A Charmer can inflict much more deep pain into the mind and spirit of someone than most bad boys today and other character traits. imagine a guy that makes you feel special , using flattery to make you feel good about yourself, Doing things for you, giving you focused attention and making you feel like the most desirable woman in the world. Then imagine he withdraws his affections and attentions , he is losing interest for you but now you are completely hooked by all those beautiful memories and pleasures he gave you . You will start to feel anxious and insecure and ask yourself why is he so distant , did he lose interest?? Perhaps he found someone else, or he could inflict deep pain which is the worst type of pain because you become weak and dependant on him , pain and pleasure creates powerful emotional bonds. Now think about a bad boy who did nothing for you at the start , did not treat you like a queen. Going from queen to servant is much worse than being a servant in the beginning. That’s why I think Charmer + some coquetry is probably the most deadliest and effective way of seducing men and women
@11gurkha
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah lots of people might think charmer is a weak type. It's not lol. It's the most deadliest type. Agree with you.
@DaveNagrom
3 жыл бұрын
I think you are right. A charming person casts a wider net than the rake. His endearing nature is intoxicating, the greater the intoxication, the deeper the depression from with-drawl. Some principled charm, is alluring. To be genuinely charitable and virtuous, charming, with 80% of the confidence of the rake, is almost irresistible.
@hideyasuyuki1
3 жыл бұрын
Also to add to this the charmer has to have limits and boundaries. The limits make people have to earn the attention you give them after you intoxicate them like a user coming back for their fix. When you get to the point where people are fighting for your attention you’ve successfully done it.
@dominicthelordkabinga
3 жыл бұрын
Bad Boys give the same hit as charmers, especially if they beat up someone in front of your girl. That’s why guys in gangs/drug-dealers get girls most have no game but they have physical and psychological power.
@kevinuc1514
3 жыл бұрын
@@11gurkha but how? I don't understand exactly his point.
@kworthy214
13 жыл бұрын
I read the book twice so this audio is so useful for my memory...Thank You
@wonderfullife737
7 жыл бұрын
It's funny because I applied this charmer startagy without even realizing this, I was like wow when I read the book. Now I know why that woman fell for me
@M1aocat
5 жыл бұрын
Same, realized why I had so many friends...
@TheRumpelstinskin
4 жыл бұрын
@@M1aocat you just need to add a sexual vibe to the charmer strategy, mate
@blackaqua9298
4 жыл бұрын
me too hahaha
@kevinuc1514
3 жыл бұрын
how?
@MatthewBoy11
10 жыл бұрын
To have the ultimate charm, you have to adapt the persons interests and their motives to you, and show them you are similar. Read what turns people on and makes them excited. You'll be like a missing part to this persons puzzle of life
@keepiticy
8 жыл бұрын
idk if you're still ready for an argument but think of it like this. Charmers don't TRY to adapt to a person's interest. everything comes natural. think of James bond or like you said Kennedy. people like JFK because he was a people's president. People thought he was on their side. he hit them with a smile, and people loved him. kind of like obama. Charmers are good at calculating what it takes to get a certain result. he woos them with abstract thoughts, compliments. strong ideas. and complementing thoughts and likes. A good one can woo you with attention and presence. then take it away in a heartbeat. all strategic to cause desire. sorry fr the bad english
@craigjohnson171
7 жыл бұрын
Lil Rainbow ok
@producedbykponnabeat
6 жыл бұрын
The mirror effect
@Christian-mn8dh
5 жыл бұрын
Your profile pic is turning me on
@mrupload258
12 жыл бұрын
I am mainly a charmer myself too. The book truly enlightend me! :)
@haseozenithmaru1186
3 жыл бұрын
Welcome.
@DwyaneWadeCounty
Жыл бұрын
I am a charmer for sure based on this video. I didn't read the book, but how do charmers deal with narcs and abusive people that push your buttons?
@creole_ladie6845
11 жыл бұрын
THE VOICE FOR THIS IS EPIC LOL!
@Bluebarss
3 жыл бұрын
Im definitely the charmer, I’m so good at it it scares me sometimes
@kevinuc1514
3 жыл бұрын
how? could you explain a lil bit ?
@kevinuc1514
3 жыл бұрын
@@nonofyourbusiness8623 wow, amazing man. by the way I'm learning state control too these days it's very effective, being an actor. Would love to listen your story man. What's your insta handle?
@kevinuc1514
3 жыл бұрын
@@nonofyourbusiness8623 it's me but I'm in this stuff nowadays to become tough. and at the same I' am learning how to balance this thing.
@@nonofyourbusiness8623 great write up, but you avoid creating tension??
@jodybagley8242
10 жыл бұрын
I am most definitely a chamer in many ways
@pepehorhae
12 жыл бұрын
the voice is fucking charming. that is all.
@diplomat2623
3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFJ, this sorta comes naturally. But I don’t feel comfortable being that manipulative even though I could if I really really wanted to. I don’t have the time. But I relate to this seduction type over the others.
@TheHellBoy05
2 жыл бұрын
Same here for an INFJ, Are you also an MBTI geek?
@diplomat2623
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheHellBoy05 Yes!
@karenforever15
2 жыл бұрын
I’m an ENTP and I do this
@Nisowyd
2 жыл бұрын
istp and I am naturally this and coquette
@banderas2000
2 жыл бұрын
I am a charmer to. Some of the natural as well. If you gain muh knowledge by re reading you won't even have to think about it. It will just naturally come out in your daily life. That's the beauty.
@HanKSN101
14 жыл бұрын
@tretelo Thank You. Didn't see anything like this on youtube so i uploaded a few. :D
@nassah2010
11 жыл бұрын
this is so me its unreal
@hafsatydee7868
2 жыл бұрын
I would say since childhood my art of seduction is a mix of the coquette and the charmer
@fuhyou3223
Жыл бұрын
He's a way better speaker than the guy who did the unabridged version. I guess he couldn't keep this "seductive" voice up for that many hours.
@400zeppelin
4 жыл бұрын
As long as you mean it
@scotthughes8672
5 жыл бұрын
I do not want to be seduced. It means to me I would be losing control.and giving someone else me to control. I want to be sober knowing I want to do what I am doing.have a good night.
@VIVAVAGABONDIVA
12 жыл бұрын
oh yesss. this voice is sex...and I love the Charmer Personality haha
@yvonnebasel2778
11 жыл бұрын
then your gifted a god!
@MzJessikaRabbyt
2 жыл бұрын
Yo who is the NARRATOR? 🔥🔥🔥
@MzJessikaRabbyt
2 жыл бұрын
Ok I found him his name is Jeff David if anybody cares lol.
@King.James.Hollis
7 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know who's picture is on the cover?
@Christian-mn8dh
5 жыл бұрын
It’s me daddy
@goldfinger17
12 жыл бұрын
And they... will fall under your spell :)))!
@HanKSN101
13 жыл бұрын
@YD8189 Windows Movie Maker - The Art Of Seduction: Download Audio Book Slapped a picture over the audio file and pumped out a movie. sorry can't help you much more than that.
@alejandrocubides8739
5 жыл бұрын
guys what I consider the most difficult thing is to find the way to understand mu personal trait does someone know any clue to find my seducer trait?
@skape14
5 жыл бұрын
alejandro gutierrez read the book , you will find a click with one of the 9 types of seducers and see how to get the most of it
@Christian-mn8dh
5 жыл бұрын
Also get out there, in the real world
@phiniusgenius
12 жыл бұрын
im curious..does this work if your ugly? hahahaha
@legion8863
5 жыл бұрын
phiniusgenius any cute face works, beauty and cuteness are completely two different things, one can be ugly and cute, i 've seen it
@11gurkha
5 жыл бұрын
Anyone can be seductive, it’s a game of psychology not beauty. Physical appearance looses its seduction after repeated exposer, being charming is seductive always.
@stargazerlily8451
4 жыл бұрын
From a woman’s perspective, it might work if you meet the minimum threshold of attractiveness.
@banderas2000
2 жыл бұрын
Yup aha. Tons of examples in the book of "ugly" it less attractive people seducing attractive people .
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