I had to come back & comment because this WORKS! I have a very avoidant partner, & after a month of me not initiating contact, he has recommitted to the relationship, and we are even stronger than before. I watched Coach Lee’s videos on repeat to give me strength & to keep me positive, and I’m so thankful for this content. THANK YOU, Coach Lee!!
@manhattan_maria
4 жыл бұрын
This gives me great hope. My partner is very avoidant as well and I’ve been scared that NC will push him away further from me. It’s been two weeks so I’m trying to hang in there.
@lyrein4303
4 жыл бұрын
It’s been a month without hearing from my ex he blocked me.
@myrtlejennings2209
4 жыл бұрын
I want this too , happy for you both !
@ninacallahan7767
4 жыл бұрын
Very happy for you
@wallyarroyo7939
4 жыл бұрын
Do you think that there is hope?
@mohdkher7074
5 жыл бұрын
keep watching no contact youtube videos and trust me you will be stronger day by day
@jonahlevi3178
5 жыл бұрын
I think that's a catch 22
@CherPsKy
5 жыл бұрын
lmao, yes.
@CherPsKy
5 жыл бұрын
Hey Mohd, did it work?
@onaraider2007
5 жыл бұрын
It is very hard
@BabiiJayy15
5 жыл бұрын
I needed to read this comment in particular omg.
@djblack1204
5 жыл бұрын
Don't allow them to live rent free in your head!
@mauriciolancheros7474
5 жыл бұрын
Hoooow, I Have has her in my head and in exhausting
@djblack1204
5 жыл бұрын
@@mauriciolancheros7474 Try to kick her ass out. Go out with friends and start dating.
@2umsvee214
5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@carolinelaronda4523
5 жыл бұрын
djblack1204 😂😂
@amazinggrace6881
5 жыл бұрын
😇 I know that is right
@DominiqueSpeaks
4 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe all these people are feeling the way I do! Very encouraging knowing I’m not alone!
@mtorchia24
4 жыл бұрын
Nope sis. I'm there too.
@darrellmasterson7925
4 жыл бұрын
Your diffinently not alone
@killua2617
4 жыл бұрын
@@melindapupos8668 3rd day in nc:(
@bmorehemi392
4 жыл бұрын
Definitely not. I’m a man and I’m currently going thru this. It’s hard. I keep buying her stuff and begging her to take me back. She’s just not interested at the moment. I won’t contact until She reaches out first. Which may be never, but I’ll be ok. I need to start my moving on process anyway. She has too much of a hold on me
@LiLgPnoy15
4 жыл бұрын
I know, seeing the comments of others helps me feel better. Knowing that I am not the only one going through this crap is soothing.
@jrivera8678
5 жыл бұрын
I'm serving my ex a double nothing burger with a large side of nothing fries and nothing drink.
@samlove3239
4 жыл бұрын
Love thissss hahaha
@karinacarrillo1756
4 жыл бұрын
I’m dead 😂
@petersnell3128
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha. Good food for them!!
@Trataylor713
4 жыл бұрын
this comment is so under rated
@faerie_willow
4 жыл бұрын
Ahhh this is the best 😂
@connorgreer7559
3 жыл бұрын
It’s almost like a roll reversal, they start to feel everything you felt at the beginning, the more you heal the more they fall apart
@connorgreer7559
3 жыл бұрын
@@dannyhughes4822 thanks
@dannyhughes4822
3 жыл бұрын
@@connorgreer7559 you are welcome.
@khabibmcgregor3592
3 жыл бұрын
@@dannyhughes4822 eat shit thanks
@cookiecookie1834
3 жыл бұрын
@@dannyhughes4822 if you can't get and keep you love naturally you are sad and deserve to be alone. I hope God builds protection around whomever you're trying to spell cast that they get far away from you.
@ryp1562
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly this. Emotions get reversed.
@zakiahart3919
4 жыл бұрын
As my father use to say silence is golden
@tanveer4461
3 жыл бұрын
My mom used to say speech is sliver, silence is gold
@chaostade4087
2 жыл бұрын
my father says that too, but he is a little bit too silent, my mother wants my father to discuss more and have more conversations, but my dad is a silent guy when in house. lol He only talks a lot with his friends.
@SoundsSilver
Жыл бұрын
@@chaostade4087He knows talking will lead to arguments lol
@gggray5747
7 ай бұрын
I'm beginning to think that silence is platinum.
@tylervilbert5071
5 жыл бұрын
No contact honestly is more for yourself. It makes it easier for you to move on and get over the breakup as long as you are being proactive at bettering yourself. If you are using it to get your ex back it doesn’t always work. But it’s a win win situation because you either get your ex back or you get someone better!
@BambiOnIce19
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's definitely more for yourself. I was exhausted with my ex. He constantly did "don't get to attached", "don't talk to my kids/family/friends"... Just weird crap like that. I finally got so sick of it, i told him to go find someone else, and to lose my number. He tried to call - once. Not that i answered. I just couldn't be bothered with men who don't appreciate your value. Frankly, if i never saw him again, i couldn't care less. Nobody needs that kind of torture. And if you're dating a person like that, it's not you that needs therapy. It's usually THEM. So leave them in their confusion and go live the best life for yourself.
@mystic8193
4 жыл бұрын
I will help you
@trishataylor2837
3 жыл бұрын
In still waiting for the "someone better"
@SueSweetify
3 жыл бұрын
its so hard 😫
@tylervilbert5071
3 жыл бұрын
@@SueSweetify oh hell yes. Going the no contact route is hard.
@runer007
3 жыл бұрын
This guy is a good company when you have a heartache. I feel relieved and soothed watching this video.
@JeremyNoelJohnson
5 жыл бұрын
Relief->Curiosity->Concern->Consequenes
@viktoriyashiskova3130
5 жыл бұрын
Yep! 🤗
@chantalp3234
5 жыл бұрын
So true, you can actually see the stages they go through
@christianestrada1671
4 жыл бұрын
Jeremy J that makes sense But I felt like I went though that backwards though
@lynnbrown2409
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I came to the messages looking for this.
@flower6186
4 жыл бұрын
I think my ex in his relief and curiosity stages. He unblocked me because of curiosity but haven't reached out, founded out that he was actually sad and down after a couple of months after we broke up. Really hope he would reach out soon.
@azazel3944
5 жыл бұрын
NC will start working when you guys stop reaching,worrying,stalking them etc JUST STOP IT AND WORK ON YOURSELVES AND LET THEM GO
@mjop183
5 жыл бұрын
Facts
@diaryofseresha
5 жыл бұрын
Wow this was so deep, im goin on NC starting today after pouring my heart to my guy who told me he wan be move on as my friend n i told him not possible since i love him n then he told me he is currently solving some problem, saw my all msgs n didnt reply. I wont msg, stalk n do nothin now. I tried doin that from 2 months n it got taken for granted everytime. Gon go on NC n work on myself
@lettyrodrz9940
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, and i am proof of that because since after 45 days of no contact he texted me. I just could no believe my eyes when i saw his message.
@lettyrodrz9940
5 жыл бұрын
@_ BUDDHA _ do not contact her just concentrate on you. If she wants to be with you she will contact you..if not, you should be comfortable with yourself without having her in your life...
@kellyparkwerhip1616
4 жыл бұрын
I found that I needed method .. Friends believe it works, I would strongly recommend it to anyone. This have saved my life!! Is the only thing it really help me to get my ex back and now i am again with her and happier than ever.. This program is both for male and females .Good luck *MyExLove. info*
@quinoasongs2507
4 жыл бұрын
a breakup is a death with no funeral. Going through it, the stages of denial, anger, depression, sadness, blame game, and acceptance. It goes both ways. Unless this person is one where they only want what they can't have. In which case, they are not suited for a relationship right now. If they quickly find someone else, that someone else will go through all that too.
@unknowboysvlogsghana9750
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@rebeccajohnson5658
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to that also
@TimStJohn-xp8rv
3 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@ryp1562
3 жыл бұрын
What you said is correct all them emotions you listed are in order of the dumpee but for the dumper they go the other way around, perhaps anger closer to the beginning for dumper though.
@Chaz_NFQ
2 жыл бұрын
My mother used to say that divorce feels like the person died but their corpse is still up walking around
@dianaalonso9502
4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we win just by loosing 👊
@PredictAnythingSoftware
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly... very ironic... hhaha
@1besieged
4 жыл бұрын
sometimes we win just by losing.
@thelinguist01
4 жыл бұрын
Very accurate Yet simple.
@GreatestXchange
3 жыл бұрын
Profound
@lailamnn2328
3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@fahimaqalanjo8590
5 жыл бұрын
Working on yourself and time will heal your broken heart and you will find someone who’s better than your Ex. Everything will make sense in time and you will be okay 👌
@RapidZLadZz
5 жыл бұрын
What does it mean when people say “work on yourself”
@fahimaqalanjo8590
5 жыл бұрын
It means to become a better version of yourself than before. A strong person who can go on with his or her life without their ex and you just have to be strong and have patience to get through hard times. You don’t need anyone. All you need is you so became the best version of you. I get over my Ex because i made the decision to move on, i realized i deserved better and one day I would find the right person so i respected myself enough to decide what’s best for my life. Then later on in time, i meet someone better than my Ex, and he is my boyfriend now. When you focus on the right things, you will find better friendships, better relationship, and ya should always have a life on your own, outside this person. God have someone for you, who’s meant to be in your life, give your heart and trust to God and God will give you someone who deserves you. When the right person came into your life, you will realize why it didn’t work with your Ex.
@fahimaqalanjo8590
5 жыл бұрын
I mean when the right person comes into your life. You will realize why it didn’t work with your Ex.
@fahimaqalanjo8590
5 жыл бұрын
_ BUDDHA _ You’re doing great because you’re not breaking no contact and you responded polite when she contacted you. Um in my honest opinion. You should focus on your life for now and don’t wait for the text message or contact from her, she will contact you when you least expect it just be yourself and be happy. As long as you’re focusing on your life and improving on your life. Is win situation for you because you will level up on your life and you might get her back or you will get someone better than her. Either way you will be okay
@dankline9162
4 жыл бұрын
IF my ex never comes back, and I do find someone better, THEN I'd be comfortable and like to be friends with my ex. I can't do that before then, as I never thought I'd be lucky enough to find someone as compatible as her. I may have to, though. At least I know now more than ever, what exactly I want.
@maxithum4080
Жыл бұрын
No contact is genius! It’s so hard to accept, that it is over for ever- ever. With no contact you can work on yourself and after 6-12 Months you can basically choose between your Ex and the many new options you’ll get when you get better and keep improving!! Stay strong kings
@vivianl8278
4 жыл бұрын
the stages: 1- Relief 2- Curiosity ( secondary to no contact ) 3- Concern (fear of loss) 4- Consequences (Shock)
@alfredobermudez6430
3 ай бұрын
When does the fear of loss hit someone
@madelinegono4670
5 жыл бұрын
NO CONTACT WORKED. It literally took 7 months but was worth it..I was so scared we would never speak again but he contacted me after 7 months and we spoke for an hour about how much we miss each other. He's flying me to NYC in a few weeks to hang out. ( We were long distance). Just posting this to encourage everyone to stick with it..it's really hard..I thought about him everyday that 7 months but it worked. I think it really rose his respect/ value for me and he admitted to watching everything on my social media and thinking about / missing me constantly..I can't wait to see him in a few weeks. Stay strong !
@snowwalker9999
5 жыл бұрын
Madeline Gono if no contact is going to take more than a month then hopefully I'll have moved forward by then
@claudia111love4
5 жыл бұрын
May I ask you if you both dated other people??? Be careful...
@peachink3847
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the encouragement and congratulations on your success. I hope it goes well with you.
@nafisakhamraeva742
4 жыл бұрын
Madeline Gono but it’s so hard if u love smn and making No contact
@manifestationhappiness705
4 жыл бұрын
7 months is way too long after a month it’s game over for me I don’t know how you managed
@@momocyrine depends on what you did Relief may took longer if you plead and beg to your ex. It may take shorter if you acted cool like let them have the space they wanted.
@momocyrine
3 жыл бұрын
@@lordmakishima2480 totally ruined my chances . Ivr beeh through hard times that period i didnt see what i was doing. I want my dignity back
@melodyluich7042
3 жыл бұрын
@@momocyrine You didn’t ruin your chances if you leave them alone eventually they’ll go through the stages
@momocyrine
3 жыл бұрын
@@melodyluich7042 i dont care anymore .. i have new crush already ! Thank you
@nikosm2113
5 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She told me that I am the best thing that ever happened to her. She is still in love with me. I watched so many videos like this one. If u want a true advise listen me! Move on. Think them, cry, miss them but move on! Remember that u were alone before them and just fine! Try to love yourself again. Update: Hey guys I hope everyone is trying to be okay! Well I’m coming back to this comment after one more bad break up again they dumped me. It’s ok tho I’m following again the stages to love myself again! Always try to find people that are complete alone, that’s the only way to be happy in a relationship.
@nikosm2113
5 жыл бұрын
Jill Lee yes she broke up with me 2 months ago. Grief has many stages and you have to go through them! Best thing to do is get angry. Because u did everything for someone and he/she didn’t had the courage to fight for your relationship! Accept what it is and learn to live without them. You were great without them and u will be again. Now I am feeling great. I do things for myself and enjoying some alone time with people that truly love me!
@nikosm2113
5 жыл бұрын
melissa justin let me understand your situation. You had a fight, he left and then you didn’t speak again?
@am30wish
5 жыл бұрын
hanane 567587 same to me we didn’t confirm the break up he never said ok about it !!! He blocked me first after the fight !! Since he is still friend on social media try to talk to him !! Believe me you will feel better ! You don’t have to get him back ! But try to have a conversation 💭 with him
@victoriaberry514
4 жыл бұрын
Nikos M I keep telling myself this
@dankline9162
4 жыл бұрын
Same boat. Found my soul mate. Never cheated, but she thinks I will leave her. !! She breaks up with me, says she loves me (but not the same feelings as before) Even says she thinks she may not ever find someone she meshes with so well! But at the same time refuses to really sit down and talk, to work it out. Then she calls ME ridiculous after pestering her. I ran out of words, she hardly budged an inch. I was so confused, wanting to bash my head in every day... Since nothing I did worked, I finally searched online, and am doing NC!
@Chelssums
3 жыл бұрын
I forgot to comment. But my boyfriend broke up with me like a year and a half ago. I did no contact and he texted me after he saw my car driving around town. He asked me to eat lunch with him. We’ve been together since. BUT, let me add, that while this works, make sure you do it for the right people and you don’t stay together with someone who is toxic! Know your worth! Thank you, coach Lee!
@unicornprincess2565
4 жыл бұрын
Being dismissed feels as though someone has driven a sledgehammer through your heart and just keeps grinding on it. 😢
@terrelladams2905
5 жыл бұрын
I went no contact then move out of state once my ex found out she started calling texting like mad we talked daily then she moved down here with me and now we getting married.
@NAG3
5 жыл бұрын
Unbelievable
@mylesm1494
5 жыл бұрын
Terrell Adams believable
@nicolewinters
4 жыл бұрын
Unbelievable how did u guys come back together
@charlesd3024
4 жыл бұрын
That’s called a hard next
@KnightXV
3 жыл бұрын
Ouch. Married too soon. She may be using you as the "provider ". Oh well 🤷♂️
@ao5624
Жыл бұрын
I refuse to be with anyone who doesn't want to be with me. I will walk away and live my best life. The best revenge is to live your best life. I deserve better. I am counting my loss and moving on.
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
AO, GOOD FOR YOU! 👍
@ao5624
Жыл бұрын
Update, my ex reached out to me after about 60 days. The no contact definitely works!
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
@@ao5624 Happy for you. 👍
@sunnyztmoney
Жыл бұрын
Based
@canalmyers6888
Жыл бұрын
@@ao5624 vocês voltaram?
@ruthankers7680
Жыл бұрын
I was waiting patiently for the day I could write this .... THIS WORKS. I had no contact for four months and my ex came back, apologised for everything and told me he wants to give things another go! You are so right about everything
@theempire00
Жыл бұрын
How happy should u he be tho…. Why did he leave u in the first place 🧐🧐
@ronaldrodriguez766
Жыл бұрын
@@moytheboytech616it is true? Does it works??
@FM-wbos
Жыл бұрын
4 months that’s long they probably had a relationship and didn’t work out
@ruthankers7680
Жыл бұрын
@@theempire00 his work took him away to sea and I wasn't comfortable with that lifestyle, now he says he will happily change his career to be with me 😊
@ruthankers7680
Жыл бұрын
@@FM-wbos if you follow coach lees work you will see four months is about the average time. Neither of us had relationships in between, we just took the time to work on ourselves 😊
@elenalimberg7364
Жыл бұрын
Guys! Do NOT give up! We can do this!!! Visualize your future with your ex(only temporary state, BELIEVE in what you visualize! If you believe and know as a fact that you two are meant to be together - that's what IS going to happen! Coach Lee - you're the best! Thanks for everything you do!
@laurencetaylork6757
9 ай бұрын
Trust no contact. If they truly love you, they will come back, just put the work in to change for the best. I was at a total loss without my ex and just before Christmas I got the message. Saying how lost she was without me!
@nathanblankenship122
5 жыл бұрын
Man I watch some of your videos everyday. Sometimes I'll watch the same ones over because you help give people confidence in this process. Awesome advice.
@BasitCh
5 жыл бұрын
I watched his videos like every day almost 7 time a day.... I know it's crazy but it gives me hope.
@dodzretarepahtez3682
5 жыл бұрын
Agree
@adamhackett5812
5 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@iCamzie92
4 жыл бұрын
Same! Usually because I was about to break and make another mistake in breaking no-contact. Lol
@nicolewinters
4 жыл бұрын
Hi you’re cute
@RosaCharice
4 жыл бұрын
Success story here! It worked after one year. I’m in a different place and love myself now :)
@shanthelgaray3501
Жыл бұрын
Whenever I feel my anxiety start to kick in and I start to get mentally weak Coach Lee's Videos give me strength 😊
@aisshwaryachandrasekaran1146
2 жыл бұрын
One month of no contact, wohoo. Baby steps! Thank you, Coach, it feels like you're with us helping us go through this.
@ags835
Жыл бұрын
Update?
@aisshwaryachandrasekaran1146
Жыл бұрын
@@ags835 6+ months of NC.
@Roshan_K
Жыл бұрын
@@aisshwaryachandrasekaran1146 ..... Girl, are u still waiting for him..... !? Oh my God u seem very tough person
@Zeref_edits
Жыл бұрын
Update??😢
@Tsan1010
Жыл бұрын
Update?
@mlara95ml
5 жыл бұрын
Stay strong people! 🙏
@rarirover44
5 жыл бұрын
My ex texted me after one week of no contact she commented on my photo damn i turned the tables around so happy she gone see now
@bhonggamelicor8860
4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏☝️❤
@kristinesison3892
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@lavishbyvicky8146
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks you too
@gmmavila4111
3 жыл бұрын
@@lavishbyvicky8146 getting your lover back shouldn't be a problem I got my ex back with the help of Mr osekhametalor.
@bishaldev7692
3 жыл бұрын
Success story...I get my gf back after 5month of no contact...stay U will succeed
@tecktonalex
6 ай бұрын
contect please
@marcopervo
5 жыл бұрын
The dumper eventually feels the lack of oxygen that the dumpee has been providing their fire, and the more resiliency and dignity displayed by the dumpee, the more likely the dumper will eventually desire contact and even seek it out. All bets are off if they pathologically jump from lily pad to lily pad. They've done you a favor by breaking up, and you should focus on attracting someone with blood running through their veins.
@aquilascott8218
4 жыл бұрын
I love what you Said here and i totally agree with this .
@trevorharding3783
3 жыл бұрын
100% agreed.
@jimatkisson8986
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, that's good! 👍 I just made a screen shot, going to use your insight as my phones wall paper to remind me whenever I struggle to reach out to her. She doesn't deserve me and I need to not feed her ego further
@amberspeacefulplace5803
3 жыл бұрын
Love this 💕 so right especially the Narcs and Jezebel spirits don’t need those kind if they are gone your blessed! They are cold n heartless. Self serving just put God first and self love!🙏♥️🔥
@chaostade4087
2 жыл бұрын
haha I like your comment. Spot on.
@roc8083
4 жыл бұрын
Man since NC, I've gotten so swole. I even got muscles in my nose now. When she sees me again, she'll either be very impressed or very afraid of me
@lovingme6896
4 жыл бұрын
Josh Williams muscles in your nose LMAO IM WEAK. Thanks for the laugh
@calvinthomasmuzik
4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ashton1952
4 жыл бұрын
😅
@03081416
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@stephenherrington3549
4 жыл бұрын
How long have you been doing no contact?
@LiLgPnoy15
4 жыл бұрын
We're all feeling the same way! We will all get through it!
@evanspiewakowski5007
5 жыл бұрын
It worked for me!! She texted me asking me if we can talk, we got together and she said that she's sad and it all rooted back to the break up and that she wants to work on us getting back together. We are now back together and happy.. trust no contact it's the best thing to do!
@ChadMNicholas
5 жыл бұрын
How long was no contact period?
@evanspiewakowski5007
5 жыл бұрын
@@ChadMNicholas like Coach mentions you can't put a day on it. Like I cant say 30, 34, 48 days it's really at there pace. But its wasn't 30 it took a little longer but just know that with no contact you have your BEST chance and it's the right thing, they can't miss you if you are constantly in there life right?
@hwdareu5848
4 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me 1 month ago and we have been friends since then . I will go no contact from now.
@ATXMEX78
4 жыл бұрын
Oh to be in your shoes would be a blessing!! I'm happy for you congrats!!
@Don-pk2uy
4 жыл бұрын
Update?
@ericm.5408
5 жыл бұрын
I deactivated my Facebook I went no contact I disappeared
@ericm.5408
5 жыл бұрын
I love her but I’ll will honor her wishes and leave her alone.
@anajasmine7409
5 жыл бұрын
Keep us updated on how that works for you
@swatirajsgi
5 жыл бұрын
I did the same.
@senseidoraemon9341
5 жыл бұрын
but coach said that is immature :/
@ericm.5408
5 жыл бұрын
Sensei Doraemon No it isn’t I need to deactivate my Facebook account because of other reasons and I need it to disappear from my friends so I can work on me
@jamesroach1997
2 жыл бұрын
When I feel myself slipping and wanting to reach out to her I come back to these videos & I don’t know how but it gives me a sense of calmness and ability to make it through just one more day! I pray she comes back for the sake of our son & a stronger relationship but I’m also willing to accept that it may never happen but that something better for me is destined soon.
@videosofinterest9227
Жыл бұрын
Same here.
@F88i
3 жыл бұрын
I'm treating my break-up like a science project now. I've watched a lot of videos about ''no-contact'' and the progression of the person who was dumped (me) and the person who did the dumping (her). It's crazy how I can now make a timeline and retrace back all the events that happened during the break-up and how they were so precisely described in these videos. Right now, I'm super good. I've got my emotions in check and I'm doing all the things that I should be doing for ME. The scales are balancing out and shifting my way positively. Whether she comes back or doesn't I am good either way. I gotta say though, N-C does help a lot. At some point, you realize that you're in a better spot being the person getting dumped because you will make the effort to get better and not necessarily the other way around. ;)
@Crm.xcviii
2 жыл бұрын
Any updates with you science project lol
@Crm.xcviii
2 жыл бұрын
@@esthermonday926 I don’t got exes
@monarene44
11 ай бұрын
I treated my breakup like a longitudinal study. He reached out a couple times in a vague manner but I didn’t take the bait. He had hurled a lot of insults at me after he dumped me and I never trusted him again. I was convinced he would never treat any partner with any respect after he had fooled them into thinking otherwise. I was correct. He never admitted to wanting me back but it was obvious he wanted me to do the soliciting. It would have been a complete waste of time. He had nothing to offer me anymore. He was 100% emotionally unavailable to anyone.
@Kay-js4cb
5 жыл бұрын
No contact 7 months now. Losing hope. I think it's over though, but I've improved myself so much. Prior to entering my 5 year relationship, I haven't went to the gym since. Now I have been going for 3 months straight 3-4x a week.
@bradvk3553
5 жыл бұрын
Loss can be a great motivator. Keep doing what you're doing. Like you said you've improved, so you'll be able to get an even better partner.
@Kay-js4cb
5 жыл бұрын
@@bradvk3553 I still have feelings for my ex. But thank you! very encouraging words
@Flow-WithTheGo
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’m on 4 months. It was a clean break up & ive been in NC since that day. Not heard a word. Strange to think I’ll never hear from her or see her again
@Rizzard_of_ozzzz
5 жыл бұрын
I’m on a year and a half and I haven’t gotten a single word.
@Kay-js4cb
5 жыл бұрын
@@Rizzard_of_ozzzz Unfortunately, I say you won't hear back after 1.5 years of NC. I'm already 7 months in NC (9 months post break-up) and I already feel like I'll never hear back again. I think up to a year is the maximum amount of time before it is likely you won't hear back again. After 1.5 years of NC, even if I heard back from my ex, it is possible I don't want the relationship back - I'd feel like they failed to find someone better and only came back because of that. Do you still want your ex back?
@hootieshorsehavenhootiesho8932
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video , 2 months post break up , lost 50 lbs , trying to focus on me . We were together ten years and had a beautiful farm together so this has been devastating . I did alot of things wrong in the beginning but after watching you I've changed my behaviors and it's helping me move forward for me .
@realmsofthespiritarts8557
2 жыл бұрын
Update!?
@lil_rockstarrr
Жыл бұрын
Update??
@MilonMia
11 ай бұрын
Update?
@amyle974
4 жыл бұрын
Today is Day 10 of NC. This journey is ROUGH. I am very grateful to have found this video and have been watching it every day for 6 days. No matter how low or high my emotions are during the day, I still love him and have hope of us getting back together. This video and the comments have been my HUGE motivation. Thank you. Thank you for this video.
@mskamran123
3 жыл бұрын
update?
@amyle974
3 жыл бұрын
@@mskamran123 It's been 5 months. I would be lying if I said I don't think about him from time to time. But the biggest thing I have learned in the last few months is time is precious. I could sit in darkness and mope about how life seems to be so heartless. How can one just move on? How do people continuously put themselves into relationships knowing that heartbreak is also an option? Or I could change my mindset. Use this time to feel what YOU need to feel. Because life goes on, darling. I chose to feel what I needed to feel. If I felt sad, I let myself feel sad. If I felt anxious, I let myself feel anxious. If you need to watch these types of videos three times before you can fall asleep, then watch the videos three times to fall asleep. Once I allowed myself to feel the emotions I felt without being harsh on myself, it was a lot easier to get up every morning. Now, I enjoy my alone time, but also enjoy spending time with new and old friends and family. This is the "self-care" so many people talk about. Self-care isn't the bubble baths and retail therapy. It's the way you take care of yourself the way YOU want to be cared for. I have a better idea of how to balance time myself with others. I pay attention to my flaws and ask "well, how do I work on this?" I use to have this "hope" of us getting back together. Now I simply smile and say "it is what it is." If we cross paths again, it is okay. If we don't, it is okay. Because life goes on :) I hope this helped!
@tecktonalex
6 ай бұрын
update?
@tylervilbert5071
5 жыл бұрын
I’d say about a month is the average relief period. From experience being on both sides. I broke up with someone and felt relieved for a little over a month and then out of no where thought about her and missed her like crazy. And then girls that have dumped me that DID come back usually came back around the 6th week. Some came back within a week. Some came back months later. Some never came back.
@bqhatevwrsb
3 жыл бұрын
Are these girls you were in relationships with or just dating?
@Nimbus3690
2 жыл бұрын
I messed up by reaching out and getting ignored 3 times and it interfered with the post-breakup process. I've been in proper no contact and radio silence for 2 months, not sure what stage the ex is in, if she is even in this with me at all.
@FancyNinong
3 жыл бұрын
My ex came back after 2 weeks, thank you coach! You made each day worth living for 🙂. I hope these contents receive more credit for this truly inspires us broekn hearted to continue life even with a heavy heart. 🥰
@FancyNinong
3 жыл бұрын
@@johnpormat6168 thank you so much for sharing your story. ☺️❤️ It's a wonderful turn of events, with plenty of ups and downs. It is so inspiring😯☺️🧡❤️
@shadowking423
2 жыл бұрын
did you beg at first?
@FancyNinong
2 жыл бұрын
@@shadowking423 No I didn't but I begged him to stay when we broke up. Apparently, my decision to leave him was right, I wanted to update my comment and that we really are not compatible with each other. I realized many things after breaking up with my ex. :) P.S. It is fine if you beg it's human nature.
@cinecobafi8640
5 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE 100% RIGHT. Now I can see where I was going wrong in all my previous relationship
@georgehathaway8631
4 жыл бұрын
I made the mistake of begging to get back with her. I decided to log out of my sc, fb and insta and I wont talk for a while, i hope she will miss me, pray for me guys!!
@pizmomartinez3876
4 жыл бұрын
George Hathaway update?
@georgehathaway8631
4 жыл бұрын
@@pizmomartinez3876 Were back together!!
@pizmomartinez3876
4 жыл бұрын
George Hathaway holy hell man im so happy for you!!! Its been a day passed a week since shes been gone but she still texts and stuff and says she does plan on coming back but im just tryna play it cool and stay calm ☹️🤞🏽 wish me luck loll again congrats bro and rootin for it to last 🙏🏽
@gom3nasaioniichan258
4 жыл бұрын
Should i stop using social media? Because she can still see what i posted at instagram stories
@pizmomartinez3876
4 жыл бұрын
Gom3nasai Oniichan just cause she can doesnt mean she is ... either post you doing good or just completely stop posting at all
@virginiaperge8207
2 жыл бұрын
When you "want it" it tells the universe that you don't have it you lack, But if you release it the desire it will come to you
@virginiaperge8207
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly I'm not sure if I want him back
@christopherengland654
3 жыл бұрын
After my breakup I lost sleep, missed meals, lost muscle/weight.....that's the perfect time to get me back because now that I'm back up to 7+ hours of sleep and eating 4 meals per day and in the gym 6 days per week I'm not thinking about my ex or any future relationship because I'm focused on me and these gainz.
@TheAsmaahmed
3 жыл бұрын
"By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond the winning.”― Lao Tzu
@jodiesingy8394
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, this is the only Dating Coach I trust. I've seen a few.
@hefhefner3507
4 жыл бұрын
You really are a blessing bro, helping thousands of people during probably the hardest part of their lives.
@edt8535
Жыл бұрын
Lee, you are head and shoulders above the other people offering advice on this topic. I thank you from the bottom of my broken heart 😢
@manishachhetri1206
3 жыл бұрын
after 1.half months of no contract . he came back to me . he said me missed me alot he love me more thn before ... now we are in a happy relationship.............
@kbshrivastav8539
3 жыл бұрын
Shaadi to dahej de k govt clerk se hogi
@emerald1541
2 ай бұрын
And how's it going now ?
@stephaniemendez6784
5 жыл бұрын
I’m doing NC and I’m feeling relieved!!! Depressed but relieved...so it’s not just the other party..
@calvinthomasmuzik
4 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Mendez me too
@vanessaescalada5624
4 жыл бұрын
Yes true in 1 month no contact I feel good about myself and I realize that I can let him go. I'm so much thankful that I survive no contact
@Kevrix
3 жыл бұрын
@@ebayj8754 LOL :D
@danielfranco4896
4 жыл бұрын
Nc really does work. After two days of nc with my ex she finally texted me this morning saying she was sorry for being rude to me and that she still loves me and that she forgives me. This guy is the truth !!! Trust this guy. I had really gave up on my relationship and had a great feeling that she would never talk to me again even threatened me to call the cops to leave her alone and I’m in shock !!! Thanks coach lee
@annausf3887
5 жыл бұрын
Almost 2 weeks of NC, eh, thought I wanted him back, but not so sure anymore, have to continue to protect and (re)-develop my own self worth...
@Nk-jv4pj
5 жыл бұрын
EVERY DOG HAS ITS DAY. today is his Some other day will be mine. I am in radio silence now. Falling into the trap of over thinking what all we spoke over the years. Blocking is so immature....he blocked me and unblocked me manytimes. This nc is heart wrenching. Hope all will be good to all of us here. After multiple times rejections and his shortcomings and the lies by this guy it is making me hardened. I do miss him . I do I want a better version of him if and when he comes back. And i too want to improve myself. Actions has consequences.....
@mortezahabibi2596
5 жыл бұрын
Keep going. It works.
@isiscastillo1690
5 жыл бұрын
Nk update?
@kat-pg5cx
5 жыл бұрын
Any update?
@Daniela-pg7qg
5 жыл бұрын
So keep working on u and love yourself so much. Ask the un8verse also
@Daniela-pg7qg
5 жыл бұрын
Trust
@rubytwoshoes1032
2 жыл бұрын
Patience with yourself and them. Women tend deal with a breakup immediately going through the emotions etc, men don't, they will carry on and then it will hit them, even a few mths down the line. Don't wait, live your life, you don't know whats ahead be excited for it, daydream your future, where have you wanted to travel, try new things, even a new love with the qualities and virue you seek. Then if they do come back by then your vibration will be so high that your out of their reach, take a brave step forward ❤️you've got nothing to lose, so much to gain 🙏🏻
@twinkie311bc
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these videos. I’ve been watching everyday to help me sleep better and to keep me with this mindset. Even if this “no contact” method doesn’t work, it’s helping me to accept that it’s over, cry less, and become stronger.
@azebede
5 жыл бұрын
Well... I begged and pleaded for two months. Nothing. Applied the No Contact Rule and in a WEEK she reached. Now back together.
@tercsi1
3 жыл бұрын
@Aaron Zebede me too. It's been 3 months
@timwengsi8637
3 жыл бұрын
I wish this could happen to me I begged for one month nothing and I just went into the NC it's hard
@tercsi1
3 жыл бұрын
@@timwengsi8637 don't feel bad. In reality no ex's ever come back. Maybe 0.05%. Just look around. People just move on. I pleaded my ex fiance . He never blocked me . He lives down the block from me. I even showed up and even got intimate with him months after the break up. I went radio silence 2 months. July 5 to Sept 3...he did not reach out. I reached out Sept 3. He still isn't dating..no casual sex..no rebound..nothing. ..he's older ..53. So I guess it's not important as for younger guys..but he still hasn't come back either 🤷🏽♀️
@artsadiku9325
3 жыл бұрын
@@timwengsi8637 update?
@FerrisSonnbichler
22 күн бұрын
Thank you for your calm. For keeping me strong. I watch your videos daily. You make sense of the chaos. And you are correct. Chasing, begging and pleading are off the table. We are not pawns in a chess game. There is no winner here. A lot of sadness and a deep feeling of loss. No sense in losing your dignity in the process. Thank you again. I cannot afford your EBK but I will always back you. You truly come from a compassionate place. ❤❤❤
@admiraljohan7152
5 жыл бұрын
When you described the long complicated nonsense reason, and the word for word fact that they need to "work on themselves" you opened my eyes man. That was word for word my current situation and while I didn't buy it from her there was still the voice in the back of my head saying "well what if she does truly wanna work on herself and we might get back together later" you really confirmed it. Thanks for being real man.
@RealCoachLee
5 жыл бұрын
I hope the best for you Johan!
@loribelle26
2 жыл бұрын
I actually don’t believe it’s always 100% BS. My ex husband is a narcissist and he stalked me and my ex boyfriend, showed up at his house and made threats, spread lies to my kids about him. Etc. He said that it was just too much to handle and extra anxiety and stress in his life.
@CiluhStyle1
Жыл бұрын
Facts...it just is an easy let down...false hope... I experienced it too...I thought it was b.s. but trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. But coach lee confirmed my initial thoughts that those words are full of shit. We may need time apart but breaking up to work on yourself is b.s. when you could have did that together and agreed to take some space to do that.
@Raven.8501
5 жыл бұрын
Ok…seriously… your eyes are amazing! They are so blue! 😳
@greateststarbyfar3345
5 жыл бұрын
i agree !!! his eyes are beautiful and well wish he was gay and looking lol:-))) as good looking as Coach lee is i wouldn't mind a minute to use no contact on him to keep him:-)
@jakecorriveau7004
4 жыл бұрын
@@greateststarbyfar3345 lmao
@ShilohJulia
4 жыл бұрын
THIS IS THE MOST ACCURATE INFORMATION AND DESCRIPTION EVER
@ultrastandphoenix1883
4 жыл бұрын
For realz
@666shrekgreenarse4
4 жыл бұрын
Day 4 no contact with him. I wish he will come back. Pray for me🙏🏻
@nilsaehterami9341
4 жыл бұрын
A Human update?
@ATXMEX78
4 жыл бұрын
Hope you are stronger regardless of the outcome..
@tc4905
4 жыл бұрын
I’m on day 5. I feel your pain.
@666shrekgreenarse4
4 жыл бұрын
He hate me. He dont reply my message and start following pornstars.
@666shrekgreenarse4
4 жыл бұрын
Rich B. Thanks💕
@jean-josephsmith6364
4 жыл бұрын
This is surprisingly spot on. I went through a terrible break-up with my ex; I was the dumpee. About five years after the break-up, I contacted my ex out of curiosity because I saw a picture of her holding a little girl. I was curious to know if it was her daughter (it wasn't her daughter btw). I had already been married for about five years up to that point, and had one child -- with one on the way, so my intentions were a genuine attempt to make peace. During our brief contact, however, she did admit to me that she started to miss me around three years after it was over, and wanted to start over, but that it was too late; I was already married -- and have remained married for over 13 years. Very inspiring vid.
@byebrows9698
2 жыл бұрын
You got married directly after your break up?
@theempire00
Жыл бұрын
@@byebrows9698omg 😳😳
@johnnycalderon9951
10 ай бұрын
This was a horrible story bro lol u literally got married right after a break up even though u wanted someone else
@priscillasalcido1756
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Lee, He Finally reached out. I thought it was impossible to get my ex back especially with no contact but I was wrong and you were right! Thank you so much!!!
@depika5946
2 жыл бұрын
I’m in the impossible stage x
@realmsofthespiritarts8557
2 жыл бұрын
Update?
@rustycage5550
2 жыл бұрын
Almost 2 months, ive pretty much lost all hope, i cant take it its hell😥
@realmsofthespiritarts8557
2 жыл бұрын
@@rustycage5550 usually women don’t come back. They move on. It’s the men who do. So if you got a good woman treat her right. :( I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m going through the same and it’s barely been a couple weeks and I’m already going crazy .(
@rustycage5550
2 жыл бұрын
@@realmsofthespiritarts8557 i did nothing wrong, its that she lost feelings and said they faded, and i was emotional but accepted it and went no contact, but she seems not to give a shit about me anymore and a day ago she blocked me for some reason on one of her 3 ig accounts, i hate my life, we were matchmade and she ruined it
@LazyDaisyDay88
5 жыл бұрын
The sanest video I've watched on relationships in a long long time...
@jgonzo316
6 ай бұрын
I'm not even going through a break up but his videos are soooo calming but when I was going through mine he really helped my mind at ease no matter what amount of pain you feel or how unique you think your situation is it will be okay it will hurt and you will see who you truly are during these tough times but if you focus on yourself and just try to see life without them it will get better trust me! Remember if you need to talk to people TALK!!! Don't bottle up emotions that hurts worse than the break up
@Yaro98
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t want my ex back, I just want to move on and this kind of videos makes it easier for me. I do hope we can stay in each other’s life as friends.
@commoncreations2226
2 жыл бұрын
Before Coach Lee I used to toss and turn whilst trying to sleep with all kinds of negative thoughts about my break up... Now I listen to Coach it helps me sleep by easing my fears about the future. Guys I was a wreck for 10 months doing all the wrong things trying to get my ex back... nothing worked. Discovered Coach Lee 5 weeks ago....started no contact straight away.... Starting to see positive signs slowly... Going to stick to it until she contacts me directly. Pray for us guys.... I will pray for you all every minute I get. Bless you all. Hang tight. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@jasonh8212
5 жыл бұрын
this is 100 pct accurate, all of it! ive been through a few breakups and this is such an extensive/accurate breakdown
@WallyMerc06
3 жыл бұрын
They didn't want to do it, unless they're a narcissist, then they seriously don't care about you at all and you need to walk away forever.
@chuckincharlie776
3 жыл бұрын
“Silence Lloyd. It’s golden.” -Ari Gold
@dsireesanchez
Жыл бұрын
Dear Coach Lee, your videos gave me so much strenght over my breakup, almost a year ago. As hard as it was at the beginning, I followed your advice and 7 months after breaking up with me, my ex came back. Thank so much for sharing your experience and advice ❤
@anastasialalruatfeli9938
3 жыл бұрын
I used to watch your video when I was pregnant and my baby father dumped me when I was 7 months pregnant , it was hard for me but watching your videos help me a lot. Now we are together with our 10 months old daughter, we forgive and love each other , thankyou so much,
@iksot4013
5 жыл бұрын
ex reached out 2 months after brakeup, 3 weeks in to NC, she asked me cassual queston "how are u doing, whats new in your life". I gave her the most cassual answer "i benched 100kg week ago" I feel proud of myself after all that begging and pleading.
@rjanbyberg6730
5 жыл бұрын
petar stavrov How long was your relationship?
@iksot4013
5 жыл бұрын
@@rjanbyberg6730 6 years, we lived together 5 of them.
@letatcestmoi8648
5 жыл бұрын
petar stavrov 6 years? That’s a lot of memories to feel & to remember after a breakup. Glad to hear you took care of yourself. Keep up the efforts.👏🏼👏🏼👍👍
@rjanbyberg6730
5 жыл бұрын
petar stavrov Do you plan on trying to set a date if she reaches out again? I have a date tomorrow night, but if she isn’t as cool as I hope, I think I’m gonna contact my ex after 54 days of NC. We dated for 5 months. Figure I have nothing to lose, as Coach Lee says.. I know I can get other girls, so I’m fine either way, although I really miss her. I will give it one shot before I get busy with one of the other girls I suspect may be into me.
@iksot4013
5 жыл бұрын
@@rjanbyberg6730 highly doubt, even tho i still love her more than anything. When she broke up with me she told me that she is not seeing me as a good father for our future childrens and that im mentaly abusive...i was in shock, i had no idea what was that abusive thing...a month later she told me that was just an excuse, infact she cheated on me 3 months before the breakup but couldnt tell me that in face. Guess the grass was not greener on the other side...so no i wont take her back. Im setting up a date later this week with another girl so yea...love not always wins, especially if its onesided BTW do not contact your ex if u are the dumpee, u will regret it and u will be back at grieving stage.
@ExoticalsHabitat
5 жыл бұрын
Dear Coach Lee! Thank you for your advise, especially the "encouragement during no contact" video. My ex broke up with me early January. I pleaded with him that morning and got fed up when he was pushing me away. I went to my house, texted the "clean slate text" although that time I didn't know it was, and because of my hurt I told him to never call, text or email me and he responded with "sure" i was even more pissed off at that response that I blocked him everywhere. I picked up my self love and respect from the floor, nurtured them and learned to be generous towards myself. 2 months down the line he devised a way to contact me by asking his client to contact me concerning a business matter. I didn't read between the lines and forwarded the email to him. He garnered the courage to ask me out. After chatting back and forth on email l finally agreed to meeting him this weekend.
@rccrn0228
5 жыл бұрын
How'd it go??
@viktoriyashiskova3130
5 жыл бұрын
Update us sissssss
@deyanirapayan881
5 жыл бұрын
Toya Missy girl continued the story lol!
@KnightXV
3 жыл бұрын
Then what happened?
@realmsofthespiritarts8557
2 жыл бұрын
Update???
@brianchoi1851
3 жыл бұрын
I find this to be extremely helpful in piecing together and making sense of intense and emotional situation. All of his advice was helpful but the thing that was important for was to realize that no contact doesn't mean ignoring your partner but about being able to plant the seed of doubt if and when they reach out to you. Not being so predictable and adding that element of mystery while being able to show "the best me" was key.
@ahmadal-saudi9112
3 жыл бұрын
Remember, you're no one's ego stroke!
@lachanetta
2 жыл бұрын
The best feeling of no contact is no longer having anxiety on when he’s going to call or text me back. I didn’t even officially end the relationship… i just went no contact. I did not deserve the way he treated me therefore he does not deserve closure from me.
@jail4BillandHilaryClinton
5 жыл бұрын
My ex gf left me suddenly saying I was taking her for granted which is BS. She left me for a “ better” guy. After calling and texting for 4-5 days I just stopped. Hit the gym daily And studied . I was in uni and she was in the same uni but thankfully reading a different subject so it was easy not to see her. It was brutal for the first 4 months. my mood began to lift but it took my nearly a year to heal. We were together for nearly 2.5 years . Her new bf was some rich lawyer and she thought I did not know. 18 months post break up , she started texting. I ignored her texts and one day she found me at the library . I was tempted to tell her to F$&@ off but I agreed to talk and walked to a quiet corner of the campus. She wanted to date again.... I told her I know about your rich lawyer boyfriend you were with immediately after you left me. And told her not to speak to me again.
@EJayyDreadHead
5 жыл бұрын
Bro you're a genius* that's the alpha male power
@diaryofseresha
5 жыл бұрын
Damn i wish tables could turn on my guys ass too n he end up comin back to me just like ur ex
@victoriove3852
5 жыл бұрын
my man
@ClouduSan
5 жыл бұрын
How the hell do you guys find out about your gf's new bfs ? lol
@joynermaidana7058
5 жыл бұрын
Champion
@liveandlearn0203
3 жыл бұрын
I can breath now, I got my life back, I can see clear now after 7 years and 9 break ups! Thank God .
@jaxxmariecambridge5212
5 жыл бұрын
These videos are SO helpful to keep me on the straight and narrow and to not reach out.
@sophiakon6293
5 жыл бұрын
Same here. It comforts me.
@robertbrown2594
5 жыл бұрын
same here, but every day that goes by feels like forever...
@sophiakon6293
5 жыл бұрын
@@robertbrown2594 its been 3 months now. Im better and Im also dating someone else. I would never have imagined that. But Im still thinking about him... and it still hurts.
@Luke-ph9xf
4 жыл бұрын
Lees videos are exceptional. Listen. It's all about the moment here right now. The past is done and the future isn't set. It's like a car on a highway at night. Lights are on and even though it's dark you WILL reach your destination whether that is that you get your ex back or you meet someone new and amazing. Imagine the darkness on that road is your fears and the headlights are your hope. When you are driving to a destination in your life have you ever stopped to contemplate the darkness? Of course not it's time consuming and pointless, so apply this analogy to your emotional situation. Each one of us is a very unique light so follow it, and you will find your true destination.
@Msluxpearl
2 жыл бұрын
It works! I did NC for 5 months and he came back asking me to marry him. But then I don’t want to marry him anymore. 🙂
@boostedlife3082
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Lee. This video is absolutely 150% in how I handled my taken time apart from my girlfriend. It has been 10 day’s since we have had any contact with one another. It is very hard for me right now, but I am granting her wish to give her some space.
@Starrisaw
3 жыл бұрын
Update?
@lil_rockstarrr
Жыл бұрын
Update ? I’m at ab the same point rn
@SoundsSilver
Жыл бұрын
@boostedlife3082 How did no contact go? Did she ever come back? Any lessons to share?
@ziadaouladbenzerouala7579
11 ай бұрын
Update pls 😊
@guitawrizt
5 жыл бұрын
If she has wandering eyes- forget it.
@rebeccajohnson5658
3 жыл бұрын
I used to be a wander that went astray but came back. I learned about it is not right to cheat.
@YvetteZapien
7 ай бұрын
Coach Lee, no matter what happens I just want to thank you. I'm going on week 3, and the more time that passes I just feel better and better. You have really helped me during this difficult time. When I thought all was lost you gave me the little bit of hope I needed to just get out of bed and keep going. Even if I don't get him back I will always be thankful to you for helping me.
@RealCoachLee
7 ай бұрын
I deeply appreciate you leaving this comment. Thank you so much!
@thewhitehairedwitch8777
5 жыл бұрын
Believe me!! No Contact Rules does work!! Even when your ex wasn’t sure they love you or not!! Like mine ex ghosted me many times and i stayed no contact and left him alone!! Worst case for month But i have to work on myself about when he come back!! Because of me is a person who melted !! Lol I will be stronger Thank you so much Coach Lee Your video does work !!!
@taniamuzungu1697
3 жыл бұрын
This guy must be a Scorpio cold and strategic, love it 😍
@debanjanmondal3706
4 жыл бұрын
Six weeks into no contact. Let’s hope she comes to her senses and reaches out one day.
@andreamcleod9347
2 жыл бұрын
No contact seriously changed the way I feel for the better. Needed this break for my mind and health. Feel so much better.
@princessfraser194
5 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee you are 1 in a million everything you say in your videos makes so much sense encouraging people in a breakup lifting up our spirits and different strengths to survive a breakup you are a godsent thank God 4 a man like you always helping people I love you so much your precious
@NostalgicVibes
4 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, I took your advice with no contact. We’ve been broken up for 6 weeks. 2 weeks no contact and she reached out today. She sent me a new song that our favorite artist came out with. I responded a few hours later and I responded in a very reserved, but happy and respectful manner. It was a very short conversation. I’m not texting her again. She is now in a sad/missing me phase. I think she’s finally questioning things. She was in a relieved/elation period for about 4-5 weeks. She got angry/frustrated for a little and posted stuff on social media about wanting someone who gives them everything or nothing at all. She texted me today and she seemed to let all the negative energy go towards me. I’m so excited!! I love this girl and I worked on myself this whole period of time. She is finally seeing my worth now. I know she will text me again if I just keep no contact going. I’m content without her, but I really do love this girl and I know we’re great together. We had our issues, but nothing they couldn’t be resolved. She will see it one day! I’m not in a rush. I’m doing everything you said coach Lee!!! Thank you!!!
@mystic8193
4 жыл бұрын
I will help you.
@mystic8193
4 жыл бұрын
+16108390674.
@Rpamungkas-r3g
5 жыл бұрын
2 weeks NC now, i feel get better day by day but sometimes i feel so desperate thinking about my girl, but i have to stay strong and watch your videos everyday it's helps me alot, God Bless You Coach Lee.
@topgunner1962
5 жыл бұрын
Update?
@topgunner1962
5 жыл бұрын
@@Rpamungkas-r3g 74 days no contact for me. Killing me. Miss her so much
@Rpamungkas-r3g
5 жыл бұрын
@@topgunner1962 Lonely Guy 74 days is decent amount of time for you to reach out bro, maybe you should try to meet her.
@topgunner1962
5 жыл бұрын
@@Rpamungkas-r3g Even after she walked away from a 3 year relationship? She got with married guy from work. Initially I begged and pleaded but said she wanted space. On our last call she admitted to getting with married guy from work with kids. I had jealousy issues but I treated her so well. So she walks away and with a married guy and while it took her a while to answer when I asked she said no to loving me. And I should reach out to her??? If she had any decency she would check on me. Love her more than anything and its killing me but how can I reach out after all that
@Rpamungkas-r3g
5 жыл бұрын
Lonely Guy ohhh, i'm sorry to hear that bro, but i think if she leaves you for someone else, then she's not worth your time and i know thats hurts, try to work on yourself and don't focus on her too much bro, try to do others things try to distrac yourself from her and move on. you have to be strong, don't give up bro, it's not the end of the world.
@prachisaxena3788
2 жыл бұрын
I am shook and amazed at how accurate this video is. More power to you.
@IAMFhuluT
Жыл бұрын
My healing journey started the minute I subscribed to your channel ❤no more sleepless nights. 😊
@mohamadyahya2326
5 жыл бұрын
Believe me guys I was there.. I know what u feel.. It's suck but.. It's rly work just trust no contact rule and go do something for urself.
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