I am sorry but I don’t agree with this theory. I feel that parents get afraid due to this theory and fail to deal with their kids. I am experiencing this fear of parents. Parents are afraid of crying and showing stubborn behaviour of their kids and as a result of this so called stress they allow almost everything to their kids. They can use the mobile because otherwise they will cry due to stress, they can sleep late in the night because early going to bed will stress the kid and it cries, they can eat sweets as much as they want otherwise there will be a great drama due to stress and so on. The result is that I observed parents falling on knees before their kids to ask what do you wish to do, have or get for being stress free, they are allowed and as this child grows up his demands for being stress free grow with him. Sorry, our Islam has told us very nicely and deeply how to bring up a child. And there it is clearly said that do yourself first what you want your child to do. Creating an environment is just created and not real. And kids are clever enough to find out a just created scene or real. If you want to be him respectful than be respectful yourself, be honest, humble and polite yourself the kid will copy. If you just pretend to be then it will not last long. And that is the point. We adults fail to be ourselves like we want our kids to be. If you are harsh or angry for some reason to your kid it’s not the end of the world. The kids learn from that stress that this was a situation I don’t want to be ever again so I will change my behaviour. And then parents should distress their kid and everything will be fine. A 5 or 6 years kids go to school then why can’t we feel the kid you are going there to learn interesting things which will guide you throughout life, you will meet other kids and learn how to deal in companies. Near to Yaumul Qiyamaa one sign is that parents will give birth to their lords and literally I am observing several scenes where parents sit in front of their kids and ask for their wishes and beg for relief of their stubborn behaviour. Yes make the kids stress free and take all the stress on your own, tell the kid you are my lord and we have to obey you and make sure that you get no stress. Islam is a religion of balance. Love your kid, give him safety, love and confidence but stop him from things that are harmful for him or others. And for the last you should start with yourself. Stop harming people, stop lying, stop fighting, stop betraying. Don’t pretend to your kid. It is a piece of yourself, you can’t pretend in the long run the kid is like yourself
@justsayit5251
2 жыл бұрын
best comment so far
@maan4384
2 жыл бұрын
یا اللہ پاک میرے بچوں کی مزید اچھی تربیت کرنے میں میری میرے شوہر کی اور تمام والدین کی مدد فرما آمین 🤲
@foodgallery9045
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@ansar260
2 жыл бұрын
Ameeen
@AmmadHoorainKitchen
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@erumspeaks4301
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@foodparadise1200
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen
@sozepinhan367
2 жыл бұрын
بچوں کی تربیت کرنے میں سب سے اہم بات ہے کہ صبر ، صبر اور صرف صبر بے شک اللّٰہ صبر کرنے والوں کے ساتھ ہے
@knnnewskayaannewsnetwork4801
5 ай бұрын
Bht khubsurat BT ki ap ny...zindage badal skti
@TarnumSheikh
13 күн бұрын
Ham jald baji karte hai kahi hath se vakt na nikal jaye
@msb.catophile9
2 жыл бұрын
اسکول میں سات سال کے بچے کو تو ریلیکس رکھا جارہا ہے مگر 9/10 سال کی عمر میں سٹریس دیا جاتا ہے۔۔۔بچہ اسکول سے نجات چاہنے لگا ہے۔۔۔
@ayangamer302
2 жыл бұрын
Ya Allah sb fathers k dil m bchon k liye narmi r piyar dal dy Ameen
@MohizMalik-ip1bl
4 ай бұрын
Ameeen
@reshmareshama6409
12 күн бұрын
Ameen Sumaameen
@abuanas9489
2 жыл бұрын
آج کل کے بچے 3/4 سال میں ہی بہت ہوشیار ہوتے ہیں تو آج بجی 7 سال تک ہونے کا انتظار کریں؟
@moodmechanic9578
2 ай бұрын
Dr. Sb specifically us waqat ka is liye keh rahe hain, k wo right age hoti hai, jab bacha is behavior ko learn kar leta hai, Wese shuru say hi yehi practice honi chahye
@empowermentbysana
2 жыл бұрын
My mom and dad are fighting from years... And this makes us alot stressful
@zobiakashmiri5062
2 жыл бұрын
sad 😒
@talhaabbasi-iq1qq
Жыл бұрын
Allah ye lrye khtm kray gharon se
@simplifyradiology
6 ай бұрын
Talk to your parents yourself to make your home peaceful
@Safia-r7s
5 ай бұрын
@@simplifyradiologytalking doesn’t help. Ye dimaghi mareez ho chukkay hain. They don’t listen
@QariMentorvlogs
4 ай бұрын
Ohhhh ..sorry to hear
@hrf8453
2 жыл бұрын
I think for this purpose we should change our educational system
@komalmehmood9364
2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@contentart5169
2 жыл бұрын
Most of Pakistani school give stress to students Teachers give lots of homework Mentally and physically torcher
@komalmehmood9364
2 жыл бұрын
Yes Agree, or ye torture mother KO Bhi milta hai individually, or Bachon KO pas karti hai phir, wo Bhi KIA Kare, school wale itna home work itna kaam dete hain, bache KO kuch na bolo to wo pharte hi nhi hain, Samjh nhi aata KIA Kare to KIA Karen..
@contentart5169
2 жыл бұрын
@@komalmehmood9364 Parents should have to take action against unjustified homework and too much course
@komalmehmood9364
2 жыл бұрын
@@contentart5169 KOi kuch nhi karta ye hi soch k, k KOi dusra nhi Kar Raha to Humari kon Sune ga, 3rd standard k bache ka bag itna heavy hai k mother se nhi uth raha hota, or wo bag Bechare bache Utha rahe hain
@contentart5169
2 жыл бұрын
@@komalmehmood9364 I agree with you but All Parents do something for their children
@readandlearn897
2 жыл бұрын
You are the best ... I always feel guilty when I listen to you .... Trying to be a good mom but sometimes your own stress overtake
The main reason for stress in students is comparison with other students. Especially in teens
@bulla2747
2 жыл бұрын
U Totally rite brother😔
@sidwrites..7323
2 жыл бұрын
Studies pressure these days... Educational system sucks
@zaraukeducation
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I am in UK and there is no comparison and no burden. I studied here and learn how the difference in teaching style.
@sidwrites..7323
2 жыл бұрын
@@zaraukeducation communication system??
@zaraukeducation
2 жыл бұрын
@@sidwrites..7323 sorry typing mistake. No comparison and no burden until primary school.
@talatiqbal1856
2 жыл бұрын
ارے بھائی کچھ الفاظ اردو میں بھی بول دیا کرو۔ پاکستان میں 90 فیصد عوام انگلش نہیں سمجھتی اور آپ 90فیصد الفاظ انگلش میں بول رہے ہیں ہم کیسے سمجھیں گے؟
@Handsforfun
2 жыл бұрын
Bwhahah cobra 🐍 na bno tu bachay tu Ghar ko Pagal Khana bna dain
@engrazharali2048
2 жыл бұрын
جب تک بچہ اپنے اسلام کی تعلیمات سے نہیں جڑتا وہ کبھی بھی دنیاوی معاملات کو خوف خدا کی نظر سے نہیں دیکھے گا اور آپ کو ہر پروفیشن میں ایسے بد دیانت کرپٹ والدین کے نافرمان وغیرہ وغیرہ ملیں گے۔ اس کے لیے دعوت اسلامی کے ادارے Darul Madina بھترین جگہ ہے جہاں آپ کا بچہ دنیاوی تعلیم کے ساتھ ساتھ دینی تعلیم و تربیت سے آشنا ہوگا۔
@UmeIbraheem-f3i
4 ай бұрын
Allah mere bacho ko acha hafza ata kr Aameen 😢 mera beta sbq boht mushkil se yad krta Allah pak mere bachy ki مدد frma Aameen 😢😢
@iramahtesham2125
2 жыл бұрын
bht acha tareeqa hy samjhany ka allah hum sub ko bacho ki naik tarbiat krny waly maa baap banaey ameen
@AbdulHadi-x2x8m
Ай бұрын
Ameen Suma Ameen
@afsheen4952
2 жыл бұрын
Doc sahab, thank you for such amazing parenting guidelines. But please, also discuss behavioural problems of age 7-12, where parents have already done this damage to their children. Please please talk about how to fix n recover this problem in kids. Where due to parents mutual arguments, kids are already affected and don't listen to parents or are hyper and have aggressive behaviours specifically from age 7-12. Buhut Shukria, hamari society ko ap jesay Naseh Ki buhut zarooret hai. ❤
@ummeabdullah2
2 жыл бұрын
Same request is mine. What should we do now ..?? 😔 How to fix this problem now??
@asraaziz4278
2 жыл бұрын
Same request from me please give some advice my son is 13
@komal-vu3qm
2 жыл бұрын
Same request is mine .
@wakhan-planet
2 жыл бұрын
Same reason here sir
@wakhan-planet
2 жыл бұрын
Can we have short video on that
@adrenalline8250
2 жыл бұрын
under constant stress your brain cannot process information accurately and hence your academic performance goes down, you cant get the grades that you want, constant frustration of the parents creates new problems if the child finds a bad company to vent those feelings out. unfortunately in our society beating and punishing kids physically is a norm. If your kid is acting different always try to figure out the reason in yourself first then other settings and then fix the underlying problem. Children behave in a very predictable way. In psych this leads to oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, antisocial personality disorder, Obsessive compulsive disorder, acute stress disorder and PTSd, major depressive disorder, bipolar disorder etc etc. And remember in children depression presents differently. Teens usually have a high ego which means whatever they say is right, with time we learn other people have their views also. so when ego is hurt they get depressed. in our society adults think kids cant get depressed.
@alyanhassan43
2 жыл бұрын
Kingly guide me sir Agar bucha baat sunta na ho jaan boujh k to Kea karna chahiey
@Jamilgohri
7 ай бұрын
اور آپنے جو بات ڈاکٹری لیول پے کی ہے کہ پچے پر دباؤ نا ڈالا جائے اور نا مارا جائے اسکا ہمارے پیارے نبی کی سیرت میں بہت واضح الفاظ میں موجود ہے تو ہر مسلمان کو چاہیئے کہ وہ دن میں کم اسلم 15منٹ سیرت کا مطالعہ عمل کی نیت سے کرے دنیا کے کامیاب ترین انسان بن جاؤگے
@doublecharm3889
2 жыл бұрын
Meri jesi Jin maon ne ye disaster kr diya ho, wo kya krein
@surgeonjaved1
2 жыл бұрын
Please develop relation with your child. win his trust
@ammarafoodsecrets
2 жыл бұрын
May Allah remove all our difficulties and ease all our tasks. Aameen
@henahamid4159
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@experttuent5989
2 жыл бұрын
Summa aameen
@AbdulQadeer-pq6sl
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen ya rabbal alameen
@foodparadise1200
2 жыл бұрын
Summa Aameen
@kiranriaz-h8d
Ай бұрын
ڈاکٹر صاحب آپکی باتیں بہت اچھی ہیں اللہ سب باپ کے اندر اپنے بچوں کے لیے نرمی ڈال دے آمین
@user-ex4jk6or5gAshrafqadri
Ай бұрын
Very nice great sir
@user-ex4jk6or5gAshrafqadri
Ай бұрын
ماشاء اللہ
@sanabajwa4036
2 жыл бұрын
My father did all these thing to Us and now I give stress to my child I'm sorry I will never I do all these things and I will avoid it.Insha Allah
@shahzilgamer9738
2 жыл бұрын
InshAllah
@hummasarfarazkhan9493
5 ай бұрын
انشالللہ ۔۔بار۔بار۔خود۔کو۔سمجھائیں۔
@hayakhan9150
5 ай бұрын
Yes me too😢
@tahagamer1
2 жыл бұрын
I m feeling very guilty for my son wo b seven years ka h aur me prhayi ko lekr aksar us pay skhti kr jati hn🥺🥺
@Meeno226
2 жыл бұрын
Aj kl ki stdy hi itni mshkil hai kya kryn yad krwyn to bchon ko strezs na krwyn to tchr srtress dytt hainnnn
@anamzahid8453
2 жыл бұрын
Sir my kid of 3 years now but always say no to food whatever I served him even junk juices I m very worried plz guide me what can I do he start like food how I deal with him
@irfanaimran8377
2 жыл бұрын
MashaaAllah u are lectures are so true. I am feeling so guilty after listening to our lecture. I a mother of 5 kids AlHamdulillah, but sometimes get so stressed as there are so many things going on through out the day and becomes difficult to mange and then I get stressed and irritated. I know I am wrong and In Shaa Allah will over it and not get angry on my kids. JazakaAllah Khair ur lectures are very motivational.
@sidrasirda9502
2 жыл бұрын
Nice guidelines for the parents and teachers.
@sohailnajmi5118
2 жыл бұрын
Sidra kitny bachy hain apky
@shahzaibsultan507
2 жыл бұрын
I invite everyone to listen Quran MAJEED 💝💌💌💝💐
@farhatiqbal485
2 жыл бұрын
@Shahzaib b7gghuu66
@petsiology
2 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly
@muhammadumer6279
2 жыл бұрын
سر اگر والدین آپس میں لڑائی جھگڑا رہے ہو اور وہ بچوں کا خیال نہ کریں اس دوران اگر بچوں کو دوسری جگہ منتقل دیا جائے تو یہ بات ٹھیک ہے یا غلط؟؟
@noorcollection7633
2 жыл бұрын
ڈاکٹر صاحب، مجھے آپ سے کچھ پوچھنا ہے، میری دو بیٹیاں ہیں، بڑی بیٹی 7 سال کی ہونے والی ہے، اس کے ساتھ ایک مسلہ ہے، وہ چھوٹی بہن کو برداشت نہیں کر سکتی، حالانکہ ہم دونوں سے بہت پیار کرتے ہیں لیکن پھر بھی اس کو ہر وقت شکایت رہتی ہے کے ہم اسے پیار نہیں کرتے،
@saqeel5687
2 жыл бұрын
Sir please help and tell 🙏 k jis husband ny apni bivi ko sari zindagi stress ma rakha ha ub wo lady ub khud apny bachon sy hard rehti ha ,usky oper husband ka pressure hota ha aur wo bachon ma ghussa nikal dyti ha,aisi aurat kia kry akhir wo bhi insan ha wo apna stress kahan nikalay?? Kuon k wo janti ha k bachon py ghussa kr k ghalt kr rhi tau wo kia kry
@converttoislam786
2 жыл бұрын
Sir, I really admire your knowledge . I thank to Allah swt that we are blessed to have a teacher like you .
@asmanoor1411
2 жыл бұрын
Sir!!! Desi parents ko un k parents ny stress me rakha hua hota n they continue it n indulge it in their generations as well
@ahmedmujtaba490
2 жыл бұрын
یا اللّٰہ ہماری مدد فرما آمییییییییییییین
@amnatayyab7451
2 ай бұрын
I always ashamed of my attitude whenever I listen ur lectures bt each and every moment I try to become k good mom and always pray to my God to bless me.
@zeshanaslam3992
2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Sab Allah apki zindgi mai barkat dey ... 1 baat ye keh apki baat boht simple lagti hai pehli dafa mai lagta hai samajh aa gai lekin dubara sunney se koi nya point samny aata hai ... 2 dusri baat mai samjhta hu keh ye aik ba qaeda subject bna ke hamary nisab mai dakhil karna chahiye hai ... Dil se ye chahta hu ...
@MrHira0810
2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful information. I think pre-wedding or during the pregnancy tenure, both parents should get such awareness sessions at hospital level to enable them good practices on patenting..
@kainatashraf2944
2 жыл бұрын
Dr.sahib ap se iltaja hai bacho ka jab bhi koi topic ho almost 1 hour ya half an hour to baat kiya karain please Mery jaise insan ko bht kuch seekhna hai khas tor pe bacho ke hawale se I'm not a mother right now lekin mein chahti hu apne bacho ki achi tarbiyat karna
@khanjeh
2 жыл бұрын
Sir plz s bat ko detail se bataya kry k tek kaisy krna hai or Acha jab bachy ko gusa nhe krna pyar se wo samjta nhe ye point Acha ho ... homework ka tution ka kaho to rony lagay even hath mu duny ka b kaho to dil se na dhoe pehly boly mai nhe kr skta to kaisy treat kry kia kry ..
@learningandfun5240
2 жыл бұрын
I feel so guilty myself as m not a good mother. I had dream to send my daughter convent school n becoz of this I pressureised her so 😞. Now I feel she is not confident enough. No questing but irritated all the time. Started crying when I told her something. Now she is 9+ I really want some help to repair the damage which I did by myself. Please sir I will be grateful to you for this help. Send some guidance please how I can fix this 😔 JazzakALLAH sir. Waiting for you response
@malikmahhealthtips
2 жыл бұрын
ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ بہت اچھی باتیں کرتے ہیں
@ChandAli-vn9pc
2 жыл бұрын
Bohat bohat sukariy
@coloursbymm4178
2 жыл бұрын
Sir how I control myself being a mother of 3 kids... Kindly help...
@MuhammadSaleem-fh6jl
2 жыл бұрын
Same 4 me
@sanafahd5764
2 жыл бұрын
Sir my son is autistic does he have the same issue please guide me he is seven years old and cant speak
@mahad_vlogs
2 жыл бұрын
Sir u r great I always use to listen to ur precious thoughts...ALLAH apko sehat wali lambi Zindagi ata kry Ameen...
@ijaz22
5 ай бұрын
Kash mere parents ne ye sb kuch hme sikhaya hota to hm b achy bachy hoty
@NoorishWithFamily
2 жыл бұрын
اللہ تعالیٰ تمام والدین کو اپنے بچوں کی اچھی تربیت کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین۔۔۔۔
@experttuent5989
2 жыл бұрын
Aameen summa aameen
@foodgallery9045
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@shamshadkhan1457
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen Sum ameen
@armaghankhan834
2 жыл бұрын
Docter sahab please muje guide kare k 13 saal k zedde ar bindaas bache k leye kia kare please guide kare
@zamazahid2272
2 жыл бұрын
Jo bechy beray ho choky hain aur akser kaee becho ka time stress my gozra ho aur ab 15 ya 16 saal k hon to on ko is stressed filling say kesay nikalain aur on ko kesay kamyaab hony my help kerain.
@jobpk1212
2 ай бұрын
Strss h mery bachy m bhe dar bhe jta h abhy 16 age m hai or question abhy bhe krta h muj itny smj nhy h in sub btu k lkn m piyr bhit krty ho us se dotcor sab wo serdi k kpry grmi m pinta or grmi k serdi m kbi gusa ata lkn us ko bolti ny ho kuch ku k muj bhe smj ny h plz muj bty us k mently thk krna chti h akhir kya kro wo khush bhe rhy or sedy rasta p rhy jase jase bra ho rha h m prrshn ho ku k m akili us ki maa ho us k father nhy mamu bhe gult soicty m thy ab wi bhe nhy h
@uzmakamran37
2 жыл бұрын
No words for your good words Dr. Sahab, very nice 👍
@afzaljan9614
2 жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaikum doctor mera naam shama hai aur mera beta 11 sal ka hai per vah padhaai mein bahut VK mein uske liye kya karun aap mujhe much bharate Hain shukriya
@mrnursenibba8912
2 жыл бұрын
Osm mind-blowing information for me as a teacher thanks my ideal ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@atherjafri3396
2 жыл бұрын
nahi nahi : ) ap bohat acha samjatay hain Dr sb hum ap k sath hain,. ap ki muhabtin be rohani tur pr hamray pass ati jati hain..with out net,.. ager zendgi rahi tu inshaallah khaeen pr mulaqaat ho jaey gi,.. ( I am spiritual student )
@faisalfaisalrasheed9038
2 жыл бұрын
Sir mera beta 5 saal ka hy ma ar mere husband to kbi usy danta nhi humesha pyar se bt krty hy but uski phupo ar dadi usko dant dant k pharaty hy wo rota hy usy sabak yd ni hota to marty hy ap btay ma kia kru
@spookyraja9495
2 жыл бұрын
kash Ap ki videos us time Available hoty .Jab mary betian choti thi...
@HaiderAli-se8rc
2 жыл бұрын
Sir joint femly walo k lye b batayin na k wo apny bacho ki tabiyat kaisy Karin
@hareemsaleem1982
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@nkanwal5164
2 жыл бұрын
Hmara educational system ap ki baton say bilkul alag ha na teacher aisay hn jaisay ap bta rhy hn na school. Aur hmari education stress wali ha . Teachers bula bula k complain krtay hn 5 saal k bachay k liye k es ko yeh nhi ata baki bachn k jaisa kam nhi krta bacha khud he complex main chala jata ha
@gamingwithmahnoor5905
2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you as teachers comparison start kar dety hainn and the kid who,s writing is bit slow us ko slow writer keh dia jata ha.hmra education system is pathetic even teachers don't think k yeh bachy hmra future hainn un ko apny bachy treat hi naii krty
@nkanwal5164
2 жыл бұрын
@@gamingwithmahnoor5905 bilkul hmaray teachers he bht buri batain krtay hn parents ko bula k bhi khtay hn ap ka bacha slow ha aisa ha waisa ha phr parents kaisay na sakhti karain aur kaisay dubao main na aayain. Yeh batain yahan Pakistan k liye nhi hn
@airabnoman4696
2 жыл бұрын
Asalam o alaekum sir mene essa Kiya hy or mujhy bht afsoos horha hy me apni beti ko bht dant deti hn,gussa krti hun,uska parhai me zyada Dil nh LG rha 5 Saal ki hogai hy, mujhy koi tip dein apki batein bht achi lagi mujhy ...
@myaim7151
2 жыл бұрын
Ammii ki umar 38saal hogae h lekin jo bachpan mn ammi k uper hota torcher jo uski dadi n bh kia uski aami k sath taya taai jonk khala bh thn chachi chacha yahan tak k galati na hoty hoe bh abo n bh ammi ko danta ye tension bachpan mn rahi ab 38saal ki hogae hon lekin tbeat mn chirchirapan ho gya har kisi ki galati ko note krti hon apne kam waqt pr karti hon apne betay ko acha parhana chahti hon meri khud ki divorce hogae h taya k betay s shadi hoi bht koshish ki ghar sambhalti thi sab kam krti thi lekin husband ko qadar nh aai 11sal bd divorce hogae beta mre pas h men kese apne betay ki tarbiyat karon ormn ghar bethay kese kama sakti hon is mn bh rahnumai farmaen
@asmaashraf6074
2 жыл бұрын
Please app se kese contect ker sekty hien
@خوابنامہخوابوںکیتعبیر
2 жыл бұрын
حضرت امام غزالی رحمۃ اللہ علیہ نے فرمایا کہ جو بھی خواب دیکھا جائے تو وہ محض خیالی اور بے مطلب نہیں ہوتا بلکہ اس کے اندر کوئی نہ کوئی حقیقت ضرور ہوتی ہے
@engineermuhammadkhalidsher8784
2 жыл бұрын
Yes of course. Very important message for all to understand in real sense
@AyeshaKhan-hd1lw
2 жыл бұрын
Dr sb mein aik consultant surgeon ki wife thi..mujhai divorce di bcoz mein medical profession se nai thi plz guide me can I study FSC N MBBS at the age of 34 years ...plz guide me
@unique41339
2 ай бұрын
Ager man nap k ilava ghr main jaisy dada dadi hr veqt dantain or gussy Sy bat krain hr veqt to kia ya theek Hy bachy k liay? Plz reply must
@duafatima504
2 жыл бұрын
Main bhi apni bacchi ko bahut stress deti hun namaz parho,, padhaai karo ab woh bahut kam hansti ha udas bohot rehti ha me Kia karu Dr Sahab mujey clinic ka address dai
@munazaadnan5105
2 жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaikum. Sir i want to ask that i had the same problem with my twins sons who are of 10yrs now Masha Allah. But i did the same mistakes like shouting & all that bcoz of depression. Now both of them are really very gud in hifz ul Quran but baaton ki samajh nahi hai, lambay lambay lectures dene k bawajood jese unka dimagh chota reh gaya hai. Har baat late samajh aati hai aur jo samjhate hain wo bhi kuch dair baad he bhool jatay hain. Jbke pichle 2, 3 saal hum poori koshish krte hain unse na ziada loudly baat krte hain aur maarna tau bilkul zero. Farq tau parra hai lekin jb koi chota sa bhi ghalat kaam hojae tau wo seham jatay hain. Plz guide me now what to do ? Apni pareshani mei apne bachon ka nuksaan nahi krna chahti hun ! Plz sir i need ur guaidance
@eer123
2 жыл бұрын
ایکن ایسا نہیں ہوتا ہمارے معاشرے میں ۔اکثریت
@kemisclubhouse
2 жыл бұрын
Plzzz sir mera baita bat esay hi karta hay ruk ruk k n wo 7 years ka hay apki batoun say mujhay apni ghalti samjh arahi hay ....plzzzzzzzzzzzz ek lecture ye b bata dain agay humay kiya karna hoga k ye ghalti recover ho jae plzzzzzzz plzzzzzz sir boht mushkil main hn main plzzzz help me
@maliknabeel104
2 жыл бұрын
Sir asaan alfaz istemal Karin unparh bhe samgh sakin
@ehsanelahi5440
2 жыл бұрын
جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء
@ehsanelahi5440
2 жыл бұрын
جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء
@sumairabatool5826
3 ай бұрын
Apki bat se main 100% agree krti hn. Hmarey parents ki kbi fight ni hue thi halan k mere father well educated thay aur ami jan illiterate thi. Unho ne hm 10 behn bhayon ki behtreen prwarish ki. But hm being parents dono educated hn but 3 bachay hm se control nahi ho rahy. Iski wja hm dono ki different approaches hn. Allah pak hme aur hmari aulad ko siraat e mustaqeem pr chalaey. Ameen
@Jamilgohri
7 ай бұрын
ڈاکٹر صاحب ایک درخواست ہے کہ اپنی ویڈیوز جو آپ اپ لوڈ کرتے ہے اس میں اردو کے اصطلاحات کا استعمال اور اردو الفاظ کا استعمال زیادہ ہو تو ہمارے لئے بہت مفید رہیگا اور آپکی مہربانی ہوگی
@samad-ud8xt
2 жыл бұрын
Ya Allah Maadad kary
@zubaidashahnaz8726
2 жыл бұрын
Assalam o alaikum sir ,i m very impressed with your advice but at the age of 10 my son is not ready to learn without my pressure he always busy in watching TV and mobile what can I do, regards
@pakibro5791
2 жыл бұрын
Its mostly your mistake that most probably when he was crying or bored and you gave him mobile to play with, am i right?
@shahzilgamer9738
2 жыл бұрын
Jo kaam ap chahti hain ap ka bacha n karay ap wo kaam khud krna chor dain dear
@jawedqureshi232
2 жыл бұрын
NJ see
@truebeliever3948
2 жыл бұрын
Tv hataa den ghar se aur mobile pe restriction Karen aur khud bhi Amal Karen, both my daughters in law have No tv and no mobile for kids
@yashfinkazmi
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe give him mobile like a reward for doing his homework and keep it away every other time?
@reshamshahzadi7106
2 жыл бұрын
Asalamoalaikum Sir Mai AP sy kuch pochna chahti hu plzzz Mera beta 3 saal ka Hy Pehly theek bolta tha ajkal haklata Hy bht ... Aisa q hy
@fatimaajmal5356
2 жыл бұрын
Sir Aslam U Alikum. Meri beti phone use krne k bhane dhondhti ha m us se is cheez ko kaise door rkhon m bht zyada preshan hn
@unsheladcyberninja5066
2 жыл бұрын
Thanx Dr....big fan of u from 🇮🇳
@jharnahassan5819
2 жыл бұрын
Aoa Dr sab Allah bless you always... Very well explained how can I talk to u as I need some personal guidance for my kids I have ruined my kids childhood now I want to fix the problems... Plz help me
@satisfyingyoursoul854
2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully apse baat hogi, sir. Mai india occupied Kashmir se houn. To, stress yaha kitna hoga ap smj sakte hai. Alhumdulliah puri koshish hoti hai ki bache apni life apni marzi se jele. Alhumdulliah quran hafiz b kar rahay hai tahzeeb b hai un mai bs nov2020 se meri beti, ka behavior he badal raha hai. Ab health bohut kharaab huvi hai uski. Plz ap se request hai ap baat karle
@theperfectmaster123
2 жыл бұрын
How to talk with professor javed..I m from india and want counseling session
@FAFashionwithstyle
2 жыл бұрын
Allah Pak hmain behtreen walidain baneny ki tofeeq de aur Sahi tarbiyat krny ma hmari madad kray aameen
@cleverlearning9941
Жыл бұрын
...favourit lunch bnati Hun ...baita jaen Sirf lunch ja k enjoy kren ...share kren ....Maza kren school ma ...
@benishmurad8944
2 жыл бұрын
Sir agr bchy ziddi hojayn to kia krna chahiye ???ya school k liye subha uthna hi psnd na kren minten kr kr bhjna pry to kia krna chahiye??
@satisfyingyoursoul854
2 жыл бұрын
Sir kia ap se whatapp k through baat ho sakti, hai. Meri dad ki death 2020 mai huvi jis ki wajah se meri beti ko itna stress hua hai. Ki tabiyat kharab hogayee. Sir us k sath mai bohut friendly houn pehle se but ye loss uski life change kar gaya. Plz sir mai ap se baat karti. Mai uski counselling b kara rahi houn.
@rahiq7862
2 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah doctor sahab .
@sistersdiary2824
2 жыл бұрын
Allah bless u doc shbb... Hmesha kuch naa kuch seekhny ko milta hy
@muhammadsami9889
2 жыл бұрын
السلام علیکم، ڈاکٹر صاحب بچے کی تربیت کے حوالے َسے آپ نے بہت اچھی راہنمائی کی، جزاک اللہ خیر، لیکن ایک بات ہے کہ اکثر والدین آپ کی تجویز کے حوالے سے بچے کو اس کی کسی بھی غلط کام پر اس کو روکتے ہی نہیں، جس سے مالی نقصان کے ساتھ ساتھ بعض اوقات بچے کو بھی جسمانی نقصان ہوتا ہے، آپ نے یہ نہیں بتایا کہ اگر کوئی بچہ غلط کام کررہا ہو تو اس کو سٹریس سے بچاتے ہوئے اس کام سے بھی کیسے منع کریں، میرا خیال ہے کہ اس کا بہت آسان طریقہ ہے اور وہ یہ کہ بچے کو بے حد پیار سے کسی دوسری مصروفیت میں لگا دینا چاہئیے، جب اس کا ذہین اس طرف سے ہٹ جائے تو بعد میں اس کو نرمی سمجھایا جائے کہ آپ جو پہلے کررہے تھے اس سے کیا کیا نقصان ہوسکتا تھا، اس طرح بچہ آئندہ کے لئے اس شرارت کو کرتے ہوئے اس کے نقصان کا سوچ کر وہ کام دوبارہ نہیں کرے گا
@ananaz2072
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like i am a cobra for my children🙁 plz tell what to do now. They r pre teen
@muzzammilrizwan3856
2 жыл бұрын
Meri b same problem he
@saroshzahid8143
2 жыл бұрын
Jazak ALLAH
@WaqasKhan-sm5vh
2 жыл бұрын
Sir u great MashAllah❤️❤️
@mahnoorraza2640
2 жыл бұрын
کچھ والدین تو بس بچے پیدا کر کے بیھڑ بکری کی طرح چھوڑ دیتے ہے😟میرے خدا ایسے والدین کو ہدایت دیں🤲 آمین
@Homeschoolingece
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent....
@HamzaKhan-ix7dc
2 жыл бұрын
Plz plz mje doctor shab k no den main bht preshan hon bacho ki waja se
@HaiderAli-hs4so
2 жыл бұрын
بچے کو خوف سےكىيسےبچا سکتے اگر بچپن سے اس کے اندر یہ چیز موجود ہو یعنی اگر وہ خوفزدہ رہتا ہو
@AyatFatima-td6tc
2 ай бұрын
سر صرف امی ابو کی وجہ سے بچنے پر stress ہوتا ہے یا گھر کے باقی لوگوں کی لڑائ جھگڑے سے بھی بچہ بگڑ جاتا ہے ۔
@Craka2015
2 жыл бұрын
Very nice sir... 🙂
@zaraukeducation
2 жыл бұрын
That's true. UK education may bhi burden nahi diya jata. I have seen here in UK
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