I was astounded when he said "I am entitled to do what I want whenever I want. I do not have to explain myself to anyone. You don't deserve any explanations for my behavior."
@stelasenna9927
2 жыл бұрын
- wised up - stoped producing fluel - started answering neutral - resistant to manipulation tatics - replaced - broken
@eyeoffthetiger2691
5 жыл бұрын
He failed *me* , so I'm glad that he *dropped* me. I keep *MY* fuel for myself 🙄Good Riddance.
@crazyworldlarue8388
5 жыл бұрын
THAT is me. I most definitely wounded the hell out of the beast. He wouldn't stop hoovering so I ignored, ignored, ignored and then, I sent a text that was completely devoid of any kind of emotion. It was politely dismissive of his latest, self-deprecation that was of course, aimed at sucking me back, addressed two things dear to him in perfunctory fashion, and even ended with a polite well wish. I'm sure I saw glowing in the sky from the next state over... while he burned 8-) I am a super empath and therefore, I was able to OUT-NARC him. 'Twas a grand finale.
@Andrea-sl8wd
5 жыл бұрын
Walked away before it got its hands on me. It still hoovers, got right in my face a few times...just walked on by. It will keep trying, doesn't mean a thing anymore...good or bad. It's just some guy.
@runwiththewind3281
5 жыл бұрын
HG, thank you for helping me understand. Every article is one stroke closer to dry land.
@shelbylou02
5 жыл бұрын
I have been well schooled by YOU Mr. Tudor. Thank you for teaching me how to do the dance......or should I say how to refrain from the dance. 😅
@cynthiayakushev3482
5 жыл бұрын
What’s the 411? #5 @ 14:00:00. “We need to flee and do so quickly.” Matthew 4:11-“Then the Devil left him, and look! angels came and began to minister to him. (Jesus)”
@mariatrakadas6069
5 жыл бұрын
Number 5 happened with me. Yes, I am well schooled thanks to you ! It has been 2 years. Now he is trying to come back. Get lost bozo. I am going on logic and my brain. No emotion.
@thejokerme
5 жыл бұрын
I was treated poorly, because I deserved it, obviously! Ha ha ha
@Think-dont-believe
5 жыл бұрын
GREAT VIDEO HG.. SPOT ON AGAIN... 3:10 We will not share..”SHARING” is to conceit power to you..... WOW ... my Narc says... if he shares “anything” with me then it won’t be “his” anymore!?!? I centered on “what” he was hiding or not sharing etc.. It doesn’t matter “what” they have to share... the ACTION of sharing is what they see as a weakness... you guys must think we are real morons... but you guys are winning a game no one else is playing... so who is the real imbecile ...oh right us again... oh to live in a narcs narrow world.. 👹
@emmajones5034
2 жыл бұрын
It was #1 and #4 for me. I worked out that there was another IPPS being groomed and I dumped him. I then sent everything over to the new IPPS. She will return to him of course, when she has simmered down and there will be a golden period but eventually, he will take her down because narcs don't change. That is her problem now and I'm grateful to be out of it. I imagine that he will try a smear campaign and more - but he is blocked everywhere and daren't put anything in writing!
@yael-atiamoses3657
5 жыл бұрын
My ex NPD is too concentrated on his Ego, too mean, sadistic and weak and actually boring, so I was a good fuel for him and caring. Im a loss for him, but could be replaced easily with another target. I shouldnt worry about him, I have to take care about myself.
@gretchelaneyarchuleta4835
5 жыл бұрын
This is all so sick! Hope u get help
@Andrea-sl8wd
5 жыл бұрын
Gretche Laney archuleta You are providing fuel, get wise!
@HellcatMad
5 жыл бұрын
spot on once again. 🖤🖤
@sumbals
5 жыл бұрын
Confusing isn’t the escape same as discarding first ? Wont that be challenging for the narc?
@aantae
5 жыл бұрын
What about the Midranger? My ex midrange narc plays the silent treatment and is too prideful and or cowardly to contact me directly.. He does indirectly through other people by spreading rumors or sending people to spy on me. But he seems very intimidated to contact me personally. All of his fuel comes from exes that won’t let him go.. What if I’m different than them and DO never contact him? I wonder if he’ll cave in and contact me, or continue to play scared. Which I would love, but I can’t help to wonder.
@Andrea-sl8wd
5 жыл бұрын
Why do you wonder...you are not really free. GOSO.
@wonkyspacebuns7820
5 жыл бұрын
Do Narcs have gut feelings? How do they manifest in your kind and do you act on them. Interested.
@Andrea-sl8wd
5 жыл бұрын
Sunshine Who cares? They don't care about you.
@roshimafair7603
5 жыл бұрын
I'd like to know too
@cygs26
5 жыл бұрын
It´s been months and I still want my narcissist ex to contact me again, but I exposed him through social media to his current supply. And forced him to block me or I would expose him more.
@Andrea-sl8wd
5 жыл бұрын
cygs26 Sounds like you are still its victim. Sad, you didn't learn in class did you?
@leahc8347
4 жыл бұрын
It seems like in the end he wanted to break me... after all I did for him?? Yes he went too far... but seemed not interest one insi little bit... But stupid me I expect him to do what is humanly right, or hoping for an explination,.. and keep questioning myself ... is he truely a narcissist ( if it can only be clinically diagnosed etc )... Cuz in that case, I litterally helped him get away with it ... :/ and made a fool of myself and just helped him smear me more, and evidantly fix blame on me, it seems due to my humble and people pleasing, forgiving, seeing the best in others, and self blaming, loving, etc nature .... I truely messed up by trying to be reasonable etc and not getting that in return .. Even revenge/justice is futile, as it will always bounce back at me.. The consiquences of giving your love and trust to another... I'll never be the same again ...
@theblackericacane8714
5 жыл бұрын
HG: You are still on my crushed velvet pedestal like or not; Arrivederci 🌂 or hear again.
@Andrea-sl8wd
5 жыл бұрын
TheBlackEricaCane !! You are providing fuel...is that what you wanted? If so, you loose.
@AngelKrystalStar
5 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, the holding the head under water 💦
@jessicasmith6938
4 жыл бұрын
What is “fuel” and why do you need us to emotionally react ? What does it do for you ? I’ve been discarded by my covert ex
@michelleranis849
5 жыл бұрын
How long it will take to be discarded sir the last discard mostly happened?
@islanddreaming9967
5 жыл бұрын
Can you ever really love?? Have you ever loved
@elzachengelieva4406
5 жыл бұрын
No, never ( narc)
@Andrea-sl8wd
5 жыл бұрын
Better question...why do you care? GOSO, you are not paying attention in class.
@roshimafair7603
5 жыл бұрын
@@Andrea-sl8wd because this is an entertainment channel and it's an interesting subject
@elzachengelieva4406
5 жыл бұрын
I presume one reason: the narc himself
@toyafrazier7112
5 жыл бұрын
Love your videos 💯
@NE-to8km
4 жыл бұрын
Where can i read this reasons? Which book title?
@mamasaid187
5 жыл бұрын
Cuz he can’t be king
@renukashinde2701
5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@FK-cg8el
2 жыл бұрын
Ncncncncnc you can't play with all empaths You know We love and love But wen we leve we never get back We don't recycle Like you do 🤷♀️
@glitterboxglitterbox1939
5 жыл бұрын
Hmm it sure does though?
@gwillis01
4 жыл бұрын
hello there
@DivestedConfessions
5 жыл бұрын
Ear worm.
@susiep.7372
5 жыл бұрын
Do your kind "feel" anything ?
@elzachengelieva4406
5 жыл бұрын
Anger, envy, rage and fear
@Andrea-sl8wd
5 жыл бұрын
Why do you care, they don't care about you? You are still not in a healthy place. Asking that is proof...only when you don't care will you be healthy.
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