It was painful to watch their mom mouth to LaTocha that Tamika is jealous of her. It broke my heart 🥺
@tanishiacooper4200
Жыл бұрын
So wrong!!
@user-nubiangoddess
Жыл бұрын
My mom is tht same way .she push the issue of sibling rivalry .no mom should av a preference
@autumn975
Жыл бұрын
Reminds me of my grandmother and how she is with my aunts compared to my mom
@Tippy150
Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@hoodbttm871
Жыл бұрын
That hurt me and proved tamika was right bout latacha and Mrs Gloria
@SthandwaM
Жыл бұрын
The fact that, despite everything, you tell your daughters to remain respectful to their aunty & grandma says alot about your character, loyalty, & integrity 👏🏾
@Marshay
Жыл бұрын
Definitely
@GeeQue03
Жыл бұрын
I would cut my mom AND my sister off FOREVER! Them girls know them two birds ain’t right. That’s why Tocha solo career never went anywhere…ole basic hussy
@phyllismorrow2414
Жыл бұрын
I believe every word you said . About your sister . You are a beautiful Lady i hate you felt out with Kandi. But life goes on .
@neeciiw7840
Жыл бұрын
Definitely!! I love that🙌🏾💯
@marquitashiver6141
Жыл бұрын
💯 I love that and that's how it should be ♥️
@shannonconley7813
Жыл бұрын
I love how insightful her daughters are. They’re able to recognize that mental abuse is still abuse.
@devlynjackson8049
Жыл бұрын
I love how you’ve taught your girls, in spite of all that’s going on, to still respect your mom and sister. Those girls LOVE you and don’t want ANYONE mistreating their mom.. ❤️
@deanthonyparnell1394
Жыл бұрын
That's a hard thing for a child to watch their mom or dad be attack. Especially their Mother, natural instincts is to fight young or older.💯
@laurenjackson2810
Жыл бұрын
Side note: I can’t get over how absolutely BEAUTIFUL Tamika & her daughters are! Wow 😍💖
@ZonDAmour1
Жыл бұрын
They’re stunning! Esp the youngest!!!
@dollskull86
Жыл бұрын
Yesssss she has some stunning girls!! 😍
@08kels
Жыл бұрын
Seriously 😍
@doneeshacunningham2949
Жыл бұрын
@@ZonDAmour1 nah the other is just as beautiful you only said that because she lighter and have the colored eyes and that social media look. Both are equally beautiful
@queenb9432
Жыл бұрын
@@doneeshacunningham2949 it has nothing to do with shin complexion. The younger one is obviously prettier
@TheMediaSource
Жыл бұрын
We are with you Tamika. We believe you
@tamekaseymore9809
Жыл бұрын
Love Me Some Tamika... Definitely believe her.
@CleverAOYM
Жыл бұрын
We’re all on her team. The only people that aren’t are the ones just like Tocha and their mom
@tamekaseymore9809
Жыл бұрын
@@CleverAOYM Exactly..
@praise777always9
Жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!
@joyandpeace6885
Жыл бұрын
I truly believe you, just keep praying about the situation.🥰🤗🙏🏽
@PeachesYancy
Жыл бұрын
My heart really breaks for Tamika, and she is still sticking up for them. “My mama was a great mama..” baby no she was not and still currently isn’t.
@plt4life629
Жыл бұрын
So true she said that as the little girl still wanting love and acceptance. And knowing Deaconness Wig she would’ve thrown that 2 jobs etc in her face as being a “good” mom.
@leorocs5139
Жыл бұрын
Tamika needs her own show. Beautiful family. God Bless you and your family 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️
@LivingLife.
Жыл бұрын
Tamekia need to be on RHOA! I love her personality
@khaieyaque
Жыл бұрын
I like her on the current show & they should build up on all of the women's lives ...without Tocha
@bresams2917
Жыл бұрын
I hope they add her so her bag can grow even bigger
@eyahmayisrael7067
Жыл бұрын
Ain’t she the one that lied on Kandi back in the day?
@dty4678
Жыл бұрын
Too classy
@formershadow
Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate Tameka for sharing this. Parents always have a golden child that they enable to do bad things to their siblings and other family members. In some families it’s the oldest others it’s the youngest. It just depends. Latocha is at it with all the members and the group is sick of her ish. She needs to humble herself no one likes a narcissist. As an older sibling I’m not leaving first when there is danger. I need to protect my younger siblings.
@rellbeensavage_8181
Жыл бұрын
You can tell, even with the shows editing that Tamika is telling 100% true 💯
@rudegyalarie1356
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@lotus___freedom
Жыл бұрын
Yes, her Mom is a textbook toxic narcissist parent. One child is the golden child and the other is the ScapeGoat. Sometimes going NO CONTACT with toxic family members is the only way, sad when it be your own people.
@igradin08
Жыл бұрын
Stevie Wonder could see that Tamika was telling the truth!!!
@mode.or.culture
Жыл бұрын
I just really have developed such a loyal admiration and love for Tamika. She is my favorite member now. I don’t have any brothers or sisters I wish Tamika was my sister. She is so cool.
@eleeveeayees3425
Жыл бұрын
#TeamTamika
@ronahoward8070
Жыл бұрын
Hats off to Tamika...her daughters are well loved and it shows through their maturity and respect and love for their mom.
@bettyb1313
Жыл бұрын
It's beautiful to see a mother being a parent a role model and guiding your children...
@whitneyfan9019
Жыл бұрын
We are on your side Tamika. I could tell by your sisters body language that she was lying and same with your mother. I could see the guilt all over their faces. It’s very unfortunate and sad how your sister is behaving. Your sister is going to need you before you need her.
@danyellockridge4108
Жыл бұрын
Well said 🤎
@nubiangoddess9999
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, unfortunately this type of thing happens all the time
@sophianewlevelunlocked3994
Жыл бұрын
In that order.💯🙏🏽
@MessyyMissyy
Жыл бұрын
You could definitely tell Tocha was LYING, lol.
@nubiangoddess9999
Жыл бұрын
@@MessyyMissyy yes, that's so sad that they team up on her like that. They should be ashamed of themselves.
@BridgettS
Жыл бұрын
I love how she set boundaries for her daughters but allowed them to express themselves. I can feel the love they have for their mother.
@hunterwilliams2559
Жыл бұрын
This is real parenting. When they feel as if they can express themselves but not too far to cross a line.
@tobiasthehairslayer
Жыл бұрын
That one in the front ready to cut up lol
@Infinite_Deity_Ent
Жыл бұрын
I don’t like the way your mom or your sister treats you. You’re amazing and you have a beautiful soul!
@malcolmgay549
Жыл бұрын
This made me cry, I believe you, you were very sincere!!
@danid5033
Жыл бұрын
Yes I loved it as well.
@RoyaltySarah
Жыл бұрын
As the only girl in a household of three brothers I know what it’s like when your mother has favorites. Everytime the boys spoke she fawned and listened but whenever it came time I spoke my mind she’d throw a fit and always say “here she go” When I have my own kids I’m gunna do what you did and not show favoritism because it was definitely discouraging. Funny thing is when my mom gets too old to look after herself it’ll 9/10 be myself that will look after her, for many reasons
@mznaturallyfit
Жыл бұрын
Parents have favorites, lol. You might love them the same but you're going to like/connect with another moreso than the other, lol.
@Geminitwinzz
Жыл бұрын
I have so much respect for you, Tamika! Tears fell from my eyes because my heart ached for you. I’m happy you found your voice. God will truly prosper you.
@topazspivey823
Жыл бұрын
Your daughter is an intelligent young queen. She is absolutely correct. Parental favoritism can be a form of psychological abuse if the parent subjects the child to behavior that can result in mental trauma such as depression, anxiety or self-esteem issues.
@dawndawn45
Жыл бұрын
I AGREE🙂
@mercedesvallar3384
Жыл бұрын
I agree
@mingteo
Жыл бұрын
It's narcissistic abuse, any way you slice it. It's clear as day.
@marthashepherd935
Жыл бұрын
I agree also 😊
@asktheglutenfreechef3072
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@LCMichelle00
Жыл бұрын
Tamika did an amazing job singing LaTocha's parts at their concert! Although it was only three of them, their show did not miss a beat! Keep growing and glowing!!! (I saw Xscape in November 2022 on the Monica and Friends tour)
@koeathalatrice
Жыл бұрын
So the concert was done without her sister?
@rellysunshine9665
Жыл бұрын
Great because I plan on catching them when they return to Los Angeles.
@akimat418
Жыл бұрын
They went on tour when Kandi left the group because she didn’t want to be in the group anymore.
@HoneyLove77
Жыл бұрын
When did you go to the show?!
@tcp79
Жыл бұрын
Yes they have been doin shows without her. They took her off the promo pic
@BeeScott1982
Жыл бұрын
I've known Tamika since I was a child, and she's not a mean person, and I'm shocked. I pray that all this comes together for them. I'm so sorry for all of this that they're going through. Nedrea (Bee) Scott; Washington D.C.
@KD4Essence
Жыл бұрын
You are setting a wonderful example for your daughters. Sometimes you can't help everyone, even siblings. So proud of you and your girls.
@DaringDanielletravels
Жыл бұрын
It was so hard to watch your mom whisper "She's jealous" to your sister when you were trying to explain your feelings and for them to minimize your feelings by saying you were just acting. You deserve support. Glad you have your daughters.
@kelisreal
Жыл бұрын
That really pissed me off and confirmed a lot for me
@jakeemapatterson1413
Жыл бұрын
God knew she needed her daughters
@BeautifulmeMakeup
Жыл бұрын
God will handle it. He always have a way of bringing ppl back to you who has wronged you.
@christinad6650
Жыл бұрын
Yeah that was really horrible. I’ve only heard of this with some of our men, but wow I would’ve never thought. Now we see why Tocha act the way she does. She’s like a big kid! It’s sad.
@Knowledge33729
Жыл бұрын
Yes omg I was hoping that was for drama ratings purposes n not her acting like that towards her daughter in real life 😢that’s sickening
@sunnybright8206
Жыл бұрын
We support and believe you Tamika. You are validated and loved!!!
@tarabeverly3680
Жыл бұрын
❤️
@ladylike2220
Жыл бұрын
I ALWAYS believed her years ago, even when they tried to make her look “crazy” or said she had a mental illness. LaTocha has always had a complex.
@awwyeahme2
Жыл бұрын
Mom was probably jealous an just a plain mean jealous person that will never own up to what she did. Now you know never trust her again😊
@boochie808
Жыл бұрын
U BETTA KNOW IT!!!! WE HAVE UR BACK TAMIKA!!!! When yall coming to Detroit???
@janellejulianajoy
Жыл бұрын
Yep. And I one hundred percent believe her.
@thikkums79
Жыл бұрын
Tamika this is how generational curses are broken!!! You are amazing!!! Your girls are right there in the thick of this situation with you!!! Keep shining for them. I hated the way they made you look like the bad guy. Anybody with common sense could see there were so many layers to this thing. My heart goes out to you all! May God step in and completely turn this whole thing around❤️🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️ #TouchAndAgreeWithMe
@InternetGirl1093
Жыл бұрын
WE BELIEVE YOU, TAMIKA! I hope you find peace, and even if you never get an apology, just know: WHAT’S DONE IN THE DARK, WILL ALWAYS COME TO THE LIGHT! ❤ Protect your mental well-being!
@annluv201
Жыл бұрын
Honestly, unhealthy family dynamics need to be exposed. Blood is no reason to have to accept mistreatment. I love the fact that your daughter was honest. I don’t care how much we love ppl doesn’t mean their behavior is always ok and I teach my daughter that you can respectfully let even elders know when they are wrong.
@TaurusHere
Жыл бұрын
Yes it should be but NOT IN FRONT OF THE CAMERA. IT MAKES IT WORST
@ItsMrstoyouboo
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate what you posted I wish more parents would teach this.
@michelleg9447
Жыл бұрын
In therapy, not to the general public who only wants to tear your family with their opinions. How is this a path to healing?
@Damami4U
Жыл бұрын
Speak on it speak on it I agree
@jessicajohnson4200
Жыл бұрын
Your mom and sister thought that they can treat you any type of way all these years because you're not going to say anything you're not going to air out their business you've been protecting their business for this long so they feel like they can be shiesty and do whatever the f*** they want because they feel like you're not going to say anything but I am so glad that you stood up to them and said something I'm going through the same thing with my family not my sisters but other people in my family
@keyapitts
Жыл бұрын
Listening to Tameka has made me gain a whole new level of respect for her. Kudos to these young queens that love their mom unconditionally as well.
@relesiagray2916
Жыл бұрын
I felt everything in those scenes with your mom. These scenarios are real. In many families. Your mom has two daughters and they should be treated and respected equally. It’s that simple
@keishuareid
Жыл бұрын
Watching that scene hurt my feelings so bad. For your mother to side with your sister is unbelievable to me. As a mother I would try to fix it between my children, not choose a side. I pray it works out for all of you.
@terence4427
Жыл бұрын
The daughter wearing glasses is very perceptive and smart. She framed the family dynamic perfectly. Impressive for such a young lady.
@brittneesanders9632
Жыл бұрын
Right!!!
@inmyopinionnnn
Жыл бұрын
She got just like her mom
@sunnybright8206
Жыл бұрын
Yes I like her she’s actually very smart and realizes her mom is being abused
@mermaid30019
Жыл бұрын
She called it right, it’s emotional abuse.
@marztitus3472
Жыл бұрын
@@mermaid30019 she actually said mental abuse. But it’s both. Mental and emotional. I feel so bad for Tomeka
@ladylike2220
Жыл бұрын
Even now with “coming clean,” Tamika is still protecting her sister. Notice how she isn’t saying most of the things her sister said and did to her. A real class act.
@CC-pc6fz
Жыл бұрын
She is sitting up talking about her sister and it's not cool because you don't have to be like others
@CC-pc6fz
Жыл бұрын
Her daughters need to stay in a child's place
@Damami4U
Жыл бұрын
She is smfh and I wanna buy some of her seasonings ...She gone win though Tamika gone win regardless.
@akimat418
Жыл бұрын
We don’t need to know everything that was done or said to her. Maybe a reconciliation will happen soon.
@rashonagethers7111
Жыл бұрын
It’s just a sad situation. There’s 3 sides to every story, but I truly believe you. I pray that you all are able to get through this, but I understand that sometimes you gotta leave people where they are.
@jocelynhicks3820
Жыл бұрын
I feel the hurt and burden that you have been carrying for the love and loyalty that you’ve shown to your family and to witness the favoritism,(not because you told us, we saw it) is heartbreaking. I just pray that your mother can rewatch this and see herself and correct her behavior towards you. Sometimes parents don’t like what they see in their children because it reminds them of themselves. I know that you’re hurting and you still want to do right by them but also understand that this is your breakthrough and victory is the result. Introducing the full fledged Tamika Scott that we have always loved and was waiting on! Do your thing Sis!❤❤❤
@tabitharobinson1675
Жыл бұрын
Hats off to Tamika for raising such smart young, respectful women ❤
@MarauderM00gi
Жыл бұрын
You know she has a whole husband rightb
@ebonyadventures9611
Жыл бұрын
They are truly raising some beautiful babies ❤😊
@squiliamfancyson3702
Жыл бұрын
@@MarauderM00gi we talking about Tamika rn though, stay on topic bookie😘
@MarauderM00gi
Жыл бұрын
@@squiliamfancyson3702 shut your goofy ass up
@Nolaishere00
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad she is speaking up for herself. It was painful to see her mother act that way.
@mrsneshaball
Жыл бұрын
Agreed!!! That hurt MYYY feelings to see her act like that towards Tamika. Like WTF was that?!!😟 But as soon as I heard her mama on the phone say, you need to hear Tosha side of it, I was like WOWWW ohhhkkk...🙄not yall need to sit down and hear each other or tell me what happened from your side so I can hear both counts of what happened.... It's really sad! They really need an Iyanla sit down for real!!! I pray that they heal from all this lifelong family dynamic trauma.
@w.j8856
Жыл бұрын
When she whispered to Tomika, "she's jealous " it irritated my soul. We have to get out of the mindset, that older people should be respected to the utmost degree or they deserve it just because they are the parent. She disrespected Tamika in front of her own child. I've had that happen to me and baby I gave my grandmother the smoke. My mother didn't want to disrespect her mother because she is from the old school, honor thy mother and thy father.....but baby I'm giving it to whoever goes at my Mom, period point blank. It really is a tough situation to navigate.
@SeriouslySpeaking-nw5nh
Жыл бұрын
Yeah her momma got issues!
@lynidahosa8852
Жыл бұрын
It's really dope to see you model how you are processing this for your daughter's, although this is something you are still dealing with emotionally your still ensuring you are teaching them as young women the importance of processing with respect I hope they also know or learn that there are safe ways to do that and sometimes it means you have to love folks from a distance depending on how toxic the relationship is because they lived through a lot of these moments with you and it hurts them to see you hurt in the past and present. This looks like it was therapeutic for your family, wish you the best
@AngelicBeauty826
Жыл бұрын
I just did not want to believe all of the things that even the public had been saying about your sister, but now it's very easy to believe it all. I'm so sorry you all have to be subjected to loved ones that are literal blood and treat you this way. My heart truly goes out to you. I pray for you, your children, your mom, and even your sister to get through this test and see the error of their ways and come to change 🙏🏼 Much love from Newark, NJ
@ComicBrooks
Жыл бұрын
Tamika & her girls needs their own reality show.... Look how beautiful and poised her daughters are! That show would be a good time!
@jaz8810
Жыл бұрын
I agree
@blackbeauty829
Жыл бұрын
This sometimes happens when you find your voice and start making decisions for yourself and your family needs (children, husband). Sometimes family can’t stand to see you grow!!! Stay strong Tamika!!!
@SolarLove7
Жыл бұрын
Yup!
@jaz8810
Жыл бұрын
Baby listen💞
@KimaJ212
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@uofm23
Жыл бұрын
💯‼️🎯
@pineapplesunkist537
Жыл бұрын
Shid I needed ths word.
@Clarissa_320
Жыл бұрын
You are so strong Tamika. I love that you are speaking out and standing up for yourself. Mental abuse is never okay. It's worse than physical abuse because those wounds take much longer to heal. I relate to you a lot. Just remember sometimes it's best to cut the toxic people out of your life and love them from afar. Your daughters are so beautiful and intelligent. You are being the mom you deserved to have. 🖤
@nicolajackson2876
Жыл бұрын
You are the chosen one … modern day Cinderella ! You and your girls are beautiful inside out ❤
@RuizMrs
Жыл бұрын
I love how well spoken Niya is and she made a good point when Tamika was saying that in spite of the favoritism that her mom was still a good mom. “Isn’t that still mental abuse?” It doesn’t have to be physical to leave scars.
@sheliajames3075
Жыл бұрын
Gurl everything you have done has been out of Love....God knew you would never remove yourself from the toxicity so he allowed their heart to become obstinate (like he did Pharoah) and she removed herself from you. You see it hard to get the respect from the older siblings because you followed them blindly all your like and now that you are older with children you expect respect but instead of giving you the respect you have earned they try manipulation and intimidation. Anything bit owned where they are wrong. Continue to stay prayed up but respect your boundaries you have established As long as you know you come from place of love that includes mutual respect..let go and let God....this is a marathon not a sprint. Try to always pray before speaking and remember God said vengeance was his and he shall repay. Don't allow them to gaslight you. God will settle all of this baby girl...keep loving them and praying for them but you don't have to lay down and get walked over....You are so kind and compassionate. I felt your pain and I know this happened to you.
@Camille-mv3mr
Жыл бұрын
It is indeed mental and emotional abuse.
@justicemai1517
Жыл бұрын
And if she was at that sit down I feel she would turnt up in grandma and auntie.
@mariej.richard5114
Жыл бұрын
Yes favorites is mental abuse it revokes negative feelings
@Worme95
Жыл бұрын
Kids will just say it when we won't.
@anetragoolsby2436
Жыл бұрын
I saw Xscape 3 a few years ago and Tamika was having a full blown conversation with a random fan who was on the front row. Tiny had to come get her, so when she said that she don't think she's better then anybody I believe her. She's definitely down to earth and cool....
@pookkie1040
Жыл бұрын
Tamika Scott is Very Down To Earth And Really Cool🌹🌹🌹💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️A Sweetheart
@anetragoolsby2436
Жыл бұрын
@@pookkie1040 she was smiling and talking, just really engaged in the conversation. She seemed very genuine while having the conversation.
@pookkie1040
Жыл бұрын
@@anetragoolsby2436 She is Fun Loving Woman...I Love Her Personality And She Always Give Me Good Advice
@TheMoore79
Жыл бұрын
That was hard to watch. It’s clear that your mom has a favorite. My feelings were hurt for you. I believe everything that you said
@diijaithesinger
Жыл бұрын
Her & Tiny stood in the parking lot with my roommate & I for AT LEAST 30 minutes after a show laughing, joking & having a good time, so I second this comment.
@derthinc
Жыл бұрын
Hats off to you and your daughters. What a beautiful relationship you have with them and they are clearly wise beyond their years. ❤
@greentambourinetarot
Жыл бұрын
I love how her children support her. Hopefully now her story will come out. It's tough being in a one sided relationship with your family....
@capri_goddess1347
Жыл бұрын
This newer generation recognizes all forms of abuse. I love how your daughters don’t play about their momma. Grandma or Auntie…they can point out the dysfunction. That’s a testament to how well you and your husband have raised them💜
@FalconsGirl1
Жыл бұрын
Yesssss so true
@blossom5603
Жыл бұрын
This newer generation does not bite their tongue rightfully so
@Jasmine-ot8br
Жыл бұрын
13:11
@alexiamathis7330
Жыл бұрын
I have a new respect for Tamika. She is not speaking with any malice in her heart. Also, though she is speaking and standing strong this has to be hurtful.
@mrsrussell58
Жыл бұрын
I’m just sitting here in tears because I go through the same thing with my mom. I’ll be 41, and I have tried to fix whatever. But, nothing I do…u know what, I luv u for this
@raygu1818
Жыл бұрын
I love me some Tamika and her positive energy despite what she's going through with family. She beautiful and has a beautiful soul.
@angelapinkney7363
Жыл бұрын
Tamika you have to love your mother and sister from a distance, let them have each other. I know they've hurt you but you have your husband, children and grandchildren to get you thru it. We love you and hang in there. The sun doesn't shine everyday, nor does it rain everyday. Let go of anything that doesn't serve you.
@modest8782
Жыл бұрын
I agree but now they are locked down by BUSINESS... I wished before she entered into the deal, she would have made it clear NO discussing she and her sister's issues on the show... I know it's GREAT for ratings but this is a serious matter that requires serious attention...
@yolandab.6772
Жыл бұрын
Very well said, Angela!👌🏽
@Godgotmealways
Жыл бұрын
That's the best way
@TiaJoy1372
Жыл бұрын
Amen😊💛
@taurus_beauty11-11
Жыл бұрын
𝓐𝓰𝓻𝓮𝓮𝓭
@cjsmalls7636
Жыл бұрын
I agree with your daughter that it was mental abuse...and emotional abuse when you really think about it. The way your mom whispered "She's just jealous" to your sister behind your back not validates what felt but also exhibits mental and emotional abuse. Prayers to you and your family 🙏🏾
@wlj4501
Жыл бұрын
You are so blessed to have your daughters. Even as disappointed, betrayed and hurt you may feel, you have to reach a place where you choose you. Your mother is 100% wrong for creating a space where you feel as if she is choosing between her daughters. I know it's a southern thing, but respect is earned and you deserve to be respected too. You should be free to speak your peace without being made to feel like a villan. Sometimes you have to leave people right where they are, even if they are your family as much as it might hurt, especially for the sake of your own serenity and peace of mind. I speak from experience and I started making sure the very people who acted like they didn't want to be bothered by me, didn't have to be. Stop making people a priority when they keep making you an option. You are beautiful, you have a beautiful family and you are worthy. More than anything, I pray for you to be able to find inner peace.
@andrenehall1467
Жыл бұрын
I adore everything about you ... how you ensure your children remain respectful to family, how you communicate respectfully at all times, there's so much about you that I love and respect....I NEED MORE!!!!!!!
@queenjj201
Жыл бұрын
That was psychological abuse. I'm so glad you have a platform to share your story. I love you, my sister.
@f.p.2784
Жыл бұрын
To see the Scott sisters fighting is hard to watch, but to hear what Tamika has had to endure from her mom and sister all this time is absolutely heartbreaking, and I believe her 100%. She has such a big, bright personality that you just assume she's always happy. Good for her for finally standing up for herself. Loving and respecting your family does not mean subjecting yourself to abuse or painful interactions, sometimes you have to love them from afar to protect your peace. Nobody gets this many passes just because they're family. Love is a verb.
@kryblessed
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@tammywilliams1569
Жыл бұрын
Latoucha must me putting alot of coins n her Mama's pocket. Mama ain't gonna bit the hand the feeds her needs & wants. Sorry Tamika .
@MSmith-jy7yz
Жыл бұрын
THIS‼️💯
@TDS1281
Жыл бұрын
@@tammywilliams1569 It definitely shows !!
@myxedpoet325
Жыл бұрын
And sometimes you just have to let go of family too, all the way. Sorry, not sorry, it gets that bad sometimes!
@SRxtentionz
Жыл бұрын
I grew up with a similar upbringing of jealous sisters. I just realized this after my mother passed. We have similar hearts as far as always loving our sisters no matter what. Praying for your sister and family❤
@janikiabailey5254
Жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you Tamika for raising two beautiful daughters and speaking your truth but you didn’t deserve to be done wrong at all and God got you and your daughters no matter what y’all keep shining 🌟🌟⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🌟
@feliciajohnson558
Жыл бұрын
I watched last night and was taken aback by the gaslighting and mental abuse that I witnessed. I think the good thing that’s coming from this is Tamika coming to see and understand what’s been happening to her and choosing to stand up for herself. Before seeing this I was so misinformed. What I thought was way off. Seeing how the sister and mom acts is all I needed to understand the dysfunction, blame, manipulative actions, & childish behaviors that the group has had to deal with. I was like WOWWW 😮
@mbdcompton1052
Жыл бұрын
U said the right words. Gaslighting and mental, emotional abuse. That mom is sick and latocha is evil
@mbdcompton1052
Жыл бұрын
Goodness. I feel triggered watching how they gaslighting and trying to make tameka look bad. Man is mind boggling and that mom is a demon and tocha is weak needing mom and husband approval and is jealous of tameka. Tocha a heartless bitter bitch
@bydivadream
Жыл бұрын
Right?! The gaslighting from Tocha and their mother was SO triggering
@madamknowsbest7557
Жыл бұрын
it was when her mom told her sister, that tamika was jealous that's when i realize the truth
@alishaequick8913
Жыл бұрын
@@madamknowsbest7557 Same. Her mom gives "I put bugs in my daughter's ear and pit them against each other."
@JP-xq6ob
Жыл бұрын
Your youngest daughter is smart and explained how she feels very eloquently in a respectful way. Everyone is hurt in the process
@nevermind4757
Жыл бұрын
Love you ladies, thank you for the years of extraordinary music hats off to you legendary ladies to both groups. I am in 😭 hearing this I am praying 🙏 for you all, and with you all, God is more than able to bring you all through this all 💕.
@vanessabyrd6571
Жыл бұрын
Praying for your family. I can’t imagine not communicating with my siblings. Her mother shouldn’t be in the middle, taking sides. This is so sad!
@LoveIeshia
Жыл бұрын
Tamika is a beautiful forgiving woman who's dealing with people who won't take accountability !!!! Hope she finds peace 💞🙏
@sunnybright8206
Жыл бұрын
I am so happy Tamika’s second daughter is her rider fr. She has clearly seen her aunt and her granny seriously mistreat her mom and mentally abuse her like the daughter said. I’m glad Tamika is loved properly by someone other than mom.
@donna30
Жыл бұрын
Oh lord when you mentioned that about the whispering and the giggling I felt that because one of my sisters and her ex husband would do that whenever I was around them and it would really hurt me. Your sister was right when she said y'all are sisters but not by choice because she has shown you how she really feels about you. You're a stronger person than me and I commend you for that because I never got over how they made me feel and deep down I resent them both for that.
@melanieb1583
Жыл бұрын
Your Daughters are phenomenal. Thank goodness for kids who support their mom and have their own minds. Your family is beautiful…that alone may be a trigger for other people. I will pray for all involved, but the outcome is the outcome, we never know what God is doing.
@w.j8856
Жыл бұрын
To be honest Xscape would be a great trio! Sometimes you just have to let people go and do what they want....and when they do, be sure you close the door so they can't come back! Let her go and stay solo. Tameka its unfortunate you didn't get more lead parts cuz in my opinion, you have better vocal ability than your sibling. Stay blessed Queen!
@badvette6947
Жыл бұрын
Yep! Close the door for good! She wants to go--then let her Goooo! GIT!
@asktheglutenfreechef3072
Жыл бұрын
Yup the door needs to be closed to Tocha in the group
@lacimichelle09
Жыл бұрын
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@deondrathomas4785
Жыл бұрын
Family is always the start mess, so stay strong. She will come around soon. Money comes and goes, family is forever. She should know that.
@calindelajonesrenee901
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏽Thank you for sharing additional insight with us as fans of Xscape. ♥️🙏🏽 After watching this, my heart went out to you and your family💕🙏🏽 The world should Never see and know this much about personal family matters. Communication is Healing🙏🏽 Everyone has to hold themselves Accountable for some part of the confusion. This is why Jesus said to Forgive 77x7(it’s a metaphor)! It’s ok to say “I was wrong, I hurt you with my words, my actions, Please forgive me🙏🏽and turn away and do better going forward! Love Always Always Wins❣️❣️ See, everybody has an opinion, we have to learn to Work hard a Pleasing God, Not People❣️ Tosha experienced the world judging her body negatively 🙏🏽 That hurt runs long and deep♥️🙏🏽 I’m praying for Healing over her because she was and is still beautiful. It’s a Mean O World Out here🙏🏽 All these years and still unresolved is simply allowing the enemy to bounce y’all up against every wall he can. Time to beat the enemy at his foolishness! Seriously, we All got something!!! Nobody is truly right and we are All wrong!! Forgiveness, Hugs and Love… everyone make your favorite dish, come together and start with.. I was wrong starting with…. And please find it in your heart to Forgive Me?♥️🙏🏽♥️ In front of the kids and all! No one will be Perfect! Just try to be honest with each other and Love on Each Other🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽 Cut the Embarrassment- Be real to each other. Be the example we need to bring Peace to our youth and how to Rise Above🙏🏽 And it’s enough money for Everyone! Do your Solo and help each other!! And do Xscape💕 Come on Now, Step into it ♥️ All of you have beautiful voices, Sang and Show up for Your Children and Grandchildren 🙌💕♥️🙏🏽I Love Y’all
@Lyfesdance
Жыл бұрын
Your daughter is on point…emotional/mental abuse should not be tolerated and or excused/downplayed…we wouldn’t want to set that example for our children to think it’s okay to be treated this way. Sometimes it’s best to walk away.
@ministerrussellhydeiii5844
Жыл бұрын
I completely understand what you are saying and what you are going through.. I went through the same thing.. distance makes the heart grow fonder.. if they really loved you and they want to be apart of your life.. they will show up .. praying for you...all Dallas loves you and thank you for creating beautiful music for history
@tyna7397
Жыл бұрын
Tameka, I just want to say KUDOS to you for being such an amazing mom and an inspirational role model to your precious daughters. I have two grown daughters too and always encourage them to do the same thing you’re teaching your daughters to do which is to separate themselves from family drama between me and my sisters and always love and respect them no matter what. As Roman 8:28 says, “All things work together for the good for those who love the Lord.” I pray that everything work out for you and your family. Love you sis 🤗🙏🏽🙏🏽💕
@mrspetty7515
Жыл бұрын
Her girls are drop dead gorgeous!!! We love you Tamika!!!! Keep being you!!!
@lns3383
Жыл бұрын
Hats off to you Tamika for raising very mature and insightful young ladies...
@michellemann6362
Жыл бұрын
Yes...
@Fourwindsofsuccess
Жыл бұрын
Yes they seem mature, level headed, and conduct themselves like normal healthy minded young women. There’s no jealous or envious or narcissistic energy from Tamika family. Her sister family with their mother are shady twisted people trying to put up a front it shows.
@wacoviaking4163
Жыл бұрын
When her mo said "I'm the fifth member of Xscape" I KNEW SHE WAS THE DRAMA... and everything she showed us afterwards let me know that she is more problematic than even I realized.
@a-rare-jem7447
Жыл бұрын
Tamika your family is beautiful. Keep it y'all closeness together always. Always be real and supportive with each other. 😊
@blackwomenpyho
Жыл бұрын
Your hurt could be felt through the screen in that episode. So much respect to/for you Tamika. I pray that you all can (genuinely) fix this. It's a hard thing to grow up and finally start speaking your truth when you don't have the support of those who are supposed to have your back. No disrespect to your Mom, but it didn't help with her whispering "She's jealous" about you to your sister during that scene.
@sharondariley9623
Жыл бұрын
That scene was so heart felt for me I went though the same things with my sister favoritism like she was better then me had me with so much low self esteem I needed therapy once we got older she went to jail twice 9 years all together an me have 7 beautiful children's an 8 beautiful grandbabies have my own food business God is Amazing YOU SO poised and you an your daughters are beautiful keep up the good work as I see you are God bless you and your beautiful family .
@danielleholifield4822
Жыл бұрын
In JESUS NAME
@nunyabizniss3131
Жыл бұрын
Truth be told they are the ones that is jealous of Tamika..esp Tocha..I believe she always been low-key jealous of her fine ass sister..cause who been fine her whole life is Tamika...
@da1chicki1
Жыл бұрын
Yes. I felt that too. So sad.
@huntsvillegirl9581
Жыл бұрын
I'm loving the energy of Tameka's daughters; her daughters definitely got her back. ❤️
@shoptalkwithmel1
Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you decided to do ur review too. Luv u girl!!!💕
@kingjameskuffuor
Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love and respect everything yall just said. Peace and Blessings to you and your family
@dp9765
Жыл бұрын
I "especially" loved how you recognized the expression on your daughter's face who has the glasses on and allowed her to speak, express herself and be heard without interrupting. That right there, speaks "volumes" about you as a Mother. That part gave me chills and brought tears all at the same time. But all in a good way. May Blessing continue to follow you and your girls and your entire family. May we all be loved and blessed 🙌 I love you all 💛
@jamaicanbkslimaz
Жыл бұрын
Chills & Tears🤔…..ok
@TirrickObadiahSmith
Жыл бұрын
I understand what you're saying but just keep in mind that Tamika is a brand and she still has to have the main control over the comments and it's direction. As a professional she knows what she wants released and not released. Her daughters are not fully in the business so they may run on with info that's not due to be released yet. Just giving an insight on this, coming from someone in the business who has to curve things in interviews all the time.
@Blessed2bhere34
Жыл бұрын
That’s what you do!!!!! “ tell me what you’re feeling” and she did it in a respectful way.
@kimberw3399
Жыл бұрын
I had tears also
@marcusbenjamin9252
Жыл бұрын
Tamika! I believe in YOU!! You are Loved and Supported! Period!! The way your Daughters are there to support you shows how beautiful of a job you and your husband did raising them! Your heart shines! We see it!! Prayers for reconciliations, apologies, ownership, moving forward, and healing! Love you!!
@mmurph
12 күн бұрын
She seems so warm and bubbly. I don't blame her for cutting her sister and mother off because staying in a narcissistic family dynamic will snatch your soul.
@TheMoore79
Жыл бұрын
I just watched a video of you singing the song written for Yolanda Adams and it made my heart happy. The way that you stood with and for your sister all those years. And in my opinion dimmed your light just a little is selfless and the epitome of love. But you are shining now! I love it! And you may not have your sister and Mom’s support at the moment (love conquers all) you have a world full of woman rooting for you. We love you
@vavadav1
Жыл бұрын
You don't look crazy at all. You appear genuine, hurt and truthful on and off the show. We rising with you. We love originality!!! Period!!! #TeamTamika
@Corvelle1991
Жыл бұрын
I am so here for Tamika! She’s getting her SHINE! Mama has personality AND one hell of a voice! It’s your season Tamika!
@marlocustus589
Жыл бұрын
She got that from the bottom of ur soul singing
@biancamadison4766
Жыл бұрын
I'm praying for the healing of all families . I'm so proud of you you are handling this chaos so well and I know it hurts I'm going through similar things. The way you set that boundary. I wish you were my sister. We will master this and there's something greater got us when we do. You are worthy remember that. One day they may realize they're wrong and vibe back around but you can't hold your breath keep moving sis. They will see when everybody they mistreated you for mistreats them and they long for you. Continue being the graceful beautiful soul you are, keep doing the self work. We have to focus on those that do right by us. I wish y'all could bring a therapist in and have family sessions. It looks like you're the only one doing the work. I'm praying for y'all. I love you stay strong Queen ❤❤❤
@jocelyngipson197
Жыл бұрын
God bless this family ❤🙏🏽 Tamika, you an excellent Mother! Your daughters are so beautiful and loving. I just wish you would love your mom and sister from a distance. It's hard for me to see them treat you the way they do, I cannot imagine how much it hurts your beautiful girls. Cling to the ones that love you most.
@Tzmocha
Жыл бұрын
We gotta start calling out family for mental/emotional abuse just like your daughter said. Parents need to be held accountable for that. Sometimes we get to a point where its best to love them from a distance. Whatever you do, start protecting your peace. Show your daughters how they can protect their peace.
@asktheglutenfreechef3072
Жыл бұрын
We do, we can’t support family to any means. Sometimes “family” don’t mean right by you
@auntiemeemaw3885
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes, you have to let family go. Would you allow a stranger mistreat you? No one has the right because they are blood to treat you like trash. You are extremely talented. Use your beautiful voice to do other work without the group or your sister: duos, commercials, voiceovers, etc. Peace of mind is everything. I hope you get it. Your girls and you deserve it.
@NkiiA
Жыл бұрын
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
@awwyeahme2
Жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 it hurt but sucess is the best revenge
@auntiemeemaw3885
Жыл бұрын
@@awwyeahme2 True!
@SharreeREE
Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@lovettewilliams4114
Жыл бұрын
That part
@Say-its-not-so
Жыл бұрын
Sending love and prayers ❤❤❤ this touched me deeply, you are describing my life 🙏 favouritism is painful on children no matter the age.
@jasminejeter9781
Жыл бұрын
I love your spirit ❤ that episode brought back so many memories for me with my mom n bros 🤦🏽♀️. Keep pushing luv. God will always be on your side
@butter1956
Жыл бұрын
I believe everything Tamika said - I would take a break from my sister and my mom - sometimes family will hurt you more than your enemies
@mirandajames1245
Жыл бұрын
So true.
@Lovelyti_TV
Жыл бұрын
This was beautiful sis, it's good to see ALL of your daughters in one spot, the show made me sad, seeing everything go down like that, I pray that everything eventually works out between you and your sister, no one wins when the family feuds! i'm glad you let your daughters speak and express themselves as well. ❤☕
@jhonram2496
Жыл бұрын
Exactly ti ♥️
@aliveandwell3958
Жыл бұрын
Y’all look alike. Both beautiful!
@trayc3600
Жыл бұрын
They should express themselves but the one daughter's expression was not what she wanted. She should probably not be in on the conversations.
@belle_bagay3849
Жыл бұрын
Ti, you really look like you related to Tamika. Both of you are beautiful 😍. I hope you do a show in this.
@AlchemistEmpath
Жыл бұрын
Ya'll are really twin sisters in spirit world Lovely T.
@MissKWoods
Жыл бұрын
I know what your going through Tameka, I have sisters also and I'm going through a similar situation. Sending peace and blessings to you and your family.
@crystalphillips696
Жыл бұрын
I totally understand what you're going through. I grew up with same situation with my mom and sister. I am 60 and finally just stopped all communication with my sister. Of course my mother was living with her when she passed away and she waited 8 hours to tell me that my mother had died. I guess that was her last dig and it was just one dig too many.
@blackmatted
Жыл бұрын
i’m here for the daughters, love their support of their mother
@jg122487
Жыл бұрын
The saddest scene I've witnessed in a long time was her with her Mother and Sister. I don't care how hard she worked to provide financially, the emotional support is not there and it's toxic.
@chawday393
Жыл бұрын
This is happening in a lot of families today. It’s not right but I’m in the same shoes as Tamika just minus the moolah.
@jg122487
Жыл бұрын
@Chawday 39 so heartbreaking. Sending love your way. No child deserves that. Lord knows my childhood was messed up. Seeing your parent is capable of being there for you but chooses to not be is a pain I wouldn't wish on anyone. 💔❤️💯
@08missaka
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story Tamika! I also was outcast from my family and never understood why. We have the favor of God over us and light shines bright over darkness. Keep being yourself ❤
@barikiwa22
Жыл бұрын
The ways things look, its best to love and respect such family members from a great distance to protect your own sanity!
@tarabeverly3680
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes your sibling relationship can be toxic AF! And I'm proud of you for speaking & sharing your truth Tamika!! And I'm grateful you have support around you that is genuine!!!
@keishabrown1776
Жыл бұрын
Facts I barely talk to mines because of the same reason...my sister can never do any wrong in my parents eyes and now she grown and spoil.
@tracyshakur4053
Жыл бұрын
@@keishabrown1776 I feel you. Going through the same with my sister. Sometimes I feel like I’m the black sheep of the family.
@keishabrown1776
Жыл бұрын
@@tracyshakur4053 I say the same thing all the time
@lafeishaharris8758
Жыл бұрын
Baby girl spoke truth about Abuse💕 Set boundaries & don’t allow NO ONE to break them🙏🏾💕
@jacquelineyancy6164
Жыл бұрын
U
@asanddy3531
Жыл бұрын
Smart girl
@Mrsgoodenergy
Жыл бұрын
I respect you even more for this. I feel you. God bless you my girl. We love you even more for your transparency ❤
@BabyGirlRespectisJuustdaMinimu
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes you have to cut ties so you can fly. You can love family from afar and keep them in your heart but it’s not fair to suffer emotional abuse and keep breaking your back for people who don’t show the same love to you.
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