribulism. Allahuma ameen.
@GuledAar
10 ай бұрын
Out of the topic MashaAllah you are goregous.
@jackbrown2744
10 ай бұрын
Who is blurred Guy?? Is he a criminal 😂😂😂
@kamizumoku
10 ай бұрын
Secret Somali agent 😏
@Tow131
10 ай бұрын
Gangiiiistar
@mulki6698
3 ай бұрын
😂
@MKTech36524
10 ай бұрын
Salam Ali, you should also checkout the pashtun wedding and get a episode on this.
@n.m.9121
10 ай бұрын
Very interesting to watch as a Somali, wish it was longer. Good job Ali 👍🏾
@glamroyal5814
10 ай бұрын
wish it was shorter!
@AhmedMohamed-dd4gp
9 ай бұрын
Wish it didn’t exist 🤮
@Kay-Garaad
10 ай бұрын
As a somali this was a cringed episode,the girl with head scarf was only one making sense ...
@workoffice5703
10 ай бұрын
Had to comment about the noise behind the cameras. None of the previous episodes had these issues. Sorry to be negative but it was extremely distracting
@andrewcozier9434
10 ай бұрын
A sister will gaslighting and claim a brother isnt treating her right. So the argument on the condition of him not treating the first wife right isnt even necessary. Because some men often change based upon the woman he's married to.
@Dimples240
10 ай бұрын
Ali needs to also talk about about his Kurdish community it’s only fair
@idriss5648
10 ай бұрын
I’m soryy to say this but the hijabi girl somehow explained some of the somali traditional way of marriage but there is alot of things she skipped en didn’t say in the podcast regarding the whole process. I reckon another round for this podcast but this time someone has to have a background that he/she came from Somalia en knows the traditional way of culture of the somali people. the guest panels tried there best but not that enough.🙏💯
@pirate9980
10 ай бұрын
The girl with the hat came there with no Somali knowledge! MashaAlah to the other girl that spoke very well
@halabdi2024
10 ай бұрын
Ik but both they good because they work together on each topic mnshallah❤
@pirate9980
10 ай бұрын
@@halabdi2024 yeh respect for both for even doing it! But sometimes at least do research cz non Somalis will be confused now
@Hetsupshut3
10 ай бұрын
She came with no Islamic knowledge either.
@user-xb7ly5ee2h
10 ай бұрын
The other girl has no knowledge either. Very embarrassing to watch tbh. I cringed when she said south and north 🤦♀️
@fadhabashir405
3 ай бұрын
@user-xb7ly5ee2h There was no need even. She is qabiilist
@navedian739
10 ай бұрын
Ali is very well balanced mashallah he's not a racist but summaries are just over sensitive too arrogant within themselves that's all!!
@aranisabdi6025
10 ай бұрын
Okey this was the most confusing somali people. Either they don’t understand the questions that Ali is asking or they don’t know their own culture SubhanAllah easy questions but they make it so complicated 😢
@AliDawah
10 ай бұрын
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@abdiqaniroble6317
10 ай бұрын
Shilajit is soo good for subahanallaah
@UmairSyed-mr8uq
10 ай бұрын
Brother please blur the sisters this is inappropriate
@halalpolice7544
10 ай бұрын
Asalamu Alaykum akhi please don’t invite unhijab sister otherwise cover them. You making it normal to disobey Allah not wear hijab plus it’s sin as her Awrah is outside. Jasakalaahu Khayr I’m Somali 🇸🇴 btw in case someone scream racism or something
@alsononeofyourbusiness
10 ай бұрын
why does a woman have the right to divorce if she isn't sexually satisfied?
@halalpolice7544
10 ай бұрын
@@alsononeofyourbusiness Bc she is human who has a need and it needs to be fulfilled. And Alhamdulilah It’s basic right that Allah SWT gave us in Islam.
@khaalidsooyaan2203
8 ай бұрын
This panel I'm watching for one month later , they're explained very good with their culture nd Somali marriage especially the lady wearing dark attire. The guy having a Sunglasses he makes my night , he's comedian one 😄.
@glowstickdrag1967
10 ай бұрын
What’s the point of having someone on the show if they are going to be blurred and have their voice altered? Super dumb
@DEACON-em2gs
10 ай бұрын
How were they all given the questions beforehand yet still shambled it 😂😂😂 why is homeboy whose identity is hidden even there????
@dawah_power
10 ай бұрын
Beautiful topic ❤
@Johuraldn
10 ай бұрын
Not every asian is arranged and forced lool I can only speak for Bengalis, our parents allow us to find someone and then they set it up. It’s a beautiful way on how we go about it Alhamdulliah.
@nazirmudasser1672
10 ай бұрын
Brother really good concept Thank you ❤
@user-ii9vt2fi1m
9 ай бұрын
Woy these guys doesn't know much abt somali culture marriage Let's say that u are interested to a girl and wants to progress it at first you have to seek hand for marriage you come to her family with your male side of your family like your father and uncles you give out dowry and plan for the of nikkah and weeding day and after the 7days of the weeding ends there is another celebration day where the female side of both family gather and celebrate .bless each other and story ends . Also we have arranged marriage where your parents brings you a man of their interest but they will give enough time to understand each b4 the proposal day
@-glitch-8195
10 ай бұрын
I'm glad that the brother with the glasses and Ali hinted to seeing abuse as "trivial" especially when it comes to divorce & polygamy. I always tells sisters please, for the love of Allah, get evidence of abuse. Track it. Make sure you have cameras at least in the main areas of your home. Take photos of any physical bruises, voice record, and if you can get witnesses, even better. The Muslim community as a whole doesn't seem concerned with this issue and actually downplays it, especially brothers because they're the ones doing it. They hide behind being against feminism while simultaneously pushing sisters into it. Like a sister puts her safety & well-being in his hands, and he proves himself to be untrustworthy and a monster. But somehow, thats feminisms' fault. I remember even Muhammed Hijab admitted that there are no group of people who create more feminists than men. And ironically, the western courts are much better at punishing abusers more than the Muslim community is. So they're following the shariah better than Muslims which is beyond embarrassing.
@stari313
10 ай бұрын
he literally didn't say that, he said date nights going from twice a week to twice a month was trivial and abuse is the 'brutal' example i.e. not trivial... feminist indoctrination has you hallucinating
@-glitch-8195
10 ай бұрын
@@stari313 You know that’s not why divorce happens majority of the time. And that’s not the context of his statement. Anyhow, I’ve seen a lot of brothers in the comment sections and in these types of videos always making it seem like divorce happens for trivial reasons because they downplay abuse so hard. No reason is ever significant enough to divorce for men. You’re the one hallucinating. Sisters still need to get evidence considering there are so many spineless brothers who deny abuse ever happens.
@shimmer4771
10 ай бұрын
@@-glitch-8195if they did wrong, they will have to answer to Allah. However, the women have the option to stay or leave. It may be better to stay.
@shimmer4771
10 ай бұрын
Let's forgive the brothers. As Muslims, it's best if we keep things to ourselves.
@-glitch-8195
10 ай бұрын
@@shimmer4771 Oh so we're supposed to have no sense of justice and let these types of people be? This is the mentality in the Muslim community. No wonder we're seen in such a negative light. We enable people's bad behaviors simply because of who they are, and never call them out for what they are. Sister, you are more than welcome to forgive abuse or mistreatment. Thats on you, but not every sister wants to be treated as less than human.
@abdeqq3160
10 ай бұрын
Even our neighbours Ethiopians and Eritreans do not consider themselves black. Surprise 💭
@YoWest-hn6bb
10 ай бұрын
The same problem we have. 🧐
@somaviation8521
10 ай бұрын
Dark skin people have a same problem with that so no surprise for me…
@munaahmed9064
10 ай бұрын
Lies I never heard any Ethiopian saying they are not black
@theiyo8749
10 ай бұрын
@@munaahmed9064The Habesha Ethiopians also denied themselves like us Somalis. Shameful
@nadiaaaaxo2586
9 ай бұрын
@@munaahmed9064yh they say they are habesha not black
@SalA-es1dt
10 ай бұрын
Why is that person blurred? What’s the point
@mrfab4383
10 ай бұрын
What was the point of the blurred guy, shocking performance 😂😂😂😂
@krazyville
10 ай бұрын
Shout out to my akhi in shades legend ma shaa Allah 👑 at the same time my Somali ‘qariin’ is whispering in my ear the blurred brother ‘waa qolama’ ?
@maheradem8201
7 ай бұрын
What do you mean you are not black Abdi 😂I bet people get confused af when a Somali calls them black 😂
@OU888
10 ай бұрын
This should be entertaining, as a Somali I can't wait for this to make me laugh
@yoursnatchedwig2856
9 ай бұрын
This is shame for us we the only blk oeople who doesn't put our business and problems online wtf is wrong with yall in the west
@OU888
9 ай бұрын
@@yoursnatchedwig2856 honestly? There's a lot of things that we can critise about the west and how they handle things
@hanoush101
10 ай бұрын
My somalis🇸🇴💙
@bigcatshukri3773
10 ай бұрын
Salam Ali, We have a rich beautiful culture in the north and south very sophisticated and fascinating please next time ask those who know what they are talking about.
@dee_1989
9 ай бұрын
44:40 I don't even understand my own culture's inside jokes let alone a different culture 😂
@babasadatadams7957
10 ай бұрын
Assalamu alaykum… I think the host need to invite the elderly person to discuss the matter to the core because they know best this generation have no experience neither do they understand it well …
@Aki-ev6zk
10 ай бұрын
Yh, I agree
@SikandarKhan-mf5pz
4 ай бұрын
We're not getting the parents or grandparents married lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Elderly person will have old fashioned views and doesn't really understand the younger generation as they were brought up in a different era so it's pointless.
@abebicount4581
9 ай бұрын
Ali Dawah Salam Alaikum. I would say it’s good to know each other’s cultures but if you want to know more about a culture it’s better to bring people who know more about their culture as suppose to without disrespecting anyone people who don’t know much about their culture.
@jojoe7433
9 ай бұрын
So interesting thank you ❤
@khadijahhaque2205
10 ай бұрын
I feel like the video should of elaborated towards the ending on are somalis black because I didn’t get what the principled Somali meant
@user-py7uf1jy2h
10 ай бұрын
The glasses guy speak in English Arabic accent more than the Arabs themselves😂
@user-xb7ly5ee2h
10 ай бұрын
Somalis are Arabs.
@hiboabdi350
10 ай бұрын
He sure diid 😂😂😂😂
@hellokitty10117
15 күн бұрын
@@user-xb7ly5ee2h no they arent
@biwu346
10 ай бұрын
Except the girl with black abayah the rest are absolutely rubbish ,especially the guy with the black shade (low quality)
@Tow131
10 ай бұрын
Get in the bin
@sufyanalthawri1257
10 ай бұрын
We want a Episode talking about why prostitution is very high in the Moroccan community epically in its capital
@hennysmith2066
10 ай бұрын
The girl with the hat is not a good representative for somali women. She knows nothing about our culture, and she was only there to diss the brother with the shades. I kindly request to never let her on again, as she will make us look Very bad.
@lail111
10 ай бұрын
It was the one in the hijab who dissed him.
@999legend8
10 ай бұрын
A lot of women have a horrible attitude then they get upset when the men don't want to marry them anymore. Try and take accountability and look at yourself. 😊
@shimmer4771
10 ай бұрын
Yes. True.
@shukriiii
10 ай бұрын
not every is striving to be married, maybe get rid of that assumption
@shimmer4771
10 ай бұрын
Not all women have a horrible attitude, though. I have seen women with pretty good attitudes.
@999legend8
9 ай бұрын
@@shimmer4771 I agree not all women you are right. May Allah give more blessings to the good women and make me a better man too.
@shimmer4771
9 ай бұрын
@@999legend8 and a lot of women may not be aware of religious rulings, like for example, in Islam, women do not change their last name to their husband's.
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