"Get off the Internet and go outside" is the best advice. It's exactly what I did right after deciding I was going to detransition.
@scorpina69
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Nature is the greatest healer! It has always worked for me as a lesbian in times of despair.
@lennymclean.
2 жыл бұрын
There's a huge amount of people in today's society who spend WAY too much time boxed off in their houses and bedrooms reading all sorts about all sorts and then convincing themselves they've got flipping Autism or a heart condition. Then these people pursue outcomes that they (usually wrongly) think will benefit them. Now if that isnt a recipe for cognitive dissonance, I don't know what is. Can we not forget that basically nobody except internet geeks even knew about trans people until about 10 years ago. This gender ideology did not exist in every day society. Still doesn't in most countries of the world. I think some of these surgeons should be looking at things like penile inversion reconstruction - invest some of the profits they have made into research but I bet there's a massive cut and run at some point and some of them have paid for new identities ready to disappear into at the snap of a finger; it's not like they haven't made enough money and it's all on the backs of people who've been really confused, disconnected, abandoned, never fit in, not had a lot of attention; highly vulnerable people.
@jamiesmith9827
2 жыл бұрын
This breaks my heart. To see how it is more acceptable and easier to "transition" than to "detransition", to say the least. I am praying for both sides.
@ivanabacicdonadic7976
2 жыл бұрын
This is by far the best analysis of the transgender issue I have ever come across! Bravo! 👏 I have never heard anyone laying out the underlaying factors as it was done in this video. Thank you, TullipR! I am trully impressed by your insights, the way you formulated them, and the courage and the effort you put into finding your way. As I understood it: Once again, instead of making the effort of listening to people in trouble and truly caring for them, we are trying to get rid of the issue by cutting them up and medicating them (like we do when it comes to unwanted pregnancies, depression, terminal ilness, etc.). And the true monstruosity of it all is that we enabled companies and organizations to financially feast on it while at the same time we are decadently deceiving ourselves that we are doing it because we care so much, when in reallity, we are acting as selfish insensitive soulless bastards. And to see that medicine, the crown jewl of humaneness has capitulated in front of it without even making a sound and even serves as the main executor, is bloodcurdeling. I'd say we are completely off the course.
@scorpina69
2 жыл бұрын
Australian and NZ politicians are the forerunners of 'trans' and 'gender' ideology. We now have 'self ID and anti conversion' laws in place in many states where 'trans' affirmation only model is enshrined in law. Therapists, psychiatrists and other counsellors are legally obliged to affirm someone's expressed self identification. They can get high fines and even jail terms if they keep trying to 'convert' 'gender dysphoric' kids and adults. Parents are losing custody for questioning this and refusing to consent to 'gender affirming' hormone treatment, mastectomies, hormone blockers etc. It's an outcry. Politicians who voted these laws in, had no idea what they were doing. They thought it was only about gay and lesbian conversion by church doctrines. They did NOT understand the pro 'trans' affirmation inclusion. It's maddening!
@ivanabacicdonadic7976
2 жыл бұрын
@@scorpina69 Thanks for these information. I don't think that the problem with the politicians is that they didn't know what the terminology means - two can play the linguistic game - the true problem is that they will use it as an excuse to do nothing about it. And the bigger tragedy is that they were elected by the people. So the ultimate question is - are we any better than them - would we do anything different if we were in their shoes. Would we make the effort to do the right thing? And are we doing the right things right now in the place where we are? Because that is where it all started, I think, and where it must be mended. We all sold a piece of common sense so our specific piece of perversion and corruption would be seen as normal. And after bending the laws of life, that we called backwards, a little to much, now we logically face the distruction of life itself, because that is what dismanteling of the family, and sterilizing children and destroying them psychologically leads to - it will literally destroy our ability to create new healthy generations of people. And I must say, I am stunned by how quickly things are happening, in a matter of weeks. But on the other hand it is logical, the stage has been set at least decades ago, this is just the execution phase. Literally, as it seems.
@shifterofshape
2 жыл бұрын
Tullip is making us so proud.
@violetstameski664
Жыл бұрын
So are you❤
@Madonnalitta1
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks to the detrans speaking out, without you guys, I wouldn't know how harmful this can be. Yes, I remember the PPI thing, that was a good analogy.
@familearn606
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story, TullipR. Your voice and the voices of other detransitioners are so important.
@thewrightoknow
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks mate for sharing your courage and help to folks on this journey. Blessings
@rachelk5272
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never heard anyone describe the experience of moving in and out of trans, that you kind of come in and out of it mentally and get pulled back in and out by other trans peoples influence. Very interesting and dark stuff
@L_Martin
2 жыл бұрын
His description of that was so striking. When you have doubt, the believers pull you back in to reaffirm their belief. When you are in “believer mode”, YOU pull the doubters back in to reaffirm your belief. I can totally see how that would work. In a much weaker sense, it reminds me a bit of veganism or some particular diet communities I’ve been in, where the group is deeply invested in keeping doubters on-side.
@millennialodyssey5956
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being so brave because there's so many out there who were suffering alone not feeling like they could speak out because of such a huge societal support for this. I'm so glad this is happening for thier sake! Thier voices matter! Thier stories matter! Thier lives matter!💓 💗
@louiseparker1915
2 жыл бұрын
Their......sorry I've got OCD 😉
@L_Martin
2 жыл бұрын
Lovely guy! Very endearing person. It was really insightful to hear about his experience.
@brynnemiller5056
2 жыл бұрын
Tullip, thank you!
@georger64
2 жыл бұрын
Sure takes more courage today to do what tullip does. For the transition people are just swept along, given encouragement and showered with compliments and (fake?) affection. Much respect! And best wishes for the future.
@helendancelot
2 жыл бұрын
Very good advice about turning off the Internet and getting outside
@MsJustice4ever
2 жыл бұрын
TullipR, if you’re reading this.. I’m sorry this happened to you, mate. But they will just say you were an adult who signed a consent form. They don’t care, the NHS is gone to the dogs long ago. I appreciate that you’re raising awareness, stay well, all the best.
@dimad645
2 жыл бұрын
I am so excited to hear this. You have been highly praised by Gender a wired lens podcast and Matt Walsh podcast which I listen to regularly.
@Qrtuop
2 жыл бұрын
Matt Walsh hates women.
@joirrgang
2 жыл бұрын
I know this sounds trite, but you are a treasure to people who are falling for this utopia concept of solving identity issues. Also at the risk of being trite, I am praying for you...because God so loves you and would love for you to ask him for help. Ask him to show you who he is.
@amanda-caton
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@donnamcpherson3000
Жыл бұрын
What a lovely informative interview. Loved the warmth and respect generated from both sides.
@judeesee894
2 жыл бұрын
This is such a tragedy.
@Madonnalitta1
2 жыл бұрын
It feels like a nightmare to me so I can only guess how terrible it is to mutilate your body and later find out that it was a social contagion. Detrans are far more generous than I would be if it were me.
@apab9700
2 жыл бұрын
Love how eloquent and thoughtful this guest is.
@nowwhat1434
2 жыл бұрын
You cut him off to ask him about his social media. I wish the story wasn’t interrupted. I wanted to know the next step. I appreciate him admitting he was saying terrible things online. That’s the one thing that puts me off to detransitioners … all the abuse they direct at women… but he explained how unwell many are. Appreciate him sharing his story.
@heatherwillis5505
2 жыл бұрын
The abuse directed at women by trans folks is pretty sickening as well.
@nowwhat1434
2 жыл бұрын
@@heatherwillis5505 yeah that’s what I’m referring to. The abuse they unleash while still trans… before their awakening.
@Qrtuop
2 жыл бұрын
And after. See Isaac and many others. Many men transition because of their misogyny. Female detransitioners don't hurl abuse at women. There is a pattern.
@queengoblin
2 жыл бұрын
@@Qrtuop limpida as well is extremely misogynistic, i think being trans is mostly about trauma. people aren't born hating, they're traumatized into it. it's deeply sad.
@L_Martin
2 жыл бұрын
@@Qrtuop I thought the Heterodorx podcast discussion of this hit the nail on the head. Males NEED their own spaces to vent about women and express every ugly thought & feeling about women etc., and women NEED their own spaces to do the same about men. Both genders need that to heal and figure their sh/ t out. What’s not helpful is directing that venting outward at the opposite gender. But it definitely happens on both ends, and it’s toxic when it does.
@diannelandy2861
2 жыл бұрын
Ngamihinui for speaking out. Power and peace to you.
@helendancelot
2 жыл бұрын
I remember the seventies with much fondness.. Unisex tings
@sophie20015
2 жыл бұрын
my first visit and now a subscriber ... great piece.
@heather773
2 жыл бұрын
Big Hugs and Thank you for telling your story
@helendancelot
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@themeaningofgender
Жыл бұрын
PPI - that makes sense! Great analogy.
@alixgoldring
2 жыл бұрын
It's truly brave to talk about your personal story which reveals so much tragedy, respect to you Tulip. I really appreciated the rejection of the MFT/FTM phrasing and saying he was always male as the language around this is misleading, especially to kids.
@bearskyshebearsky
Жыл бұрын
Love you beautiful Tullip🤗🤗🤗💖💖💖💖🌸🌸🌸🌺🌺🌺 love from Mexico 🇲🇽🐻🇲🇽🐻🇲🇽🐻🇲🇽🐻
@helendancelot
2 жыл бұрын
Good point about the 1 per cents
@tinabenson1492
Жыл бұрын
I really like him! ❤
@genalee5211
2 жыл бұрын
Trying to be another sex sounds exhausting. I can’t imagine. I’m a female love being a female. My husband of 33 years loves his female wife very much🥰🥰🥰🥰
@heather773
2 жыл бұрын
He is describing my son. I wanted to ask how I can get Detransitioners to follow my son on discord or Instagram? At this time he may be taking hormones but not coming out in public. I have seen pictures of him dressed fem from his "other" Instagram. I want Detransitioners to follow him so he may see the other side before he goes down the surgery route.
@RevGary
2 жыл бұрын
What does his Dad say about all this?
@shifterofshape
2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry. Hopefully he comes around. 🙏
@heather773
2 жыл бұрын
@@shifterofshape My heart goes out to you Love. I watched your story Thank you for sharing. You are a super hero in my book.
@heather773
2 жыл бұрын
@@RevGary My son only told me in his room Nov. 2020. He dressed up as a raver girl with other guy friends for Halloween. We had been on lock down Covid then this party. They did mushrooms and these two girls told him how amazing he looked and he must be trans. So he came home looked up trans. By Nov that's when he told only me "he may be trans" as the computer says all his depression anxiety is because hes trans. He still has not told his dad. I shared with my husband his father a week later as I was in shock. I'm not naive I grew up in a big city I had been to drag shows. My son never had feminine tendencies at all. His father is not happy but thinks he will desist. Our son lives a double life with us he is he with friends he is a she. Pride month has me on edge when will he drop the bomb.
@shifterofshape
2 жыл бұрын
@@heather773 thanks. I have been greatly hurt by gender ideology. 😞 hugs. Hopefully your son will desist.
@L_Martin
2 жыл бұрын
Is it just me only getting audio in one ear?
@sarahfreeland23
2 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@anniespurdle
2 жыл бұрын
I understand that TullipR is taking on the UK NHS for permitting this to experiment to performed on his body, how do people contribute to his costs?
@superpuppyman921
2 жыл бұрын
May be an issue on my end, but video is muted.
@superpuppyman921
2 жыл бұрын
Never mind, it’s audio on left channel only. Thanks for sharing!
@ryr1974
2 жыл бұрын
words fail
@mortuaryartist
2 жыл бұрын
I mentioned tullipr on twitter to someone obviously struggling. The amount of hate was shocking. They really don’t support de trans people.
@scorphacker7381
2 жыл бұрын
No sound in right earbud lol
@aquarius1986
2 жыл бұрын
For some reason there’s no audio for me?
@1997zhjc1
2 жыл бұрын
probably because audio use only left speaker
@aquarius1986
2 жыл бұрын
@@1997zhjc1 Thank you, changed device and it works now. ;)
@worldview730
Жыл бұрын
To me it's a very tough, confusing world to understand , as there is no one definitive identity character & absolute value to rest on. Just a lot of trial & error, exploration with no clear answers. So there's just this perpetual rotating circle with no true destination. Sorry if any one is offended, but this is just my opinion.
@helendancelot
2 жыл бұрын
Yoga could be a good option also
@RevGary
2 жыл бұрын
Wrong. Yoga is actually a Hindu religious worship system it's not to be recommended.
@shadow.banned
2 жыл бұрын
@@RevGary That person suggested telling kids to stretch and do breathing exercises to calm down, and you come back with nonsense about religion? It's stunning how much UK citizens hates their own bodies. You have no idea how to be healthy.
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