Am in that triangle too. Don't know what to do. Am now 40 and working, thank God I can pay my bills. I got my 1st child at 23 in second year college. I managed to finish later and secure employment. Later I met a man who promised heaven and settled with him for 7yrs. Got another child a boy too by him. He later became abusive and I left the relationship. Am now raising two boys single handedly. No father supports me. I thank God that at least I can afford my life in my small ways without help of any man. I also do not have a family to turn to im difficult times as I was orphaned at age 6 and had no siblings...I can only turn to God and some good friends... Sometimes it's hard to understand so many things but I still trust God that one day I will have a partner to do life with
@elizabethnzioki7627
4 ай бұрын
Hugs mama,wish you all the best, would like to connect with you ❤
@mercyloicy
4 ай бұрын
All love and hugs to you❤ , may you one day laugh like Sarah did after God did the extraordinary in her life.❤❤❤❤
@Manuella966
9 ай бұрын
The other point is dating someone for too long. I'm 32 now just got out of a 11 yr relationship being promised marriage all this while. now I have to start again.
@Jenniferuktv
9 ай бұрын
You are so right! Dating for too long is the major reason why good women marry late. I can relate.
@a.k.5820
9 ай бұрын
It's better to marry late and right...
@stephengitau4928
9 ай бұрын
Looks like you were dating pharaoh😮
@cleopatramansa6228
9 ай бұрын
I can relate
@auntiemylee3157
9 ай бұрын
So sad
@marynjeri3689
9 ай бұрын
Ati if they can abandon their GoD who are you??😅😅This one got me
@robertmuithya
9 ай бұрын
I like how Lilly reads a section connected to what they are going to address.
@irenecharity356
9 ай бұрын
No to Triangular life.....Yes to Zigzag life...Realx the schedule and disrupt the confining life. Apart from knowledge...we're also learning language 😊The two are very eloquent ❤English is Englishing.
@MLecogo
9 ай бұрын
I really dont know how many lives has Benjamin had to have so vast knowledge and diagnosis. I left my hometown @23 pursuing an internship at a very small remote town. I ended staying there for over 8 years, pursuing my career. Now I am 34🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭...single. Recently moved to a city but I am living in that triangle that Benjamin is talking about.
@lauraalinda5779
9 ай бұрын
Thanks Benjamin this video has spoken to me deeply im just 22 and misplaced in another country because of work. I just needed this message im officially going home with faith😂
@winfredanena9660
4 ай бұрын
This is very true,am making 30 this year,but I live a triangle life,home,work& church.This has kept me on my own😢😢😢😢😢
@WanjikuMwangi-rt9vp
9 ай бұрын
This is amazing .though it has left me in tears .when the pinch isn't money ,love,good clothes ,beauty but Dislocation
@faith25471
9 ай бұрын
I just finished reading "healing your innerself "...weeeeeeeee weeee weee...learnt alot,
@benjaminzuluglobal
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for letting us know 🙏
@ritahkanyesigye3024
9 ай бұрын
I really like listening to Benjamin. My life has changed drastically since started😊
@wangarijskamau
8 ай бұрын
After working in a literal forest in Nyeri county between age 25 and 27 as a single woman, this hits home.
@eyitayosharon1546
8 ай бұрын
The sweets part is d way He laughs 🤣 always after drops each point 😂 lolz he got me laugh alwys listening to him. He must genuinely humorous in nature. Keep teaching us sir...Thank you 🙏😊💓
@marymwai7261
9 ай бұрын
Very funny today@ Benjamin With immediate effect we've stopped having squirrels on our heads 😂😂. Really appreciate the content 👏👌
@missvanessa254
9 ай бұрын
Thank you Benjamin 😊 I’m working on my behavior of hustlers
@angelainspires8719
8 ай бұрын
I know 😃😊
@v_6514
9 ай бұрын
This was highly informative, We need a part 2 of this topic
@estherKimani1908
9 ай бұрын
"Squirrels on your head"😂😂😂.My feminine energy is so inspired right now.Great insight❤
@Grace-co7ow
4 ай бұрын
Looking forward to gifting myself dating right this easter. I just cant wait
@mercynjeri8415
9 ай бұрын
Great insights there,Mr Benjamin always delivering Wisdom by saying as it is.
@margaretjames1297
2 ай бұрын
Oh my God. My husband invited me for hiking so many times but i refused since i didnt like hiking. He changed and told me lets catch up in town, finally i showed up and the rest was history.
@irenecharity356
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂Benjamin is so funny😅I wonder how Lilly maintains her calm.....If I host Mr.Zulu..I will die of laughter on that seat😂 Anyways...preparation&preparednes&positioning 😊
@Damaris_Ingabire
9 ай бұрын
1. Pombe / sherehe 2. Bad attitude / drama queen 3. False sense of entitlement - we think we deserve only the best yet we are not the best 4. Roho mbaya why isn't anyone bold enough to tell our sisters the truth
@lilliangithui
9 ай бұрын
We were not targeting this batch in this show, we were targeting the virtuous, healed woman who is delayed for other subtle reasons.
@annsoita
9 ай бұрын
@@lilliangithuiI totally agree! Most here is addressing the still confused lady or the one who is still finding themselves
@4421gdhkgg
8 ай бұрын
So 👍 true" hidden in side the city"
@kezameek2285
9 ай бұрын
You just described my life. Thank you Zulu
@charlottekaruhize250
9 ай бұрын
Love is not for All Women. Men Do Basic but still win ...
@estherkalekye2682
9 ай бұрын
Benjamin wacha nikwambie kitu. I stayed for 4 years after university, jobless. When TSC posted me to a school in the middle of nowhere in the depths of Garissa, I took the job. I would rather keep my job then nikae Nairobi nahangaika na vibarua. In Kenya choosing jobs is not a luxury we have. Maybe in the western world
@lauraalinda5779
9 ай бұрын
I think ths is where the faith he mentioned comes in ..its not a luxury but with the right steps and sacrifice u will not be the sacrificial lamb to move to rural areas while others enjoy the benefits of being in the city . Trust that u can make it too
@stephenmutindah
9 ай бұрын
hey
@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz
8 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot for this teaching
@terrynamukisa3678
9 ай бұрын
Well articulated BZ. Hustler behavior stopped 😮
@Ladyle4ever
9 ай бұрын
Not all women will be married and not all marriage are blessings from God some people have been forced into marriage some used love portions to their partners, some got married for money. Another thing it's a man who chooses a woman and decides to get married to her. It's ok not to be married
@marriamchipombe6207
9 ай бұрын
I feel attacked 😅😅😅😅😅 us in remote areas because of work
@naightengale101
8 ай бұрын
I wish I heard this 20 years ago. I'm now almost 47
@suzzyakikiakiki7114
8 ай бұрын
Squirrel locks 😂😂😂😂😂surely 😂😂😂😂
@aijukabrittah3130
9 ай бұрын
Aauuch... thanks Mr.Zulu...i feel attacked
@damarisnjerunjeru399
9 ай бұрын
Mr. Zulu,,,this' true talk
@najjuukojoanita9956
9 ай бұрын
What if I always don't meet my class
@mosesotieno18
9 ай бұрын
A butterfly still looking like a caterpillar (haki coach hii ni kali)
@idahganyana494
9 ай бұрын
Wow...........
@thulimthombeni4386
9 ай бұрын
Wooow, you so love, 🙏🤗👌🤗
@wanjirugichuka2501
9 ай бұрын
Father Lord, did you say the banker I am,,,,, and I was recently transferred from Nairobi 😢
@milly00
9 ай бұрын
Benjamin your are talking about me 😂am 27 in a foreign country working, mostly at night and in a female dominated career. 😂 No man to date unless I decide to date the females.
@najjuukosumayiye6581
9 ай бұрын
And you are at your prime years coach usually talks about 27_29yrs.
@lilliangithui
9 ай бұрын
So, I would say, make your requests known to God. He will guide you and give you peace. And He knows your needs before you ask. ❤
@yolz555
9 ай бұрын
Me too 😢😅
@fayblessed1705
9 ай бұрын
We in the same {😢😢)may God see us through though tumeambiwa hope na faith 😂😂😂🤐🤐
@michaelrapando6658
9 ай бұрын
Some of you women want men you can't have with certain looks and financial level,coz some say they want a white man only not even a responsible white man or just any responsible man,then munashangaa you have none.Just bcoz your friends or others have them doesn't mean majority will have them
@maryauma5859
9 ай бұрын
Hi Benjamin Zulu. Unfortunately, I missed the concert of 11th November 2023. When is the next concert?
@mollystephens2832
9 ай бұрын
14th Feb
@Obukosia
9 ай бұрын
Hehee Benjamin 😅😅😅
@sharonowuor9476
9 ай бұрын
Fwa fwa fwa 😂
@dorothyanyango2197
9 ай бұрын
Umeguswa 😂😂😂
@faithkingori2833
8 ай бұрын
was mai mahiu necessary😅😅
@HappyCircuitBoard-dr1ie
9 ай бұрын
hi beja Mary from kiambu 26years searching a man for marriage.
@benjaminzuluglobal
9 ай бұрын
Change your strategy
@MaryAnn.e.
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@margret2688
9 ай бұрын
😅😅😅hii si online dating,,, show up outside as Benjamin says look your best and you will find him
@lilliangithui
9 ай бұрын
@@benjaminzuluglobal 😅😅😅
@charliecharles8517
9 ай бұрын
😃Barbados 🥰👏🏾
@kemigisavictoria7285
9 ай бұрын
Wooow
@margret2688
9 ай бұрын
So someone should start dating even with 24 when you find someone because you are approaching 25?😊
@jesse_kihara
9 ай бұрын
Seems like you are new to Benjamin Zulu global
@najjuukosumayiye6581
9 ай бұрын
@@jesse_kihara very true is new comer 24 and below it's better to visit all grands than thinking about a relationship .
@lauraalinda5779
9 ай бұрын
Very new😂 below 25 focus on your career and growth but position urself strategically in the place where u hope to find your life partner thats the message
@margret2688
9 ай бұрын
@@jesse_kihara nimekuwa hapa since kitambo,,, I misunderstood the topic today when he said when you are about to approach 25
@margret2688
9 ай бұрын
@@lauraalinda5779 oooh thank you had misunderstood 😁
@milly00
9 ай бұрын
But Benjamin said people to get married past 30
@Damaris_Ingabire
9 ай бұрын
which is the worst advise ever for a woman.. women should marry before 30 because after that, the choice of men available depreciates in quality, very quickly
@najjuukosumayiye6581
9 ай бұрын
He was advising those who did mistakes before he informed us. But always he has been saying start dating at 25 yrs such that you can have enough time to examine out good guys.
@juddysusan19
9 ай бұрын
@@Damaris_Ingabire you are wrong my dear
@lilliangithui
9 ай бұрын
@Milly00 , Not exactly, actually. Do listen to all the shows, you'll understand the idea better.
@Damaris_Ingabire
9 ай бұрын
@@juddysusan19 oh i am 100% correct, but women like living in denial.. it's not me talking, it's biology.. after 30 the chances of getting a healthy pregnancy plummet
@UnschooledProffessor
9 ай бұрын
If Benjamin can reduce the laughter And control his breath He would be the biggest out here Regardless, great insights Benjamin
@Betty-fe9ql
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 okay
@lauraalinda5779
9 ай бұрын
Oh please he doesnt need that he is already the best
@IryneChumbs
9 ай бұрын
that's the beauty of one's gift he doesn't have to do like the rest he's being himself and he is not fake we his consumers like how he delivers
@gracemwaura2648
9 ай бұрын
No wonder you are an "unschooled professor " mmmcchhhheeeewwwww!! Just leave Zulu alone.
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