12 minutes in and every rule so far has been something that drives me crazy in conversations
@sakuranovaryan9261
2 жыл бұрын
Is there anything helpful in this book
@TylerMckissack
2 жыл бұрын
@@sakuranovaryan9261 I’m sure there is but not for me really
@sakuranovaryan9261
2 жыл бұрын
Why are the people in the audio flirting lmao . Ok yes these rules are good basics. But I would add what I've learned so far from being extremely socially anxious to getting comfortable,actually liking and actively seeking social stimulation. The goal of conversations and socialization is depth. Always. trying to make a connection with the other person via everything you say. Listening intently. Either you or the other person talk about your woes or ur good times doesn't matter as long as the speaker is being honest and the listener being considerate. You don't have to always have something fun to say to be able to communicate with others. It's ok to talk about sorrows in order to be vulnerable Infront of others. It's ok to be boring sometimes which can give others the chance to be interesting. Just be honest and considerate. And familiarize. Remember your brain isn't built for struggle it's built for comfort. So make ur self comfortable with socialization and conversations. In order to do that you gotta take opportunities to socialize or conversate that is presented to you even if you think ur gonna bore the person. The goal is to know yourself. To know how u like to conversate. To know you gotta test urself. If you don't get as many opportunities,create some, such as ~joining club that interests you ~having a pet help if u can afford that ~taking time to get to know my family actually helped a lot but I know that wouldn't be easy or even available for everyone ~this is a big one. Find fiction that you like. Fiction really helped me sort of remember how people are,what are their primary motivations and sort genuine feel a connection towards people. ~self help is also great for remembering key points or to escape into when you've had a disappointing social experience ~learn more things,do more things you love just for urself. These things help in connecting with others as well. Cause then you can find things u have in common with others. ~ last thing is. Even if you feel inadequate,boring,allianated or that you're better off alone. It's ok. We all feel this way. Take your time. If you feel tired rest. You don't feel like socializing today don't. Understanding,respecting your needs and ur boundaries is a big part of keeping the connection between you and the world healthy. Remember the only way out is thru. But you don't have to do it all today. Small steps overtime are great.
@ygg9888
2 жыл бұрын
Is there a part where they explain what to do to counter the interlocutor’s transgressions of those rules?
@joshuafess4295
2 жыл бұрын
Handy for those majoring in business at university
@joshuafess4295
2 жыл бұрын
If your gonna kill time kill your own…ouch and true! 🤣🤣🤣
@edmcallister8189
11 ай бұрын
Classic😊
@bepishombre8999
Жыл бұрын
44:55
@JuanTaughtMe
2 жыл бұрын
37:52
@morfsevals4106
2 жыл бұрын
Book ... ...... ......... AREA UNSOLVED: Streets of the community
@fromtheparkbench1979
3 ай бұрын
The readers sitting too close to mic and in small room. Three different versions of this book and I cant get past the first chapter of, "blah, blah, blah", like two people sitting in an audiobooth blabbing away totally forgetting what they were suppose to be doing... then just posted it. So, HOW is this examples of, "Good Communication"? Can someone else write a better modern book which is more, say, succinct?
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