The three pillars of CONFLICT 1. When its about the dishes, its not about the dishes 2. We can get stuck - the seduction of justification 3. The art of speaking resposibly - like learning a new language Solution: V ulnerability O wnership C ommunication A cceptance B oundaries Conflict can be the engine of rejuvenation and creating better versions of ourselves! Amazing conversation
@jevvins7803
4 жыл бұрын
John wick fortnite
@mythic2385
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the early answers
@NorahsYarnArt
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏
@kareemharriott7510
3 жыл бұрын
Ohhh. oh. 8ycycy. IF
@CONNORK3NWAY1775
2 жыл бұрын
Wow you give the answers for no. 3 and 4 in my assignment thank you.
@ericisnominal
7 жыл бұрын
I have so much respect for Claire. One of my first professors at college, still of one of my all time favorites. There was a day when class got cancelled, and I ran into him in a hallway and we ended up talking for 45 min just as friends about the things in this video. Total mentor and a great guy
@caszr2y
6 жыл бұрын
Good thing you are friends or he might be offended by you misspelling his name.
@Lungs523
3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you got that experience. It’s humbling thanks for sharing
@olaphoenix3882
6 ай бұрын
His level of composure is out of this world! Great job!
@jaclynh9343
5 жыл бұрын
Wow hearing this father talking to his bossy daughter which he then found out was being bullied made me cry. I could feel his pain in his words... wow, incredible Ted Talk...
@lifeofgreatness
7 жыл бұрын
One of the best TED talks I've ever seen. Definitely deserves more attention.
@Lungs523
3 жыл бұрын
I agree ☝🏻
@brandbmg1
7 жыл бұрын
I could listen to Clair talk for hours! He was one of my favorite professors of all time.
@damaelegante1
5 жыл бұрын
Watched this for a class assignment and the ending of him talking about his daughter reminded me of God, how he comes to me and comforts me when I am so stubborn. I cried. This was beautiful.
@_sarah.
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's so true!! 😊 Beautiful analogy of our Lord Jesus.
@allyvillalobos7361
3 жыл бұрын
Watched this because of an assignment and end up in tears. My God! I didn't realize how terrible of a person I am. I learned so much and I want to learn more. Hands down to you, sir. Keep up to be a wonderful inspiration to others 💛
@dianemorris3419
2 жыл бұрын
You are not a terrible person. You have just found a gap in your emotional self that now you are aware of, you can start working on and growing. No body is perfect, just because we don't know something, it doesn't immediately make you 'bad'. You are worthy of love and respect. Keep going.
@noelbarrett8310
2 жыл бұрын
I was asked to watch this video for a homework assignment...and it was great, I really enjoyed Clair's talk! When he shared his parenting conflicts, they really resonated with me. Ultimately learning that conflict can be a beautiful catalyst for change was empowering 😃 thank you!!
@LeadershipSatsang
4 жыл бұрын
This is the most beautiful talk I've ever heard
@ManShellz234
4 жыл бұрын
My favorite TT by far. I'm sharing this will all my family and friends.
@joselinemosquera2467
3 жыл бұрын
Anybody else in tears? Definitely surprised that his daughter confessed such a thing but it hurt even more because my baby sister was acting up a time ago until I was able to reach out to her and she opened up
@wilfredodometitajr.2698
2 жыл бұрын
Sure I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one.
@daramjienglish
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your personal story and what you found from the experience. It surely touched many hearts and souls since we all have had those stuck times in our life. I am working on it to speak fluent my VOCAB. Thanks : ) I hope you and your daughter stayed together strong through the hard time. I hope she is doing great at school and be respected and loved by people she meets. God bless you and your family.
@makennacanfield7087
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your nice comment! I'm doing great now and that experience has helped strengthen me to be who I am now 💓
@kavitaramdeen
5 жыл бұрын
I truly enjoyed this speaker, he makes a lot of sense on this topic of conflict.
@TheRonskins
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! I've learned a new VOCAB in my on going strides towards dealing with conflict responsibly.
@musiclore
6 жыл бұрын
So good. I was so lucky to have discovered the communication degree at USU. These professors are amazing.
@sallys.1207
3 жыл бұрын
Brought tears... this is life changing.
@planterika6731
2 жыл бұрын
Love this❤. The ending truly brought clarity. Claire helped alot of people😊
@RameshSharma-ri1kz
3 жыл бұрын
Excellent connect with honest confession and turnaround from everyday experience. Thank you..
@NorahsYarnArt
3 жыл бұрын
Now that was a great Ted talk! Thanks for sharing 👍 ♥️
@claudinebibeau-parks4816
4 жыл бұрын
GREAT speech, very powerful!
@LeslieKazadi
6 жыл бұрын
clapping at home! so sweet and so helpful!
@devandavis6342
7 жыл бұрын
Wow that was amazing! This defiantly made it into my top 10 favorite TED talks!
@rom8794
6 жыл бұрын
Amazing! Please share your other 9. Thank you!
@beegood1215
5 жыл бұрын
I like your choice of words!
@Eijididnothingwrong
5 жыл бұрын
*Definitely
@adeeshchogle7046
Жыл бұрын
Goosebumps towards the end
@syedtahmidnajib3773
4 жыл бұрын
Clair is such an amazing speaker :)
@kikleine
Жыл бұрын
Excellent talk
@keatonr776
4 жыл бұрын
This dude teaches at my college and I just got the 1 hour version!
@joselinemosquera2467
3 жыл бұрын
Where does this Professor teacher? I need his lecture omg
@keatonr776
3 жыл бұрын
@@joselinemosquera2467 utah state university
@abbieabbie847
2 жыл бұрын
Can you pls share it
@keatonr776
2 жыл бұрын
@@abbieabbie847 that zoom link is long gone I'm afraid
@shelli523
4 жыл бұрын
Loved it!! Especially being a new parent ❤️
@jamalhamdan9170
3 жыл бұрын
Open Communications , transparency, and how we deliver the message, it has its affect on others, find out what and other things is not clear in it.
@daniellehudson453
4 жыл бұрын
Very powerful metaphors and examples.
@chrispfund9846
5 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more! Thanks for posting.
@MonicaBaker222
6 жыл бұрын
very eye-opening.
@yusuf1maz
7 жыл бұрын
Burdan bu konuşmayı bize izlettiği içün duygu hocaya teşekkürlerimi iletiyorum. One of the best TED talk that i watched!
@carollai6609
6 жыл бұрын
That was great! The ending is so good omg
@MichaelScottPeters
7 жыл бұрын
Great insights.
@CRICKETATTAXmasterz
7 жыл бұрын
Touching
@benisrael7
4 жыл бұрын
do not say that conflict starts smaller but grow bigger than one can imagine. so conflict become an opportunity for new constructive resolutions when it treated well as soon as possible. however, it becomes a real fight when concerned parties neglect it and keep silence like nothing is happening. pls, handle your conflict before it handles you.
@robertschroedl9721
5 жыл бұрын
Well said. This man gets it. Politicians on both sides of the isle may benefits from what is said here.
@SahilGurung-t2q
11 ай бұрын
I saved my relation with her by communicating and hearing her and analyzing and keeping the boundary, mostly probably I used VOCAB even before watching this beautiful video. Now, I see conflicts always aren't bad, but its upon people how and what they want it for to be. 😀 Always speak, share and listen.
@Eidolonian
11 ай бұрын
Exceptional!
@rhondagriffith2159
3 жыл бұрын
So AWESOME 💗💗💗
@iamstephredd
3 жыл бұрын
Amazing! Thank you so much!
@jazplanet
5 жыл бұрын
Please someone answer these questions What does VOCAB stand for and how you use it in your personal life?
@kukustweety1
5 жыл бұрын
Watch the talk!
@Lungs523
3 жыл бұрын
Only you can answer how you would use it in your personal life Jazmine but it’s a great talk and he spells out what Vocab stands for. It’s beneficial 🥰
@lazarusfowsta
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@amirjackson4966
7 жыл бұрын
Nicely done.
@anumohandasnair
3 жыл бұрын
wow. just wow.
@senaustun4380
2 жыл бұрын
why do ı feel like cryign after hearing his daughters story :(
@emmanueltimilehin-oi9hr
5 ай бұрын
@TedX i would like to organize a event in my conflict as a peace and conflict studies student for conflict awareness as a student
@yvonneokeyo8883
6 жыл бұрын
Very educative talk
@jshir17
5 жыл бұрын
Hug it out, sing and dance together
@youssefdirani
7 жыл бұрын
I like this guy...
@angiecook4016
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, Thanks!
@Kiki-wi7px
Жыл бұрын
👍 "CONFLICT" IS A "DOORWAY" TO CREATE CHANGE.
@nobodyshome1990
6 жыл бұрын
Impressive.
@rockwarrior5287
3 жыл бұрын
💕💕💕
@MelancholyMadoka
3 жыл бұрын
Wish I could use conflict resolution to increase the volume of this very quiet video.
@Alphacentauri819
3 жыл бұрын
Well.... you could use mindset (which is often a driver of conflict), to accept the volume as it is & see your choices -turn off video -find a way to amplify the volume through an app or other feature (microphone) -listen as is as best you can :) mindset, choice, are parts of empowerment and conflict management
@JeffTheEntrepreneur
5 жыл бұрын
How do I get in touch with this guy? Would love for him to be a guest on my podcast / channel / feed where we inspire others always on my channel. Lmk!
@Camdino55
5 жыл бұрын
I have his email if you would like it. Contact me.
@sairanikhatimam
3 жыл бұрын
Please share the email address is
@nuik8732
4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@Ace-xm3qv
7 жыл бұрын
#GreatTalk
@peggyspiak8281
5 жыл бұрын
This echoes Brene' Brown's work nicely.
@sairanikhatimam
3 жыл бұрын
Please share the resource.
@sveabryan9126
4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant
@sf-xf8sl
4 жыл бұрын
how it ended
@hassanhashmi4894
3 жыл бұрын
Can anyone summarize the main point of this Ted Talk? please
@sidneymcadorey1412
3 жыл бұрын
He's saying that rather than seeing conflict as a purely negative interaction, if we view it the right way, it can be constructive.
@conexionpormacafernandez
6 жыл бұрын
how do i get it in spanish? does anyone know? so i can show it to my friends and family
@jazplanet
5 жыл бұрын
translate it on your own...:(
@tonyq7364
5 жыл бұрын
You can also click settings and have it auto-translate the subtitles to spanish. It won't be perfect, but it could help.
@rtc5884
3 жыл бұрын
Solo traducelo
@crarbique6745
5 жыл бұрын
Great video and amazing message
@lizaajvazi195
3 жыл бұрын
wow
@MrXsMisery
Жыл бұрын
Congrats, dad treats kid like a human and it goes well. Big surprise.
@merttekyurt4001
7 жыл бұрын
Burdan elif ozguvenc hocama selamlar yolluyorum
@eyyubovvv
4 жыл бұрын
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@gigi-bk9lb
2 жыл бұрын
According to the talk, are the annoying people considered as the major source of conflicts at work? Justify your answer. What are the five (5) steps given by Ms. Schulz to fix conflicts? In your opinion, are the steps given feasible? Would you try these steps in the current conflict that you are experiencing?
@bdeh5211
Жыл бұрын
UDST Student good luck in ur Assignment:D
@3rdwhirledbeau
4 жыл бұрын
I found this to be overly abstract. If "VOCAB" is actually of use then why is the set-up of one example described and the resolution of a separate example provided without clear reference to "VOCAB". This is a C level talk.
@rtc5884
3 жыл бұрын
Please explain
@benglot1357
3 жыл бұрын
Why does the speaker want us to view conflict positively? What can we get from adopting this point of view?
@Alphacentauri819
3 жыл бұрын
Are these rhetorical questions? Or did you really not get it?
So the kid won when it came to the hair pretties. lol
@TheMcAllisterHours
2 жыл бұрын
Personally, I just do the dishes.
@flamselk1546
5 жыл бұрын
120k views 1.1k likes??????????
@Googleyourowndeath
3 жыл бұрын
Lots of students are forced to watch Ted talks and generally don't appreciate doing so.
@ahmedmohamed-fo5jl
Жыл бұрын
So you basically refused to wash the dishes as a child and refused as a youth, and instructed your wife and children to do it your way I think the real reason behind your conflicts was superiority and inferiority, who gives orders and who comply to them
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