well, this is part two of my continuation of how to be a Godly woman
. many of you, I don't think anybody really knew that at one time last year I was actually. I guess dating someone I don't even like to use the term dating.
I developed a friendship with a guy after this Divine encounter in walmart. you know everything seemed to kind of fall into place he was a believer, and in the very beginning, we were actually reading the Bible together, talking about God praying it was really kind of cool. we would go for bike rides he liked many of the things that I liked. but I'm going to tell you women don't be fooled. don't don't don't. Don't be fooled. There are so many men out there that, in the beginning, will do what they need to do to please you to be in a relationship.
i haven't had a relationship for 6 years. ever since my divorce, God really has been number one in my life, and I've been very satisfied and I feel very complete. the first three years after my divorce I had to work my way through being without a husband without my dog without the homestead life changed drastically there was a lot of loss and a lot of things to adjust to. everything was new for me, absolutely everything. so when the Lord brought me this fellow, I thought it was probably time. so it was kind of an experiment for me. but the stories just kept on coming. there were cracks in the armor right away and you know at first I just put them aside I didn't want to be judgmental I didn't want to be critical I wanted to really try to be somebody who looked at this relationship as okay could be challenging there's going to be sacrifices and I need to be Christlike in all things. but unfortunately, the guy had a lot of issues.
you know we all carry baggag, but if we can't let that baggage go, it's going to start spilling over into any relationship that we start. and if we don't have Christ really in our lif, like if he's not really number on, it's just not going to work. I thought Christ was number one in this fellow's lif, and apparentl, that was the farthest thing from the truth. this guy didn't know Christ.
just because they check the box and say that they were raised in church or they used to go to church none of that matters it's what's going on today.
you must ask yourself, is this die dedicated to the Lord? Is he in love with the Lord? Is he picking up his cross and following the Lord? you're not supposed to be number one. God is supposed to be number one. it'd be very, very careful with these men because pretty soon you'll notice you could start compromising.
this is the tes. Willl you fall prey to the compromise?
is it worth it?
is another person worth it.
for me it wasn't my salvation and my love of Christ was not worth any any type of compromise for this fellow and so I had to cut them out of my life.
I chose Christ. I did not choose him to continue and dysfunction and stress and try to compromise who I was because this guy was broken and refused to let go
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