I've experienced this rejecting judgemental type and it was crushing. I am grateful that I see them as they are now and look forward to rebuilding myself. thank you - your guidance and lens certainly resonates with me.
@AmieLeadingham
4 ай бұрын
Hugs to you 🤗. Yes! So proud of you for opening up. Happy to hear you’re rebuilding with the right kind of people in your life now ❤
@kaylaste1635
4 ай бұрын
It’s so hard for me to be different with different people
@kaylaste1635
4 ай бұрын
you describe that “friend” that makes you feel worse. But can we really call that a friend? Im confused. I think that my confusion about what a friend is is what makes me make the mistake of oversharing. When is the time to set limits and what kind of limits? When is the time to say I’ll stay away from this person because they are not an actual friend? I just opened up to a ‘friend’ i hadn’t seen in a few years about something seriously painful that happened to me recently. I thought this person was a friend because we used to hang out a lot in the past and she was always giving me advice, trying to help me with my issues. Well this time she immediately reminded me of how she warned me in the past but i didn’t listen, and that i made a mistake and thats why this happened to me recently. I was speechless, and all I could thunk right away was “wtf?”. I just Couldn’t believe her reaction, but I also didn’t feel it was worth it to say anything about it. I just listened and at some point told her that things are not so simple as they may seem. That was all. But now I am left with this feeling of why am I so clueless about who to be vulnerable with? Why do I sometimes share stuff even with people that have never been my friends, but who may seem friendly at the moment? And in the end I get a slap in the face
@rebekkas.9421
4 ай бұрын
People...I have nor more then 2 people around all in all 😂
@AmieLeadingham
4 ай бұрын
Honestly so true and we’re lucky to have more than a handful of people to be in your inner circle. 🫶
@makethatchangelifecoaching4009
4 ай бұрын
I never overshare I told one fucking person who abuses me now
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