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@chrisoulalakkas7935
Жыл бұрын
“People may hate you for being different and not living by society’s standards, but deep down, they wish they had the courage to do the same.” - Kevin Hart😊
@ichoosejoy2712
Жыл бұрын
This is something I have really struggled with. Having had a very strict father and taught to obey very firm rules and made to feel that I have to be what everyone needs me to be, I'm a huge people pleaser. But gradually over the years I have become so miserable with being this way. It's not like it has helped me at all. People don't like me. But I'm creating a new identity, my best self that is not a people pleaser. In fact my new life involves going against so many societal standards and giving me a freedom that I have always wanted.
@oxanakoritsas1944
Жыл бұрын
Hello, beautiful free spirited soul. Yep, I hear you loud and clear. I’m a recovering ‘people pleaser’ myself. No more, never again!!Whatever you do in life, you will be judged and criticised, just as well do what makes YOU happy, follow your own bliss!!! Big hugs. Xxx 🤗👍🏻❤️✨✨✨
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Ain’t that the truth!! Love it 🤗💕
@aliciamarielavoie
Жыл бұрын
I'm a recovering people-pleaser. It has been a journey. A few weeks ago, just before the full moon and eclipse, I did some more letting go and fully chose me. Freedom ... wow!
@KristenMelissa
Жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE this video Helena!! 💖 I was just discussing this with my husband. We cannot search for external validation- it will always feel empty. Our worth comes from self and being authentic to our core. It just feels so much Lighter to live true to you without worrying about the judgement of others. 💫🐈💕 I also love to put soothing sounds on- cat purrs being a favorite! 😊
@Lovejoypeace69
4 ай бұрын
I love your videos, thank you, you’ve opened my eyes in a wonderful way to live more free, laughing and embracing. Thank you!
@talatete87
Жыл бұрын
At the right time ❤. Well said dear 😘. BTW your pink shoes are magical ✨️.
@kristinesol9048
Жыл бұрын
I hope you can create a podcast channel! You have a very pleasant disposition and your voice makes me calm!😊
@mackenzie5716
Жыл бұрын
I kind of chuckled to myself when you mentioned that being your true honest self, people may start to not like you. I feel like "friends" Ive had liked the version of me I "made" for them or the childhood version of me they know. But not the *now* me. If they don't like the now me that's okay but I don't like being treated differently (not in a good way) because of that.
@Sophie-pi4ov
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤
@ritchiewong16
Жыл бұрын
Hi Helena 👋, Just like many people, I used to care a lot about other people’s opinions regarding how they think I’m supposed to be growing up and living my life. Once I reconnected with my younger self, as well as started following certain people (like you, of course!) who inspire me to listen to my moral compass and inner voice, I finally learned that living life according to other people’s expectations never pays off, especially if it’s at the expense of my own authenticity. Even though I’m making progress with prioritizing my own moral compass and inner voice, I have to admit that I still have a long way to go. But like I said in my comment from your previous video, I’m feeling much more content with the way I’m making progress with living my life to the fullest. Sending you lots of love!!! ❤️❤️❤️🤗
@tracethomas5137
Жыл бұрын
Hello Helena, it’s videos like these that confirm as to why you are my favourite you tuber. You’re like a ray sunshine. Also, just had to say you have the most adorable wardrobe. Have a fantastic day. 🙂
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
Wow thank you Trace!! 🤗 what a huge compliment! There are a lot of KZitemrs on the inter webs! I appreciate 💕
@starshiptrooper4455
Жыл бұрын
A ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. Thank you Helena🌻💕
@siobhanod
Жыл бұрын
I definitely struggle with people pleasing and social anxiety hoping one day to have your mindset x
@MoniquefromTheNetherlands
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this great Vlog with again so much wisdom ✨💖
@vijaysinghdesimone2337
Жыл бұрын
Dear Helena, kindred spirit...your spirits soars every time you share life's lessons learnt from opening your heart even wider! People have to open their hearts to new experiences and be willing to accept that there will be times when we will face chaos and suffering, but once there is love which brings with it kindness,truth, compassion, humility and tolerance we can rise up from the brokenness stronger, focused and empowered! My heart bows to yours💚.
@bellafiore3283
Жыл бұрын
Love this video and the settings you chose. Another wise message. Brevity, brilliance and beauty in this post🙏⭐️👏
@TheEmpressgoth
Жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊 🙏
@imwortyoflove369
Жыл бұрын
Hi! You are also a person. With feelings, thoughts, dreams and all the other stuff. So it’s important to please yourself first and it still makes you a people pleaser. 🌸
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
Love that! 😍 that’s not what I mean in this video but I totally vibe that idea! ✨
@andreiamarques636
Жыл бұрын
I have just listened this in the right time, thank you so much for your inspiration, always 💚✨
@purenatures4755
Жыл бұрын
Be you and stay true to yourself, your morals and what you stand for. You will attract the same energy you emit into this universe. Love yourself and stay genuine to your life values. You are worthy of this life and existence! Love your videos and mindset! You truly are a force in this world that radiates positivity and mindfulness.
@marwansal4175
Жыл бұрын
Nice one as usual. I am really curious about trying hypnosis since I heard a lot about it recently from podcasts like Huberman Lab , and Rich roll with Dr. David Spiegel. Thing is, not everyone can be hypnotized, but those who can, will benefit from it.
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
It all depends on if one feels relaxed. Just by breathing, relaxing, and lowering our brain state, we can access the subconscious and rewrite new beliefs!
@happinessloveyoursmile
Жыл бұрын
Always appreciate yourself the way you are... Wonderful presentation 👍👍🌸
@txspacemom765
Жыл бұрын
Making plans, post divorce. Not giving a hoot what anyone has to say. Haven't really told anyone, so it's too my advantage. I am shining in my talents too. Photography, art, creative living, spaces, and loving my son and my animals.I'm working on a wtichy dollhouse right now. Books, cute dresses, Dr. Martens, libraries, museums, extra time outside and croissants it is! I rid myself of everything else, including people, thoughts, expectations.
@michellemachesney1487
Жыл бұрын
i loooove the hat ur wearing!!! & i love this video too❤️
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Glad you enjoyed it!
@rusne2359
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Helena 🙏 This video came to me at such a perfect time, you have no idea. I am starting my journey of dropping the people pleaser role and being my unique self and it's a bit daunting, but calming at the same time ❤
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
You’ve got this!! Little by little over time. Have you tried meditation or subconscious belief work?
@rusne2359
Жыл бұрын
@@helenawoods Thanks ! Yes, I am doing both, but want to dedicate more time to it by doing it more consistently :)
@melindaferreira9879
Жыл бұрын
Yep.. i think im more disliked than ever... But.. i also feel less stressed. I am not unkind aa much as i am learning to use my voice. A cousin of mine said something abrasive years ago and it sort of stifled me.. my aunt ( now deceased) told me, dont let anyone steal your voice.. I didn't realize i was allowing that.. 🫤.. your tribe will accept me and if people shun me.. well, good riddance. Speaking of ASMR .. i went to a listening experience the other day w my daughter.. an early mothers day gift. It was so Incredibly peaceful... The sounds of the Sonoran Desert.. i actually dozed off in the theater!! 😂.. my daughter had to nudge me awake! Best 45 minutes ever!! Love your beautiful videos! Thankyou! P.s. that floral print dress is charming. 😊
@deniseH11
Жыл бұрын
Love your video, love your words, love love love!✨🥰✨
@deborahblair3672
Жыл бұрын
Sincerely nice ...😊
@NateshasAmbience
Жыл бұрын
Your rainbow earrings are so stinkin' cute!!! 😍 And I love what you said about Christ consciousness and deservingness! 👏🏽✨ It really helps me put things into perspective. I've started flirting with shadow work. Have you done this on your journey?
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
How magical! ✨ and ohhhhh yes. I’ve done a lot of it. Shadow work was basically May 2021 - august 2022 for me. Lol it’s a huge part of tapping into deservingness and worthiness ❤️ to be magnetic’s program is great for that!!
@NateshasAmbience
Жыл бұрын
@@helenawoods Sweet! Thanks for the rec! ❤️
@justonemorestitch
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
Oh thank you!!! I appreciate the support 🤗💕💕
@michelemarie2499
Жыл бұрын
Feeling warm Under a moonbeam …. 💕🌝💫
@101ferinaslam3
Жыл бұрын
Helena, nice work. Which is the music that you put toward the end of the video? What's the soundtrack.
@anthis4297
Жыл бұрын
Wonderful video 🙏
@karengregory8511
Жыл бұрын
❤ what you do!
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Karen! 💕
@RudeMania35
Жыл бұрын
Villain Era 🤘🏼
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
Yeeesss!! 🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻:)
@raghavendra4633
Жыл бұрын
What software do you use for editing. And did you take any professional photography classes
@florycadacio3888
Жыл бұрын
Best vlog of yours😍 Thankyou
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
Aw thank you!!
@azfarsyed7082
Жыл бұрын
Reality & vision,All people or 60% if like to live alone? Its ok? Need to know that people born 1900 to 190. 1990
@naturelover1284
Жыл бұрын
pleasing people is their game...there is no pleasing them...misery makes them happy. They haven't enough misery in their own life and need you to be miserable too, even then, they are still not happy. People need a bucket to dump in, because they are carrying a truckload of s*** they love to focus on, and you must too.
@Iinfiniteknowing
Жыл бұрын
nice cat sitting gig💛GOOOOIIIIII
@helenawoods
Жыл бұрын
Such a cutie! He will be making an appearance in the next vlog - Raoul the French puss! 🐈
@Iinfiniteknowing
Жыл бұрын
@@helenawoods haha sitting with my sons two Kato's naginta the lovey dovey boy and Niko the king puma💕
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