Being Ace is fine, but hiding it isn't okay. These are things that *must* be brought up at the start so both people can even have a healthy relationship. Hiding things that affect "main points" of a relationship is never okay because unless both people are fully aware and on the same page about things the relationship is doomed to fail. And there's no coming back from forcing yourself to have s3gs with someone. If you feel the need to do that the relationship should end no matter the reason as to why. I hope both find a good partner in the future and both end up happy. This is just sad all around.
@ace1gl
Ай бұрын
She knew she was this way and lied to him about it. If she would have been honest from the start he could have decided if he wanted to go forward with her or not. She took away that choice. Which put her in the wrong. He needs to walk away and find someone that can meet his needs.
@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer
Ай бұрын
OP is incredibly generous giving her so much It should be only getting 50% of the house after a court ordered sale
@CasperWasHere118
Ай бұрын
Dude, all she has to do is find an asexual boyfriend. They do exist.
@owlcake
Ай бұрын
They exist but are they as rich as OP?
@CasperWasHere118
Ай бұрын
@@owlcake they can be if she knows where to look
@heavenlysenju9948
Ай бұрын
@@owlcakeprobably, can you imagine a guy not burdened by his "other head" clouding his mind.
@AsdfAsdf-hj3zw
Ай бұрын
Oh my dear god. They were going to frame him for a crime. Absolutely mental.
@LaughterLift
Ай бұрын
This is a tough situation. It's good that your wife was finally honest with you, but it's clear you're both struggling. You deserve to be in a marriage where your needs are met. Consider counseling, but don't feel guilty if you decide that moving on is best for your mental health.
@dinkyd1533
Ай бұрын
She should have been honest before they married.
@Toastybees
Ай бұрын
They did counseling already, this relationship was doomed from the start from a lack of honesty.
@deborahfarr2201
Ай бұрын
Hopefully when he finds another woman she don't have a hard time or illness that keeps her from sex.
@Afterdarkstories1208
Ай бұрын
This situation is incredibly difficult. Your wife's honesty about her sexuality is important, but it doesn't make your feelings any less valid. Both partners deserve to be happy and fulfilled in a marriage. Counseling might help, but it seems like a tough road ahead. Stay strong and prioritize your well-being.
@Toastybees
Ай бұрын
Her honesty about her sexuality is important, which is why she should have been honest at the very beginning of the relationship. It had already cost her a previous relationship. They already tried counseling, he mentioned that in the story, the wife was using it as a way to put off telling him the truth.
@Afterdarkstories1208
28 күн бұрын
@@Toastybees It's crucial to address such complex issues with compassion and understanding. Both honesty and timing are important in a relationship, and counseling could help navigate these challenges effectively.
@SlipOfTheDevilsTongue
8 күн бұрын
The context is she promised him that kind of intimacy BEFORE marriage, she refused advances because she wanted to wait for marriage and he agreed. After they got married she ‘came out as asexual’ which isn’t the problem. Sex is not the only thing important and of course there is more to a relation but it is hugely important to many, to bond with someone in marriage promising to make love with only them and then to basically ‘lol not my thing’ is absolutely fucking sick. Playing him and withholding that (if that is true that she is asexual) she lead him on and he is 100% able to push for divorce/reconsider of the marriage under being mislead and deceived. He’s more than generous and polite but by any deity sir, RUN.
@mitchellseibel2859
Ай бұрын
It’s a trap!!!! Divorce her!!!! RUN!!!!!
@mitchellseibel2859
Ай бұрын
After multiple tumultuous and 1 weird relationship that actually has some relation to this. DON’T!!!! DO NOT DO IT!!! IT. IS. A . TRAP!!!! She may not intentionally or actively be setting a trap for you. BUT THATS WHAT THIS SITUATION TURNS INTO!!!! DON’T FUCKING DO IT!!! LEAVE HER AND RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!! CUT CONTACT AND BLOCK!!! I GUARANTEE AS SOON AS YOU LEAVE SHE’LL BE SUCKING DICK!!!
@lordhavemercy-xu9pi
Ай бұрын
@@mitchellseibel2859yikes no need to bring your own miserable relationships to theirs She literally gave him a prenup stating she doesn’t want the house Honestly by your comment it sounds like your fault you’re in that situation
@Rice532
Ай бұрын
@@lordhavemercy-xu9pi you are just speaking facts
@lordhavemercy-xu9pi
Ай бұрын
@@Rice532 lol
@lightningalex5324
Ай бұрын
@@lordhavemercy-xu9piYou just slapped him with reality.
@ebonyblack7272
Ай бұрын
Where's part 1?
@donaldwillis2267
Ай бұрын
Asexual? Bullshit. She's cheating
@God_isgoodxo
Ай бұрын
im asexual…
@Idkk428
Ай бұрын
Wtf is asexual
@wnemethvargo284
Ай бұрын
@Idkk428 it means the like the company of being together as a couple but not the intimacy or s3x.
@Idkk428
Ай бұрын
@@wnemethvargo284 really oh
@Toastybees
Ай бұрын
Bro is projecting and was not listening to the story at all lol sorry you got hurt but your cynical ass is going to stay single with that talk
@carson2809
Ай бұрын
Divorcing your wife just because she’s asexual is ridiculous. Like just because she’s ace doesn’t mean she doesn’t want a romantic relationship.
@chaiturner4890
Ай бұрын
I see where she is coming from and i get that she was scared to come out as asexual to him because of the past relationships and she didn’t want to lose him I see where he is coming from and I think he is more hurt over the lying and the whole trying to get her friend to sleep with him that situation alone threw him for a loop basically blindsided him and honestly I don’t think it should end in divorce
@SvensktTroll
Ай бұрын
Honestly it's not that easy. Should he go without sex for the rest of his life or should he have it with someone else? And what happens if he gets someone else pregnant or gets feelings for the other women? Best think would be if they both found someone who matches them.
@demonvictim
Ай бұрын
Divorcing because of a dead bedroom that is not your fault is pretty normal. Hell the majority of guys who cheat do it because their wives keep denying them. So if there is a issue that you know will cause you to stray and you address it but get ignored divorce is the only answer.
@vaxel0068
Ай бұрын
What she wants is irrelevant.
@Lunaxire
Ай бұрын
While I agree, and believe there is a WAY bigger issue to explain the "feeling raped", sex is a critical part of marriage. Otherwise, you are nothing but friends. P.S. I'm asexual.
@aquaticsguy1506
Ай бұрын
Probably sound like a prick but no sex means im not really into you if it doesn't happen you are gone fast to many people in the world to play with your hang ups. Keep your replies to yourselves cause honestly just don't care what you think
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