Thank you man. I feel like action is my sticking point. I used to be really good at taking action... but then I got really detached from my emotions... which made it so that even tho I was taking action, I wasn't feeling anything/growing from it. Eventually I just took less and less action. I've learned that one of the most important action you can take is to change your INNER feelings and focus...
@TheFearlessMan
Жыл бұрын
You have to take the right amount of action. Not too much you shut down and not so little you are not challenged.
@abstract-thoughts
Жыл бұрын
I'm a natural planner, so it's difficult for me to take action without planning. But I'm working on being more in the moment. I'd like to randomly approach women without the want and just see where things go.
@tomerb37
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing that up. This is probably what holds me back the most. I can't stand the idea of going to a woman and making a mistake, making a fool out of myself. I have to be perfect, perfectly aligned in my body, perfect feeling, but it never comes.
@kedarbartake3418
6 ай бұрын
Does meditating to release also count as taking action? Because we are doing something to get out of wanting, have to and apathy. We do need to get into choice right? Taking action from the wrong place and wrong energy might harm us?
@fthawisolomon
Жыл бұрын
What is the difference between action and access please give me answer
@TheFearlessMan
Жыл бұрын
Action will give you access at some point. No action and you stay the same.
@joshuamwila4363
Жыл бұрын
Relationships approaching women
@sleepysleepy9913
Жыл бұрын
At least put a 'low pass filter' on the music
@csfn-aicsf9501
Жыл бұрын
Action creates more fear for me in social situations. When people see my anxiety and mental problems when i talk and they reject me, i catch myself in a never ending circle of pain and failure. I can feel more comfortable and calm if i talk to people more often , but everyone still sees that i m not normal, like something is wrong with me, with how i am behaving and i don't have enough awareness to see in that moment what i m doing wrong, like micro-expressions, subtle feeling, my voice is lame etc.
@arshadsain
Жыл бұрын
Bro, i understand what you are saying.. What worked for me are two things mainly. First, is meditation.. I stoped everything in my life, I mean I kinda had to.. you know corona times... And I just meditated for hours every morning.. and night.. got my rid of feelings good and bad. Especially Not so good ones.. 😅 Secondly, start with small interactions, like talking to cashiers and cabbies and people who you don't know.. just one person in a day.. ask them what is thier name and make an excuse about what's the time or which is the zoo.. or something... Just one person a day.. do it for few days.. strat releasing emotions stuck inside of you with letting go technique along with brian's releasing techniques.. you will be the center of every party.
@andreharris144
7 ай бұрын
@@arshadsainhow do u meditate
@arshadsain
7 ай бұрын
@@andreharris144 Personally, when I started I used Brian's full body scan guided meditation for few months. I would listen to it every morning. Then I started to wake up a little early when it was really quite and I would sit on my bed and just feel my body from head to toe and as I move from one body party to another, if I felt something heavy or hard stuck there I would ask myself 'Can I let this go ?' and my mind would say yes or no or something, and I would say to myself okay even if it said yes or no.. if it's a no then I would just stay with the feeling of heaviness for a while and feel again, if my mind said yes, I would move on to next body part. Feeling stuck and feeling nausea or feeling weird sensations especially in your stomach and chest area is very normal don't run away from it. Sit with it.. be patient with yourself. No one gets it done in just a day or two.. it took me months but it helped me transform my life 360 degree.
@sincerelyme7423
Жыл бұрын
Boxing. Sobriety.
@sincerelyme7423
8 ай бұрын
I'm sober and boxing and coaching people as well and I'm in a band again. Came back here to listen again. I'm kicking ass now. 🙏💪
@Win77790
2 ай бұрын
That’s true, I was letting go and trying to feel more to get the job I want but for a long time nothing happened, when I started to take action I learned who to be to get the job and now I have more jobs then to know what to do with. Thank you
@Create.Heal.Inspire
Жыл бұрын
Ready, aim, fire* ;) thanks for this 🙏
@ehsawnjafari
Жыл бұрын
Over planning is real, it's not always going to happen the way we want, just have to go with the flow, accept the mistakes as another phrase called : experience and change the story if we don't like it
@ifeelhalfnaked484
Жыл бұрын
If you always proactive, you'll never get depressed, overthinking creates resistances from self hatred and comparison with other people.
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