Brilliantly said. Indifference is the outcome of recovery from the abuse. When you become indifferent to the people who have manipulated you, coerced, abused and lied to you, you take your power back. Thank you Darren 😊
@stevenkovler5133
Ай бұрын
Wow !! This is perfect! I am in this situation right now !
@AA-cb7dz
29 күн бұрын
Ignoring and indifference function highly as a firewall against narcissists.
@missjane474
Ай бұрын
Your words are true & i just love listening to your beautiful Irish accent xx
@Lyrielonwind
Ай бұрын
Enabling a narcissist won't ever change them, that's for sure. Indifference is a shield and the statement to your own self and a reminder that you have already waisted too much time with those you can't change and turn your attention inward, where it matters and reverse the outside abuse with inner self care.
@paulined4190
Ай бұрын
You eventually outgrow the sadness and indifference to their opinions of you is a natural outcome in the healing process.
@lynneharris7628
Ай бұрын
Its a nice feeling when you don't care
@ladycampion
Ай бұрын
Excellently put...
@TamikaSampson-lc7vv
Ай бұрын
100%FACTS
@davidstephenson2735
Ай бұрын
Great short, Darren. Thank you.
@hartmut-a9dt
Ай бұрын
That's a good point
@katharina...
Ай бұрын
I'm on my way there. What I find most difficult is how other people are taken with this person's sweet demeanor and charm. I get so frustrated with their inability to see that they are being used and manipulated. Then I remember that I was blind to it for a very long time too. I could feel it, but I wasn't able to make sense of why I felt so horrible after each conversation with her. She was always so sweet, why did I feel like worthless trash after talking to her? I get it now, but it still hurts that I seem to be the only one who realised what's going on. At least I'm not pretending to be small, powerless and unintelligent anymore. I still feel resentment though. Can't wait to get to the place where all that's left is indifference.
@Ilvyy
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for everything you do to help us❤ you have played a huge part in my healing! I will be forever grateful🤗
@AggieBlack
Ай бұрын
Correct✌️
@RRS78999
20 күн бұрын
Yes 🎉100%
@H-youtube7
Ай бұрын
Wise words
@MitchellRose-gi2ln
13 күн бұрын
Falling prey to the narcissist for me was answering the call of a needy person. That is because I am caring. Attentive. Involved. Indifference is antithetical to me. It may seem like a point of healing to some, but it is exactly what I do not want to become. So, healing the trauma of being abused is in understanding what happened, and recognizing how to identify my vulnerability and the narcissists red flags.
@privateprivate8366
Ай бұрын
Yes, other than the legal effects, I don’t feel anything about my sister. I don’t care much whether she does well, even better than myself, for what’s she’s done. I don’t care if she gets sick and dies. I don’t care about others, who would always place me in the perpetual victim track of, “Isn’t it time you forgave her - while she continues to do harm? Be the bigger sucker!” Because it’s also important to be indifferent to all the supportive enablers, that would have you in Hell, fawning for the narcissist.
@annucoco6830
Ай бұрын
yes expecialy with some people when u are so honest with them (?)
@megpi72
28 күн бұрын
At first I felt hate towards my mother and now I just don’t care. I don’t wish anything bad on her. I have no interest in anything going on or knowing anything about her life anymore. I have no interest in her false self or being her supply anymore.
@traceytansley1659
27 күн бұрын
Good for you! ❤
@MissyQ12345
Ай бұрын
It isn’t love. It isn’t hate. It’s just indifference. Taylor Swift
@MissyQ12345
Ай бұрын
I love this guy. He really has helped me not care what they think. Not quite there, but working on it.
@spinapex2469
Ай бұрын
Yeah. Let's dial it back a notch on the Taylor though if possible. There's a serious heart breaker component to it all. Too many zips (Taylor fans) going through life thinking they're all Descartes with legs.
@DrJohannPryce
26 күн бұрын
They are only doing it to themselves
@thehopefultwo6557
26 күн бұрын
That's an invitation to those are fighting words if I said I don't care oh it's on and crackin
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